Wisdom of Luqman AS #4

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Hola Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam O Allah.

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Muhammad Rasul Allah is Allah Allah Allah he values that we can learn from the advice that a Ceylon gave to his son.

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And in this context I mentioned to you what Allah subhanaw taala told us in the Quran before he mentioned to him.

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Now, when we

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look at this advice of Allah Subhana, Allah, that Allah subhanaw taala advised us to be grateful, when Allah subhanaw taala when you mentioned earlier salam, he said, that we have given, we have given we had given the quantity salam, Al hikmah, which is wisdom. And then Allah said, and we said to him, and escuela, we said, Be grateful to Allah subhanaw taala.

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So when we look at his gratitude, what does it mean? What do we need to do? How do we

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measure this in our own lives? Now,

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I mentioned to you the example of your friend giving you a nice car, his car to drive. So here is something the exactly the principle there is that you are being given the use of something that does not belong to you, you would love to use it. It's your dream to use it, you need to use it. But and it's being given to your friend, the person who's giving it to you is not charging you for it. He's not, he's not renting it out to you.

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He's just giving it to you for free.

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But how do you use it in that case? How do you use that thing, if you use that thing in a way, which is detrimental, which is destructive, which is something which

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is harmful to it may be harmful to you also, but it's also harmful to the thing that is given to you, and you damage that thing and you misuse it, then obviously you are accountable before the person who gave it to you and you are if that person wants to, you know if he gets angry with you, then there is a reason for that. So, applying the same principle in our lives, let us see what do we do with what Allah gave us.

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Let us just take one of the faculties that Allah subhanaw taala gave us without which life will be very difficult. I don't say life will be impossible, because life will go on. But life will be extremely difficult. And that is take the faculty of eyesight. Now, if we did not have eyesight as somebody who is blind, and they can't even explain to you and you even if you ask somebody who is blind, what does it feel like to be blind, I am not advising you that they can't explain it to you what you can do to experience that is to blindfold yourself, blindfold yourself, have a friend who can be and then go for a walk or have a friend

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who can be with you.

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Even you know hold your hand and guide you

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so that you don't injure yourself. But that friend, tell that friend to be silent and say nothing. You walk around blindfolded in the place, which you would like to walk in. So maybe there is this beautiful park or you know, whatever. And

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or watch if you're watching

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your favorite TV,

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blindfold yourself. Now you might say well, what's the point in blending blindfolding myself and sitting there?

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If I if I'm watching television, that's that is what will give you an idea of what it feels like to be blind. I'm not asking you also to put your lights you can still listen to the dialogue. But you What do you think it does to the experience of watching that show, if you are only listening to the sounds, and you are unable to see the sights. Now this is the value of a very simple way of valuing sight size. sad sight is much more than this because

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thanks to sight, we are able to read we are able to

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you know appreciate what we read, we are able to see things which we love to see we are able to do all of these things. It's all because of you know of sight that we are able to see. I mean even if we as I mentioned before many times, even if you had black and white sight, even if you didn't have color vision, you would still see things perfectly clearly. But the joy of seeing that thing in full color would be Tonight you will not be able to see that. So life in black and white is different from life in full color. You could have sight which is partially up to

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two allow you to function but it is not, you know clear 2020 vision and those of us who wear glasses and you don't have to go

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Fargo discovered that the day you misplace your glasses,

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then you're fumbling around in trying to find them all of this is

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this should give us an indication of the value of what Allah subhanaw taala gave us. Now,

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the as far as the

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issue of, of being grateful is concerned, therefore

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the I let me ask you to do a little exercise and that exercise is that write down the name of the blessing. What is this blessing that you have this blessing, maybe one of your faculties and maybe some thing that Allah has given you, maybe your authority and position maybe your wealth, maybe your health, maybe members of your family, maybe members of people who know your friends, whoever, whoever you consider to be a blessing, right? And a number one, top of the top of that list, I would write Rasul Allah is Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah. So here is the blessing. And then next to that second column, make a make a table with three columns, three columns. So first column is blessing.

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second column is, how do I use that blessing? So this blessing has been given to me, for me to use, I need it, I love it, I can't do without it. How do I use that lesson? So I was talking about I said, Let's stick with that. Here's my side.

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Which is a blessing wireless router. How am I using it? Meaning Am I using this blessing in the way that Allah Subhana? Allah wants me to use it? Or am I using it in a way which incurs the displeasure of Allah subhana wa Tada.

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And then third column?

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What do I need to do now?

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Given that I have this blessing, it hasn't been taken away from me it is there. And given that I use it in a way,

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whatever that ways, then third one is what? Therefore what do I need to do about this? Now?

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If I'm using this blessing in the best possible way, that Oprah and hamdulillah ask Allah for Easter comet, ask Allah subhanaw taala to give you the strength to continue to do that, because we keep changing, but inshallah We ask Allah for, is to come. And we continue. But if I find that I'm using this blessing, in a way that a lot of man have done, or did not allow, not prescribed, in a way that Allah subhanaw taala that makes Allah upset that Allah Subhana Allah will dislike this and displease him, then I need to change and that change, what is that change? So when I say I need to change the way in which I am using this blessing, what does that mean? Like, what does that mean? What am I

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going to do? So I think let's do that. Let's do that as a

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exercise.

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And, and then and then try to see what changes we can bring about. Now whenever I've tried to do such a thing, this exercise, what strikes me is the sheer magnitude and the number of blessings that Allah Subhana Allah has given me and I'm sure that you will all feel the same.

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Love mentioned this, Allah subhanaw taala said when in doubt, do not lie to her. So her and I said, if you try to count the blessings of Allah, you will not be able to count them, I'm talking about being thankful for them. So if you can't even count the number of blessings, then how can you be thankful for them, but inshallah we make

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rewards and he's the only one who rewards us for effort, the whole world is will reward us or may reward us for results. A lot of the times, even if you get the result, you still don't get the reward. But in many cases,

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you'll get the reward if you show the results, but never when you are simply making an effort. So effort when effort is rewarded. This has been alight only from a lot smarter. And so we ask Allah subhanaw taala to help us to do things which are pleasing to Him.

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And then let us bring us this exercise to bring about

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change in our life. So I request you to do this exercise today before you go to bed.

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I heard the sound of the Horn of a car wandering in America they don't honk.

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Now, this tendency of being ungrateful, Allah subhanaw taala mentioned this tendency that we human beings have to be ungrateful. Allah mentioned it many times in the Quran. In surah, Allah subhanaw taala said what our karma cannot come from

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de jure Allah, Allah confy Hama Ayesha kalila mata Quran, Allah subhanaw taala said which means and surely we gave you authority on the earth and appointed for you there in provisions for your life. Little thanks to you give a blessing I gave you power I give you authority, varying degrees. Some people have authority over themselves. Some people have authority over their families, some people have authority over communities. Some people have authority over countries, some people have authority which comes from love, from the respect that people give them some people have authority to the barrel of a gun.

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And unless and then we give

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you not just your authority, but we gave you provisions for your life gave you well to give you health we gave you all that required for life. But little thanks, God. ask Allah subhanaw taala to save save us from being ungrateful, as I mentioned in the earlier lecture, unless Montana mentioned this tendency of being ungrateful wareness Mandela said Be grateful to Allah subhanaw taala lane Sha khardungla z denicola in Cabo tominaga Villa de de la said that the one who is grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala. If you are grateful to Allah, ln Shakur, to man, if you are grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala as Eden, Verily Allah will increase the blessings that He has given Allah in

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Coppertone in relation to you and if the person is ungrateful than Allah Subhana Allah said, if you are ungrateful, then beware that my punishment is severe.

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So you ask Allah to save us on punishment. So let's try to be as grateful as we can, then Allah subhanaw taala answer the moon Allah sallallahu alayhi insha Allah como Samar, Allah busara, one of either Kali llamada school, Allah said it is he, Allah Subhana Allah Jalla delectable Who has created for you the sense of hearing and the sense of sight and hearts with understanding but little is the thanks that you give.

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Then Allah granted us here in Zurich says that full Massawa who was enough of a fee me Rohit rajala, Rocco summer Allah avasarala, Frieda Dockery, la Motta school, Allah said then he fashioned him meaning Allah fashion the human being, he's a little who fashioned him meaning the human being into proportion and breathed into him the soul that Allah subhanaw taala created for him and he gave you and just La Jolla de la Lu says he gave you hearing years he gave a sight eyes and he gave you hearts with understanding. But lately is the thanks that you give. And then sort of the little gala telesat falola De Anza acoem why Giada looking was summer I love Assad I want a free data. Vanilla

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Moscow Allah said why he say it is he jealous a lot of who who has created you and endow you with hearing

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factor to hearing and sight and hearts little thanks.

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When it's important to express thanks to Allah subhanaw taala who already knows the state of our hearts, Allah subhanaw taala knows whether we are thankful we are not thankful. But still when it is so important to express thanks to Allah subhanaw taala

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think about how important it is to express thanks to people

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who don't know whether we are grateful or not. We may assume that they know but they don't know. Only Allah knows the state of the heart. Yet Allah Subhana Allah told us to be thankful to him to express that thanks not just to be there, it deserved my heart not to express the thing through worship of Allah subhanaw taala to thanking Allah Samaritan authorities dig through obedience to Him delegated, and how much more important it is to tank those who are ruthless, those who give us those who help us those who

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go out of their way to be good to us. The problem is we take for granted things which happen on a daily basis we take for granted, especially our families, right how many, how many wives times their husbands for dedicating their entire lives to the welfare of the wife. And here the situation which is

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which is so amazing. I am not going to say anything critical about that. But it's so amazing, that here is a man who and this is true for for you know for all husbands, Mashallah there is somebody who is in an abusive relationship and so on. I don't mean that but most people are not offended. So here is a man who dedicated his entire life, to your welfare, to this to his wife's welfare, whatever you can

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He spends his 40 years 45 years of his work, like if he's in employment, if he's self employed in the whole of his life until he drops dead, his only focus is that my wife and children should be fine. Should be well, and he is, I know people and in some in some times you and I have been dead, which is that you work in jobs which are rigid, you don't even like you work for people you discuss what is the secret? Absolutely detest. Yet, you do that because you are afraid that if you lose your life, if you lose your job, then it will bring hardship to the family. Now, of course, under law today and the law for a long time now, more sense than that. And we know that only allies are

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examples of hotel Mateen. It's not the job which is feeding us or Allah did not say that in order to,

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to look after your family and or eat, necessarily, you must take abuse from somebody, no, we don't have to do that. Well, Alhamdulillah, we can work with dignity. And Allah told us to work with dignity, Allah subhanaw taala gave us our provision, without,

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you know, without making it compulsory for us to debase ourselves before anybody, so we don't need to do that. But people do it, we will do it all the time. That's how a lot of companies with very abusive cultures continue to be in existence, a lot of managers who will treat their people continue to be in existence, and that man comes back towards the next one, even though he's being ill treated. And the reason he's doing that is because he has a wife to take care of, he has a family, and it's got children to take care of, in some cases, it may be others may be mother, father, whoever. So the point is here is a situation where a man is dedicated his whole life to the welfare

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of his family. Question is, how grateful is that family? And how many times have you seen the children or the wife, or even the parents for that matter? The fact that your son needs to do something, and it is his duty is a different issue. I mean, we are not denying that. But how about consciously and saying thank you to them? Might as they criticize people in the West, and we say, Oh, they have this Father's Day, Mother's Day, today, incidentally, is Father's Day here 21st of June,

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and Muslims very,

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quite, quite wrongly, but very, you know, in a pompous way.

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We say, Oh, you know, we don't need any fathers. Because we know so our fathers everyday, you know, that, you know, and I know that that's a that's a lot of you know what,

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you do not serve your father everyday. And I'm not saying you abuse your father every day, you may not do that. But don't say you serve your father every day. So if somebody is celebrating a particular day doesn't mean that they are neglecting their parents all all their lives. Now, I have seen some of the people here whose

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whose treatment of their parents is absolutely unbelievable. I mean, I can't even begin to imagine how,

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you know, when I see you, I'm not talking about tsmc, what I've seen in our eyes, how they treat their parents, how beautifully they treat their parents. So the point is that it's human beings and human beings. It's not white people, black people, brown people, it's a shoe of individuals, that are good people and bad people everywhere. So here I'm saying the how thankful are we to the people around us, same woods, husbands to wives, I just talked about the importance of being grateful to your husband, to the breadwinner, breadwinner of your family.

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Same thing for the wife, I mean, here is a woman who has dedicated her life to you. Right, and she is responsible for the fact that when you come home, there is a meal to eat, there's a hot meal to eat the house is looks beautiful. Everything is in place, right? Everything is taken care of all your basic needs, which you might take for granted. And most of us do take it for granted, are taken care of, for example, there are clean clothes in the closet that they didn't grow there. Somebody took the trouble to wash them and dry them and iron them and fold them and put them there and try and do it one day. You see what you see the fun. It's not that you can do it or not. You're not

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paralyzed. But it takes a lot of time and energy and effort. And somebody is doing all of that for you. Somebody's cooking your meals, somebody who's cleaning your house. Even if you've got seven somebody supervising them, yeah, who's that somebody that somebody is away. So now how grateful are you to her how grateful I am to her in terms of, you know, expressing that thanks. I mean, this is something which is so critically important. So also take children, you have children, which and then you know from the time I mentioned this before, and I'll mention it again and again and again. How many parents completely changed their lives, the way they live their lives, where they live, what

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they do what activities they have.

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Engage in

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only because they have children. I've seen parents

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refusing, I've seen men refusing

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very lucrative career moves, because they have children. So because they can't they the children are going to school in this particular place. And they are doing well everything settled. So the father deliberately takes a decision to say, I will not take this career move what I'm making money now I can't making enough and I need to spend time with the children.

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Right. So it is the question, the question to the children is how many of you express gratitude to your parents? How many of you actually thankful parents take your mother than any kind of the work the mother does for the children is so enormous and so

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substantive that Allah subhanaw taala himself mentioned, Allah subhanaw taala said, just a pregnancy alone, Allah subhanaw taala said that she carries you

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in difficulty after difficulty,

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you know, and the kind of pain I mean, really Allah subhanaw taala thinks forgetfulness is the mercy of Allah, forgetfulness is a huge mercy of our life, we remembered

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the bad things, if you remember the things that happened to us, and we are unable to forgive for to forget them, believe me, life would become impossible, right would simply become impossible. But Allah subhanaw taala allows us to forget, and one of the things that Allah allows us to forget, is he allows the woman to forget the pain of childbirth. Because here's the thing that if a woman can recall what she underwent, when she was in labor, no woman would ever have a second chance. First one happened, I didn't realize what I was going to go through. But that memory will stick in their mind such that no woman will ever have a second child. But we won't have more than two children.

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Because I'll make them forget. So they don't remember the pain that they went through. And so the human race is propagated. So question of how thankful Are you so not as good as the salami talking here about not making a you know, whole list of the number of people in our lives who we need to thank. So I got mentioned, for example, those who serve you on a day to day basis. And not I'm not talking about those who serve you. Occasionally. I mean, when you go somewhere, somebody opens the door, and it goes on like the other day we went to eat out in a restaurant. And we were looking for the year, they

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still don't have restaurants with eating outside, but they are eating inside, but they have permitted people to restaurants open with outdoor seating, in outdoor seating, this is summer in America, so it's not cold, but the sun is extremely hot. And because, you know we live in here we are in a place where the atmosphere is absolutely clear. The rays of the sun has nothing to stop them from hovering, hovering around you. And it's a lot of ultraviolet radiation.

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So you need a roof, literally a roof over your head.

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So we are looking for a place where we could have some shade and all the there was a big shed, and which there were tables. And then there were tables outside. We which were in the sun. So the only table which was there was one outside so we went and sat there.

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And then you also have to stand in a line maintaining social distance, and then you get to a counter where you order your food and then either someone brings it to you or you go and collect it when they call out your name or number. So this whole process has to be gone. So so I

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was looking, I just locked in to see the tables in that under that shed to see if anyone looked like they were going to finish and leave. And there was nobody.

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So anyway, I went into the line for the food. And a little while later about five minutes later.

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A white woman comes and she waved to me she calls me and when I go there she said I'm going to leave this table is empty. I I saw you were looking for tables. Please come and sit here. Now here are the is a is a person who I have never seen she's never seen me. I don't know who she is. I'll more than likely never see her again. And even if I do see her I don't think I'll remember who she was. But she's just being good. She's just being nice to me for the sake of being nice. Obviously I thanked her profusely, but I'm saying that how thankful are we to people who add value to our lives no matter how small that value might seem to be. So here, a solo seller mentioned this and

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in the huddle

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la, la, la,

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la, la La yes coronas. Allah. I never said, Oh, whatever the law no reported that also like I said he has not thanked Allah who has not thanked the people he has not thanked Allah who has not come to people with some of his aid, or the alarm reports

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that Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said, Whoever said jazak Allahu khairan to anyone who has done him a favor, he has thanked him in the best way and this is until mid May Allah bless my South African brothers and sisters

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jazak Allah is something I think the South Africans or South Africans are famous for having made two

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statements global. One is Jazakallah exact largest retailer.

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In South Africa, even the bigger city, there are people who are begging on the street and if you give them some money doesn't jacala so everyone is learned digital, and the other one is uma Mubarak. I don't know where they got digimarc from. But today It seems to have become,

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you know, global everybody. Somebody asked me to do that.

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I said if you if you consider that to be a religious obligation and do it then maybe it is but so there's like Alaa and Gamal Mubarak, these are the two

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contribution of contributions of South African Muslims to the world. And of course, many more of them are the most generous people in the world man. just mentioning this, you know, jokingly So, as far as the

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question of Jazakallah fairuza mentioning this because we say thank you, we say to Korea, we say to Quran, you know and so on. So what Why do you say that when you have something which is better, which is jazak Allah, so say Jazakallah Hellfire and Jazakallah khairan Catherine, you don't have to know a great deal about me just just saying Jazakallah or jazak Allah.

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May Allah give you the reward and I'll give you the best reward. This is why we selected himself. If a person says that, then he has tanked in the best way. And this isn't really a Java rodella hana reports that are soulless, RSM said whoever receives a favor should respond to it right away, if he can find the one who did the favor. If he cannot find him, then he should praise the one who did the favor. Actually, by praising him he thanks him. Whoever does not respond to a favor is ungrateful.

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Sometimes something may have may be given to you may happen to you. And the person is there immediately thank the person don't do anything before you sign the person. In the other cases, a person is not there. You don't know who did that. So talk well about them talk well about those people talk well about the mentioned this to people, so that people become aware that there are such good people in the world who are so generous in innovation by I will say the coup de Delano Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam said the one who does not thank people does not give thanks to Allah subhanho wa Taala either and this is in Dermody and a Buddha

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in the books of the middle. Now, while homeschooling us, let me assure you that

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now

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he explains they had these two aspects. He says the first one he said the reason of conclusion made by an advisor seldom is as follows. Humans can give thanks to Allah subhanaw taala, obeying Him and following his orders strictly. And that is Incidentally, the way to give thanks. The example that I gave you of using the car to use that car properly in a way that would have pleased the owner of the car if he had been there is part of being grateful for the favor of being given that car to drive. In the case of Allah subhanaw taala it's not a question of saying, if he would have been pleased if he had known because he knows everything. So hard, he says around to lolly humans can give thanks to

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Allah subhanaw taala by obeying Him and following his orders strictly as one of Allah orders is to thank people who are a means of delivering and last from Hannover Taylor's bounty to humans, one who disobeyed this order is considered not to have paid his debt of giving thanks to Allah subhanho wa Taala for the boons endowed upon and the second point, he says is that one was ungrateful two favors of people and does not value them does not value thanking them grows the habit of not giving thanks to Allah subhanaw taala for the bounty, that he jellicle Allahu endow.

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upon us, and he denies it. In the sense Allah. Allah does not accept sugar, which is thanks to Allah subhanaw taala on its own, which is closely related to the shortcode, which is thanking of people. Now what can be clearer than this about the importance of thanking people, which in this case has been equated with thanking Allah, Allah yet which he received. Thank you listeners, all around us, and especially among Muslims, just monitor our conversations. You ask people about life, you ask people about, you know, conditions, and so on. Almost the first word out of the mouth is a word of thankless. It's a word of ingratitude.

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almost invariably, those who are

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those who don't do that.

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They are blessed, and melasma makers among those who are thankful.

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But generally, this seems to be the case. And I have experienced many times where, for example, you people, email me questions.

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And then that also in language, demands that instant answer.

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Short of threatening me, if you don't answer this question, I will kill you. They don't say that. But always short of that they have this. And then when I take the trouble and a lot of these questions are simple things, which if they did their own searching, they would find it. Find the answer, but they know they will ask me, but if I and when I answer them, they don't even have the courtesy to say thank you.

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Right, so what what kind of attitude? I mean, you ask someone and then you

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can't even bother to write one single line of thanks for what that person did because of your instructions. We comment on this in the West when we travel all the time, we find people are thankful, you know, they thanking bus drivers, doorman, waiters, including tipping them in the people take tipping extremely seriously, they will tip and they will also see this tip is 10% of the bill. It's 20% of the bill 15% of the bill. So they don't they don't simply put, you know, a dime on the table. They do all of this local people here in these Western countries. And we appreciate it. We when we see this we say you know how nice these people are. And sometimes we are the ones being

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tanked. So we we enjoy that. But the question is, how much do we do that ourselves?

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That's where people want to see Islam they don't want to listen to listen to stories about Islam. My question also, my brothers and sisters is that how many of us thank Allah subhanaw taala for us all right. Think about that. How many of us thank Allah subhanaw taala that he gave us Mohammed Salah Harrison, even though last minute Allah mentioned that as his Nana. He mentioned the fact that he gave us the result of Salaam as his Nana, how many people thank Allah subhanaw taala for this and say Alhamdulillah Yara, you gave me Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam as

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my Imam as my soul and I thank you for this and the way to thank Allah subhanaw taala

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in for giving us Mohammed Salah Salah is in two ways one and both are equally important one is to follow his Sunnah in everything that we say and do and the way we behave. try our best to follow the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, I know nobody's perfect, I know we all make mistakes, no problem

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and continue. But thank Allah subhanaw taala for the presence of Mohammed Salah Salam in your life by following Sonata Mohamed Salah Larissa. And the second way which you must do as much as possible is to send salatu salam Manasa, lots and lots and lots and lots of growth

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all the time, especially on Fridays, because that's what's been recommended, but not just on Fridays, but to

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keep it to keep your tongue moist with the vicar of Allah and one of the best as God of our life. Not the best is the road that we send on a sorcerer seller, because that is the Corolla, we are asking.

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And that is one Victor which also brings upon us 10 times the mercy and 10 times the blessing of Allah as many times as we send to rouge and Salam on the solar system. So that is right now Allahumma salli, ala Sayyidina, Muhammad wa ala Muhammad, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Majid along with barrigada Mohammed, Mohammed

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Ibrahim Ali born in the Gambia.

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The other thing is also to tango Solo Solo is when we hear the other is too deep.

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In the words of the gun,

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a lot more about a la, la la la la, la, la la la la la la, la, la La, La La La La repeat after the demoscene. And then the sorceress Adam said the one who repeats the words of the after the module, then send Salat and Salam on me. So then after you finish, repeating the words of the margin, then send rodano sarasa salam, and then make the dua alone might not be housing you down to Tama Osaka, de Muhammadan rasul Allah, Allah Allah,

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Allah de la

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make desire, asking Allah subhanho wa Taala to give the mahkamah Masha mode and and the greatest blessing and extrasolar citizen. Now numbers are seldom said the one who does that see the sequence repeating the words of the other after the moisson then

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sending the road on Rosaura Salaam and then making the door of the other if you do these three things, then inshallah inshallah Salaam said then though, for that person shall fight for him, meaning intercession for that person is watching on me. He said, it is compulsory on me that I will intercede for that person. So I think these are three ways and of course, maybe more ways to do that. But the more and more we do, and of course things like for example in

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those who those of you who can afford to do that, making one

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one

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Kobani who's here

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with the intention that the reward of that should go to a source of solemn This is one way making Hajj and Umrah for rasulillah salam is another way. I actually recommend this to everybody. If you once you're finished your fourth Hajj, first Hajj and after that, literally I mean unless you're doing hedge Haji battle, which is the hedge for somebody else meaning like a parent or someone if you are teachers or whatever who could not have done who had who had not done hedge those who could who are doing the other than that, if you're just doing the second has an attorney and May Allah give you the opportunity to go to his house again and again. Do all of those Hajj for socialism

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meaning May God Allah subhanho wa Taala but you're making Godzilla I'm doing such with the Nia that the Sahaba of this the reward of this should go to prison. Now you will get full reward for it and because you are giving this reward for salsa Salaam inshallah Allah subhanaw taala will made them make that Hajj perfect and accepted from you and the reward goes to

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sola sola Salaam for the war to placeholder water sources are in a key in accordance with degrees in Nigeria philosophy my recommendation to you to make all your highs once you're finished the first one is is yours response so that you can do that for anybody else. But after that do have a bottle for Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam was fine to do my recommendation do i'm not making a fatwa. There's not an issue of Allah. So if you like the idea, please do that. ask Allah, Allah to reward you and to enable us all to be thankful slaves. Ask a lot, be thankful. We have some more to go on this subject of thanks, inshallah, we'll take we'll look at that in the next session. But let us be

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thankful saves, because even at the level of

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you know,

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self interest, being thankful

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means that Allah will increase the blessing that he has blessed us with.

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Wa salatu salam ala Karim Allah Allahu wa sahbihi

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