Rijal Real Men
Channel: Mohamad Baajour
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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
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I spoke to beloved brothers and sisters, I ask Allah azza wa jal the turn of the hearts to keep our hearts steadfast on his Deen
What do you wish for?
Someone asked you what do you wish for
in a house in Medina
Ahmed Radi Allahu and asked that same question to his companions What do you wish for
the first one said Yeah, I mean, I wish this house is full of gold
so I can spend it in Jihad visa villa.
What about you what do you wish for? So yeah, I mean, I wish this house is full with jewels and pearls and diamonds.
So I can spend it fee Sabine Allah
what else? You said? That's it? You mean? How about you? Yeah, I mean,
what do you wish for?
Are you wish that this house is full of men?
I wish this house is full of men like obey the vanilla genre.
Like why the blue shovel
and sell him the molar of data. So I can use them
to convey the message of Islam.
regional, real men.
Rahim Allah, may Allah have mercy on armor? He definitely knew
how to civilizations are established.
How great missions succeed and how to revive
It hurts a lot. Yeah. When when you hear the statement. Islam is a great religion if it has real men to convey it.
My brothers and sisters
it's not about the shortage of men. We have hundreds of millions of men.
But unfortunately, like assume allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, they are useless. powerless, Kava is sale, just like the form of the sea.
Although nations and missions need resources in order to be successful,
but they also need the planners and those who have determined the hearts in order to utilize these resources. Real men ritual are very hard to find.
Just like Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the Hadith in Bukhari. He said, Really, men are as rare as a reliable strong camel that can endure the burden for a long journey. You can hardly find one in 100
Riddle indeed Amara or the Allah one was wise enough to wish for high caliber men, instead of gold and silver.
Let's look at our history. Our one.
One Khalid bin Walid.
was in one of his campaigns. He sent to Abu Bakr requesting support.
How many men double back and send?
He sent him, I will
be number 10 He me and he told him
whosoever have him in his battle, you will never lose. Just if He's clean.
In the battlefield, he will scare 1000 people.
This man is worth 1000 people. One real man he sent similarly, I'm reading the last one he was capturing Egypt. He requested from Bob and his support.
He said, Alma said, I'm sending you four men. Each one of them is equivalent to 1000 men.
And he sent him a Zubaydah de la wham. Al Mecca dad binominal Oba Davina Sommet, and Muslimah even McCulloch.
Real men, who are the real men
is the real man the one who has a lot of wealth.
Marcel Allahu alayhi wa sallam one time he was with the Sahaba and the rich man came on his horse dressed fancy.
And he asked the Sahaba What do you think of this man? They said, Yeah rasool Allah. This is a very honorable man. If he asks anybody in marriage, he should be given. And if He intercedes for anyone, it should be accepted. And if he speaks, people should listen to him.
So allah sallallahu Sallam the teacher of this ummah, waited a little bit and another cool man, a cool man came this time. What do you think of this man? That this man yeah Rasul Allah.
If he asked for anybody in management, we should not be given.
And if he speaks, nobody should listen to him. And if He intercedes his intercession should be rejected. Or so allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam looked at them and said, this one, the pool man is better than an earth full of the first one.
So it's definitely not about the wealth.
this is how we categorize men these days, by how much money they have, how much property they have.
Is the real man.
The one who has a lot of muscles, he goes to the gym every single day.
Allah subhanho wa Taala told us in the Quran, where is our writer whom, Georgie Mukherjee, Salma, whom, when you look at them, you are very impressed by their bodies.
And he was talking about the munafo kin, the hypocrites
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the sinful man who was huge in size in this dunya will not even weigh the weight of a mosquito in the area.
And then he recited Fela and Hakimullah whom young Malkia multiverse now there will be they will be weightless on the Day of Judgment.
So definitely, the physical appearance
not necessarily means that the person is a real man is the real man, the one who's old in age.
Alma Radi Allahu Han. He was, was walking in the market. And when, when the boys saw him,
they all ran away except one.
So he came to him.
And he said,
Why didn't you run away? Just like everybody else did? I
said, Yeah, I mean,
first of all, I did not do anything wrong to run away. Second of all, the road is wide enough for me in you.
Subhan Allah. So it's not about the age
a young man wants and to to one of their main levers. And when the Khalifa saw him very young, he said, Go and get an older man to represent your tribe. He was representing his tribe. So this young man
looked at the Khalifa and said
Yeah, mural movement in.
is by age, then someone more worthy than you will be sitting in your place.
If leadership is by age, then someone more worthy than you will be sitting and becoming the Khalifa.
Young man with a mature response, sometimes you see older people, all they care about or they get depressed about trivial matters. Is the real man, the one who's arrogant and frowning.
Not at all. Yeah, one Ahmad bin Abdulaziz, or the Allahu Anhu. Or the one time he was sitting with his guest, and all of a sudden the lantern went off.
So the guests said, let me get up and fill it up. Yeah. I mean,
he said, No, no, no, we will never ask our guests to do things for us. Sit down your guest said, you know me, let me wake up one of your people to do it. He said no, why? They are very tired and exhausted, let him rest. And he got up himself and filled up the luncheon and put it on.
So the man said that the guests said,
wow, yeah, I mean, you yourself. You get up and fill up the lantern. He said, What's wrong with that?
When I get up, I was Omar. And when I came back, I'm still
humbleness. Absolutely. It's not arrogance that makes men sometimes we think that the real man is the one who gets angry and yells and screams and beat his wife verbally and abuse. And physically. Allah if you beat your wife, you are a coward.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he came wants to the masjid and he saw the Sahaba wrestling. For them. What are the what are you doing? In your solos As Salam did not know that they were wrestling? He wants to teach us a lesson.
What are you doing? You're just playing around you're wrestling.
gave him the lesson to them and to us. He said the strong one among you.
Is not the one who beats everybody in wrestling. The real man.
The real strong man is the one who controls his anger.
My brother you want to be a real man. Be like the real man Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and respect and honor your family. Now some of us a man, you tell them to help around in the house. What a man How can I vacuum How can I cook Habibi, the one who's better than you? And better than all of us used to help around
the real man Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam?
My brothers and sisters
What's the benefit of having so many male
that are only concerned about themselves? And they are controlled by their desires
does that mean we do not have any men? Absolutely not. This must still have real men. But we should strive and struggle to increase the number of these men a colocado stuck for Allah the stuffy room in the Oval Office All right.
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What are the characteristics of real men
in the Quran, so no one would say oh the Sheikh is calling us now. Let's listen from Allah describing three men
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that Dan who said the Dena among the main believers that there are men
Nina Nina region among you
The man believers, there are men.
Every man is a male, but not every male is a man.
Few years ago, you want to become a male you do a surgery become a male. Now these days, you don't even have to do surgery. You just think and feel that you are a male, you become a male, and you have your rights protected. Just think that you're a male. You'll be treated like a male, too. There's nothing nothing special about being a male. It's about being real man. Who are the real men? Yeah, Hola, Mina, me Nina regional. Sada Kuma hadoo Lohani. They were truthful in keeping the covenant with Allah azza wa jal.
And the most important covenant is the covenant of Tawheed. They never commit Schilke with Allah azza wa jal, they perfect the prayer the first step that fasting they do the best obey Allah azza wa jal, they do their best to stay away from what Allah has prohibited. So that Allah Allah, they kept on struggling to keep the covenant between them and Allah. What is that covenant in Allah?
Jana Allah has purchased from the believers from the true believers, their soul and their wealth. In return you have Jana, the people the real men is the people who have sold themselves feasable Allah they have given all their wealth.
They dedicated their life and their wealth. PCB Lila just like a brother told me one time Allah protect him he said Allah He did not need any more money. I don't need to work anymore to have money. That's enough for me. And for my sons and grandsons and great grandsons. I'm only earning so I can support this team.
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Cabana, some of them had passed away
and they achieved the goal that they made with Allah azza wa jal and some of them are trying and struggling
to be among the men who please Allah subhanho wa taala.
of the green men
as mentioned in Surah Noor
when Allah subhanho wa Taala My dear brothers and sisters wanted to
describe the real masajid he did not mention the size
he did not mention the decorations febrile youth in Edina Allahu and total for our youth Cara fee has small you set builder who he has built who do we will Saul,
Allah Subhana Allah Allah when he wanted to describe the houses of Allah the massage, he said these massages are inhabited by real men who are the real many Allah redrawn, learn to Li him teach
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I mean, these men are constantly remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala all day long they are remembering ALLAH, any action that about you to perform, is it pleasing to Allah? Go ahead, is it not? They cease they stop immediately. They wake up and hamdulillah the they mentioned Allah before they sleep they mentioned Allah before they start that exam before they start the business before they do anything. They will always remembering Allah.
Dijon Allah to him. They are not no business. No trade, no wealth will keep them away from remembering Allah azza wa jal, they go and apply for a job when the boss says no, you cannot go on Friday to the masjid. They say Salam aleikum. You're not the result. The result ordered me to go to Joomla and I'm leaving everything to go to Joomla nothing will keep me away. Rachel. These are the regional the region that they do not miss a lot on time. Allah has been shooting it right after the vicar of Allah. Your Koran is solid. They established the salah. They come to fisherman Jamar they perform fish on time.
They establish the salah, not only on time, but with utmost effort of wushu and they do their best they spend for the cause of Allah azza wa jal they give there is a cat.
These are the rituals that ALLAH SubhanA wa
harlot mentioned your call for Naomi.
And they have another characteristic.
They're always worried about the Day of Judgment.
They're always fearful about the Day of Judgment.
They do not know
even though they are striving and struggling to please Allah they still their hearts are trembling is my is my slot accepted?
It's my 100 accepted I do not know let me keep trying. Let me keep struggling your half who Naomi they are very scared from that day.
Allah save us all from that day. I mean, I mean,
my brothers and sisters
the sisters would say oh Subhanallah this one was not for me today.
My sister, you are raising
the future men.
and do our best to make from our children, real men.
What can we do? Just briefly, first.
Try to give them small tasks according to their age. That didn't feel the responsibility not everything they wished for comes without any effort.
Just like we struggled growing up. Now, there's no struggle.
When the son asks for something, you ask him what color
take them with you to adult gatherings.
Let them sit down and listen
to mature talk
respect them in public.
My son, masha Allah, he's the man of the house.
Praise them in public. Don't ever one of the biggest.
One of the biggest problems we have in raising our children is
number one, we put them down. And number two, we compare.
Did you see your cousin?
What's wrong with you? Did you see our neighbor's son? He finished heifers in two years. You're three years now what's wrong with you? You're crazy and you start cursing your son.
Ask anybody in parenthood. This is destruction for the child destruction. The minute you start comparing even between the siblings destruction for the child.
Praise them in public. Give them a nickname Abbulu so and so he will feel like luck. And
he would feel like you know I'm older than my age. Look at my father how he respects me in public. Look how what he calls me in front of his friends.
Teach them their Deen teach them how to speak how they respect the elderly
consult with them.
ask their opinion.
And listen. Listen.
Do not make them feel that they are you or nothing no matter what you say. You do not mean anything to me. No, give them some attention. Baba What do you think of this? I was thinking of doing that. What do you think? Wow.
Baba is asking me. Allahu Akbar. Imagine we train them on that. Real men. Real men. Tell them the stories. The right to them. The stories of real men
we tell them sometimes stories of Spider Man or Superman tell them to spoil the stories of Amara North Nan and remain an ally you know the Allahu Anhu to me and
my brothers and sisters we always hear
we wish we have a Salahuddin in this ummah.
Mutasa Salah he Dean in Nabi Salahuddin.
When and yet He is Allah hit Dean Ellerbee Salahuddin
Salah Dean was not victorious except when his Deen had Salah was righteous and no Salahuddin will come unless we go back to our deen being righteous.
May Allah bring among us real men that will protect this Dean and keep conveying this message till the Day of Judgment Allama Felina de Nova now let's start off with a bit of them and Alan Coleman Catherine Robina Hublin and
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