A few pieces of advice in a Nikah ceremony.

Ikram Sanaullah

Channel: Ikram Sanaullah

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Not gonna do one Sanjana Karim.

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I'm about all the wilhemina shaytani r rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem, amin, IR T and Kala Kala comin unfussy come as Virgil liters cuando la, wa Jalla bellina como

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se como la de

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spected elders and friends.

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Apparently, it looks like a small gathering of 50 people or 60 people, but in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa Taala This is a very great gathering. And to understand that,

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I would like to inform you about the two hadith of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, which explains to us that this is, this is not a normal cancer, but it is a form of ibadah it is a form of worship is just like performing Salah prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that

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a man should spend in three places number one,

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in the path of Allah number two, when he has to see a poor person, and number three on his family, and the most virtuous one is the one where he spends on his family. So from this weekend, understand that this gathering is not a small gathering, because this gathering hitting is heading towards the same cause. And the second edition of Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam said that if a husband has to die, and he is happy with the wife, then the wife gains Jana on his happiness. So it is a plus point for both of them. So it is a form of worship. Secondary respected elders and friends Allah tala says in the Holy Quran, amin iottie. He

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and Kala Kala comin unfussy come as virgin liters cannula. You know, there are many relations mentioned in the Holy Quran, father to son, Daughter to father, sisters brothers, but it is only upon this relation on the relation of husband and wife. Let Allah says woman IR T, it is one of the greatest sign of Allah subhanho wa Taala where Allah tala makes you into a couple. And thirdly, obviously when a person has to enter into this relation, a person is supposed to know that he's supposed to learn. Sympathy is supposed to learn patience, he's he's supposed to learn love marhaba there should be a lot of usage of eila view, there is nothing wrong in that there is supposed to be

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usage of sorry, time and again, sorry, it is very important, like this young men, he went to his father and he's told he told his father that I want to get married. So the father said say sorry, say why should I say sorry? See, sorry. So the sun sets on? The father said, say sorry, again. He said sorry, the father said say sorry, again, he said sorry. So now the father said you are ready for marriage. When you learn how to say sorry for no reason, you're ready for the marriage. So they suppose to be that understanding in a marriage and obviously with love will harbor with peace in the relation, there should be a lot of consultation, there should be a lot of maturity in the family,

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with the elders of the family. Sometimes we learn certain things from the elders, which we will get from the books. Like again, this young boy went to you know, till today no dictionary can explain to you the difference between complete and finish. It's the same complete and finish right? But this young boy went to the Father, someone elderly, and he said that data explained to me the difference between complete and finish. So that the data said that when you marry a right woman, you are complete. When you marry a wrong woman, you are finished. But when you marry a woman who loves shopping, and you are completely finished, so panel so it is very important that we consult our

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elders that was on a lighter note, but the lesson which we learn is that it is worth very important to consult the elder elders in important matters. May Allah subhanho wa Taala guide us And may Allah subhanho wa Taala give us the right understanding of the