Prophetic Policy #2

Mohammed Faqih

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ilaha Julio Sharika were shadow under Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam out Allahu Allah sola wasafi, who in being the healthy hero has been a reseller to identity management also had he had the llama Salawat Allah He was Salam o honey,

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we spoke about the Prophet being an example for the believers, and a role model sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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And one of the aspects as a matter of fact, one of the primary aspects

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of having to be inspired by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and following His example some Allahu alayhi wa Salam is in character sallallahu alayhi wa salam, before we talk about his leadership style, his policy sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how did he deal with people? How did he treat different segments of his community? salAllahu alayhi wasallam. Before we get to any of that, we have to understand or get an idea as to what kind of a person we are talking about here, some Allah Allah, we have a general understanding of the prophetic personality. Right. But let's get to some specifics in sha Allah, Allah regarding the character of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, we

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know that leadership experts say that the character of the leader is very instrumental in bringing about any positive change in a company or in a setting that the leader has to be in as an inspiring figure. Right. So and then there are qualities that they basically say the leader must have 1234 Right. So what was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, like, right, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had

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the best of character as Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran and sort of column verse four. Were in Nicola Allah, who looking Allium Allah subhanho wa Taala said to him, we're in Nikka, la la Harlequin Aleem, indeed, you are of a great moral character, right.

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And there's one very interesting

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point that some scholars make when Allah subhanaw taala uses the word la Hola, hola que now they write.

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They say it is as if the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam dominated. Allah means what? It implies Hopi it implies that you are above or you're upon. Right great character. So it implies that the process and them encompassed everything when it comes to good character sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had every aspect of the perfect personality. sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he had to be there's actually a chapter that we skipped over, maybe we'll dedicate Inshallah, day when we were when we talk about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, even when it comes to his physical feature of sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, ALLAH SubhanA, Allah to Allah made him, Allah Subhana Allah perfected

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him for that role. You know, some of the scholars discuss why he had he had to even when it comes to his look, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had to be very distinguished sallallahu alayhi wa sallam right? Because his features his demeanor, the way he carried himself, some Allahu Allah He was not being for instance, too tall or too short. So Allah is these were very key in making him what be accepted by people and making him someone who inspires the average person. His height being average was from the hikma of Allah subhanho wa Taala people can relate to him, some Allahu alayhi salam told people in short people, an average size people, right, the process did not have any features

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when it comes to his, you know, physical appearance that may have thrown people off, right? Sometimes a person could have a characteristic that will make you kind of, you know, nothing, nothing wrong, it doesn't. It doesn't bring the value of that individual down, right. But for someone who is coming with a universal message that is going to have to inspire a wide range of people. You know, the Prophet SAW Selim Allah subhanaw taala chose for him to have very balanced and very, you know, symmetric, you know, physical features, facial features, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his speech Salalah they some of the process and did not have any issues with that Allah His

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salatu salam, so that no one can use that, what?

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Against his message, so that it would not get in the way, right. Likewise, his character sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his lab his manners sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were perfected

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So the Prophet Sall Allahu alayhi wa sallam was the best in his character.

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Allah subhanaw taala mentioned that in the Quran, his companions, those who came in contact with him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and dealt with him. They said, not only did they praise His character, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but they also mentioned the specific aspects of his, of his character, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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And so we have divine perspective. We have divine message, ALLAH SubhanA, Allah praising Him, and Allah will not praise someone who's not praiseworthy. And then we have what we have the observation and the perspective of those who accompanied him sallallahu alayhi salam and lived with him and interacted with him.

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So, and the first of these, a hadith that they bring, they bring the hadith of Sufi Yebin, to

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write about the Allahu Anhu on one woman, he and his wife.

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And Sophia, it's very interesting that Sophie is the one that says this, because Sophia was the daughter of who, who

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was

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a rabbi, a Jewish rabbi. This is his daughter, Sophie, and she said this after the past son had passed away so Allah Allah, he was she's informing people. What kind of a man she she she was, she had a great time with what kind of Amanda prophesized Selim was, she said, Nowra 82? I hadn't. I have not seen anyone.

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So in a whole look on the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi. Salam to be better than the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Right? And,

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you know, I don't know, did I mention to you how Sophia, the Allahu Anhu sometimes the prophets I send them would walk with her, he would walk her home, you know, her apartment was a little further than, than the rest of the wives of the process. Or she was one of the, maybe one of two or three, whose home or whose apartment was a little further from the Masjid. So the Prophet said, would walk her home and walk with her Salah and answer, the Prophet sallallahu it was she was also small or petite. Right? And the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, we will kneel, he would kneel some Allahu Allahu Sena. So that so that she can step on his thigh to write her animal. Right? When I talked

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about holding the door open talking about right, laying that being the footstep.

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Right being like a stepping stool for the person, Sal, Allahu Allah, he was and she, there is that famous story when she fell down and she complained about

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you know, what will say this for those who are online, but edited out Inshallah, inshallah.

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You know, Sophia was traveling and then her, her camel tripped and fell down, and she fell off the camel.

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So she fell off the camel, and she started crying in the process and learned about it. So she can't, he came back to help to help Sofia. And he tried to calm her down. But when the problem came to help her and calm her down, she started crying louder.

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And the process is trying to calm her down. And she's getting louder and louder. To the point where the process Selim had to what,

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tell her enough, Sofia OS

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is getting too much. And then he walked away. His presence there did not he basically helped her to get up. And she was complaining about her camel. She's like, I have my camel is horrible. My camel is this and the process. And I was like, this is not the time for it. And then the process and I realized that they were actually traveling. So the process that I'm had to what?

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When he stopped, everybody stopped. You're talking about massive number of people 1000s If not 10s of 1000s of people. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Okay,

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what are we going to do now until we solve her issue?

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Right. So the promises have ordered the the people to to basically get down in camp.

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And his they so they they they put up his, his tent for him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he walked into his tents Salallahu Alaihe Salam Sophia, she thought that she really upset you know, the process and I'm not as upset with her. So and it was her turn. That was her day. So she went to action. She said,

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I really don't feel like going in there. So why don't you go? I'll actually spare my day. Give you my day.

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Right?

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With the condition that you actually go and

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You know, basically helped me get the promises I set him to forgive me for a while, you know, for the scene that that I that I, you know, it was a huge scene, right drama and she so I Superman took the, the like, yeah, Daily Show, she went. And she said that when I said Enter the process and said actually, what are you doing? This is not your day. She said, Well, let me tell you a little lie. She told them that Sofia. So she said that later, he went to Zainab Xena bint Jahsh, his first cousin, what can an external Navara and she had multiple camels or animals. She had more than one. Obviously, she she was maybe wealthier, you know, maybe she had some for her, you know, for her. You

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know, sometimes when you travel, you know, you have members of the family, they travel one person will have three suitcases.

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And then one person has what? One carry on? And that's it. Like,

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you know, some people have they have more needs, right? You know what I mean?

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So she had multiple camels. So he went to her and he said, Why don't you lend your sister Sophia, one of your camels.

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And she said to me to him, and

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Google, Yahoo, the ethic.

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She said,

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and the profit center was upset, because she said that he just walked out. Solid law data center.

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Right. And he walked out. So the law they said I'm in did not talk to her for almost three months.

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Because of this

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is his cousin one of his wives. salaallah alayhi salam, until she of course apologize right.

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Now, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the best of people. When it comes to his character. She said, I've never met anyone like the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, Ennis says, in the Hadith collected by Bukhari and Muslim Wallah, he said, look at him to hold his Icynene I served him for nine years Maleme to Hokkaido, Alicia in sauna to Halima for altogether Okada. And he, I don't remember ever that he actually said for something to something that I actually did. Why did you do such and such? He never questioned anything that I did. I will say interact to who or to something that I didn't do, I failed to do. Right. Khalifa al Qaeda, okay, that why didn't you do

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such and such, he never questioned him. Some of the scholars say this.

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This is, in and of itself is a praise of Ennis and all the Allahu Anhu that Anna's, you know, did not do anything that was blameworthy.

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So this, you know, indirectly shows that anus used to comply with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is a request. However, you should kill Allah. However, the Hadith that was collected by a Muslim, and as himself says, because someone might come and say, well, that's Ellis, of course, he would never say to us, He will never question and this is judgment. Right. Now, obviously, we have to qualify this, that the process would have never questioned the anus when he did something that is not of any objectionable from like a shadowy point of view, obviously, if it's made a mistake, that needs to be corrected the process of correcting them. But when it comes to something that where

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Anna's made his best judgment, he just made a judgment, did something that he wasn't supposed to do when he did not do something that he wasn't he was supposed to do? The process and them did not sweat it. He did not necessarily question his judgment or his tastes, and especially after the fact. You know, sometimes we will question things that don't make, like,

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we try to rationalize things that don't need to be rationalized. You can't rationalize them. Right? I'll give you an example. And this is something I've been struggling with, ever since past 20 years. Right? Let's say, you know, you go home. You know, your wife made something you made she made a decision or your husband made some you know, he bought something. Why?

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What what are you thinking?

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Well, I wasn't thinking

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I wasn't thinking I just saw it. You know, I liked it. I bought it was a big deal.

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Yeah, that person has to really sit down and make a case for themselves and you really, like explain to you exactly the hikma behind every little action of theirs.

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Sometimes we argue about things that just don't make sense. Right? You change the the setup of the furniture at home. I did this

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Why is your man I'm not like getting?

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I'm not getting the fastest divorce, that I process. And this is really painful, you know someone getting married. And then a week later, you're actually talking about divorce. Right? The fastest divorce had to do with it was because she came home. And after he went after the honeymoon phase, which was only three days, right? He goes to work, he comes back, she surprised him, she reorganized the house.

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And that started

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a huge fight. What do you think? Who are you to come and just

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change things around?

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Why? What Why did you choose? Class? There are certain things that you just don't question. You just accept that. Oh, okay. notice them. Nice. If there is anything, you know, that is not right about them, you can make a very subtle, positive or negative comment in a very subtle way without having to basically ask the person to really explain to you and justify why they did what they did.

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So the President did not question anuses judgment, no judgment or failure. Sometimes there's little failures that you just don't need to question. Ignoring them is actually part of being wise and mature. Let it go. The little things, right. So as says, Canada, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I mean, as soon as you Holika he said he was he had the best of character. And then he further explains, he recalls an incident where the auto sell any Yeoman li hija he sent me one day for business for it to run some errands for him to do something for him for all too so I said to him,

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for call to I said, Walla

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Walla, I will not go.

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I have to really look up. What, you know, the scammer said about this. Did Anna's really say this? Or was he just thinking this in his head?

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And many of the owner might say no, he actually said it. It just came out of his mouth. Mind you, and this was was a child. He said, What WalletHub wealthy enough see an edible email a lot on Airbnb, go lie, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said, though, in my heart, I intended to actually go and do it.

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While my intention was to do it, I actually said, What? No. And this happens. Those of us who still remember their childhood, you have no issue, you're going to do it. But for some reason, you feel like you need to say what? No, I'm not gonna do it.

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I'm not going to analyze or psychoanalyze. NSS you know, why it happened? I mean, there may be psychologists or psychiatrists here that can explain to us

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you know, but this is really age appropriate. Right? that age group, they they tend to do that right. Or

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sometimes they object for the sake of just objecting.

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So Anna said Wallahi, Lafayette, or Walla Walla, he I will not do it.

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And so he said, the courage to then I exited

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had a morada Serbian

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until I passed by a bunch of kids boys playing well, who me I one of his soup, they were playing in the marketplace.

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And apparently in another Rewi he said I was distracted by them. I was looking at them he was staring at them. For either rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because of Ebola because I mean what he saw he said, when all of a sudden I felt Rasul Allah wa sallam came, and he grabbed me from the, you know, he grabbed the back of my neck.

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So the prophesied and followed him. He found him there. He grabbed the back of his neck, by law for Nevada to La he will we'll talk so I turned around, he was panicking. He turned around and the President had a big smile on his face.

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For Allah and then he said to me and remembers right like vividly. What the Prophet what happened. Takada yeah when is it said yeah, when is when he says like little Ennis right? It's an endearment way of calling someone said yeah, when they have to hate Omar talk. Have you ever have to hate them and what have you said? Did you go to what I told you to go? Either, although I said Nam, yes. And other we are a soul. Allah said yes messenger of Allah. I'm on my way. I forgot to do it.

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So Anna's is telling us that the promises I'm had the best of character that he was dealing with a child with me as a child. And he when when I said something that may appear to look like it was a challenge to his authority sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Rosalind did not make a big deal out of it.

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He did not feel threatened.

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or disrespected or did not hurt his ego. So I sent him because he didn't have an ego Salalah listen, and because he was wise, some allies because he knew Anis was just a child just being childish. Right? He didn't make a big deal out of it. Yeah. When did you do?

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What I told you to do? So this was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when it comes to his character in general, how was a prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when it comes to his ability to forgive his tolerance sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his patients. Allah subhanho wa Taala talks about the process of them being the most gentle, and that Allah azza wa jal reminds him Furby Mara Mateen min Allah He Lind telephone. Well koonta for one called beeline for bloomin howling, that it was the Mercy of Allah Subhana Allah that Allah made you gentle. So Allah Subhana Allah to Allah tells the prophets I sent him one of His bounties and blessings upon him was the fact that Allah

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azza wa jal made them what? soft, gentle and lenient, it's not a sign of weakness. Right, as a leader as a head of household as a person in charge, if Allah azza wa jal places Rama in your heart, and you act upon that Rama, right, you're not being weak.

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You are being prophetic.

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You're being prophetic. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah reminds him that this is a blessing from Allah azza wa jal that you were soft and lenient. Right.

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And Allah Subhana Allah tells them Have you been fun little club a few are harsh,

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right hard hearted people, like he's not micromanage people and force them or threaten them or scare them. So how do they not? Yes, they indeed feared and respected the Messenger of Allah Isola, but they feared him out of what love they did not they feared offending him salah they use for as Rocco RRB right? A Bedouin caught up with him Salallahu Alaihe Salam vagenda Who just potentially to get the processes attention, right? He grabbed him. He grabbed he grabbed the prophesy. Salam, and he pulled that garment of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had done a lot to allow South hotteok in WA sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I thought to be he has she had totally that said that very thick

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border or, you know,

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edge of the garment that he was wearing.

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Left the mark on the bruise the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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Shoulder some of those. That's how, that's how harsh he was with him. Maybe she did he just better he? He said, I let some makalah mausoleum in Manila, the indec. The man said he grabbed the processor and the private turns around to see what's going on. What did I do? Like? Who are you? He's like, give me some money.

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What are the promises that I'm doing for the HCA? So the first set of left

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for mmamoloko via alpha. So he said give him something

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they say so I would Hagerty.

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So I haven't had you at all right. A person who is in need, who's panicking acts in a very foolish manner when people are panicking or they're in need. They think their emergency should be your number one priority.

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Right? I mean, and I know that sometimes we tell ourselves, Well, I'm not gonna make someone else's.

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You know, mismanagement or lack of management, right? And there are emergencies. I'm not going to make that my problem. It's your problem.

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Not if you're a leader. Not if you want to guide people not if you want to lead people not not if you want to serve people, right? So sometimes people come to you and you have to accommodate them. So probably accommodates him in a very gentle fashion. He did not get offended, though. It was a very disrespectful thing to do. Right? Hey, hey, how dare who are you? What are you doing? You can't do that. Right. But, but but that that moment, that it was not the time to do it? Because this man is what

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is needy, desperate.

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very desperate. So let's smiles laughs

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right.

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So how I learned from someone that was very inspiring one time, you know, sometimes people act desperately when they are in tough. Alright. So.

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So imagine, imagine someone that you really respect your chef, your mentor, your teacher, you know, being approached by someone and throw off and being yelled at and being for a hit or a slab by an old lady or something like that mistaken identity

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so imagine

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Sometimes people bearded people, they all look the same, right? So when bearded guy yells at you, you go to another bearded guy and you yell at him.

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What does that person do? If they're inspired by this prophetic example? What do they do? I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. It's all my fault. Please forgive me.

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humbling themselves. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was also an example a great example in his hair, and his modesty. And in his bashfulness, some Allahu alayhi wa sallam, Ghana should hire me ladra if you hear someone pay you there are Shinya Crowe, who have no viewer Gee, I will say that he said that the province of Salem was more shy than a virgin.

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Yet,

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but the President did express himself. However, if he didn't like something we were able to tell from what from his facial expression salAllahu alayhi wasallam

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so probably Saddam had great level of modesty and hire some allies and higher order modesty and shyness is not

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unmanly?

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Right? Because we live in a time where there is like severe erosion when it comes to hire. There is a huge decline in hire. Now, even even virgins even even girls are are taught to what be Hi Atlas.

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Forget your height, let alone boys. As a matter of fact, I've seen cases where sometimes boys are more have more height than than girls in certain settings. Why? Because we were bombarded with messages that continue to tell us this messaging that tells you you need to be strong you need to be assertive, you need to be this you need to be that

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high up is a beautiful quality of a leader is prophetic. Right.

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And by the way,

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sometimes it was because of his height some Allah Allah said that he couldn't say no.

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He couldn't say no. Some allies and he only said it when he had to sell them on Islam. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was also a great example in his compassion sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, right? We're not talking about just being gentle. We're talking about compassion, being proactive. Right? Compassion means that you actually

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go out of your way and you seek You know, there's a difference between you being gentle when someone comes and offends you.

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Or being soft with them.

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Compassion means that you actually look for for people that need help, and you're going to help them.

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Right? You know that there is someone suffering out there and you care for them.

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Compassion means that you think ahead of time.

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The process of setting them is compassion, by the way went beyond this life. So much so that there are no Matt talks about how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, when one day a Buddha or the Allahu Anhu said that Salah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam ala Latin. For Cara Biya tin. He kept reciting one iron all night long. He could not go past it.

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Can you imagine this? Rasul Allah who used to recite a baccarat Allah Imran and they sat in Watarrka. One night, the President got stuck at one eye and he just kept repeating it. He kept repeating it. He kept repeating it had to ask but hire Kobe how astute

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anyone knows which I was

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This is talks about what a seven memoriam Jesus the son of Mary is going to be saying on the Day of Judgment.

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Rasulullah Selim kept repeating that kept repeating the idea that talks about what ASA will be saying on the Day of Judgment. When Allah subhanaw taala tells him what about these people? They say that your god they're worshipping you, they worshipped you. Did you tell them that? And Asa will say no. Now put your llama llama Amata Navy, then ASA will say into a battle. If you punish them, they're your servants. They're They're your slaves. You can do as you wish, when telefilm but if you forgive them, paying the fantasies of the Prophet keeps repeating that

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as he just envision and imagine people who are not going to make it.

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What is he going to fill in Mustafa rasool Allah when in the morning I said to the Messenger of Allah mesial Takahara the hill I had tell us what the target will be what is good, what is up by Allah in the central lobby. So he said I asked Allah

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How to unleash a fire the Almighty.

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When

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he asked Allah so He was begging Allah Subhana Allah for it to be able to, to intercede on behalf of these people.

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On behalf of people that will be, will be when will be of those who will be punished on the Day of Judgment.

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One molecule inhibitors or the Allahu Anhu called I tend to in the via sallallahu alayhi wa sallam fina ferrymen call me Falcom now in the who actually in La La Makanda Rahim, Rafi, Malecon Reuters said that we came I brought some of my people we went to Medina and we stayed in Medina for about 20 nights. And that we found the promises and to be very gentle and very soft and compassionate or Iman raffia He was compassionate. So a lot is and

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you know full of mercy and He was gentle fella Mara Asha Ana de la Halina. Look at the level of consideration that the person had. He said when he realized when he saw that we started to miss our families.

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By larger over corner for him, he said go back and stay with them with your families. Wildly move home and teach them while solo and pray together for either Hello This Salah to value added in loco mahalo calm when it's time for Salah let one of you make them while you're on Muqaam aka Morocco, or while you're on Macomb Akbar calm.

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Right. So I said let the eldest of you lead us along.

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The point here is that the process and I've noticed that they were they were missing their family

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and the process and I'm thought okay, their families also missed them. I can't keep them for too long. They came to learn they came to catch up with the rest of the Sahaba but the process and at some point told them no, you need to go they did 20 days with a process and they needed much more than that but the process of said okay enough what you have is enough now go be with your families that's more important.

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Right? We sometimes get what

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our coworkers our employees

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ask us for a day off

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what a week to spend with family I've been

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I don't like

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there's work that needs to be done

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what happened to be in just consider it No, no no take take what you think

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right. We need to make sure that people have any especially with with with with people that that we want to have long term relationship with worse than that by the way is when people hold their spouses as hostages

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a year 2345 years without seeing their

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parents or without seeing their families

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you know, longing to being with one's family is a is a that that emotion can be very exhausting. And you have this miskeen or Myskina because both apply miskeen or Myskina right working you know just to make you happy

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being there for you because of this bond that you have this bond is not supposed to be like a life sentence

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hard labor Come on, give that person a break. You know what you haven't seen your your your mom you haven't seen your family for a while. Go spend a couple of weeks spend a month whatever you can afford right this is from drama that the process that I'm teaches us

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what kind of Sallalahu are they gonna send them a good whatever your personal, the process on them was the most loyal He gives us a great example and being loyal. Alright shuffle the Alana says manager to administer and Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a mentor to other Khadija she said I never I was never jealous of anyone more than I was then. Of Hadiya

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I shouldn't Khadija the process of them was married to her he didn't have any other wife. After Khadija passed away he married soda and after a while he was married to so that he married who? Aisha so Aisha and Khadija did not interact they did not meet yet out of all the wives. All right, she said I was most jealous off. Khadija well matter i to her, though I had never seen her. We've never met when I can can and maybe you will sell Allahu alayhi wa sallam a yoke filled with the crowd. Because the promises I'm used to mention her a lot. He never forgot Khadija.

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His first person that supported him stood by him and sacrificed

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and never you know who was there with him some a lot. He's in a four.

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Right for better and for worse. She was with him some allies and what Obama Deborah has shared that told me she said sometimes he will

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On his slaughter

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a lamb, he would cut it into pieces. So maybe I will have you sold it for Dasia then he will distribute that lamb amongst the Friends of Khadija had his best friends,

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he will reach out to religious best friend in honor of the memory of Khadija. So, listen, this is from his loyalty, some Allah Allah He was right.

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photobomb Apple Tula who and sometimes I would like, you know, any, it will come out of her the jealousy will basically

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take over and she will say can no let me confit Dooney and Ronnie Lessa Asia, sometimes I will say to him, yeah rasool Allah, Yana you're, you're acting like as if there was no other woman in dunya. Like you've never met any other woman except Khadija.

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Right? Fair Kulu in Canada to Canada to kind of leave in her wallet. And then when I whenever I say that, I mean I actually learned not to repeat that a lot. Because whenever she said that the profit center will start telling her what, let me tell you about Khadija. You wonder. You wonder why I still you know, remember hydrogen I love Khadija. Right? Well, Khadija used to do this and to do that and then he will start talking about hydrogen.

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And the President enjoyed speaking about Asia,

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while the Allah

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and the Prophet sallallahu today so I will conclude with this the Prophet sallallahu I didn't want to go to the next one. The Prophet SAW Selim was the a great example in humility, Salah and humbleness. Allah azza wa jal commanded him and commended him some Allah, Allah Subhana Allah told him to Well, Phil Jana Haqqani, Manitoba, communal Momineen, lower your wing, humble yourself towards the believers.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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did that baby who will me? They said that the province of Salem when he passed by Little children, he would acknowledge them. And he will, you know, humble himself Salah and interact with them. The problem is I'm literally like, bend down, bend down. Right? And sometimes, you know, Neil solo is on his knees. And it's sometimes if we see someone, especially someone who is respected or like someone who we may consider as a leader, right? If they do something like this, when we look at them, we're like, isn't that person being a little childish here?

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You're not being childish. So SSL sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will pay a special attention to them, you know, he would. And by the way, that did leave a huge impact on them. And the lovely alpha, right? said that I remember when I was very little, that the province and send them sprayed water in my face from his mouth.

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That's the only thing he remembers. From his childhood. He was very little it was a child. And the prophesy said Lim had water in his mouth. And he sprayed it. Like, right on him. Some of us

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whether it was to bless him or to play with him, Allah Allah but he just remembers that. It is remember that but he obviously remembers it as what? As a positive experience that he had with the process. And if you inspire him, right, if I sell him did that with him. So the process I'm used to engage them, and sometimes mechanical Jerry to tell who the bat he sometimes a little girl will come grab his hand processing, right? For example, it will be a two shot.

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Right? Jerry me is a little girl or it means a slave girl. So we'll come grab his hand. Let me show you something. So

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let me show you what I've done. Maybe she built a little castle from you know, mud and so they the price I'm gonna go. He wouldn't say, Well, I don't have time for this.

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What can I ask you for that? I know what the price is. I'm used to fix his own shoe. Wear cartel bow elbow patches on you know garments, some of our son where he will shatter who he will milk his own. You know, he will milk his goat SallAllahu sallam, well, you JD soon Misaki in and he would interact or interment mingle with the poor. He would actually literally like sit with them. When she made our military will win a team if he had you to him. The President will go with that with the orphans and the president I'm used to go and help the homeless and the needy. Right. So he was he was busy, some allow and he was and he was and the process and and will respond to the invitation of anyone. Even

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if he was invited to something that was like, even if the if the person invited him to to a meal that involves nothing but bread and oil

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and he wouldn't go to someone's house. So where's the stuffed lamb? No, whatever they present it the person will go and respond to them. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would even respond to the invitation of slaves, if the slaves said came to the practice of Salah

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If instead you had a sort of Allah, we want you to join us, he would join them. Some Allah on last.

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In sha Allah, the Prophet SAW allah sallallahu alayhi salam was a great example in his bravery and his courage sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was courageous and he had all the Allahu Anhu says, that when when, in the heat of the battle we used to hide behind the Prophet SAW Allah.

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And

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Allah Robina Azzam, Allah Robina as well the Allahu Anhu said that the bravest, the most courageous of us were those who would stand next to him. Most of us we stood behind him.

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He was in the forefront of a lot so and I said when ematic said kind of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam so in a nasty way as you were that what can I do at the nursery? What can actually join us? He was the most creative people well apart fuzzier, well awkward fuzzy a little muddy Medina Tila 10

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Welaka Treasure Island Medina t that LA guillotine from pallacanestro table assault. He said there was one night where we heard a scream someone was screaming for help

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in in somebody's way out it says it was towards the western side of Medina Salah there is a mountain called Jebel Salah right. From there. A sound came someone yelling, alright.

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So people got together. Did you hear this? Yeah, yeah. Okay, what's going on? Someone is asking for help. Okay, so people started to walk towards that area where the sound came from, as they were walking, as they were about to reach it. Before they even got to where the voice came from. The fee that he said

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Fatah whom Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Raja and they found the Rasulullah Salim coming back. The prophesy centum was on his way back. Waka saba hamilo salt

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in another in one narration instead of the process LM had his garment was pulled all the way they were able to see his above his knee somewhat like he was on a horse. Well, who I thought was really tall had already

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he was on a horse or a mayor that belong to Abuja.

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Right?

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For your own, okay, he's safe. And he had his sword

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wrapped or hanging around his neck. So I just want you to imagine this way acordo left to right or left to right or left to right Roland Toronto, I like to Robin met halfway.

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But from about that, I look under the solid line. So no matter and watch it now who the hell run out in the hole number one.

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So, you know, we'll conclude with this story. This is a very interesting story. So Anna says that one night is night time we hear a scream coming from somewhere. You don't know who it is? It could be? It could be an attack on Medina. We don't know what it is. So people gather together. Did you hear this? Yeah, you heard that? Okay, what should we do? We should go and see, you know, what the deal is, as they were, you know, on their way there the promises and them is coming back from that side of town on a horse. Right. And the horse did not have a saddle

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is sitting, balancing yourself on a horse in and of itself requires some skill. Let's say that was very common back then they all knew how to, but to to be on on top of a horse that without saddle requires a level of what a strength and skill Rasulullah one on one was on his way back. He took care of the situation.

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He had a sort of, you know, around his neck. That means when the promises that I'm heard the scream, the prophet Salem was the first one to jump out.

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He didn't say I'm I'm my enemies. You know,

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number one target. I should hide. I should take guards with me. No, he was the first one to respond. He was the first responder. So Allahu Allah, he was going to go and rescue whoever it was not knowing what the situation is on as he was running Salallahu Alaihe Salam towards where the voice came from, or the sound came from. He saw one of the mayors of La batalla. Right. One of his horses, and that horse, they said was a lazy horse. It was like a horrible horse. Right? It was not the best of horses. The process of them jumped on it. And they said as soon as the process of them jumped on it that horse took off.

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They said by the time that fast and in some other rewired. They said when the province of Salem came back. That horse of Appleton was sweating. The horse was sweating, which was shows that it was it was really wow. And everybody was shocked because they all knew that this was one of the lousy law

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was yes horses of Avatar.

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And they said this is from the more Jesus from the miracles of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam whenever he rode a camel or a horse, even if that camel or horse was not that good,

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the strength and the speed of that camel will be unbeaten. So how.

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So in the process, I'm commented on his experience with that horse. He said, Well, you know, who baton bow to me is what what does bother me? Ocean, right? He said it was like an ocean meaning it was so fast and it was so strong.

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And he took care of the situation in another rewire it says, what the President have had to deal with. He said, Oh, it was, you know, so and so's Shepherd. You know, one of her, you know, she she basically fell down the mountain. Right? And I had to take care of her. So she screamed,

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right? She was losing. So I said we took care of it.

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And he said to them, learn to ride or let any lump Toro, Yanni you don't need to panic, don't panic, don't panic. Right? I sometimes use they negate something when they actually want to, you know?

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They negate something to imply that you shouldn't it shouldn't happen. Like for instance, in English, when someone comes to you, and you say, let's say they threatened you. And you're like, No, you're not going to do it. You're basically telling that person not to do it. Right.

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So the process I've said to them, you know, don't panic, don't panic. Right? Calm down. It's okay. I took care of it. Salah ism was the first person to respond. Baby who me some Allah. May Allah Subhana Allah Allah bless our Prophet, Lama Saudi and I'm humbled to have the color Sulochana below me while he was working with ready to come also later like Rahim, Ali Brahim, or barichara Muhammad Abdullah so they can they beat on me. While early he was when he was already at ECOMOG archetype Rahim already brought him in the academy. The magic actually has some examples I wanted to share with you about that last one, but maybe inshallah we'll, we'll, we'll begin with that next next

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time. Because I know cases where let's say you know,

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members of the household will tell you there is like a snake or a rat outside and you're like, you call your wife to go take care of it.

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So hammock along with the commissioner Leila HetLand. You're gonna do really well taking Charlotte questions on Thursday night in Charlotte.