Mohamad Baajour – 3 Steps To Solve Any Worry

Mohamad Baajour
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss three steps for achieving a wish: identify the " wishing point," trust in oneself, and have a clear mindset. They stress the importance of trusting oneself and not giving up on one's own success. Consciously drinking and drugs are also discussed, emphasizing the need for a donate to help others.
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a shirt

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how are you

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in Alhamdulillah Hina nada who want to stay you know when I started

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when I was a villa him in Cerulean fusina Women say Dr. Molina but yeah the hinda phenomenal Villa when a huge lil fella heard yella mashallah, in a hail Allah was the WHO luxury killer. Why should one know Muhammad and Ave who are solo? About Yehuda subhanho wa Taala he Kitab al Karim? Yeah he you have lady in

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LA haka to call it one attimo tune in

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Yeah, you should tell the lady halacha come in Hida Wirkkala come in hers. Oh Jaha weboth Semin humare, Gianna. Cassia Oh, and he saw

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he was

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gonna be even

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in nama hookah eco Moroccan Eva. Yeah, you're Halina Manuel Tacoma how Hakuna Kelowna said either use Lila Come on.

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Come on over come when they

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have also the Hadith, shuffles and Navin and thing that's local Hadith Kitab Allah located on the head you had you Mohammed in sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was shot on OMO Remo, the third to her were called Desert in beta. Or could it be that in Allah? Allah Allah Allah. Now, from that?

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My dear beloved respected brothers and sisters, I ask Allah azza wa jal to grant me a new deathless in everything we say and everything that we do. I mean, you're a man

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every single one of us

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have a wish that

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he or she would love to be fulfilled

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or a worry that he or she

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would love to be removed.

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Today in sha Allah Allah

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we will mention three steps.

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Today in sha Allah we will move we will mention three steps

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if they

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are followed sincerely

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the wishes will be fulfilled

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and the worries will disappear.

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First step, which is the easiest step

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the wish

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that you want to be fulfilled or

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the worry that you want to be removed.

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It could be a financial problem, it could be a sickness, it could be a marital problem. It could be problems at work, or it could be that you want to graduate from college with distinction. Or it could be a person that you have in mind that you want to get married to whatever it is, identify what is it that you want? What is it that you want to be achieved? And what is it

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that you want to be removed? You want that difficulty to disappear. What is it identify it? That's the first step.

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Put that thought in your mind

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and concentrate on the next step. The next two steps, especially the second step

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which is the toughest one among the three

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tell yourself the second step. Tell yourself

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yeah, Allah

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I entrusted you

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in solving that problem.

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I have entrusted you in achieving that goal.

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When we travel, we all traveled. I gave this example before because it's relevant when we travel.

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None of us go to the cockpit.

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Excuse me pilot.

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How many hours of training did you fly?

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Did you have any drugs last night? How long did you sleep? Did you drink alcohol?

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Anybody have done that? Never complete 100% trust in a complete stranger.

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30,000 feet above the ground.

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And he could be an Islamic islamophobe

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complete trust in a stranger.

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Multiply that by a million times when you are making the second step.

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Multiply that by a billion times when you are making the second step. Yeah, Allah I entrust you with that sickness that cancer that I got ya Allah I entrust you to cure it. Yeah, Allah that masters I want to achieve I entrust ya allah you're gonna help me achieve it.

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Yeah, Allah that problem between me and my wife. Yeah, Allah I entrust you to solve it

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this step

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is an action of the heart. Amyl kalbi.

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This step is an action of the heart.

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That's why

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it's a little harder to achieve. Just like when we are or we hear a lot about having a shoe and solid, right? It's not like click, and the next a lot you will have for sure. It's literally a lifetime of training to achieve the shoe and the salaat why? Because it's Amel kalbi, because an action of the heart. physical actions. Allahu Akbar, you shave your head when you come back from Ramadan. Very easy, but that amount of the collude are the real test of our iman

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So this is an animal kalbi. This is an action of the heart. So that's why it needs some work.

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So you put all your thoughts in that matter

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accompanied by complete trust in Allah azza wa jal

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entrust Allah with that worry, or that goal, and if you do it right, you will feel the ease and the comfort already.

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If you do it well, you already feel

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if you do it sincerely, instantly, you will start feeling some comfort.

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This step has to be must be established, before we proceed.

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We want Allah subhanho wa Taala to see that our hearts, not just us, our hearts are attached to him.

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The first step was between you and yourself. The second step is between you and the source of comfort.

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The second step is between you and the source of peace. It's between you and the one who said we're Imin che in 11 then,

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you know,

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the second step is between us and the one who said there is nothing except I have its source.

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Money, I am the source sickness, I am the source of cure. worries, I am the source of peace and comfort.

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azza wa jal is the source of relief.

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I want to make sure that this step is clear. Before we proceed. I'll give you an example.

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Let's say someone came to me and said,

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Jeff, I have a $30,000 debt.

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And this that is keeping me sleepless, especially after I heard the Hadith, that the person stays punished in the grave until the debt is paid.

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Is there anyone you know that can help me?

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Please, I want you to put yourself

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in place of that person asking.

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I said yes.

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I know a guy who's a multi billionaire.

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And extremely, extremely generous.

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many people approached him

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and he paid off their debt

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How do you feel?

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You're ready, felt good. Allahu Akbar, the sorts of religious coming

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closer, right.

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Rich, generous, and he helps people Allahu Akbar, and you know him.

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So my problem is solved.

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You did not even meet the guy.

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You did not even speak to the guy.

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But because of the description I gave you,

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you already felt the comfort.

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Multiply that by a billion times.

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you are now dealing with the rich himself.

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You are dealing with the generals himself Alleghany himself, Al Karim himself, not a rich guy. That guy could change his mind that guy could get bankrupt. That guy might not like you. But here in this second step. I am putting my trust in Devaney himself.

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In the one who said file to Lima, you read, I can do whatever I want in the one who tells something couldn't and it is.

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That's why the second step is extremely important.

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When we deal with a human being

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just like we felt comfort when I told you about that guy, when we deal with a human being spamela

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We feel we feel good

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when I said to the guy that there is a guy rich this this and that he felt so good but when I said, Brother, Dr. Callahan Allah put your trust in Allah give it a shot. I'll try.

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This is this is the main problem.

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When it comes to Allah azza wa jal we say let's try when you say let me try it it's not going to work.

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For example, when masala is said and said, If you have any ache in your body, Hadith 100% authentic, put your hand say Bismillah three times Allama. Now the big Steadicam latika Michelle Rima as you do our hazard seven times. Let me try it. It's not going to work.

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If I have complete trust that the one who told me this is the one layer young Declan, Allah does not speak from his desire. In Hua, Tian, you ha, it's a revelation when I say it in that with that mentality with that mindset, it will work. But if I say it, let me give it a shot. It's not gonna work.

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Man came and he said,

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Oh my God, Allah Han he used to every time he had a headache, he used to put his hand and read the fatty hand disappears. So the men tried it. It didn't work. So they're heavy.

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The fact that has the Fatiha but that was almost and that was you. You're just saying it because you want to try it. You have to say it with your cane with your kin was certainty.

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Allah azza wa jal himself told us in the Quran, you read Allah and you're Kofi Frankel.

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Allah azza wa jal, he told us that Allah wants to ease your burden. Allah told us, you read Allah who become a user, whether you need to become Rasul, Allah with ease for you. Allah does not want hardship for us. When he Allah subhanaw taala prescribed something and some of the some of our youth they complain, it's too hard. No, no, no, Allah will not. will not ask us to do something that we cannot handle and then punishes us because we did not do it. Impossible. That's not the way dude. That's not the Rahim. That's not our hammer rahimian.

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After this second step, if you do it right, you should instantly feel a lot of relief because Allah azza wa jal said, when a yet our killer Allah Allah for Hua hospital

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because Allah azza wa jal, he said, whomsoever put his trust in me, I am sufficient for him. I'm sufficient.

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Can you imagine if you're, if the king of one of those countries stood up here, whatever you want.

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I got it. Like,

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if you relieve right away, and then Allah azza wa jal said, when they eat or what Kilala Allah for Hua hospital, we have doubt.

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Whomsoever put his trust in Allah, Allah has been sufficient for him or her.

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Now we come

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to the third step.

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I thought about the matter.

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I did my best to put complete trust in Allah azza wa jal.

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I have no doubt that Allah will fulfill my wish and relieve my worries. Now, the third step,

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take by the means.

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You thought about it, you put your trust in Allah. The third step take by the means, you are sick. You put your trust in Allah, He is the Shafi. Now go to the doctors. Take the medicine.

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You're looking for a job, apply. Find the different courses to

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meet a different career. Add to your knowledge, do something, do everything possible in your capacity. That's the third step.

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You want to get married you show that sister you go talk to their parents you place the hara

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take by the means to the best of your ability.

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the shirt the third step has a very important disclaimer.

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Even though you are taking by the means

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listen carefully. Your heart should not be attached to the means.

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But it should be attached to the rub of the means.

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Your heart should not be attached to the man

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Listen, your heart should not be attached to the doctor. Your heart should not be attached to the Rasta Your heart should not be attached to the means. These are just means.

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Because if the means failed, and you have complete attachment to the means, you will worry more and you will panic

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and you will be depressed and stressed.

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But if your heart is attached to the rock of the means, you will know that Allah azza wa jal even though it was not fulfilled, Allah kept it away from my path because I had to work on him and because he knows it's not good for me

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following these three steps will solve any worries colocado the stuff that Allah the stuff that will know all right?

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Smilla salatu salam ala mon learn to be

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the one who does not perform the third step. He's not a motiva kill is called an Arabic mutawa kill with an Elif is faked.

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If you say Allah is the chef Yeah, and you go to sleep, and you don't do nothing. This is faked our call.

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If you say Allah is the One who provide the risk, and you do not look for a job, you don't have anything, this is fake the workload you have to have, you must fulfill the third step.

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Now, someone might say I've done all three and nothing happened.

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One of two scenarios, either your Tawakkol was very weak,

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either the second step was very weak. And you had doubts. or Allah azza wa jal, because you have to work on on him, did not give it to you, because Allah azza wa jal knows the only one who knows the Unseen, and he knows that achieving that goal, fulfilling that goal for you was bad for you. Because you had to work cool.

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my brothers and sisters

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there's a sister, just to show you how you take by the means and even do all the three steps.

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A father called me yesterday about his daughter

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even though she's very young, but she's goes to dialysis every single day, and also ever had been through that. You know how tough it is. And at the same time for the people who do not go through that. Be extremely grateful that your kidneys are being washed by themselves, while people have to go through so much torture every single day. So the sister Subhanallah is patient and put her trust in Allah azza wa jal.

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And now she's taken by all the means she asked all her family members, they can donate

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a kidney.

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Nobody was available. Now he's asking me to ask you, if anybody has a kidney who would like to donate and help someone in this dunya. And in the action? He's taken by all the means, yeah, Allah I'm taking by the means.

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This is the way it's supposed to be.

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I do not just say, I wish or I'm worried, and I go to sleep.

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Put your trust in Allah and take by the means.

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And finally,

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Anytime you're going through any kind of difficulty?

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Any kind of worries.

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You ask yourself two questions.

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Two questions. Number one, does Allah know about my worry?

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And the answer is 100%. No doubt. Number two, can Allah solve my problem?

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And the answer is

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100%. No doubt. So what's left in the middle of the night?

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At the time of tahajud, in the last third of the night, you're up, you're Allah. Yeah. Kareem ask, he knows and he can solve it. And he's the only one that can solve it beg, beg Allah azza wa jal. Unfortunately, a brother came and was I could not understand his problem because of the crying. Yeah, he calmed down. After he calmed down and he told me the problem. I said, Habibi, do you want solution for this? He said, That's why I'm here.

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I said okay, you see those tears?

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You see those tears?

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You're fucking crying to ever hear a poor man crying to another poor man. Have the same tears in the middle of the night in your seafood and beg Allah azza wa jal who has the cure. When it comes to each other, we cry half an hour, 45 minutes expressing my feeling and when it comes to seafood, I'm allergic to the carpet. One second 10 seconds I'm up. He came after three weeks and Allah has my witness said yes, yes. Anybody who has any worries, tell them to make sure that the last third of the night and do not lift your head until you're done.

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All my problems were solved.

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You're not dealing with Bajwa

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you're dealing with Allah with the Kadir himself

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go to Allah with a full heart

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with complete trust with sincerity yah. Yah Rob you're the only one who could solve my worries ya allah fix my affairs with my wife. Yeah, Allah fix my affairs with my parents. Yeah Allah I need a job yeah Allah I need a child. Yeah Allah I need this I need that Bismillah you are asking the Karim himself.

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Identify the problem. Put your trust in Allah and take by the means and isn't Allah Tala. You will see miracles

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Hassan Joaquin I live and now I've done a lot of collusion bad data now what happened to him and let him Kurama in cantilever hub or SallAllahu ala Nabina Muhammad while earlier he was on the edge main or como de la sala

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he's come from the main from the hallway and the two rooms in the back and fill up the main hall close the gaps

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close the gaps if you see a spot in front of you please fill it up

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for two foot shoulder to shoulder look down make sure that he is on the line sisters please do the same

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Allahu Akbar

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a shudder

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a shed

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all Haryana sala de la bella God

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to karma is slowly

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along about on long like button

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still hola hola como

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Alhamdulillah in Europe bill and me in a rock you're rocking? Maliki oh me doing he can now go do it. Kind of staying you know sweet all told him was stopping steppin Serato levena And

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all you really know do we have him on screen

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while also lastly in

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sun Allah He hosts in levena

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Last time I was home you didn't have to do so this

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sent me en la Hanuman Hamidah

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love my Quran

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hola hola como

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more work on

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Hola husana Lemme le doin a Muna while Amir Kula whom Khufu one

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sent me unlawfully human Hamidah

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hola Lehkonen

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um Mark McEwan?

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Astana Amani come

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shot on your way out you could donate anything to the masjid inshallah Tada. You all know that the masjid operates on your donation, may Allah bless you and protect

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