Channel: Karim Abuzaid
Series: Karim Abuzaid - Marriage
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Allah Allah Allah Allahu Allahu Allah, wa shadow Mohammedan abotu who was one of my brothers and sisters in Islam salaam aleikum, wa warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
This is our ninth lecture, lecture number nine from the series love, marriage and divorce.
Like I always say,
the subject is really the Muslim family.
For some people may be this subject is not important, but this subject is the key
to get the oma back on their feet.
reforming the Muslim Ummah, begins with reforming our Muslim homes.
The fact that we're having problems as an oma at large is because of our homes are not functioning the way they should function.
And I want to tell you that
I think the the problem
behind this that a lot of the husbands and the wives,
they do not know how they should
run their families.
Like a husband, he doesn't know what his duties are.
You see, when you asked to marry this woman,
you basically said I'm going to marry her, according to the book of Allah subhana wa Taala, the Sunnah of the messenger sallallahu.
So now any duty
that is mentioned in the fraud
and all the sooner you must fulfill as husband
and any duty which is mentioned in the Quran, and all the sooner
she must fulfill as a wife.
Otherwise she's sinful, otherwise he is sinful.
And we started before the light Allah, The first
of these duties last lecture.
And we started like I said, with the captain of the ship, with the husband, with the man,
the one whom Allah subhana wa tada placed to be in charge to be responsible for the family.
And we mentioned that the first of these duties
is in como la hidayatullah. Allah subhanaw taala says commanding the believers, yeah, you have Latina M and o qu cu m full circle. Li coonara
Oh II believe save God, your selves first, your F that means your wife and children from the hill fire.
So it is your responsibility as a man
to tell your wife to tell your children
what will protect them from the Hellfire
based on the verse, this is Quran
and there is a lot of audio so let me explain that verse into Hadith.
One of them in the positive in the positive side which is normal for Say hi,
the prophets Allah Allah Selim says kulu Kumar,
wakulla como, una angora, Yeti.
All of you are accountable. Each one of you is accountable is responsible is a custodian
is a shepherd
and each one of us will be asked about his custody.
The things on which Allah subhanaw taala please responsible, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam named one after another started with the Imam
What else would be the man who knows not men the amendment Mr. Yani partially but Imam of the
and Mr. Murat in the academy, the Imam is responsible for his people.
And he will be asked, then the next word Roger Lu ra in fee LGBT.
And the man is a custodian
is responsible is in charge of his household,
meaning his wife and children and he will be asked in the day for resurrection
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Muslim, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, ma'am in Aberdeen, yesterday he la hora de su Mahmoud yo Mahmud wahoo awasu La Ilaha Rama la halogen
Trimble's makes you shake. If you really hear it with your heart, that if Allah subhanaw taala places you responsible over something and you betray
you do not direct them to the right thing. Allah subhanho wa Taala will make you haram for him.
I assure you brothers and sisters in Islam, and I'm willing to take an oath on this, that the miserable lifestyle which wills in our homes is because
the men are abandoning this duty.
A husband now will get so upset if the food is not ready on time.
But he will never ask his wife whether she prayed on time or not.
He will get so mad when the meal is not prepared when you clothe is not washed.
But you ever worry about her not praying.
Have you ever worried about her? praying properly?
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says son Luke Mr. ie to Mooney or Sally, pray, have you sat at one time and you notice your wife pray and
you looked at her You see, and at the end you told her my wife I love you. You know what the prophet said? do this and do that and fix the way that you pray?
Are you sure that your wife performs the bahara properly?
You know, specially the book of Tara. There is a segment of this book special for women
because of their physical
they are different to men. They have period they have blood.
Have you ever told your wife how to do muscle?
Are you sure your wife doesn't properly ritual bath?
we neglected all of this brothers and sisters in Islam.
If your wife is not wearing the hijab, are you doing something about it?
Are you giving her Dawa? Are you already convinced as a man Western man I mean that this is personal freedom?
It's not personal freedom.
You're supposed to enjoin good and forbid evil with your wife. That is evil. But go about it peacefully if you have not chosen her to begin with on the basis of hijab. A few married her just she's ready. Now you have to be patient and try the driver to the hijab.
what the scholars have said about this verse.
The verse here is Yeah, you are Latina man Oh, who am fusa Kumara alikoum nara Oh II believe protect
God, your own selves
and your own families.
Like I said,
the wife and the children, the Hellfire
some of the explanation for this verse.
Alibaba Vitaly Allah. Allah says, I'll remove who
teach them the religion?
Teach your wife and children that religion
yaku JW job, Rahim Allah Tell me who is the student of life now best mu j. He says also Li competa Paula,
enjoying your family members who have Taqwa in Allah. That is explaining the verse. Your Kolkata kata also says, mu
one Mu hamanasi Attila commandment to obey Allah
and command them to stay away from the things which Allah subhanaw taala made a lawful column called Luna when it's the same, the religion
Allah subhanaw taala brothers and sisters in Islam in the Quran.
He says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was more like Abu Salah it was further Allah you
command your family or Mohammed to pray
and be patient on train or on commending them.
If your wife does not pray, you're responsible. If your children do not pray, you're responsible. You have to do something about it. You have to give them down well as Allah subhana wa tada
Allah subhanho wa Taala praised.
Nebula He is married
with a guru Phil kita. He smiled and mentioned in the book is Maggie la salud. Inna who can afford it Allah wa de Vaca Anna Rasulullah nebia. He used to be truthful in fulfilling any promise that he makes. And he was a messenger and a prophet. Look, what can I a moral law who
he is to combine his command. He used to command his
wife and children to pray. Not only to pray is the care worker now in therapy model the
a lot of the Muslims now
they worry so much
about making sure that their children are more dressed better than the neighbors children
are having the best toys
are having the best things. But they never worry. They never worry about their children being taught
the Salah, the religion, that the
CEO responsible as a husband,
to give your wife and children
the physical needs
meaning muskan a house to live in clothing.
Food also you're responsible for the nourishment of their souls
submission to Allah subhanaw taala and showing them the way of submission for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
explains this verse in so many ways.
few Sahih Bukhari Muslim Hadith is about the Allahu anhu she says, Ghana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam you suddenly were an hour later.
More authorea Dotto. nallah chirashi for either a new era ie
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to pray
Yunus upon arrival a notice here that would not talk about the mandatory Salah
all the Hadith actually the monocoat is about what
Li voluntary Salam yeah and it's granted the mandatory is what granted delivered no question about matter had been handled Jean Kenneth salani wishy washy about it none of that generation that they used to have the salani elantas as a Muslim me with like an absolute failure yet and Masanobu Obasanjo, but we can no 10 Allah be
I break it down sometimes as the five daily prayers, no question not even subject to debate
and all the body
We're going to code is about the voluntary Oh, I shall be avana says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to pray the head God pm late at night, while am asleep. And when he is about to pray his witness, he would wake me up at least to pray with him.
Have you ever done this with your wife?
Well, do you pray with her yourself? Mashallah. Maybe it's time to start her Salatu lady who is is short of honor, dignity Salatu Lee,
shut off to
his family that he brings to that night.
As a matter of fact, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that we can protect ourselves from trials and tribulations
by brain at night.
How many fitness? How many trials and tribulations do we face as a family?
The family faces a lot of hardships, or who wake up at night and pray that
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can if he
had his own mo Salah or the avant Khomeini, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one night he woke up the stapler Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam their tele ILA
he woke up one night disturbed
and he's disturbed for color Subhana Allah. He said Subhana Allah Mather own zielen la la mina
how many tests have been brought down meaning the Korean
that the people are going to go through some fitting
in Nila will fit in Canada.
Never saw Salah mirana Medina he sees that which we do not see. One day he went to upon an apartment Medina he went to a top of a mountain
a Muslim he went to the top of a mountain and he looked and he said I see a lot of fit and coming down
like the drops of frame
for now how can you combat these fitting? fit in here mean means tests that you're going to be presented with trials tribulations how solid
sir the COO
bill, Melly Phaeton and Kappa Leyland Muslim,
encounter these trials and tribulations by acting, praying, fasting sadaqa, and so forth.
They're their own Zeeland Laila terminal Phaeton
how many tests have been decreed one are their own Zilla Laila terminal has a llama the footie hominin has a
look at who saw a bell future. Please wake up the winners of the rooms. Georgiana Luma, the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Bakassi at infeed dunya Arya 10 Yama, Yama basically is waking them up to pray
for the Muslim
Brotherhood, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says howdy hora
Rahim Allahu Raja,
calm I mean and lately for Allah.
Allah subhanho wa Taala will have mercy on a man who will wake up at night to pray.
Then he does work tomorrow.
wake up my wife
And if she doesn't know how hard he sprinkles water on her, don't go and pour water on her. Okay, sprinkles. couple of drops.
She's gonna bake a stick and run after you in the house. Don't do this.
Rahim Allah hora con la la sala some a
rather the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came up to Muslim.
He used to actually go to the house of his daughter. Again I'm talking about the man being responsible for his wife and children.
He is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam going and knocking on the door.
have his daughter Fatima,
robiola, Juana and Ali to wake them up to stay that to pray that you that night.
But this is once it comes to praying now I feel and for you, what happens is you see your family committing sins.
What happens if you see your wife doing something wrong? Your children doing something wrong? They just don't pay attention.
You see, this is our responsibility. That's what I'm talking about.
and Norma Allahumma the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to the house of Allah.
And he saw by the entrance, a curtain that is so nice, and it has a lot of pictures in it.
It looks like it's a luxury, kind of
luxurious and overdone.
He right away, turned away and he said Mary will it do near?
This is a dounia thing. This is too much.
We're not talking about something haram here. We're talking about something that the jurists they say based on this hadith disliked Baku.
Marry when it dunya he did not enter the house and he left. Oh, say Valley Vitaly babila one spotted him.
He came to him and he asked him What is wrong?
He said I have found at the door of your house a curtain that is too much.
This is too much dunya
that our Muslim homes
and we're complaining about having to take loans here and there. Just get down from all these things. Work out your bill again your expenses again you will find out that you can do it insha Allah without the need for Riba alone for a haram income.
You see, Muslims are speaking like non Muslims, they want to have agenda house in this world. And they say well, we have to maintain it. So we have to take loans, you're ready to go down.
one bathroom, enough.
You don't have to hold that's
Satan Alibaba, Alibaba, one returned to Fatima and he told her what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about this. She said above the alarm on her failure more nema ferrovia he should commend me what he wants me to do with this to
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to her, give it to so and so they are poor they will select and they will benefit from its price she did.
Again he is a guardian of the family.
Seeing his family drifting away to the dunya
It begins with little things little things. So here is your finding your family member interested in extra stuff that a Muslim does not need? No, we do not need this because this world is not for us anyways. couldn't fit dounia can naka de
Bella Luna I will
be in this world treat this world like a stranger.
In a stranger. This is not my town. I'm here in Denver for tonight.
Or maybe I'm passing by
now you're gonna see your family treating this world like it's everlasting they are getting all these things. Tell them that this is not the right way to go. This is not the right place to place our finance our money. Let's get this in South Africa. Let's help the poor and the needy somewhere else.
Also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cannot defy Sharia law wanna
look, I Isha Shu Elan Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can feel
the loss of the Allah one as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yara Sol Allah, O Messenger of Allah men habanero si la
Hui Who is the most beloved to you.
Move to be
Asia. Have a loved one.
He said I
call him an original caller.
He loves her
and was also allowed to sell and disclose this in more than one occasion that he loves our show for the long run. But this will not prevent him stop him from reforming her
from fixing her
so a lot of Muslim men right now because I love you I adore you do as you please. Whatever makes you happy.
If you love the person you want them to get to Jenna, don't you? If you love a person you want them to get salvation don't you? Don't you
Ayesha made a comment about her. And I've been you know, the woman won multiple wives and
has spoken on Sophia for in my head Kevin.
Be aware of Sophia. She is like this. He did not actually say the word but she meant that she should. Or Sophia actually will short.
Sophia was short. So she's not saying something. That is not correct. But what is the definition of backbiting?
At a minimum via the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as his companions Do you know what backbiting is? called? la hora Sulu alum they said Allah and His Messenger know best Carla De Luca haka be MACRA
that you say is something about your brother or your sister that they dislike it to be said about them. Call your rasulillah writer in canopy
What if the thing that I said about them is in them called in canopy he's a part of Tabitha it's still back biting
if you said something that he does not have in this is called slender Buddha. But
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
stop fixing her deforming her the alarm on her because he loves her. No, he said to her Yeah. Oh, I love it. Cool. Tikka Lima. lucija. Pema
schieffelin color, you have said a word if this word would have a color. And if you would throw that word in an ocean, it will change the color of the water of the ocean.
But how many of us, we see our wives, our daughters, backbiting and gossiping.
Do we do anything about actually Really? Really? Is that what she said? Really, we actually get
we get engaged.
In You are the man of the house. But Hawaii? Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, is not honor and stuff, lads duty responsibilities. We have to do this. Yeah, if we're the reason for the failures of our homes. I'm telling you the first reason and the foremost reason that the men do not know what they're supposed to do. That the father now or the husband now would sit in a gossiping gathering, a gathering. What should I join this? Should I do it? What do you think? Should I do? He's actually debating whether he should do it or not?
Well, you have to go about it with wisdom, no question about it, how to go about it, we can discuss it. But it is our responsibility that you protect your family. Your wife is losing her good deed Your daughter is losing her good deed if she's backbiting and gossiping. How can you allow this when Allah commanded you to protect them from the Hellfire and what will give them general is the deeds of course with the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala the deeds will qualify them for the mercy of Allah subhanaw taala
Your job is to protect us to stop this from happening.
Here is ISO of the law on another journey hardeeville Bukhari Muslim Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Aurora no more Roca la casa de
he saw some sort of a piece of cloth that has a lot of throwing in a lot of pictures. He refused to enter the house
was Ted Dahlia.
And he was very harsh with her. Yeah. What is this
for you? How many of us brothers into
In Islam, our wives having all these pictures throughout the house, and we're not doing anything about it
He literally said that this is our responsibility. Like I said at the very beginning, you will be asked about this.
With us, she's gonna do it right away or not. that's beside the point, but you need to do something about it.
how you go about it, that's another issue we can discuss. But now, this is your responsibility as the man as the Guardian, as the Sustainer as the shepherd as the custodian as the responsible person to do something about this. Don't wait for your wife to receive revelation to come and remove the pictures. It's not going to happen.
Some cases it will. The wife actually gets enlightened.
Famous document, how do you guys have the alarm on her?
She says, Can Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam either Paula Allah hadn't been elevated, Kedah, Carrie Beth and
her Lamia, Selma, Nan Hata
when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam finds out that one of his family members lied a lie. He would turn away from him until he repents.
enjoining good and
yeah you have Latina M and o v believe Who am fossa como la de nowra protect them from the Hellfire that's your job to protect them from the hill fire
had a journey the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to teach his wives a love car.
of car they remember especially with the with the women in particular. We mentioned last lecture that the explanation of NACA saw to Dean that there is a deficit in the religion. There is a deficit in their Eman because they spend days and nights without Salah without fasting.
A woman every month, at least five to seven days, some woman half of the month, half of the month. They do not pray.
They do not do any act of worship the only way the only place for them is the love
of God remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala Have you taught your wife this?
Here is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam enters the Muslim bazaar was Sunil Cobra lemonis a well surely maybe tirmidhi and as narrates that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to Fatima one day, Marian Marian now key and finally mal ckb what stops you from doing what I'm asking you to do? And the coolie either? It was either am say at that you say every day in the morning and at night? Yeah Hi You are you bureau medic as the US lately shed Nicola wanna kill me in NFC?
Can you teach your wife this can you teach your children this? Say yeah, hi. Yah, you Oh Allah, you are the EverLiving the self subsisting
euro medica as
I seek refuge in your mercy, Alicia Nicola, fix my affairs, sick fit, fix my affairs, fix my lifestyle.
While at the kidney nfcu perfect. I do not leave my enough to be in charge of me for a blink of an eye.
Also, Muslim the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told his wife joy Maria bentall Harris, from the Lavanya rasa la sala went to brief as you do a surgery at home.
And then Rasul Allah wa salam returned mid morning and he found her still sitting down and doing as
he said to her, by Allah, I have said four words, if they are to be placed in the scale and the pen of the scale and what you have been doing since February, in the other pen, these full words will outweigh them. And he teaches her these beautiful words. So the HANA law he will be handy, either the halki wherever nwsc was in uttarkashi
Mommy Daddy, can you imagine? Have you ever taught your wife to say those four words in the morning four words? Three times. He said four words three times. So behind Allah He will be handy. zaldy Glorified is Allah by His grace,
either the halting the number of his creation. Imagine
how many things did the mark Read, read RFC?
The what will please Him, Xena tarsha the way that his throne is his fashion then is beautified with me dad academia. And as far as his words reach coloca Anil Almeida deadly Kalamata Robbie, Lana Fidel.
This is the first UTA who we must pay attention to this one you will have if you cannot teach your wife about her religion, about the soon about how to pray and all of this, make the resources available for her.
Bring her to a lecture like this.
Get her CDs, DVDs, but it is your job to educate your family about the religion in order to act upon that knowledge and to be protected from the hellfire. Okay, here is the second command.
The second duty
the rights again we're talking about the rights of the wife and her husband. The second one how Allah Allah Allah subhana wa tada says, Where is you
we missed this one yeah. Ally
treat them kindly
be loving with them be nice. Have a good character
in Muslim in the Muslim now Panama
you know the polar thing, huh? As soon as he goes out
the other character is on.
He boots the mask? Mashallah. Smiling, happy at all in Thailand, the woman would begin calumny speak to me. Tell me something nice. Tell me that. I'm beautiful.
Come on. We're married.
As soon as he goes out Mattia bar, look at this woman. You're so nice.
Nabi sallallahu Sallam says,
Oh, my this is the reality. I'm not faking this. This is what wahida Exactly. But it goes hand in hand, look at our women at home and look them at outside.
And it's a pile of
opposites in morale and a Muslim woman at home. Like a soldier. You go there and you say like this to her.
But as soon as she leaves the house, Barbie
for who? You're supposed to do this to that guy at home?
If we cannot go back to this, it's not gonna work.
And the recent aloha to silica he was a member
of the Illa one, he says
Nina imana son, Luca was CEO coo coo coo mlini sir in chief
if you want to know somebody who has a perfect man, look at his man. character. Yeah, if what the manner of a person reflects his faith,
well, their faith and character what character they are.
Those that are righteous predecessors they used to say this, if you want to know the quality of the faith of another person, look at their character. If they have a better character than you than the rest of the shoe, that they they have better faith than you. But again, they are Muslims in a way because some Muslims now this guy is Christian. And he has so nice la Habibi. Thank you. I'd rather have a Muslim who says La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah mean to me then this
This is why when he explained this verse, we're in NEC Allah Allah who lukina
V neck Allah Allah Dee Dee
you have the best character. You are on the best character the best Deen religion, the source of the of the manners, the source of a good character is the religion.
We have to be very careful with this because some people, they try to separate this from this.
Now having a good character, President Obama just today he showed his good character and he said men can marry one another. Oh
wonderful. good character. Women can marry one another. Give me a break.
Law. Exactly good character comes from we're from the religion
from the religion
we have to be very good at me Nina Eman and axon home Toluca. Those who have the perfect faith those who have the best character, but here is what I'm looking for. We're here to come in. Here's another thing that you are to show that good character to who you're wise to your family.
Had a good luck charity begins with
Jani at home you're a weirdo with your family and you come out
you're nice with everybody. There is something wrong here.
As a matter of fact, you must begin from home
You must begin from home and you'll find a lot of Muslims working hard working hard to have a good character outside the home but once it comes to the home, they think it's now a lovers and see them at house now. I can do whatever the dude yelling, shouting, he's at home.
As if he's not held accountable tomo wire shoe hoonah bill mouth
and treat them nice. Be kind to them. I want to say something my brothers and I really want you to hear this carefully.
And how you roll a 10 million 11 million
hits or deemed
because a lot of us are hoping that we're going to have a perfect spouse
and telling you this is Indian.
There is no there is nothing there is I'm sorry I'm just being realistic. You will never find the perfect spouse
when you're ready to sell until you are the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells you a Muslim lady flew me know me Leia frock Mina
a believing spouse Neal should I believe in husband should not hate dislike unbelieving wife? Look in Robbie in Carrie having half fudo
if he dislike
something that she's doing, think about the things that you like about her.
Listen, in Jana.
In general, you're gonna find that wife of your dream. In Jenna sisters, we're gonna find the husband of your dream. You will always find something wrong with your spouse. But now this is the test how can you in spite of this still treat her will?
For the sake of Allah because Allah commanded you wash una Bill maruf rededicate.
harati hora de saya Muslim. Lower the women will create it from array
array, a bin rip.
And if you tried to fix it, you wouldn't break it. Look, FedEx he had that
yummy daddy attached.
Just make it work.
If she has a bad character, make it work if she is mean just work with it. You know when you go to work and there is a bad machine and your boss tells you listen, that's the way it is. I want you to work with it. Yes, sir. The same exact thing with your wife.
For Daddy, her daddy I am a mess she had a
better GFI and could don't just pop at everything that he does. She does metaphysical shanwa
Don't just everything just chill you did this and you did this blah Lalalalala let go it go move on
because she was created this way she has that
she has this in spite of this we're still doing what? Why she Bilbao mouth
for you. Nevis Allah Hollywood Salam akula
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Again this dresses because again I'm dealing with we're dealing with with with actual things here that Muslim men inside the house.
I'm sorry to use the word weird as soon as they go out. Somebody else here is also solo Adios. lm says hi eurocom hi.
Howdy fi Muslim.
He says hi eurocom
the best of you is the best to his family. We're Anna hi eurocom Leah Lee.
And I'm the best to my family.
Let me show you how the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam was with his family.
here's our example. Right? He you want to tell me that he was you're busy you don't have time to be nice to your family that also saw loss Elon was responsible for receiving regulation. He was responsible for the oma. He was read and look how he treats how he told us to treat our families.
I want to show you the practical implementation of the commands of a law where I show 132 wives will
when you enter the house
what you're supposed to do
when they ask the seller do you say salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah to your wife
for either the hulten amor karate. Oh, mama, if you want the house to function? Yeah.
That's what missing. These things are missing. I'm sorry. For either the Halton booth and facilely wala fusuma here in the La rakatan Paiva. If you enter homes, say Santa Monica whenever he sallallahu wasallam canopy sooner demand Timothy Harris aniseed nomadic and on the other one, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says two ns, ns ns o ns actually said the name my little boy, either the whole time
when you enter the house where your family is fast, say salam aleikum wa rahmatullah yeppoon Salah Mecca yaku Salah buka Baraka de nada, kawada
Baraka Baraka, Anima, Habibi,
Baraka, Salim Salam alaykum warahmatullahi
wa salatu wa sallam, he took an oath
and I knew well that this is once it comes to the commands once it comes to the Omar clause. Follow him by Allah Leonard Hello Jana Tata Tomita
Muslim by Allah will not enter Jannah unless you believe while unto me no Hata Habu boo and you will never
achieve accomplish Eman faith until you love one another and do local
Shay in either
Shall I tell you something that if you do you will love one another. We're talking about a brother loving a brother What about a husband loving his wife?
You see what will make us love one another as brothers in Islam that I come as salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.
Pelletier. Why don't you want to love your wife? Don't you wanna love your lover tiller when you enter the house a Salam aleikum. wa rahmatullah wa barakaatuh. nahi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. yatish is an ebihara Gianni when he used to go you could actually end up with a lot of ceremony from inside the house. You go inside this room, you come back as salovaara
you go inside the kitchen, you come back as Santa Monica Mottola inside the body. Oh,
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if you walk into the browser and you end up with a wall between you when you meet again As salam aleikum, wa rahmatullah
in the house, the whole house all the time imagine the children coming by you As salam aleikum wa rahmatullah. The father is Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa Taala. Local agenda for what happened in the agenda there is
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have a source of good deeds, and a person can just be making good deeds throughout the day.
Hi, I'm Ron Ignace. I have the Allahumma.
Soon remember, Timothy Wahhabi, the widow, Mr. de medicina. Visa would look and Rhonda says number and size says j r r. l and navy and then came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. sakala salamati he said Salam Alikum
Rasul Salallahu alaihe salam and so this salam, and then he said on
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rasulillah salam answered his Salah, and he said 20 Sharon, Sharon was 20 HER SON By the third, as a third man arrived, as Salam alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
he answered the seller, you're supposed to answer the seller motivated seller. And he said what Fela foon means what? 30 Hassan. Imagine at home. Every time that you see your wife, you go inside the room. Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh my wife As salam o Allah Kumara imagine 30 feet 30 feet 30 Chaparral kasatkina Jeeva
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and how you will learn the best of Islam is a solemn Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So Isla is learning how to live in Alaska the Allahumma Filippo Carlos, what is the best Islam? What is the best Islam Allah He said to claim
that you feed the hungry or you feed the food? We're too close Allah Allah menara Toma lambda and you say salaam aleikum to those who you know whom you know, and those who do not know these these days as a person will not say Salaam Alaikum but to someone who knows a Muslim and we are still not sure he's in the machine. And he passes by his brother fly Apollo Salaam I don't know you. You're supposed to say As salam o Alaikum to someone whom you know, and someone whom you do not know. So this is the first thing but here is another piece.
Do you shake your wife's hand when you enter the house?
You go there and
you come to the brother, shake. Well, I am at work and it's so difficult. My boss is a female and she I'm afraid I'm gonna lose my job. Can I shake her hand like he cannot shake her hand.
He cannot shake your head. I know Bianca lane, you're on a docu mimicry of inferiors. Hi EULA manana sobre. La Tallulah you better be step. It's far better for you to be stabbed with a needle in your head.
Then you touch a woman
who is unlawful for you to touch. But what about your wife? Why didn't he shake the hand of your wife? Oh, Nabi sallallahu alayhi salam
what the Allahu unhuman or hollyfield Amida Buddha told me to look at this man Muslim, Emile Tapia, Fetisov
Yeah, a law to Muslims they need one another and they shake hands Allah who will forgive their sins before they depart.
Ill Baraka because of the Salah, you make Hashanah. And now the problem that we have in our homes that there are sins now if you shake the hand of your wife, Salaam Alaikum, my wife and you shake her hand, Allah will forgive your sins. Both of you.
Try this. Let's try this. Let's get this into action. I want you to go tonight and shake your hand.
All right, shake your wife's hand
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato I'm home guys. What's up
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Probably problems lead to hockey one Amina who fish a while and Hawkeye be watching Polly. Polly. Do not belittle a good deed. Even if it is meeting or me or brother with a good cheerful face, but in a whatever, some coffee
and actually make a good deed. Yani all of this is a source of good deeds. YALI. Don't do it for the person. If you if you if you have a problem with them, do it for you that you want to make good deeds you want to earn good deeds.
Do you still have time on what?
Three minutes love what works for you? Number four, a good word. Good words.
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for Illinois, Teddy Teddy Kelly mettam given that you tell your wife a good word,
especially with your wife
that we're actually suppose simply to lie to tell her a good thing.
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says failure to mean al Qaeda, Al Qaeda.
Three types of lies that are not considered lies Kathy would realize oh JT. That you tell your wife, you're beautiful. You're nice. Your food is good. Stuff like that. When was the last time you complimented her?
For her looking nice to you. When you see her wearing a dress for you, that is new at home at the house. When do you compliment do you say Mashallah, you look nice. You look beautiful. We have to do this. Yeah it this is what keeps life going. Women need to hear that stuff. A lot fashion them this way.
Coronavirus will lie sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah Subhana Allah
Rasool Allah wa sallam.
Subhana Allah, He one day
he tells Ayesha Yeah.
When did you give your wife a nickname?
Least Yani. In a way he's flirting with her.
You call your wife with the best names that she likes. Give her a kuhnian
a kuhnian. eyeshadow. villamagna she came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. She said jasola la sahibi. All the other women. They are being called your own soul, your own soul, your own soul.
The mother of soul, the mother of Sonia. I did not have children. For Carla. He said to her that can only be one. Abdullah. He means blindness by the son of who have asthma.
Yeah, Omar Abdullah.
When was the last time you given your wife a cornea?
You told her a cornea.
Sometimes when women are sick or feeling down, you need to help them out and try to bring their spirits up by giving them a compliment. You're nice, you're beautiful and so forth. talking to them and having fun with them. The accordion is a hadith Hadith.
This Hadith is seven pages, seven pages.
They live in women they basically met
And they made a vow that each one of them will say a report about her hospital. Rasul salatu salam returned at night tired. He's taken care of the oma.
And Ayesha decided to tell him this hadith. Listen to her. He lists his seven pages
stuff that happened in Jay Z. Oh, this is not important and stuff like that for getting your wife a company. When was the last time that you listen to her that you want to tell your story and you listen to her? This is Ashley. Because this woman is basically imprisoned Okay, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said in hoonah they are your prisoners for your wife to leave you She must go to any man and do hola you could leave her in a second Utila divorce you but for her to leave you she's imprisoned. Make that stay decent. Make that stay decent
for you, and I read the other day. How many times did you race with your wife?
Come marva sir, Dr. Savage attack.
When did you have When did you play with your wife again at home? When
but you go out you play with the boys all the time.
Maybe you love also sallallahu wasallam reads with Isaiah twice
when was the last time
to this year and in closing insha Allah the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam used to actually serve his wife. When was the last time you went to the kitchen
Coronavirus will lie so the Lhasa lengthy meeting at the Le he used to actually serve his family at home okay you arrive home and the food is ready no is not why go help her go to the kitchen hold her for a change. This will bring affection This will give her a message that you care and so forth. Sure, sure. Rasul Allah, Allah Solomon the battle for davia when the companions were hoping that Allah subhanaw taala may reveal something about them still going to Mecca, he went to him salah and he said torium Salah commanded the Muslims to do this, but they are not doing it. Katya rasulillah she said O Messenger of Allah, do not speak to them go outside,
slaughter your head and chief and they will do likewise. He did and they did. And inshallah there is other things maybe like Allah, all of this is the practical implementation of the second duty that
a husband or a man has towards his wife. Why show bill that you have a good man, good character? Yes, well, we need to stress this. You have to be nice to the wives. You cannot be nice to the people outside and at home. You know, we'll do it doesn't work this way. It should be the other way around. inshallah we'll continue with the rights of the wives upon their husbands in the next lecture. Next Wednesday, the second law Haleigh subhanak Allahumma. Hambrick eyeshadow Ella Ella halen istockphoto two will equal hamdulillahi Rabbil aalameen