Breeze of Mercy Nov. 8, 2017

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hamdulillah Hello alameen wa salatu wa Sidamo at a Ashleigh feel MBA with a more serene

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see you know Mohammed early he will be here edge marine

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La Mer Lim domain founder and founder of Mr. Linton I was in our EMA We begin by thinking praising Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and we beseech him to shower Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with compliments and salutations

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and praise and mercy. And we ask Allah subhanaw taala to teach us that which benefits us and to allow us to benefit from what he has taught us.

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We completed last time the chapter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his dealings Melania with the rich and wealthy after we had talked about how the prophesised dealt with, Mr. Kean will call out people that were poor and had

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different financial constraints and troubles. So we begin a new chapter today, which is how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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interacted with

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and dealt with that we lay at people that were have positions of authority

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that had some status in society.

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By now, we have gone through so many different chapters and examples, and we see that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam exemplifies the highest level of character

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with all of those that he interacted with,

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and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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you're ugly could easily have been half

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the Prophet gives each person their due right.

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As he sold Ohio, Selim instructed us to do it you could live you helped him help her give every entity its do right. Actually, this comes in one of the wasabia one of the advices of the companion about

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the companion of a dog that

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he said to another companion in Alibaba nicarico haka are in La Liga La Liga haka in Arabic Erica haka, equally happy in haka.

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So, this was taken back to the Prophet sallallaahu Selim I'd also like Cyrus and I'm confirmed it your body has rights upon you. Your family has rights upon you, and your Lord, Allah has rights upon you. So give every entity its do right.

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fulfill the rights to those that

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are deserving of them.

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The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said in a Hadith, NZ Lu NASA men as Ilan,

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very short Hadeeth what a profound Hadeeth I remember one time one of my teachers, he gave a whole Juma hotel on this heady, NZ to NASA and as you know,

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the boss I sent him says, put people in their appropriate positions.

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If a person has status, they shouldn't be humiliated. And NASA, NASA and as you know home and this is recorded in Sahih Muslim more than what they deserve. So if someone did something wrong, and they deserve to be punished or scolded, for example, then that shouldn't be done. In adjust amount, you can go overboard. Also if a person is to be praised or complimented, that should be proportionate. We shouldn't go overboard. And we notice a lot of times, many problems arise due to individuals either being put on a pedestal higher than what they deserve, or being criticized more than what they deserve.

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And both of the two extremes lead to major problems and misunderstanding and confusion. nz una semana Zara home put people in their appropriate place.

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She says Mr. En el de su de la his little RS lm and asila nasm and as Ilan, and it's recorded and so hey Muslim. She says the profs I sent him commanded us to give people their due right and put them in the approach.

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It status that they are deserving for cannon abuse all along I do send them home McKenna to whom Baba had told me the first thing we noticed number one, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would preserve

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for people their status, preserve their status for them

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and preserve their standing and the reputation that they had amongst their own people. So we see an example for that is how the prophet SAW Selim dealt with Abu Sufyan

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was a fan

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who, for the majority of the prophesize salams time as a prophet or messenger, he was an enemy to the prophets, I send them and he was a leader of expeditions to fight the prophesied asylum and the Muslim community, and even at some point, to completely eradicate the Muslim community and wipe them off the face of the earth in the expedition of the hub of elephant duck. I was was the main leader of that

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campaign, if you will, for Ghana, Abu Sufyan, min Kumara, koresh, he was of the most respected and highest of status in the people of polish.

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Some masala say you do have a bad habit. So he was already someone respected and honored. And then once many of the chieftains of Polish, died, were killed in the Battle of bender. Abu Sufyan became the CEO and he became the leader of the home of the people of God.

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In the Battle of Oxford, he was the one in charge of

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the Polish Army for them as Lama Jarrah Nabeel solara Cinema who they call on Him aka when Abu Sufyan eventually became Muslim which he did, which in and of itself is amazing, by the way, after all of these years of animosity, and fighting,

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and literally trying to get the Prophet so I said I'm killed and the Muslim community wiped out eventually this very person ends up becoming Muslim just in the fact that it was a vn became Muslim that's already amazing as it is.

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And what's amazing after that is how the prophet SAW said I'm honored and respected him

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after he became Muslim, can you believe that somebody fights so the process enemies in Mecca 13 years

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then he's in Mecca eight years before for America what's 13 plus eight not good with math what's 13 plus a

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21 ensure positive 21 years of animosity

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more than two decades of animosity and hatred and fighting and trying to kill you

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What would you do to that person

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so it was if you and becomes Muslim look at this video is for anybody who is in the law and home and the law sort of law here sort of like it was said I'm I'm an Fatih

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bass, Allah be pleased with him and his father. He says the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in the year of effect in the year of the conquest, the opening of Mecca

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and at best his father.

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When I bust this thing what his dad did said best he brought abou Savannah help. I was a fan that was his nibbles available to help he brought him to the prophet SAW Salem, and he became Muslim I shadow under Allah in the lower shadow under Mohammed masala. He accepted Islam for Ireland, a hula bass. So a bass was the intermediate. He's the one that brought Abu sufian Come on.

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You need to take this next step.

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And I basses will fall.

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Fallujah, Al Qaeda Hussein, he said O Messenger of Allah. Abu Sufyan is a man who likes to

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have something to brag about special, a special characteristic about him.

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Perhaps you can grant him something to appease him, and especially the fact that he has now become Muslim. And it's

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not just for Abu Sufyan, but it's also for the effect that Abu Sufyan can have on the community and his society

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for Coronavirus. I sent him to the office I said I'm sitting down

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I will in fact do so.

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Men dolla dolla Abby Sophia Anna for who I am in woman as well. Apparently he Baba who for who I am in the office I sent him said this hadith which is recorded, the Buddha would and scholars said it is sound.

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Anyone who enters into the house of Abu Sufyan is safe,

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will not be harmed will not be fought. Actually another narration record in the book of Saudi Muslim

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The Prophet sallahu wa sallam stood up on the mountain of sofa

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on a sofa, which is not much of a mountain now.

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But it's where we make sorry between a cell phone model. So the problem is I'm stood on top of sofa and made it announcement for everyone to hear. And he said them and dada dada, ABC Sophia Anna, for who I am in. Omen, Allah sallallahu amin, amin Avila, Baba hoopha, who am in the prophets, I said, I'm entered into Mecca, with a huge

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convoy of Sahaba of Muslims from all different tribes in the

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Arabian Peninsula. And they entered in and it was, there was clearly not going to be any battle or fight. And so the prophets, I said it made this announcement that we are not going to look for people to fight. We are not here to pick a fight or to find people to kill. That's not what we're here for. We are here to bring this place back to its origin, which is the Dean of Ibrahim which is still read.

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So the Prophet said, Whoever goes inside the house of Abu Sufyan, he is safe.

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And whoever lays down their weapons, they are safe. And whoever goes inside their own home and closes their door, they're safe.

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Even if they want to fight, but you go inside your house and close the door, we're not gonna come looking looking for you to bring you out.

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But look at the first part, a shot hit the point of reference here, man, dada, dada abuse of Yahuwah. I mean, out of the Prophet could have said if you go inside your home, you're safe. And he didn't say that. Right. But then he added an extra clause. Whoever goes into the house of Abu Sufyan, he is safe.

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What do we get from that? We get that the prophet SAW Selim, this is praised for Abu Sufyan. Well, what's so special about Abbas, if he had in his house, that if I go inside there, I'm safe.

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It gives him that position, that status, which he had with his home before he was Muslim, before the conquest of Mecca. What kind of Noah we were fee to leave only at the sofian were allowed only Salafi? Mm hmm, no, he commented on this. He said, from this there is

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there is softening the heart of Abu Sufyan. You know, the prophets, I sent him a Bakula de hockin haka. He dealt with different people based on their situation. You can't paint all people with the same brush. So this is someone that prophesized that I'm new, you give him something, you're gonna soften him. So he dealt with him in this way. Other people, you give them something, they're gonna step all over you. So you got to be tough with them.

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And some people the process of them was tough with because that was appropriate for their personality and their standing.

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So the prophet SAW Selim in his term or in his dealings is nuanced.

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He's not hypocritical, but he is nuanced. Some people require a little bit more

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expression of strength, and some people require an expression of gentleness to get the appropriate response to any fully Abby Sophia. Well, hello, Michelle. And also showing everyone else that this is a person of honor. This is a person of status.

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Play What am I a Messiah who say you will Hassan Ali Allahu anhu the Kumasi Benny Pura vida,

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And it'd be so easy to do the Allahu anhu Paul nessa arrivata Allahu camisa de many more as for also a lot of solo his Isla de la sir then for attire who either he met in Farah Medina periurban minella, STD or Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam onsolve como ella se deikun Oh, hi recoome for n zero

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who is one of the special Sahaba of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he was seated, say you do unsought say you don't have knowledge, the unsought

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the community of the Sahaba in Medina, they largely comprised of two main tribes, although there were others as well. But the two main families or else and knowledge and Sarah who was say you do have knowledge he was the

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leader figure, if you will have a village. Now there were certain tribes that were Jewish tribes. Amongst them was Benny

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Benny Cordova

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Even before Islam, Allah has the Raj and Sarah, who had an agreement with Venezuela. And they were on good terms. They had certain agreements, business agreements, territorial agreements, peace treaties, etc.

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After Islam, those agreements were maintained, and that relationship was maintained.

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During the Battle of duck, the Battle of Allah has app in which a lot of different factions united against the Muslims, one of the factions that was part of the

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the attacking army against the prophets and the believers, was Benny a believer, even though they had a peace treaty. Now, when you have a peace treaty and you violate it, what's that called?

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an act of war.

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What government takes treason lightly?

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None. So

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after the Battle of conduct, when the situation was investigated, and it was seen that Benny apologia was in fact guilty of treason, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not carry out any punishment or dictate any punishment upon them.

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Can you believe that? treason? The prophets I send them told them, You choose an arbitrator between us.

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Amazing. Imagine if, well, I'm not gonna give any metaphors.

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I was gonna go there. But you guys get the point. Right? So Benny upon a law, they said, We choose Saturday.

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We choose sides

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to be our arbitrator between us and you

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have mozzarella. Why that's indicative of the good relationship that they had with Sorry, sorry to minimize the good relationship that they had to the extent that they knew they did a big boo boo. And they knew they're in trouble. But yet, they say we want to be the judge. That's how good of a relationship they had with each other.

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So insensitive, came and he was injured in the Battle of conduct. He was injured. Actually, he was the sixth of six to die from the Battle of

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five Sahaba died during the course of the battle, and they were buried there, and the place of the battle. So if you go to Medina and you go to a place called de mestral conduct, or nowadays they refer to as seberang, masajid, right, seven mosques, there's some history behind that name. There is a place there's a big white wall.

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And there's no if you don't know it, you don't know you unless you go close. There's a small little placard, but there are five Sahaba that are buried there. And they are the five Sahaba that

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died in the Battle of 100. During the course of the battle, the sixth was started in one Saturday morning, he was injured in the battle. And he made to Allah when he heard that many of what I thought was guilty of treason, he made it to a lie. He said, Oh Allah, please don't take my soul until I can see justice being served to vinicola Allah Subhana Allah, lo and behold, he gets summoned. You are summoned to be an arbitrator between Mohammed Salim the Muslims and by Nicola Allah. Allahu Akbar. That's the answer of his draft. And so he came and the prophets I said and said, You guys chose you're happy with him as your judge. They said, we're happy as him being the

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judge the arbitrator, perhaps I said, I'm said me too. I'm happy. Many whatever said you have committed an act of treason. The punishment of treason is that your menfolk are to be executed.

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That was his decision.

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There after he passed away from the injuries that he sustained in the Battle of 100, and he was buried in about there. And the prophets lie Selim said, it says, Thou shalt white man, the throne of the Most Merciful shook at the death of Sarah, more ad and Sabrina elephant Middle America. 70,000 angels followed his janazah to Alberta.

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And he was Cejudo unsought, he was

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one of the chiefs of knowledge by

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I will say the hoodie narrates he says, once, it was determined that there's going to be this arbitration with Venezuela.

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The prophet SAW Selim said, Go call sorry.

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have him come. So when he came, he came riding on his donkey for him and he came riding on his donkey. So when he came close to the masjid, before he got down the Prophet so I said, I'm told the Sahaba Oh, no, no

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So you can stand up for your leader.

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Boy, oh no lady come stand up for one of the best best amongst you.

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Who says this is a column? This is honoring people of virtue? We have Dr. Lisa milk Dr. Melman here and who was Allie Kelly and LTM LSAT exam. What's interesting is we find another Hadith

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where the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam forbids us from standing up for the sake of honoring someone.

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Like for example, what we are required to do in

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a courtroom. Right when a judge walks in what do you have to do? all stand? You ever been in a courtroom? Surely you don't have to be in a courtroom. All rise. Right? And where's that rising for? Are you gonna go give them to the judge? Hey, how you doing today? Good morning. Nice to see you. Hey, nice coat you got there? Is that what you're gonna do? Oh, no, you'll be arrested.

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Don't try that at home.

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You just wait for them. As soon as the judge says down then you can also done same thing in a king's court. Or any person that is honored like that they walk in you got to stand up.

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So the prophet SAW said I'm actually criticized this behavior. He criticized this behavior.

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play him so so how there seems to be some contradiction here that we find the narration with the Prophet criticizes this and then we find another narration where he says stand up for aside out of respect, the LMS and standing up for someone is of three types.

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Three different types of standing up for someone else. Number one LDR Mo, ILA, Julie. Well, who I mean as soon as it is that kind of modular, the E Ll is Alec missin Muladhara in Santa Barbara and fear in me. Oh, Dini, Omani some makuta Lita tilaka hufa had Amina suniti woman who had his own LSAT comb, but he didn't have a mineral economy leader when he was a kilometer. We followed him in my house and he would adapt. The first type is lt mo Ella. We use the word Isla. Isla refers is the preposition that refers to,

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to toward someone standing up towards them, which is to greet them, or to welcome them. And this is done if they're a person of value and honor, like for example, if they have in, or if they're a person that has

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authority over you. Like for example, someone you dearly love, or you honor like, for example, a parent, your parent walks in, you can stand up to greet your parent, or the prophets, I send them in the case of a child, when his daughter felt a man came in, he stood up to greet felt female and he had her sit in his seat. So this is honoring someone who deserves that honor to greet them. That's number one, and this is permissible. And the proof for this is the prophets I said I'm saying to the Sahaba stand up for

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omo Eros ad calm and this is from good adab and good behavior. The second type LTM Allah wa Julie LTM Allah vaudrey waha them and he ran who now hanabusa Salama Angelica parallels hobby llama solo tm and haha Janice in kitchen, and even later for our Luna for LFSR Wong, Pomona, Allah manoukian wahome pueden falletta for

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the second is Al qiyamah. Allah

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to stand up

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in front of or upon.

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And this is in the case when the person of authority is sitting down and everyone must stand in front of them.

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So you'll see sometimes it's certain individuals, as part of them being honored, they come and sit down and everyone is standing

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and you can't sit. So this actually happened when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam prayed, sitting down

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in one occasion, and also by so I send them lead Salah as Imam and he was sitting down and all of the Sahaba stood up, and the Prophet disliked that and he said, This reminds me of the worship of the Persians and the Romans that their Maluku, their kings are sitting in the throne and everyone in their court is standing.

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So they said don't do that. If the Imam is sitting down, you sit down.

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So from that actually we have a legal illegal ruling, which is if the Imam prays sitting down due to a knee

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The moment that people pray sitting down as well, if the Imam comes in he has a leg injury and he can't stand up and he prays to Allah sitting down everyone prays sitting down Isn't that interesting? In Nigeria Mr. Moody maybe mmm was made the amount to be followed. So this is the type of standing that is prohibited. That is prohibited.

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We are happy to have children in the masjid hamdulillah we're okay with that.

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May Allah bless them and make them have the aroma and have added a Masjid sometimes we might get a little bit uncomfortable. It's okay. It's okay to be uncomfortable. No problem. He's uncomfortable to that's why he's crying. Istalif ltr mula Rajan.

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Then we have LP mo Li to stand up for someone.

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masala tea and yet hora de Luna Elena fen akula who techiman for her diabet sahbihi Lakin and Ola Turku Li na minha de Rasulullah saw a salamander who can echo and echo masaba hula who when he had that kind of also Samia. What I akuna who were who Ashraful bursaries Mrs. alum, who can actually so how you to enter he be he'll imagine is

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the third type is to stand up,

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specifically when someone enters or walks in.

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Because they're making an entrance for standing up for the entrance, and you stand up for that specific person.

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And this is permissible, but some of the lmsc it is disliked. Why? Because the process I said him didn't like for others to do that to him. So when the Prophet would enter a gathering, and the Sahaba would stand up, he didn't like that. So he told them don't stand up. When I walk in.

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I will sit down, wherever the gathering has extended to the edge of the zoo, hey through into Hebrew Hill matches where the gathering is, you know, people are sitting, lined up or something, wherever the end of the gathering is, the prophet comes and sits there, he doesn't come and cross over everyone to get in the middle of the group, right? So they're gonna mess it because the officer said him disliked others doing that to him, then we also we say it's disliked, but it's not impermissible. It's not impermissible. There is another way of explaining this, which is, as one of my teachers said, when someone walks in, enters the room, do you stand up for them or not? They said

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it's based on the situation whichever of the two has less technical stuff,

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because not all of us, we talked about it so much. Here take a look is when you How would you translate it formality?

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Is that what it means in order to do?

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Well, a formality can be a take a look, but not every technology is a formality. How about that? Can luffa is when you

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when you deem something obligatory upon a person.

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So it becomes something I have to do it becomes burdensome.

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They can love is when you do something and it's burdensome, it becomes difficult. You're going to say something

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Or what does that mean?

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Because I said, I like that discomfort. So he said, whichever of the two has less typical of sometimes it's very easy to stand up. Someone comes in, you just get up and it's easier to greet them. Maybe they're a very tall person, for example, or maybe there's someone with a cane, or they can't maneuver to greet you. So it's let's take a look to stand up and greet them. Sometimes if you stand up you're making a bigger scene.

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Like someone comes in and everything falls over and then the cup falls and then it spills and everything is a big why Oh, cuz he had to get up to give this person said I'm Steve sitting down settling. Well, that's it.

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So whichever, so you assess the situation, someone walks in, should I get up or not? Whichever of the two has less? Take a look.

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Yes, we like questions.

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Okay, I don't know silent. coxy. No, that's Bosnian Albanian. Yeah. Sorry. Apologize.

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An older person.

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We don't get up out of our seating.

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But everyone stands up where they were seated.

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Wait for them to go one by one.

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So this falls under this third category,

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which is to greet them and they they're going they're going through the line basically. Yeah. So this falls on

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To this category, which is that some of the LMS, it is disliked because the Prophet disliked it for himself. But it's not impermissible, but we can make it. Good.

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Absolutely. And we like things that are respectful. The prophet SAW, Selim said, in Mr. Booth to attend minimum Academy a flap, the profits that I was sent to perfect and complete good manners, meaning good manners already existed. And the Prophet did not come to wipe away that which was good. But if there was something that was theologically or ethically, not sound, and then the prophet SAW said and replaced it for us with something better. So if something is part of a culture, and it is of respect and adept, and it doesn't contradict anything in our religion, we have no problem preserving it. So that's fine.

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Especially if we're talking now you said something extra, which is that this elderly person or someone older than us?

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They wouldn't get up right. Because they're older than you. They're like the uncles or the the mental.

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Right. Well, you're an adult too, but a lesser adult. Yeah.

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I caliphate. Yeah, so definitely the prophesies. Selim said least I mean, MLM you aka Serena. stadium. Kabira. The Prophet said, Oh, come on, is hard to sell them. He is not from amongst us, the one who does not show love and mercy to our young and honor and respect to our elderly.

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Please, don't.

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So this is permissible.

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Yeah, this is this this example that you gave us is permissible chama will lawanna. Yes, sir.

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Any lady?

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Some cultures may see that's flirtatious.

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Is that, okay? So this is something out of respect.

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If it's causing discomfort, then it should be avoided.

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Yeah. And so we don't have anything in the center of the office, I still am that is specific to a gender, but rather it is for a person of respect or an ability. So for example, I'll give you guys a real example. One of my friends, one of my friends who did not go through the schooling system here.

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When he came to go to University College, the first day of class, that Professor walked in, and he stood up.

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And everyone was like,

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What are you doing? And he stayed standing.

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And he's just standing there. The whole classroom is like, what is this weirdo doing? And so then the professor, she noticed, and she's like, yes, you need something. And he was like, No, nothing.

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She said, Have a seat. He sat down. So then he realized this is not normal. So then he said, you know, in my country where I went to school my whole life, when the teacher walks in, we stand up, you know, out of respect, because we honor the teacher. This is something and she was amazed and she said, Wow, I wish my students gave me a kind of respect. Right?

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So there's a there's nuance we cannot say that it's impermissible nor do we say do it every time but we should be careful and nuanced. If we are giving status to someone more than what they are deserving. that's problematic. But when it comes to respecting and honoring people, we have no problem with that.

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What kind of Allah directing him it Allahu tada way ultimate rofi Islamic obala elomi What would you have him 10 v Islami menorah Mentawai him What do you daddy kekana you will leave him in a tent costs of endeavor. The prophets i said i'm also focused his attention on these individuals people of status and authority.

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Why? Because of the impact the ripple effect that they will have on their community on their sphere of influence, in terms of Dawa in terms of representing Islam and inviting other people to Islam? What means Alec insha Allah he be directing what even mohila Well, who I mean at Ravana equal ratio kobada in him Bama anfi Islami, he will who will lead inshallah and Abu Salam it was in a movie that I wrote to him even mimic to mean

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by cinema and even the mimic to me, what alphabeta la

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An example of this is the office Larson and being very occupied and giving his attention to actually the venerable Lila

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Ellery who Lila was one of the nobles of Polish someone

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have wealth of authority of respect, who was honored? And the prophets I sent him was giving him house dharwad special Dharma conversation and time that he really wanted this person to have s&m. Why? Because of the influence that they will have upon others and worried everyone mahira becomes Muslim. Whoa, that's gonna have a big impact in the community of polish. And he is the one that the prophets of Allah and he was sending them was giving Dawa to when economic to him, Abdullah Al Maktoum approached him who was blind. And the prophets I send them turned away from him. He was bothered by that distraction. He turned away from him and he focused all of his intention, attention

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on anybody who he Allah. So Allah revealed and so what what?

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Allah subhanaw taala revealed the verses of Soto to Ibiza that oh you found and you turned away when the blind man came to you? Well, now you did he kinda Allah Who is the Allah subhana wa tada

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criticized the choice of the Prophet so I said, I'm in this event in this circumstance, and he shot a pilot he narrates and zillah zillah Abba Sato Allah, Phoebe Neo mimic to mean alarma uttara. So, like I said, I'm Paul jasola of Sydney, Sydney. He says this verse was revealed. After the event of Abdullah Al Maktoum, he came to the Prophet I said, let me said, O Messenger of Allah guide me, guide me, guide me. And the Prophet was in the middle of his conversation with le w mohila. And it was a critical conversation. Notice that a lot of the prophets lie Selim did not criticize the fact that also Allah is giving attention to ellonija romola. But the prophet Allah Subhana Allah wants a

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little slice I send them to make a better choice with his reaction to a new mexico

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because what was the last I sent him was doing was giving honor to this man of honor, giving him special data.

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That's the point that is related to this aspect of his character. Where en de la sala so I said, I mean Ravana initially keen for Jared also Salah Mirador and where we are

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at Allah Bhima Hulu Batson fekola. Sophie, Heather aanzien. The prophet SAW Selim is talking to every w mohila. And he's saying everything I've told you Do you see anything wrong with that? Is there anything wrong with the message I'm telling you? And he was saying, No, no, there's nothing wrong with it. But he was too arrogant to accept

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what we may do right I should have said here that hedayati nascio hos certain as your Mr. Aiman home kolu Allah who is in Islam, be ahead behave in the Aqua Giulini Lake be Abby jalin ob Ramallah yBnL ha pub bar waka Houma La Romana

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we also find the Prophet XL and making Duran and saying, Oh Allah grant is a grant dignity and honor to the community of this Deen of Islam through one of two people through one of the two that is more beloved to you

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know, a sham or Omar

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Abu Jamal, which was his nickname. His name was Emerald Nishan

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and Rama raha pub, these were two people in the community of polish that had strength and honor and dignity. Nobody messed with them in Mecca. But they were fiercely opposed to Islam and to the Prophet size Allah fiercely Abuja hell we know a number of nation we know the stories. I'm

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fiercely opposed to Islam.

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One of the Sahaba said, Hey, Bob, the donkey of his father is more likely to become Muslim than

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when someone Someone said, it seems remember, hubbub is coming close to Islam. He said, his daddy's donkey is more likely to become Muslim than him.

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That's how far he was in his animosity towards the puffs I said, towards the Muslim community. So the Prophet made Why is he making a law home is the Islam. overlord grant is a great dignity to the community, to Islam, to the community of Muslims, through one of these two people becoming Muslim.

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We all see it happen. When a famous person becomes Muslim. It's all over the headlines. And it has a major ripple effect. Because people have notoriety people of influence, their choices and their decisions are always observed. Someone who's famous and has influenced amongst people, every little thing they do people want to copy it. What do you think they put Tiger Woods on it? cereal box? What does he have anything to do with cereal? Well, he's very successful in whatever he does and

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He is liked by people. So you put them on a cereal box, people are more likely to buy that cereal.

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Now they're using it for business purposes. The profits I said I was making there so people will get the data. No one's making money off of someone becoming with them. It's for their own good and their own benefit.

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What kind of I have bumili here, Omar, the narrator here says, and the more beloved of the two to the prophet SAW Selim was our model.

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The Prophet later embeddable kebab more than he liked,

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and ended up the one out of the two to become

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In another narration, which is recorded in urban huband and some of them said it is authentic. The Prophet said Allahumma is in Islam miromar bill hapa Bahasa

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Allah grant is that Islam through armor rockethub specifically.

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And when America became Muslim, he brought his to the Muslim community even though they were so small in number, nobody messed with it.

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Nobody messed with him.

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When Hamza

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grabbed him apart, Allahu anhu, the cousin of the prophecy, the uncle of the prophet SAW Selim became Muslim. He brought it to the Muslim community, he defended the Muslims. So sometimes an individual can bring is that to the Muslim community through their accepting of Islam

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will mean that he can do what he needs profane grammar. Well who am inside that he told me he also the professor may derive for an individual named tofail epner mo, who was assayed who was someone who was noble amongst his people. A dosi and Mohammed is half Bal character Phaedra amarin a dosi. You had to enter who Padma Makka wasallam Bihar, Masha Allah He German Polish what kind of profile Rajan Sharif and Sharon Leben. Saqqara who Yoko Fado in nakaka Demeter Belladonna ohana la jewellery bien avelina Vina

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He says here, in this narration, that of a liberal, who was from DOS, when he came to America, he was honored, and he was a person of eloquence and poetry. When he entered into Mecca, koresh swarmed around him. And they told him, listen, we have a major problem in our city now. They said, Listen, this guy has separated between an individual and their father, and an individual and their brother, and an individual and their wife. Why? Because they become Muslim. And their family refuses to become Muslim. So they end up parting ways.

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And he says his speech is like, it is like sorcery. So don't talk to him and don't listen to anything. He says.

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If Abraham says, I swear by Allah, they kept on insisting to me that I stay away from this man. Until I said, there is no way I'm gonna listen to a single word that he says. And I took cloth and I stuffed my ears with it. I don't even want to hear him by accident.

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He stuffed his ears with cloth so he doesn't even hear the sound of the prophesized.

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the eternal sort of La hustler cinema and when you suddenly in del carrabba, for whom to mean Hooper, even for abala illa, a new smear any barrel Batali, he says So eventually I went to the masjid which is Al carrabba, which was a place of respect even amongst them wishing he could and he says the Prophet Muhammad SAW SLM was there making Allah Himself making us all out in front of the caravan.

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He says so Allah planned for me to hear something from his mouth.

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He said I heard something from him. And it sounded nice. So I said to myself, man, what a silly guy you're being. You are an intelligent guy. You can discern good from evil. So what's stopping you from listening to the guy see what he has to say? How can you take those other people's word for it? Listen to him yourself. And you're smart. If he's saying something good.

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Welcome. And if he's saying something evil, I'll leave him be

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He says I stayed there observing and listening to puffs. I said I'm praying until he finished praying. And then he left the masjid and he went home.

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And I followed him all the way home until he went inside his house. So I opened the door and I went inside his house behind him. And I said, Oh, Mohammed, your people insisted upon me and they would not leave me alone. Until I was convinced that I should not listen to you until I stuffed my ears with something.

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And you know what? I heard you praying back there and I heard you say something nice. And I would like to hear so go ahead. Tell me share with me what you have to say.

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For Alibaba I do so like I said, I'm in Islam. What did I do on federal law? He asked me to code and I said I mean who was the lemon for Islam to Russia he took Shahada were called to Yana be Allah in in Ramadan feed oh me. Now larger on La him with Islam federal law heneage early I attend the coup de la him FEMA room la farrakhan. Allahu Allahu ayah. So the prophet SAW Selim explained to me Islam, and he recited to me.

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And it was only a matter of short time until I accepted Islam. And I

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made the testimony of Shahada, a shadow law in the lower shadow under Muhammad Allah sama. And then I told the prophets I send them I am obeyed amongst my people, illegitimate are my people listen to me, and I'm going back to my folks now. And I will call them to Islam to that which you have presented me with. So make your eye to a lot to give me a sign to give me an

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edge and ability to convince them that Islam is the truth so that they would accept Islam. So the professor Selim said, Allah homage Allahu Allah grant him assigned

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for college to enter pomi at 30 There couldn't be any 18

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And so I made to Allah, Oh Allah take it away from my face. I am concerned that they will say this is there's something wrong with you that you have been afflicted by this in your face because you left our dean. And so allow some parents that are removed it from my face and put it somewhere else. And I approached my people with this light, and it got everyone's attention. And so everyone came to me. And the first person that came close to me was my father. And so I said to my father, oh, my father, hold on. We are no longer the same as we were before. I have accepted this Dean.

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I send them to whatever to Dina Mohammed, I have become Muslim and I followed the Dean of Mohammed Salah

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on a whim, if I didn't need Enoch. He said Oh, my son, your dean is my Dean, your religion is my religion. If this is what you think is the truth, I'm with you. And so his father accepted Islam, and it was one like that with his mother and his relatives until his entire

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family entered Islam. So mother out there was an Islam for LA. Then I called my whole tribe dose, the whole tribe to Islam, but they were very slow in

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Responding to me so magic total supply cinema be Mecca Kaltura who Yana be Allah and the hookah develop any Allah dos in a sinner federal law Hurley him for Karla Mandy Dawson integer de la comida federal waterfall could be him. He said I came back to the prophets I said him and I told him or messenger of Allah. They're not responding to me. And they are still stuck in their old ways and their sins in their habits. So the prophesies that made Dre he said, Oh Allah guide those. And then he told me go back to your people, and be gentle with them and be gentle with them.

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And f&m as lb lb dos in a room in Islam, Hector hijo Salam ala Medina T. Mobile I will hand up to marketing to I'd also like to send him an e mail to me also, like I said, and behavour Hatton is eltron Medina tebbe Sabrina with an eye Nene beighton min dose. So malattia panna the heaven IV Rasul, as I said, and behavour as Mr. Anna Marie muslimeen muslimin, he said until after the hyjal and after budget, and after, and after 100, meaning after the fifth year after the Prophet made Angela, and I'm still making direct to my people, until the expedition of labor. And then I came to the prophets I send them with 70 or 80 households, from my people, all of them accepted Islam, and

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we joined the prophets of Allah Allah He was in

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sola, sola, sola Selim made for him and he was a person of influence amongst his people. And the Prophet instructed him to give that to his people. So here we see the prophets I said and respected those that were people of respect, and honored those that were people of honor and dignity. put people in their place, give everyone their due, right. Even if they are a person of influence, even outside of the Islamic community, give them their due respect and make up for them that Allah guides them because the height of the benefit that can come from them will have a lasting effect. We will end here for tonight inshallah and we will continue next week inshallah tada and I see that there

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are some questions. So we will address some questions in Sharla. But after a brief break in sha Allah May Allah subhanaw taala beautify so the character of Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is a common Latina Allahu Allah who said, America