Tazkiya – Kindness to One’s Mother and Happiness

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The speaker discusses the importance of good treatment of one's mother and the need for strong treatment of one's father. They also mention a story about a woman who claims to have been the only person who claims to have been the

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. In hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam, ala Shafi, mousseline Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi. Germaine, the brothers and sisters, I have one question for you today. If you feel

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distressed and miserable,

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if you are

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facing hardship, if you are going through if you are going through difficult times, if you keep asking yourself why am I so unhappy but did not find an answer to your question. Then the Quran has Q for you. The Quran has a cue for you.

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Be kind to your mother, treat your mother with give your mother good treatment.

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Be nice to your mother. We got this conclusion from the story of a Sally said I'm in salt Maria, in which Allah subhana wa Allah says in surah 20 I'm quoting Lisa Ali Salam saying, well, Bertram be worried that he won't be a jolly Jabbar and Sharqiya which means and he made me dutiful to my mother. And he said Ali Salaam is talking here about himself when he was a baby. He's talking about of course, his behavior, what would happen to him in the future? And what are the commands of Allah subhanaw taala given to me of course, it was a miracle. But he said in the statement here in Surah Maryam and he made me dutiful to my mother, and he has not made me a wretched tyrant. That's why

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some Muslim scholars have noticed that there should be a link between lack of good treatments of good treatment of one's parents and distress and misery and suffering.

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And our regular thought of the Allahu Anhu and that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and others woman and others would enjoy ala Rasulillah in Salalah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for cada rasool Allah min happiness even hosting the Sahaba at for carnal heavy Valley his salatu salam ook phonathon mermen Isla Amok Python mermen paella overlook some of the rabbit icon at the moment for Karina a walk

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this hadith is authentic, more our whole Buhari or Muslim whatever call upon Allah Sahaja will read or the Allahu Anhu reported that a man came to the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said O Messenger of Allah, who is most deserving, who is most deserving of my good company. And also lie sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam said your mother that the man asked, and then who the Prophet said your mother, then the man asked again, then who and the Prophet said your mother. And then the last time and the fourth time the man asked, then who and the Prophet alayhi salatu salam said your father, it is understood from this hadith, that Islam gives precedence, a precedence to once in

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order to good treatment of one's mother over good treatment of one's father. And that's why some Muslim scholars, they said this hadith indicates that mother the mother deserves three times three times that amount of good treatment and goodness over the treatment of fathers. So, by the way, I'm jealous as a father, I'm jealous of this hadith. But at the same time, we can use this hadith and similar Hadith and similar texts from the Sharia of Islam as a response to those who claim that Islam encourages discrimination against women. They look at Islam from one angle, and that's why they will never be able to reach a fair conclusion. A good conclusion about the beauty of Islam.

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I would like to conclude this short reminder with this story. I thought VSR was one maybe one of the students of the abbess or the Allahu Anhu he was one of the best he said when a man came to him Abdullah best the cousin of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam shareholder. MUFA serine was a great scholar was a Sahabi. He was a great scholar of TFC, even the ambassador of the Allahu Allah. So I thought maybe Assad said a man came to him, and he confessed. He confessed that he committed a major crime and ask Is there any repentance for me Henley mean, Toba? I want to make Toba. I want to repent to Allah subhana wa taala. But I don't know if this is possible or not. If not, I best ask

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him one question.

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Is your mother still alive? Is your mother still alive? The man said no. He said then the Koran it Allah Allah subhana wa ala

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the Quran il Allah

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Were to LA who acted Amina listed for he said get closer to Allah subhanaw taala in worship as much as you can repent to Allah subhanaw taala and get closer to him as much as you can at Abu ESR he said then I asked I went to Abdullah when I burst and asked him Why did you ask him if his mother was alive? And a bass here said there is a statement here I will read it to you. If you're a basketball the Allahu Anhu he said in knee lair level. I'm Ellen acabo Illa him embittered worried this hadith is found in in an edible move forward. And it is Hadith sahih. This book addable move forward was offered by Imam Al Bukhari

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and the role of Hadith this hadith they said this hadith is authentic. It is found not inside Buhari in an edible move forward that was written and offered by Imam Al Bukhari. And they said this hadith is authentic. So even Abbas at the end of the story, he said in the last level, I'm Alan acabo, illa Allah subhanho wa Taala may be real worried that he said Verily, I didn't know any deed that is better.

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To bring one closer to Allah subhanho wa Taala then kindness to one's mother, then kindness to one's mother and this Allah subhanaw taala and Elijah Alana me men you see no matter where they deem, this Allah subhanaw taala and you're in an AI laboratory Well, Idina, we pray to Allah subhanho wa taala, to enable us to be kind to our parents and to treat our parents with kindness.

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Those who are alive and those who passed away because even those who passed away deserve our kindness, they need our dua. The we're supposed to make sadaqa on their behalf. We need to pray to Allah subhanaw taala on a regular basis to shower His mercy upon them, and to allow them and to forgive their sins and to allow them to go to Chanda masala subhanaw taala and he will fit canaliculi failure. What hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Ashrafi mo Serie C Dinham Hamid Vida Ed, he was so happy he made