Class 173 Ad-Daa’ Wa Ad-Dawaa’ The Disease And The Cure Revivers

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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim

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wa salatu salam ala Alameen wa Now have you been I'm Hamid in salAllahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam Muhammad

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Ali own

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Tasha Robin Sherry

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Jamal akhira Alfa noir Bohmian comm sitting around more perfectly well I hate to mention it

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January and finally waterbottle WOSU their Santa Fe had the Kitab in Mobarak they were they were so the last one what Allah and very convenor a few minutes our level one you have the let work for a little while if you have other goofy li

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so today inshallah we continue from where we stopped

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a server

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so up to date and to now even know claim is talking about the first Latina directive Allah and ash

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Carla's salvia and Hora Obama have several houses

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all the other

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it might have said and Malawian now Surya

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Ahmed facade Alma we for whatever it will if I didn't call the call by either first set of so little while Oh Do not will listen.

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Although Alyssa Farah al kabhi haha Sana. Arielle kabhi Hassan Amin woman mash up

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Kumar fill most needy

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a che a yami what you see

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for who your army idol Kobe a row at Messiah Wilma boo boo or you will be bilateral I know delicate.

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When you see me although now who is

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allowed the fee? But let us know although the Lika

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or Roberto

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does ToodleDo yoga

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fishy. There are yoga Hatha it as erlebt raga to who he Apsara or yoga who

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should be even shouted at an ionic termina Timna Maru at che Allahu Allah come up either

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way to

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either ind Allah reach out and filament Gelatt

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katachi NFC Aluma So Abraham says, point number seven this alleged alleged

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strong love in the wrong way.

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Rubella f7, how's our alpha? Any sometimes it destroys the house limps or it makes it weak.

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In my f7 manner, we and also the

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either is going to make it corrupt spiritually or

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also the chiclet

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and a physical or spiritual

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as for the facade in Malawi, for whatever leaflets hadn't come, you know the limbs of a person there will be corrupted because the heart is gone. This kind of love is affecting the heart. So when the heart is gone, then the other part of the body is going to be following.

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MCs for in Aqaba said

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Firstly, a little iron will Oh no. Well listen. Because when the heart is gone,

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the eyes and the ears and the tongue are going to be to be gone also.

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So if the eyes and the ears and the tongue are God,

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because of the corruption that exists in the heart. So what happens is that this person says he doesn't have a MISA and that is correct. So he would call

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Allah, Allah and whatever he is going to see is going to be different from the reality. Yeah, you will not be realistic in whatever he is seeing or observing. That's why he is going to see what is bad, what is evil, what is negative, as positive, as good in the machine. Whatever that person is going to do. To him is going to be right.

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And why why is that because the heart is gone. So the evil that is going to come from the machine is going to be good to him. His eyes will see good will not see bad.

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You get it and his ears will hear good. Yeah, we hear evil but he will see good. He will hear

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what they call. Good awesome.

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kava, what are the Hadith who arrive her book a share your army, what is your love to something makes you blind and deaf at the same time, it means it covers the heart which will affect the rest of the limbs. So, you will not be able to hear the truth

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is no claim says to me either can be a row at my salary

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or you will be but I tell you that you can always say more than who is right it will as Leafy. So, it will make your eyes blind, you will not see the deficiency that maboob has and also it will make your ears blocked in the way you will not agree to hear any blame, any blame, you know that is coming blame that is coming from others towards the martial. Yeah, you will not agree.

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And they said what I'm about to

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test or yoga and usually desire covers the deficiency. The person has strong desire, it covers the deficiency that exists in that thing which you are having strong love to

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ragi boo fishy Lera or yoga who had to it as Aleta rock about to houfy observable in the one who loves something too much usually doesn't see the deficiency that thing has until the time the deficiency What do you call that love is gone. Then the person will start seeing things in the way that Allah subhanaw taala says for Krishna Anka, the BA Kapha Basa Luca and Yama Hadith.

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So when is he going to wake up? ImmunoCAP says, until the time that Raghava is Vaughn is gone then he'll be able to see every IPE that exists in that module.

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You get it like the poet says a way to get into it or they haven't shouted

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out enough see

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is this I love you so much. I have strong desire towards you. And I don't accept and tolerate anything. I always inclined to you I listen to nothing except that which comes from your side. And he says but when this reshot this Raghava, and the desert strong desire in the heart was gone from my heart

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about NFC and he says I just go back to myself blaming myself. Why did I fall into this trap at the first at the first place?

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Karla Dacula fishy lair Are you both well hearted, you mean who Lovey lemmya

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Allah the law Metcalfe's Law, Yara or Yubo. Well era we will eliminate the Salafi sama Hara German who is usually the person who is outside doesn't see that efficiency that much and the person who is inside and he doesn't go out yet. As long as the love is there. He also doesn't see that much. So when is who is that person that will be able to see the reality about that thing which is loved. Is it the person who goes inside and also goes out? He knows he see what is inside and he sees what is outside then you will be able to make a comparison until you whether it is good for you to join or not. When you have that kind of habit Alina Dr Phil Islam battle covery Hi, Ron. millon, Medina. We

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really do feel Islam. So that's why you see a companion to went inside Islam they accepted Islam after being kuffaar they are better than those who did not

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experience KUVO

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their companions or mother used to say that the person will not understand Islam correctly. That much you know, if he is not if he did not experience the Janelia

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when do you know the J Hillier time and you see a O Come to Islam, then you understand how excellent and valuable is the religion of Allah subhanaw taala

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carlomagno caught up in nama tomb called oral Islamic or what Allah Wa, either woolly different Islamic men LEM yardville Jania it says Islam is going to be destroyed rope of brick by brick

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through who? Through those who are born in Islam, you know, and they do not experience ficha Helia

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good idea. So that's why you know, Comey says these type of things, unfortunately, the best person who understand them a facet and the negative consequences of he is somebody who was involved in the and get out of it first, then he can tell you how bad is it a situation?

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Carlo alphas Rama facade and how was your VA hearin I know you Mridul burden away in Hiko is the facade man

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Are we you know, the spiritual one is the one that we just discussed. As for the first facade a via him, it says, you know who you will do? I'll bet you Marie do al bandana, or In Hebrew

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it makes the body weak

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and exhausted also at the same time

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or Obama Illa Telavi and sometimes a person might lose his life because of because of this

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camera hole now, roofie Akbari man Catella humiliation. So this is well known in the stories of those people who were killed by the by the

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literally literally the die because of this.

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Walker the raffia eliminare. Burson who will be Arafat a sharp Boon cut in Hala hat

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Jill then Allah awesome.

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It says they reported to the live in our bus during the Alpha. You know, this is how much you know in alfalfa is the best day in a yard hedge. They brought a person to Abdullahi Rambis garden handler

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you know, how to ask for her children Allah, you know, he became so skinny in the way you see nothing except skin and covering the bone Subhan Allah, it's like he doesn't have flesh on him.

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Bacala my Shahada. They brought him for Hajj. So Abdullah ibn Abbas said, What's wrong with him? What happened? Carlu be hilarious. So they said he has ash with him.

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They said he has asked with him. What makes him like that dash? That strong evil love that takes

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a person away from doing the right thing. You guys call it?

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Crush crush.

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That is that is another person that translates a squirt another word.

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Obsession. No, that's another one another one.

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Infection infatuation infatuation

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that looks fancier.

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Yeah, infatuation. We have been looking for appropriate words to I was asking somebody this infatuation doesn't fit ish.

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Because since you have love Marathi, um, so you have to look for the correct word, then you'll be able to distribute these words according to their levels.

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Anyway, so. So this person was was was was gone, you know, asthma didn't allow him nothing left in him except just skin and bone. So he asked him to live in a bus What's wrong with him? How to be English. They said he is affected by

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the job on our bus and yesterday bIllahi min ash de mo Amata Yomi have to live in a bus from that times. And he was he came to the alpha with with his need, you know? But then he stopped everything and start asking Allah subhanaw taala to protect information until the end of the day. The whole alpha is yet Allahumma Allah ma simulation Allahu wa significant issue.

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So basically, what it will tell him is trying to tell us here is that Ash contributed to the facade of the LIBS in the hearts. And once this happens, then every single part of the body is going to be affected.

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And firming and Nilesh Kamata Kadima, who will a Ferrata? filmhub Betty Alesco. The one that we're talking about is going beyond the limit in love.

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Behind you, yes, totally al Masha, Allah, Kobe, Kobe and Asha in the way the Mashu Yes, totally Allah COVID Asha will be dominating the heart of the Azure Machine will be dominating the heart of the Azure

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hot

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glue Mintaka EULA he will declare he will fickle if he has to lie to ban copy he will Dini in the Danika yesterday Do not touch target enough to understand dammit. And cool and hernia one FC one of Sandhya for Tata apology Calco

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toffee two minute effort

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bitch Ltd middle fit Albertan they will Rohit ma Yasu there

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were to other to figure out who was evil to war Maqasid who work diligently with Malika Fatah just with Bashar on salah. Hey, Bill time says point number number eight is that

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the one that we describe as La ferrata filmhub

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you know going beyond the limit in love

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in the way that love dominated the heart of the person who is observing that love in the way he

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doesn't think about anything except that one. He doesn't see anything except him or her.

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And there is no time which the thing is he wasn't happy with me.

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So if this is the case, then how else to all of his limbs are going to be busy.

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Busy for more what from using,

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or from doing the right thing, you know, because these houses these limbs, Allah created them for doing the right thing. If the brain is busy thinking about something, you're going to be busy from doing the right thing Allah subhanaw taala asked you to do or something that is beneficial to you. Even Kim says, fair doesn't beat up at her mental effort. So if the limbs are what Paula, Abdullah means neglected. You don't use them in the way they should be used. So what happens is a moron sickness, because the body if you don't use it, if you remember last time, they said that is halacha

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Khazaria, right, the one that says the body leaves, it happens, because the body is some part of the body leaves its position where it's supposed to be, then it has to come back to that. Because the function that allows my hotel I created it for is not that one. So it has to come back, whatever, but it must come back to that.

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So there is a purpose for the creation of every part of human body, if you don't use it for that, you're going to destroy that part of the body.

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And this is really good for us to understand, especially when dealing with our

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brain.

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We're not using our brain.

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Get it? Not in the sense that Adam says Matthew, Not like that, you know, why not using our brain? Because the brain capacity is far greater than what we do nowadays. Unfortunately,

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we were already caught depends so much on these guys. mp3 is and people five and some other things also that didn't even know what they are. Yeah.

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That's very wrong. Anyway, it's now not from Alaska return that is supposed to be used. Secondarily, you have to use your brain, the more you use it, the more active and the more strong the brain will be. That's why some of our scholars in Medina was informing us that this is the nature of the brain.

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That's why the closest person to the city, the week the closer you are to the city, the weaker your brain is.

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You have papers being spied on. And the closer you are to the village to the barrier, the stronger your brain is. That's why those people in the village they memorize everything.

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Because they don't have any other way and methods to keep what they learn except this. That's why everyone is city. They know everyone. You know he sounds they know what he does. What happened when and what exactly what's happening. They know

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all of the events, and it's easy to tell him something to memorize it very quickly. They mentioned that a woman will bring her child and re recite 100 byte short ad and she will ask the child to repeat it and he will live in our bus how long somebody came and he narrated the share the whole day one of them.

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That's a person he narrated his head, it was a very long shame. Somebody told up the line and our bus this is saga

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is stupidity.

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The lamina boss told him I don't see it as stupidity.

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Is it do you even try to remember the CCIE and memorize everything he said. And that's the first time he mentioned it. He said I memorize the Hoban Abbas and he repeated the whole thing for him.

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Yeah, what kind of brain is this? But it is like ours, but

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with some?

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I don't know. Big difference of seriousness. They use it with music. Yeah, that's what we become the way we are. Don't you ever think that somebody is smart? And you're not? No, that's true. I'm sorry. That's wrong. That's against the truth. The truth is that you're all we're all smart. Yeah, but we didn't use the smartness a lot smarter to give us ability to do but we didn't do. Yeah, so the brain became became weak. Alex

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had too much to say now. He says

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there was a chef and I was in Medina. He was writing the story to us. He said there was a chef who went for Hajj. You know, in those days, they spend

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a lot long periods of time to go for Hajj from his place. They need six months to one come back six months. If a person left to you you're expecting him to be back after half of a year.

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So the student gave him money to buy commerce, Mohit for them.

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Amazon Mohit you know consummate right is a dictionary Arabic dictionary very famous dictionary chromosoma.

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They gave him money when he reached Makkah please to get dictionary for so they went he went and so on Allah

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during the Hajj is money finished. And nothing left except students money.

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From Kabbalah, you use the student money and survive

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what did he do before he left Makkah he went to the library it sit down there and memorize commerce in mind.

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When he went back the student came to me I said, Why is the commerce is is how two o'clock

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so he dictated commerce, he told him, right, he dictated Cosmo heat from A to Z.

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He told them, I'm very sorry, I couldn't have something to survive, I lost all of my money to I use yours. And

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that's why I just have no choice except to memorize come with some heat for you guys. So the accept my apology

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is his brain is like ours, LOL maxima

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then the case will be resolved by the court by the judge.

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Anyway, so please try I'm saying this actually intentionally addressing people that are here intentionally, right, because I see some from time to time, whenever we say what happened in the past, nobody's reacting. Yeah,

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our brain is stronger than the brain of the predecessors. Right. So all of a sudden, Rahimullah, right, they should learn from us how to keep things.

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Anyway, try your best wherever you learn, revise it before you sleep,

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go under device and and do whatever you can do unless you keep that which you are to in the in the class.

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So immune Kareem says that the limbs if you don't use them, you know they will become more Appala

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and they will get destroyed. If you don't use them they will get destroyed.

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So if that Taffy happens, you know

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affects the limbs, color factors without really having an effect Halliburton or Rohit may as well wait other he says they're going to be in trouble they are going to be destroyed the destruction that will not be easy for somebody to fix it will not be easy for somebody to to fix it. And when this happens and your actions are going to be in the wrong way they're going to be different, you know of Allah who will suffer to whom I consider who your thinking will be different, you know, everything is going to be affected

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by all of our charges will Bashara on Salahi all of the human beings are going to be not going to I'm not going to be able to to fix that which you You're destroying.

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So basically even Kareem is trying to tell us that if a person has this disease, what happens is it is going to cause the person to neglect you know the limbs from using them in that which is beneficial to him.

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Call the Shire and have a woolamai Hakuna Lohja 10

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TV what a soup. Ocado

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had either Harville Fatah legit how're jet more or less without okay.

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It says this type of ash and the hub the first thing that happens when it appears the known should cook speculations you know thinking it says it just comes and goes it comes and goes comes and goes That's the beginning. If a person is lucky and he stayed away from it Alhamdulillah it will be gone. However if he doesn't listen to the advice and keep on going deeper called Hector ADA carbon filter legit and how're you know those whispers and those you know thoughts that comes with none other than following the desire judge more or less without wikibot They're going to result in bigger matters which nobody can help him in that in that regard. Bigger matters which nobody can help him in in

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that regard.

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Carla will H Komaba do who Salat and hula while Soto who humble we're sure will Calvin was so common for our hero who outbound war cartoon eliminated alcohol to enter to meet Allah come up here if he VALIC

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wash Kirlian for a while who Anna while Soto who suck Manuel, who cut

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he says rush. The first part of IGE is what

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is interesting. You know, yeah, when a person first met that masuk interested in always wanting to meet them, you know, many special moments, you know, they think sometimes you go you have to touch them for you to bring their consciousness you will see a person just sitting down there thinking thinking thinking he doesn't know you know what is going on in his brain, you know, you have to go and pinch him a bit first to bring back his consciousness.

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now and it affects you Allah

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prayed next to somebody. He made a mistake. After the after we finished the prayer he was asking me

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which prayer is this and he was the Imam

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ever he was a monk or I'm a mom, I forgot. But he was asking me which plays

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so because I know he was about to marry, I told them, like, You Allah, he told me yes.

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Because a very airy character, you know,

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and Subhan Allah. And there's a very good student of knowledge who wrote even he has a book, you know, that he wrote by himself, very good students of knowledge and Hadith. graduated from the College of Hadith. in Madina, Munawwara Yeah, but that's what happens. You know, when a person in it too much think about something.

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It ends in this way.

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And subhanAllah at the end of the day, that thing that they're looking for, they couldn't get it.

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You Allah, it's all of these things that we all we know about that. But they couldn't get it.

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Allah subhanaw taala says, Man, can you read it? Arjuna tag Jana houfy Hermana SHA Allamanda read

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the link is gone, I guess.

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Is it

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we left there went to Dubai. Let's see what happens.

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So, so that's that's it. That's why a person should be very moderate in whatever you know, there is a wisdom narrated as a hadith, but that Hadees has a lot of questions on it. So we take it as a wisdom. If it is Hadith of the Prophet, Allah sama wisdom from so Allah if it is not just the normal wisdom, it says

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Habakkuk

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how nama assign your carnival Hidaka yah wah wah

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bah Vida how number assigned you couldn't have you back up. Yo.

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be moderating your log and the moderating your hatred.

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I heard one of us call us or it's in a very painful story of our one of our great scholars. Subhan Allah what saved him was his enemy, enemy enemy.

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Muslim, but really, they hate each other. But he went into a complication in life, which there was nothing left except that one.

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His student told him we have no choice except to talk to hula. Yeah, and do you want to talk to him? He said No worries. And he stepped in. And that was what saved him from death, which is confirmed

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Subhanallah so you can see the reflection of this hadith or the wisdom right? Be moderate.

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That's why for the parent and for people in general, not just parent or husband and wife. You know, take this

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wisdom from

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somebody who says let her booka

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colophon right. While a book with telephone P moderate

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and it's sometimes I force myself to love him that's very wrong.

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Yeah, that's very wrong. He he's going to trace that from your face but you're just forcing yourself to accept

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definitely there other people just live a normal life with him and go with others you know

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what I can google doc a telephone there are some people when they hate our villa.

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Villa that person is in trouble when they hate. Well, I can Google Dukkha telephone so be moderating along to anyone, anyone on Earth.

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Okay, so the first part of edge is something that is interesting. Nice, good. You see the girl getting lost and the boy also is lost. None of them is within his consciousness. While sotto Hambone was struggling and the middle part of it is what have worry. You Allah was shriveled up Corbin was so common and sickness and also the heart is going to be busy all the time with Allah is punishment, the heart of you and you attach to your heart to somebody other than Allah, you will be punished. You will be punished Allah you will never relax in this dunya the only one that you attach your heart to Him and relaxes me

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but I take this from me that's the only one that you connect your heart to Him and you relax in this dunya you'll be away from worries and humble and everything is trouble.

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Yeah.

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After World War cartoon, and the last part of it is destruction and death swell Allah

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Excel

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If the protection of Allah subhanahu wa to Allah meet that person

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if Allah smart Allah does not support and help him and protect him is going to be in trouble. Which Kalyan for a while who?

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Were also to who? Solomon, were asking who Cthulhu it says relieve yourself from all of these fake loves.

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And honestly speaking, they're fake. Yeah. The Real Love is love that is based in doing responsible love we call it. Yeah, responsible love. Yeah, that's where all of those were most of the ones they love that you see between so Jamie, I don't care about before this watch this at all. I don't know how to call them. I don't have any description to them.

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Except Bella, Bella, Bella.

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Heather Eska has some something to put it in. But the law. Yeah.

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But talking about the one inside the marriage between people,

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too much shallow, love, you know, words, scenes, you know, how he dressed, how he how she dresses, how she's talking

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all about law. He doesn't see these events.

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Whereas the real love is responsible law.

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Not just talking. But action is more. Yeah, somebody was right when he says they always talk about he doesn't like me. He doesn't like she doesn't like she doesn't want

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but if you ask them, why how Why do you say this? is all about he doesn't say or he doesn't do but what is my responsibility? Do I do mine first for me to ask for my

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my YG by my rights?

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What is my responsibility? Do I do it? If I don't do naturally that person will react also in the same way.

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So we have to be very careful and be realistic and this is what remains. So let's Allah sama look at his love Subhanallah you didn't hear how many times it was narrated that the prophets Allah Azza told his wife a lot.

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Not a single one. But he tells people when they ask him an item to list I don't see I can't remember a single one the prompts Allah told us that he tells his wife that he loves her.

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But we believe that yes, it universalis allows him and his family is strong love. Right? But it's always based on what action you see the relationship between Regulus also means why this person actually does the real love. That's why it maintains even what Allah subhanaw taala told them, you can just release yourself from Him. And God look for a better life in terms of the dunya if you want none of them was willing to even choose somebody else, no matter how much rich that person is. I shall be Allah Allah was the first to be asked by the Prophet sallallahu sallam. He told her what Allah smart Allah says and continue to read in Allah.

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We're going to head to dinner with Xena taffeta, Alina, you know, and he says Aisha due to the young, younger age. He said, Don't decide before you contact your your parent.

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Suhana like she said, she got annoyed actually.

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When he's when he told me this, he said he also like to stay with you. I need to talk to my parent. What is this? It's like what do you think about me or Sorella

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none of them was thinking of going out of the house of a soulless Eliza. Why is that not just because he is a prophet but he gave them the best example of a husband and the way love should be conducted.

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So called wife Carly and for

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the first part of the home base.

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You know that's love is there but somebody is going to suffer a lot while also to who's Superman and the middle part of it is sickness. Where I feel at the end of the day a person might lose his life because of because of age. We'll call alpha that will

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go to Allah in some narration bill SB Hector ash fella Mr. khalaby He loves new tech are legit and Vonderhaar moja 10 fella mathema can Amin ovary, salah is in person keep on calling upon you know boasting about love and heartaches until he has the issue, looking for it struggling to get it until the time he gets it. But as soon as it gets to be established in his heart, you know laminator he realized that this is a mountain that he cannot handle to to carry. You realize that this is something that he cannot carry. Rally jet and Vonda mojit you know he saw a legit and Vonda Naja you know,

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small river small place where he can go and he feels he thinks that this

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Just as simple way that he can handle fellow mathema Can I mean Rick when he get inside he realized that no this is not an easy place for him to to swim. So this is

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the first place a person will see it something that is very simple but unfortunately right after he get inside you realize that this is something that he can cannot handle Oliver with them boo Allah who will journey and obviously he will cut the card turtle method aside area DACA I will get out go for it never

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yeah docket okay. Well full cup never miss the mother they said

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they're trying to cross the river

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and so they couldn't find a ship all the boats to us. So they have the club you know Kerberized the thing we put the water inside and so each and every one of them decided why can't we just since the curb I usually it has a small hole right. So they blow it up put it inside and the tide properly. Right. So they went on top of the ICO that Kariba the one that lungful so, they managed to

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they managed to cross except the last one.

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The last one he thinks he has the capacity to to swim. So, he said I don't need to blow that much. So, he blew a bit and he did not tie it correctly, he blew and also tied correctly. So, he went inside the river and he Subhanallah the wind kept on going

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slowly, slowly, gradually gradually and he couldn't swim with his hand and he get lost. So, before he dies, he was looking for help. So, the people will tell him he adakah Ocata

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or Fuka never Alcatel Iike

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your hands as the one that is that is tying the thing, why didn't they tie it correctly? So that the air will not come out of it? Or who kind of in the Your mouth is the one who was put in there all of us we did it correctly and we tied correctly, why did you trust yourself that you can make it without having the support? So, claim says whoever find himself in this he will go back with this and wallow Molly

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and he is the one who is committing the genetic against himself nobody should be blamed except except himself, Allah Salla mafia. So basically even a claim wants us to understand how dangerous is this disease disease and to stay away from permission from it. And as I said, there is no good initiative, you allow this age there is no good

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person should open his eyes and see things in the way they are. And he can everything. Not just human beings and everything. Yeah, nothing remains in the way he is right. Yeah, usually you rarely see. I mean people who live together and they, they still see each other in the way they match them.

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You know, some of us right after the marriage, even like in the first day, some of us in the first day Mushrikeen sad to happen.

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You Allah the first day he met his wife, I wish I could start to happen either from him or from her. Why Michelle did not happen before. Why now they are happening. Yeah, because they are not realistic in their love before. Right? And now they see the reality which they were supposed to see before the marriage but they don't.

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So be very careful. Be very careful be moderating whatever you are doing and they want to love, harbors responsible love. Yeah, not the wrong one. The way a person will regret and nobody to be blamed except Except him.

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So this is the end of this chapter and I guess we need to already seven. So let's see if there is any question to be addressed. Article of equals Angela?

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Lumm I mean,

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how

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if we for example, I mean, we perform our men that the process before marrying someone, we do it the right way the Islamic authentic Islamic wherein we don't talk before marrying, we don't get to know before marrying we just completely like directly go to the Wali you know, something like that the authentic Islamic way will that help our marriage to have less? Mashallah, as long as you did the search correctly?

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Yeah, as long as you did the search correctly. Meaning I want to check about this person. I do it correctly. I don't involve him in in the search. I don't involve somebody that I have doubt in the search.

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I talk to a third party, somebody who doesn't have interest here, or they're somebody who tells me the truth about this person, somebody who will not cheat me will not cheat,

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will tell me the truth. These are the people that you have to contact and ask them about that person, as long as this one is correct, correctly done. And they told you good, whatever they told you about that person, and you go and do the correct way, go to the parent and ask them, go to the Willie and talk to them. Before you start talking to this person, you can only talk to that person, if you don't have anybody to talk to before, it's 10 Somebody doesn't have earlier how to how to reach them, you can talk to them directly in the right way to get it, they don't have anybody they have only this is his right. So as long as you do that the evening why they had, your mileage will

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be success. Because those who listen that semester, your marriage will be a success.

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But what I believe in, people are not doing the correct search. We're not doing that like such, we just do shallow and we do it with the intention of seeing good only. You have to be having the empty mind, you know,

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ready to receive any

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and ready also to accept and to analyze what it's been told to you and then you judge based on that and make a decision.

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Inshallah you will not you will not regret to even lie especially if you regret I will not say your istikhara is wrong, or it is not accepted. No.

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It is just a test Allah's point I wanted to test you. And also he wants you to go through that process.

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Which there is some of us went into the process and they come out of it spotlight they become an expert consultant in marriage.

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Because I experienced that you cannot buy with money.

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And I don't take it. I don't take a waste of money. As long as you do writing. I don't take

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something last month I want you to learn. And that message can only be taught to you through that marriage. So I went and it was cut up as well as the last one marry that woman and he divorced. The one they want. It

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doesn't mean that the perhaps Allahumma did not do the right thing. No. Absolutely right. Yeah. Bye but that's how Allah smarta decreed things to be done. So it might happen as a test for a person or to learn something.

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The good idea, Grant is good

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publicity

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candidate Canada, there is no like a couple of zodiacal

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there is no relationship between a girl and the boy before the marriage there is no there is no minimum is all bad.

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Trust is all bad. Some of them and in Xena

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you Allah, some of them ended Zina committing Zina, we know these things are taking place in our community, some of them and in some things which are not reaching the Zina, but almost.

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And

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and that's the least I'm sorry, that's that's the strongest one, the least you can get concerning having a relationship with somebody before marriage

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is that their prestige, and the shyness The girl has,

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is going to be taken away.

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That's why it's not easy for him to have a control in that family in the future. Because that respect what she need to have from his wife. And she need that respect also from him, both of them don't have

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otherwise telling me sometimes before the marriage, they fought each other so many times they argued if I you know, they will bring somebody in the middle to fix what is going on between them and they are not married to each other.

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So rather, they have all of these useless things taking place. And then they expect themselves to enjoy marriage after they do it.

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To enjoy that relationship after the marriage. No, it will not come. That's why many, many, many. They complain that why they don't enjoy marriage, you know, in the way they used to enjoy the relationship before the marriage.

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Good idea. So that's no good and it's best. And the wife is a person to detach himself from that person who he wants to marry. He doesn't need to hear anything from her rather than her agreement to marry him or not. That's it. I know MIB y equals saying something which doesn't go to the ears, it goes here in this time of ours because we said we need to know how does she think

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that's what they said I'm just paraphrasing them. We need to know how does she think and she also says she needs to know how how does he think you know, does that benefit they all know how they think you know and when they go to the to the marriage the reality

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comes, that thinking doesn't work, that knowledge doesn't work.

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So that's why she says, You look, you check the the dean. And the and the man is the next one is to look and see whether you will be comfortable with him or her. You know?

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She will be comfortable with him or he'll be comfortable with how does it

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go into talk? Tell me where did you ever see in Sharia that you have to sit with them and discuss the matters? Yeah, what do you want in the future? Yeah, what kind of house do you want? Whatever food you like to eat, you know, you like to work the lighting. And they went and talk about things which are not supposed to be discussed, and some of them destroy the life of their marriage before it even happens.

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What is your opinion on polygyny?

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The man is asking,

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can understand if the woman is asking because I know the trend is like this. But he's asking, What is your opinion?

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Oh, well, I don't like it.

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And then he calls upstairs. The one that I want to marry. She says she doesn't like polygyny, should I go or not?

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Why do you ask for the first ad the first place you know?

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And maybe that person trust me? He is not intended to go for this throughout his life? Or why do you ask?

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So if you remember my word, I always advise a Shabbat when you go for reassurance to meet the family. Don't talk. People don't want to accept this any except in your moment. But don't talk.

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Just be an interviewee.

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Just they're hanging around sitting down. How are you? Fine, just fine.

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Well, I am okay because I Hamdulillah I have a good sleep. I have work. Okay, nobody asked about this. Yes. How are you? I'm fine. Just say fine.

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Do you go to school? Yes. Hamdulillah.

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Then tell them which school because they don't ask about that. Which university you go in? Or in UAE?

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They don't ask about the faculty don't tell

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you a lie. This is the best way I see it to be that ask answer you answer questions according to the

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to the questions right.

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Get it? So what they don't ask don't answer, and give them according to what you have been asked that smartness. Or otherwise, trust me, in most instances what is happening, you go and talk beyond what you are asked. And then you open the door for the parent to ask you more questions. You know, and the goal also we have doubt on things which are not necessary actually, they're not necessarily they're not key in American life at all or not.

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Anyway, so So this is what I believe should I ask you to focus on three things, Dean Pollack, and to go and see that person whether you will agree or not, I believe nobody will understand his wife until he stays with her.

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You cannot convince me that you will ever understand who your wife is, before you sit stay with her. And nobody nobody can convince me that she will understand who the husband is before she stayed with him. Is that all jokes?

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Yeah. Those who marry can tell you this.

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Yeah, so that's why I just focus on what the last month I asked you to focus on Mary a good person and be even late Allah you will not see acceptable come and plan your life. All of those unnecessary talk talks that are going to happen you know, before the marriage will reduce the what you call the shyness and respect in your in your marriage.

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So there's no conversation. No, Jalan Jalan, no, no, no, no. What else? Yeah, no, whatever, you know, except marriage. I heard about the marriage in a week. Well like to know I still pray that marriage gets what is proposed. Check and see he already check was probably and he understand that he wants it went to the parent. This is my intention. Are you ready for that? Yes.

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Ella, let's go.

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Okay, one week, and the marriage finish and you have our brother, our brother, not necessarily some one of us, but somebody there

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10 years 10 years. He has been

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thinking of a marriage she said he said he is looking for marriage but 10 years he has been thinking of knowledge.

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He has been relationship with that sister 10 years and he's asking another person he does he couldn't understand why and to know this marriage doesn't want to work 10 years. What are you doing, you know?

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Anyway, like Grant is good. So please, we listen to this for those of you who did not graduate yet, graduation, not from the university but from the Azuga.

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Please think wisely. Don't take this matter. Lightly take it very seriously. You're going to stay with a future of

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in your life.

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That's how it is the future of your life. If you don't listen, you will cry. Right? This, this miskeen Ibrahim says if you don't listen, you will cry, either literally or spiritually, Allah protect you from cry

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How does a brother find families or fight sisters who have disabled the studying that he has, for example, with this regard?

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Because maybe it's one sided issues find the same understanding.

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He should look for good person because sometimes his understanding might not be correct.

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He should look for somebody who was appointed Goodman hedge, as religion and also good manners. As long as it's good, the manners is good. We don't want her to be like him.

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Don't want her to be like him. Because if his manhood is correct, harmony is correct. They are like, although the differences between happened but will not affect the marriage at all. Allah says Hoonah diversen Lacan want to leave us alone. And so Hala benefited from our shiksha happy Mahmoud Sally.

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The student options that I mentioned PT,

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he was translating this idea for us, he said Libous Allah azza wa jal says Your wife is Libous is your cloth. And you're also acting like labasa he says, that is a lever here that he shouldn't get somebody who is above

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above the dense the Kapha. Because in the bass when you go and buy you will not buy a class, if your class is your size is 100. You know, go look for 150 and you will not ask for 80 You always looked at the one that that fits you. So what is the what is what is Allah subhanaw taala referring to here, the like she has to think exactly like you know, at all because it's not even good for us to become like this. That means I'm going to be wrong. And I don't have a person at home to correct me. Because she's also thinking the way I'm thinking I don't need that. And then a person who has the correct manage. If I tilt, I will go in the wrong way she will tell me this is wrong. Because if she

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thinks like me, she's going to also watch and push me up. And there are some people who are doing like this, their wives push them up to do it because it brings benefit dunya benefit to them. You get it but generally in the religion, she practices the religion that he practiced, but for sure the way he prays and the way he prays might be different because there are things which he does. She doesn't do he sit for extra she doesn't sit for extra instead of like this hedonist and have like this, but both both praise okay? What we need is she prays five times a day and he prays five times a day to get you get an idea and he tries to follow Rasulullah sallallahu Salama precisely in his

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prayers and she's doing also the same thing to get idea there are things which you believe to be practiced by us who Allah but she doesn't believe that this and she has evidence you have evidence. So you're both in the same page. The same man hatch because you're also trying to source from the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu salah, but there are some differences among them. We need this to exist. That's why sometimes they say yeah, Allah differentiate between them in think somebody was shouting when one of the scholars asked for him. This is what I do. Why do you ask? We need this to happen because if she thinks like you exactly, there will not be correction in in your in your life

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should be doing something wrong. You will tell her Go ahead. Enjoy your life, and you'll be doing something wrong she will

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shake Can you explain the Hadith Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says people are like minds of silver and gold. The best of them in the time of Jamelia are the best of them in Islam. Yes, that's true. That's true. So let's Allah somebody asked him

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who is the best amongst the people he says use?

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Maybe you love even maybe you love him. That'd be like,

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that is nobody in this regard.

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That is better than use of Elisa. He was a prophet, son of a prophet jacobellis Salaam Sana prophet is haka. Estella, son of kalila. Ibrahima. Nobody has this lineage. So when they ask who is the best as well as a lot, so my thought that they're asking about the lineage, he says, Use Talisa

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lace and

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we're not asking you about this. So he says, For Cairo Mandela has called the best is the one who fears Allah subhanaw taala.

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In our economic boom in the light at at Koco.

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They say less I'll have anisopliae Rasool Allah is his family. The arbiters Karla, Theo homefield, your Hilarity for here, fill Islam in Africa. You're asking among the best amongst the Arab, is it the best are those people who are the best integer here, but when they accepted

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Islam and educate themselves Islam maintain that status for that that respect as well. You see the sola sola sama respect as as, even as Aurora said, I'm gonna be sad meanwhile, you know, and yeah sad when was the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, Sadler Obeida, you know, side of Nevada the prophets Allah assume or respect them so much that will set us administrar he respect them so much, much more than other normal wedeco People in Medina, because they were the leaders in Medina and they accepted Islam and also the righteous in the religion of Allah subhanahu wa. So this is applicable to any, any race and any nation. The leaders in the community, if they accept Islam, and

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they fix their attitudes and their behavior and they educate themselves, that they have education, they don't remain ignorant, Islam maintain that status for for them.

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But that's with us in the studio with Allah subhanaw taala it always based on the topo your righteous you are the best in the eyes of Allah, your leadership, your position in the community doesn't work with Allah.

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Any last word?

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Did we even take a single question from the

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they will say this is unfair, these people they came physically

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and they took the time for the questions.

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There is a question from sister is it okay for a wife and children to show disrespect to a father who has not executed his responsibilities? No.

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She will be seen in when she shows these inspect this suspect she will be seen and the trigger also will be seen

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because he's responsible to Allah subhanaw taala their job is to

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is to fix him. When a child disobeyed the parent, you know, as long as the parent is not asking him to go against Allah subhanaw taala. Even if the child is commanded by the parent to go against Allah, the child is not supposed to disrespect the parent. They're supposed to say no, but not disrespecting. Yeah, they will be seen it.

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It will be seen it. So their job is to advise him and to be patient in the advice both the wife and the children. She shouldn't provoke the kids to go against the father because they don't understand what she understand.

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The MR grew up in that way, even after he became righteous that this suspect might remain in the heart.

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The next question, how do we advise someone who doesn't believe in magic, but his wife severely affected with it? He asked the wife to just get help from a therapist.

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We keep advising him there are some entities we don't agree with that is the source of the Sharia. The Sunnah says that it was even done with rasool Allah, Allah subhanaw taala talks about it this is Quran saying that yes it can happen what else he has what else he has and the province a lot so my talks about it

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it wasn't coincidence. So we should remind him within the suits of the Sharia

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and then advise the wife to use the right thing

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if he doesn't want any rocky as I can support him in that also. But he has to do the rocker himself but who

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can support because I didn't I didn't trust go into the rock rocky that much these days. Do the requests What is he doing? The rap game so why does he do reading Quran? Why can't you read Quran?

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How do you know that this person is Motoki?

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Cara remember a person was doing the rakia Subhanallah the Szczepan was talking in the in the tongue of that person it all when you don't fear Allah

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we found it strange It only means if you feel Allah by now no longer while I left this place

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and we didn't trust Japan but that was so embarrassing.

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If it is a husband or a family member nobody knows about this but since is a third party coming

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in person and many of these people are shouting You Allah shouting in Sharpie and so I share set a shape a shape and letter the shape on

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Rocky is shaken and he's chasing away shape and how how does that happen? Shape on cannot take away shape

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the next question shape. If a person is afflicted with Sir is very weak and started hearing voices to kill herself. Can someone help her to read rotate online?

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Yes, somebody can help to do that. I prefer if somebody can sit with this, this one they need to come down

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because trust me is

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Several things, many of them are not

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a psychological problem, they just need somebody to cool them down

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good words, somebody to be with them for a while.

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The most important thing is to manage to convince them that they are okay. And they shouldn't pay attention to anything.

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There are some people if you see them, you will say, oximeter, Biller, they're possessed by the gene. But trust me, there is no gene, nothing of this regard, no gene or anything.

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So first, they need somebody to be with them for a while to cool them down. Get it? And then the route where it can take place?

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Even if it is online, if there is nobody to read physically from

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schizophrenia, or is it an actual? No, I think it just just something that affects the brain. Yeah. I don't think at all, many of these issues, they're not generated issues.

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They just thought that accumulate in the brain of a person and he start

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believing in them. So they cause this reaction, which you just need somebody who's smart to inform this person about that which benefits? Yeah. Is it possible for one of the examples

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he has a page where he takes videos because he has this

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and then he will take a video to see the person behind it is an actual person or is it something that like

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how I couldn't get better, he has a feeling

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somebody's walking behind. So he sees someone walking behind him and he would take out his phone to I will advise Honestly speaking, I will advise him not to do just ignore.

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He perceived that something is coming behind right, just ignore

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if it's too much just read Quran and just pretend that he doesn't know anything. And that person if there is a such there is such a person, somebody should advise him to intensify his vicar of Allah Samaritan especially at Koh Sama, almost

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pretty fudges pretty short on time. And also he could do all the time, even like to Allah if it is something that is coming, it will be it will go but he shouldn't pay attention to it

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then with the questions here,

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how many questions that I can use it by kind of moving to

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the next question Jeff solomani Kumar deliver Katya chef, is an Allahu Allah configuring your

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Jizya has collected from Haleem and not from Halima. So by right a Muslim country should collect Jizya from brothers only and not for sisters. We talked about this last time, right? That Jizya is only for the for the brothers right.

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The last question, we shouldn't shake hands with a whole Massey. Does this mean all kinds of assay? Is there any way that we could give excuses? No. Was it mentioned that we shouldn't shake hands with animasi? I don't know that

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sent us the time the person has committed sin. Yes. You don't say salaam team you don't go and shake his hand.

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But he's not committing sin. Just normal person walk in and you know he's a Muslim.

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Who can shake him? I can shake hands for coffee. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Nothing wrong with that. But

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to say that we don't shake hands with the added hand of Alan Massey. I don't know where it is existing.

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But during the time they are committing the Marcia Yes. No. Salaam no shaking hands.

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Even for the reason of softening their heart, I know that's often in their heart when they finished. And usually when you advise them during the commission of the same they don't listen.

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You got it less if you're going to invite them separately for us in a place and sit with them and discuss the matter with

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talking to him when he was committing the sin he might react very negatively against you.

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So the last question

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continuing from the brothers question about the person that has psychological problems, how do we help someone who has who was was in Baja, which was in Baja, like enrich to the point that he cannot make although he stands there for like

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these people if you're with them, just tell him let's go look cool. He may go to a tie finish.

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What do you think?

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Usually he might tell you know, everything is fine now, because you're there telling him this is how it is when I'm not here is always like this. So do not pay attention to the ship on and just go and pray. Your prayer is okay. The prayer is okay. Listen, and we'll put you into trouble. And that's that's my

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I've never been with him if possible, this is good. And he's gonna tell you I have doubt maybe I didn't watch this and that tell him no, that's cheap. I'm lying to you. I saw you do it. You did.

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And always you will do is like this. Your prayers like that. Don't pay attention to, to it. Yeah, that's the only way to advise him through the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu somata. You know, that's why ignorance is one of the best medicine, you know, to kill psychological problem and what's worse.

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Ignorance. Ignorance means to just ignore what what your brain is telling you

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assume that there is nothing

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Why sometimes some people as they said, they spend four hours in the bathroom, or more than that comes and pray he cannot pray Istat and then go on a kudu again.

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Yes, so tell him the first one is fine.

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Yeah, because Islamically even if it is not fine is fine.

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Because the same was worse, and he doesn't know that will be forgiven. But alas, whatever even though you know, otherwise you will become marginal, marginal, literally imagine.

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Like sometimes, like, you know, it's like the whole package taharah the Salah is all of them he just leave, ignore and just go, I think this place I know, tell him just keep us. You're saying

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tell him Islam is simple.

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But you will better than

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that, you know, Omar, when somebody was asking you as a humble Misa what this water that is coming from up what is that? Omar? Tell him please don't tell him. This is this exaggeration?

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That we're supposed to base our judgment on what we see. Or we don't know 100% It happens and based on that, if you're not sure you just leave it. You know? Tell him just to and after you finish any doubt that comes you throw it away. This call is still shocked by the feeling.

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Well, how can the Chicago

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check after you finish whatever you're doing? Doesn't affect you act of worship.

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Allah grant is good Hannukah shadow light