Kamil Ahmad – The Fitna Of Women

Kamil Ahmad
AI: Summary © The Prophet sall campaigns against sexual and moral abuse, warning against going to war and risked lives. A young man who fell into a trap and went to a church's worship was lured into drinking the Bible by mistake. The speakers discuss the use of Allah's substed words, such as seeking refuge in his name and facing the consequences of doing things wrong, and the potential consequences of luring a Christian woman and doing so. The segment also touches on the use of models and the potential consequences of doing so, including loss of others and harm.
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Wales if you don't move back home, warming up how Rasulullah who fell called the affair as I thought it was and how we map out

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my dear brothers and sisters.

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the times in which we live in today

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are times of fitna on so many different levels.

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But there is one fitna

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that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said spoke up

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1400 years ago

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that we see prevalent

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and that we see most of us struggling against and so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He said, ma talk to Matt on October 35th in Atlanta, although Riley regionally meaning

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that there is no fitna that I have left behind me,

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more dangerous, more harmful for men than the fitna of women.

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And so this is why Allah subhanho wa Taala legislated what he legislated of laws that would protect us from this fitna.

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So Allah subhanho wa taala. He legislated various kinds of laws that are outlined in the Quran, such as that which pertains to our relationship with various kinds of women, the Mahad Him, those who are not allowed to marry

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and Allah subhanahu Attallah legislated that we not freely mix between the genders and

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Allah subhanho wa Taala commanded the believing men, and also the believing women to lower their gaze. Good little mini Nyah, who do mean on the sorry him? Why for Wufu Jehan Delica as kala whom say to the believing men,

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say to them to lower their games and protect their private parts, that is more pure for them.

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And so this is because this is because shaitan does not come to us directly.

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He won't come to one of us and say, commit Zina directly, but rather, he drags us into sin gradually. And that's why Allah subhanahu Attallah told us, making us to realize these footsteps of shaitan Yeah, are you hilarious? Man who laughed at me rueful to watch the shaytaan

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well mania WR fu to RT che Barney for in who neurobiol fascia evil Moncure

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for inner who yet Maru Bill fracture, you will Moncure Allah subhanho wa Taala says, commending us, all you who believe do not follow in the footsteps of shaitan. For whoever does so whoever follows in the footsteps of shaitan than indeed shaitan he only commands in decency, in morality, and evil. And until shaitan.

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Addressing his soldiers and his troops, he tells them to attack

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to attack human beings through their eyes. For it is this same I that I

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was able to trap Adam in.

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So he Lord Adam,

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into eating from the tree

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by making him to see this tree and the fruit on it as being something delicious as being something

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that will fulfill something that he had hoped for instilling within Adam false hopes. And so and so shaytaan addressing his troops, he tells him to attack the Children of Adam, through their eyes, because it is through these eyes, that I will control them, and I will entice them to commit evil Ibaka him Rama Hawa, he says

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he says that the gaze and the sight it generates a thought

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and then that thought it generates an idea. And then the idea

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it generates a will a determination

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and then that will will grow and it will intensify.

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And the person will become determined to commit that sin. And then the sin will inevitably be committed unless there is something to prevent the person from committing it. And then he says concerning this, it was said

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that patients in lowering the gains is easier than patients enduring the pain that comes after that.

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And so my dear brothers and sisters, it starts with the eyes. And if we do not control our neffs and its desires from looking at haram

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it will lead us to consequences

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that we will lead to regret.

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And so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam addressing it robiola who sang he said LA to the letter to the another or another do not follow up one glance with another for in Latin, Hola, Lee, Santa Clara, the first one, it was for you, meaning that it was not under your control. You are walking down the street, you saw something. But then the second glance, that is not for you, meaning that the first one is pardoned. But then after that, you have control and you can lower your games, even cathedral

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he mentions a story.

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In his famous book, I'll be there when they hire.

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He says

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An individual a person in his time, who he knew by the name of Ibn Abdul Rahim he narrates to him this story. He said that we went out

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on a mission.

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We went out on a mission to the Roman lands.

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And there was a young lad who accompanied us.

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And this young person,

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he was

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the most

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worshipping of us. He was the most knowledgeable of us. He would recite the Quran more than any of us. He would fast during the day, and he would stand up and pray during the night.

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He goes on to say

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that suddenly we came across a fort.

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And this young lad,

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he went,

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he went close to the fort.

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And so we thought that maybe he went there to relieve himself, and that he would come back.

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But he didn't come back.

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So we went to see where he went. And we found, we found him at the fort. Talking with a Christian woman from behind the fort. She was inside the fort.

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And so

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he fell in love with her. And he asked her, how he could be with her.

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And so this woman, she said, there is only one way.

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And that is if you renounce Islam and convert to Christianity. If you do, so, the door will open, and I will be waiting for you.

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And so this young person, he fell into that trap. He converted to Christianity. He went to the door, he knocked on it, and it was open for him.

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Even Abdullah Rahim, the one narrating the story, he says,

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he says

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that we returned from our mission and the entire journey. Our only discussion was concerning this young person

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and the grief you can never imagine. For we looked at this young teenager, this young youth as being one of our own children.

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And look at how he went astray. He was the most worshipping of us. He was the most devoted to Allah among us. He was the most knowledgeable of us, how on earth did he go a string.

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And so he says

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that we even addressed him. And we told him, fear Allah and come back.

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But he wouldn't listen to us. We asked him, What has your worship done for you? What has your Koran done for you? What has your fasting done for you? What has your preamble laid done for you?

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And so his response was regarding the Quran, he said, I have forgotten all of it. And all that I can remember of the Quran is one verse. Mallya, what do Ludhiana cafardo this one verse where Allah subhanahu Attallah says, will rob you would do Nadine Acuff Haru Locanda Muslimeen daughter who Mia who dare whom thou double home Yep, cool why a tomato? While you will he will Emmylou festival fire Allah moon, this one verse where Allah subhanho wa Taala says, perhaps

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those who disbelieve they would wish that they were Muslims. Leave them Allah subhanahu Italia says, leave them

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in their enjoyment, leave them to eat, to enjoy

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and be deceived by their false hopes, for they will come to know.

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And so that was the end

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of this, of this young man

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who was lured

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who was lured by nothing other than

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a small glands,

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a small gaze that many of us look at as being insignificant, and we believe

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was so cruel Allahu Allah tofi One Tina and watch her do Allah Allah Allah Allah who was the WHO luxury teller who are we militia? Wash Hadwin no Mohammed Abu rasuluh era ribuan so Lola who has a lemma whether or Karate he was early he was one he was in learning. Women, sir Island. Do you Okta? Rahu Isla Yomi Deen bad taco La Habana de la what are people who facility when? Najwa Yeah, are you one lady you know? Yeah you one lady in

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taco law how a coup ma saw the thing.

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My dear brothers and sisters

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the lock down

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and the restrictions are lifted in the coming days, and as we enter

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into the first heatwave of the summer,

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we are faced

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with this fitna.

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With this fitna of women that the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam warned us of

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and so there are many out there

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who easily fall into the traps of shaitan

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not being able to control their nests and their desires.

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And so

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I want to reflect

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over one of the greatest stories that Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed in the Quran.

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The story of use of it his Salam.

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From this story, we have not just a few lessons, but hundreds of lessons that we can learn.

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And from these

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are seven ways, seven ways that will help us to deal with the fitna of women. Seven Ways that Allah subhanho wa Taala he mentioned in the story of use of adding his Salah.

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So the first of these ways

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is by seeking refuge in Allah subhanho wa Taala when faced with that temptation

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and so use of allihies Salaam

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when the wife of the king, she tried to seduce him, or or what will let you who have EBT ha infc He

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wore all weather to Letty who have EBT her infc He was on a cotton.

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We'll call it hate.

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Call him has Allah

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when she tried to seduce him,

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and she locked all the doors. And she said to him, now come to me. What was the response of use of it?

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What was the very first thing that he did? What was the very first thing that he said?

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He said, I seek refuge in Allah, my refuge is with none other than Allah subhanho wa taala. And so seeking refuge in Allah subhanho wa Taala is the number one means that will help us to face any kind of fitna out there, no matter how great it may seem, secondly,

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to realize

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the evil that this will lead to, to realize

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the wrong

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and the oppressive nature

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of Zina.

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And so Yusuf Ali has said,

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after that, what did he say? In hula euphony for body morning,

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that the oppressive they will never succeed, signaling, that if I was to commit this grave sin, then I am nothing but unjust. I am nothing but an oppressor.

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And this reminds us of that hadith, in which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a young person came to him and said, Ya rasool Allah, give me permission to commit Zina.

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What was the response of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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and what was the response of the companions around him?

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They were ready to attack him. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he asked him

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Would you?

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Would you be pleased?

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If the same thing was to be done with your sister, your mother, your daughter, your ad?

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With each one of these, he said, No.

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I would never want anything like that to be done with them.

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So likewise,

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these women that you want to commit Zina when

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they are sisters, they are mothers, they are daughters.

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And so you committing this sin

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is unjust, just like it would be unjust

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with those who you love, thirdly

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reviving the Eman in our hearts.

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Reviving the Eman in our hearts. And so Allah subhanho wa Taala says, what occurred to him to be he were him maybe ha Lola or Bora Han or a

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good article you know Sullivan, who Sue Ellen fascia.

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Allah subhanahu wa Tada says

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that she advanced towards him.

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As for use of highly Salam, he would have also advanced if it was not

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for the Quran, for the proof of Allah, him seeing it before him, and Allah subhanho wa Taala averting from him in decency, immorality, the poor hand of Allah that Yusuf Ali has Salam saw, the scholars say that it is the knowledge that he had in his heart, the Eman that he had in his heart, especially that which relates to Allah subhanho wa taala. His means his attributes

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this Eman that he had in his heart, knowing who Allah subhanahu wa taala is knowing that Allah is watching him knowing that Allah subhanahu Adana will bring him to account if he was to commit this indecent act.

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it last loss of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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sincerity and honesty

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that we have in our hearts, those who are sincere to Allah subhanahu wa taala. They do not allow any kind of fitna to penetrate their hearts. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, In whom in a bad, you know, philosophy, he was from our chosen servants, and in another Clara, in whom in a bad you know, morally Suim he was from our sincere and honest servants. And so the question is, how honest are you with Allah subhanho wa taala?

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Are you someone who is conscious of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Only at times when you are not tested?

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Or are you conscious and honest with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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at all times fifthly

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fleeing away,

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fleeing away from Phaeton

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when you are presented with them,

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not wavering, not pausing, not hesitating, not thinking, but rather right away, running away. And this is what we learned from the story of use of hiding his salon was terrible.

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What did com you so who mean doober

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They raced towards the door, meaning that Yusuf Ali has Salem, right away, he got up, and he ran towards the door, trying to escape. And then she ran after him, tearing his shirt from behind. And so, when presented with these fitten we should flee. We shouldn't even go to such places where we were we will be exposed to these fatal Sixthly standing firmly in resistance in refusal to submit to these temptations and the Phaeton and shaytaan and the desires and urges of our knifes.

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One AccuDraw or two who infc He for style some.

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What did she say? When she was in the gathering of the women?

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she said to them,

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that I did, indeed try to seduce him. But what did he do? He stood firmly in resistance. And so,

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people, when they are faced with different kinds of Phaeton,

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there are those who stand firm in resistance. And there are those who surrender and give up.

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Those who stand firm in resistance, they are the ones who will be saved. But those who surrender, they are the ones who will perish. Just like two individuals who are out at sea.

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And they are about to drown.

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Both of them know how to swim. But one, he continues to struggle until he finds safety while another who tries but then he gives up and he surrenders. And he drowned.

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Finally, my dear brothers and sisters,

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the seventh way to help us to be saved

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from this fitna

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is none other than to turn to Allah subhanahu wa taharah into

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and so with all that use of allihies Salam went through,

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first, that woman,

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then when he escaped from her,

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and she went in the gathering of the women, and then they all tried to seduce him.

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And then after that,

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he was threatened, that if he does not comply, he will be thrown in prison. And he will be humiliated, he will be disgrace.

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What did he do?

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Being who he was

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a prophet of Allah, a messenger of Allah,

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having the Eman that he had, the taqwa that he had, he could have said, Let me rely on myself. redirect me to rely on my Eman, my ego, my righteousness, this will save me but no.

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He turned to Allah subhanho wa taala. And he declared his own powerless nature.

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And so what did he say? All right, BCG, new hub boo Isla Yan in the room and he

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he turned to Allah and said, Yeah, Rob.

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Prison is more beloved to me then what they are calling me to not what she is calling me to what they all of these women are calling me to.

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And then what did he say? what it costs to refer I'm in the UK the home office boo la Hiner. What a communal Jaya Helene, that oh Allah. If you do not save me from their plotting, they're coming nature, then I will give it to them.

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If it is not you, oh Allah Who will save me. Then that says I will end up falling into their trap. And I will be one of the ignorant

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and so one should never rely

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on himself.

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One should never rely on his own Eman on his own righteousness. On his own Taqwa. One should never say I am so knowledgeable. This knowledge will save me. But rather one should turn to Allah subhanahu wa taala declaring Allah as the all powerful to save him from all kinds of problems from all kinds of Phaeton. We ask Allah subhanahu Montana to protect each and every single one of us from the traps of shaitan from the Phaeton that are out there MALBA Hold on in her one button. Yeah, that'll generally what a cron there was always a Lemo Rahima Kamala,

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