Riyadh us Saliheen 5-9-2023

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right we'll set out to salatu salam ala Rahmatullah al Amin Urbino heavy Nam hominins of Allah Allahu Allah. He was my mother.

And yo, Sasha Mishary sofab Alfa Romeo Tsinghua come setting our own water widely. How many shares of

Santa Fe work really sad, heinous? Allah subhanho wa taala. Anybody can you know if you manage our limo while you're fiddling the light wave if you were fired up early.

So, we continue from where we stopped last last week. And I believe we talk about studies of

called upon level talent Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam let Minato fishy. wallow, wallow until a haka be watching polyq Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told aboda It said, Don't ever belittle right deed, no matter how much small you see it, because it has value in the eyes of Allah subhanho wa taala. And the code could possibly be the one that will save the day of judgment. And I guess you mentioned example, for this last week. And the same goes to the sins also, don't you ever be a little sad? I'm not sure how much seems smallest seems to be in your eyes than she ever built in it. Because it is rejected by Allah subhanaw taala and he doesn't like it. And that person

doesn't know that sin might be the reason why he will get into trouble when he meets Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of Judgment.

So the person shouldn't belittle when Allah smart Allah loves and he should not belittle, you know that which Allah subhanho wa Taala told him he shouldn't come across. So he should take the matter very seriously. What he says he doesn't like,

stay away, or he likes it, just do it. All. You no matter how much you see, just understand that Allah says he doesn't want

it's as simple as this. And the prophets, Allah, someone said,

these are mouth, you know, even if,

you know, it's just like seeing and meeting your brother

in the state of happiness, making him a happy smiling.

Man, next is an E chapter. Your quarterly Mamilla. Your Rahimullah Bible is the Bible began in Qlm, you were either hit a

little more copy.

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either lamb you've hung in lab with Eric, this is a chapter that will talk about the emphasis on of the Sharia on

the recommendation for a person when he speaks to speak very clearly in the way people will understand.

When you speak, you speak in the way people will understand. And you repeat it. Also, if you realize that the one you're speaking to doesn't get what you're talking about.

Yeah, as by hand. So when you are talking, you talk in the way people understand you. And also

when you realize that people are not understanding repeated many times until they get it.

This is the manager of the visa Alonso

and man has and never will

repeat. He'll repeat things sometimes, so that people understand properly.

Because Why do you speak to him? You want him to understand what you're saying? If you want him to carry a task, let him understand his job.

That's why if you go to the lawyers,

those rules is one law. They explain them in every single word. They tell you what they need

to avoid making mistakes and excuses in the future. Yeah, because it's very easy for a person to tell you that this is my understanding and then

You tell them no, I did not mean that. So why didn't you explain to him what you meant at the first place to avoid making mistakes.

So Rasulullah sallallahu, ala usermode, he speaks to people he speak in a way you will understand what he's talking about, as well as a kind of Colombo, Oslo. Oslo means step by step, you know, stage by stage doesn't bring Kalon very quickly, you know, as some people, this is their nature, when they speak, and as well, I have to tell them, slow down, slow down so that we can get you

used to have

a teacher who taught us for right, the smila very good teacher in Medina from Mauritania. And

he has the knowledge, Arabic not really x expert in his field. But when he speaks, so Hala like rocket

and it is part of him. So we used to tell him, please slow down, he will slow down just for a few seconds. And then after after that he forgot.

Give Russia so that's his nature. But these are a few among all the people that you study with. And you meet these a few. These ones you don't blame them because this naturally who they are.

Good idea. But the other type of people this should try to make sure that they follow the Soula Salah Simone ever they speak, to speak very slowly to the people so that people understand what they are they're trying to say. And if you realize that people don't get you repeated

reputation of things help the memory to remember.

Well, that was a person who taught us now, you know, that was his method. When he mentioned Cara, he will keep repeating it as if he doesn't want to pass. So Hala, he helped us a lot in the class, you'll be able to memorize, you know, his lecture, before you go, you know, technically you can say, lecture of this person. You don't need that much, you know, after revision, because he repeats it in the class many times many, many times go and come back welcome.

So it helps the student to remember what the teacher is talking about. So this is manhood of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in speaking to two others called Anna Anna sin

or the Allahu Anhu and then the VSL Allahu alayhi wa sallam I can either to kill them or be Kelly Martin

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was salam Salam, Salam aleykum

nobody's responding again. Salah Wallach nobody's responded As salam o Allah nobody's responding, then you just see

them pressure sometimes.

Can we apply this on the phone also? When you call three times and the man is not replying Yes, actually sometimes it's very annoying to that person

because sometimes they cannot pick up the call and you cry and you call again you calling you calling

especially when a person is praying and he forgot unfortunately to switch off his phone

and Fidelis a chef is calling.

A call again it calling

that man is going to get annoyed

and he deserves to get annoyed especially if the time is the prayer time. Because you should anticipate that he might be in in a prayer you might finish your prayer because your Muslim prayed a bit early but his Masjid maybe I'm praying lanes or he just reached the masjid you know after the end of the prayer and he's doing he's

so the point is when you call a person and that person tells I mean did not respond you call again he did not respond yes.

As it didn't keep calling and sometimes Subhanallah some people

as if they're coming from village I think even the village people don't do that.

You might be in a very critical moments that you cannot pick up a call or nowadays like our time you are recording election using your phone somebody called it destruct so what do you do you decline a call again you decline a call again in decline and then at the end of the day when you

pick up the call you know stop everything and pick up the call tell the I just want to say certainty

and he trusts you because love is good and Islam he cannot fight that you just swallow and tell him okay thank you very much

that's what a lot of these people are going to close the door and know sometimes

you need to know that yes the matter is serious for you to receive their call

when the person declined the call just gave him an excuse that he's in a situation that he cannot receive

don't call again

just wait for us send him a message you know tell him that I need you for this and that we keep calling keep calling until the time he pick up the call and he's supposed to receive something that is emergency from you. Anyway he will apologize and tell you that I am in a meeting which is very critical that I couldn't pick up your call but I will attend to your issue. So these are just switch Subhanallah any the most civilized we are the more far we are going away from them.

Who is that person that goes to the house and say salaam three times.

K barrage house house they might do you know but

in your office in your room. People come and say Sarah, you know before they enter and after they say salam they ask you permission first.

Allah subhanaw taala says say for that Hello had

he had that as to as to what to sell him

for the permission

because you might tell me why equals Salam. But is it necessary that you permit me to come in? No, because replying Salah is watching almost to happen. Why do you so when you say salam to me, I say salaam to you might reply because you know it is watching

but you are not ready to receive somebody. That's why it is necessary for him to ask permission first. You know smaller some of us get annoyed. I witness people who get annoyed Why do you need to take permission just come in. I already said while it was set up. Yeah, he Allah says take permission.

And what if this person comes in the time which is wrong time? Finds you're not ready to to see somebody. You want to dress properly.

He will not forget that you

he mentioned that he saw and you will also never forget that whenever you remove you see him you remember that

as well so lightly some asset in Nigeria is Yvan Omen actually lost. It says the event. And they say that seeking permission before entering the room of others is made by the Sharia mandatory because of the eyes.

It's very dangerous what the eyes can see sometimes, you know, it's really not good for it to see not good for the person who say, and not good for the, for the person who is being seen. And even if this person is, is a family member, except husband and wife, even those who are in if he travels, it's good for him to let the his family knows that he is coming. That's why the problem is a lot is I said, Don't you ever come home? You know, and just get inside the house house without letting your wife that you're on the way? She should know?

Yeah, because since you are absent, she relax in the house and stay in the way she is.

Tell me which husband doesn't like to see his wife in a good condition.

I don't know. Now everything's possible. But usually this is not how human beings are.

You want to see her in a real condition. So you can just come to the house and and attack the house like that.

You're going to regret your lungs, as sometimes you might see her in a condition and she doesn't have any problem. You are the problem. Because you're not there. She can just keep each find herself even if you're not around throughout her life in the house. No there are times when she she remains at ease. Washing the kid dealing with the kitchen matters she can go with any cloth.

So the prophets Allah Azza wa said sent a message for us to inform them that you are coming so that you will not see that which will cause you to dislike your family

to get an idea. So if you're in the house, you're in the room, it's good to say salaam to anyone you meet including your wife, but I'm just talking about the issue of the buzzer that is you know, made as an assumption between the husband and the wife. Other than that no apparent in the room. You cannot go into the room without saying salam Allah's Mercy is where either Bella and outfile even the kids who did not reach the age of maturity. Allah says Salah Thermalright right. Mean calmly selection fragile, heinous. Oh, if you ever been over here from embody Salah Felicia before Fajr prayer, kids before the age of majority, Allah says before they have to ask for the permission.

Well, he took on a fear but coming over here and the time will you take a nap the whole time.

I mean by the circulation and after a short time, because these are the times where people usually take off their cloth to rest.

Even those tiny tiny ones also surely assays they should take permission. As for the big ones, Allah says we're either Bella outfile in Como Hola, hola, familia de no commas Tatiana Lindemann company,

that if the kid reached the age of maturity, they should also take permission just like the way your predecessors the people that came before you they used to take permission.

Yeah, because these are other equally when it comes to adapt the Sharia is the same is a man is a man is how to deal with human beings, the Sharia is the same. You might find some of the Sharia rituals been changed from actually to another Sharia. But when it comes to other,

usually the same.

So they have the same thing. And we also have the same as they have. So please support this and promote it. Yeah, support this and promote it. You know, when you reach a place say salaam to them. If they're not here, say again. Say again three times. If they're not responding, just leave. Because most likely, we heard you and they're saying the reply with a very slow, man.

Why? Because they don't want to get sent have not replied. And at the same time, they don't want to entertain you at this moment.

You shouldn't pressure them to just leave the place and it's happened between one of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Amara de la Ron who he came to the house of Roboto. And he said Salam three times. Omar did not respond, etc.

He left Omar responded and went out to meet

you know, so he couldn't find he found him already left. So I would have got annoyed. Why did you bring me out and then you left

it

So he called him he said, You're the one who is calling me he said yes, it's your but why do you call me and left to the place? He said yes. Because Rasul Allah, He said, Allahu Allah, you said, um, I said, if you come to the place and he asked permission for three times, and that third time was not being responded by the owner of the place, leave the place,

or mindset, who told you who told you this? Is it?

I want to say you have to go and bring somebody to confirm this. Otherwise, I'm going to teach.

So the criticism, trying to make sure that nobody lies again as soon as alasa started from the time of the companions, right?

That was just a confirmation. He knows he doesn't have an issue but this caller said, it just wanted the OMA to be sensitive when it comes to Karla rasool Allah. Allah, Allah Rasool. Nobody should just come and say Allah so Allah, Allah Azza wa said, you have to be very sure that he said it.

Yeah, because it's very dangerous. You know that if somebody says call Allah and Allah did not say you know this if th and Allah very big issue, one takuna Allah Allah Tala moon, but in terms of danger, saying kala Rasulullah if Rasulullah Salah Soma do not say that is more dangerous. Because if you say call Allah and Allah did not say that, is it possible for us to detect

that mistake? Yes, very possible because Quran is this one. Right? From A to Z many people memorize a completely

bring one person on earth who memorize the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah Salah from ages

never come across somebody like this never heard of somebody else. Allah He witnessed some of our scholars, you, you might say these people, maybe they don't miss anything in the Hadith of the process.

You might be looking for an issue. Remember one of our friends who was given a title to go do research on

he reached a state of despair that nobody talks about this. He try his best he goes to the library any possible place that you can check and get this one he could. So he made a conclusion that this issue doesn't exist. Going to make his report that

this doesn't exist, asking the chef to give him another top Subhanallah he was with one of our scholars in the masjid of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said I will just sit it down to my surprise this person you know, they started talking about this matter I was like what you know and he was bringing opinions of the scholars concerning the madness is a big issue actually that will evidence will

say I was surprised I've kind of knowledge is this I have been spending my life looking for a possible place that I can find it I couldn't

Subhanallah these type of people and from time to time you'll be sitting next to them looking at yourself like a little baby you know who doesn't know anything? But then they will be asked about one Hadith they will tell we don't know.

And then you see that oh, I know this. How come

you make a history right? There was a time the chef doesn't know anything.

Yeah, they may be out of you know only maybe 1% of the Hadith out of 1 million Hadith if he has that one you know, maybe yours is only one in comparison to his but that's the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam is so big so vast, nobody can say that. He you know encompasses the Sharia of Allah smelter, he knows everything. This person doesn't, doesn't exist.

Nobody can say that. I memorize every single sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sunnah.

But

if a person is to lie, I'm sorry the reason why I'm saying this one is more dangerous because if somebody comes and say color, so a lot and also last la suma did not say

how do we know? Ticket idea? How do we know that Rasul Allah sama dinner said

it's not easy.

You Allah, it's not easy to detect. That's why it's more dangerous than somebody who comes and say, call Allah. That's why the orientalist and the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala what is their main target? The Sunnah of the Quran and the Sunnah. They don't go for the Quran, they go for the SU because they know that as long as sunnah exist, they cannot do anything. And the you Allah sunnah is Harris advocate tabula. It's like a current Allah subhanaw taala put for the book of Allah subhanaw taala

As it stands on the way of the criminals up to date, the target and the attack is all on the Sunnah of the Prophet selasa. So this agenda with daddy

Making sure that the hadith is given by the province the last summer started from the time of the competitive the peroxisomal. But this is very serious matter to make sure that nobody's lying against Rasul Allah, Allah rasool Allah He said, Allahu Allah who said him I said, But Kala, Allah your man upon for later but what are the human and whoever said something that attributed that thing to me which I did not say he should look for his place in hell. Let's call it said this is like informing that person that by lying against Rasul Allah you know, you're already choose a place in hell

while yours villa, that's why you must make sure that when you say Carla rasool Allah, Allah, you must make sure that you are sure that the purpose Allah sama said it as the reason why this Allah said regeneration shouldn't be avoided. He discussed them in the classrooms, but he didn't come to the layman and talk about the weekend relations, because we have enough. I mean enough in the authentic narrations from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that Allah subhanaw taala grant is good until he can deal with us wherever we are in the Hood College a million Kofi Subhana Allah Mohammed mashallah

several go to the lake wali Kumar not Allah He over

long Morning.

The question says should how do we express disapproval if we don't wish to be disturbed by someone

other than a simple how do we express our disapproval if we don't want someone to be destroyed

by someone who has a problem, like, how do we make them know that we don't want them to steal? What's the best way to do that? Then anything, anything?

Salatu salam ala Alameen AnnaLena Why have you been? Somebody said Allahu alayhi wa early, he was happy he was selling

it as a question about how do we express our disapproval to to somebody right? Without hurting their feelings?

Don't know how to answer this, but I think

every case has his own nature. But generally when somebody wants your attention and you cannot attend to him, Allah subhanaw taala says, for prolonged colon, my Surah tell him some good words.

Honestly, speaking, I would like to be with you. And I would love to sit with

you or so on so on. So if you wish you can add that, and you tell them but unfortunately, I have this and that, and they really need my attention. So if you don't mind, please let us meet on so on. So

the idea is very simple. Last part says if you know that you cannot attend to the need, tell them good words.

Yeah, it's more than enough. And SmartLab people appreciate it.

And they talk about that. Adela callitris He told me something, something good. Tell them I would love to attend to your need and I would like to give you attention but unfortunately I have this and that. And these are things that I cannot avoid. So please do accept my apology. You know, apologize to him. Please do accept my apology. Let us meet on another time.

That's the meaning of saying to them good words, rather than telling them in the harsh way that they cannot you cannot entertain them at this at this moment. Allah Allah

may Allah grant us Tofig and good and be with all of us in this dunya and grant us success in the era in the holy College America fields who had a Colombo become a shadow learning. Unfortunately, later