Mohamad Baajour – JAR #79 The One Thing That Will Elevate Our Status

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The importance of good manners in graduating from the Message of Islam is emphasized, along with the need for individuals to apply good manners to their actions and receive reward. Consistent with this message, individuals should practice good manners to elevate their status and avoid mistakes such as fasting all day and overloading their weight. The importance of fixing manners and improving behavior is emphasized, with advice given on small small actions such as fasting and praying with their brother.
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh smell level hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Allama livanova and fauna on foreigner Vemma alum Tana, was it No alemannia camera I mean, we ask Allah azza wa jal teachers would benefit us, benefit us from what you taught us and increase us in knowledge. I mean, Robert, I mean, my dear beloved, respected brothers and sisters, ask Allah azza wa jal to make me and you from the people who listen and apply.

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We always hear

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about the greatness of the companions of Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi, wasallam.

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And how much they achieved in a very short period of time, and how much they sacrificed.

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And when we compare

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our actions,

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and our A Baghdad, our acts of worship to theirs, they look insignificant.

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We did not perform Jihad like they did.

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We did not travel the world to spread the message of Islam. We did not give in charity as much as they did. We did not praise PM,

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and fasted as much as they did. One of them used to pray pm five us a night.

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Many of the news too fast every other day.

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And let's face it, we are struggling to pray forward on time.

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this will be very embarrassing on the Day of Judgment, when we see the status that they are in and the status we are in. So what's the solution? Is there a solution? And the answer is yes, there is something we can do in order to elevate our status

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and give us a lot of reward for simple actions.

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And the only thing that will make us get close to the Sahaba is good manners. Yes, my brothers and sisters You heard right good manners. Why good manners? Because Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said,

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a believer will attain with his good manners. I believe believer will attain with his good manners, the rank of the one who is performing pm all night and fasting all day Allahu Akbar.

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With good manners.

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We will reach the level of the saw him call him a person that fasts all day and up all night.

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That would bring us close to the Sahaba

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so I am sleeping at night.

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And because of my great manners, it is recorded. I am performing tahajjud I am eating during the day, and it's recorded because of my good manners. It is recorded. I am fasting Allahu Akbar.

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Good manners.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that the heaviest thing in the scale on the Day of Judgment is good manners. Allahu Akbar. We all know that there will be a scale that is set up on the day of judgment and our deeds will be weighed. I ask Allah azza wa jal to make me and you from the people whom their good deeds will overweigh their bad deeds.

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So what is the heaviest thing yeah rasool Allah on the day of judgment in the scale, good manners.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Listen, we are mentioning the virtues of good manners because

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of the state that we are in of the laziness that we are in. The only way to be upgraded is by having good manners are so much I seldom said the closest to

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me on the day of judgment, the closest to the best man ever walked this earth, the closest to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, who is that? Yeah rasool Allah, the one with the best manners.

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Allahu Akbar.

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Allahu Akbar. My brothers and sisters we, in general concentrate a lot on rituals. You see a brother praying five times a day in the masjid, you see a sister full niqab, you see a person

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going to hash every year, but we are lacking when it comes to manners.

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We need to fix our manners because look at the virtues of having good manners.

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Fourth, bad manners erases the little that we do.

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And we all know the story of that woman that used to fast

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all day and up all night yeah rasool Allah Lakin but she harms her neighbor with her tongue.

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Rasool Allah says Allah did not hesitate a second to say he often now she's in the hellfire.

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So another incentive to have good manners is to know the danger of having evil manners. It will erase look at this woman

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praying tahajud and fasting

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and because of her ill manners.

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She's in the hellfire. My brothers and sisters this advice from my heart to your heart in sha Allah.

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What are the good manners? What does it mean? We always hear having good manners. What does it mean? Having good manners? And then robotic Rahim Allah He said, good manners is Bastille wedgie.

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Weapons de la maruf worker fill other three things constitute good manners, pleasant taste,

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doing good and withholding evil. Under these three things comes every good man or you could think of

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pleasant face. Smiling Subhanallah smiling. Anytime you see your brother your sister. Share that beautiful smile which costs nothing. And as if you have given them charity

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give doing good. generosity, kindness, forgiveness. Forgiveness is one of the greatest sign of good manners.

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Sometimes we hold grudges against each other for years, for years.

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The one with the greatest Iman is the one who forgives quicker

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and under withholding evil,

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any evil act that comes to mind goes under that title.

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Stop the backbiting. Stop the lying. Stop the foul language, stop the gossip.

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Hold your evil.

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These are all all these three things constitute good manners. My

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brothers and sisters

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we always talk about the Sahaba and we want to be with them and we want to see them

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but they are mad that they have done the actions that they have done Subhanallah

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they really sacrificed everything they have for this team.

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And it's great to have good manners when everyone around you have good manners.

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And these days having good manners is extremely heavy in the sight of Allah azza wa jal. So

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let's have

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Let's improve our manners and start with the closest people to you.

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Start having good manners with your parents

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by respecting them and honoring them and the parents have good manners with your children.

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The husband please have good manners with your wife and my sister. Treat your husband with good manners

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that the family always

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learn how to forgive how to overlook do not pick on every single mistake your spouse does

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then start with your relatives with your community and Subhanallah be from the people that when others see them, they can tell from the way you walk from the way you talk. When from the way if they if you leave they miss your manners they miss your presence.

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My brothers and sisters

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Hamdulillah that are so lost I sell them he taught us to do

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to improve our manners, and the diet is very simple. Allahumma Khanna has sent a fellow at the Hudson who Loki yeah Allah, just like you have perfected my creation, perfect my manners.

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They ask Allah azza wa jal to bless me and you with the best of manners. I ask Allah subhanaw taala to make our last deeds, our best deeds and our last words La Ilaha illa Allah, I love you all for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah Mohammed Rashid Allah Allah he learned the stuff Heruka on a tour when

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