Bulugul Maram #11 2022-12-31

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The importance of protecting coworkers and personal development is emphasized, along with the need for assistance for first nutrition and changing one's strategy. The conversation also touches on the difficulties of winning in face-to-face games and the importance of changing one's strategy. The conversation shifts to a situation where a woman talks about her mother being killed by a group and how she is trying to avoid violence. The speaker emphasizes the need for people to be helpful and avoid negative consequences, as well as the importance of finding one's ability to judge and avoid mistakes and negative consequences.

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Selling

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washing

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machine will also

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last

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so today we will

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continue from where we stopped

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if I'm not speaking

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from that

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hadith of I shall

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call

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it Alfie

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I shall

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I

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to have Sal so Allah

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is there any

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sisters? Caller

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yes

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she was asking the customer generally

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the brothers and the sisters she's asking Do they also have to participate

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so, I said yes

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if you haven't learned they are also supposed to participate

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no fighting this

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business

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for

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this act abortion is looked at

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perform

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becomes a lot

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patient also they also have this obligation on their shoulder which is

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discounted

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addition

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I shall

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we are we are just about our machines. So, these are all additions that are supporting the first one what actually I

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should do with the proxy

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a proxy

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in

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another place it is mentioned that the wives of the proxy

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and the proxy services

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you also have to consider that it is

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mentioned

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which is collected by

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the prompts

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and a woman and also somebody who's a weak person

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this we learned that it is not logical to perform to go forward and also from here we learned that the reward which the brothers and

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sisters

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of course person

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will benefit a lot

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and it is easy

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to get

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similar to

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other types of

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was the

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last part

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to cover themselves

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to be able as much as they can to make sure that they don't mix with

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a totally opposite

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fight

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or flight

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As far as all of these

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raising

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two sisters in the past is that whatever they speak

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abroad is

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so strange to my older child

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drugs

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so

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you have a shouting screaming person

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and also a lot of face to face

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the other one comes

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and they also collide with

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less wrestling in

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all of these things

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so that's totally against them

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it is

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a school is talking about obligations right

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it's not

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the brothers it's impermissible for them to go

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doesn't show that it is not possible

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to learn infinite

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not saving counting they were asking you to watch

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that list

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have different

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origins because

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after talking about this

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he had another topic that says

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chocolate that we'll discuss sisters going out for Jihad

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fighting and also

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fighting successful writing

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concerning

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Muslim mean heavy emphasis on mastering the

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machine

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was today

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Allison

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Allison

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she said

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the son

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in his mother she she bought

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a small knife

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put on there

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so she she bought this or call it lemon is a lot so I might have to hook it I have a little machine

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sales and profits saw that increase and this was a matter of

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you know

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during the campaign after the pumps a lot of summer left

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during the federal market after that we move straight toward to try to meet How was

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the last part Alice's Well my name is

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Raja Kampala Antonia

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about metallic will outdo them

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with because the believers started saying Lenovo Lenovo for the first time the target of the believers which 12,000. So, they started feeling that

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nobody can can can know when

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and this is really wrong.

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Showed them from day one that

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victory is not based on how many

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people you have.

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But they will tell you against

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1003 times they watch

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the 700

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or 1000 views to 700 because of

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who won the battle they won the battle against 3010 1000 against the beliefs around 1005 If they reach that

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and they want them that was fine, except in cases that would go in every battle to see. However also the same thing. In practice we see that the co founder many many many muscles have very little and they will be so this should remain

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in the heart last part

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classes are by John

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Bush Ah

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Why would he say that because he wants the believers to understand that the betrayed is not because the angels is not because of the angels participating

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in okay with

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us

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that's for each of the week I

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hear all of those angels

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one angels is enough for the whole dude.

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But Allah doesn't want them to have deficiencies that are in the top that allows Martin as a source of the victory. So he told them imagine

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waking up

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this message he wants you to be happy

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to have good news.

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But it says woman

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the picture is calling from Los

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Angeles to remember.

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So that's

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how much you think somebody can do something must understand that a lot is on who is making it happen

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some of what you saw

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last month and

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the good result that is taking place because of the salon.

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Cada for jolla was an Italian character who made a lot of art in in Denmark, this is this shows that it's okay for them to go and fight. Although if you look at the text properly, you will understand that it shows the fight in the sense of defense

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not the initial fight

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because it's too risky.

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The sisters means a lot

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it means a lot.

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So it's too risky to risk this part of the human to go further. That's why

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he's not taking

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his wives he take one or two whatever comes

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comes out and prompts us for a moment

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which will

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also teach us what to do

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because most of these journeys are

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going

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so, we have to learn this system and also it has the protection from Allah subhanaw taala which is extended even

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believers

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does sometimes

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but usually they try their best to restrict in one place and not to let your controls guide tell them do this.

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So So that's also

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to take that assistance and go with them to

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the peace of mind

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one wants to go because you need man power if

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people who are in good

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health and aided by the

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rich

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then they will have less people placing them so that's why they need assistance for first nutrition

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really available.

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So almost

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as one of those sisters so she said so I think

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in case a may come closer to me, I guess

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so so he said we learned from this that she is a habit not to attack, but to to defend right as

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well as a fee and

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so on the one of the Jews from the better.

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Props the last one put the sisters in one place protection.

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Hassan

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a bit scared of the NRA. So one of the Jews came become closer to the temple.

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She realized that this person is is coming to check whether there was protection.

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So she didn't behave rock and hit him on his head on

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the soil, whatever.

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So she's running down a garden

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Instead of throwing to the juice, when they see that it's definitely a strong protection

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but she told her, please do something

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where it was guitar learning can be made

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learn from it as she is facing the enemies. In a way she is inviting them to come to this.

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You come bring one from you, one from us, let's let them fight the battles in the past.

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And then there's more

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people who plays games

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in history, were told that the warm up themselves practice

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throughout introducing

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is also a capsule system.

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Because the kuffar this deficiency is that fear is the alternative because they are based on

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their face.

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So that's why I see them readily if it is face to face one on one. Usually, cases is,

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you know, so they have to keep on coming. A lot of

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us so many.

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It's not easy for a person to win and games. So that's the reason why we realize this is

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the best is to change your strategy. And he came back to you

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and your 200 to

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200,000. And he's only 3000.

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So

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those Tada, underlining Allah

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they could have thought of the three were killed. And the Donald somebody gave them the bracket to cut calluses.

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Appropriate for you guys. This is this is not the time to break it

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took this actually unreachable. And

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is not the time to do just

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as long as

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they really could

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be changed the strategy by Mesa Mesa, front, back here, because we shouldn't be here. And who is the host? I think, what is the nature

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keep some Muslims behind. Let me stay behind.

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After like 30 minutes, you should come and see me keep on pressing up the voice over our

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idea is to let that everything is getting better to more people.

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And if they cannot win

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against 3200. Now

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what does that they couldn't be like,

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shame on them.

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The not many others.

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And that was perfect. There was nobody who's joining this can just be more strategic

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with what he said.

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That's why the article says

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how many how many people

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is that last night.

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So there's not like, it was a

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nice

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day.

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So that's how he escaped for privacy. Because of all those people and here this is different faces and they want to say but it is.

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So they think that this is different. These are different people. We're not fighting the aesthetic. So they have this thought and this and then suddenly we hear it as we go so coming from from behind you other these people can

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understand that our assumptions.

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So that's why we call it push managed to push them

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because at that time we already put the fear of the Muslim army in the heart. It knows they will never

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dare to follow them. That's why we managed to

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we

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were very little and there's so many images go back in a very systematic way because if we let them fool us

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so he's kind of first in the way he goes to

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run away

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Kumar if I need to become so huge in auditing

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what else they will never do. So it says this is against the job woman these are these things

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people carry by the guard

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sucking in money

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or whatever

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it says in how do we learn that you can have sisters who went to the prom instead of a is based on one

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providing water for the for the

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woman and those who are injured

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to give them

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one hour to one hour to see how somebody is fighting and his

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sword or the hour we'll get down to print or she's sitting next to one of the papers

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issued at

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the same time because he has to look at the check and see

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that as somebody who's doing the job

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in a moment sincerity is that little amount of

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established history

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and the whole purpose of this concept and topic is

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to to remove it from that that's why I

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managed to achieve these goals

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what underlying

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Cardona

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the person came to the proxy server asking him permission to sit in the lab so the process

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behind you or

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your parents or the

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caller he said yes

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he said go and participate and perform Jihad taking care of conflict

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that is a blessing of Allah

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says

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for somebody who's looking for these

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life is nearby from Alaska to Atlanta to have to have a parent

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so the purpose of lotsa asked it says

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this is

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Carla some

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massage in the way what

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a massage

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the binary him up

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jihad is invaluable sharp

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environment chakra

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which is obviously yet until

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we were

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in a bar

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it was to military

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okay basically is mentioned how the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam up you know this crowd you know exhausting once supporting and helping

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his spirit of the law some of

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us really

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see yourself doing something

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and as always tension

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really bring east to the life

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easy

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to handle those phrases

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and Allah subhanaw taala step in and make life easy for you. Well, you have to have a watch

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so

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so he asked the Prophet

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so you see there

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for the parents, you had the

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Color Fill.

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Yes, Potapov did you hide away

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from Hardee's we learned that the

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obligation of hunch will be

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going if

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this

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were the exception of faces

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what are these situations

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there are many situations where

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the parents even if they told the person not to vote he has to

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but other than that it is not worth it they're still alive until they give permission

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What about

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those situations

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number one when they have a lot when the enemy attack that in

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this case no budget for anyone everyone has to defend the country

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we're talking about circumstances where no permission from the parent is needed is

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when the elegant attack

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that can country everyone wants to contribute and participate in

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it

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number two

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is when the Imam selected a person and say

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you have to go there in this case parent cannot stop so when the name of a person comes into the list of the

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mindset this person is so that that's what is parent cannot tell him he has to

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because the interest of Islam and Muslims is greater than the

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number

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when you are in a place and you find that Muslims are enemies they already is certified and you'll pass

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is a sale can anyone asked my talents course that's called a circle is how

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to have two

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persons reached that person can whichever way the first place you went to the place and when he go and sees the enemy

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they're so scared in the race times

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in history class

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to themselves is like the inside of the box.

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And on top of them also they have some they put the same thing also on

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how we resolve them there's nothing in the way they describe them except that

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that's what a lot of them said

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used to

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say that he bought his course so that it can kill

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you want to kill you.

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So, he came to one of the branches and was saying was

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I believe

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that covers nothing nothing no no place you can touch it

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just open

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your eyes

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on the process, so that this state let us

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go and deal with it

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said

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he said

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he said he told them he said he's looking for a safe place because they know these people

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need somebody young me to go and deal with them.

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So they told them so I say he said no The man wants and

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so instead

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so, he said

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a lot of someone told them please give me

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a hug

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most likely after that he said he should

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spear the spear in the way that they shake something like

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the air that comes by or

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that the air is flying with us

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is targeted

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that small

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as well some some somebody

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dies

00:29:51--> 00:29:57

and that that person chapter jumped in screaming it or he kept her down and Katella

00:30:01--> 00:30:04

They said no accident actually led to anybody said no

00:30:08--> 00:30:09

let's see how much he had the

00:30:15--> 00:30:17

history of those people in the scene interesting

00:30:20--> 00:30:21

was chasing somebody

00:30:26--> 00:30:27

is

00:30:33--> 00:30:35

this Catholic

00:30:36--> 00:30:37

really punishing people

00:30:40--> 00:30:40

I was

00:30:45--> 00:30:49

one of those men it was like I wish was this person

00:30:50--> 00:30:52

suddenly this was him that he was pushing

00:30:55--> 00:30:57

and then image started

00:31:00--> 00:31:02

so what happened that coffee was

00:31:06--> 00:31:07

luckily hits

00:31:08--> 00:31:13

because she saw his sphere or so whatever you're exposing because

00:31:15--> 00:31:16

it's incredible

00:31:18--> 00:31:19

so now he doesn't have it.

00:31:20--> 00:31:25

But what is how to deal with it is covered completely with metal heavy metal

00:31:27--> 00:31:28

solid industries

00:31:30--> 00:31:35

that are most important following him until he hits

00:31:38--> 00:31:38

magic

00:31:40--> 00:31:42

they have the metal on the neck and

00:31:44--> 00:31:49

that enemy elbow and they found his neck was broken

00:31:50--> 00:31:54

you know the bent neck was broken

00:31:56--> 00:31:57

was that there was

00:32:02--> 00:32:03

there was that they started saying

00:32:04--> 00:32:06

what is this

00:32:07--> 00:32:14

God angry says Keep quiet what kind of sold wedding T Lenka sold one hit here if you say what kind of hit is this

00:32:19--> 00:32:25

like they did so many so much to make sure that Islam succeeded

00:32:26--> 00:32:26

and that's

00:32:28--> 00:32:36

that's why you can see how much evil is the Shia those people who have nothing to do except the curse those

00:32:38--> 00:32:48

cut off and so he says we learn from this stuff it's not a good person to vote for the haptic the parents are alive as long as they permit integral he has

00:32:50--> 00:32:51

taken care of them it's also

00:32:55--> 00:32:55

currently

00:32:57--> 00:32:58

awaiting

00:33:01--> 00:33:05

him about Jehovah Jackman that is

00:33:09--> 00:33:10

a caller

00:33:13--> 00:33:14

caller now

00:33:17--> 00:33:18

callers

00:33:19--> 00:33:24

over here, some kind of plan for buying coffee. I also want to avoid

00:33:26--> 00:33:27

so this person

00:33:29--> 00:33:30

is probably going to

00:33:32--> 00:33:39

do a lot I want to participate and contribute in fighting. But I'm here to ask for advice

00:33:47--> 00:33:48

because they already have

00:33:50--> 00:33:51

been taken aback by

00:33:53--> 00:33:54

he already has.

00:33:55--> 00:33:56

People want to volunteer.

00:33:57--> 00:34:01

So that's why I want to ask if that's anything which has priority tell them

00:34:03--> 00:34:07

otherwise, when the need comes, I was looking for people to come

00:34:09--> 00:34:09

up and support.

00:34:11--> 00:34:14

So he told him, Your mother is she alive?

00:34:15--> 00:34:19

Colin Carlson go on Steve

00:34:21--> 00:34:23

stay with Take care.

00:34:24--> 00:34:42

So we learn from this that whether the dad is alive or faculty fire and whether the account are going to be current if he goes out or not. So lesson also mentioned in that general general form, which means it is not logical for him unless

00:34:47--> 00:34:49

they have been removed. So this is the right

00:34:51--> 00:34:53

is it mark? Is it intended?

00:34:54--> 00:34:55

JIM Oh

00:34:57--> 00:34:57

yeah.

00:34:58--> 00:34:59

Whatever you

00:35:00--> 00:35:00

Number One.

00:35:03--> 00:35:03

And

00:35:06--> 00:35:06

in fact,

00:35:09--> 00:35:12

the majority of this policy is harmful personally for quite,

00:35:14--> 00:35:17

as long as his parent told him not to go independent.

00:35:19--> 00:35:21

Because when he went

00:35:23--> 00:35:26

in the embassy, and they told him not to go and you cannot

00:35:28--> 00:35:32

because of ain't prepared is what

00:35:35--> 00:35:37

it means an individual has to

00:35:39--> 00:35:41

a mother has 10 children.

00:35:42--> 00:35:46

One is really the rest of them.

00:35:47--> 00:35:49

And we asked him why until

00:35:51--> 00:35:53

tomorrow, because album is

00:35:55--> 00:36:01

called quantity finance. So he is doing cos she doesn't have any right upon us because one of us is pitiful.

00:36:06--> 00:36:18

So, this is very long, it's kind of like each and every one of them has to contribute, she does have right over all to be listened to her unless if she asked them to go against a law

00:36:21--> 00:36:26

which is oppressive, that they try to stay away from oppression,

00:36:27--> 00:36:34

we try to stay with oppression not tickling her child, because she's going to be in trouble. But at the same time, the last one

00:36:38--> 00:36:39

should be kind of good.

00:36:44--> 00:36:52

So if, if the GIS is frontline, this is well if it's perfectly fine, but if it is,

00:36:53--> 00:36:56

then the permission of the parent is not a condition

00:36:58--> 00:36:58

the permission of the

00:36:59--> 00:37:00

condition

00:37:02--> 00:37:02

is

00:37:05--> 00:37:06

available

00:37:07--> 00:37:11

from going for jihad in the frontline for whoever's to eat.

00:37:14--> 00:37:20

So, somebody says that somebody might say to you that obeying the health is

00:37:21--> 00:37:23

and the jihad also when it is

00:37:25--> 00:37:26

it becomes so

00:37:27--> 00:37:32

then becomes the core right? Why do you say is taking

00:37:34--> 00:37:35

and if you look at it,

00:37:36--> 00:37:39

if you look at the Messiah, Messiah

00:37:43--> 00:37:47

the most part of the society and community is giving preference over the

00:37:50--> 00:37:54

last 40 liter piece and the community really

00:37:56--> 00:38:06

can they take the property of somebody? Yes, they have to learn how to compensate in a way you will not get you can replace with something something

00:38:08--> 00:38:09

all

00:38:10--> 00:38:10

the numbers

00:38:12--> 00:38:13

in here

00:38:16--> 00:38:17

that must not have to

00:38:19--> 00:38:23

say because the most of the genome is greater because it's the

00:38:25--> 00:38:27

protection of the religion and protection of those

00:38:28--> 00:38:30

of us that have to armor to cut them.

00:38:31--> 00:38:36

So this was which is given preference over anything else.

00:38:37--> 00:38:39

We put them on a Mustang

00:38:40--> 00:38:41

the Mustang

00:38:43--> 00:38:44

the Mustang is based on

00:38:46--> 00:38:47

protection on Wi

00:38:49--> 00:38:49

Fi

00:38:53--> 00:38:59

and this shows that there is a demand a preference as well even more than

00:39:02--> 00:39:04

shall ever even confirm

00:39:07--> 00:39:11

is it also what you prefer? Allah says you have to be counted

00:39:14--> 00:39:15

big

00:39:17--> 00:39:19

reason why you will come to this life

00:39:26--> 00:39:29

was to shower you she by the master shower. I shouldn't because you

00:39:31--> 00:39:34

will this also learn from this session?

00:39:35--> 00:39:36

Yeah, he has to

00:39:37--> 00:39:42

give advice based on what he believes to be the best. And then if you're different

00:39:44--> 00:39:48

and Mr. Sharma you come and ask me which was the best. I have to tell you how

00:39:51--> 00:39:53

do I do it? I might not be doing it. But

00:39:57--> 00:39:59

that's the managing the sharp weather

00:40:00--> 00:40:03

Do you have to tell the person which one is correct

00:40:06--> 00:40:07

so let's say

00:40:09--> 00:40:12

I know everybody I remember getting

00:40:13--> 00:40:14

my news yesterday

00:40:25--> 00:40:27

yes yes yes

00:40:36--> 00:40:36

yes

00:40:39--> 00:40:40

they must be shooting

00:40:41--> 00:40:42

yes

00:40:44--> 00:40:45

then yes the shoe

00:40:47--> 00:40:48

industry share that

00:40:50--> 00:40:50

so

00:40:54--> 00:40:56

you ask a person to explain

00:40:58--> 00:41:01

the circumstance course if somebody asked the question

00:41:03--> 00:41:09

what are these things explained to them you will be able to know that yeah this one is the best this was

00:41:12--> 00:41:15

the least in terms of the real world

00:41:17--> 00:41:19

that you cannot know if you don't ask for

00:41:20--> 00:41:21

we're trying

00:41:22--> 00:41:24

to follow this

00:41:26--> 00:41:30

it's like when somebody asked you I want to join you or

00:41:34--> 00:41:35

probably conditionality

00:41:40--> 00:41:41

for instance

00:41:44--> 00:41:47

which one is the best tell me what happened

00:41:49--> 00:41:51

he comes to us which was the best

00:41:53--> 00:41:54

why just

00:41:58--> 00:42:13

we're not expecting this Yeah, but as far as the shot we can do that if he's asking for advice ask him what are the if you don't know he doesn't know let's say he's outside he wants to come he has two options either to leave

00:42:16--> 00:42:18

and we look into

00:42:21--> 00:42:21

the causes

00:42:24--> 00:42:24

Neverland

00:42:27--> 00:42:27

Yes.

00:42:28--> 00:42:29

And yes

00:42:35--> 00:42:36

we like to use it

00:42:39--> 00:42:49

so if somebody asks, look at it is not like us you don't like us coming from outside for sure. Best place for him to hummingbird international community

00:42:50--> 00:42:50

also

00:42:51--> 00:42:53

closer to all the needs swimming

00:42:55--> 00:42:57

and also government topia is something

00:42:59--> 00:43:02

compared to those other universities.

00:43:03--> 00:43:11

Anyway, so what I'm trying to say is when somebody asks you for advice, you should ask him you know, he brings

00:43:12--> 00:43:20

several options than you should ask to have the details of each and you will be able to advise them on

00:43:27--> 00:43:28

kind of what it

00:43:31--> 00:43:31

was

00:43:34--> 00:43:35

like well

00:43:38--> 00:43:39

in another generation

00:43:40--> 00:43:44

probably my Muhammad is most reasonable doubt the promise

00:43:46--> 00:43:50

itself to him. He says if your parents are still alive

00:43:51--> 00:43:53

go back and take the country

00:43:54--> 00:43:56

take the province you

00:43:59--> 00:44:00

will be done from it'll

00:44:03--> 00:44:04

be kind of neat

00:44:09--> 00:44:14

that he has to take the permission from from if the jihad is not

00:44:25--> 00:44:28

I guess is the best because the next one we'll be talking about

00:44:32--> 00:44:39

next one need to be connected with those that came after us we will talk about the permissibility

00:44:40--> 00:44:47

the possibility or impossibility of staining the lack of promises and also hate

00:44:49--> 00:44:51

or it is just the reckoning

00:44:56--> 00:44:58

so we start the last one to

00:44:59--> 00:44:59

wonder

00:45:00--> 00:45:00

Last week

00:45:27--> 00:45:27

I'm here

00:45:31--> 00:45:32

and also

00:45:34--> 00:45:35

in setback

00:45:39--> 00:45:40

like this you

00:45:45--> 00:45:52

know the the demeanor is not that much apparent in the phone call

00:45:53--> 00:45:56

if you call them millions of times it's not

00:45:57--> 00:45:58

within the other

00:46:00--> 00:46:05

it's on the other machine you know call many times because of the call once or twice a dozen

00:46:08--> 00:46:11

and I know that people get annoyed

00:46:12--> 00:46:14

because I will be the person who

00:46:18--> 00:46:18

doesn't understand that

00:46:22--> 00:46:26

so sometimes what happens is I will call and

00:46:27--> 00:46:29

I call I call

00:46:31--> 00:46:35

So at last few Victor just told me please I'm having a meeting

00:46:37--> 00:46:38

and what I need from him is not that

00:46:39--> 00:46:46

but I just need from you just a few seconds and then that few seconds will will give birth to one hour

00:46:48--> 00:46:53

and the process is trying to convince that's why the next time on a call

00:46:58--> 00:47:00

so that's why a person rejected

00:47:02--> 00:47:04

sometimes especially those people who are personal the

00:47:05--> 00:47:10

other guy rejects usually the phone sometimes you call it tells you the call is declining

00:47:13--> 00:47:16

that means sufficient understand why is he declined

00:47:17--> 00:47:19

no but calling

00:47:21--> 00:47:27

having does online isn't the same device equal creative destruction

00:47:30--> 00:47:31

causing equals

00:47:33--> 00:47:34

So what to do with this

00:47:37--> 00:47:39

but in terms of meaning

00:47:40--> 00:47:45

is not equal to the house because housing you're coming to the house of course

00:47:46--> 00:47:47

the knock on the door is

00:47:48--> 00:47:54

equal into the privacy somebody is better when he tells you you know just just

00:47:59--> 00:48:01

knock on the door you can come and go

00:48:05--> 00:48:06

is just an

00:48:08--> 00:48:08

excuse for

00:48:09--> 00:48:10

the madness

00:48:13--> 00:48:14

so that's

00:48:19--> 00:48:19

it

00:48:26--> 00:48:32

as I said if you call once or twice and a person is not really

00:48:33--> 00:48:34

weightless choose

00:48:36--> 00:48:36

the question

00:48:39--> 00:48:42

unless it's really necessarily emerged

00:48:44--> 00:48:48

called millions of times like his house you know,

00:48:49--> 00:48:56

he doesn't want to clip out and tell him please this emergency please come out to.

00:49:13--> 00:49:13

Easter

00:49:19--> 00:49:20

until they die

00:49:22--> 00:49:49

and they reach stage of maturity and a parent should be smart. They should frame it children since the younger age should depend on themselves to make them you know, go for decision making decisions by themselves or less make this very big and crucial. Since the image is very good, because tomorrow you will drop down and die. Your child have to figure out how to do

00:49:50--> 00:49:56

that on some talents. I know that children are so big that every single thing they have to

00:49:58--> 00:49:59

this has been a thing

00:50:00--> 00:50:14

Is something good and they're very obedient for as long as long until they're logically also you know you are teaching teaching your child to always be independent and this yeah I want to learn

00:50:17--> 00:50:19

Msh or whatever age

00:50:20--> 00:50:23

it is not at all not employment

00:50:25--> 00:50:28

not certificate provision but in folder the employer

00:50:29--> 00:50:33

I went to buy something in the country

00:50:34--> 00:50:35

and then I called my father

00:50:37--> 00:50:38

What is this?

00:50:39--> 00:50:46

What is this? I want to go to Alabama State I want to get in a business where my friends

00:50:50--> 00:50:51

does it make sense

00:50:52--> 00:50:59

to have big decision in your life? I want to move from Malaysia to another place

00:51:01--> 00:51:02

I got to ask

00:51:03--> 00:51:04

what do you think about this

00:51:08--> 00:51:10

doesn't matter to us is

00:51:11--> 00:51:13

the sun the sun?

00:51:15--> 00:51:22

We can have this 100 year old person telling him sir, is that correct? Yes it is

00:51:24--> 00:51:25

a childhood

00:51:27--> 00:51:34

like this, it remains and it is a reality. You might ask them because this is very big decision

00:51:35--> 00:51:36

to change your nationality

00:51:38--> 00:51:39

is a big decision

00:51:40--> 00:51:41

you want to get into

00:51:42--> 00:51:49

business you want to go and play on this person or that person to talk to account

00:51:50--> 00:51:57

for life as a father I will blame my child my son or my daughter activity happened to us my condition

00:51:59--> 00:52:02

but unfortunately in some of the families are

00:52:05--> 00:52:10

asked me to eat something now which is for everyone

00:52:12--> 00:52:17

to touch this class to go to the space almost every

00:52:19--> 00:52:20

way that kids feel

00:52:22--> 00:52:23

in G

00:52:29--> 00:52:32

good person to classify and particularize

00:52:35--> 00:52:36

decisions

00:52:37--> 00:52:38

according to

00:52:40--> 00:52:44

big matters, yes, it's appropriate in terms of adult other person to

00:52:48--> 00:52:50

manage chips and other big issues.

00:52:51--> 00:52:54

But simple simple matters every single thing you touch on

00:52:56--> 00:52:59

you have to go until the event that happens should

00:53:00--> 00:53:04

count should be with this action. Because what are you going to do

00:53:07--> 00:53:08

and be able to lead

00:53:09--> 00:53:11

tomorrow it is

00:53:13--> 00:53:14

today

00:53:16--> 00:53:17

and how it

00:53:18--> 00:53:19

is

00:53:23--> 00:53:25

it's okay just be

00:53:28--> 00:53:32

okay. But as I said simple, simple things shouldn't

00:53:33--> 00:53:41

because what is happening is you're opening the door for the parents also to expect you to do this every time.

00:53:43--> 00:53:44

And

00:53:45--> 00:53:45

people complain

00:53:48--> 00:53:50

but you'll never prove to them that you're mature.

00:53:51--> 00:54:00

There are things that you will do. They can project and see it they know that a big decision right which they know you will never do that.

00:54:02--> 00:54:02

But

00:54:03--> 00:54:11

this is this other place where the test flies should be happy to see that son and daughter are able to decide

00:54:13--> 00:54:20

to execute and to make a success. So sometimes if you fail the penetrability

00:54:21--> 00:54:23

other you tell them oh

00:54:26--> 00:54:32

these are big matches next time. Share with us. Maybe we have some if we were there we will never

00:54:35--> 00:54:36

succeed because we also have experienced

00:54:39--> 00:54:40

so you understand

00:54:42--> 00:54:42

what to do.

00:54:46--> 00:54:46

Last month

00:54:50--> 00:54:50

she

00:54:53--> 00:54:53

wants to

00:54:57--> 00:54:58

go to the police

00:55:00--> 00:55:00

You

00:55:09--> 00:55:16

can basically without informing them and then you actually have to adhere to old requirements

00:55:19--> 00:55:19

Sarah

00:55:22--> 00:55:24

the person doesn't meet you

00:55:29--> 00:55:30

probably because we will always wait

00:55:32--> 00:55:33

doesn't let me come

00:55:35--> 00:55:38

all the way from the states it doesn't contain

00:55:40--> 00:55:49

this person did not put you in his schedule it has important parts in his life when you just come like that when you have to stop everything just

00:55:51--> 00:55:54

especially on time which is absolutely

00:55:55--> 00:55:55

critical

00:55:58--> 00:56:01

that you can communicate to him and tell him

00:56:03--> 00:56:04

that okay are you free

00:56:05--> 00:56:06

to visit

00:56:10--> 00:56:13

to avoid any misunderstanding in the future

00:56:15--> 00:56:20

so it is really really important not to get a person like that especially people with

00:56:24--> 00:56:25

family

00:56:28--> 00:56:32

so don't just come and knock on his door without letting him know that

00:56:34--> 00:56:39

sometimes they don't have anything you come in they want to work can you probably

00:56:42--> 00:56:44

don't even have much

00:56:59--> 00:57:04

no I've ever conditions as a confirmation like it's called us if you need them

00:57:07--> 00:57:08

out why should

00:57:11--> 00:57:13

your salary salary

00:57:14--> 00:57:17

fulfill that condition in southern Malaysia

00:57:22--> 00:57:27

if your salary which is nice when you fulfill the condition next condition is

00:57:29--> 00:57:31

it has to that that man

00:57:33--> 00:57:35

must stay with you for one year

00:57:39--> 00:57:40

none of these is a problem

00:57:48--> 00:57:51

if you look at the conditions laid down by this he had

00:57:55--> 00:57:56

to change the

00:57:58--> 00:58:00

name of the car it has conditions that must be

00:58:02--> 00:58:03

the same

00:58:04--> 00:58:09

and so is like half of them by force. And if you look at them they're poor and

00:58:12--> 00:58:14

many of them before they are the multiple you have to want

00:58:17--> 00:58:19

to be supported you're taking different routes

00:58:22--> 00:58:25

to take from the rich to the poor now everything from the poor

00:58:27--> 00:58:27

to

00:58:34--> 00:58:35

the

00:58:37--> 00:58:37

rich

00:58:42--> 00:58:44

should have relatives shooting

00:58:46--> 00:58:53

as long as they're not sending things which will destroy your family destroying your life and you tell the one that was

00:59:05--> 00:59:09

usually people say you shouldn't be

00:59:11--> 00:59:14

so always your parents

00:59:18--> 00:59:19

were murdered

00:59:22--> 00:59:24

because of mice

00:59:27--> 00:59:29

because of my sickle especially.

00:59:31--> 00:59:34

It's not that we have a fight.

00:59:35--> 00:59:43

I mean that normally people call your parents secrets I go once a week.

00:59:50--> 00:59:50

month it

00:59:54--> 00:59:57

depends on the circumstance or last month.

01:00:00--> 01:00:02

So, let's say that most of

01:00:05--> 01:00:06

you will feel lost

01:00:08--> 01:00:17

because Allah subhanaw taala sees you know, I might not be able to judge you might not be able to judge last month he knows humility, ability to

01:00:19--> 01:00:24

recall free and circumstances you know, I might play that

01:00:26--> 01:00:28

I cannot go but I must

01:00:31--> 01:00:35

I might claim that I have some difficulties in going but Allah knows

01:00:36--> 01:00:38

so the person who is the last one

01:00:41--> 01:00:52

and he does what he can according to his can visit me as the best especially with the current shipping customer as long as he can call and this call

01:00:54--> 01:01:00

what excuse a person has not to call them unless it is very important and he cannot buy the credit and they're too far from him.

01:01:03--> 01:01:05

With that distant relatives

01:01:06--> 01:01:09

person can visit them once a month, once

01:01:10--> 01:01:16

a quarter please capability, but those close relatives started from the parents, siblings, children you know

01:01:18--> 01:01:23

that connection should remain not to take long time to tie in the

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connection.

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So what I'm trying to say is a person should look into his ability to hit him last night and do what is according to his temperament he can go every week

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is because you say you feel tired is

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it just depends on what kind of tight tightness

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you're really exhausted, you know, you barely move from the ear position. Yeah, you're going

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to be in this position.

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So exhausted I do so many activities which movement is too risky I started walking and speaking on the road

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I know that it's too dangerous for me to drive with this

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in the middle of this exhaustion

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icon

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I

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am supposed to be with you today. And I planned for that but unfortunately since the

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machine

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I started sleeping, I try my best to eat I couldn't reach on peace or speaking.

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So do I have permission to stay?

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Let's see for sure all of our say yes, we will visit

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just going to come and see

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that's always a win out. So of course I should look into the circumstances I can go with myself

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cannot work with common sense to talk to them.

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So that's the That's right. So we feel a lot going to

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help us to be kinda good parent.

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Any

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questions? The first one is recently we had a question when we were asking whether when a woman does pull up, but you need to do and you mentioned that there are two types of follow up and it depends on that can you understand how it works and what are the two types of

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dementia

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which is all

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clean something to relieve herself from

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that's

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what she does that the chic

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through the process of

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the mentors

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for three apart or in this case since we already

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have for you, because in the normal

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the connection is still there

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until the time she finishes

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this one she already freaked out that she has been. So does that mean

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she has to go through the process of normal process of

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so many schools

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to different opinions and consent always call us

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said no. She only needs to go for one

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as long as

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shouldn't have to point out, we know that the world is free from any, any child internet. So in this case, you can just play

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so that she didn't have to wait three, or only one, which means so he just divorce her in a purity, which he never approached her in that purity.

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After one day, she has

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it's free.

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For them.

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That point is just to protect yourself, just to protect trying to protect me, no circumstances where you can tell her to come back.

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It's not as he accept, and he granted it granted, the case is closed completely. So that's what we mentioned. Either we go with them.

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With the first point, we say this tension has to go to process. If you say this first first means

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destruction of the marriage, to separate a person with

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connection. Now you just

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if you go with the first minutes to destroy the marriage, to make it something that doesn't exist, before we go with this, in this case, let's call us changes to 111.

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To buy the freedom and how does this work? Payment? Yeah. It's very simple. Sure, yeah. Explain to us how but because the attends which doesn't mention, but you understand yes, it makes sense a lot.

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If not, the President wants to manage what's what is it necessary for him to

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he has to pay Islamically he is supposed to prepare the house is supposed to although some health cultures are a lot smarter guy assisted as always led into the food losses and the one that is not fodder for one

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mistake, the house is prepared to put everything

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back in Islamically, the husband is supposed to prepare

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to prepare the house, she just come from her home to his house. She just was happy

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to get it. So he's doing all of these expenses.

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Why did he make because you think she will agree to stay with you? Forever, right? That's why he's better. She also is

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tomorrow, if she is the cause of the, if he's the cause of the negotiating. He shouldn't charge anything, he cannot ask for anything. Because he you don't

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even know

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if she's the one who is asking what enters my mind is spent on the inspection or to get the American

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by now she told him I don't want to say

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he lost all these mines. Socially, I said as far as compensation is concerned, you know, to make it balance sheet got her freedom because she believes

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she got her freedom, but return back the money

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that he made. So tomorrow he can use this money to go to medical a person, she will go home, Kevin will go to a

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second industry wants to

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get it she got somebody who appeared. But this person for him to get another person who will be honest and stay with him, gave him back his MA. But your external used to give her a gift is to give her all of these things.

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But the only one that he or she has to pick if he asked for it.

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And that's why it's always good to

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ask for 1 million.

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You should never so million in her life. And then now she wants to follow and the husband says well

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yeah, maybe throughout her life and the lack of her family members.

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And they said he wants his mom

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that's in the house.

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She's not stay with Him forever. As he says I have

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so as my mom is supposed to be something reasonable. And we don't we don't be one we have to be optimistic. I

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wouldn't expect failure in marriage but in case it fails. The way out is that is in cases where we are in business. So that's that's the justification we understand, you know, in it, which makes sense. A lot of senses. It's not like it's not that yeah, how can we be is divorcing Harmon is okay. But if she moves him or she

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ask for any requests that you have to deal with.

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This is a condition that

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always allows one

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last

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dose

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and offices