JAR #71 7 Signs Of Manhood From The Quran
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Tonight in sha Allah to Allah,
we will be discussing a topic that is extremely important, and that is manhood.
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manhood is a quality that is pursued by people have high ambitions
and serious thinking.
Real men are not judged by their beauty or by the size of their body, or by any kind of social status or by their wealth. Real men
are identified by certain characteristics that are mentioned in the book of Allah. Al Quran
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said in the Hadith in Bukhari
real men are rare, or are as rare as reliable, strong camel that can endure the burden of long trips, you can hardly find one in 100 Subhanallah so real men are as rare as a good camel. So, from the Quran, we will find out today seven characteristics of real men.
And these characteristics are mentioned in many different aIot first characteristic
wotja Amin oxen Medina Tierra Jolin Yes, sir. And there came a man Rami running from the farthest end of the city. So the first characteristic is say, they raised to do good. This man came from a very far place just to inform and warn Musa alayhis salam that they are plotting against him. So the first characteristic of a man of a real man is that he rushes to do good, he races to do good.
You see someone crossing the street and needs help you rush to help him. You see somebody leaving the supermarket and old lady and needs help with her groceries you rush to help them you heard that a brother has having financial hardship you run to help them you are Allah bless you and you perform your five daily salat on time. And you heard that someone does not you rush
to speak to them and to advise them and to remind them about the importance of solid. So the first characteristic of a real man is that they race to do good. Yes sir. means to walk fast. That's why Allah subhanaw taala use that verb when it came to coming to Salaat ultimo second characteristic, Allah subhanaw taala said Meenal MENA region among the believing male, there are men. So that means not every male is a man every man is a male, but not every male is a man. Allah is saying among the believing male there are men what is what is their characteristic here hola sada Kuma hola Ali. They are truthful to the covenant that they made with Allah subhanaw taala. So the second curse
characteristic is that real men are truthful. When they give their word. They keep it, they stand by it.
And specifically the contract that they made and the vow they made with Allah subhanho wa Taala the ad
They made with Allah to obey Him and to stay away from what he has prohibited. A real man never lies. He doesn't because people who lie are fearful,
they are scared. So, if this man he made a mistake, he admits that I made a mistake. Real men admit to their mistake.
The for the third characteristic, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada said
that fee he Regeneron you Hibou a yet a Tahoe. The real men are the ones who are pure.
They love the Hara. They are pure, inward and outward.
Outside, you look at their appearance, beautiful, clean attire, neat.
They always take care of their hygiene. And they also are pure inside.
have no heart diseases. They have no hatred, no malice, no sugar, no hypocrisy, no envy, and everything in their life is pure their income is pure from riba their incomes pure from from bribes, and it is pure from any kind of haram, these are the real men.
So the third is that these men the real men are pure inside and outside. The next area has four characteristics in one area Subhan Allah, Allah subhanaw taala said in Surah, a nor region on latterly he him t Jarrah tun wala bear
the real men nor commerce nor sale, no business, no job distracts them from these four things.
Sorry, men, nothing distracts them from number one. remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala
nothing stop them from remembering Allah subhanaw taala their tongue is constantly busy with the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa taala. So as a father, you tell your son, be a doctor, be an engineer, be an accountant, be a businessman, no problem. But don't ever let that keep you away from these four and the first one is remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala
second column is solid. They never miss solid, real men, they not only do not miss a lot they established a solid economy that is solid. If comma means they give this a lot it's right. They give the will do its right. They pray on time they pray with assured they do their best to achieve kosher and they're solid. They do their best to attend the Salawat in the massage in Regina and latterly him to Jarrah on whether they are bear and the Karela wife calm is solid.
If you see a person neglectful of the salad or not an executor, neglectful of his solid, that's not a real man. Real Man he kept his promise with Allah subhanho wa Taala and he performs all his Salawat on time where he is a cat. And they are people who do not cheat when it comes to the cat they fulfill there is a cat they can't wait. They can't wait to pay there is a cat in full and they seek the right people who are eligible
for the cat. And the last one way or half una Yeoman taka la Buffy Hill colonial upside. The real men they fear they are constantly thinking about that day, the day of judgment. They are feeling that day where the hearts and the eyes fearfully turn about Subhanallah they're always thinking before they make any decision in their life. Is it pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala because they are afraid if they do anything wrong to upset Allah subhanahu wa taala
so my brothers and sisters, these are the seven characteristics of manhood from the Quran. Type briefly, how can I raise my son to be a man?
There are some also evidences from the Sunnah that shows us how can we raise our children to be men number one.
Give them a nickname from a young age.
I will feel like you know, like Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he used to take us to tell Ahmed Yeah, but no higher. You know because he is
Have a small bird he called him you are the as if he's telling him you are the father of that bird. So give your son a really masculine nickname. Second
relate to them. Stories of the sahaba. of victories of Islam about courageous men of the past. Salahuddin Ahmed top Omar bin Abdulaziz tell them these stories to look up to these people. Because all they look up to right now is sports figures and actors and musicians and Subhanallah third, teach the children to respect the elders and that develops manhood in a child. You tell them listen when every time you see somebody older than you respect them, speak to them gently help them
you yourself respect them in public in public.
show others how much you love your son. Praise them in public don't ever put your son down in public or even in private
greet them with salaam Dalits some people say or the you want the older one to greet the younger one. No, no no, it's okay. If it's been a lot of Salah say Solomon he used to see Fatima coming He used to sit her no you know next to him. Allahu Akbar
greet them with the same be the one who initiate the salon with them.
Take their opinion even though they are young. Baba What do you think of this? We are thinking of moving here we I'm thinking of buying this car you like this car or this car? What do you think? Tell me you know get their opinion. I'm thinking of
going to visit this place. Do you think it's nice it's worth it to go vacation over there you know, get his opinion. Let them get be involved. Give them small tasks to fulfill and then when they finish reward them.
Keep them away from
that have a lot of haram in it. Bring them with you to the masjid. If you are sitting in halacha let them sit with you in the Halacha and listen, be in the company of the righteous Subhan Allah. These are a few tips in sha Allah Tala to make our sons real men. May Allah subhanaw taala protect all our children. May Allah subhana wa Taala make us from the region from the real men that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran. I love you all for the sake of Allah Subhana Allah Allah, masha Allah Allah Allah and a stuffy Roca when a Toby like
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