Jumuah Khutbah – Nov 1, 2019
Channel: Mohammed Faqih
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Masha Allah, Allah Allah Illa la hora, Sheree Kayla.
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I want you to listen to me today inshallah tada with your hearts.
Not only with your ears,
or your minds, but with your hearts.
this most annoying or most
hated person in your life. Someone that
abused you or abuses you.
Then imagine this person,
someone that you're trying to bring yourself to forgive. But somehow, you're finding it very difficult to forgive
someone that whenever you remember,
or anything that reminds you, of him or her brings you a lot of pain and anger.
Now, I know that many unfortunately,
hold on to their graduates and to their ill feeling into their anger into the memory.
Sometimes people even remember that specific moment, or experiences
that make them feel that way. They remember that person and they remember,
these memories come back these painful memories.
And now we hear about people who somehow find a way
to let go.
some may even claim to forget.
And we sometimes get fascinated by these examples. And sometimes we can't even fathom or imagine how anyone is capable of letting go
of a feeling towards someone that hurt them as much as this individual in our lives.
And we may even tell ourselves note, these individuals who are forgiving
those who offended them must not be
in any way or shape close to what I have experienced or endured from this person.
And somehow we find a way to just hold on
to the pain and to the grudge into the ill feeling into the memory.
And we don't forgive unfortunately there are some people who may even have hard time letting go of little things that the average person considers to be very, you know, minor.
So if you're one of these people,
I want you to listen to me today for a lot as the agenda His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam presented you and I with an opportunity.
But in order to get us
inspired because I'm saying that I want you to listen to me with your heart's
Allah Subhana Allah knows and this is not by any means. This is not meant to dismiss
or not validate how you feel. This is not meant to
ridicule or to minimize and belittle what you have went through.
Only Allah Subhana Allah knows the extent of your pain, the extent of your suffering,
right? Only Allah knows. But we know that Allah Subhana Allah has reward is as much as you give up
and you endure. In America for saburo natural home buyer ASAP there is no limit to the reward of a loss.
But a lot as though a gentleman and His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam presented us with an opportunity to allow us to heal,
to allow us to be forgiven,
to allow us to live a healthy life
and move on.
In a story that you'll find in the authentic books of Hadith,
we're told by the very person who was at the center of this story is Chateau de la Juana
that her father vowed
not to spend any money
on his cousin, Miss LA.
And for those who may not be familiar with the story, Mr. was one of the individuals who propagated and
actively were spreading false accusations against one of the purest human beings are issuer of the law and so do the wife of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
her own relative.
And Miss thought was someone was one of the people who were on our buckers payroll.
He was taking care of him financially. So when he's his cousin,
right to he's taking care of him financially.
But then he goes, and he starts spreading rumors, on true false accusations about not only about his second cousin or the daughter of his cousin, Abubakar de la Anna, but the wife of the Prophet sallallahu usnm.
And when this came out,
Abu Bakr radi Allahu anhu vowed
ever take care of Mr. or pay for him or spend any money on him.
Or law he will become so you know what we'll call the Allahu Allah. Allah Allah subhana wa la isla, Mr. Li Mr. Shea and bad the lady Akali Ayesha
I will never spend anything I will not give him anything. It's not worthy of it. I ungrateful of him.
right decision. However,
it's not befitting for someone like Allah azzawajal
hope holds abubaker to higher standards and allows which appraiser will buckle in certain sort of 24 verse 22 go look it up. Allah azza wa jal revealed a verse that would be recited until the day of judgment and it was a message to a worker of the law.
Allah azza wa jal sent a personal message to a worker of their lawn and it applies to all to everyone that wants to follow the example of aboubaker Allah azza wa jal says, When I tell you a little frog limin comosa when I say mobila
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when I tell you probably mean Kumasi it used to only one master kena Well, mohajir Rena feasterville Allah. So Allah Subhana Allah said, Let not those people have that Allah subhanaw taala considered to be people of grace, people will have plenty Eliza has blessed them.
Those who are endowed by Allah subhanho wa Taala let them not
take an oath or vow not to give their relatives or the needy, or those who migrated to be sebelah and Mr. Howe was one of them. Mr. hora is a good person, so even the best of people, right? Even some of the best of us can make these kind of mistakes. It's a grave serious mistake for which he was actually punished. Right? It was a crime punishable under Islamic law to slander people.
So a lot
Hamlet as in spite of what he did, he's a Mohajer.
Right? He's a miskeen and he is a relative.
Right? Let's, those of you whom a lot as Jen has endowed and blessed,
not vowed not to give, because you're doing a treat that being the law is unconditional. Your support over your family members or your cousins, as she said, been in for a loss of Hannah with dad, to keep the ties of of the wounds because Allah Subhana Allah told you to do so. Let them not vow by Allah subhanaw taala to cut them off,
what do you have for Leah's file? Then Allah Subhana Allah says, Let them instead forgive and pardon. It's not easy.
Allah to hipbone al fear Allah, Allah. We were talking about this last week connected to Heather and Heather, Phyllis wearing Molly, we were talking about repenting and asking Allah for forgiveness, one of the means to receive forgiveness from Allah Subhana, Allah to Allah comes through being able to forgive others, those who offend us, we're not talking about forgiving others, meaning those who didn't do anything to you know, we're talking about people who offended you. That's when it counts. You can say, Well, I forgive me, well, people, well, this general type of forgiveness that we we offer to people, it's really meaningless. What counts is the specific cases and individuals
that you just
you're struggling to, to let go of what they have done to you.
Right, so Allah Subhana, Allah is talking about a specific offense here that caused the worker to make that decision. Allah said to reverse your decision. Don't do that. Well, yeah, for Leah spiral and let them forgive him Pardon? allatra shipborne. If you're Allahu Allah come, don't you want a lot so just to forgive you, your sins.
will love a photo right? When this verse was revealed a book of said he came to the prophet and he said, Bella, Bella, Bella, he in the way boy, Rama, holy.
Indeed, I would love that Allah Subhana, Allah forgives me my sins.
And he reinstated whatever he used to give me on a regular basis. And he vowed just because he vowed
to, not not to give him he vowed he made a vow, he said, one line you know, and zero have been who,
by Allah, I will never stop this.
I will never ever stop this for as long as Allah Subhana Allah gives me the ability to do so he's immune, there is nothing that Mr. can do that will make me stop this, I'll take care of him. I'll take care of him as long as he needs it. I'll take care of him unconditional support. Why? Because the last panel dad promised him forgiveness.
Now, some of us we think and you have shaped on your own demons or, or sometimes even unfortunately, demons in in the form of human beings, sometimes in the form of friends, or relatives who come and whisper into your ears Oh, no, don't let go. Don't forget what they did to us. As a matter of fact, sometimes unfortunately, we passed this to even individuals who had nothing to do with the original dispute. So one of the most disgusting things that I see sometimes is, you know, for instance, a parents who pass on to their children, they poison their children and their children's relationships with their aunts and uncles or cousins. Why? Because they
had or they have a dispute, an ongoing dispute with either this, this uncle or this cousin or this brother or even sometimes the in law. Sometimes it's not even what do my children have to do with what my brother in law or what my sister in law are doing to me or they're doing to they're just weird.
We don't come near them, don't talk to them, boycott them.
This is sickening. And Allah azzawajal calls us to let go of these things.
And Allah subhanaw taala calls us to rectify our affairs and mend these broken ties that we have.
In our momina noona Allah Subhana Allah says, Allah Allah, Allah, Allah who that have been a como la la la hora solo enquanto many few true believers, then obey Allah and His messenger and rectify or amend or take care and reconcile between yourselves as believers, let alone community members, let alone family, or people who are related to you.
But if we don't
Learn the power of forgiveness.
Then it's very hard for us to
Allah azza wa jal through His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I promise the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
Allah subhanho wa Taala Anna because sometimes people come to you, they don't let go, don't let go, you will be taken advantage of.
If you forgive your wife, if you forgive your husband, if you forgive your child, if you forgive your parents, if you forgive your brother or your sister or your cousin or your uncle or your aunt, if you forgive them,
right, they will take advantage of you.
They will think that your your your your, they will consider you to be a fool.
They will think that you're okay with these kind of things. So don't don't forgive them. This is this type of thought or advice will only come from a shaman or someone who is sent by shavon.
Because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam it says, and he swears by a loss of Hannah with the other woman has the law who abdom behalf when Illa
a professor sent him says he swears by a law that if someone gives, forgives and pardons and let's go, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says it says Allah subhanaw taala will give him
that person will be dignified. That person will be glorified by Allah subhanho wa Taala.
Nothing comes out of forgiveness except glory.
Someone's might say, Well, you know, no people you don't understand. People will step all over you people will take advantage of you.
People will consider you this or that. I don't care what people consider you. Because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam here promised me that Allah Zoo agenda, right? If I humble myself or my Toba, Abdullah Allah, Allah subhanaw taala will elevate me and if I forgive him, pardon,
Allah subhanho wa Taala will give me
will honor me and will elevate my rank.
And I believe the progress on sun sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also de la hora suta. I don't care about your culture standards or how you know i don't care about how people perceive me.
I care about how a loss of Hannah has died or what a loss of habitat knows of me. So I'm going to forgive
on the Day of Judgment, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us
that even on that day, a large region honors those who forgive.
In a hadith were told that on the Day of Judgment, an individual will come making a claim against someone and his claim will be accepted. However, this person that he made a claim against is another believer. And that believer runs out of good deeds or his good his good deeds and bad deeds are balanced out of the same level.
If this claim of his brother or this other community member or relative, if this charge against him is taken,
if he does not forgive him, what happens? He's done he's doomed, he will go to hellfire.
So when this individual comes Allah azza wa jal, please, on behalf of this on behalf of this individual says, but your brother, you know is at this point he is this is going to tip off his his scale.
If you don't, why don't you forgive him? Because if you don't forgive him, we'll go he will go to hellfire. And the prophet SAW some Allahu Allah He will send them a tells us that, that this individual will say to Allah, Allah, I want my house and you are the most just
but then he will be told to or he will be inspired to look up and he will look up.
At that point, Allah subhanaw taala will show him a massive, beautiful, magnificent palace.
And this individual just falls in love with that palace.
And will say I wonder what kind of profit or what kind of Shahid or what kind of righteous person will receive this.
What does it take to get something like this, and Allah subhana wa tada will tell him, it will be offered to whoever is willing to pay the price.
And he will say oh my lord and what kind of price or what would be the price of a place like that?
And Allah Subhana Allah will say to him forgiving your brother
for forgiving your brother.
And the person will say oh ally forgive him for something like that. I will forgive him.
And Allah subhana wa tada will tell him
Hold the hand of your brother and walk him or walk with Him to Jenna.
Even on that day, Allah Subhana Allah is willing to reward
So imagine what you will receive in this life for being able to let go and forgive, unconditionally giving it up for Allah subhanho wa Taala well yeah for what it is for who Allah to hipbone, I am for Allah, Allah, Allah. We ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive us our sins, and to make us of those who are capable of forgiving others. We ask Allah Subhana Allah to heal us and cures, we ask Allah subhanaw taala to rid us of our pain and our grudges and our ill feelings appunto Hello cola sociodrama Halima confessor, Allah camino hola for him.
Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam, ala Allah that Allah Subhana Allah in the Quran, praise the believers, Allah azzawajal consider them to be of the mercy of those who excel in doing good deeds.
One of the qualities
of the moistening and the multiplane there are lots of parents Allah mentioned in the Quran and salt and in Milan, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, praising these people
and saying that they were promised Jenna out to her somehow what what are portrayed that lynmouth takim Allah azza wa jal says, of their qualities
are the following.
Take Take note of this, pay attention to this
lady on Fiona, those who spend their wealth for cetera he will not allow at times of adversity, or a times of prosperity in times of adversity, not only when things are, you know, good. But also when things are very tight and difficult, they continue to spend unconditionally,
you'll have your calling officer, rah, rah. And then what?
What comes after that,
we'll call them in Ohio. Those who suppress their anger,
those who control their frustration, those who keep there calm, we'll call the mean and life and it implies the words that are used cuz
it means that they have that legitimate feeling. It doesn't say they're those who don't feel anger, no, you feel anger.
And you'll feel the pain.
And you're hurt.
But you hold on to it, you suppress it, we'll call the mean and
when I seen out in us, but not only are they capable of controlling their anger, their anger and suppressing their frustration, but they're actually capable, they find the strength to forgive people, to pardoned people. Some of them may even go a step further, while law who have been listening, not only do they forgive but a pardon and they let go.
We are told that a righteous man one time one of his servants, spilled hot, liquid or soup on him.
And he was very angry. How clumsy how careless.
He said to him.
Well, Calvin in Ohio, reminded him of this I, Allah says, well, Calvin, me and Elena,
right, and those who suppress their anger. And he said, Come home to Haley. He said, for the sake of Allah, I will suppress my anger, I'll hold the house. I said, he said, Well, I've seen and in us,
and those who pardon or forgive people, he said, You know what, not only am I not going to act upon my anger, but I will let go and I will forgive you. And by the way, one of the best ways to
get rid of ill feelings in anger and frustration is to forgive, to prove like to actively you have to basically force yourself to forgive. Because once you forgive Hamas, that's it. You gave your word. You know what, I'll let it go.
It's not a big deal, makes you stronger. Does it make you a fool, and it's not going to cause people to take advantage of you, it will make you a strong person,
at least in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala and in the eyes of those who matter the most. So he said to him, I forgive you. Then he said, Then Allah who have been with me, but however Allah subhanaw taala loves those who excel in doing good deeds. And he said to me, You know what? You're free. I assure you, she said vilella a taco, a taco, so not only did he not punish him,
And forgive him but he actually rewarded him.
And I always whenever I come upon this, I add these I add in this story of I asked myself, where did he find the strings to do that? Through forgiveness. That's the power of forgiveness.
That's the power of forgiveness when you let go of something that someone did to you. fee Sabine Allah, Allah Subhana Allah gives you strength and honors you and glorifies you will love you have been with me. So we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make us have the mercy, we asked a lot. So just to give us the strength to overcome our weaknesses and our shortcomings and the ill feelings in the offenses that were committed against us. We ask Allah subhana wa Taala to liberate us and not to make us hostages or to those memories in the pain. We ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to cure and purify our hearts and forgive our sins. My dear brothers and sisters this morning.
Or actually, a couple of hours ago, something caught my attention. I received a very painful news.
From from Orange County, one of the finest young men in our community was walking with his wife and his child
on the sidewalk when a drunk driver ran them over killing him
on the spot.
And his wife and his child are in critical condition. As a matter of fact, I just received two minutes before I went on to the member from one of the doctors at the hospital, who was a good friend of his. He said they're in really bad shape and they need your job. Right. But somehow something caught my attention when I saw that one of their friends from that MSA saying I saw him two weeks ago or three weeks ago at Jumeirah. I wish I had hugged him.
And I wanted to share with you this message.
That next time you see your loved one your friend, a community member, a family member, right? Don't hold back.
Forgive, pardon. Embrace that individual.
with the love and respect that you have expressed your feelings.
Right? Ask them for forgiveness and you offer them forgiveness.
Right? check on them before it's too late.
Before it's too late.
You never know when it's going to be
when you're going to have the opportunity to see them again. treat every moment with your loved ones, your friends and the community members as a special moment and opportunity. Right shake hands, hug whatever you need to do to express how you feel about a person Don't hold back.
May Allah Subhana Allah
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