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Karim Abuzaid

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Sh Karim advises us on how to build good character in Islam. This lecture delivered at Masjid Al Rashid in Edmonton Canada

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Fast every day, but he still does what he has he has a bad character

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is not will never what will happen to the person is

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impossible just

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meaning across

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famous

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he knows that there is somebody in his town backbiting

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and he knew that this person

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has gotten the news he asked the person working for him please go and collect the best arrived he can find that

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he batteries is really nice. And he said to him and killed him thank you very much for your

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carry on bag. Bye.

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Imagine someone who does

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exactly like somebody imagine.

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And then I come at night. What would you say about this person?

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Exactly. The one with a good character.

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good character.

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The second

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is called in finis Viola piano.

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The heaviest

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item in your skill in the date judgment is to have

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the third party

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if you want to be with the Prophet

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next to him

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in the digital edition.

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Listen,

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by the way,

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you're

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gonna find

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something short.

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A gift to the system.

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She said

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a woman may end up with two husbands in the dunya. Who's gonna be her husband.

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One last one.

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The

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the gentleman.

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I guarantee a house

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for a person in gentleman in the outskirts of gentlemen, for someone Lehman

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call

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for someone with leave of being

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obligated for sometimes the comms person. It's all about I'm better than you I know more than

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but when you when you see the conversation is taking the trial.

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Brother

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it's becoming personal. It's not any more about the subject of the outcome.

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The process guarantees

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it What's up, gentlemen, women

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get Eva

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and I guarantee a house in the middle of gender for someone who leaves off, leave off line. Even if you do.

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A lot of us go and order to make the crowd laugh and have a good time. He ends up with what

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And I guarantee a house

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of someone

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who

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has

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one last thing in one minute

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What is the path?

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How can we end up with a wicked

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in love

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loss of

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life

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the things you asked to have

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one of the applications that we made when we open the salon after

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a love on Matheny

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Oh Allah.

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Allah, Allah, he would look at and

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he would see a lot of McKenna

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a lot like you create like you made you look

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good, my character also

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your company

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will know

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if you're hanging around people who use profanity people will lie.

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That's the side that people end up with.

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That's the type that you want to

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learn SEO.

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In the army

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best of

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the best.

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The description of the book is about this.

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There is a book

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he got really really interested towards the end of his life with the needing the tower and they just

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said to him

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and he asked him Can you please tell us what is the description of the Prophet sallallahu

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is a description in the

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description of

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Hawaii

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there is a description

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Yeah.

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order to

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walk me

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through the lesson

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as well, that I believe is a

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winner.

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Imagine someone Someone comes by this whole thing

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this

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is not your world.

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Somebody

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told me that story

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ended up parking the car in wrong ways.

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So one of the brothers they told me this happening

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and I'm not gonna

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block in my way.

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Imagine imagine, imagine

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a person walks into the mesh, and he already

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met the companions.

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You heard that before the companions, what

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are you doing? Let us

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Let him finish.

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What about Hamada?

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This one is a little much

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Why not? Just to show you

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one

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example

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I used to live for

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the city

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I mess it

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up us going back and forth five times a day

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they do it but they sit but we must have

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some odd

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I will not leave salaat behind the Prophet

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Jamar

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suddenly.

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So, he can come in

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and we use this for almost as an evidence that the man

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with intention can mismatch

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under the impression that we must have the intention

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and the man can have an intention and demand

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is there mandatory or voluntary?

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But what about the man behind him behind him there being a mandatory or voluntary

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mismatch.

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Now

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imagine

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imagine why wife is a little bit

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so, one day he came and he lit the salah and he stopped and he kept going

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So a bit

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brain behind him, he's standing and he's going up.

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He went to the site by himself

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completing one

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and that's where the SQL statement is what

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sometimes

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called a site

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Allah,

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Allah,

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Allah

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are not political.

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I go back

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out to the desert

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he's hunting and his servants cooked for him a whole sheet

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a whole shebang right

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and they brought it to me.

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So, we looked at the potential

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please go and find somebody who

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felt better we came the liquid game and he saw roasted

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rice

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matter Come on

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the mother of the sheep not to doubt

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God

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feeling compassionate for the sheep as the mother of the sheep respite you

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lot

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from him and I asked him

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how old

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he is.

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Don't do this.

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For the tag

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just to show you

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the visual learners about my statement

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one day with no

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one

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was killed in one of the methods

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are straightforward but

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when they are truthful, their truth

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right away he said

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I was wrong.

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It was wrong for me to

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steal from me. So a lot

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of knowledge

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regarding love

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Good company that

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abused you.

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I mean, I got into a state by the way I can talk and

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maybe will allow question.

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Shall

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we have any questions and answers about just

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attending and listening? Do we have any questions?

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Good day?

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A very good question. Yes. I think it's very beneficial

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especially for Muslims

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who live in

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America and Canada and all these places.

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For

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the brothers who come from Pakistan, India,

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they are normally followers of the School of focus.

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The brothers who come from West Africa

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they are more with the Lima man, Rahim Allah,

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Egypt, Saudi Arabia more often the second

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was

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the Arabian Peninsula.

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And we come to America

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and now comes in the conflict.

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What should we do?

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I think if you understand why

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that demand is this

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you will find the solution.

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We need to understand that all these emails existed the first 100 years.

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The Paddy was not available to all of them.

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So, when somebody was asking him a question,

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He will give His verdict verdict. Ruling and

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he has available evidence

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because he wasn't ready

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for it to travel was not the impact to this. The

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authentication and the weakening of the Hadees was not mature yet.

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So some of them actually would rule basement.

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But he doesn't know

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all these commandments

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of honey

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Are you

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over a mattress

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and you found the caddies that contradict My ruling

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over

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what color they

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want

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to see the Rockies

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when

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you cannot pass on my ruling without knowing the evidence I used to establish the pool because maybe the evidence is weak. Or maybe the evidence was abrogated. Or maybe that evidence was a particular case was

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was iron.

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Chef

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either harder for Rocky.

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Rocky.

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Now if you if you really understand these things,

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manners and the righteousness and piety and the key, all of them will try to bring us closer to the prophets of Allah

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in my opinion contradicts the opinion of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam for my opinion.

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Malik said,

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cool.

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So now

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he can say no to anybody, including me.

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The only one who cannot say no to is the one

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who's left

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with me, whatever.

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Whatever it is

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what I can put them in another bag.

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Don't take from me, don't take it from

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us.

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You're supposed to follow the process of

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whoever brings you closer to the

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circle around the whoever provides the evidence. That's the one you follow.

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Let's be practical. A lot of the brothers don't have the ability

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to check the evidence. Gina's

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our layman

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politics also a student of knowledge to read and understand

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the

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way the Hadees was cited and

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he's gonna follow a certain amount, how does he can force them economic and you have to be tolerant.

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And if you see them doing something in the masjid, as long as it's not a beta as long as it has a place in the sun, don't condemn this don't

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don't because there is brotherhood.

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Ideal example.

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We see this in the East Coast.

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In America

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with the feet

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Yeah.

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So now the brother, this brother standing and there is a distance in between. So he brings his feet closer to him and then he goes away.

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I understand

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you standing at your feet next to him he did like this should you do it again.

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Let's go. Maybe

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like this again.

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What we should do is if you

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learn and

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and, and it really should be the man's job. So

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especially areas are the issues with his congregation and so forth. But at the end of the day, we

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strive to

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avoid

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that.

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Alongside Barack Obama was exempt from

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Canada.

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In a solid,

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solid, there is a few of the jewels that are sulla which is made out of it's fine intentionally is nothing accepted.

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