Mirza Yawar Baig – Discipline

Mirza Yawar Baig
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of discipline and trustworthiness in life, rather than rushing after de cycles. They stress the importance of not delaying prayer or fasting, not being in a hurry, and not being in a position to do what is not a good deed. A recent incident where someone hit him with a hammer and was unable to leave their house is also mentioned. The speakers emphasize the importance of discipline and becoming productive in life, rather than rushing after de cycles.
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My brothers and sisters, if there is one

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word

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that

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can be said to spell

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the difference

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between success and failure, that word that word

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is discipline.

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One word between success and failure.

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That word is

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discipline.

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People who are disciplined succeed, people who are

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not disciplined fail.

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And it's a blanket statement that can be

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made across the board, whether it is

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in student life, whether it's in careers,

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whether it is farming, whether it

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is working

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in the religious field, whether it is working

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in politics,

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everywhere.

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People who are disciplined succeed. People who are

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not disciplined fail.

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What is the meaning of discipline?

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Discipline is

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a mark of self respect.

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It's a mark of being true to your

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word. It's a mark of being true to

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yourself.

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When you are disciplined,

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you produce

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consistent results.

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Not flash in a pan. Suddenly

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you got lucky, something good happened.

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Next day you did not get lucky, you

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failed. You don't know why you succeeded. You

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don't know why you failed. No.

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You are disciplined. You have a system. You

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know why you succeeded. If you fail, you

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know why you fail. You make the correction.

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You don't fail the second time. This is

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the meaning of discipline.

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So

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when you are disciplined,

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you are exhibiting

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self respect. It shows that you respect yourself.

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Number 1. Number 2,

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you produce consistent results.

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Consistency

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results

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in

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trustworthiness.

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If you are consistent

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you are trusted.

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If

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I am

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sure that if I tell you something, it

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will be done, then I trust you.

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So discipline produces consistency.

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Consistency

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produces trustworthiness.

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Trustworthiness

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to be trusted

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is the foundation

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of leadership.

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It's the foundation of influence. If you are

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not trusted,

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you have no influence. If you are not

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trusted, nobody will follow you.

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It doesn't matter if you have money or

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this or that. If you are not trusted,

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people will not follow you.

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And that is why Rasool Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam's

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title even before

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he announced his love is

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trustworthy.

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The truthful and the trustworthy

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comes from discipline.

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Now discipline, another word for discipline is structure

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is structure.

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Take our religion.

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This whole religion is based on discipline.

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It's based on obedience. Islam means submission.

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What is submission? Allah said, do this.

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We say, We hear, we obey. No argument,

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no

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running around here and there.

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The worship in this religion, what is the

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most important

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part of this religion after shahadah somebody enters

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the religion is

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salah.

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And what did Allah say about salah? In

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the salah

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Not whenever you feel like, oh, just now

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I feel very holy. I want to pray.

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Then time for father comes, I'm not feeling

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very holy. I'm feeling lazy. It's okay. No.

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No. No. No. No.

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No. Specific time. Whether you are feeling holy,

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not holy, whether you're feeling like worshipping, you

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don't feel like worshipping, you are tired, you

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are not tired.

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Tired.

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Allah said, wow, woe to the to the

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people who pray who delay their salah.

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And let's not say who miss their salah,

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who delay their salah.

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They asked themselves, what is the best deed?

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He said,

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The best deed is the first salah at

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its time

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without delay.

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One minute before the salah time starts, your

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salah is not valid.

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Yes. You can't pray before time.

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One minute after the time is over, it

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is.

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You can say, oh, you know what? I

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will wait so on so I'm praying. No.

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You can pray, but it's not the other,

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it's not the actual salah, it's the challah.

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We fast,

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We make suhoor.

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We stop eating 1 minute before the time

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for salatul fajr comes. You eat 1 minute

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after the time for comes, your fast is

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invalid.

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Breaking the fast as soon as the time

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comes, you break the fast. If you delay

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that, it is it won't spoil your fast,

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but it is it is not it is

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not something which is good.

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They go for Hajj.

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There is a date.

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There is a time.

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Right?

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If I go to, to Arafa

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and say it is convenient for me to

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go on the first of and I I'm

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standing there all day, what will happen? Nothing

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will happen.

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I'm supposed to be there when? For Hajj?

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9th of village. You might say, what is

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the big deal? 9th, 10, 5th. It's the

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same.

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No. No. No. No. This is not the

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deen. The deen is to do what Rasool

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Allah

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did as he did it, when he did

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it, at the place he did it exactly

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as he did it.

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Discipline.

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There is a there is a day on

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which you are supposed to be in Mina.

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There's a day on which you are supposed

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to be in Arafa. There is a time

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from this time to this time you are

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supposed to be in Arafah. Then you leave

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Arafah, come back to Musa Rifa from this

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time to this time. From Musa Rifa you

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come back to Mina this time to Everything

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is

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structured.

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Everything is structured.

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This is our need.

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You go for, salatul Eid, the rasul rasulam

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said, the the

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kurbani, the sacrifice must be done after

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the salah. If you slaughter the animal, same

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animal, same day, you slaughter the animal before

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you pray. He said this is a you

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slaughtered the animal for yourself. This is not.

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This is not. This does not fulfill the

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it has to be done after the salah.

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When do you give the fitra, before or

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after?

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Before.

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After you give it charity, you have not

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completed the requirement for the salatulid.

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Discipline.

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Before the salah or after?

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Before the

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salah. Before or after after.

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Abdul Malibin Warwar, when he was the Khalifa,

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Abu Sayed al Khudr was

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there in the in the congregation.

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So Abdul Malik bin comes,

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and he sets up the member before

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the salatul Eid, he gets on the member,

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he's going to give a.

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So Abu Saeed al Khudriya al Anu caught

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his his his Mishla. He pulled him down.

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He said, what are you doing? This is

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not the sunnah. He said, no. The sunnah

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has changed.

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This is how it will be done. I

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will say the query said no, this is

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not correct. This is this is

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Rasulullah said the Khudbah of Eid is after

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the salah, not before. Now why did Malik

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bin Barwon? Because nobody wants to listen to

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him.

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Right? Jabber.

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So he said, you put the people in

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the position now. For salatul lead, you will

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say, so I will talk to you.

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But after Eid, Khutba is

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Khutba is

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So

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people say, okay, I have to go, I

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go.

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He didn't want to do that. He's changing

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it. No, you can't change it.

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Discipline.

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But what have we done?

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We had an incident here recently, I think

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by like

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3, 4 days back.

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Somebody came here and said to me, I

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want to have Abdul nikka. So when shall

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I come? I said to him, come at

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545.

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He said I will come. 545, I'm here.

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Sheikh Abdullah is here.

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Everything finished waiting for the mat. No sign.

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So, okay, maybe he changed the mind. He

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doesn't want to who knows? That's his life.

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I went home, sir. Abdullah went home, Sheikh

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Abdullah has to go somewhere.

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Suddenly on his door hammering. He

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got his wife got worried. What happened suddenly?

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The man is standing there.

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This is crazy. I mean, you first of

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all, told you come at 5:45. You come

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late. He comes at 6:6:30.

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And then you come to my house, which

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is not the masjid, which is not the

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office. It is my house. It is out

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of bounds official work in the masjid. That

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is my private place. You are not supposed

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to come here. Then you are hammering on

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the door. You know what he says? He's

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a shirk.

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Out of time.

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Arab time.

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Who was Abhishekala Salam? Arab or non Arab?

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Arab time.

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You want to insult the prophet, sir, salallahu

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alayhi salallam?

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Clearly, seriously. I mean, he was Arab. No?

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Was he Palestinian or something or or Indonesia?

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No. He was Arab. So you are saying

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Arab time meaning his time. So you're insulting

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the and what was his own

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commitment every day? Rasool

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was so committed to time. They they used

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to say you can tell the time of

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the day by looking at him.

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One day a man meets him. He says,

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I want to see he has some question.

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Rabbi Sarwar said, Tim, come tomorrow. He said,

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I will meet you in such such and

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such a place.

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Now next day, Ravishara goes there. He stands

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there. He's waiting. His man is not too

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soon. Ravishara

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waits there for maybe half an hour, 45

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minutes, then he comes back. Next day, he

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goes on his own, same place, stands and

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waits. 3rd day, the man comes.

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I'm very sorry. I'm very sorry. I forgot.

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You your job, you ask the

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to come. He is waiting for you. You

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forgot.

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So I remind myself, when you please.

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If you want success in life, get disciplined.

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Make a structure for your day.

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Don't just live like, you know, we live

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like animals. We are just breathing, eating, sleeping.

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No. Make a structure for your day.

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What will you do? What time will you

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wake up? What will you do? What will

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you do? Wake up 1 hour before the

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time for Salatul Fajr starts.

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Pray the Hajjut,

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read 1 Jews of Quran,

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and pray

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and then start your day. If you need

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some sleep, go sleep after that for a

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while. Then get up and do the rest

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of your day.

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I tell the people when you get out

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of your bed, make the bed.

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Clean. Neat. It should look nice.

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Because if you go out and then you

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maybe you had a bad day. Right? At

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least you come back home, the bed is

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nice.

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Looks nice. It doesn't look like a, you

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know, garbage dump or something.

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Sometimes some people's homes, you go into their

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bed. I never go. But if you go

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into the bedroom, it looks like

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what happened in this bedroom?

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Everything crumbled and thrown like you know.

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Very very bad.

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Clean neat As soon as you get

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Do that.

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Your shoes always polished, always put in a

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particular place. Clothes are hung up in a

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in a certain place.

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These things remember,

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this looks like a burden.

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But if you think discipline is a burden,

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believe me,

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an indiscipline an indiscipline life which results in

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failure is a much bigger burden.

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Much much bigger burden. You have no clue.

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Much bigger burden.

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If you discipline yourself, you will become enormously

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productive.

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Enormously productive.

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Discipline. If you discipline yourself, you become enormously

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productive.

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If you don't discipline yourself,

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time will pass. Believe me, nobody has more

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than 24 hours in their life. Everybody from

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Rasool Allah to whoever.

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Everyone had only 24 hours. Nobody has 24

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hours in 1 minute.

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It's what we do with that 24 hours.

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People say time management. No. No. It's life

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management.

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You can't manage time. Time is time.

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Life how do you manage your life in

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that time? That's the main thing.

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So I remind myself, let's do that. Let's

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we are Muslims. Let's be like Muslims. Let

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us be disciplined. Let us structure our lives.

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Let us become productive so that our lives

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are a means of for ourselves and fathers.

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We ask Allah to be pleased with us

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and never to be displeased.

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