HM Khatira #6 Manners

Mirza Yawar Baig

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The speakers discuss issues related to straightening the saff and the use of arrow marks, emphasizing the importance of shoulder to shoulder and building triangle. They stress the need to avoid shoulder-to-ship interactions and not bring devices into current sessions. The speakers also advise against spoiling busy schedules and not touching one's body while walking out of a bathroom. They stress the importance of washing one's feet and not touching one's body.

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Today I've got something for everybody.

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So those who are outside also, you might

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like to listen.

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Because I have been told many things by

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many people of what is going on here.

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So I thought today we'll dedicate you to

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this InshaAllah. Tomorrow we'll talk about this the

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paratawba.

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1st,

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straightening the Saf.

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He said,

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straighten and put your shoulders together and then

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your feet.

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Now we see this again and again. We

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see people

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especially it starts okay. Then after that, when

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after 8 or whatever people go,

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and then there are gaps and

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people are like they are grounded into the

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into the floor or something. You know? They

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they refuse to move.

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I mean, is you don't own that piece

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of real estate. Just move. Right?

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So move and stand shoulder to shoulder with

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your brothers. This is very, very important. Rav

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Sallallahu Alaihi wa Salam said, otherwise Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala will put

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conflict in your hearts. Shaitan will come between.

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Second thing is when they're standing in the

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surf, some people,

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they stand with their feet so far apart.

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Now you're not you're not there for a

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colonoscopy or something. Right?

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Feet to the level of the shoulder.

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Feet to the level of the shoulders.

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1st, the shoulder must touch. If your feet

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are so far apart,

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the shoulder cannot touch. You have to build

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like a triangle where the shoulder will be

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touched.

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So shoulders to be touched and then the

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feet. And secondly,

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next thing you know, the chap is stabbing

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my foot. Why he is stabbing my foot?

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No. Rasoolullah sallam said, touch the feet. He

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say he didn't just stamp my foot.

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Right? Find me the Hadith. Stamp the foot

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of Sheikh Hawar.

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Hajim,

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touch the foot. Okay. Don't stamp somebody's feet.

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It's very

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irritating. So shoulder to shoulder,

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feet.

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After that, let the foot touch. If you

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like, no problem.

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But soft

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forming of the soft. Very beautiful hadith.

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Hadith alaihi salam used to have this practice.

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He would actually walk in the soft from

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one end to the other to straighten the

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first.

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Sometimes he would carry an arrow and he

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would, you know, use the arrow like a

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leveling thing for this. And if somebody was

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sticking out, then he would gently poke him

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with the arrow to push him back.

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So in the detailed

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hadith of last

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khidab

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In that one of the parts of that

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he said to people,

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I'm here if I have hurt anybody,

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I am presenting myself for Chizas. So if

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I did anything to you, if I owe

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something to you, tell me I will pay

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you back. If I did something to you,

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come and do it to me. Right? Let

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us settle this course.

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So imagine that that whole scene, how it

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must have been all the cyber there. It's

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a very

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serious and a very somber kind of situation

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because he's speaking to them. Many of them

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know that maybe this is the last time

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because he has been sick for a while.

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But once

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I want my my my revenge.

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I have.

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You heard me.

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So everyone is shocked. He says, what kind

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of virus is this? So Ravi said, come.

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He came. He said, what did I do

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to you? He said, you put me

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with the arrow and it hurt

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me. So I I must get my, you

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know,

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return.

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So lifted up his

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shirt and he said, okay. So put me

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back.

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The man kissed him

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on his on his stomach

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and he said,

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I wanted this to be the last thing

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I do

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to go with me

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when I die.

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The straightening of the saff is a very

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very

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important thing. So please remember that. Second thing

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is

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the issue of I want to ask my

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brothers here. Can you give me that app

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which you have called?

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You know, the one that you have. Immediately

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after salah, you open the app and you

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see whether your salah is accepted or not,

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you you get

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a you get a message. Right?

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No?

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So give me the I I want to

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know if my salah is accepted or not.

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In me as

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And

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they are checking to see if the salah

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has accepted it. They get a message. Salah

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accepted.

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Repeat the salah.

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1st I got accepted, 2nd not accept. I

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mean, what?

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Have some you know, the is

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what?

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If there is no even

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in the salah,

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then where is it? Where are we going

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to find this? Where are we going to

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find peace of mind? Where are we going

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to find tranquility

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if you can't even find it in salah?

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So after the Salah, especially

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after the first Salah is finished, sit peacefully,

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leave the phone, right? Ideally, don't even bring

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it into the masjid. You don't need the

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phone here. Who's going to call you?

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Right?

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Leave the phone in your car or wherever.

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If it is in your pocket, leave it

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in the pocket. After your first salah,

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do the askar. Those are

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very, very important.

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Right? Do the askar. Make dua.

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Then you can look at your phone.

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But immediately as soon as the salaam salaam

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falls, what is this?

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So that is the

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the second issue as far as this phone.

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The third thing is,

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in Joah,

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the Khutba

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is

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of the same hokum as the salah.

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Normally,

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salah is 4 rakat. In Jummah, you pray

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2 rakat And the has the value of

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other 2, which means that the ada for

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the,

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the manners for the are the same as

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the salah.

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Which means that during the you are supposed

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to listen to the

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you are not supposed to speak.

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If somebody says you

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are not supposed to say.

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You are not supposed to read Quran or

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do or

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anything. Just listen to the

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hadith, the imam who's making the khudr.

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Including if you see somebody doing something wrong,

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do not even correct that person. Even that

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is wrong

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in during the Khutba,

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which is very very important.

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Now here we find not only here, this

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is a universal problem.

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People come in, How are you doing? Oh,

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fantastic. What?

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It's not a hangout place. Right? The Jumuah

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is not power or something. You're not coming

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to Jummah for internet.

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Come with the intention.

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It is Ibadah. Come with intention of Ibadah.

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Come with intention of learning something. Come with

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intention of changing yourself. Come with the intention

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that Allah will be pleased with us.

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Listen carefully to the khateep. Don't talk to

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anybody.

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Don't do anything

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but concentrate on that. When the Khutba is

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over,

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salah complete the salah, then

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your friend and so on is over. No

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problem. After after, it's good. We should meet

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people.

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Right? Even even even even tell the imams

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of the khadib, don't just go off home

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somewhere. You know? I mean, just hang around

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there, meet people and so on. Meet the

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other congregants who come because some people come,

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you know, to a masjid particularly only on

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Jumuah. Other times they pray somewhere else. So

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meet people. But in the time of the

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Khutba,

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nothing else.

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Right? Please

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make sure you do this. Don't spoil your

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own Ibadah. The thing I say to people

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is

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bless you. You take all the time and

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trouble to come from wherever you are. You

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drive, you spend gas and whatnot. You take

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time off. You come and then you ruin

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all the benefit

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that you can get from what what sense

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does it mean?

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After taking all the trouble I mean, if

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somebody is not giving, they're not giving. The

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company is coming and still is going from

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your empty. What does it make? What what

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sense does it make?

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So please don't do that. Right? Make sure

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you don't talk to everybody. Last and final

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thing, Tahara.

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Very, very important.

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Two issues there.

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1,

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one of my young brothers,

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he's making like this on on his two

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hands.

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You're asking why? He said because the carpet

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stinks.

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Why does the carpet stink? Because there's somebody

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who's put a straw jam on it.

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You know what straw jam. Right?

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That it those socks you wash you wash

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once in a year.

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I mean, you

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*.

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So you your your presence is there

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is there on the carpet maybe, you know,

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6 months after you got. I mean, please,

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I mean, people are making sajdah on that

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place.

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Why should a Muslim who who actually I

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mean, you make a no matter how, strong.

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You know, no no matter how strong you

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are, at least once in a day,

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So so wash your feet, man.

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Wash your feet. Wash your socks.

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Don't come with dirty socks, smelly socks, smelly

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shoes, and, you know, the carpet. And people

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are putting their face on the land. Please.

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I mean, really, we should we should have

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consideration for other people. Right?

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You can't even put your face because where

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you stand, your face is a different place.

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No. Please. I mean, jokes jokes apart. I'm

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sorry. I laugh at this thing. But seriously,

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please,

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hygiene is very, very, very important.

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You have beautiful budget, beautiful carpets, and so

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on and so forth.

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And then you go on to those carpets

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with dirty feet. What sense does it make?

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Now finally, this is the cabin one.

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1 of my brother, I I I won't

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I won't even look at him. I won't

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point at him so you don't know who

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he is. But he he told me 2

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days ago, he said people

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are urinating, and this refers to the to

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the boys here.

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He said people are urinating,

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standing up.

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So there is the smell of urine in

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the bathroom.

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There is spray on the on the toilet

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seats and so on very well.

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So he said, please mention it. Now I'm

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thinking how to mention this in the. And

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then today

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today,

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I was sitting on the throne

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and somebody comes

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into the next,

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into the next cabinet,

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and I see that he's standing. So I'm

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thinking he's gonna turn around and sit. He's

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not

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sitting.

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So I said, Sit down.

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Now he still did not sit up.

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Right?

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And then I see

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and then I see then I hear this,

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you know, this this, musical tingling

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of a waterfall. And

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and so on. I mean,

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really, you know, have mercy on yourself. Right?

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No matter how good you think your aim

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is, it's not that good.

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And secondly, even if it is,

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when liquid falls on liquid, it splashes.

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And you have you have sprinkled

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the whole toilet seat and the floor and

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your feet.

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Remember, there is a Hadith of Islam. He

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was passing by 2 graves,

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and he stopped there and he said to

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the people, these 2 are getting they're getting

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punishment in the grave for something which is

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really not very big.

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This is Yahushua. What is it? He said

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one of them is being punished in the

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grave because he did not guard himself by

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urinating.

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And so his urine used to splash on

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his clothes and his feet and the lost

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of Anathar is now getting punished in the

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grave.

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Right? So laughing is a different thing, but

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this is a very serious matter. Very serious.

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The other one he said is being punished

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for Namima, and Namima is carrying tails and

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so on and, you know, it's the another

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form of.

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So please,

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sit down. Imagine this is a beautiful masjid.

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The bathroom so clean, so nice. Keep it

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like that.

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And this is a this is zolam on

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the others.

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Right? You do whatever you do when you

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go away. The other person is coming that

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he expects the place to be clean. Now

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his clothes get soiled, his body gets soiled,

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and, you know, his is ruined because of

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you. Now this is zolom on the other

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person. Believe me, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

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accounting for all this.

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So please do not do that. Sit down

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and do what you need to do and

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make sure that before you leave the toilet,

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no matter how it was when you found

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it, clean it yourself.

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Right? Make sure the toilet is clean before

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you leave the toilet. This is very important.

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Every single one of us, we need to

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do this. You were saying something? The flip

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flops, they have to wear them so they

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don't carry the. Oh, yeah. That's another thing.

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People are people also walk barefoot into the

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toilet.

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They make and they come from from there

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into,

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into the prayer area.

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Really? I mean, these these are things I

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would do you really think I I have

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to sit here and tell you all this?

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You know, I mean, please don't do that.

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Wear those slippers.

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Make your hoodoo and so on. Leave the

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slippers there. Come out. Make sure your feet

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are dry. Feet are clean. This is a

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prayer area in our in our we have

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this is not a church. Right? In the

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in the church, you are sitting on a

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chair or something. Here, we put our face

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on the you put your face on the

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ground.

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Imagine somebody has walked there from the toilet

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straight and you are putting your face onto

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that. How

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how nasty is that? I mean, you know,

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it that's a horrible thing.

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And where is that happening in the?

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So please, let us not do all this.

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Let us be clean. Let us, you know,

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and we ask Allah

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to be pleased with us and to enable

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us to to,

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to have the best akhlaq, the best holoq,

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to have the best manners, the best consideration

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for each other, to have kindness for each

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other. And we ask Allah

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to accept all of this and to help

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us to be the way Rasoolullah, hissalalahu alaihi

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when we meet him, Insha'Allah.

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when we meet him, Insha'Allah.