Bulugul Maram #4 2022-10-15

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The importance of parenting and sharing experiences with children is emphasized in the pandemic, along with the need for parents to be aware of their behavior and avoid giving up on their children. The use of sharia and avoiding sex advice and the negative impact of lying and being too afraid of punishment are emphasized. The importance of forgiveness and protecting the community is emphasized, along with following laws and privacy. The rise of COVID-19 in various countries, including China and Australia, is highlighted, along with the use of face masks and social distancing measures. The pandemic has impacted working and non-work settings, including the use of face masks and social distancing measures.

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Smilo handle Rahim will salatu salam ala Rahmatullah Alameen

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so Allah subhanaw taala anybody convener of humanitaire level one Jana Farah, as a lot works really well if you were farther afield early.

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I think this is a longest break we ever had with any book.

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So maybe if we managed to

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bring it forward, shall it be better to keep the class moving?

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Nobody's Yeah. Why do you bring these combos

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you want to Mushrikeen anyway, so inshallah today we we will continue from where we stopped last time. And I guess last time we were talking about the the book of

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huddled right

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had shattered will come

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this is what we will supposed to be dealing with Inshallah, in this class. So we talk about the Sarika theft, and we are done with that. So now we will move on to the shadow count.

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O'Bannon muscaria. So this is the title show welcome drinking wine or liquor who abandoned musk and also an explanation about the nature of musk Musk humans in toxic and something that intoxicated

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domesticate the one who who consume it?

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So how'd it go magically? So have you been hidden or not given in the current

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kind of father whoever Uber clean Formica or model is the shadow NASA for color Abdul Malik now, hopefully do the same. For Amara be Omar more developmentally.

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And soon American Sahiba Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Our Cardinal,

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one of the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and also the one who served Rasulullah sallallahu selama for 10 years. Any and he had that amazing statement about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was tarbiyah he says had them to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salaam, Arusha Sunni, I serve Rasulullah sallallahu Allah himself for 10 years and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and never never never told me why did you do this? Or why didn't you do this?

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Very beautiful, you know, way of dealing with children.

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And as I always mentioned that we need it nowadays. You know, that's why whenever I come across to like this, I emphasize on it so much. We need to bring our kids closer and closer living in this contaminated time of ours nowadays.

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Time of distraction, they need to be next to you all the time. And therefore you have to keep your hand away from hitting them

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as much as you can. And the question is, is that possible? Yes, it is always possible. It is always possible. You just need to change. If you change your kids are going to change. And that which you are complaining about your kids lying to you from time to time. Yes, they have to lie because they are afraid of punishment, right? You're also very afraid of punishment, sometimes the person lies.

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Otherwise, if you are sure that you will not be punished, there'll be no point of light.

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You got it. There'll be no point of line. That's part of our nature. That's why medical condemn one of those people that Allah subhanaw taala will suspect and disgrace them on the Day of Judgment.

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Is a medical consult the king that lies? Yeah, because why do people lie? Because they're afraid of punishment, but he's in authority, you know, why is he lying?

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So children, if you're so lenient, so soft, so gentle, they're going to be very honest with you. And believe me, I'm talking based on fact, they will come and share with you some of the things that happened without your knowledge and you're not looking for it. So Hala, they feel so comfortable and they make you their partner, somebody who guides them, they will share with you almost everything, even the things they did in secret which they know either like it or lie in some instances, they will come and tell you that we did this, but please forgive us. So amazing, you know, because nobody was there when he was doing.

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Nobody was there when she was doing but they will come and tell you. We did this and that please forgive us. We know you don't like it, but it happens with it.

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We will try to control us off. That is the femoral of leniency, softness and kindness to the kids. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I think the problem is from my side

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The province that Allahu Allah is the most very lenient to Annecy with Malik and to the rest of the children who are around around him. You know, you see his life with Al Hassan and Hussain.

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Very lovely life here.

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It comes in, they have nobody better than Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam

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that was a source of hope for them and comfort and they always go to him and they play with the province, Allah so at any moment. So that was a select selasa mod kit. He make jokes when he meets kids.

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Nowadays, we don't have time to reply, there's a lot. I'm not talking about saying salaam to them even to reply that esalaam Some of us don't have time to do that.

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Socialize a lot. So stay with a child and make jokes. You know, a lot of them will make jokes. Yeah, but Oh, my

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mother father, no Viagra.

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Yeah, but maybe Mother Father No.

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And there's a little boy that lost his birth and he cried in the process a lot. So I was talking to him in this way.

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even if it's so small

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at thermo Yun, there's people who are concerned of Tobia. They said, he has everything the big person has. Whatever you have the same feeling you have in they also have They have everything, what can affect your mood, they have all of these but the only thing is they cannot express that they have the same feeling. And they monitor they watch what exactly it's given to them. They get annoyed, they get angry when you do something because everything is there, you know.

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So they are expecting that kind of respect, and softness and gentleness. So manhood your soul has a lot to sell and photography is the only manhood that works these days. You will love to please do focus on on this those of you who have children. Yeah, really, you really need to look into this factor correctly, and those who are willing to have in the future Inshallah, if you make Toba. The reason I put this in your mind to be given the priority, right? We have a child boy or girl, let them be very close to you.

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And emphasizes on the mother because we talk too much at home to the kids.

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The Mother, the Father, this is all too much. No, he did. His hand usually.

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Yeah, the mother usually don't eat that much. But she talks every single thing that kids touch. She has a comment on the father doesn't doesn't have time.

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When he gets involved with us means the kids is going to pay a lot of prices.

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So both are wrong. Absolutely wrong. The mother should be patient and take the word of the Ravi. When they asked him many arkit Carl Franklin, motiva fill or Mortazavi, you know this very, very important statement to be given to all the mothers at home, all the mothers at work, they really need to understand this correctly. And their husbands, also they need to understand it, you know, correctly because some also are involved in this.

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Talk about everything, but there is no forgiveness in the house. You know, you put one duck in a place, it cannot be moved from that place.

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So, I share the alarm on how and she talked to the prophets a lot, so many Hadith of almost, she described one of the sisters, you know,

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one of the sisters, she was describing her husband, she says, Oh, gee in the

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forehead, thoughts have been mentioned in this hadith. And now you don't remember alhamdulilah one pass a test Zoji industrial overhead when courage. I said,

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Well, I said, I, she said my husband when he gets inside the house, he acts like flat. Who is

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the cheater? Right? Nine?

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They said it sleeps a lot?

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What does he mean? He's in the house as if he is not. They're very lenient, and soft. And what makes his more beautiful, according to her, and this is true, less alumni, he doesn't come back home and start. Last time when I was going out the chair was in that place who move it a little bit, you know,

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last time the cup was there, announced somebody put it in that place. What if the cup falls out?

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And he went to the room? Yeah, that there's something something that who brought it to this place? I think we'll see. The next day wife will be willing that you stay in the office for 10 days, in your cover a retreat to another countries you wish that you don't come back again.

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Yeah, so that man was not like that, you know, he comes to the house. There are a lot of insignificant modification that are made by the family, he closes his eyes as if there is nothing. We focus always on big, big, big, big matters which affect Iman and Islam and the religion but other matters of the dunya which is not going to affect anyone. He closes his eyes. That's why when he talk, the talk is going to have an impact in the heart of anyone who's in the house, because they know he doesn't talk too much.

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So please, these type of things, please understand them correctly. I know when the reality comes now all of you are listening. But when the reality comes usually a person forget all of these. She just has to understand.

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And then tomorrow, she doesn't want to understand because she thinks also she's like him right?

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And few days, he has a lot of white hair and he's still in their 20s have.

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So these are simple matters. But please do understand them correctly. Marriage is supposed to be based on what?

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Happiness right? What brings it's supposed to bring happy to the life. You're on the first day a person was in in he met his wife. How was the marriage? Pasha Allah? I see him smiling until his ears you know, every time like that, never I see him I shower. Every view owe him some money. Also, he will forgive.

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Right? Because he's living with Jana.

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After a few days, whenever I see him ke Babu sandwich

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stayed in the office until even in sometimes.

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Yeah, the office is closed. Why didn't you go home? I have some job here. I told me you don't have anything. Yeah, he has. But he doesn't want to go and see that face. But who created that environment? Believe me, you are the one who created that environment.

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Because you don't understand what marriage means you go with the concept of marriage according to Shiva.

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Jana that is continuous and you know, and after a few days he sees it No, this is not how it is that he starts

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behaving in the way the wife never expected. And she also she has the same feeling. That's why people fail. So please do understand that marriage supposed to be based on happiness and you're supposed to keep that happiness in the house and how to keep keep it forgive a lot. overlook a lot. Done comment on everything.

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praiseworthy whenever it is necessary.

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I act and work towards that one. And a wife also should be somebody who's like that I shall set an alarm to 11 Genovesa Allahu Allahu selama. The Ara Helier, CRO and antacid Allah.

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Somebody is, tarnishing her image, you know, in the presence of somebody who she loves more than anybody else and somebody that she knows that this person loves her more than anybody else among the rest, and somebody came to tarnish her image and the brothers a lot of summer trust that one also who is talking?

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Yeah, he doesn't trust the way the merrier, he trusts also,

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Captain talking talking to him, but to Aisha, what matters is her life with Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, she doesn't care about anything else, you know, go and mess up what to say whatever you want, as long as I'm with him in a very happy way.

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That's better. And this is very, very, very, very important. You know, there are some sisters who get into trouble so much. My advice always to them is what is the relationship between you and your husband? Fine, go and keep our especially those who are living with their mother in law's battles are happening in the houses a lot, a lot of families are not at ease. Because of this. And still were hanging around that culture. You know,

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they have to live together and when they live together every time clashes and then the husband miskeen is in the interview, to please who his mother or to please his wife, please his wife, the mother will curse.

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Please the mother, the wife will be in trouble and her family might get involved, you know?

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That the best is to always focus on the husband, you know, because I always tell that people live with your husband. This one we don't understand it correctly. Live with your husband, live with your wife. What does that mean? Don't pay attention to what is an attacking you or talking to you in this our surrounding area. Just always feel as if you are alone with this person. This one This one doesn't talk this one curse this one, but focus. Am I in a good mood with this person that brought me into the space? Yes, just make life as if there is no life except the life with this one. Believe me, it will solve a lot of issues. You solve a lot of issues. But the moment she started thinking

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that no I do have the capacity to reply and she started also the pain against the mother. Come on is his mother

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is his mother.

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So the best way to make it not to reply, let it go you know people will not come to your body and see the curses. Yeah and a growing like ushja Nobody will say she cares. She said whatever she said, Don't reply. Husband comes to this level but life as it until the time Allah want to find a way out. And believe me, it will not take longer time the Eternal Light has soldiers

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they will come and apologize and life will be very different. Very different. So silent, and not paying attention to what people are saying and replying with good in the way of last month I mentioned whether call Hatha Muhammad Salah because any woman who is not agreeing to stay with the wife of her daughter, this woman is Jada. You will because sometimes there is nothing it just the wife doesn't. She does just like

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sometimes is like that. Yeah, there are some cases the wife is a troublemaker, but in most instances the just mother doesn't like

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so what is the best reply? The wife should just act in the way alas muhurta says way the health of a home was a hidden color setup is very difficult to do. But I think if she does it 12345 times the case will be close. She will always take it as a joke.

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So happiness should take place in the in the house. So as I said the sisters they should take the statement of that RV. When somebody asked him mentally out in Thailand, 14 on the motor golfing, say the smart person is somebody who is fun. Arkell is somebody who's 1414 very wise, very smart, very precise, very kind of person. But at the same time, motor raffle with raffle means, but it's a golfer you know that something exists but you pretend that either never know about it.

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Yeah, cuz sometimes you might come Believe me, sometimes you might come you sense that you family worry so much about your comment.

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Yeah, but usually we have the boss is right. And then you know that yeah, they worry and then you start commenting. That's very wrong.

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Very wrong. The best is when you see them being in a state of worried as long as nobody talks about it. You also close the page, open other topics, you know, to close that page. You'll see a lot of changes in your house you know

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And you know that it is related to that issue with somebody did, but there are certain hours, but that kindness Believe Me will never be forgotten.

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So cool thou be very good imitators of Salah Salem, then imitate any other person other than

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because there are some people out of their nature very harsh, like who amongst the companions of the prophets, Allah salah? No, no mother is not harsh at all. zubaid Thank you very much as available, mashallah that one woman told him, he said, because he himself used to describe himself he said on a mineral riddle, what caffeine will cover

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is ill My anger is caffeine. Meaning is very blind

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is when his wife does something wrong, you know, his hand is always ready

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to get it never miss.

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And Omar said, Hello Alex Laker love Ulta Takatsu, Yanni illustrated in the hub, he said, I believe if the Khilafah is to be given to you, you might wage war, FEMA does shine the lottery tickets if you want to shine. He says,

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if somebody took one mod of shade, you might wage war for this, even if life were going to be lost.

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So you don't see himself that's why the best manner to be taken in terms of dealing with children and family at home, and wives at home. And as a family I'm talking about wives is the men hedge of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and the best match to be taken for a wife in order to succeed in her life is the message of the wives of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam,

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all of them confetti kind to all of them with no exception.

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I share her case was related to us a lot because

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she was involved in many things. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also was very close to her more than anybody else, although he loves them so much. But this is part of this part of his nature, he did not oppress anyone, and they know that that's why they don't have any consent towards what the profit and loss amounts to. So that's why you find so many generations about what I shared it with the professor.

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But he was very kind he was so concerned, you know, in particular about what makes Ayesha worry which believe me most of the husbands they don't care about this or Celeste a lot of summer does not like to see what hurt his family whatsoever whether they are the wives or the kids.

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That's why when the act is the neck necklace now

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when I shall loss it promises a lot this summer did not hesitate to command How many people 500 people and these are soldiers you know yeah, if you know soldiers, you visit the barricades here as soon as you know how they they are, you will understand this Hadees properly. I studied my secondary school in the middle of the Army, although I have seen a lot a lot a lot.

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Seen a lot. So when you really suck up Hadith after living in the middle of those guys, and you see the way they live in you know, and especially the Arabs, you know what concern we have with the sisters before Islam, almost zero. Today Islam comes, you know, this is just a girl, young girl, and she loves the necklace. And this is so these are soldiers and they are on the wave coming back from the metal and the promise Allah Azza is asking them to wait not just waiting for her to go and look for it. No, they should go and look for it.

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I will see doing that. So she will be happy going back home you know, and they have to go look for it. Until the time the prayer time arrives and they couldn't find water to Niccolo

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somebody went over cover their loved one or told them Yeah, Baba, did you did you see what your daughter did for the Muslims? He said what did she do?

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Was very annoyed. I told him she kept us in the CCS because he did not know why. You know that the prostitutes have asked people to stay. But exactly why was that?

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Why did she do Yeah, the proxy server asked everyone to stay here because she lost the neck. That's what Hala Villa les was under a camera the camera sat on it

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well because she did that they say yes.

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The place where he knows she is located.

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Unfortunately for him

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and also at the same time Fortunately for her that she was with the Prophets Allah so Allah this is very beautiful because you know, this is what some of us will never tolerate you. Why did you lose it and you know that we are on the way can going back home and you know that I have

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People here

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hoping for her big lecture you know, before he if he looks for it

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and at the same time believe me some of the wives he might say, I don't want actually we just got you know,

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the prophets a lot of summaries as if there was nothing happening. He was so tired he wanted to sleep. I said come, he said, she sat down. And the promise Allah son put his hand on her thigh while she was the pillow and the prophets Allah son was sleeping. What does that mean? It's like there is no case you know?

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Hala Abu Bakr went he found Aisha in that situation.

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I saw him she knows that something's going to happen. But so how long last month I protected her that the person Lhasa put his head on, on her on her

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walker cane he was thinking what to do

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if he

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Rasulullah saw some wake up and that will be a tragedy he workers to Lhasa sama up because he wants to punish somebody.

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So what to do so he found out that there is no way for him except to pinch her from this college further Allah yet only other hostility she is he kept on thinking her so much she said it was so painful because he was doing it so much. She said I wanted to cry. But then I remember that if I scream Crassula sang wakeups Hala

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she said I was punished by him but I don't know how to react. Because I know if I scream rasool Allah Azza will wake up

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as well that kind of life they have you know, kind of life they have told me which houses like this.

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It had and I'm not saying there is no house inshallah there is but which houses like this.

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That's why there were coffin and debris they have nobody like Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he cares so much about them. It doesn't care about what people are saying. The point is his family should be happy in their life. Yeah, he doesn't let them oppress and abuse the right. But at the same time, he doesn't let anyone take their right. Yeah, that doesn't mean that he's so negligent, they can do whatever they want. Even if it is haram. No, he will sit down and talk to Aisha mashallah the conversation will be so excellent until the time she lost focus, she said something wrong, then the province of Assam will change will get very angry with her.

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But that anger doesn't continue.

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For us. And along with that might be for ages, as well. I saw someone get angry now. And one and advice and then the case will be close. And then he comes back to life. While I like this life, you know, and believe me, this is the best way for you to relieve yourself, get angry, but then close the page and move forward. Otherwise we keep on punishing yourself from be depressed and people will be asking what's wrong with you, you know,

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that might might reduce your age in terms of being productive

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and want to scatter physically, but you will not be productive in your life.

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So I guess that's easy enough. So Anna's family gave us this nice way the prophets, Allah Azza used to raise him up, he said he never blamed me for something. And we have to understand that it doesn't mean that you should let the kids do whatever they want, even if it is wrong. So Lassa was not like that. But he was practicing what is called a therapy. He did have

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a tablet with him. Very, very, very important to learn this to be able to help given Tobia to whoever is under your custody but with love.

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There is always a better way to command there's always a better way to fix that is always a kind way to release information and advice. But at home we don't find this he is shouting here screaming He's telling your wife to not raise your voice and what is he doing?

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raising his voice you know everyone can hear but he was a donor

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so Osama like is so elsewhere, Malik said and then the VSL Allahu Allahu selama OTB rogering carshare even camara flagella, the WHO BJD the tiny

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now mineral by the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was somebody who was brought to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi selama who drank wine, the prophets Allah Salah beaching with jada jada 10 Is the branches of the tree, the tempo, the tempo of the dates three, so he he beats him around 40 times Okay. Carla will follow whoever Boober can really lower and the same also goes to Abu Bakr in his time when he was the Khalifa somebody drank wine. We brought him a worker beat him also allowed for the felon Maka. Omo is to shout on NASA for collab drama well, when the time for Omar comes the first two years of the time of Irma if somebody drink wine or beat him 40 times.

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after two years people start changing.

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So Omar, gather the companions and he's told them

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He says, I can see people are increasing this bad behavior.

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He says to the Companions, please a shoe Ilya, what do you think we should do concerning this matter? And that's the reason why some scholars said show will come.

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The punishment of Alhambra is not had.

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Here we counted among those who do dry. Yeah, because this is the opinion of the vast majority of the scholars, but some scholars said it is not hard. Why isn't it hard because aroma or the Allahu Anhu gathered the companions to think about what could possibly be the best approach in terms of

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the punishment, Insanity smart.

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And this cannot be done with with with what they could do right, because habit is a punishment that is prescribed by Allah subhanaw taala and it cannot be altered cannot be modified cannot be changed. No, you just have to keep it the way it is, you cannot modify it at all,

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cannot be forgiven by anyone. Because this right of Allah subhanaw taala for instance, if somebody committed Zina by force, you know, he forced somebody to come into that with with her, or with

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when the, the, the person

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who the crime was committed on him forgives, say the sisters when she went to the court, she looked at the person and she pretty. She said I forgot my right. Does that mean we shouldn't punish it? No. We tell her thank you very much for your kindness, but this is the right of Allah subhanaw taala that is mixed with your right and his right in this case is caught. I mean, it's quite strong, stronger than yours. Get it this Hakuba has xojo

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any color but an alert system atma HAPPY BUNNY Adam in the hands of Allah subhanaw taala that is mixed with

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with the right of human beings and the writer, philosopher hunter in this regard is stronger than the right to human beings. So in this case, we don't hear that

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the forgiveness we don't take it seriously. We will just say to her, this is between you and Allah subhanaw taala Thank you very much for being kind to him, but the right of Alaska has to be executed here. Contrary to this us it says there is a right to Allah there is a right to human being which right is the right of human being. That's why the person can forgive the pesos even at the last minute before the execution of that pay sauce.

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Can the government say we don't agree? Yes, they can. If somebody is very, very bad, criminal and the government knows that leaving this person to just walk away and go out of this

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issue just like that free of charge will bring you know a lot of chaos in the community and

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the government

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they do have a right to tell the one who forgives, they will have the right we thank you very much that this person has been disturbing the community for ages. As far as your right is concerned, it is forgiving you cannot charge him now and they cannot charge him in the hereafter because you already forgive that. But now we have to go and protect the interests of the public

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the government can still execute that person Yeah, because if we let him go that might you know push him to go and do it with others thinking that they will also forgive in the way the first one is. So how do would you cannot add you cannot decrease you have to leave it in the way it is you can delay it Yeah, you can delay it that's why some some some of the contemporary speakers I call them not scholars, speakers, or writers they they think that there was a time in the car of Islam whereby the Khalifa over the Allahu Anhu he jeopardize the application of Sharia.

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This is Kevin Roma never stopped applying Sharia in the people not a single one time.

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But this is the little amount of knowledge they have the extent of their knowledge which is so deficient and they do not rely upon the scholars rather than rely upon what English compilation you know, so much writing writings that are written in English which unfortunately most of the strides in are written by unqualified people

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and sometimes not just unqualified people that are written by by who Orientalist

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non Muslims who whose aim and the focus is to destroy Islam.

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That's why some of them

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I will tell you that even what was done by Ursula selasa, some part of it is he had

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you know, the full assassin was doing HDR and as such, the time has changed, we should do another he had also.

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So those guys they believe that Omar change the hat. And what are they trying to say? Just to tell you that Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala does not fit this time, there are a lot to be done before you apply the Sharia of Alaska, her time is this. This is a lie, companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the knowledge they have. It's not in the way where we're talking about.

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And so I heard somebody say, the professor's who wrote on this matter, he was saying that people are hungry people don't have food. And you're talking about application of Sharia. I was like, What is he talking about? In the term of Azula philosophy? Even the leader himself had to put rocks sometimes on his stomach, you know, to be to feel some, you know, heaviness you know,

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because they spent days sometimes without eating food, what kind of poverty are they? I mean, are you talking about nowadays? He said they are poor and we cannot appreciate it before we make them full. Priscilla says How did he do that?

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So these are other as they say in Arabic, also known Akbar homie being

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excused as somebody who's given which is worse than the sin it's itself.

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So saying that Omar, stop the Sharia because of the majha. You remember the almond Ma, right? The year where people are starving, there was no food, the year of the years of the drought, the farming

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they say the Roma

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they brought somebody to him who's to something and almost did not apply the punishment on on him.

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So you see, he did not apply surely during our module actually, I was kept aside. That's Kevin, almost did not stop applying the Sharia. Actually what he did was what Sharia? Because Sharia says from an Torah, FEMA, certain vitamins, Jennifer Latham in vain Allah have all right. What they did not understand initially of ours is the fact that Allah subhanaw taala granted us alternatives in case there are Zima cannot be practice. You are sick, you cannot sell and pray to Allah subhanaw taala what is the next step to sit down and pray?

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And then we say oh, when Kareem is sitting down to pray, he is not practicing the Sharia. Because the Sharia says he should, he should stand out.

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Good idea. It provides alternatives. If you are in a state of hunger, in this case, whatsoever can save you alive, even if it is shipped in via, you know, should give out here but it's not in the heart. Sharia allows you to save your life by saying something which if you say you can get something that can save your life.

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You can eat or you can park you can eat blood you can eat whatsoever except one

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as human being or yourself. They all agree that you can eat yourself to live. You cannot kill somebody to survive.

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You know, there are some who believe that when people are hungry, they a group of them. And they couldn't find food. Can they smack one of them.

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They have pizza to a

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very, very rock people on the sea. And the ship is about to sink. And they realize that they must throw something away from the ship in order to save everyone.

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And we have to go procure goodness. I think there's just a joke. Well, anyway, they said the the old people, they have old people and they have younger one. All people said to the younger one. You see you guys, you're not even they don't have too much or you don't even have sinned in your life. So even if you die

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you go to gently straightforward. So let us just sacrifice you and

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and then just put you this and the younger ones also, you know, they always have more than the old one, right?

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Yeah, young people, they see new things, right. So they look at them. They say yeah, we understand that. But you have to understand the fact also we need somebody to keep things going. And you guys are too old. Even if you live you're going to die very soon. So there is no point of keeping you. Therefore you are the best people to go.

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Who do we throw in the sea? Islamically

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They either die all of them or the survival of we're not allowed to second you cannot kill somebody because you want to live. That's why when you're in a state of the euro in Islam, you are

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out, to do everything to save your life, everything to save your life, according to the best opinion, including Zina, if you're forced forced to do you know, you know that if you don't go for it, you will be killed.

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You know, according to the best opinion of the scholars, everything could be done to save your life except one, which is to kill somebody to live. Your life is not better than that his because what is the?

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What are they going to do with you if you didn't kill him? They kill you? Yeah, if you kill him for you to survive, you're saying that your life is better than better. And Islam, we don't have this. And that's why if you understand this concept properly, you don't need to ask question about that in permissibility of abortion, right? Yeah, as long as the child gets a soul from Allah subhanaw taala. Then this baby is called unborn child, who is alive in the womb of his mother. He is alive, like our life is alive. Because the prophets Allah sama did not tell us that this baby when he is coming out, Allah would give him a new life, not the old one. Now that's sold that Allah has been put in him it

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was it is the one that will remain, you know, until his death. So that's mean he has life similar to ours, the only difference between us and him is that we are out of the wounds and he is still inside. So we don't have a right to take of this life by any means. Even if the doctors on earth, all of them confirm that. If we don't do that a mother will lose her life.

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We tell them we don't care. No, we're not. We don't care about her. But we don't care about what will happen to any one of them. Because if they die, both of them who killed them? Allah subhanaw taala nobody to be blamed. But if you kill the baby who killed the baby, you have to pay the deer

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have to pay the deer? And are we sure if we take out the baby the mother will survive? No.

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That is a very crucial, crucial and important matter which a lot of negligence exists in it. So handle hammer, some scholar said it is not hard to because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I'm sorry O'Meara de Lavon, who gathered the companion to the size, which is the best which one is the best punishment. So in the first two years of Rama, he is also doing like rasool Allah. And after that people started increasing to overset we need to do something. And this is very, very good. Very good.

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Very cool.

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What do you call

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extract or evidence to support this part of the CSA sherif? Yeah, for those of you who are studying political science, it says 200 nurses across the country Mahathir Mohamad al foo, as the statement of who Omar Abdullah says, Omar Abdullah, he says, he said to her fully nasty Octavia to be Kadima had a funeral for you.

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He said the leaders sometimes might be forced to introduce new laws, you know, to be imposed on the people, you know, in relation to the new crimes being invented by the people.

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Yeah, they bring new crimes you also as a leader, you bring new punishment also to address those those crimes.

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Good idea. That's what Omar was doing. In the case of talaaq.

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He says are under NASA Data geography Amarin Kenneth long V. Anna, follow on by now.

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It used to be one dialogue. If somebody tells his wife you are divorced, three times in one slot, used to be only one.

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You just come to the house his wife made him angry, he says and the paw paw pollack.

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What does that mean? Plus Salawa.

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Or sometimes the daddy.

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It says I divorced you three times, at once. In the time of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe. Salam is used to it used to be counted as only one. Yeah, because Allah commanded you to divorce how many times one? Why one

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because that's the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala and also looking at the nature of the people believe me believe in my dear brothers and sisters,

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most of the divorces taking place if you go deeper, you will see that the cause of that divorce might be so insignificant.

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Lack of patience. That's why many cases after the divorce what follows after the divorce rate?

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Yeah, great.

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Unless if there is a good and sound justification, there will be no regret. The father will not agree to come and the mother also might not agree to come you know, they prefer to remain separate and because the issue is is quite big among amongst them. So it is always good to follow the Sharia. There was only one because you might regret it and Allah subhanaw taala says when they leave

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What happened? Where did she go?

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She ran away to her family.

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But now what is he doing? What do people do now?

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She ran away, no matter how much you try to convince them. They don't want to stay in the house. They don't want to see the husband at all go out of the house. And this is haram. Sharia Sharanya law says Lautoka Yunnan Butina Wilaya original Allah says,

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why why would she stay in house? Allah says later the real Allah Allah

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says you don't know Maybe Allah subhanaw taala bring something else. So let her stay after the divorce. Stay in the house for how long? Around three months right?

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She has to pass three menses, our three purity according to

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a person.

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So Allah says maybe something will change during that period. There have to be

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as no bomb here.

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For the

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they, they are the best in this regard.

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They said she should try her best to beautify herself to make herself always like the queen thinks she did not do let her do it.

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You might see the husband saying one day

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I apologize. Actually, I was the one who was wrong.

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Believe me believe in most instances if they do it correctly. And if that is good, Allah Squanto will guide them to what is what is better. But this always happens because we receive questions you know from time to time, from people who divorce like that, and they will come looking for looking for a way out especially those people who divorce three times at once.

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After a few days when the wife you know, and he realized that it's not good for him to leave this person he will come looking for fatwa What to do now.

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So Allah says latterly that Allah Allah here by the Delica.

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So Omar Avila, one who said when a person in his time they started making it in a wrong way a person will come and say, he divorces his wife 100 times.

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He says that the life now pass to somebody who says I divorced my wife 100 times he says, We just take three from you. This after Omar said, we are going to hold people accountable of what they

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brought to themselves. He said three we take three we know at the time of the province our son was only one but since people are playing game with the Sharia, if he says three, we take it as three.

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And we live with our boss told him.

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He says we take three

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it says As for the 97 You disobeyed Allah subhanho wa Taala with it.

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And he said you make joke and you play with the Sharia of Allah subhanho wa Taala is like he's telling him, we just need to

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save the 97 for later if you might need

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to and so, so it is haram for somebody to do it actually at the first place, but whether it is executed or not, it depends on

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the acceptance of which opinion. Yeah, and the closest one is the one that says

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government, you know, they do have a right to impose something like this. To keep the opinion of Omar Abdullah most of the scholars said this opinion of Omar is the one that stands up to date.

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But as a student of knowledge, the best is to look into the person who is doing the thing. It is one of the good people, normal people in the society kind people he's not what Howard when he came you know that this is really something that pressured him was really angry, you know? And then he lost his control and then he divorces three times you tell him the opinion of the the I mean the Sunnah of the Prophet selasa consented smart I tell him it's only one but you find somebody who doesn't care and he came to you leaving with the sun now hold on. Let him learn the lesson. Okay, so back to the Hadith. It says what kind of almost Ashara NASA Omar he asked people to advise and this shows

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that had them come up should not cover punishment of the camera is not is not Had

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Allah drama without drama. We now have a handful who do the feminine Famara be here one of the herbal offset the lowest had that we found in the Sharia is at and this also confirmed the opinion that says hammer is not one of the Hadith. It says the lowest punishment we found in Hammer as I'm sorry. In Islam the lowest had we found in Islam is 80 lashes is the head of what

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Somebody who falsely accused a false accusation against a woman, decent woman, somebody just look at her and tell her he has any Oh against a man, somebody who look at a man and call him as ally, he has to provide evidence. If not, we beat him at lashes, the province last summer to somebody, I'll bet you will have done periodic, either you provide evidences, and these evidences are almost impossible to be provided almost impossible.

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As I always mentioned, that, to my knowledge, there was no case of Xena that was ever established because of the shoot.

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Up to date, no case of Xena that was ever established because of the shoot, the testimony of the witnesses actually are really, really really really did an excellent job as he always does in this regard to protect and preserve the image and the owner of it members. Because if this case should be taken lightly, because the punishment is death, the worst type of punishments actually, imagine how many people will die notice, wherever doesn't like another person will just report you and the court trust this person, they see him as a trust worthy person, you know, they will just execute another guy because this one cannot lie. But she doesn't care about this last one to wants you to provide 40

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I'm sorry for witnesses to go and give their testimony that they see what is called you know, the scholars and the folk Aha, they mentioned that he has the all of the most describes in precisely he cannot come and say I see both of them in the room.

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He cannot come and tell the judge I see both of them under a blanket.

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I see both of them with our cloth biller this is not enough he must say that he sees the origin of this inside the other one

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if there is a third one in his book rissalah He says Tell me what if you make just like the way you see the stick that you put in the bottle of the island you know immediately he said he has to mention like this that this is how he sees them.

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How is it possible like for them? You know? Unless if Gemma all of them came at the same time and they found them doing the thing and how how can they see they go and tell them you guys tell us what are you doing? Know

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and once he imagined one see them do it? He's gonna rush and you're gonna call carry before he calls carry? Are you left? They go. You can tell them please wait, I need three more witnesses

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against you. He cannot do that.

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So that's why even Taymiyah says it never happened in the history never in the time of the prophets Allah some or all of the punishment for the Xena there will be some confession. No case was ever based on check check issued. Yeah, so up to this time also, I have never come across a case which is a case of denial that is based on four witnesses.

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So that's how Allah Sumatra is protecting, you know, the image of, of everyone. So when somebody falsely accused another person, especially when he accused an innocent woman, that's that's really really, really big matter with Allah subhanho wa taala. Allah subhanaw taala says, well, Lavina muda masa metallography Dotty Mina to learn with dunya will occur welcome, Eddie. Yo Mitesh Hello allow him to Almighty him who are doing humbly Makanda Yamato yo moving your fee him Allah Who do you know who would help go out and win and Allah who would have a movie as the conclusion. You know, the last comment Allah Smith has making about the case of Aisha de la Noir. So those who are falsely accused

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and those innocent Muslim sisters they have this great punishment or on the Day of Judgment, your mashallah him and sniff Almighty the day in which tongue and hands and their legs are going to be witness leggings against them. So drama with offset Remo, the lowest handed that we found in Sharia is the head of

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hadron collider is at lushes for anyone who did it and he couldn't provide witnesses. If you couldn't provide those eight witnesses for witnesses. He has to be in trouble

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for I'm gonna be alright so Omar commanded that person who is required to be beaten in in that way at lashes, not 14 in the way they used to do it in Tamil Facilis ALLAH SubhanA Boca, and the first two years of his of his

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so insha Allah in the next class meeting agenda we will take the lessons extracted from this hadith mentioned by Sharma or cloth equals Salam Alaikum

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Any question

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you spoke about changing laws,

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changing laws

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but we said it is it wasn't this shows that this is not hard. It was hard, he cannot change it. That's why they never attempt to change the head of Zillow, or huddle cough. never, they never attempt to change had to say at

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the time of Omar, he did not apply the HUD because people are in a state of necessity. So that's why I said it could be delayed to the time that you can apply it properly. So you move to another alternative been provided for you by the by the Sharia.

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The summer is not had. That's why if let's say people are doing going beyond the limits, you know, and the government says

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they have to increase the punishment and they do that there will be no issue with that because it is not hard. But if you go with the opinion that says it is one of the 10 it cannot be fixed, it cannot cannot be changed. They have to keep it in the way it is.

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So when somebody told Omar bin Abdulaziz, he told him, he was the governor of Omar bin Abdulaziz in Mosul, Mosul in Iraq.

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It told him, I came to this place, you know, unfortunately, I found many people are thieves, they steal a lot. So Omar said, What should we do? He said, I think we shouldn't intensify the punishment. What do you mean? Is it not just cut off the hand but we make we give something else in addition to that, Omar said, No,

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there is no way for you to fix people except by following the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala in the way it is you can change. Just apply what last mortal asked you to do? He insists Omar said no. You just have to restrict yourself to that. And subhanAllah he says within those two years, nobody is still in in Mosul. And what did he do nothing except to apply that hand sorry, cut off. So it cannot be changed. Yeah. So when Obama did this with the hammer, we learned that there is not the opinion of those callers who said it's not hard, it's stronger than the other opinion.

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you mentioned that

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during divorce, three month period.

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Okay, that's very good question, actually, when the divorce happened

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it's like

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90% of the rope that is linking you with that woman is gone. But the connection still, especially cannot marry somebody else. During that wait waiting period, she cannot marry somebody else. Yet. That's why you are the only one who can communicate with her, she cannot communicate with others other than

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that issue between you and her cell there. That's why if you die or she died, both of you can inherit each other. That means the marriage is still still there. But the vast majority of it is gone. But the link is still there waiting between that person and the wife.

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That's why some scholars even believe that Raja Raja is taking the wife back. Some scholars believe that it could be practiced by action or by word.

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Most of them agree that is only the word but some scholars said it could be practiced by action also as well. For instance, somebody just came to the house and he had the one that he divorce.

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And then he told us no, no, I just found had been

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okay for that.

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Or he told her, he went to her and he told her I want to have relationship with you. And he has the tissue, what does he need to say I bring you back or he can just go straight forward and have relationship with her.

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So those collars said if a statement I bring you back is sufficient to have relationship with that woman is much stronger than than that statement.

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That's why the moment he has even if he doesn't tell anyone, he doesn't tell her you just come to he found her sleeping and then he couldn't be patient that is counted as somebody who bring her back.

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But if you say he has to bring the word then you will see that he has committed sin by doing that, but the

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is too strange for somebody to hold this opinion

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to the marriage is still there

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why this allows for her to ask her to stay in the house

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allows him to see how

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maybe this the marriage especially that is good in the in the marriage at the beginning

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that was a story in sha Allah when I remember the details of the story I will share with you one day maybe it will be the funniest and the strangest story you ever you ever hear about marriage and divorce law one of the judges was dealing the case he was here Allah what exactly is the case here

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so that's what happens the person devotes his wife but maybe after a few days a few months when he sees her but in all of the remembrance of the past is going to come

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Yeah, that's why if you're

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we are bless you we'll see him afterwards send in letters and then afterwards you will call us for the walima again

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Alhamdulillah we are back let's forget the past

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last month I grantors could overlook overlook a lot and look at people in the way they are inshallah people will be brought up and lost in their life next

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it's an acceptable

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as isn't it? Alright.

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No, that was self defense. This is another topic, completely another topic.

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You do have a right when somebody attacks you to defend yourself. That's why we call it self defense. That's why at the first place, what is the job to attack or to Defend? Defend, you're not supposed to attack at all. You start offense, offense in that person when there is no way for you to defend yourself.

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Yeah, you try to dodge the bullet that is coming in the mind is still targeting your head and your chest you know.

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So what does she do?

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What is she going to target his hand, it doesn't work, the man is still doing reply with the same thing.

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If he dies, and she can prove it to the government that this is what he's doing. She should be praised and rewarded actually by the government by releasing relieving the community from this evil person.

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That the only thing that remains on her is how to prove to the government that this person counts. But as he says I think it's very simple to prove it.

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But for the brothers might be quite difficult for the government to trust you

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lost 100 To protect so we defend the first if the defense is not going to be possible how to defend break his hand break his leg you know make him disable the way he can do anything but none of these things is going to work and you know that this person is planning to kill then you can go with the same also can do that with animals you can do that with human being

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it says Dr. Salah if somebody comes to me to take my money should I give him he said no.

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As long as he said no

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it's what he invites me so fighting back. What if he kills me? You said you go to paradise. What if I killed him? He said he goes to hell

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yeah, that's how it is but there's any wise left on you is how to prove it. Yeah. So we are talking about you just seen a person you wanted to save yourself you kill the person that person did not do anything to you. You kill that person and all that in order to save your life. That's absolutely harm and unacceptable even if you're going to die 1 million times. You have to go for for each and every one of them. When we are fighting it's like you're in the battlefield. Somebody is attacking you do you have a right to attack him back? Yes.

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Yes, you can attack him back to play with the mythic

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Salah ceremony. So that's how it is Islamically but the person who

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who did not do anything to you, but they want to save your life you know, you cannot kill that person in order to because your life is not better than better than this Lagrangian stuffing

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us at

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find the greatest response. He sounds like simplication made during the middle of their last part of the night.

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And after the

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many references to as for the mean

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to make? Or is it considered any innovation? No, it's not, it's not innovation. But this Dubrow Salah is better to do it the last part of Tisha hood, then finish the prayer. Because double crochet

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through the last part of something is is part of it.

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The bar is the end of something when you say and if something else means is part of it, right? If it is out of it is not the end of it is the beginning of something else. It's not the end of this one. So when you say tomorrow, Sara, it means the last one of the prayer which means you do it after the t shirt would be for you see that a Salam. As for making dua after the prayer is not innovation at all, but it is not the appropriate thing to be to be done. It will came as a very nice statement. comment here that the prophets a lot of sermon has a special vicar to be done in, I mean after the prayer and those are more than enough to be busy with them.

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And it is also illogical for you to sit down asking Allah subhanaw taala after the prayer after having Allah subhanaw taala requesting from you when you are praying to ask ask ask in the prayer. And you don't want to ask now many of us don't make it who are in the prayer. After the prayer they sit down and make God

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that's illogical. You know, because in the prayer Allah is telling you what do you want? What do you want? What do you want? You know, it's like you're having a meeting with Allah and Allah to put you on. You don't tell him what you're after the meeting is over, you know, and you left and then you send you out with somebody else. Jackie This is Allah telling you what do you want? Yeah, and just will take you dry sha Allah Allah, but which one is better? Now he's telling you what do you want just say it directly between you and him? Because it is a conversation between you and Allah subhanaw taala Is that true? Yes. Because whenever you say Alhamdulillah Allah Allah Allah Allah

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When you say Rama, reminder Hey, call Allah Tala finale. When you say Maliki and Medina Kala, Majid Annie Huberty, when you say ear canal guru era saying, God Allah azza wa jal jalapeno bin Abdullah Ali pasa Indian surat al Mr. Karim jalapeno when Abdul Abdi muscle in a conversation between you and Allah whenever you see something Allah Samantha will reply and he told me whatever you ask for I will grant you that that request. And also like I said,

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he says I'm a record as the movie Rambo, I'm a sujood vegetable feeder for coming online usage I'm gonna compete so as for the Roku, it says glorify Allah subhanaw taala and the Roku and the schedule is is fresh trying to figure out put a lot of effort in making sure because definitely I lost my hotel I will listen to you and vacation.

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But we then utilize this opportunity. And then after the prayer, you will sacrifice another kind of vicar which is supposed to be done right after you finish the prayer and we engage in what dua understanding others also sometimes, yeah, believe me, sometimes you will not be able to do that because we sometimes you will not be able if you must book, you know, to do the presentation properly because the Imam is raising his voice will be a lot of

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conflicts between your salutation and his service a patient of the whatever they are he's doing.

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So it is not appropriate. But to say this video, I'd never come across somebody amongst the early scholars who call it innovation. That isn't the best thing to be done. Of course, no, it was what was done by Rasulullah sallallahu selama was to make those are the same for the last like a lot until the end of those special Africa that usually ends by the tents be somehow like that three times we'll have the latter three times Allahu Akbar 33 times and like Lola one time which makes it 100 Allah grant

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law My main

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issue regarding when I shot

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when she lost her necklace, if the prophet tell them to wait for it, to find to look for it. Yeah, they were searching for it. They couldn't find. Aisha was there with the process.

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With Rasool lies a lot it's about enjoying her life. Somebody has been the alpha.

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This is as I said, this is a message for all of us, you know, your family design, deserve kindness.

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You're not married to shaytaan

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with kindness, you're soft, you're gentle. They will also be a lesson to you your statement because that's why you see a wife will not be sad in the way she will be sad if she loves her husband, even if her parents are dead. Believe me then

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Obviously last law somebody mentioned about a sister

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and her father, and her two brothers have father and the brother. Yeah, they were killed in one of the battles. She said, there's a lot whereas my father, he said,

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she said, law

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how much my brother associate? Sir Rahim Allah.

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The combo hula minister had, it says, she said how she kept her husband. The last one. You can even keep him with the last one. It means

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something, you know, behind here in the news about his demise. So when she said how's my husband, the prophets a lot. So I said, Oh, sushi. She cried. She left crying, you know?

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It doesn't mean she doesn't like her father. She doesn't like, no, she loves them. But you can see how much she is connected to the to the hospital.

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That kind of life is supposed to be the most excellent life on Earth. But unfortunately, nowadays, everyone knows that marital life. So Hala, it's like Jane to many, many people. That's why the rate of the divorce is the increase nowadays in almost every country. Especially after the corona.

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No, not after the Corona in the corona. Allahu Allah, how many people lost their marriage in the corona?

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You know what?

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Yeah, because he doesn't know his wife. She doesn't know him. Before the Corolla he works Ewoks they don't meet each other except at night. Sometimes if they don't switch sometime this week, she worked at night and he works in the in the morning.

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That kind of connection and a good relationship with that wasn't there, you know, he doesn't understand who his wife is. But now Corona comes in the government says you have to stay in your house. And we say in our house almost one year, right? This month, and then like that, he's going to see her 24 hours, 24 hours, 24 hours because there was a time also we can even go out we have to only one person can go out right? And come back. What does that mean? He has to be with his wife 24 hours. And she has to be with him 24 hours. And the true picture of each and every one of them will be revealed. And they can't tolerate what comes after that clashes and divorce.

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So it's Corona May Allah to not bring bring it again. But any calamity that happens, I'm telling you, it has a lot of the rules, a lot of rules.

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We need to change the way we live with our family. And we need to change our approach in terms of giving Tobia especially to the younger ones. During the corona time how many suicide attempt you hear about a lot in the I'm talking about the Muslim communities, I don't care about the compiler community, but our brothers and sisters how many people are tempted to kill themselves

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because they are not trained to understand further the color of Allah subhanaw taala

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Believe me, and trust me, you know,

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nobody will like this. But I found it the best opportunity for me to rectify what I destroyed before. Most of the time that I give other people I then give my family now that I have to stay at home, you know, subhanAllah the people that I don't know before I know that now. Life was more excellent, which continues up to date much better than before. So I found it's quite interesting, you know, by far the last one to capture at home to come and introduce a new life to a family understand that that life is good for Allah He oximeter Allah I didn't find enjoy going out to see people celebrating. But I never found the house being seated. I enjoy being in the house. That's how

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we should we should be done. You know. Even Tamia says mother, if added would be that's the criteria. You said Mother Father, do they say my enemy is confused. He doesn't know what to do with me. Why? Because they chase me away. I found going to another place like sia has been tourism, you know, I can see other places you know. So they found him chillin in that place, enjoying his life. You know, it doesn't care about anything, you know? They got annoyed, okay, bring him back home go back home, because they want him to be annoyed and depressed. He doesn't. They put him in jail. You know how many times they put him in jail. Around 60 times. They put him in jail when they put him in

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jail. Even Tamia goes with his book. He read a lot in the jail. It's like it's not in jail. He said if they put me in jail, it's like Hello, for me have been giving my time to people and now Al Hamdulillah. I have legal permission now to stay in one place and read and also he convert to the he convert the jail to to school. So people used to steal so that they could be taken back to jail to meet even Tamia which government will accept this. Get him out.

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After a few days he says something which is not pleasing to them, they bring him back to jail.

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He will make the jail like a university people became righteous people

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that I'm telling you this is

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is the kind of life that Muslims should be adopting wherever you find yourself, try to see what you can do to make yourself happy within that limitation that Allah Smartcheck grant you but is this this issue with the Ummah No, no, the last one or two that grant is good and Tofik rich This is a very interesting and big lesson that we should keep emphasizing on but unfortunately

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we will do later inshallah.

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The wrong one I think whenever you talk about time, you should say Masha Allah, because today also I plan to run away by 696 44.

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that was tough telling you when I finished my class

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they have another one

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How can we deal with different who drinks goes to inappropriate places just to have fun with certainly knowing that this friend is only running away from their past trauma? I mean, what is our rule to such a friend in our life because I'm afraid that the more we advice, the more we push them away to the bad environment.

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And be wondering if I understand this as somebody who is facing difficulties he likes to go to other places to forget his past.

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So he will go to the beach for instance, or he goes to the bad place. Yeah, maybe drink then go go.

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Drink I think we fall into the other one.

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What they've been doing to forget the mobile see drink?

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Yeah, this one.

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Yeah, I understand my thing. If somebody says drink, I think they are talking about juice, you

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may call them in some of the Dula via mushroom through here.

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collude together.

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Yeah. So this one is impermissible and we have to keep reminding. But as I said they should try their best not to push it away. They will take him away from from them. Right.

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They should talk to him from time to time. And try as much as they come to distract the time they know he's going to the drink take him to some propose for him to go somewhere else.

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In that clay in that place indirectly try to introduce what they believe to be the best for him. But they shouldn't pressure him in the way he will leave them because these other people usually when they feel pressured, they just and when they leave they found somebody who will accommodate them amongst the bad ones.

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So who lost we lost? He lost one we lost

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last quarter grantees. That's all Okay, thank you very much. May Allah grant you good and make you happy in both dunya and akhira. It will be collegial meeting caffeine. Subhanak alarm will be Ambika Chateau La La Land staphylococci will be like a Salam aleikum wa