Ramadan 2006 – Durban – Day 28

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matola here about a Catholic smilla rahmanir rahim In the name of Allah, most Gracious, Most Merciful Alhamdulillah Allah, Allah Allah mean All praise is due to Allah subhanho wa Taala Lord of the worlds creator nourisher cherishes sustainer protector of one and all. Also Leo Salim ala nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Germain blessings and salutations upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and upon all his companions, and upon all those who have followed him and shall follow Him until the day of May Allah make us as well. From amongst them, I mean, on a dilemma, beloved brothers and dearest listeners.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala commences this 28th chapter of the Quran with a surah known as El mujer de la which means a woman

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who disputes a woman who came with an argument. So this tool is named after this woman. Her name was hola Binti de la hora de la one Ha. She had a complaint about the manner in which her husband had treated her. And for that reason, she came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam telling him that my husband has uttered statements to me. And I don't know what these statements imply what they mean. He had said to me, that you are equivalent to my mother. And we had spoken about this many days ago. But today there is an entire surah which is named after this woman. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at the time had asked her to go back until revelation would come

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clarifying the position but Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed versus immediately

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Definitely Allah subhanho wa Taala has himself heard the lady who has come to you disputing regarding her husband, and complaining to you about the manner in which he has been treating her. Allah subhanho wa Taala has heard your discussion for definitely, he is all hearing all seeing. And this woman smiled. She was so happy. And this verse brings good news to all the oppressed women of the soma, may Allah subhanho wa Taala grant them a way out. And may Allah subhanho wa Taala make the menfolk conscious of the fact that they have married people's daughters. They have married people's sisters, they have married people's aunts, meaning the wife also has relatives. And when she was

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taken in the bond of marriage, she was taken with the name of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And she was taken with witnesses, and she was taken in a manner that was the highest dignity in Islam, according to her, and therefore it is very important that we as men ensure that our treatment to our wives is of the highest standard. May Allah make us conscious of this, if a woman happens to complain, Allah subhanho wa Taala has in these verses said that he hears her and he listens to what she has to say. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us understanding. On the other hand, may Allah subhanho wa Taala also grant our women folk the qualities that will make them better people that will make them good

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wives and good mothers, and May Allah subhanho wa Taala make them such that the menfolk don't ever have to be upset with them as well. So Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks of this woman and Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks of the statements that men dished out to women. If those statements are dangerous, detrimental, they could just terminate the marriage and they could have a very, very negative effect and impact on the marriage. And Allah says what he will do.

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Those are the limits of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Do not temper and play with the limits of Allah subhanho wa Taala with the laws of Allah subhanho wa Taala and Allah says thereafter in Allah

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to common for

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those who

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dispute with the process

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And the messenger and the law of a law and the law that has been taught to us by the Messenger of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Allah says, We

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nullify their deeds or they shall be thrown into regrets and destruction in the same way that those before them have been thrown into regret and destruction. May Allah subhanho wa Taala safeguard us And may Allah subhanho wa Taala protect us at all times. In fact, the term could be to actually means Allah will disgrace them in the dunya as well as in the afra in the same manner that he has disgraced those before them.

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So, we need to be very, very careful regarding the limits of Allah subhanho wa Taala nica and Pollock are two very, very important issues. In today's recitation, there is an entire surah named after Palak and inshallah we will get to that surah. It is named that because of the importance and the seriousness of the matter, and Allah subhanho wa Taala teaches people what to do when there is a breakdown within the marital bond. And Allah subhanho wa Taala thereafter makes mention of

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the fact that he knows all the secrets at times people when they meet in secret and private, they have discussions whether these discussions are connected to the marriage or whether they are connected to other community affairs business affairs, the affairs of the oma Allah subhanho wa Taala is reminding everyone my aku mean Nigel was Allah setting in

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setting in was

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whenever they are engaged in a secret meeting or a private meeting, if they are three, they should know that Allah is the fourth, if there are two they should know that Allah is the third. If there are three they should know allies the fourth, if there are four, they should know allies. The fifth, what this means is that Allah subhanho wa Taala is always there. We can have our meetings in secret, but we must ensure that we understand that Allah is present and inshallah that will help us arrive at the correct solutions for our problems and it will ensure that we only discuss that which will earn the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala. In fact, one of the verses of the same surah Allah

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subhanho wa Taala says

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either Jana J.

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Santana jobin is his Meanwhile, know that.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Oh you who believe when you have private meetings, private discussions, never ever discuss that which is in contrast with what the messenger has come with, never ever discussed that which is sin, don't ever agree

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to that which is sinful. Now the move Assyrian has spoken about this. Why is it in this particular surah where there was a woman complaining, and then Allah says, when you have secret meetings, then Be careful, don't do that which will earn the Wrath of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Some of them have a serene have said that it is to draw our attention, that even in marriage,

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engaging in affairs is extremely unacceptable and we know that and we should understand that even if a person is alone with someone he is not supposed to be with or she is not supposed to be with. The third one is Allah Yes, there may be shavon there as a catalyst, but at the same time Allah is watching and Allah knows and that person will never be able to hide from Allah subhanho wa Taala and that can only have a negative impact upon the halaal legal marriage that one may be involved in. May Allah subhanho wa Taala protect us and remember anyone who is involved in such activity, it is never too late to turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala it requires willpower it requires strength. It is a

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powerful evening tonight. Let us turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala and make sure that we do not return to bad ways. There is an important announcement to make there is a doctor who wants to leave and his Chi is being blocked by a silver Toyota Corolla. The number plate is in D 363410. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make it easy for the patient whoever the patient is, and May Allah subhanho wa Taala make it easy for us also to move our vehicles and then get back to listening in Sharla.

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Then Allah subhanho wa Taala in the next surah he named the surah after Alicia and Alicia is the gathering and it is

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reported that refers to a place in a sham. a sham is the northern part or north of the Arabian Peninsula is the region known as a sham, Syria, Lebanon, Palestine, and so on the set of countries known as a sham, and Allah subhanho wa Taala, calls the surah or names it, Alicia, because of the People of the Book who are driven out of the Arab Peninsula, though they themselves thought they would never ever be driven out. And even the Muslim in thought it would be very difficult to drive these people out. Allah says, through his, through his verse through his gift upon the believers, they were driven out to the place known as Hashem. But what is of greater importance in this surah

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is the contrast Allah draws between having driven out the enemy to land that was very far away. And on the other hand, having driven out the Muslim in from Mecca to Medina, and the difference between the two, Allah con shows that contrast in the Surah Surah, to Hashem. And the crux of it is that those who are driven out of their homes, their businesses, whatever it is, if we are driven out of our own property, for example, if we are content with the decision of Allah, and we are doing it for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala it becomes such a huge act of worship, the recompense of which only Allah subhanho wa Taala can give. And if a person feels the burden and the punishment, and they

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begin to question the deal, and they begin to consider it a huge calamity, and that will be a punishment for that person. So on one side, we had the People of the Book who were driven out to Sham they took it as a huge punishment and it was a punishment to them never to return. And on the other hand, Allah makes mention of

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lien for

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those who were beggars, those who are poor, from amongst the mohabbatein, who were driven out of their homes and their wealth. Yerba Buena

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y o una

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una una.

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For the info. Allah says, they are intending to earn the pleasure of Allah, the bounty of Allah subhanho wa Taala to assist the cause of Allah, the cause of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they are the ones who are truthful, they have left everything without even batting an eyelid. A one command from the messenger which came from Allah subhanho wa Taala. They divorced themselves from their city, which was Makkah, they left their property and they ran towards al Madina, munawwara anyone who engaged in Egypt automatically became a person of greater virtue than a person who did not engage in that hegira May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us understanding. So the

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contrast here the lesson is for us, whenever Allah has decided to take something away from us, whether it is property, whether it is wealth, merchandise, whatever it is, we must understand, be content be happy. So what if it is gone if Allah has decided that he shall go Alhamdulillah close it as a bad page and carry on Allah subhanho wa Taala will grant you contentment which is priceless. But if we are going to be bogged down by the loss of someone who has usurped our wealth, someone who might have stolen the inheritance that was due to us, if we are going to let that bog us down, we will die complaining of how someone cheated us. Let them suffer the wrath of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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rather than us becoming angry at someone else having cheated us. May Allah grant us the ability and the power to solve our problems. This is the month of Ramadan, we are drawing to the end of the month of Ramadan. What's a great Night of Decree if we have cheated anyone assent around, whatever it is, let us give it back tonight. Let us at least confirm to them that we shall return it to them because we don't want to be the earning the Wrath of Allah subhanho wa Taala then Allah subhanho wa Taala also speaks of in the very beautiful verses that we heard tonight and most of us know them by heart

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la oh you who believe be conscious of Allah subhanho wa Taala and every single one of you should look into what he or she has prepared for tomorrow when he or she is going to meet Allah subhanho wa Taala everyone should ask himself or herself. What have I done in preparation for the day I am going to meet my own creator

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Allah says Be conscious of Allah. This is one of the few verses in the Quran. In fact, as far as my knowledge goes, there are two verses. Were in the same verse, Allah repeats the term. It duckula or itakura become the first verse of Surah Nisa, it is repeated twice. And in this verse it is repeated twice. Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala be conscious of him, because the preparation for tomorrow, meaning the preparation for the meeting with Allah subhanho wa Taala is by far the most important matter we can all engage in. If I just prepare to meet Allah, one statement I have prepared to meet Allah, everything will fall into place, my Salah will fall into place, the car will fall into place,

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I will not engage in sin, I will not accuse others I will not drink and go to the casinos and so on. Everything will fall into place. I will be conscious of how I speak to people, or that is connected to one simple verse. This is the verse oh you who believe every single one of you be careful or ask yourself look into what you have prepared. When it comes to the meeting with Allah subhanho wa Taala What have you prepared for that day? May Allah make it easy for us. This also should lead us to abstaining from involving in other's lives in a manner that is detrimental to our own good deeds, they may be taken away, the minute we involve in other's lives, then we may be giving our deeds away

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and when I say involved in other's lives, if we are trying to solve a matter it is a good deed, but involving in Riba, Mima Bhutan and so on May Allah subhanho wa Taala safeguard us and the next surah Allah subhanho wa Taala has named it again after a woman

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or after the women who used to make ijarah and

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meaning needed to test them in order to find out if they came singularly or in a group of women in order to accept them as muhajirs as women who have made hegira

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the meaning had to test them and ask them several questions. And if it was confirmed, that these are minut these are females who are believing in Allah subhanho wa Taala and the messenger, it became haram to send them back to Makkah. What this means is at the time, the hegira that was taking place, many people went and then there were pockets of people who were going secretly those who had difficulty leaving, they left by night they left when no one was watching, they left when they could, at times there were pockets of females who went if they had arrived in Madeira to manohara it was prohibited to send them back. It was prohibited to send them back. In fact, the Quran says even

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if you want to marry them in order to protect them, do so and you will have a reward. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us understanding from this, we learned that it is our duty as the male's of this Muslim Ummah, to look after the females of this Muslim ummah. If there is a Muslim woman in need of something, it is our duty, firstly, to stand up and to meet the need of that woman, the permissible need of that woman, rather than waiting for the kuffaar to come and the sister and then the Muslim women may just inclined towards those kuffaar and leave the Muslim Ummah May Allah subhanho wa Taala not do that to our Muslim women. And may Allah use us to look after the women folk

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in a manner that will earn the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala, bearing in mind that the most important thing every man needs to know is that charity begins at home, we cannot begin to look after women who are far away, and then go and tell our wives Well, we've been told to look after the Muslim Ummah, that is why I'm leaving the house. rather look after your own wife, your own children, your daughters, your mother, and so on. And then let the circle become bigger and bigger as we fulfill all the rights of those around us. So we shall also fulfill the rights of those who are slightly distant, and so on. So I hope we've understood it. Let's never use that as an excuse. May

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Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us happiness in our marriages as well.

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And then Allah subhanho wa Taala also speaks in that surah of the kuffaar. And the fact that we must be just and good to those who for who have never fought us, those kuffar who do not drive us out of our homes, we have to be just and good to them. That verse is also in this surah tahina and tahina, meaning the woman who is tested, the woman who is examined and I have already explained what type of examination and when and so on May Allah subhanho wa Taala protect us all and May Allah grant us the ability to treat the non Muslims in such a beautiful manner to be good to them and

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Just to them,

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to the degree that we can show them the beauty of this religion of Islam, which if they enter the fold of they will never, ever regret. May Allah grant us all the ability, then Allah subhanho wa Taala in the next surah.

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He names the surah after the rows of

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the rows of what in the battlefield, when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam took the companions to battle. Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed verses saying Allah loves those who make lines as though they are a wall, a solid wall, they make lines they stand in rows in so forth, and they do not fear the outcome. They know that if they die, they are martyred. And they also know that if they win, they will have victory in the dunya before the alpha. So both goodness, both points of goodness will be given to the believers. So these verses were in encouragement for the believers, especially at the time of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, where he had taken out his companions to face

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those who had attacked them and proven out, driven them out of their lands. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us all steadfastness and Allah subhanho wa Taala. At the end of that surah asks a question and draws a similarity with the disciples of Jesus May peace be upon him, he Salah is Salatu was salam, he says

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Oh, you who believe?

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Oh, you who believe be assistance of the cause of Allah subhanho wa Taala in the same way, that when Jesus May peace be upon him called out to his disciples, asking them who is going to assist the cause of Allah, the disciples answered, we are going to assist the cause of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And we all know that the disciples are the ones who carried the message of Isa alayhi salam, after he was taken up to the Almighty. They were the ones who said, who spread the word throughout the region. We also need to be followers of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam spreading the good word throughout the globe. May Allah subhanho wa Taala use us all to serve Islam and to spread the good

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word. And remember, without knowing what the word is, we will never be able to spread it. So for that reason, it is very important for every single one of us to educate himself and herself. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make us all strong.

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The next surah Allah subhanho wa Taala named after one of the days of the week, the most blessed day of the week, Al Juma al Juma we all know is a Friday and Allah has named the entire surah after that, in order to show the greatness of that day and the importance of that day. And Allah subhanho wa Taala warns us, warns us especially about our business on that day. It is not prohibited to engage in business on that day. But once the event is called of Judah, Allah says leave everything and make haste to the machine. That is where you will achieve your Baraka. It is horrible it is compulsory It is your duty was Gemma, we you need to read the Juma Salah the address here is for the

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males of this oma and Allah subhanho wa Taala is telling us that don't be like those who saw some business caravan coming in. And they left the Messenger of Allah subhanho wa Taala engaged in hotma and they went out they went out to sea so that they would not lose the business deal. sealeo businesses come into the house of Allah, Allah will grant you in return, contentment, happiness Baraka, which is far more worth it than the few dollars or adds a little bit of merchandise that you may have attained and achieved. And for this reason, Allah says, Yeah,

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oh you who believe when the cola has called out on a Friday for prayer, make haste towards the prayer and leave all business that is better for you. If only you know, let me mention one Hadith of the Prophet

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Allahu alayhi wa sallam seeing that we've already entered a Friday this evening, as we know the day turns at Muslim in Islam. We've already entered the Friday we are already in the day of Juma. It is only correct for me to mention one of the most beautiful Hadith I have come across regarding Juma the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, either kinda yo Juma when it is a Friday, there are angels at every Masjid standing at the door. straight after the wall at the point of zywall. They are standing at the door with huge books, writing the names yet to Boone and Walla Walla Walla, writing who comes first, who comes second, who comes third, who comes forth in order, there is a

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competition every Friday, those who've gone there before the one they win.

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And those who are there immediately. Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us through Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Their names are written 123 they will get their prizes on the day of the AMA inshallah. And when the Imam comes out and stands up to deliver his hookah, they the angels close the books and also come into the masjid in order to listen, a person who's come after that is not recorded as having attended though the forest will be done. But those who have come after the Imam has started Alhamdulillah they are not written in the register, they will not part of the competition. So there Juma inshallah we hope and pray that it will be accepted, but they did not

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take take it seriously. How many times have we won? How many times does our name appear in that book? May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us acceptance. One Hadith speaks about the Friday and says that the person who comes first in the first hour is as though or is similar in sacrifice to a person who has sacrificed a camel for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala. The one who comes in the next hour is like a person who sacrifice the sheep in for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala and so on.

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Until the Imam gets up and the angels close their books, may Allah subhanho wa Taala make a strong remember the Baraka, the blessings, the contentment, the light that we will achieve by attending Juma, sitting in the masjid engaging in recitation of the Quran in the masjid. Every single Quran that is in the masjid will speak on the day of the AMA, it will be a witness for you or against you. We want these neurons to say Allah this person read me in the mystery. How many of us have never even picked one Quran in the masjid May Allah subhanahu Allah grant us understanding. May Allah subhanahu Allah grant us an awakening and May Allah make us from amongst those who can from today go

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to the masjid early for Juma Salah, and may He accepted from us the next surah Allah subhanho wa Taala named it after the hypocrites aluna sukoon. and in it he makes mention of some of the qualities of the hypocrites, and I would like to make mention of one.

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One quality of the hypocrisy The reason I mentioned in this is many of us are guilty of it.

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In surah, munafo Allah describes the hypocrisy he says, Yeah, Sabu Nakula chahatein Allah him, Allah says, they regard every call and every shout and every statement as being against him. So when the Imam gets up in the masjid, and start speaking and saying something, the one who thinks that the Imam is attacking me, he is a hypocrite and he is guilty of the crime. That is why he feels that way. Look at what this surah is saying. That every statement of truth that is uttered, the person takes it against himself or herself, that means he or she is definitely a hypocrite. This is something that we need to think of. If someone is speaking the truth, why should we feel it is

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attacking us? It is a message of truth sent by Allah to us all the messages that were definitely sent by Allah and Allah subhanho wa Taala knows what weaknesses I have, and you have. So whenever someone is speaking of interest, of gambling, of Xena, of music, whatever it is, don't ever think that oh, this person is meaning me and no one but me. If that is the attitude, then that is hypocrisy because that means such a person would be guilty of the crime. Rather, we'd say this person is trying to help all of us come out of our weaknesses. May Allah take us out of our weaknesses and mela take him or her as well out of his or her weaknesses. I mean, then in the next

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door, Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks of or in fact, one more verse that I'd like to speak of, in Surah, two monasticon Allah warns us at the end, yeah, Latina man, Walla

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Walla, Walla, doko de la.

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Oh, you believe. Do not allow your children and your wealth to divert you from the memory and remembrance of your Creator. Don't ever allow your business and your

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Emilie, to divert you from your duty to your Creator. Because if that is what is going to happen, you may just be from the class of hypocrites May Allah save me and you and everyone in sha Allah. Then Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks of a surah, which he has named a boon to Robin meaning mutual gain or mutual loss. And in this surah, Allah makes mention of how the kuffaar did bad, so they lost and the loss will continue into the akhirah they will have jahannam in return. And Allah says, As for the meaning, they have earned goodness, and in return, they will also get goodness and Allah speaks of the day he will gather everyone and calls it the day of mutual gain or the day of mutual

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loss. May Allah subhanho wa Taala say if God doesn't God has gained grant as gain on that day, I mean,

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the next tool and that is the surah that I had said I would speak about Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala warns the believers and starts off by addressing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam or messenger of Allah, when you would like meaning when the meaning would like to divorce women, this is how they should do it.

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Always make sure that all the avenues of solving matters are

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complete, meaning everyone has walked through the all the avenues of solving problems. Unfortunately, today we have these utterances the utterances of the word or words of Pollock, without consciousness without realizing without understanding without knowing how dangerous they are. All this is a sign of the AMA, because people are taking the huge signs of Allah subhanho wa Taala as a joke, and people are taking these major issues as very minor. That is a sign of the AMA, may Allah subhanho wa Taala safeguard us one of the signs of PMI is that palekh will be on the increase. And I'm sure we all know that 60% and that is a very, very conservative figure. 60% of

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marriages are suffering turbulence to the degree of divorce. May Allah subhanho wa Taala safeguard us and May Allah not make us statistics and moving signs of gamma. So Allah subhanho wa Taala warns us all regarding divorce. Be careful your utterances, make sure you know what you are telling your wife, what you are saying what you are uttering. Remember that when you want to divorce a woman she should have completed a period after which you have not touched her. Then you shall issue one Pollock just one. And what I would suggest before doing that, consult with our Lama. Consult with the Lama and make sure you know what you are doing. Don't be in a rush to issue divorce, no matter

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how big the problem is. Never ever be in a rush. And when you utter never, ever give more than one Pollock never unless you have to. And if one palette has been given, and the eight day period has lapsed, That woman is free to marry someone else and she is also free to return to this man with a unica. And if we need the period has not lapsed, and it is a remarkable Pollock, she is free to return to this man without even anyone knowing. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us understanding so those who want to divorce remember, to utter three Pollock's is a bitter, it is totally unacceptable. It has a huge effect and an impact. It is equivalent to three, those who say three is

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one and one is three. It sounds more like a trinity. It is incorrect. It is totally incorrect. The majority of the scholars on the globe have uttered have said that if three blocks are added they will be equivalent to three How can we say three are uttered and then they are equal to one. And then some people say well, I was angry, who does divorce was they are not angry? Anyone know? May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant us understanding. So let us be very conscious of these words, even if we are joking about them, they shall occur. And Allah warns us and says those who fear Allah, He will grant them an opening and He will give them sustenance from a place that they had never

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expected. And this is referring to all those who are suffering in marriage. Sometimes we have divorced women, may Allah subhanho wa Taala make life easy for them. If they fear Allah and they are conscious of Allah, Allah says we will open the doors for you even after divorce in a manner that you had never imagined, never dreamed of. But the condition is you fear Allah subhanho wa Taala. The same applies to menfolk if you've been through a problem and a huge mess, and for some reason it ended in divorce. If you are to feel alone, be conscious of him, do not engage in mudslinging and don't become so discontent with the decree of Allah Subhana Allah to Allah then Allah says I will

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open the doors and Allah says I will forgive your sins and

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So many verses in this Torah, I suggest we read the surah inshallah, it is a very important surah Allah says, I will open the doors for you which means he may facilitate another marriage within a short space of time, which is far better than the other one. And you would then say, Alhamdulillah Allah has opened the doors for me. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make it easy for the men and women who have suffered divorce and May Allah subhanho wa Taala make this their future easy. And may Allah subhanho wa Taala protect them and grant them all consciousness, the last surah that we had mentioned today,

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or that we had read today is Surah. Two, very briefly, so that to him is named after making something prohibited and Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks to the messenger saying O Messenger of Allah. Why is it sallallahu alayhi wa sallam? Why is it that you have made prohibited or you have prohibited upon yourself some of these sweet dishes that are permissible? Are you doing it in order to please your wives? Don't do that. And Allah subhanho wa Taala tells the messenger do not prohibit that which I have made permissible and the message is for all of us, never just say something is haram and so on. If you are not sure abstain from it because you are meant to abstain from it and

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say I am abstaining from it because I am unsure but to label something halal, you need to have 100% proof and to label something haram you also need 100% proof if it is in the gray area, you shall abstain but you will not label it. May Allah subhanho wa Taala grant his understanding in that surah Allah tells all of us to turn to Him. And Allah says oh you who believe Save yourselves and your family members from the fire. And Allah subhanho wa Taala says

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Oh, you who believe? repent to Allah turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala a genuine and sincere turning and returning May Allah make us all genuine and May Allah grant us forgiveness on this night Allahumma inaka want to hit

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