Mirza Yawar Baig – Akhlaaq of the Ummati #17

Mirza Yawar Baig
AI: Summary © The importance of remembering and reminding oneself of actions and behavior to avoid jeopardizing others is discussed. The "LAO to go into" and the "LAO to go into" are emphasized. The importance of focusing on one's health and choosing what one wants to stress about in life is emphasized. The conversation also touches on the potential risks of dams and the use of snow in the United States, as well as the impact of planting trees on one's health and choice. The segment ends with a disturbing story of a man abusing a woman who refuses to sell her tree, but she offers him a garden deal. The woman refuses to give any money to her brother and refuses to give her whole garden to him. The conversation becomes confrontational and the situation becomes complicated.
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Villa Rama Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam O Allah Shara filmbay will mousseline Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam just live in Basildon casilla

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my Devon sisters, we are looking at the clock of the Almighty of Muhammad Rasulullah sallallahu sallam,

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I remind myself in you about the importance of a clock.

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It is our

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we are known by what we do.

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Marry and Angelo, the great African American, right before this.

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She said a wonderful thing. She said that what you

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what you speak, people, I mean, I'm paraphrasing her.

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She said what you speak, people will forget what you do, they will also forget, but they will never forget how you made them feel

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that they will remember forever?

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And really, I believe, let me tell you, it's, it is so true.

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We will never forget how you made them feel.

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What does that mean? How does that translate back how you made them feel is your o'clock they will not forget how they perience to you as a person. And that is why it is so critically important for us to focus on our behavior to focus on our class, and to ensure that we never do anything which jeopardizes that.

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device is the effect of our behavior.

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I'm sometimes asked to speak to

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young students, students going to university to college and so on. And the thing I said to them is I say differentiate,

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what must you do? differentiate, stand out on the basis of something positive on the basis of something good.

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Right, stand out on the basis of something good.

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Because otherwise,

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you are like anybody else

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and nobody will remember you. And now you might say well you know why am I concerned let nobody let me I'm not talking about just remembering for the sake of rumor. I'm not talking about you know getting somebody writing your name in.

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I'm not talking about remembering for the sake of remembering I'm not talking about somebody writing a history book about you know,

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I'm saying that it is that effect which is also getting recorded with last Romano tala in his get up

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in your book of deeds, which is with Allah,

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your book of deeds, which the angels are recording, what are they recording, they are recording the effect of your behavior. So it's not a matter of remembering as in in the worldly sense. This is also the remembrance that we will take with us.

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A beautiful

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coal, a beautiful statement of say the Ayesha Siddiqa. delana or mother, the wife of Salaam, omo Omar uomini. She said that every person is an author.

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Listen carefully. She said every person is an author.

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And on the Day of Judgment, his or her book will be published.

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How beautiful is that saying?

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How beautiful is that saying? It's worth just taking that one statement?

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And sitting in silence and reflecting on it and say, and asking yourself, what am I writing in my book? I actually write books. As you know, I've written many books. So for me to visualize this is very easy.

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Because I write the book and then I read it I know I don't. I don't even know how many times but I read the book I spell jacket I copy I you know, I

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check the grammar and I see how I've written things and what should I put in what should I take out and so on and so forth.

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And throughout that the overriding fact, or overriding thought is this book must have a positive impact on my readers.

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That's what any author wants.

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to happen,

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he or she wants to be remembered in a positive way, he or she wants to sell their books. They want people to like their books, they want people to buy their books, they want people to promote their books.

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And so therefore, when they write, they are thinking from that what is the effect of this, or this word says I should say delana is warning us about and telling us that every single one of us, we are authors.

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And Allah has given it to us to choose how we wish to be remembered.

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She said, Every human being is an author.

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And his book will be published on the Day of Judgment.

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And Allah mentioned this in the forum, Nikita will be given to you right on your left hand, in the right hand or behind your back. I mean, both of these, these statements are there,

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the effect of our actions, and even myself when you let us not lose track of that, we were talking last week about the issue of tawakkol. The issue of the battle Romana, those who are,

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who have talked on a line I mentioned do that, what we talk about becomes real. And what we stopped talking about becomes unreal. And I gave you the example of COVID versus global warming.

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COVID is real blowing, global warming is also real, both are actually real. But if you if I asked you what is top of the mind reality for you, I'm sure you and me and everyone else

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will say COVID. Because this is something that we talk about, talk about, and we talk about and we talk about, and we watch it on television, and we are getting WhatsApp messages and you are constantly we have this thing. Nobody lets you sleep, nobody lets you forget that continuously this thing is going in your mind round and round enough.

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Whereas as far as global warming is concerned,

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nobody talks about it. And because nobody talks about it, nobody asks any questions about it. And because you don't question about it, you don't understand what it is.

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But talk to any person with knowledge and ask them which is a bigger danger.

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And invariably, they will tell you that global warming is a far bigger danger than COVID. Because COVID at the worst of it has an has a has a mortality rate of 1%, one and a half percent, which means that 99 people out of 100 nothing happens to them, even if they get COVID. Those who don't get are not even counted. We are talking about we're seeing 1% you're saying out of 100 people who test positive

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only one is likely to die from having COVID.

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The other 99 would walk free. And I know I know people who are cancer patients who walked free. I know people who are in their 80s. What free,

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completely cured.

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They had COVID some of them were in the ICU. Some of them were hospitalized for four weeks.

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They were in ICU, they were on oxygen, they were on ventilators and then everything was removed and they were discharged. They weren't too happy.

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So why are you so worried? Because continuously constant bombardment, COVID, COVID, COVID, COVID COVID? What about what about global warming? What is the ICAO to go into when those changes happen? When that hits the earth?

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There we are not talking about 1% mortality, we're talking about 100% mortality, we're talking about wiping out of the human race, you will finish you will not be there. Your children will not be there.

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But you're not concerned. Why? Because we don't talk about it. It's not real to us, even though both are real.

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Global warming is not real to us.

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apply this to the ACA.

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There's nothing more real than the ACA.

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Allah subhanaw taala talked about the ACA over and over and over again.

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rasulillah salam continuously reminded us about the accurate and also losses of divine intelligence

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as being focused on the accurate he said the most intelligent one among you is the one who is who remembers his death most often.

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He's not talking about being morbid.

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He's saying that is a sign of intelligence. Because what is death?

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Death is our meeting with Allah.

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That is Intel Carl from this Alamo Shahadah to that allemaal barsuk

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it is movement from here to here from point A to point B.

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That is not an Elysian that is that is not seasoned to ceasing to exist.

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You will live I will live, everybody will live

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except that our state of life will be different. Different rules will apply that's a different state of being this is a different state to be

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but it's going to happen. And so as Adam said the most intelligent one is the one who remembers that. So he or she can prepare for it.

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We fear death because we have done nothing to prepare for it.

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All our focus is on this life.

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me my health, my family their health.

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I must have a house of my own I must own my own house. I must have a job which is steady even though you know that there is no job that is nobody's giving you a lifetime job.

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No matter how steady Your job is, you are one letter away from being sacked or laid off or downsized or given voluntary retirement according to what call it by whatever name you want the fact is you don't have a job tomorrow

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just one letter

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one pink slip away from that everybody

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including CEOs

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you know this I know this

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what do we do?

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Yet what do we do?

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Yet we are focused on this like

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constant focus is that

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you know and I know as Muslims

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that there is an accurate

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you know that we will meet Allah, I know that I will meet Allah

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and then you and I also know that that live when it starts, it's not going to end.

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So if it starts good inshallah it will be good and there is nothing to worry about inshallah free from worry free from tests, free from success and failure because you will be permanently finally successful.

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falls on azima Allah subhanaw taala call it

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the best and the biggest and the most prominent of success.

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But and also you and I know that this is not automatic, this is not magic, this is not you know, a lottery. This is not frequent flyer points.

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Actually, it is frequent flyer points in a way because you won't get it unless you have like

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this is the result of effort.

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It sure Allah subhanaw taala multiplies that effect. Allah is giving one to 10 Allah is giving one is to 700

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and more.

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But Allah is not giving zero is to anything.

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That one has to be there.

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Do we have

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to be making an effort

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and we call ourselves Muslims. And our whole focus is only this dunya we talk about dunya dunya dunya dunya dunya who's talking about aka

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that is why it is so important for us to talk about the Hara and to continue to talk about the ACA. Allah subhanaw taala mentioned

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the acara board the board Jana and Johanna

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inserted inside and saw the walk and so many other places do read that reflect on it. See what a sorceress alum how he explained.

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The beauty of Jenna how he explained the the terrible situation of Johanna, we ask a lot of CEOs from the fire service from from Johanna allow my gentlemen are not

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my brothers sisters.

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I remember as a venue.

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That is stress free life is a fantasy. There is no such thing.

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happiness in life consists of deciding what you want to be stressed about.

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to live a life that has no stress. This is not possible.

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It's like saying I want to live without breathing.

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No, you can't do that.

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If you are living, there will be stress.

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But the choice we have is

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What is it that I want to stress about?

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Please notice are not saying, What do what do I see as a difficulty? No.

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I'm not saying we are not we don't have a choice to choose between difficulty and ease in our life.

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We'll get vote.

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We ask Allah subhanaw taala. For ease, we ask Allah for protection from difficulty, but life consists of both good times and bad times, ups and downs.

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The key is to

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out of this good and bad, which one do I want?

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out of the several things that are stress causing for me? Which one do I want to choose?

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Do I want to be stressed out, for example, it's very simple.

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You can't get rid of this. But you can get you can choose what you want to be stressed about.

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And that's why I asked you to think about what is it that is stressing you think about that? What are the things that are stressing you?

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Everybody's stressed the SIBO a stress grid scholars was stress, including the Ambien a was rather a stressed.

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Question, his question to ask is, what were they stressed about?

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And that's why I lost around $1. When you mentioned stress, and you mentioned a cure for stress, what is it? Allah basically law he taught me in nulu, Allah said that very early in the remembrance of Allah, there is peace of mind.

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What do you want to be stressed about? You know, I've got a rule that I want to share with you. And this is what I try to follow. Also,

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I believe that the thing to do is think about and within quotes, be stressed about things that are in your control.

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Focus on things that are in your control,

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and defocus, from things that are not in your control.

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And that's why my motto for myself and many of you know this

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and that is, I will not allow what is not in my control, to prevent me from doing what is in my control.

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I will not allow what is not in my control, to prevent me from doing what is in my control. So this helps me to focus

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and choose what I want to be stressed about.

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For example, people's opinion about me, not in my control, so I don't bother about that. What is in my control my own behavior.

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Because to some extent, if not a great extent, people's opinion of me depends on how I behave. So instead of worrying about people's opinion and saying you know people, how can I make them think better of me, let me focus on my own behavior and see how my behaving

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a large amount of data told us

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very clearly in the Quran,

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what are the things which are in our control and what are the things which are not in our control? For example, Allah subhanaw taala told us

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call in Rob be yasumoto risk Kali Maya

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wala kynoch Farah nathi dianemo

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Allah data set was a salami said Oh, my NaVi tell these people

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that it is my rub who and largest provision or who restricts it?

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But most people do not know.

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Allah said in Allah hora Zaku wattle Mateen

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Allah said Verily and truly It is Allah subhanho wa Taala. who feeds and who provides risk and all our sustenance buys power.

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Mama Calico Gina Valentina. Ali Abu

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Marie domina marisco mama moon,

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inna la hora de poder COVID-19

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Alicia, I created you for a purpose that is to worship me. Allah said we have not created the human beings and the jinn for anything other than our worship.

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And then Allah does that I don't ask you to feed me or to feed my creatures I feed you.

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And Verily Allah is the one who feeds with his power.

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So what should you be stressed about?

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Allah subhanaw taala told us that the risk that we are getting in this dunya

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The sustenance that we are getting in this dunya and this is not only in roti Cobra mechanics,

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Allah subhanaw taala told us things which are in our control, and he told us about things which are not in our control. The ICJ decided before you refer to things which are not in our control, which is our risk, whatever we need in this dunya in this life, Allah says this is Allah, Allah will provide Rasulullah Sallam said that has been written,

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the pens have been lifted, the ink is dry

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Illa Masha Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala can change what is it if you want, but other than that, what has been written for me is written for me Nobody can take it. What is not written for me has not been written for me Nobody can give it.

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So what is in my control?

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Allah monitor put in our control

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our eternal life.

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How beautiful is that? This little piece of life that we have this little duration, about which when we are asked we ourselves will say Yo man, Oba, Yom.

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Kala gumla wisdom Lavina Yeoman Oba yom they will ask how long did you stay there as well and we say well, maybe a day maybe less than a day part of a day.

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That day or less than a day allows Raja to kill us. I don't worry about this.

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I'm giving you control

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about your eternal life. I am giving you I am giving you the pen to write if you want Jana or Jana.

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I'm giving you the pen to write what you want in this gentleman.

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I'm going to ask for the agenda with fall colors in

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salon law you have to see what fall colors are like when you in this in this part of the United States.

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autumn colors when leaves change color.

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I'm going to ask for agenda which has snow

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because in general I don't have to worry about dying of cold

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we'll see the senior I mean I've

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taken pictures last year

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and shared them

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absolutely incredible.

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Sometimes you get you get ice you get you get when it's snowing, sometimes what happens is that the snow the temperature goes up a little bit. So the snow melts. And as those water droplets are melting and dropping off trees and twigs and leaves or whatever leaves are left in the evergreens. The temperature drops suddenly and everything does twice. And in that situation when the sun comes out it literally without I'm not exaggerating, it looks you feel as if you are standing in a diamond store

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and everything is crystal

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everything is shining, shining shining crystal

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with the sun's rays hitting it from different directions. It it changes color. The sun's rays reflect from that from that ice which looks like glass and crystal. It is incredibly beautiful. And that is dystonia.

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So what imagine what Jana will be like,

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Allah give that into our control.

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told us, he said that when he went

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on the journey of his own marriage. He met Ibrahim alayhis salam on the seventh heaven.

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And Ibrahim Alayhi Salam said to him, he greeted him. And he said to him, tell your people tell your faithful tell your followers

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that Jana is very beautiful.

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He said tell them that Jenna has fertile soil

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very fertile and very fertile soil. Anything will roll.

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And the water of Jenna is sweet.

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Do you set the agenda is a bad flat plane.

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There's nothing growing there.

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So tell your people to plan trees

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was the Black

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Swan Allah

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Alhamdulillah the Illa Illa Allah Allahu Akbar.

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All of these are trees. The one who says that

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trees planted for him in general.

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Somebody asked me so cylinders, solar, how big is this tree.

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As soon as I said, I'm sad that this tree is such

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one tree with one to one. There is a lesson observed that this tree is such

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that it's shade. Imagine this huge canopy of this tree

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in the shade of this tree. If a rider on a fast horse

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starts galloping from one end of that shade of the canopy, imagine this whole canopy like this shader.

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Remember, is not doing the circumference, which is obviously much longer. He's doing the diameter. If he's the amateurs are observed that this rider on a fast horse, if you ride starting from one end of this canopy, he will ride he will get up for 500 years to get to the other end.

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That is having trees.

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So plant trees, make bigger Don't let your tongue become dry. Let it be moist with the vigor of Allah Subhana Allah

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This is what I like it was in our hands.

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So I have trees in Ghana. What about a house?

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that I I will guarantee a person

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who does not tell a lie even as a joke. I guarantee him a Palestinian.

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He said somebody who is right.

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In an argument, somebody who is right, but does not insist on the right. Who does not continue the argument he does not allow this argument to become worse and more emotion and more anger and whatnot. He doesn't allow that to happen. He gives up his right he is in the right but he gives up that right now visa zamzar I guarantee

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he said somebody who is angry but does not express their anger control his anger I guarantee

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you somebody who's being abused when you don't retaliate policy agenda. This is how to create policies

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through our class that is why our lack of the Amati Why is o'clock important because Paris agenda twice a week, every Muslim should be in the real estate business.

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So next time somebody asks you what what do you do in the real estate business? Or what do you build palaces? Or where are the palaces? Don't take this conversation to this level because that becomes reality. It becomes area

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but inside you are where's the palace in general inshallah

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I'm building balancing engine. So if somebody is abusing you, stand there with a spine.

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Don't don't don't curse him back. Because remember, he is building your parachute? Why would you be angry with a guy mean very nice. Please, continue. And of course, as if somebody is abusing you and us violence will drive him crazy. That's even nicer, right?

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Here is a person who's abusing you. You're smiling. So

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imagine the effect on people who are watching.

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Imagine how many how much respect you get from other people because they say look at this man. He's got so much of dignity.

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He does not lower himself. He doesn't go to the same standard as this Madcap which he was screaming.

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You know, for people who

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have told you the story of Buddha Land sorry, so many times, but I never tire. I never tire of repeating these beautiful stories of our self. May Allah subhanaw taala make us worthy of calling them our self?

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Because we have no other basis. I mean, yeah, I'm not descended from a Buddha or the law. No. So I can't say well, you know, he might Salah because I have the same bloodlines. I don't.

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beautiful story.

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I would love that as it is sitting in Moses.

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And he overhears a conversation that is happening. A young boy comes to him and he's crying.

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Salam was so affectionate, especially towards children.

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So he called him he said, Why are you crying whatsoever?

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Boys adrs Allah, I'm an orphan.

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Now that's a double whammy here the child also an orphan.

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What did he say about orphan

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He said, The one who takes care of an orphan will be like this with me in general. And he showed his two fingers like this last time that he will be like this with me in general.

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So here is an orphan who is upset he's crying. He said that he doesn't have a garden is

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he would have

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put his hand on his shoulder on his head, he would have made him sit down.

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He said, don't get me What's the problem? What happened?

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The little boy said, Dr. sola, my father died. I have nobody in this world. My father left for me a small date card.

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A small date orchard.

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Now I want to build a wall around this date Archer

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to secure it.

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But in one place, there is a dead tree. And those of you who have not seen dead trees, dead trees are they're not like the trees for example, behind me This is a maple, very beautiful tree beautiful leaves. That color of the maroon purple color of the maple.

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A dead tree is massive. You can put your arms around around a tree when it's so big, you can't you can't hug it.

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massive trees.

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I was once in a date orchard in Medina. And

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outside was I don't know what the temperature was burning hot. But once we were inside this dead garden, it was like

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it was not like night, but almost like it was the sunlight had come had had decreased. It was so shady, it was almost dark. It was cool. Absolutely like an air conditioned place. So beautiful.

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So this little boy said that there is this dead tree which is in the middle where my wall should go. There is this dead tree.

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So he said that I never never asked as a Muslim. He said I asked my neighbor, whether he will allow whether he can cut that dead tree or he will allow me to cut it. So I can build my wall. The neighbor said No, I wasn't allowed to do that.

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The boy said that I asked him can you sell me that tree? So then I will take my water under the tree. Bring the tree into my into my area. The owner of the of the tree? He said I will not sell it.

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Allah knows best how people's mind work. What is so special about one tree but anyway for whatever reason.

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May Allah protect us from ourselves? This

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Sahabi this Muslim man?

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He said No, I will not sell the tree.

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So I won't let you cut it. And I also won't sell it. So you can have the tree. You can't take your wallet under a tree. So this boy said Well, I'm now stuck. I mean what do I do? I can't do this. I can't do that.

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And so I can't build my wall.

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And he was very upset.

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So as soon as I

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said to somebody who called on man.

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They called him he came

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and said to him, this little boy he's an orphan Be kind to him. He wants to he wants that tree give it

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give them

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just give him one key What is it given three

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demands so light is my right I will not do it. I want it I don't want to

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sell it to him. name or price whatever it is.

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He'll pay you

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know I won't I won't sell it. I don't want to sell.

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Now think God is technically speaking if I have a car and you tell me sell your car I don't want to sell it there's nothing wrong with that. It's my God.

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I want to sell it to not sell.

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So this dream belongs to the man who says I won't sell it's not my job is my trick. But here it's not just about the tree it's a matter of helping a brother.

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You know we like to talk about does your Eman is not complete until you want for your brother what you want for yourself. But when it comes to helping your brother, you don't want to lift a finger.

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You don't want to do anything to help your brother.

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So look at your Hey man, do you have your back?

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Because you yourself are narrating this. Your Email is not complete until you you do you want for your brother What do you want for yourself and for your brother you want less than what you want for yourself? Why does he need it? Why do you need it?

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Why must use it in the best car have the best House have the best copper and have the best is best best best when it comes to your brother. Why does he need it?

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Whether he needs it or not is not the issue the issue is your attitude. How will you answer almost monetary policy? Do you have your Yes or no? What about this? Your mind is not complete until you want for your brother What do you want for yourself and you yourself said you said about your brother Why does he need it? So did you have him and you yourself you could help your brother You could have helped your brother by one word by writing something by reading something by saying something by holding his and taking him somewhere helping him with somebody you did not do it

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So your

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question about this man and the tree is not just the tree it's the whole attitude here is this man who owns this tree it is one tree is not a goldmine

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and also relies on a solemn is recommending to him give the boy the tree says no is sell the tree says no then the solar system escalates.

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He says to himself that read to me

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now Who is this me? This me is the one that I brought him in on this me is the one when I say la ilaha illAllah Muhammadan rasul Rasulullah that Mohammed is this Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and he is telling you sell the tree to me.

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And I will not even name the price. He didn't tell me sell the tree to me Tell me your price No. And he gave the price. He said sell the tree to me and I will guarantee you a tree engine.

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Now think about his brother and sisters What is the meaning? When Rasul Allah is telling you, I will guarantee you are free in general.

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Does it mean that you are going to be sitting in janome and you will tell your companions You know what, I have a tree in general.

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Does it mean that

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when when the Nabila is lm is telling you I guarantee you a tree in general it means Jenna is yours. You are getting a Bashara of gender in your own life.

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as I told you, the man was a Muslim. He was a savvy. He believed in a pseudo Salah, but when it came to this matter,

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he was adamant.

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He said jasola I will not say

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and he went away. Now Abdallah Zarya Delano is in watching this whole thing so as soon as man left I would rather have the alarm got up and meant to be social. Because now there's a stalemate. This poor kid. He came for some help. He can't get there. Mr. asila wants to help him. He's not able to do that. So he came to me said I saw this thing happening. If you allow me I will buy that tree

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for you.

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And then he said What will you guarantee me What do you guarantee that man?

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multi engine?

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said yes.

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I gotta do the same thing. I will dad Ansari went behind his man by the man and reached the market of Medina.

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Carranza vellano kept him on his shoulder, he turned around, I woulda made salami said to him, Look, I was in the budget, I ordered his whole conversation about history and so on and so on. I have come to ask you to sell the tree to me

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and said what kind of a thing is this? I did not even sell the tree to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam, Why will I sell it to you?

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Sorry, sir, I'm not finished. Hold on. He said First of all, tell me do you know me? He said of course I know.

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He said Why?

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He said you are a Buddha. He said, What do you know about me? He said what I know about you is that you have the most valuable piece of real estate. You have the best dead garden in Medina. I know this. Everybody knows this. In this dead garden of yours. You have 650 bearing date palms. And you have your house there and you have a well with Sweetwater

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you have you want you have a wall around this whole thing. You have the best property, the most valuable property Maria.

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I would have thought of that and said Yes, that's right. He said I have a deal for you. And I said what did he say my deal is that sell me that tree. And I give you my whole garden. garden 650 dead trees house well, everything.

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just sell me that one tree. Price of that one tree this whole garden. The man said this crazy.

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He said Are you serious? Are you joking? Are you crazy? What's the matter? How does anybody give 650 trees all garden? How's everything for one tree?

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That is not your problem. You tell me? Is this acceptable to you? Are you willing to accept this

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deal that I give you my whole date garden

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650 trees

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the well the house everything in exchange for your that one tree.

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Now by then a whole lot of people have correct collected around. This is a strange conversation happening people are interested they're watching listening

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demands are you serious, serious demands and all of these people I witness

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said yes.

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The man said Sir

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I sell you that one tree in exchange for your whole thing.

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Everybody is absolutely astonished. What kind of a mad deal is this? What is our Buddha Rolando doing

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but there was no food

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knew exactly what he was doing.

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So I will de Delano. Now deal is done.

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Milan then goes to his house, he goes to his garden.

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He goes to his garden

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and then

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he stands outside the garden outside the gate. And he calls out to his wife Yamada.

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Yamanaka, she comes out of the house.

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He says come bring the children

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check out things. We're leaving, we're going

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I sold this garden. I sold everything.

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Imagine that when the situation here is this lady. This is all she has. This is our livelihood. This is our our This is our home. Our children are born there. They're growing up there.

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And husband comes and says I've sold everything. She says to him for how much

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a Buddha Delano says I sold it to Rasul Allah sallallahu Sallam for one tree in general.

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I have done this brothers sisters. Don't just listen to the stories or stories.

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Don't just listen to them as fairy tales even though they may sound like fairy tales. These are true stories. This is a historical event this happened.

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What would your wife do?

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What would you do?

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What did she do? Mama da da da da da da

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da da says I've sold all of this. Come out.

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She says to him

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for how much?

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He does it. I sold it to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam for one three in general.

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What is the reaction? She says Allahu Akbar. Jesus Subhana Allah Alhamdulillah

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Strange people, right?

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That is why Islam spread. It spread by actions didn't spread by sitting in a budget and making wazifa. It didn't spread by talking about action. It didn't spread by talking about generosity. It didn't spread by talking about helping people it spread because people did. They walked their talk. They're put their mouth where they're, they put their money and they put their effort where their mouth was.

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She she's our handler. She went inside brought the children

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brought them out as they're coming out. One little one has a date. He's eating it. She put her finger in his mouth. She took it out, threw it back in the garden. He said we have solved this Don't eat it.

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We have solved this to Allah and to his message Saracen. Now Buddha and his wife

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and children they all went to watch a number with Sharif.

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And Elena window is a seller. He said jasola I brought you the tree.

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The tree is now your skeletons. Boy.

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I was gonna say I was so happy.

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Then I would add another human being right.

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He said

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you told me about my the payment for this. He told me that you promised me a tree in general. That stands right.

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So let's get to Java.

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He said before you came Allah subhanaw taala informed me about what you had done. And Allah subhanaw taala showed me your agenda. I promised you one tree in general. Allah subhanho wa Taala has filled your agenda with trees.

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Neverland sisters, these are these are our stuff. These are our roadmap

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models. These are the ones we follow because they follow Mohammed Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam

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that has focused on our o'clock. Let us focus on our dealings, let us focus on how we talk to each other, how we deal with each other, how we work with each other, how we help each other, how we are with each other, starting with our immediate families, our parents, our wives, children, brothers, siblings, sisters, and then expanding

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all the others we know our friends, relatives, whoever, and then expanding further to everybody in the world Muslim or non Muslim. The Muslim was said was sent to spread goodness around him everywhere.

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That has become fountains of goodness.

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That spread goodness everywhere. ask Allah Subhana Allah be pleased with you and never to be displeased or Salah Nana will carry while he was having

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