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If you want to Villa

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fusina. Woman sejati armanino

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Miyazaki Hilah.

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Villa wanna you believe

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wash your hair Do

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you know how long ago

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what I should have my number hamedan Abdu Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa

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ala Yomi Diem yeah you Hilary tabula hapa to party one atom.

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Muslim moon Yeah, I do have natural rock documentary I mean I've seen wahida wahaca mean has

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what does that mean? humeri janin case he wrote when he saw what up a lot and I detest aluna v one or ham in Allah Subhana Allah Kumara theva yeah you know taco la kulu Colin said either

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way I'm

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warming up

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soccer

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one day from a ribbon on football but on the one who

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was sitting with his companions

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in one of the houses in Medina

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and he asked them

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make a wish.

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So one of them said,

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Oh, I mean,

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I wish

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that I could have gold

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filled

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in this house

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so that I could use it

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to spend

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in the way of Allah subhana wa Tada.

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So one of the allawah and he said, Make a wish.

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So another one he said, Oh a meter. I mean, I wish

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that I had jewels

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and pearls, the size of this house, so that I could use it to spend in the path of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and give for his sake.

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So tomorrow Viola and he said, Mika, which, at this point, they said, All immutable meaning.

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We don't know what you intended.

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So he robiola who he said, As for me,

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I wish that this house was filled with men.

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The likes of Abu Zubaydah ignem, john Ra.

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Now has it been gentlemen?

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Salim

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Mola, Prabhu,

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the children of Abu hanifa and Khadija even a young man so that I could use them

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so that I could use these men in the obedience of Allah, and to spread the word of Allah subhana wa.

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It's all my dear brothers and sisters

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omoto Viola.

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He valued such men. Why?

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Because

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he fully understood

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that civilizations do not stand on material wealth.

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Without men.

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He's fully understood that victory does not come

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to weapon

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if there are no men behind them.

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And so my dear brothers and sisters today, our own

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we do not lack

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we do not lack meals, but we lack men.

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A meal is simply the opposite of a female, but men.

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Men

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are different.

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And so our own met today is like the Prophet sallallahu. I mean, he was sending them explained

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when he was asked about a time that will come

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in which our enemies

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will divide us and conquer us. And so one of the companions as Yana Shula will it be because of our small numbers on that day. And so he sort of log on to us, and I'm sending

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You will be many, but without saying you will be like scum

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like the scum that is driven by the floodwaters. And so my dear brothers and sisters, there are many among us who have certain characteristics.

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We have certain qualities that Allah subhana wa Taala has gifted us with.

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And so some among us, we are breed we are courageous.

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We need to use that in the right way.

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Others among us, Allah subhanahu wa tada has gifted us

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with the ability to speak

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with the ability

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to win arguments and debates. We need to channel that in the right way. Others among us, Allah subhanahu wa, tada has blessed us with Well, we need to use it in the right way.

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And so it's not about changing our characteristics. Islam did not come to tell us to change who we are in that sense. But rather, Islam came to tell us to utilize what we have, and what Allah has gifted us with in the right way. And so I'm one of the Allah when

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he was a courageous man. He was known for his bravery, not after he became a Muslim,

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but rather

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from before, and so the Muslims had to suffer his hands because of his oppression towards them when they were in Mecca.

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But after he became a Muslim, he did not give up that bravery, that courage.

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He did not give it up or rather, he channeled it in the right way.

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For the sake of a lot and for the sake of the Muslims, Harley Davidson, what he

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he was known for his expertise in war tactics. And it was because of him, that the Muslims were attacked on the day of oil.

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And so after he became a Muslim, he did not give up his expertise, but rather, he used it

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for the sake of Islam, and to give victory to the Muslims, even after the death of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam so the question is,

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what made these men to be who they were.

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It was a real realization

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of the value

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of this leap, and how we are not here.

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We are not here

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for our personal desires to satisfy our personal interests, but rather, we are here for Allah subhana wa Tada. This challenging channeling everything that they had for Allah service. And so my dear brothers and sisters, our oma today, is in need of men with high aspirations.

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Our own man today is in need of men,

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with noble goals in their lives, strong determination, to sacrifice everything that they have their time, their energy, their efforts, and above all,

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their egos and their desires, favoring Allah Subhana who with the HANA, and what he desires over everything else. We had men in this room throughout its history.

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Who came at a time

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when the oma was in need of them.

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Abu Bakr radi Allahu Allah.

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On the day of a red day

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when whole tribes upon stated and left Islam

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he stood up and he fought them.

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Disease came at a time

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when oppression and injustice

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has spread over the oma.

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And so he brought back justice. He stood up for justice.

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I mean, we've been humbled,

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came at a time

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when the opponents of Islam and the deviant sects

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tried to push their deviant ideology

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upon the oma and he

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He came, and he stood up. And he

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went through what he went through. Because of that. Somehow Idina, you became, at a time when an quits was lost at the hands of the Crusaders. And he brought it back. He brought it back into the hands of the Muslims. How did these men do that? With high aspirations? With noble goals with determinations? And being men, the men that they were medical level you want to come to the fore and Hawaii whenever anyone can be Murphy he may not be with Victor Hakeem. akula Metis mugunghwa stop para la de when I come when he said even singing I'm gonna leave them be more happy.

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la shady Telugu tell women

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wash hadwin Mohammed and Abu rasuluh a dairy.

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So in the long run, I knew he was he was what he what he what he learned when

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he walked

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into your medium, my bad fit, topple law. The law he

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wrote a movie 61 Nigeria, you have to you hilarious man.

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Kumar saw the theme. My dear brothers and sisters.

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When we look at our youth today

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we find that many of them

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have lost the true meaning of manhood.

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We find them aspiring to be

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like people

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who look like men.

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but inside they are women.

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We look at them at our youth

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and we find him

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that they will cry.

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They will cry over their favorite team losing the championship. But they will not cry

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over missing Salatin Federer.

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My dear brothers and sisters.

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What does it mean to be a true man in the sight of Allah subhana wa Tada.

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How has Allah subhana wa tada defined or used the word orajel man in the Koran.

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We find

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an example

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of the man

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who stood up in the face of tyranny

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against fear.

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Allah Subhana which Allah did not mention who he was by his name, but rather the loss of Hannah who would have called him a man wakanow Raja Minh le Farah, homeowner, you have to know who I talked to,

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in your corner up to

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a man who was a Muslim, who was hiding his he man who was from the family affair home, stood up against him and said, Do you kill a man? Simply because he says that a lot is my lord

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standing in the face of tyranny.

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Also,

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Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions that man

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who once again we don't know who his name was, but he came running to Musa Hari Salaam

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advising him watch out oh Raja, lumen oxwall, Medina TSR

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and then came running from the outskirts of the city.

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Running to Musa alayhis salaam, Corelli Moosa.

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In Elma Yamuna Korea to Luke Raja in Nila Mina now Sikkim almost

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they are trying to kill you. They are planning to kill you. So leave the city. I am indeed a sincere advisor

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Should you? True men are those

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who stand up for justice. They are those

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who will advise their Muslim brothers and sisters when they are faced with danger. True men are those who Allah subhana wa tada described when he Suppan went to Hana said, lemma steeton Caesar had a taco.

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that Masjid that was established from the very first day upon piety and upon top What? That is more deserving for you Oh my hammer to send a premium.

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And then Allah described who stands in such massage, fi re Janu hip buena Enya, Tata Haru, in them are men

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who want to purify themselves. True men are those who have purified their hearts and their souls of every single evil of every single vise. True men. Are those who Allah subhanho wa Taala described regionalen lateral he him TJ rotten, one.

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Isaac really, what you call me, Swati? What eater is

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your whole food now young men to

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absorb? men.

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Men

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who are not distracted.

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They are not distracted.

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By buying and selling, nor

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by any business. They are not distracted from that.

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concerning their duty to Allah some kind of went to the vicar of Allah, or praying, establishing their Salah or giving there's a cat and a fear standing before Allah subhanahu wa Tada. And so, true men are those who are not distracted by worldly desires. They understand their responsibilities concerning Allah Subhana who with the HANA, and their religious responsibilities, true men are those who Allah subhanho wa Taala described as having fulfilled their pledges with Allah, meaning meaning regeneron sada, whom Allah highly feminine woman,

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woman, woman young woman has been diluted ILA, from among the believers, meaning not all the believers, but from among them are men. a law called the men, there are men who fulfill their pledges their promises with a law, they were honest to Allah subhana wa Tada.

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It's among them are those who sacrifice their lives for Allah. And among those are those who are waiting for their turn. And none of them changed their pledges, their promise with a lot in the lease. And so true men are those who sacrifice everything for Allah subhana wa Tada.

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There are those who made a pledge with Allah and did not change a single word, a single letter of that pledge. Unlike many of us today,

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who the smallest of tests, the smallest sub fitting, they come to us, and we fall and we don't uphold our pledge with Allah Subhana. Who, what to have.

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And so my dear brothers and sisters, true men are not defined by their appearance. True men are not defined

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by their bodily strength. Otherwise, if that was the case, then the moon up in the time of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam would have been called many.

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But Allah subhanho wa Taala told His Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to not become deceived by them, one to one I told him, what I would have to do not be deceived.

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Do not be impressed by their bodies or their wealth, because they have that meaning that when I feel older, Hippocrates,

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Allah subhanho wa Taala tells the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam do not become impressed by that.

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What in your kulu Tesla Haleakala him to achieve what Tesla and he told me him

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and when they speak, you listen to them.

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Unknown cultural booms and another but the reality is that they are like wooden planks.

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They are cowards

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so buena Kula had been hiring him. They think that every cry every call is against them.

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And so my dear brothers and sisters,

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this oma today is in need.

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It is in need of men who first and foremost understand

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who Allah subhana wa tada is,

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who understand why they are here in this dunya they understand the purpose of their lives.

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True men

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who will use what Allah has gifted them with, not for their personal aspirations, not for their personal desires. But for a loss of China who went to

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for upholding the deen of Allah subhanahu Adana,

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putting in everything that they have,

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in the service of a loss of Hannah who was

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looking forward

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to that day in which they will meet Allah subhanho wa Taala. This imagery is in need of men who understand their responsibilities, will understand their responsibilities to themselves, to their families, to their communities, to the oma at large and above all to Allah subhanho wa Taala into the deen of Allah subhana wa

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