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The importance of protecting one's spiritual health and physical health is emphasized, along with guidance and mercy. Personal growth is also emphasized, and the need for personal growth is emphasized. Discussions about regulations and respect for others are also discussed. The importance of personal growth and respect is emphasized, along with the need to adjust one's lives and values to reflect their individual. The conversation ends with a recap of the speaker's plans for the day.

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My brothers, my sisters,

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I was going to speak about something but

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what I have decided to do after listening

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to Sheikh Hamza's

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recitation

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is to bring in from what he recited

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beautiful powerful reminders of Allah. I am a

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person who does not believe

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in coincidence

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for Allah. There is no coincidence for Allah.

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For you and I there might be coincidence.

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For Allah, it's not considered coincidence.

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He plans things.

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You are here, yes, because you made a

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little effort to be here, but Allah wanted

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you to be here.

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Who I sit next to, what happens, who

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I interact with, the person I pass, the

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things that happen.

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Everything is designed by Allah

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for the purpose

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that he has chosen.

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When he made you and I, he told

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us I made you to test you

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and people think that's a joke. Sometimes Astaghfirullah,

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those who don't have faith don't realize, they

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say why would Allah create me to test

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me? Everything

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that ever

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happens in your life is

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a challenge from Allah. He wants to see

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what you do about it.

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What you do about

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the

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situations he puts you in. What you do

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about

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the conditions that he has chosen for you.

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What you do about the opportunities

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he has thrown in front of you, what

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you do about the difficulties, the hardship and

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so on. So I'm going to get to

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that, but

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the verses read, he started off,

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O people, You aiyuhanas,

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O people, this is a verse that Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala

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is addressing all people.

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Allah is describing

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revelation,

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The Quran in particular and Allah is saying,

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oh people,

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a reminder, a strong reminder has come to

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you from your lord. Reminder about what? About

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everything.

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Whatever you want to know it is in

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the Quran. Allah says a reminder has come

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to you from your Lord

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and in it

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There is cure for that which is in

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the chest, that which is which lies within

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your rib cage.

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What is in there? What is in my

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chest? My heart

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primarily.

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What is the heart all about? The heart

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has 2 different aspects to it, The physical

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and the spiritual.

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The physical, your

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medical or whatever else can be diagnosed through

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a blood test. That blood must flow through

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the heart in order to be pumped

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around your entire body.

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So if ever you would like to know

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what's wrong one of the first things the

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doctors will tell you is do a blood

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test.

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You do the blood test and then they

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talk. What was that all about? It was

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the heart. Allah says the heart is the

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seat of the entire body.

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Behold

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in the in the body there is a

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piece of flesh. If it is pure and

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good, the entire body will be pure and

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good. And if it is not pure and

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good, if it

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Indeed that piece of flesh is the heart.

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Indeed that piece of flesh is the heart.

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If that's the words of the prophet Muhammad

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peace be upon him, it is true in

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every sense whether it is a physical malady

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or a spiritual malady. You have jealousy, you

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have a disease. It's a disease of the

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heart. You rectify the heart, you remedy your

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jealousy, you live a happier life. If you

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have jealousy and you really

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do not remedy it, your life will not

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be of a quality that you deserve

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or a quality that Allah wants you to

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have.

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Same applies.

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You have a physical malady. You tested your

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blood. You saw what was wrong. You remedy

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it. If you are short of zinc or

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magnesium or vitamin D, you'd better do something

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about it on a daily basis. If you're

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if you have too much of something, you

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do something about it. Otherwise you're not going

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to be able to lead a quality of

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life

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that Allah wants you to lead because you

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just don't care. So look after yourselves both

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physically as well as spiritually.

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These spiritual diseases of malice,

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of envy, of jealousy, of hatred and so

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on. All these need to be remedied. Just

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like when you have a vitamin d deficiency,

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they'll give you calcium and vitamin d and

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they will tell you what to do and

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what not to do and when to have

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it and how to have it. Because

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you would like to be having more or

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better physical health. You take it seriously. We

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should be taking our spiritual well-being even more

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seriously.

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My brothers, my sisters, the Quran is telling

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us and the prophet Muhammad, peace be upon

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him, is warning us about this piece of

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flesh known as the heart.

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The heart is in

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the chest, in the rib cage. It's protected

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by Allah. It's protected physically. And Allah says

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we would like you to protect it

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spiritually as well. And we want you to

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know we have revealed the remedy for anything

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that may come in your direction. What is

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it? That's the verse.

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Oh people, a reminder has come to you

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from your Lord and in it there is

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cure for your heart.

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For your heart meaning that which is in

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your chest.

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And in it there is guidance

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and mercy for those who believe.

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If you believe in it and you work

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towards it, there is guidance and mercy. You

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will be content. You will be happy. Contentment

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and happiness only come about with discipline my

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brothers and sisters.

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You don't achieve at your school that you

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attended

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or attending right now unless you're disciplined.

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You won't achieve a salary at the end

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of the month at the workplace you're working

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unless you're disciplined.

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With discipline you achieve similarly in religion and

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in yourself and your own contentment and your

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growth and your spirituality. Without

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discipline, there is no chance that you're going

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to achieve what you're meant to be achieving.

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That's why Allah has spread out the 5

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daily prayers. The timings are uniquely designed by

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Allah for your betterment and mine. If you're

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not interested in them, well, what do you

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expect to achieve?

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When Allah makes something compulsory for us? I

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promise you it is only because He wants

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to save us from a lot of negativity

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and he wants us to be thriving

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in positivity. There's no other reason. SubhanAllah, he

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wants us to succeed

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in this world and the next.

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Why do you think Allah says

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there is nothing more loved to me that

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you could ever do than those things I've

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made compulsory. That's a Hadith Qudsi.

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Hadith Qudsi meaning the Prophet Muhammad peace be

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upon him said to us, Allah has said

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that there is nothing more beloved that you

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could do or no deed more beloved to

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him than that which he made compulsory

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upon you. He would not have made it

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compulsory

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if he didn't love it the most.

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That's why the 5 daily prayers, they say

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you don't want to do them. Can you

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call yourself a Muslim? Question, right?

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Can you?

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That's the pillar of Islam. Allah has kept

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it a pillar to give a charity,

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to give out some of your money that

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is so dear to you. You look at

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it and the first thing you can see

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is, wow. You see this 50 quid that

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I've got in my hand. It's not 50

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quid. It's a box of Mac powder.

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That's what it is. MashaAllah,

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things go across your mind. Sorry, just an

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example, my sisters, my brothers, you know I'm

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just giving an example. Maybe I should give

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an example for the brothers, right? But they

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use makeup too nowadays.

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So Astaghfirullah,

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may Allah protect us mashallah.

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Guys are laughing mashallah.

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So my brothers and sisters when we get

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money we think of things we want but

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do we think Allah has made it

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compulsory for you to divorce yourself a little

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bit

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from the wealth in terms of

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limiting your love for it?

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Why is Zakat compulsory? Do you really think

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that Allah was unable to provide for the

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poor? He created them for a reason. He

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knows.

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He wants them to be there so that

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he can test the others.

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Allah says in the Quran, we have intentionally

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kept people on different levels of sustenance

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so that some can reach out to the

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others. They are not going to decide. Listen,

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you know what? Take my place and I

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take yours. That's not going to happen, but

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at least a little bit of it. Do

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not love your wealth more than you love

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reaching out to those who don't have because

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loving your wealth on its own will not

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be able to attain for you any righteousness

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but Allah says

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You will never achieve true righteousness until and

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unless you spend from that which you love.

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So Allah has created scenarios and situations where

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he's telling you I know you've budgeted to

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do something it's a luxury.

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Here there is a desperate need. Are you

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prepared £2.2 a half pounds of every 100

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to give it out? I have made it

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compulsory for you because I love it. When

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you reach out it's going to help you.

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It's going to make you focus on the

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right things. It's going to make you not

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love wealth to the degree that you do

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something prohibited to achieve it.

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The way wealth is marketed today and materialism

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across the globe people would do anything to

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earn whether it's legal or illegal becomes besides

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the point to some people.

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They don't mind.

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I made 1,000,000. How? Don't ask me. Astaghfirullah.

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Allah says wait the earning must be pure,

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the spending is pure but I want to

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share with you something that makes me cry.

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Allah will never accept your wealth for a

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good cause if it was earned in a

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bad and evil way. So you might be

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wondering, I'm not going to give to these

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guys. I'm not going to give to that

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cause. I'm not going to do this. The

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causes of goodness will continue without you. Perhaps

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it's the filth of your heart that has

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caused you not to want to give because

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Allah didn't want your wealth to contaminate such

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a beautiful pure cause. I don't know if

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you got what I just said.

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That's also taken from the prophet Muhammad sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam that Allah accepts

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your contributions. When you see a poor person

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you

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you actually look at them

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and you should feel privileged to know someone

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who is so needy

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so that you can give. Allahu Akbar, Allahu

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Akbar. Hey, it's an honor that this thing

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came across me that someone needs,

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Someone needs.

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Do you know

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I come from a country where there are

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a lot of people who beg because obviously

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their poverty levels are different. But even in

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this country there are people who beg. I've

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seen them with my own eyes.

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Now begging is not something noble. You and

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I know it's a last resort.

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Do you know what shaitan does to us?

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You see a beggar begging the first thing

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that crosses a lot of minds astaghfirullah

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partly including mine sometimes I'm a human being

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is you know what this is a scam.

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These guys are part of a big syndicate

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these guys yes we don't want to encourage

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it yes we will not encourage it but

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Allah tells you in the Quran you don't

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need to give if you don't if you

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feel like you don't want to you don't

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have to but do not belittle the person

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you don't know them. Thank you, that's all

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we're saying. Did you hear what I said?

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You don't have to say,

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hey put your window down and say go

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get a job, give him a job, give

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her a job. What did you just say?

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You belittle someone.

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Why are you begging? There's nothing wrong with

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you. Hang on. If you don't want to

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give, smile at the guy and walk away

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without giving a penny.

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You have a right if your heart is

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not inclined towards it, so what? But you

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don't have a right to insult someone. Don't

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belittle them. They could just be genuine and

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they could be so close to the almighty

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and you don't know.

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Be careful.

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That's what Allah is saying. So the diseases

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of the heart that's where they stem from

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love of this worldly life, love selfishness I

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want things for myself only I don't want

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to share what I have with anyone and

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everyone I don't want to not at all.

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I saw I had pre recorded this ramadan

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series known as reconnecting with revelation and this

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evening I saw the one that says

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being selfless and sharing things.

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SubhanAllah, you have to share. It's about the

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end and I spoke about how everyone wants

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goodness only for themselves and no one else.

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But islam tells you when you share it,

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you achieve righteousness because your time on earth

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is very temporary. It's short. How long are

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you going to be here for? I promise

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you just a few more days to be

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honest. You can count the days.

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If it's 10 years with 360 days, for

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example, 365 days, what's that? Multiply it by

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10 is 3,000 and something days. It's minor.

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It's small. If it's 20 it's 6000 and

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something days you have 10000 days left if

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someone told you that what would you say

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say stop counting in days just give me

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the years Big deal, it's the same thing.

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May Allah help us. So we are going

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back to Allah. We're happy to be going

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back to Allah with a little bit of

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preparation. How do you prepare?

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Allah sends you the beauty in the Quran

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and he tells you

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we have sent you something that will cleanse

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your heart. You want to follow here's rules.

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Here's regulations. It's going to be discipline Yes,

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but follow it try your best. You are

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a human. We know that you are human

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being

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We know the challenges. We know the pressures

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of society.

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Keep on trying to be a better person

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every day, every day in whatever Allah makes

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easy for you. Now the problem with

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man, Allah made it easy for me to

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dress this way, to grow my beard, perhaps

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to have whatever, you know, and so on.

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You look at someone and you can see

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this person looks religious. Well, Allah made it

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easy for them to deal with their externals

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perhaps.

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Maybe not their internal selves. Maybe not their

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character. You have so many people who look

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religious

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but they may be struggling

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internally

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with

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bad habits, addictions, so many other things. So

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people say well who's a better person? I

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promise you in the eyes of Allah you

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will never ever know,

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Never ever know. Some people might not be

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struggling so much with the internals. They might

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not have those addictions. They might have a

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level of piety but they may be struggling

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with the external appearance. It's possible. It does

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happen due to different pressures, due to family,

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due to whatever environment they may be living

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in. Whatever else it may be, it has

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happened it will happen and it does happen

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my brothers my sisters learn to help one

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another that is Allah's plan He wants you

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to reach out to one another even in

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the form of help and assistance.

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In this regard, today I'm here talking to

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you. I'm sharing my time and subhanAllah

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I would like to hear from you too

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to say, you know my beloved brothers

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this I'd like to tell you this or

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that if possible yes why not

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if you have a piece of guidance for

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me I'd love to hear it because that's

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how we're going to get closer to Allah

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That's how we're going to get closer to

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Allah. So Allah tells you all people

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this is what has come to you. This

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is the value of it. It has in

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it cure. It has in it

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It has in it guidance and mercy

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for the believers.

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May Allah strengthen our faith.

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And then towards the end of the verses,

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the verse read is,

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do not

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worry about what

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people say. Don't worry about what they are

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saying

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about you. Don't stress.

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Don't worry about what people say about you.

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You're doing the right thing. Whenever anyone does

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the right thing,

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a lot of people will have a lot

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to say, sometimes including family.

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When I do the right thing, why are

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you doing this? Oh this is very bad,

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hang on.

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Allah

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says don't worry about what they're saying.

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Don't let it disturb you. Don't let it

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stress you. In another place in the Quran

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Allah Almighty says we know

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that what they're saying

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Is tightening your chest don't allow that to

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happen. How do you remedy it? Find yourself

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in worship often, in prostration often and praise

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Allah until the day you meet Him.

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Develop a relationship with Allah primarily.

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That's important because

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all the other relationships are temporary.

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Your best friends sometimes leave you and you're

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shocked. We were buddies for 10 years. We

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lived in the same place. We couldn't move

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without

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each other. And today, we don't even see

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each other. We wouldn't even we've blocked each

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other on our phones.

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Has it not happened? It has. That's for

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Allah to show you these

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Relationships are temporary on earth

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But your relationship with Allah is everlasting.

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Your relationship with allah is everlasting.

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So I thought I'd add a little bit

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of this because of the verses that were

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recited and then I want to tell you

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what I had planned to say this evening

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is connected to the fact that Allah has

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blessed us by creating diversity.

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Diversity itself is a challenge and a test.

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Every one of us,

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even if you're siblings from the same mother,

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same father,

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and even if you're the greatest of lovers

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who love each other like crazy, you know,

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a house on fire.

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Do you know that you are created different?

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Everything about you is unique

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completely.

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There will be no other person from Adam

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right to the end like you.

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Never.

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You are your own story. You are yourself.

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You have your own set of tests. Not

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a soul on earth has 100%

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what you have in your life. You are

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uniquely designed by Allah starting with your identity.

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Allah Almighty

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beautifully says, oh man what has deceived you

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that you turn away from your own lord,

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your own lord.

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What has deceived you against your own lord?

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The one who created you. The one who

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fashioned you. Gave you your form, your identity.

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The one who gave you

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your posture, your

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you know, how tall or short you are.

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What is happening to you? How can you

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turn away from he who gave you all

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of this and you know that you got

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it from somewhere?

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We are believers. We have faith, but those

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who don't believe

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We could ask them millions of questions.

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They would not have convincing answers

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They haven't had to this day

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We are too sophisticated

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as human beings to just say, you know

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what? Well, there's nothing more to this than

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just being on earth and that's it They

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said it from a 4 time and they're

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repeating it to this day

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But no, we're too sophisticated

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the feelings I have for you

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everyone who's seated here and the 12,010,000

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we saw yesterday

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It's impossible for me to sit and talk

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to you the way I want or the

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way you want. So I ask Allah, oh

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Allah give me a day sometime

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or a time in Jannah where perhaps we

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could sit and fulfill that which we couldn't

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do here.

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This was temporary. It's we are too sophisticated

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to just think look I wanted to get

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things done, but that's it. It's life I'm

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gonna end here, but I haven't ended yet

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Why?

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Because there's unfinished business

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so many things I've wanted to do and

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I passionately need I feel you're with your

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own children. You have children passing away parents

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passing away who haven't even been given the

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opportunity

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to spend time with one another. That's why

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we're taught when you've lost a child, the

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child will plead with Allah for you that

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oh Allah you took this parent away from

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me and you didn't afford us the opportunity

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to spend time together. Now I want you

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to give them paradise without reckoning so that

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we can spend the time here.

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Anyone who's lost a child,

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you know the feeling, no one can ever

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describe it. Like I said, it's unique, it's

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yours. It was a challenge for you. Nobody,

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no matter what they say, can ever soothe

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you besides Allah. Never. It can't happen. Even

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others who've lost their children in a similar

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fashion Their test is on a different level

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based on their own hearts and their own

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stories

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may Allah grant us comfort

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The most we could do is offer a

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good word and a prayer. There's nothing more

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you can do for someone who suffered the

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loss

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in that way. So my brothers and sisters

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the diversity,

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you know coming towards this particular place. I

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was thinking to myself

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in life I've met 100 of people or

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thousands of people.

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Everyone is unique.

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They have a character of their own. I

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need to adjust or they need to adjust

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or we both need to adjust. Every single

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person

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thinks differently.

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Your likes, dislikes different.

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The way you want to do things different.

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You're dressing different. What you feel you should

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be doing and shouldn't be doing different. Who

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made you Allah? He made you unique. He

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made me too. I'm also unique. My test

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is how am I going to live on

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earth together with you in a way that

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we can try to inch closer to Allah

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as time passes, but we don't want to

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mess things up here on earth at the

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same time.

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I need to be able to adjust my

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life.

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You need to be able to adjust The

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happiest of people are those who are prepared

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to adjust themselves and living with others who

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are also prepared to adjust. So, we meet

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halfway.

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Or some things we meet this way, some

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things we meet that way, and that's how

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we get along. And then you say, I

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love this person. Not because they're identical,

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because they get along with you. They understand

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you. They appreciate you. That's what it is.

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Never because they're the same. They're not the

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same. They're unique. They're different, very different, but

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you have adjusted yourself to love the difference

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and to live with it and appreciate it

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That's what it is

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The minute you trample on someone else's toes

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and the minute you don't want to adjust

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a little bit here and there, trust me

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that's the end of the relationship.

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Or it's going to suffer turbulence and turmoil.

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Because Allah's created us

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in a way that

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we need to adjust

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to others. We're all different. But there are

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certain things that perhaps people choose not to

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compromise on like what

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what are you not going to compromise on

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tell

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me tell me

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your faith do you agree

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I believe

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This belief of mine is a red line,

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okay, so I believe. So what does Allah

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say? Allah says, oh you who disbelieve,

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I don't believe what you believe, you don't

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believe what I believe, I don't believe what

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you believe and you don't believe what I

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believe for you is your faith and for

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me is mine.

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Why? Why does it repeat itself so many

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times? Have you heard that?

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He could have said it once and it

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was closed.

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He repeated it again and again and again.

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For you it's your faith, for me it's

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mine.

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That certain things you have to

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yours and mine. There we go. We

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we

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other and we understand that

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what it is

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does it mean you're at war with people

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who disagree with you on those grounds the

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answer is no absolutely

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not

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Wars happen for other reasons reasons of oppression

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reasons of whatever else it may be

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but if there is a understanding and a

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beautiful,

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discussion and we

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we want to learn from each other. We

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want to see what's going on I don't

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know For example, 2 people meet on on

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a street or somewhere else and they get

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along, mashaAllah, very very well until the discussion

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comes to religion and someone says I'm fasting.

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If the other says, that's nonsense. What do

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you think? How can you do that? It's

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so silly to just stay away from food

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and drink for what and what do you

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achieve? Hang on.

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Don't just come to me and say that's

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nonsense.

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A better way of doing things is to

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say,

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explain this to me. I don't I don't

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quite understand it and then talk.

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And that's that's how we will get along

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with people. You don't understand sometimes what people

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of another faith do. Why do they do

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this? Sometimes it is absurd to you. But

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the way you word it needs to be.

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Bearing in mind that you're living on earth

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together you need to respect each other at

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least. Allah says in the Quran,

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Don't you dare scoff, mock at or joke

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about, you know, belittle

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the the deities being worshipped besides Allah because

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what will happen as a result they will

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start insulting Allah because of what you started

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and they wouldn't have knowledge.

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That goes to show that

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even that which is considered absurd to someone

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when you know that it's very very close

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to their hearts, be careful how you speak

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about it. That's all Allah is saying. So

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I thought I'd speak about this diversity and

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how important it is to adjust.

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How important it is for all of us

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and I know sometimes we are sitting, people

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will listen to this talk later as well

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and they're going to think to ourselves, yes

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well that person needs to adjust. This man

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is right. No.

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I want to say each one of us,

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every single person needs to ask himself herself

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how am I adjusting?

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How have I

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learned

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what have I learned by communicating with different

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people I don't need to change their entire

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lives to be able to get on with

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them

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You know the last thing and I want

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to end with this.

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There are religious

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rulings and opinions regarding certain things. You know,

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you have the moon, you have the number

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of units of Taraweeh,

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you have

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the issue of acapellas, whether it's permissible or

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not. Something that's not music but it's made

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by the mouth,

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meaning it's not a musical instrument and so

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on. You have different religious opinions

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in jurisprudence

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about all of this. You adopt what you

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firmly believe is correct.

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If someone else has adopted something legit that

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is on the other side

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do you know what you don't need to

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go to war with them for that because

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if it is for as long as there

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is some form of justification

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they have they have from the Islamic circle

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and I'm talking here about the Muslims,

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then let it be. You don't even need

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to debate it or argue about it. At

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the moment on the globe, we have far

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greater things to talk about than that.

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I have stopped the debate about how many

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units and how many you can know what

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my opinion is. Here it goes. Or this

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is what I believe is correct and stop

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there. We all know that other people believe

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differently look at the moon the moon you

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never ever going to be able to get

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everybody to be on the same day because

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we are different so what's the next best

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thing to do? Respect each other's opinions and

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enjoy 2 and 3 deeds. What is it?

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I know there were scholars who were upset

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when I said that there is no other

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way out, no other way out. You have

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to respect that there is a difference of

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opinion. Some people look at the moon with

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telescopes and others say it must be a

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naked eye. You're not going to be able

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to bring them together. There will be a

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difference. The guys with the telescope will always

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see it first, so they're going to have

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it a day early. The guys who look

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at it with a naked eye may not

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be able to see it. By the way

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this id I'm quite certain insha'Allah by the

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will of Allah the bulk of the globe

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is going to be having it on Monday.

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Inshallah, see that inshallah covers me, right? Because

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if it's not, I'll tell you what what

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I said inshallah.

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I have a feeling you guys in this

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part of the world, we will have 30

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fasts. That's my feeling. Meaning those who started

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with Saudi Arabia, I think we're gonna go

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to 30. Allah knows best. We're probably going

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to have Eid,

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Insha'Allah.

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It's Monday. I think I've calculated it right.

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And then those who started a little bit

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later,

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they may have 29, but if someone's at

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28, they've got a problem.

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Because I have a feeling the moon's going

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to be visible quite easily. Allah knows best,

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but I'm just letting you know. So we're

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not going to solve the matter, enjoy it.

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I've actually spoken for 5 minutes more than

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my time, so I think because of iftar

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and we have limited time, I must end

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it just abruptly here. May Allah Almighty bless

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you all and InshaAllah,

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I pray that Allah accept all our fasting

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and our,

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taraweeh

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and all other Ibadah, our giving everything that

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we've done and will continue to do right

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up to the end of Ramadan,

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bearing in mind that the night of decree

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may still be coming.

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at least a few times in our lives.

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at least a few times in our lives.