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Karim Abuzaid

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for now the villa Himanshu fusina woman say to Marina

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De La Villa woman you will Salar de la

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ilaha illallah wa the hula sharika

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wash.

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Donna one of the ana Muhammadan

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wahala caminada amin humare Jalan Cassio, Manisha

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Luna Viva La

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in LA Canada Uk merkiva

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De

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La Hoya Haku colon sadita useless.

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Woman

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Rasulullah hufa was an avina

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China us Howdy.

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Howdy, howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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mushara

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wakulla deserting be da

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da da da, da da Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah kincannon

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brothers and sisters in Islam.

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A mother came to me.

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And she said,

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I asked my son last Sunday

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to treat me

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because the people around her

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are saying it's Mother's Day.

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And my son told me

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that you are a hypocrite.

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We should not do that.

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Because it's against the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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we should not mimic the disbelievers

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and celebrating

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days that we're not prescribed in the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu.

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I asked the mother what she thinks about that.

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She said he's right.

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But I have never seen any kindness from him throughout the year.

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And I wished on this day.

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Maybe I will see something special from him.

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But even that he denied me yet.

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You see, the brother is right.

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But he is extremely wrong at the same time.

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Once the dean comes in his side, he brings it up.

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Yes, we should not celebrate days that are not in our Deen. True. Absolutely. But this mother asked for this because she lacked your kindness and obedience to her throughout the year.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam

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the issue of the parents is extremely important in our religion.

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And a lot of Muslims are not aware of the status of the parents

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in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and this is what I wish to talk to you about today.

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The loss of hanok Allah says in the Quran

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Sunnah

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Imai a Beluga in Dhaka Kibera, Houma, Oklahoma Allahumma afin

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de la capilla Houma ofin Wollaton Houma.

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La Paloma Colin Karina

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was filled lahoma Jana has limini

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Zuma cannot dyani sadirah

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Allah commanded you,

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not to worship someone with him and to be sin to your parents to be not sin.

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And I chose to use the term sin. And I'll explain it later on what Matson means to parents in Nairobi, Ghana in Kibera. Ha ha de la Houma, Akira Houma

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of one of them are both rich and old age

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toquilla Houma.

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Don't you dare say to them

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is a word that you say once you're unhappy,

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Latin Houma.

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Nakula whom are Poland Karima and stick to them in an honorable manner.

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It is not right to call your family your parents hypocrites. It is not right to call the names. You have to speak them to them in the kindness of manners.

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What's the blue magic

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and you must be submissive to them in your kindness and need for them?

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Can

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Allah have mercy on them as they raised me up as a child?

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Allah subhanho wa Taala and do not associate someone in worship with them. And be kind to your parents being what sins to your parents

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at Luma hora, Malibu kumala Come Come. Let me resize you what Allah subhana wa tada need unlawful for you.

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kaboo illa Allah.

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Allah,

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Allah, Allah to Sri COVID

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do not associate someone in worship with Allah and be kind to your parents, even the previous nations

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Amita Pavani La la la, la, la la la la la la la la, Santa. We establish a covenant with the children of Israel, not to worship someone in association with Allah subhana wa tada and to be kind to the parents

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to Juma Quran, Abdullah, he says, Love your love and humor as an individual, have you compiled that statement for him? In his wonderful book, the major sins, He said that so I add in naza mokopuna can be Salah.

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Three kind of verses three kind of verses in the Quran will reveal like twins, they have twins on them. What a masala

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is zecca

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perform the Salah.

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And pay does occur.

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If you pray and you do not pay your zecca they were together they are twins in the Quran. What are three Yamaha obey Allah? What are your Rasool twins? If you obey Allah and you do not obey the messenger

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and he should leave while you were at the Yuka This is the third

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be grateful to me and your parents. Allah soprano Darla is demanding you

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brothers and sisters in Islam

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theoharis jabril Hadith famous Hadith in Bukhari Muslim Have you horizon generator? And all of the Hata

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radi Allahu anhu Huma

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debri Laurie ceram as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam this question towards the end of the Hadith

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metacell When is the hour

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Rasul Allah alayhi wa sallam said Mr. Owen had the Atlanta minister is the one who's asked does not know more than the one who's asking

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him or to her. But what are its signs? The first sign that will assume salovaara alayhi wa sallam listed in this hadith as a sign of the hour, he said and tell you that an akula better.

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Another wording

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and carry the motto

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that the slave mother, the slave woman will give birth

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to her master. The second wording misters

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half of Mahajan, Rahim Allah explained this otaku alley, the

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people will be accused of abuse abusive to their parents. And we see this stories back and forth, in and out, in and out.

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It set

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the people who brought you into this world.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala combined his towhees

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to you being kind to them.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam,

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the love

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that your parents have for you.

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It's called

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you don't act it. It's not parents do not act to love you.

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They will fashion to love you. A lot of handle data at least they love inside their hearts. They don't act it

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when the two women

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both of them had two infants.

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And a wolf came and ate one of them.

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Two mothers, two sisters, the older and the younger, both of them had two infants. They were sitting somewhere a wolf came and ate one of the infants.

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So they came to say the Buddha Salah to judge

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mobiola one

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the older woman was crying most the older mother was crying most because both of them want that infants

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say that Oh Daddy, Sarah give it to the one who cried. And then we have sadness when a man

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called him in.

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He told them What's the matter? They told him the story. And he found them still curling.

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say this to them and said I have a good solution for before you bring me a knife.

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And I'm gonna cut that baby into two halves I gave you half and I gave you

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you know the true mother. She said no, give it to her. She said that's your son.

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This is your son was younger one.

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Naturally.

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The Love is by default, you don't act love. And that is why By the way, you never see a command in the Quran. You never see a verse in the Quran commanding the parents to love the children. You don't you always see a command in the Quran. for the children to treat the parents kindly.

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Because they are by nature by default they love the children. The only time there is a command for the parents in the Quran regarding the children, once it came to inheritance,

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you will see a common law houfy I will gladly come because what some of the parents do, they go ahead and they divide their property and equally

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and they create animosity between the children because they love that son more that the sun does sunset. Allah told the parents No, give them equally.

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And there's a hadith as soon

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as she that she loved the Allah one wanted to give his son in law a man or the low on something more than his other brothers.

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His wise wife said if that fashion rally here rasulillah I feel funny about this go and ask the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to be a witness on this.

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Say Never she went to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and he said Dr. rasulillah me

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I want to give a man something more than the other brothers Rasul Allah Azza

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wa sallahu go and find another witness as a witness on falsehood. And one of the wording at our yakou letters in the resava Wouldn't you like them to be kind to you equally, then give them equally so there is no command in the Quran or in the sutra regarding the parents loving you? Because it's by nature. They will fashion to love you. But the question

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And is about you

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treating your parents honorably? I asked you kindly shala to please up because we're already feeling and we're still sorry. If we could please fill in the gaps.

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Brothers superficial and wait inshallah fill in the gaps in front of you.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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One of the justifications that people use regarding their abusiveness and this is the correct word

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to their parents. They say, Well, my father did not treat me well.

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He was mean to me, he never given me a good education. He beat me up all the time.

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He always called me nice.

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He

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was saying and insanity while he said

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has identified the relationship between the children and the parents to be the level of

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what is it?

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What is the definition of if you understand and that is why at the beginning, I said no sin, what is the definition of the effects and if you understand that you will understand.

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You see, in the area of the creme

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de la vida Salim explained if you had the jabril and de la haka, Anna Katara, the LM taco taco truck, that you worship Allah as if you see him, if you do not reach there, then Allah has watching you. So this is in the area of the creed, that either the action in the area of the rituals, what is said in the area of the rituals that you do more than what is prescribed

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in Ephesians

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Idina

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boom, in the home can.

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Indeed the righteous are in gardens and wills. They used to be in the dunya mazzini. What is the definition of serene look at it?

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They used to pray to you that night, it's not mandatory to great had you that night. What is mandatory is the five daily prayers, as Harry homiest, a few and they seek forgiveness in the early morning, morning hours, we'll see him How

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in the world, they see the world as a lie to the poor. But what is required is the 2.5%. So the sand in the area of acts of worship, that you play more than the five times you pass more than the amount of Ramadan, you give the Cambodian the 2.5%

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there is a sun in the area of character

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dealing

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with if somebody slaps you in the face here.

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You give him the other cheek. And please love me here that is.

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This is the relationship between the parents and you. If they live, sad, even if they beat you up.

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If they did, you are you still have to get to the act in a manner of of sin.

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If they call you names, you still have a disability here.

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You must return the bad with goodness. You have no justification in the Sharia in Islam, to be abused if your parents because they are mistreating you know, a certain level of accept the highest level that you don't break even with your parents. Rather, you have to show them more than what they offer you.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and even if you do this,

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on the live normal of your loved one. One day he was doing chores around the car

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and the SRC

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and he saw a man from Yemen carrying his mother in his back and don't talk with her.

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He came

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I carried her more than she carried me

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meaning the seven rounds and the seven rounds between the Sahaba

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Do you think now I paid her back? Call Allah.

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Allah Katya. Not even a goon. drones in the pains that happens at the time of delivery.

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Not even that was seen in Santa

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Santa Hanako Oh,

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Kula hon. coo coo,

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coo coo coo Chava

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we commanded mankind to be kind to the parents. His mother wore him in pain delivered him in pain. And you come and kill her you're a hypocrite.

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ungrateful.

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being ungrateful.

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Rasul Allah alayhi wa sallam said

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don't worry the

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man will not pay back his father. Only in one case

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a

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man Lucan

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that you find your father sleep in sleep and you feed him. That's the only time you can tell your father by head is like you had that naza

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issue, serious issue llll parents in Islam were taking it light and is a very serious issue in our day. extremely serious issue in our Deen Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said men act very one of the major sins in Islam not the major the worst of the majors

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in

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a shockula

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that you commit should

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be the LED

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and you become abusive, abusive to your parents. being unkind to them.

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Look at this.

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Listen to this fella satin.

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woman who suffered wala agla

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daddy married by Asante sana, authentic three individuals Allah subhanho wa Taala will not accept from from the south and means for

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them means nothing.

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One, Allah, Allah Allah, a

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person who was being unkind, accused to his parents, this is number one

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to

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pursue your saga and then he says I gave you a solid con man.

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Look at the will. And the person who does not believe in the

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tsunami,

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tsunami de

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la Viola Juan, Salah lei en la la Yeoman Kiana t when I use a key word in three kind of people that Allah subhana wa Taala will not look at in the day for selection. You speak to them, Allah will turn away from you. And that was our action. Number one, Allah kulu led

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the person who was being abusive to his parents.

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While murottal motorolla what they use

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and the woman who tries to look like a man muscles

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and they use

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the person he sees wickedness in his family and he does not change.

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His daughter probably going around and dating and his Mashallah for freedom.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam.

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A person who mistreat his parents gets his share hearing the day

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before the hearing

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in

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the history, Dr. Bharani authentic chain of narration howdy de Vaca if nanny you are Jiro Houma, Allahu dunia, Asher

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said two things that you will earn that he won't have it in this dunya the punishment the consequent you will taste the consequences of them in this dunya before the hereafter does you will aku

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oppression that you address

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and being abusive to the parents.

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One of the shift Maria that story as he was walking one day in one of the streets

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I found a young man

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jumping on an old man beneath him a DD

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so everybody's coming to help.

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You know what the old man said let him leave him.

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I didn't my father up right here

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before him and his father.

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You will get it here.

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The Wu

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Tang

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The kind your parents, your children will be kind to you.

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You don't want your father or your mother to make against you

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know how bad Have you hora de la la vida Salim said, three supplications that Allah Subhana Allah will not return.

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Allah will answer and while you do Allah already a father that makes against his child

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while musasa

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different wording of this

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in the other side

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of the line and so, are the Alon asked the Prophet sallallahu wasallam one day

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Allah

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Allah,

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what is the most beloved of the deeds to Allah

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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Allah to Allah,

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that you pray on time.

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I believe nosode asked.

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Then what is next for so sallallahu Sallam said

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that you are kind to your parents?

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How do you think the two sides, brothers and sisters in Islam? One of the things that helped you to grow more in your life

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and increase your provision?

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Is you being kind to your parents.

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When ella houfy actually he was a doula who fear is t

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ye

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whoever wants Allah Subhana Allah to prolong his life

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and to increase him in the provision in provision. Let him be kind to his two parents and to extend relationship to the kids.

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kindness to the parents relieve hardships.

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We call the three.

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The three who entered into the cave

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and a huge rock fall down with a blind Norma

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and each one of them have to come up with a good deeds in order to make the track moves so they can go out the first one.

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He said I was a shepherd.

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I was a shepherd.

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I used to take my flocks all day long. And I used to have a habit. Every night, I come home. I milk my animals. And I give drinks to my father and mother who are older before my child.

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One day one of my sheep ran away from me. I had to look for it.

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I arrived home late. I found my father and mother asleep.

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I did not want to interrupt my routine. I still milk my animals. And I breathed two drinks for them. And I went and I stood by their bedside and I did not want to disturb their sleep. And my children were winding beneath me and I stood there until they wake up in the morning and I given them the drink

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before my children for Allah. If I done this sincerely for you move the truck so I can go out but moved hardships. We all go through hardships in the dunya your relationship your kindness to your parents will relieve these hardships for you.

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Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah Hassan, what's in our region in

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Russia Allah Allah illallah wa hula Sharif Allah who will have Kava

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wash has won the Santa Ana Vienna Mohammed Abdullah.

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Brothers and sisters in Islam, to say the least. He cannot mimic the disbelievers in the way that you treat your parents. You cannot you lose a lot. You lose a lot.

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You may lose gender.

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You may lose gin. You got to find out

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how Islam

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commands you to speak to act

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To teach your parents

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how

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the society out there

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is propagating in their soap operas and in their movies. We know how they all the movies, how they get the children talking to the parents.

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It's not like this in Islam

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and you lose a lot. If you become aware of the standard of Islam regarding your parents,

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social aloha to send them one day he went

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to gender we know the night

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and he heard a voice reciting the Quran in general.

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The voice of one of the companions His name is Harith nah man, and the hadith of Muslim Metallica shall be a loved one

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beautiful voice in general.

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He asked Who is this?

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The angels answered him. This is haritha ignore man. This is haritha manana, a companion of his Rasul sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Gary cool,

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karate cool Bill callicoon

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this is what kindness your parents will do to you. What can above one s if you owe me

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and he used to be that this person to his mother

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Rasul Allah Allah seldom asked

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Muslim to ask one of the predecessors to ask Allah to forgive over

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the way so currently

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This is a man from Yemen who will come later on after I die from Yemen come to make highs look for him every year and if you meet him I

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asked him to ask Allah to forgive you over

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you know what the quality what quality he had?

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What can you only he

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used to be kind to his mother.

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It was seldom said

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in a hurry, answering one of the questions inside Muslim A man came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asking him yo rasulillah man Hakuna seriousness of that he who is the person who should receive my best manner in this dunya. Carla

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your mother?

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The man asked

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Then who?

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Then who?

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Three?

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Then your father.

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Quickly

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and I'm sure some of you are experiencing this.

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People who have their parents already passed away.

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And brothers who have their parents as non Muslims.

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Those two especially here

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happy sad, sad that if we didn't have that, Dan tirmidhi and then from varicella,

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Malaysian spoken upon to be truthful with you. A man came to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam from Benny Solomon he asked Dr. rasulillah in

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my two parents passed away, do I still have anything that I can do for them?

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He said now

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we can do it for them.

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asking Allah to forgive them.

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And that you carry out the will as long as it's not against the Sharia.

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Casa de la de la

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la silla toda

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la de la isla de la and that you extend your relationship to the Kings that they use to extend the relationship to withhold your father mother, what did they who's the person? go and visit the person? What do you look for the friend of your father who died and who

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used to go to?

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I tell them I went to visit you because I saw my father visiting you father of you Musa

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as for the brothers who have family members, parents who are non Muslims.

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Be careful.

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The only time that you allow to disobey your parents if they forcefully try to get you to abandon Islam

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but

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Hello

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Hannah, in that position he said, we're in Jeddah Allah and Tisha curry maricella

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Houma and if they strive in order to get you to abandon Islam and you follow another dude obey them knock but listen to this was a boo Murphy dunia Nava, but at the same time, be kind to them. Do this in the best manner possible because you're the one who changed.

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You have to show them the excellence of Islam.

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Like Abu hurayrah

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was a Muslim, he used to have a mother. Every time he tells it I'm going to the Prophet she makes against him and she curses the Prophet

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Allah he would come to the prophets of Salaam crying, Allah make dua for my mother to become a Muslim.

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Allahu

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Allah, O Allah guide the mother of IV hula, when they have arrived home, knock, knock, knock.

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He found her smiling, cheerful,

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and she tells him I would like to be a Muslim

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comes back to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. rasulillah so happy Allah has answered.

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Allah has answered.

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My mother became a Muslim.

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Don't act like you're the person who got everything figured out. They deserve also a chance. They draft within

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a snap into Aviva. She came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and she said you're rasulillah my mother's still a caterpillar. And she came to visit me. Should I treat her kindly Rasul? Allah said yes, treat her kindly.

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Show her the excellence. Show them the excellence of Islam.

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Don't be mean to them. Give them a chance and if Allah wills he will change the hearts

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