Envy Al Hasad Part 6 Counteracting Hasad In Ones Heart

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The conversation covers the history and causes of hasip, a disease that causes damage to the heart. The speakers emphasize the importance of being aware of one's heart health and avoiding extremes. They also discuss the consequences of the hazard and the importance of avoiding extremes and going beyond vision. The speakers stress the need to be aware of the potential consequences of a hazard and work against them. They also discuss the effects of COVID-19 on the heart and mind, including decreasing health and " envy." The speakers suggest seeking deception and negative emotions to avoid negative behavior towards people.

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salatu salam ala nabina Muhammad

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Rashid one

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inshallah, today we are having the sixth lecture on our series on

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and actually, inshallah today's lecture will

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have to finish up many topics maybe touch upon some, very briefly,

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because the next lecture Shall we want it to be the final lecture in the series, and we want

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the next lecture to have some of the positive aspects that we want to discuss, in this

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lecture series. So far everything we've been seeing is pretty much been, we can say, of a negative nature, we're talking about a disease, we're talking about the ramifications of the evils of this disease.

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Today, inshallah, we'll be speaking a little bit about what to do about the disease, and then, inshallah, next time, we'll be speaking about

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what should be occurring for the Muslim

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instead of this disease of

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some of the qualities that a Muslim should possess, that will inshallah take the place and remove this

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from his heart.

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some of this material that we'll be going through quickly, especially today, shall over it will be available. As you know, this is all part of the book, the disease of the disease.

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So, anything that we go through quickly, can be found in more detail. And

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last time, we spoke about the evils of hasip. And, as you can tell by the fact that that took up the whole lecture last time that there are lots of evils of hasip.

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And if I, there was a continuation from the previous lecture, to show you how much the evils of the hazard are.

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Let me just mention one more aspect.

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And this is the aspect of

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the causes,

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that the evil eye is a reality.

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Now, we've actually glitches before on the line, and what to do with the speculation and so forth, and all the points related to rain. And I will not repeat the material here plus, it would take us too far off course of our tour,

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doing hair,

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but just a small point on the relationship between the husband and

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as many of the scores, such as even

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spoke about.

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Portable rain is the message that comes from from the individual.

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So there is something in the hearts of an individual, they can actually have some effect.

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How does it work in the world? What's going to go maybe the metaphysics of it, there's a lot of things in this world that people cannot explain.

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And we should not.

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We should not think of ourselves as being so great, and so intelligent, that we can explain and understand everything that occurs in this world.

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I think there are a lot of things that occur in this world that we do not have an explanation for. And in fact, many things we explained simply by saying it this chance and probability.

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Why did this person get sick? and not the other person? Why did this person has this? Not the other person? Why is this person connected and let the other person this is a low chance and probability? And that's our answer.

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I don't know if we can consider that a scientific as

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twins, for example, that all of the practice surrounding them seem to be the same and one of them is disease, the other one is perfectly healthy, for example, and this is all a matter of chance, and so on.

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So it is possible. And in fact, it is reality that there are other factors of work. And we are not completely aware of all those other factors. But since we know from the process of Invisalign, this concept of aligners is true. And

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as I mentioned, there is a relationship between them. And

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this is one of the angles of hazard that you can actually cause some harm to your breath.

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Besides repeating in your heart besides actually working as your brother or your sister, whatever the case might be. There are actually other ways that we maybe don't understand

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Certainly they're not under our control, that you can actually bring home to your brother or sister as a result of this disease.

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When you study the hazard, and when you see all of these evils, and the ramifications and the effects of a hazard, and what's the curl has in your heart,

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then you can understand

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the process, because very easy to understand this process, when you think about what the husband is. And as we spoke about less samples, it is the kind of empathy even with respect to others to

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give him

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a fair assessment and said, to me, I need to do

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an interview with

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the person and said,

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Amen, faith

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and belief, and it hasn't, and we do not get it together in the heart of

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So if you have a husband,

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if you have houses in your heart,

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then there's no way that you can have the complete and true image.

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And if you have the complete and true inner, if your image is complete, and it is correct, there is no room for hazard in your heart.

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Again, goodbye for about less than some of the evils of

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proven formulas,

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and displays.

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And plus the fact that we've spoken about before, but

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as far as the Muslim community as part of this brotherhood, certain type of relationship you're supposed to have with respect to the others for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala. And this is part of human.

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So if you think about some of the different aspects of hasip,

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you can understand that if this diseases in the heart, it means there's something wrong with you,

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you do not have the proper equipment.

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conversely, obviously, if the proper amount is there, there's no room whatsoever.

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There's no room for us whatsoever.

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So you have to be very conscious of the fact we should always be concerned about our hearts as we spoke about in the first lecture, we should always be concerned about the health of our hearts, and realizing that Allah subhana wa tada can turn our hearts in any way at any time.

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So we almost always have to be on top of this matter, and be checking ourselves and making sure that this disease or any other other types of diseases is not creeping in.

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And if we see even the most subtle sign of this disease, and

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if we see even just the last set of sign we should work to remove, we should be alarmed.

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We should be lackadaisical and just think that there's something minor.

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And I would like to mention, one of the signs that you have has been visited hasn't been mentioned by me. And at least the way I understand it, this is a ferrous metals a certified there is this, it will occur to someone and he may not realize that this has happened. But even though the main points out that this is one of the sponsors in his case, he said, a strong sense more of a kind of a subtle sign, that if you have this, which is a sign that your heart is infected with the disease,

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and what you think that when a person tries to conceal the purchase,

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and the goodness of

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love, like when others talk about the virtues of another person and the good does another person or he remains silent and pretends like he does not know the goodness of the other person or the virtues of the others or the good thing that the other person has done

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emmonak me and said that this is

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a sign that he has accident

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because a true believer of a person who has a lot of hazard in his heart. He likes it when good things are said about others he likes to when love is good about others, he likes them and good deeds are appreciated and so forth.

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So therefore he himself when he speaks about others who speaks in a good way and he praises them and appreciates the goodness

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so once a person is no longer appreciated and is trying to hide the other people's will and as love willing to admit, the good things that other people are doing, this is a sign this should be a kind of wake up call in his heart, that there's something going on in

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that there must be some. As I said, even if the mean says it's a strong side, I think more of it on the civil side, there must be some kind of prejudice, it must be some kind of disease that is going on,

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in this heart.

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So this should be something as I said, this should be some kind of a wake up call, don't take this kind of thing like,

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because this might be where it starts, and then it builds more and more, and then your heart may be overcome by this disease.

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So now I want to speak about inshallah, if we do have this feeling of

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what is the cure?

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And what should we do?

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And how should we be?

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Some of these points maybe we touched upon before, but I want to stress them again, as a kind of an organized way of this question of what should we do if we feel that we have this? Now, probably, as we spoke about before, probably disease, this feeling of an hazard is going to intimidate everybody is hard for everybody mind at one time or another?

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And the question is, really, how do you respond to,

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and this is where it's very important that our, our mind or irrational thoughts, control our emotions, or the children actually an even better word to say, the two of them have to go together

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what we believe to be correct, and this is a very important aspect in Islam.

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We believe, for example, to be correct, also affects our behavior and also affects our emotions.

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So we should definitely believe that something is wrong, this also should affect our emotions,

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as well, so therefore, we have a hatred in our hearts.

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And we try to remove it, we try to work against it in whatever means possible, according to the established principles,

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avoiding extremes and going beyond the limits of vision. And so if we notice something is right, then we should love it. And we should try to make it grow and prosper and support it whenever we can.

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So this is there's a recognition in the mind or in the in the intellect, and it also has to be reflected in the feelings and the hearts and so forth.

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So one of the aspects with respect to what

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we have to learn about the hustle first,

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and the more inshallah you learn about the hustle, the more it will affect your attitude towards it.

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inshallah, you will develop a great distaste and a great hatred for a hazard in your heart,

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a great feature for the husband.

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So this inshallah you're never allowed to creep into your heart whatsoever. So one of the first aspects of how to feel ourselves over the head. And what to do, if we feel that the person is coming on, is to have this knowledge to to understand the evil effects of a hazard. We spent a long time or we spend more than one lecture on

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to discuss some of the evil ramifications of a hazard because the goal behind that, obviously, is so that we will understand how dangerous and how harmful This is, and how we should have a great deal of hatred for this disease. And make sure that this disease does not present itself in our hearts whatsoever.

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We have to realize that it hurts ourselves.

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We're just causing harm to ourselves.

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That hurts our relationship to our listeners.

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And in many times, it can destroy our relationship with those who are closest to us.

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Those people who

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are those people who live

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through other means those people who are closest to us in the society, of course is good and assistance.

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It can harm my relationship with all these people.

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No, because like for example, an alcoholic.

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An alcoholic many times if you were to think

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can sit down and look and see how much damage he is causing himself.

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Because of all causing the harm that is causing all the relationships that he is having with so many people who are actually beloved to him, this recognition of all this harm should lead to the person that wants to change.

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Now, alcoholic, alcoholism is something much more obvious, even though people federal government in terms of alcoholism, it is something it is something much more obvious than it has it

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has to do something in the heart.

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And sometimes we don't realize we don't realize how it is affecting.

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You know, you might have a friend of yours, for example, that you have this inventory, you have this feeling of hazard.

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And so therefore, in several ways you don't treat him as well as you should.

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Not as polite to him, as you should be. When we think you don't smile, in the way that you should smile, and omit someone else who don't have that feeling or hesitant you're like that Oh, my God, what's happening? So work

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with somebody else's you have this video, it hasn't. He still uses it. I'm liking the smile, but the new thing isn't there, like cold? Or has some close to it.

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So as I said, this, this disease has it is much more much subtler than alcoholism, for example.

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And you really have to be aware, you have to think about how is it affecting my, my, my life? How is it affecting my relationship with these other people, instead of having a very powerful relationship with others in a very brotherly and sisterly relationship with other others, you're now in this disease to enter into relationship. So therefore, you're not as generous with that person, not as tiny not as friendly with that person, and it is actually affecting our relationship with that other person.

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And you might even think maybe it's not much

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we might not even pay attention to because you have the feeling of a house in your heart. So you don't really care, that you're not treating that other person that will.

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And this is obviously one of the main problems that

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cause you to get in this way. And you are in your heart, you're justifying, that person got this and doesn't deserve it. And

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I'm gonna treat that person this way, the other person may or may not. So when you remove him, you don't quite treat them like you treat others. So you're hurting the other person. Other people, by the way, may also notice

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how come this person when he makes the person feel very warm,

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and they may understand it as a disease in your part. And so, therefore, they will not live with you, and they will not feel towards you, as you would like them to feel towards you. So you see what happens here. Where are they your how you fix this a brother B is noticed by brother C, D and E, and they don't like it, they can see these little things. So therefore they love more or less, and they do with you in a more critical manner, like you deal with the first person. So all of this, again, goes back to the question of

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the disease, the evil effects of this disease.

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So you have a relationship towards Allah subhanho wa Taala, you have a relationship with other people in the community have a relationship, even with your illness,

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you have to sit down and think about whether or not you have this disease in your heart and how it is affecting your how it is affecting your life. So a lot of you do that. And as we said, self reflection, to be honest, and self reflection, unfortunately, is something difficult for many people to do more things. Logically speaking, it is very important for them and so therefore they should be willing to do it honestly with themselves. But because of arrogance because of things in the heart, feelings of greatness, you know, it is oftentimes very difficult. But this is one of the first steps if you want to choose so from and

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one of the first steps you have to realize how you will have to do the kind of stuff I've been talking about the past couple of lectures. And you have to realize you have to look closely to see where it is that is affecting your behavior.

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And as I said, sometimes the self reflection is very difficult, and to be honest with it, or the or to be honest with respect to it is not that easy.

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Earlier when recording Epstein about the feminist movement, sometimes is difficult to differentiate between injustice and feeling upset.

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About injustice. And

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because you have, for example, if someone is treating you incorrectly, if someone is doing wrong, or someone is doing things, something, you have the right to be upset for the sake of others.

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Maybe not so much for your own personal, you know, when it comes to your own personal issues, as someone who's doing

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it is good for you to be forgiving and fair with each other, you will get the pleasure.

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If someone is doing some, some someone is doing wrong, if someone is treating others wrong, someone is doing some kind of injustice towards others. And

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when you have the rights for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala to hate with that person is doing for missing your feeling of brotherhood towards that person, because of that person's lack of proper behavior.

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So therefore, we make those justify that I'm not going to treat this person like I treat other people because of the wrongs

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that you have to be very careful. Because the wrong is, is there something about that person that you did like this, like, out of out of envy, and so forth. So these are not easy matters. I'm not saying that there isn't matters. And and you have to take the time to reflect upon these matters.

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You have to if you're concerned about your health,

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no people are concerned about their physical health. So they made sure that they take time out to go into the gym and exercise for an hour a day I went to have to deal with whatever. Right.

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So if you're concerned about your spiritual health, would have to take the time to think about your spiritual

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in this day and age, you know, where they got us running 24 hours a day after suddenly and doing something.

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You know, everybody's hooked up now 24 hours a day, you know, this Blackberry, people at 6am. They they're checking their email, checking their phone messages and everything, and they're hooked up and they are they are occupied 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

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And they have no time to reflect. You have to shut the BlackBerry off, you have to shift your email off, you have to think reflect something

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even going to the mosque, no, it is because people are busy, they go to the mosque, they pray and they leave, and they don't get much time even to reflect and even maybe the photos is a lot isn't that good because they're still busy, they're still so busy with other things.

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And some of the elements are one of the reasons that you really was able to hit that message anytime you go to the mosque or you pray something beforehand, as a way of first kind of introductory think of for yourself a little bit.

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So that by the time you get to the to a prayer, you are ready to inshallah really benefit from it.

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So this kind of self reflection. Again, I'm not saying that it is easy.

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But if you're serious about your health, you have to think about it, you have to take the time to reflect.

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And then if you do feel that this hazard has entered into your heart, obviously, then you have to do whatever you can to

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repel this disease.

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And the greatest way, probably the greatest way to repair this disease is by increasing your email,

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increasing your email, because this disease will

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show us all.

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As I said, we're not talking about just fleeting experiences that somebody enters your heart. This can happen even to anyone at any time coming from a chiffon. But if this is really starting to plant itself in your heart,

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it is because of a weakness of human.

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And everybody I think everybody knows that we have times in which the man really feels great in the room feel devoted to us to Allah, and during the good deeds become very easy for them and they're just very anxious to pay more investments over and they might have times in which a man the acts of faith are more with drudgery than a pleasure.

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So everybody has this kind of throws. virtually everybody I should say a lot has this kind of flows in the image increases and decreases,

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even increases and decreases.

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So when it starts decreasing and decreasing, this is when the doors open for some of these diseases to come into your home.

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And one thing that is very important for everyone

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we realized that that and we know that on the image increases and decreases. For me, she tries to identify what are those things that help us the best

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to remain at a high level of image?

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In other words, we should not go through these periods of Eman increasing and decreasing

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and never reflect the final few what what was accrued there? How come my mind was increasing at this time? And how come I feel that my Eman was decreasing?

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So we should think about is the wishes

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of a man went up in the night a man went down, and then not even say to herself, okay, Michelle, I have my man went up, what happened, what was what was driving that. And then my man felt what was really driving

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says if we do not reflect upon, if a man is really the most important position, we may call it a position, but the most important that we have, then we should really want to want to see you know, how we can protect it, and keep it healthy and strong and so forth.

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By identifying what causes this sometimes to have an increase in demand, and what causes sometimes to have a decrease in demand.

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We might find, for example, if we reflect upon it, that they're reading the Quran during a certain time, and so that affected us

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a great deal, we might even plan on reading some portions of the plan and to add a greater effect upon

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you never know,

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when maybe we will review certain books,

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maybe we're concentrating more on some aspect of the game. And this had a great effect upon us.

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An obvious example, maybe during this period of time, we're going more to the Quran, and I'm going to the mosque and then interacting with people more and so forth. And that had a great effect to us.

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And then when we when we had a period where I was less than

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when we studied, we'll see maybe we're concentrating too much on getting

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Junior, or maybe we're busy watching too much TV and watching things on TV, which are good, and this brought us down.

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Maybe we will, even during that period of time, we're interacting with some people that we know who are friends, but in reality, they don't have a good effect on him.

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And so therefore, if we look back at it, during this time is good long term, this brother and my man was decreasing while good time I was spending a lot of time with these people and my man was going up.

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So these are really things that we should think about, they shouldn't be kind of obvious, I almost feel embarrassed to, to mention them. But there are things that we should do, we should reflect upon. So when we find the disease infested entering into our hearts, obviously, this is a sign that there's something wrong with our the health of our heart, and the mind will never have imagined ours. So we should think about what is it that inshallah will strengthen our hearts.

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So we're going we're speaking metaphorically in terms of disease, right, the lack of physical disease, mood, steps you can take to prevent the disease from coming. Once the disease occurs, you know what steps you can take to help your body against that disease and so forth and restricting yourself? Well, similarly, it is the case with spiritual disease, I

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have described this as a disease in the heart, let's use this term. So there must be some kind of relationship between how we deal with this disease and we analyze it, how we work, how we try to find cures for it and also the physical disease that we know how to do. So, we should take advantage of this fact and listen without us doing the same term to realize that we tend to have to deal with them in the same kind of way.

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As we spoke about before, obviously, if someone has this feeling of an hazard entering in his heart,

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that he has to make sure that you know if he cannot,

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if you cannot put it into a company, it has to make sure that he always has the hatred forth in his heart, even if it was listening, he doesn't like to be there and he must make sure that he is not taking any steps based on that.

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One of the things for example, the minister was recommended at this point. It will help you inshallah remove this hazard is this you go out of your way.

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You go out of your way to improve your behavior.

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The person that you feel has

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ego and really knows you try your best to consciously think about how you're behaving toward that person, that you feel this inventory.

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And so first of all, this will make sure that you don't act upon them. And inshallah This will remove, this will bring Alyssa henwood data's pleasure pleasure upon you for the way that you're behaving towards that person. And inshallah, when you're dealing with that person in a good way that you'll feel this hazard for. inshallah, the other person will also deal with respect to you in a good way to write I mean, if you are going out of your way, you are being very nice to this person, inshallah, that person will reciprocate. And also be nice to you. And as you develop this love for that person, inshallah, the feelings that will

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be, will be removed from your, from your heart and soul.

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And at the same time,

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you should also reflect upon that hustle in what you are doing, when you have the hustle.

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Because the person that you have hustle towards, especially if you speak based on how subtle you do any kind of action based on

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the person that you are doing this actors, is actually an innocent person.

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divorcement, no doubt, I gave him some bounty, and blessed him with some bounty.

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Especially if you do not get into herramientas forget about the case of getting some meaningful level together.

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And Alyson hanworth, Allah gave him this.

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And now you're attacking him either in your heart or physical or, you know, by taking steps against your note taking steps are attacking an innocent person,

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this person is innocent, by definition is done nothing wrong.

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You're just interested in the fact that he's been given something.

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So you are now attacking an innocent person. So think of the signature friendliness of

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how many, how many people speak about the ways throughout the world and over them that they're coming. And they're so bad because the ribbon committee wrote about the most of them.

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Especially if we commit.

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So obviously, once once we recognize this fact, is Allah, this will also help us to do our best to remove the spinning.

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And some of the name of it, I moved to earlier,

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that we have to realize that the true

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the true bank is all the balances of

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these things of this life.

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And there's many hundreds of verses, and we don't have time to get into them. But when you realize the reality of the things of this life, they are really mean.

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So if you change your your concentration, from the balances of this life from this temporary things, which in the long run really don't have much meaning

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to reflect upon the balances of the hereafter. This will greatly help you remove

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from your heart.

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Because as we spoke about before, you are making hustle for something of this Junior

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something of this world, which, again, to have much real bounty much, much benefits in these things of this world.

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There's no reason to kill yourself over some bounces this was the real bouncing is the bounce here.

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So there's no reason for you to be so upset about the bounces of this.

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And at the same time by having this hazard in your heart. You're actually displeasing Allah subhanaw taala. And you are perhaps removing from yourself the real balances here.

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So it is like is this a double whammy?

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You know, you're envious of something in this life. And by having that approach and suddenly in this life you are removing from yourself, possibly assaulting the EPA and that is the result.

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So if you're really concerned about benefiting yourself, and if you're really concerned about getting the blessings of Allah subhanho wa Taala from yourself,

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then you should realize that by having this hazard, you're going to harm yourself both in this life

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and affect the person who has this disease that hasn't been working recognized.

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As we mentioned, a hazard is a disease that basically harms like many other diseases obviously,

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first and foremost, and maybe completely it harms the person himself. It makes the person

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himself miserable

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person who has a husband, he himself becomes.

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So how did he get to this state, this is a kind of masivo This is a kind of a pitch to having a husband enter into your heart. This is a kind of a fish.

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unless God says we're about a solder permanent, for the mechanism that

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we have, one can

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also handle with dialysis, whatever misfortune happens to you is because of the things your hands have brought around, and for many of them, He grants forgiveness.

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So this is actually a kind of fishing that has entered in your heart.

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And so therefore, what this means is you should repent to Allah subhana wa.

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This should be a sign that you should turn towards Allah subhana wa tada in repentance.

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Because this disease in your heart, lower than most likely, is the result of some wrongs, if you're doing some things that you're committed, because of the things that you're committed, or listen to our data allows the disease and his misery.

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So one of the first steps that you should take

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is to turn towards Allah subhanho wa Taala in repentance, and to ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to guide you. inshallah,

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another thing that also can help you remove this feeling of hazard in your heart is to reflect upon without is it Allah subhanho wa Taala has given you

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all the proposals along the process has

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recommended to us that we should look to those people who are less fortunate

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than looking for those people who are more fortunate.

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And all those people have been given less of this room, we should look through those people.

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And think about what Allah subhanho wa Taala has given us. When you think about what Allah subhana wa tada is giving you, then you become faithful towards Alyssa with the island instead of being upset about what Allah subhanaw taala is not giving you, you become thing for Allah subhanho wa Taala for what Allah has given you. So instead of becoming envious, you become thankful and grateful to Allah.

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And especially for those of us who are living in the West, nowadays,

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materially speaking, we're very comfortable, the majority of us, the majority of Muslims, for example, in the United States are living in a very comfortable position.

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materially speaking, and in fact, before 911 in particular, maybe you can say in every aspect in every way, we were living a very comfortable life.

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Now there is some fitness. Now there are some trials that we're going through. And for some people restricting, fitting remember, first prisoner that we have to suffer from, immediately, they gave us the dean or military to give a partial, again in the room to compromise.

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But in general, as I said, we, in the West, materially speaking, were very well off compared to many of the Muslim throughout the world. And he was put us in this situation,

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you know, who was allowed us and even if we immigrated here, who was allowed us to come? But if we were born here, we grew up here, who really pushed you?

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Is this by art choices this by you know, are we here because of our own dream? Or is this really something that Alyssa Hannah with data decrease?

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Those people who are well off into society, those people who are rich and powerful Muslim, or they are rich and powerful, because of where Allah subhanaw taala put them, and what family they put. And sometimes even the skin, the color of their skin,

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and on where they are, what family and what people they're around. This is why they are in the situation.

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And a lot of this has nothing to do with what gave themselves

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unless it hadn't worked out as decreed, for example, that a person is born to a rich family in Boston or New York, as opposed to being born to the starving, poverty ridden family in Nigeria or any other part of the world.

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So instead of reflecting and always worried about what Allah subhana wa Todd has not given,

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you should think about everything that Alyson hanworth Allah has given

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the great don't is that almost to Allah has given you and there's one belt in particular that Allah subhana wa tada has given all the Muslims and all

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And then in the guilty of being guided to Islam,

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of being saved from this madness that you see in the rest of the world, among all the other people, that comparing the madness, the misguidance

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has saved all of us Muslims, all of the believers from all the other nonsense that is going on.

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If you just reflect for example upon this one,

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this one bounty from Allah Subhana, WA tada you will not be obsessed towards Allah subhanho wa Taala with respect to anything else that Allah subhana wa tada has,

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you will not be upset with Allah subhanho wa Taala with respect to anything that almost God has given anybody.

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Because that means that humbler Allah subhanaw taala has guided you to Islam

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has brought immersion into your hearts.

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And after that, after that, really, what is it so much that you should that you should want,

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that you should need in your heart that you want to come up with a lot of data and what's the lesson with that is

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there's no

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there's absolutely so homeless man what Allah has blessed you by giving you a man and giving you Islam.

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There's no reason for you ever to me in this

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source anyone about anything that Allah subhana wa has given them.

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So reflecting shall upon what Allah Subhana without is giving you first and foremost

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one of the greatest things that Allah subhanho wa Taala has given you as to guide you to

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guide you through this now, you should also think about on the other hand,

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should also think about what is going to be the punishment that you may receive home or listen

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for allowing this person to be.

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Again, we're not talking about the disease of hazard in reality, when we're saying, We're not talking about that fleeting feeling that may come into your heart, but we're talking about a feeling that you allow to implant itself in your heart.

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So therefore, you should think about what is going to be the punishment from a lesson

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for allowing this feeling in your heart.

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Now you've already in essence, you've already know this feeling of misery into your heart.

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So originally Alyssa with Darla made you feel and

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then you allow me to enjoy

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that freedom.

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And you've allowed this disease to enter your

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head, what do you think Allah subhanaw taala will do with respect to the one who is in

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as we know from the from the price, the reward, or the result of a deed is similar in nature to the deed itself.

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So, if you

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have something similar to it and return or less than 100 Dionysus will then mean it

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will say

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also head over to Allah says

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that and those who have earned even

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the competence of an innovator in the life there are and he knew his humiliating disgrace.

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So what is it with envy?

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envy really is the desire for

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the doubt is being removed from other people. Just what envious, envious so if Allah subhanho wa Taala to this evil that you can also handle with the odd is going to load your recumbent with

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a similar evil to the end of the tour. The tour committee. What do you think it will be?

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I don't have the answer that question.

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It was a conjecture on my forte but if it is going to be similar to the what is your community, maybe what it is Allah subhanaw taala is going to remove

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if you want volunteers to remove from others and that is the signature committee. They were the result of Allah subhanho wa Taala is going to remove some of the bells and whistles.

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And of course the worst one and the end result if you continue to wish evil upon others and have this malice towards others

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The end result is maybe

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even remove the essence of emotion from your heart as a result of.

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So, these are some of the things that the patient should be should be reflecting upon.

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And hopefully inshallah these will be like eye openers for the person that she will realize what kind of disease in his heart and he'll maybe he'll come to the point

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like those people who need an intervention, the children finally realize inshallah, what kind of disease in his heart and so therefore, work honestly and sincerely in turn throws a list of how to add to remove it convenient as hard

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as you realize always needed if there is some bounty

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that someone has received in this late in this life

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and you're like that mountain you would like to have a bounty similar to that for yourself, then the solution is not to wish for that bounty destroyed for the other person because that makes no sense whatsoever. Alyssa Howard data has the means to give infinite voltage for everyone.

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So the cure for this hazard in your hearts is not to wish that somebody else doesn't receive something that is a real sign of disease.

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But if you are if you're like some kind of party, don't worry about what the other person has

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turned towards or listened to Allah and ask Allah subhana wa tada from his bounty, show low low and if you're sincere towards Allah subhana wa tada especially if you have this feeling of hesitation in your heart and therefore

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this feeling of hazard in your heart so to speak, for the sake of realism and instead returned to the listener with the allowed to ask me that bouncy, whatever that dancing might be whatever the good thing would be. inshallah Allah subhanho wa Taala will respond to me, I will respond to your question. So instead of wishing but listen how without destroy somebody else's bounty again, for which there's no there's no benefit for that kind of behavior. Instead turn towards Allah subhanaw taala and Elizabeth, Allah will gift you as the

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rest inconsiderate, and

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listen, Henrik data tells us that we should not wish for what a lot of our data is given to us. Putin said we should ask to listen to our data from his Vantage was so alarming to me. Because she asked Allah subhana wa tada from his from his bounties and Allah subhanaw taala is over on everything. And lastly, today, inshallah

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will probably stop, stop here, I would like to present one additional processing

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that demonstrates to us

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the pleasure that Allah Subhana, Allah has with us, actually, to remove this disease from our hearts and purify our hearts from such disease.

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This head was recruited by

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a Swiss Army on three consecutive occasions that that was said to hersa harbor that they are about to see someone who was from the people

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sitting with his

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agency, the Sahaba, that they are about to see someone from the pinnacle of gender and education, the same men entered

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the process, Adam said it three times and each time the same person.

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So then I'll deliver in our last besides

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obviously, the process that I was telling you that this person is transgender, right? So you want to know something about this person? What are his characters dilemma,

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decided that he will spend some time with this person to try to see what is it about this person that is near him from the people agenda, because the process has said, the transform the purple zone. So our beloved amateur went to this person and he made some exclusive,

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economical back to his

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place to stay with this man for something.

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So he stayed with him for three days.

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And then a lot and we said, certainly you can stay with me. So he stayed with this man for three days. And during the three days, he was trying to notice what is special about this person.

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And he will not find anything special about the person with respect to his death.

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He said he did not invite him to bring the late night prayers

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and so he could not find anything. So finally he went to him and he said, Look, what that told me was just an excuse so I could stay with him because

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As the publicist has said, material for people agenda and I wanted to know what is

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what is the reason that that the process is declaring that you are from the pupils in the woods special, easier, what do you do? And then since you know I'm not doing anything just to recap what you've seen in the last few days,

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walked away

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probably dissatisfied.

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So then

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he called him back. And he said, there's nothing other than which would seem to me but at the same time, I also find in my Sumo, active deception, tools, any wisdom, nor do I have any inventory anyone for the blessings that Allah Subhana Allah has bestowed upon

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him so he's doing his job. He doesn't have any special actions as he does. But he does have this in his heart these two feelings

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have not tried to deceive any Muslim, nor does he have any feeling of anger towards anyone concerning that which

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brought upon him so when our beloved Ahmed heard this

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and he said, This is what makes you rich. In Abdullah's opinion, this is of course not. I'm saying this specifically. But the novellas opinion This must be the thing that will cause him to enter.

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As I mentioned before, I don't think we really have time to go over the the causes of the causes, of course,

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are related to many different kinds of aspects that we've been discussing. And I guess inshallah, we will leave this

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for the

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show, shall I remove the causes of a hassle? And we'll also move the question of how to behave towards someone who

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has hazard toward you will have to move those two topics inshallah because the next topic The next section shall as I said, we want to talk about the some of the some positive aspects shala with respect to this concept of

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the lecture where and open the floor for any question or comments that you might

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