84 The Disease And The Cure

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AI: Summary © The heart and body are the only parts of the brain that can be damaged due to a sin committed to a crime. The operator of the brain is crucial to protecting from evil deeds and being kind to the enemy. The speakers stress the importance of acknowledging and embracing one's own independence, bringing on one's own unique experiences, and being empathetic to one's own abilities. The use of plants and branches to protect against the spread of COVID-19 and the spread of bacteria is emphasized.
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salam ala Rasulillah Alameen wa you know, have you been on Mohammed in sallahu? alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, my bad.

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today Inshallah, who will move on and continue from where we stopped last class.

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the covert Korea,

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they are classified into two categories Colombia or by the year. They are the Colombia and we have also we have the Betania. Colombia related to the heart and also by the NIA related to the the burden the body so punishment on the heart and punishment on the body.

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Palawan mineral Kobato batucada de fer here in Hawaii, no on island. Wonderful see what I want to add, and I've done a one on one. It says As for the Kobato Korea, there are two types, a type which is based on

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which is applied on the soul, and also the heart and another one which is on the body and the wealth.

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So either on the soul and the heart, or on the body and the wealth.

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Let's see other curricula one. Well let's see Allah Colombina the one that affects the hearts is also divided into two types.

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The first one alarm on the LG to ha Allahu Judea to your vulnerable we have called

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and the second one caught on modality Bihar Hayato, who was one.

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So there are Koba that affects the heart is of two types. The first one there the pain that deeply exists in the heart, which

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a person sends it and he feels it.

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And the second one is

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the the blocking of the means that the heart can get can gain sustenance, hearts need food and need something to sustain it.

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And it needs to be fed so that it can live.

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And we talked about this food previously.

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So abo karyam says that the punishment that affects the heart is of two types. The one that says is the strong pain that a person feels in his heart. And the second one is that anything that can nourish you know that can help the heart to survive. Allah azza wa jal blocked from reaching the heart of Allah.

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Female for the ATA and who has SallAllahu Abba, dada, what Allah subhanaw taala blocked the means. And the opposite of that means it's going to take place.

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Opposite of that food is going to take place.

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The man doesn't reach it. Cover might take place. Righteousness doesn't reach it. Disobedience will take place Taqwa doesn't read, going against the power of Allah subhanaw taala take me is that there we go. So you really need this door to be open constantly. So that reminders can come on affect and help the heart to do that which is supposed to be done.

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Well COVID called the shutdown October 20. Well, he asked the recovery of that, You Allah, he blocked him says the hooba of the heart is the worst type of robot and is the is the greatest movie if you are made

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comparison between the approval of the burden and the approval of the heart the worst is the removal of the heart.

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And actually, it is the origin and the root

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of the Hakuba of the button

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Hi there hello hoga Taku our tutors I had had to test three mineral called the inner botany chemistry Ireland, but then

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he said this aqua this punishment will keep increasing

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will keep growing until the time it covers the heart completely just tested the middle call me ill but until the time it goes out of the heart and affect the body also.

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Come is three Arlo al burden inocle Just like the way the pain that the body suffers reach the heart

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for either far left Sue Alba Danna Sorrell, HELCO metallic on behalf

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so this will remain like this. But once the the soul is taken away from the body

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is separated from the body solid hokhmah Wallach on behalf

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the ruling and the effects will only be a punishment will only be and the judgment will only be applicable on on the soul.

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You remember the classification in the Devas we had of the Aqeedah long ago it says that do herba selasa

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dunya the bursa and Tao

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you have in the doubt dunya

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I'll bet and we'll

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talk about

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that as

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well well I've done Tabouleh when you go to the akhirah then the focus will be on both in the dunya is a body yeah that's what do you see any progress in it and you address a topic

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then see the soul or do the soul is actually the thing that is moving the body so the hook is on the body and the soul is following

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in the downhill but Zack after the death before the Day of Judgment, the focus is on the on the soul and the lifts and the burden is following and in the arcade are both are going to be addressed so this is somehow what it will claim is trying to address in this in this place.

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It says very they're far cut enough so I'll buy then sobre como moto Allah can be ha for the horrid Cobra to call the healer even was our Allah and yet invite Hera.

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So at that moment, the punishment of the heart is going to be severe. And it's going to be apparent to the Masada to Allah and Allah Hara and then you will be able to see it, you know, so much because

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the Hohokam is on the on the knifes you know, you don't see it. But when the person get into the grave, this is when they're Koba of the heart is going to be very apparent because now you didn't have the body just have the heart

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well, he had a Muslim match with the other I'll cover the this is what is called a double cover for this battle Birds of a callus but he won this but he won this battle who in Alberta, he can is much other people have done either Harvey dA. So we just related to that, the bursa. This is that time and the period, you know, that situation between the Day of Judgment and this life.

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That's that's the place of the transit where a person goes for the preparation for the greatest event, which is the day of judgment.

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So we relate it to that. But Zack just like the way we relate the punishment of the body related to the cover and the bursa, just like the way we relate the punishment of the body to this this duty of ours.

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So the most important thing to be taken from this statement is that the punishment of the heart is the greatest punishment.

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And as such, if that is anything for a person to be busy fixing it should be the hearts

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go back to the bed any

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Do you know where to walk away? So we are done with our Kobe, Kobe, okay, which is also of two types.

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He says arama would you do a yoga will be local. And also you have

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and you have also caught on model lets you be higher to either the pain that he feels it or any source that he can get that sustained and Allah subhanaw taala will will block it.

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The next type of punishment is now called Battle Betania the punishment on the body

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which is following the punishment of the of the heart.

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So these ones also dinner with North Korea, they are of two types, punishment in this dunya and punishment in the hereafter.

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Well, let's see what I've done in Iran. And the punishment that affects the body is of two types known for dunya a type that happens in the dunya when our own phylloxera and another type that takes place in the ACARA

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what should dare to Ah, why there has to be has to be my first CD multibody ha minutes * that he wants.

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And the punishment in this dunya and the punishment in this arc era is, I mean, the quantity and the nature of the punishment is the reflection of the nature of the sin being committed by a person this dunya

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this sin is so bad, the punishment is going to be really harsh and tough. When that sin is

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not that bad as the first one, then the punishment will be will be light

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that will go even in the outcome that this is the case.

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Pilot philosophy dunya will accurately Sharon Aslan in the Nuba Welco but

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first shall rule is Malika Kula he

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says there is no shadow in this dunya no evil in this dunya

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in love, except sins, and the punishment of the sins

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because anything that happens to you, which affected your mood, and affected your health, and affected your convenience, you know, whatsoever calamity or something that is making you unhappy in this life, you know, is the result of what your your hand aren't. Allah subhanaw taala says, well now sobre Kumasi wetin, Febi Marchesa but identical way if one

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whatever calamity happens to you, this is simply because of what you had earned and Allah subhanaw taala is

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forgiving the vast majority of mistakes.

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So if you look, I'm says, a sheriff he had a duniya

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ly called iLab a server with an OB Welco Bhatia. So if you're looking for Shabbat, what is shoved in this dunya evil, evil is either the sins or the punishments of the sins

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I guess in sha Allah it is understood because if I commit sin, this is absolutely

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This is evil. Absolutely. And sometimes, you might not see that you doing something, you know, but the test will come in a very harsh way. Yeah, that is something you did, which you might not pay attention to it or you forgot to do it, but last one are data lines.

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So the punishment will come which is based on the sin you have committed earlier. That's the reason why even though claim says either that sins or the punishment of of the sins

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or whomever else learned any kind of abuse and Allahu Allahu Salam is that you know, Matthew hottie Nikoli one Oh, the villa Himanshu Rudy, unfortunately, Mr. Molina.

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These are the two things the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the two things the Prophet salallahu Salam I used to ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect him from the evil consequence in his hotbar

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is to say, Oh, they will let him finish surely unforeseen. I asked Allah subhanaw taala to protect us from the evil of ourselves.

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What means the RTR Medina and he's asking a lot more data to protect him from the evil of the evil consequence of our deed or to protect you from the AMA see itself. different interpretations of this call us.

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already hear me say yeah Tara Molina had Amana who a CEO Amina Molina. They are calling him Bobby Lafayette in our emergency he will call the minor min Alia Cornermen urbania.

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Kala mana Minako back to Hala Titas who fair call it up do you want Minako batty Marina latas who

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there are two different interpretations. From this call it's concerning the saying of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam may say he

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is a Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are talking about a say yo middle Ahmed our Koba to say Yet Allah Titas who saw him

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some scholars said it means a say you Amina Medina, Allah Allah protect us from the evil

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of our deed I mean evil did Allah protect us from the evil deeds? So you're asking Allah subhanaw taala to protect you from any set

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in total not the Cobra the sin itself because but at the same time if you protect it from the since then you're protected from the from the October

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so it's like the BB eight of its shape in agency you know, you are attributing something to it to agents.

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carloway Corner B man I mean, are you calling them in Bernie

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Wakita mana, mineral Kolbert Itosu and it is all grammatical explanations which the most important thing you need from this passage is the scene of the olive, a CEO minimalna That was the first interpretation it means a say You mean mean Almudena, the EVO of our DT the era of our DT na the MO from our DT

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the D to do in the one that is evil, you're asking Allah smarter to protect you from engaging in it. So we're talking about the deeds themselves according to this interpretation.

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What Kayla Anna who mineral Kobato

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some scholars said know the meaning of this is you're asking Allah smarter to protect you from the evil consequence of the sins which makes a person unpleasant.

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But according to you, men are Kobata Armanino Latina sunnah, so it's like you're saying to Allah subhanaw taala Yeah, Allah protects me from the evil

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consequence of the the my deed which will enter by making me upset.

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while you're at GE who had a cold and that is, that is a cool cateva manage me a shirt

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for a natural amphitheater. Sesimbra Melissa Yeah, we're here. There's the GMO a local but as the year.

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We're gonna be surely unfussy Alabama

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tractor the COVID worked FRB victory I mean, who?

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It who asked me who, from other Coronavirus to shove the woman to how well he has a Atilla T to suit will

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Minami minute Kobata will Allah for two minutes Hevelius the other two Asla shatter the Wafu via to one October.

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Time says while you're a Jehovah called Annalisa that's the cooler cut down manager machinery you know you take that second opinion the one that says Minako batty Kobato. So, he says

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if we take this opinion, then Alistair cut Vamana Jamia share the history of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is very comprehensive, you know, which include every every, every every evil,

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all types of evil, regardless of their nature. But to the manager me I shall refer initial emphasis searchable ama let's say you

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were here to search the Merkava to say yeah, it goes if he says all the recommend shoe to the amphitheater. Well, I mean sejati Amaya is asking a last one are there to protect him from the evil of himself? Showdown fusina. What means a Yama so it's a very natural emphasis if the knifes is evil, you know, the nafs is evil. This will necessitate what evil Did you know when you have a soul that is evil a will necessitate evil deed you know smiler law so he asked

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to be protected from the hassle and the consequence also

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while he attends to demonaco but it's a year and the third year you know

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The car necessitate

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a pullback punishment which will make a person unpleasant and happy.

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Still a professor of law Hollywood cinema he talks about she will enforce you know as an indicator alumni tech savvy him in common law. So when he talks he talks about should allow for because when he talks about Allah has Mahalo to Allah to Peroni ask Allah to protect you from the the evil of the soul.

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Indirectly you asking Allah smarter to protect you from the evil of the sins which are the consequence of having sold been in the state of evilness.

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So, the problems are lots of a mention it doesn't mention that family themselves.

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Why is that because the first mentioned which which says evil for our souls contain also the AMA. So yeah, because if the soul is evil, it is going to engage in evil do it

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through mother Caraga to share the woman to her who is a yeah and then after this, the prophets Allah Azza mentioned the end of the publisher or mentor ah, you know, a shadow comes, what is the peak of the shadow?

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What is the target of the sharp is the set yet you know, I say add Allah shiatsu things that will make a person unpleasant because when you commit a sin, Allah will bring the punishment and will make you unhappy in the future.

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So yeah Atilla T to soon abdomen Amen He mid October to Will, Will Allah so, he committed sin and then the punishment is going to take place and then what happened? A person will receive the pain on his body and the pain on the heart also.

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To the monitor the hill is the other two Asla share the ruler who will guide to whom October so this this is the other of the prophets Allah Allah selama is very comprehensive. As usual. This is Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam if you will check the idea of the province a lot sooner you will find a very comprehensive province Allah sama doesn't talk so much in the DUA doesn't have so much in the meaning he focused on one do I keep doing the same the same the same the same

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volume going around the same thing the province Allah sama doesn't do that.

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He usually choose a word that is very comprehensive, which includes so many things. countless number of things and blessings have been an art in academia how Hasina Avila Hasina working out never know. You know, you're asking the last water to grant you in this life. Hasina. What is good, there are many interpretations. Some of them said wife some of them said

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money some of them said good some of them said this and that. You know all of these interpretations are correct.

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But the word is more comprehensive more general than

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it means good. Whatsoever can make you happy you are asking Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant you this.

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Last month I would tell our grantees

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to fix the province a lot so I just put it in one word rather than saying yeah Allah give me

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this Allah give me this year Allah give me this he put them all together in one word, Rabbana, Aetna, 15 a hustler, want to hustle working out.

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So here also these days, allow me now to become issue Rudy and fusina Amin sejahtera Medina, so he is seeking refuge with Allah subhanaw taala from the evil of the soul, that means he wants his soul to be protected. And once that is protected, then the soul will not engage in doing that things which Allah subhanaw taala hates. So it's like the prophets Allah and somebody's asking Allah subhanaw taala to protect him from the root of evil and also to protect him from the consequences

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follow me Mindwell Mala Catalan Momineen a co worker who must say woman to see you at your maiden *a Hilter father at the multilevel we try to him and say whoa covert. Allah Tito's will Sahiba for in Final subhanho wa Taala Mehta workout allow Melissa Yeah, workout home I see

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in locker room says it is also mentioned that one of the idea that you are of the angels that they make for the good ones, they said What were you gonna say yet? Yeah, Allah, keep them away and protect them from the sea yet.

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They asked Allah to protect him from the sea yet and then they said woman is a Yo Yo Ma even pocket Roehampton.

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And whoever wanted to see it or even faculty and whoever is protected, you know, by you from the Sejad on the Day of Judgment, definitely this person received a great portion of mercy from from you.

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So he says, if you look at this dua from the angels is also comprehensive, because it contains a request from Allah subhanaw taala. To protect them from Allah Melissa. Yeah, so yeah, the evil deed and also a protection from the ACO but of the say, Yeah,

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you know, they're asking Allah to protect them from engaging in evil deed. He should reinforce you know, you know, that the prophets Allah sama said, and also from the consequence of the evil deed

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final subhanho wa taala, Metallica, homearama, let's say yeah, what can we just say, because if they're protected from the evil deed, they're also at the same time protected from that. The consequence of that evil deed because if they don't engage in it, they will not get the evil consequence.

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Wayne kind of called a woman took his car to Maven, era him. At the height of the Iraq War battle, Amal

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al Matoba were tied to her Yeoman engine. It says although the Saint of Allah subhanaw taala mentor per se at Yama in is more applicable interpret, to interpret it to mean you know, the evil consequence of the sin, the punishment of the of the of the deed, you know, that you are asking Allah smarter to protect you from the evil of this punishment, which will take place on the Day of Judgment.

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But it says it is more appropriate to keep it to me both. Or they're asking Allah smarter to protect them from the evil of the actions, the evil actions because if they're protected from the evil action, they will be protected from the consequences of their actions.

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A concert a loss of Hannah Hautala to my

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father, who will try to recover to say yeah, but the ladder and morada be sejati ality Sallu will try to say Yeah, well who Allah the

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masala hula Malay candidate must have been when the visa line is

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there, somebody might say that the sin of Allah subhanaw taala, or the request from the angel for Allah subhanaw taala to protect the believers from the punishment of the hell on the day of judgment. And this is the punishment of the Kuba of the say yeah, because the acaba de se Yeah, and the same is what to be punished in Hell while the other biller. So this shows that the meaning of the say yeah, I'd mentioned by the angels, you know, the one that they ask a lot smarter to protect the believers is to say, yeah, the evil deed themselves, they're asking Allah to protect them from the evil the

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corner, I love the way a cool lady saw the whole kind of era Mr. Alderman whenever he is alive, so in this case, then they are saying the same thing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I also was asking

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Carl, Carla, what do Allah had called who you might even find then Mokuba were chi to surely say, family that Cleo and nobody also should

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criticize this approach of ours. You know, we talking about this criticism against this opinion of evil okay. And those critics might say that, yeah, nobody should tell us that the scene of Allah's Mata Yama, II then, you know, is is destroying our criticism.

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Wendell Mokuba, we can surely say it she really is a

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delicate because what they are requested from Allah subhanho wa Taala is to protect the believers from the evil consequence of the sins on the Day of Judgment, what he has say to the emphases and these evil consequence of the sin, they are also say yard in themselves. So they're trying to tell you that what angels are asking they are asking similar to that which the province a lot so ask me surely unforeseen.

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Allah, protect us from the evil of ourselves

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means the Lena and from the evil of their deed or evil consequence of our our deed.

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So the angels when they ask Allah subhanaw taala saying what can humans say? They are very interesting you are not

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even though that is the word Yo Ma even which might suggest that they're asking Allah to protect them from the evil cleanse because of the sins not to protect them from the sins themselves.

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So that's an approach and a criticism against his is Opie

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we're glad to see you at dinner one it will apply even says no problem. We have a reply to that. It says protection against the evil is of two types

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how do we go to a fairly big towfighi for letters to Ramin

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The first type of protection, you know against the car is that a person is protected by Allah subhanho wa taala.

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To not engage out lots of power to add up, well granted protection, you know, will protect him by granting him Tofik you know, which will take him away from the sins will not even commit this.

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Like, when they're asking they're asking Allah smarter to grant the believers to feek to stay away from the sales.

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That's the second type that the first type. The second one is we try to just have been monkey

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protection from the Aqaba of the punishment. Throw what through the Mughal era, forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala.

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And as such will not be punished because of the sins. But many artists who are embracing

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religion as a Sharia law legitimate apology

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says in this case, if you look at it from this angle, you will understand that I is talking about both

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protection by granting them tofield

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protection by granting them Tofik to stay away from sins and also protection by granting them forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala so that they will not be punished by Allah subhanaw taala for that which comes from them out of mistakes or even if it is intentional. So when angels they ask they're asking Allah subhanaw taala to grant the believers both of the blessings for the protections

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follow atonement Manitoba Manitoba might have a man who hasn't covered and it gets me mad Hey him and Iman while I'm going to solder wallet he said no more money. It says please ponder upon what this request by the angels contain of what made him but Iman you know they are

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praising you know the believers with the Iman will Amelie Salah and also because of their Iman because of their righteousness. Well son in a minute, minutes take very long

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any What about what Amal Mata Mata Radha cover Angela Mullah Mohammed iimak So they are praised by Allah subhanaw taala because of the Iman we mean wanna be a this is referring to the angels not the righteous people, while Allah Saleh and also righteous deed, while Sani eel more meaning and also being kind to the believers, ballistic 511 You know, they believe in Allah smarter they put their faith into practice and action. And they add also to the beauty of that Iman and the Avila sila. The attitude of being kind to the, to the good ones to believers by asking Allah subhanaw taala to to forgive their sins.

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Adam obey this thing for him to assume it Allah subhanho wa Taala bizarre to me, and they did they tell us you know, when they ask Allah smarter, they just didn't just go straight forward and ask him they use the Tulsa there was to is to use the name of Allah subhanaw taala or his attributes, you know or to use your righteous deed or to use the dua of a righteous person you know, to approach Allah subhanaw taala for instance, is the name of Allah Allah and Rezac zucchini, Allah you are there was one who provides everything for everyone or zucchini, grant me risk.

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They are looking for mercy use the word Rama, the Most Merciful. So that's towards to using the names of Allah and His attributes to get your need from Allah subhanho wa Taala is a very strong, powerful and powerful way to get things from Allah Subhan Allah because Allah has water loves to be praised because he's the only one who deserves it. Nobody deserves to be praised more than Allah subhanho wa taala. The second types of Dostal is when you ask Allah subhanaw taala using your HSD you will pass for instance,

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on Monday and Thursday or any other day you will fasting which fasting is permissible on that day

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If you ask Allah smarter using that act of worship, yeah Allah I asked you to accept my deed.

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And to make it one of the reason why I will get this in Dutch. That's how you should make that also, don't say Allah since I do this, you also should do this. Now you might not get anything because Allah doesn't need you in the first place and he will never need you. And there is no business between you and Allah smelter in that way at all. Allah doesn't need anyone. So you should say Allah accept mighty it should be humble. Allah accept my deed, yeah, Allah accept mighty, you beg, Allah has wanted to accept it. And also ask him to make it as

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to make it as a reason for you to get accepted by by hate. The last time from Towson is when you ask Allah subhanho wa Taala using the dua of righteous person, you know, one of the the people in the Muslim community, you believe that this person is very good, very righteous, according to what you see, you know, doesn't engage in much stupidities student of knowledge or scholar, you know, then you ask him to include you in your DUA. Yeah, that's the toolset. You ask him to include you in, in your in your DUA.

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So these are the only three types of doses that are permissible Islamically

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Allah will cut them or many distinct for him to assume it Allah subhanaw taala beside me, there are angels they use the Trostle also, what why did he use it that also sad Radmila has,

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you know, that knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala which is so vast and comprehensive, which encompasses everything

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for SATA rahmati and also the Rama of Allah subhanaw taala that encompasses encompasses everything

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for Assad to me, he talked about Manuel movie, the movie was Bobby, without him and Marcia

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analyst. And also, you know, at the same time, you understand that the Sartre and Mila has the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala, which encompasses everything and so big, you know, includes the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala of the sins that human beings are committed, and the causes of that sin, and also the weakness of the human being which

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which, because of it, they couldn't resist, you know, they couldn't resist the Marcia.

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So they are so weak and not infallible, it commits in so the angels they're using this mercy of Allah subhanaw taala and his knowledge, which which confirmed that allows martyr knows, everything knows what exactly people are doing, and why are they doing it? And what kind of nature the doer has.

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Tyler wants to do we want to see him, well ha ha multibuy him and also the US also the fact that the enemy is dominating them and dominating the heart sometimes, and also what the FBI told me and also following their desire and their nature

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following their soul and their desire.

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Well magazine alone minute dunya was in India and whatsoever is beautified for them of the dunya and it's adornment.

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Why let me he be he had the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala but all of the inshallah human knowledge of Allah smart Allah everyone from the one that Allah's mother brought them from the clay that was added by Salaam and the subsequent people that came afterwards which are us who came from from the water as far as

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Wade Houma agenda to people to the Ahmadi and also Allah knows exactly what is going on with them when they are in the wombs of their of their mothers.

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Jenny is that the fetus the unborn child when is it isn't that's why they said mad little Gee well known suggest hidden things. They have gene you have Jenny, Virgin now you have Jana

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suggesting something that is hidden or darkness

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so Allah subhanaw taala knows about everyone long ago since before our creation and all the process of our creation Allah smart and knows everything.

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While more acerbic avec la Buddha and he also and also he knows that based on the nature he be stalled humankind's, there is no way for them to stay away from sin still will be committing sin from time from time to time.

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One we have beloved Hallmark Farah and his knowledge that confirms that Alas, Mahara 10 loves forgiveness and also law

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I'm stupid on those people who go against his law. As long as they repented,

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daddy come inside to me Hillary and I hate to be he hadn't seen and other than this also, which shows how vast and how comprehensive and how great and how big is the knowledge of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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for South rahmati and they also use the vastness of the Rama of Allah subhanaw taala allottee Tetra Verma and hula you Leia and equally I had a middle minion I mean, I had been to Haiti he will have at the mercy of Allah azza wa jal necessitates that nobody should get destroyed except somebody who is choosing that for himself.

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Amongst the believers, who are the people after hate, nobody will go astray and be in a very critical moment except somebody who chose that for himself. So they say Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Illa Illa hattrick. If you look at the way Allah subhanaw taala designed the system you will understand this statement properly.

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Why is it that some people they agree to go back to Allah subhanaw taala would sin

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because as I said, just take for instance, and although you know, just take a look for example, you will make all the all the sins you have committed by the limbs which are watching when you're making although there will be taken away from you.

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And you will pray the sins you committed between this prayer and the previous one will be taken away from you. And there we go when you go out of your house to the masjid you know

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you will not never make a step except that ALLAH smart Allah ever later in ranking when you raise of your leg Allah will elevate you in rank. When you bring it down Allah azza wa jal remove your sins by that

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so last required Allahu Allah Allah, but still, there are so many people who will not make it to paradise there will still go to go to hell. So that's the reason why I said this is absolutely their personal choices, because the last one to open the door for them not to make this mistake, but about a couple

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they know was rahmati lair Khadija and Dieter Amati, Elon ash Pia, well ash coming Melinda sallahu Rama to allottee was Aquila che because Allah azza wa jal Allah's Mercy is so big, very, very big. And nobody goes out of this. This mercy, mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala except a Sharpie. Sharpie is a wicked, a bad one a loser and nobody is Sharpie and no sharp power, you know, that is worse than somebody who is out of the Mercy of Allah smarta regardless of all of these big mercy, but a person and of having himself being taken away from this mercy of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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For massage and yoga fairly tidy and then the angels ask ALLAH SubhanA wa so this is the terrestrial and use they use Rama is trying to tell you, what does this Rama of Allah smart Allah means they use the knowledge of Allah why does this knowledge of Allah smart Allah means and they and then now they started asking for what they want. They praise Allah smarter at first and then they say Allah, they ask Allah Subhana Allah and young for any type in Medina eternal subido they ask ALLAH SubhanA tend to forgive those people who repent. Those people who are offend, and they follow the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala after repentance

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was set out to him Mozilla Hillary who am I to who I'm happy to apply to? So when they say what Tebow Sevilla can they follow your path? What is the path of Allah subhanaw taala it's a spirit of ALLAH is monitored that is based on loving Allah, knowledge about Allah loving Him and obeying Allah subhanho wa Taala

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Fatah Nima you Cora, what turbos Sabina allottee Hibou, Maya Cora with turbo SAP relativa Baja. So they repented from that which Allah subhanaw taala hates, and they follow the path which Allah subhanaw taala loves

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for Mossad who and yaki OMA Double J and then they ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect the believers from the punishment of the hell. Why don't you agree that home while Momineen mean also to him? Were for him was watching Jannette allottee why don't they ask Allah smarter to forgive them? And they ask Allah subhanaw taala to take them to agenda not just only them, but together with their family members, their children, their wives, their parent, you know

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I'm asking Allah smarter to take them together with those one to two paradise to make them happier.

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Awesome, Hannah what I know in Canada, usually for me add a Nevada home behind the big beat as well.

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Find the wider home be happy as well. I mean, Jim, let's do our morality, do our malignity. So it looks at him says Allah subhanaw taala although it never broke a promise, and he will not do that, at the same time, Allah subhanho wa Taala make this promise to be achieved by the believers through causes, is causes I mentioned in this law of angels.

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Some of them is the doer of the angels.

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Lahoma knew that. Yeah, we are mighty, asking Allah subhanaw taala to take them to Paradise by His mercy. allotment, and will * only him were Kamala Ekata who would allow him to be here. So you see the angels are making it look, I'm said there's a condition. Because for you to get this door of the angels, then you have to do righteous deeds, they only make dua for the good words. So if you engage in the righteous deed, the angels will put you in the DUA, they asking Allah Samantha to show mercy upon you and take you to paradise.

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But if you don't do that, you will be taken away from this mercy of Allah subhanaw taala you will not be included in that in that.

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I hope this is very clear. So it's a condition that you have to meet for you to get involved in this mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala what is the condition to get the data from the angels? How do I get data from the angels to be righteous? When you're righteous The angels are going to make that for you and as such, you will be included in the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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through ma kabbalah subhanho wa Taala and Malaika to know Aki by the Dalit INEC Anton Aziz and Hackie I monster radical unsolvable, who arrived to Husar dinner and CO magic quadratic aka model MC. And then the angels they ask Allah subhanaw taala

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to get Grindstaff believers all of those things and they concluded this job by saying in the current analysis will hacky

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Cydia, Allah you are allows ease and also you are a hacky. Allah's is the most powerful, the highest, the strongest, the greatest, the irresistible. So, they use this name of allah Sparta, which shows power and strength

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and lack of weaknesses whatsoever.

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So, this word allows us to praise Allah smarter by using this word and as is, you know, nobody can tell him much. He does whatever he wants you to do, and nobody can come and follow up and check and see whether it is correct or wrong. Answer is

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so they ask Allah subhanaw taala using his name Al Aziz while hacky well Hakeem is is

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a wise you know, all wise.

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Well, Hekima he a welder a che if you Mahali Asahi and Hekima is to put something in his own proper place. You know, what are che FEMA Hanley has Sahai to put something in its own proper place, this is wisdom.

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This is this is wisdom. So they say to Allah subhanaw taala they asked him us in His Name and Aziz and also our hecky.

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What are they trying to say? That the Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala is coming from the ASA of Allah subhanho wa taala. And from the power and ability of Allah podra T

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will come earlier in the heat and the comprehensiveness and the completeness of his knowledge, the knowledge of Allah smart, Allah is so much and so great, which encompasses everything. So they are trying to tell us that all of these things that allow us what is granted human being is they're coming from the zeal of Allah from the Qudra of Allah subhanaw taala and from the knowledge of Allah subhanaw taala for in the lasertec como la la cadena is ability and the peak of abilities a person to be as ease and bookable as he is, you know, very strong, very strong, very strong in everything he does.

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And nobody can resist it. So when you talk about quadra, there is the highest

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type of

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well, Hekima to command. And when you talk about knowledge, hikma wisdom is the peak of peak of college.

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You know, you see in many places Allah subhanaw taala attached his zeal with the knowledge you attach. I'm sorry

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His aides are with hikma his knowledge with hikma because there are some people who are using their power and ability to abuse others

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you know, and to go against the rights of others. So to avoid somebody thinking that there is Allah subhanaw taala somehow is like this well you have Allah, Allah smarter will tell you he's allowed these key Jasmine decades of Allah subhanaw taala he plays in the way Allah smart Allah knows to be the most appropriate place. Whether we understand or we don't understand but whatever Allah smarter does is the most appropriate thing to be to be done.

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That's wisdom.

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Will be happiness super tiny here called the Bihar sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on Masha aware when wife said what we had to receive attorney, your colleague how subhanho wa Taala Marcia welcome mouen with Victoria for her attorney super tiny monster hulking well.

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Because of this Oh with these two attributes, Allah subhanaw taala decreed things Allah subhanaw taala decide things Allah subhanaw taala releases the command allows power to ever release is the law that says you shouldn't approach things which he doesn't like. And because of this Allah subhanaw taala punish and because of this Allah swats our strength in the part of a person and put them on the right way. So these are these are the most dire of the creation and the command from Allah subhanho wa Taala the root and the origin of the creation and the command from Allah subhanho wa Taala

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after that pivotal time says while Maqsood and now Colbert is a yachtie that an either or CO button Sharia or combat in Korea, it will came says what I'm trying to let you know

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is that our Kobato Cadet Corps Bhattacharyya. So we ended up in a combat

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election a yet Sharia Walker that is what I wanted you to understand here is that there are combat

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that is

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sent by Allah subhanaw taala as a consequence of the sin being committed by a person are divided into two you have Sharia and you have Korea you have Sharia and you have Korea

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well here in my collarbones you have Sharia and you have the Korea in mirfield khalaby The one that is also divided into two categories the one on the heart and the one on on the bottom.

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What you Murphy him up or you can have a third category which says that Allah subhanaw taala put on both the soul and the body

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are covert infidel bands by the Lotte and also you have a cobra that comes in the rubber bands that is the the life after after death before the day of judgment

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call Bazzi Yo Ma How should I study and also the punishment that will happen to a person yo Mahesh will obey Allah subhanaw taala will bring the body back to meet the source.

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So I guess that's the best place in sha Allah to stop either light Allah in the next class on Monday, I was start from the scene of the olive Wallmark Su and October to say attitude toward inshallah last Maharaj Allah grant is good and tofi

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and fix all of our affairs and may Allah subhanaw taala love you all and protects you from all evils Markelov eukroma

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in Aiken and Mike

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The first question is by Isha

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ready to share setup

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is it permissible to

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say structures on

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structures on a grade as for the use no question in Malaysia putting up concrete on the both sides. Most often than not, we do have guns concerns.

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People walking over

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the grave is supposed to be done in the way the grave of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam was done, put in cement put in all of those things that are is not part of the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and in fact, the Sunnah indicated that these are wrong practices people are doing

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Such a person is not supposed to go for this is supposed to do it in a normal way. Can you no matter how much Grade A person is, you will never be like Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, they buried him in a very normal way. They did the lahad for him, and they put him inside. And he told Olivia Vitaly, he says, Don't whenever you see a picture, you have to face you know, and erase this picture. And wherever you see Timothy Paul or Sonam, take it out. And whenever you see a grave, you know, that is a bit higher, the problem is a lot Some ask him to level to the ground, when he says leveled to the ground last a way to he doesn't mean that you make it flat, you know, you don't make it like that,

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whether you make it according to the way that we will Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was, was was done by the companions. You know, they said one Shiva, Shiva is more than enough. So it's up to the people who are digging the hole and burying that person to make sure that they put enough sand which inshallah

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it will not go down and collapse because of the impact of the rain.

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But at the same time, if you have a case in a place, let's say the wild animal comes and take and eat that human being, from time to time, if this is an issue, and it becomes a case, you know, a serious matter. In this case, when we do something which will protect them from doing

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that will be okay be the light as well. But there are many other ways also to do that, in order to protect the graveyard are having a long fence, you know, very long fence. Those animals that usually eat the human beings and go and dig and eat, they don't cross you know, they don't jump you know,

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those who which can jump such as monkeys, they don't they're looking for this, you know, so, if there is a need, then we go for that if there is no need, it is always better for a person to follow Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and make a very simple grave, you know for for the loved ones.

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How about the big stones, specific feelings about what we can buy

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the name of the person

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at Caribbean some organizations that the province that a lot is saying I'll put the sign or he allows people to put the sign so that they can recognize the grave. Be like Zildjian put in a sign if you want to come back to recognize the place you are afraid of losing the track of that person who used to be in I mean, who happened to be a family member in sha Allah is fine Beagle has the region

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to put a stone a Buddha stole in one of the groups I guess if not their own or somebody else

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I also see people sort of think that

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this is false. That's disrespect of the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala it shouldn't be done as disrespect

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the book of Allah Splinter it's not it's not revealed to us for that to go right Quran the place you don't even know what will touch it, what will happen to it, and it doesn't benefit that person.

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So rotten Fatiha if you don't put it into practice, and actually it doesn't benefit the person at all. It doesn't benefit. The whole Quran if you don't use it, it doesn't matter.

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That's why mama Shafi says Quran is for is for the living ones, not the dead ones.

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That's pessimism.

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That's pessimism that's wrong.

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Put in

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Eco flowers and putting put in some

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branches of the tree does pass pessimism to show

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you have to be optimistic and hope that that person will get the Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala even if he's a wrongdoer.

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As well as the last summer he puts those two things when he knows.

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Last month I told him that these two people are punished by Allah subhanaw taala he asked them to bring two branches of the of the palm tree the date tree and he put it on there great. It says Allah who you have a van

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they might get inshallah relief from the punishment they are suffering from which one of them is not taking the purification correctly?

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not protecting himself from the urine,

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blood purify himself from the urine. And the other one is the mum. The mum means somebody who is going against people

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going against the French, you know between the Muslims and the brotherhood between the Muslims and the mom is some

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buddy who comes to a person and tell him something bad about another person so that he can cut off the relationship between this person and the other customer the profit and loss and I said that whole agenda to them I'll cut that one who is the man will not go to Paradise

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store so so we have to be very careful so the bugs are so many that these two people are punished. So he puts these branches of the tree on their grave. He says hoping that Allah smart Allah will give them relief from the punishment you know, as long as these branches are still wet and still will not dry still alive.

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That was Shiva from the Prophets Allah is Allah and he does it in that way we are not in his position we're supposed to follow that which he did with others that is no mention of him putting the branches of the tree in any other grade to my knowledge apart from those two days and we have heard the cost so if I if I lost somebody and I gonna put that that why message am I sending to the people you know those ones were punished that's where the profits are sent but if I also put nothing on it what message am I sending?

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I want them to be punished or what do I want exactly?

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Scott does not listen that grave should be playing you know can put water on it to make it stable that only Shall I should be okay but having flowers I think this one also looks like what the Christians are doing that's why you see the sheep following them in that

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shower and you see them you know some of their burial they're almost exactly similar to the Christianity

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please don't and I saw was similar to the Christianity

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catalog guide

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since we should not attend the gathering of resetting that name and so GSC for the dead

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however, we can recite Surah

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tension intention to use recitation as for soon to make the

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intention to benefit

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yeah that one is Salah is fine, but what am I afraid of? is like the children will not understand what you understand you know you are doing it with the intention of using it as a means of tawassul but your kids what makes us think that shaytan will not come and tell them that your parents are using it you know as a means of getting reward for the previous for the for the disease to

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the because to them they just see their father their mother doing they don't know why Why does he do anything

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but the action itself it's okay for you to use any righteousness and then after that righteousness you will make dua to Allah subhanaw taala to get something

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and then we have to take precaution and block the means

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the time of no holy salaam they produce those idols with good intention good intention, very good intention and it works with the parent. But then after that Chapin got an opportunity through that one on destroy the people that was the first ship that exists on earth.

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So we should also be careful when we do something it might be permissible in the south but then the consequence especially when other people who are watching us you know

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when they see us you know the consequence might not be good. The last monitor grantors Tofik

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again, it

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was slow it was a lot

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late lady has streaks in marriage.

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I want to ask this question again.

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What is Lady expect marriage and she does

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commend Eric says majority

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of women expect to live as

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a Muslim men are permissible to marry for

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programs where she she's coming from okay.

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First of all, what a woman is expecting, okay, I'm not just just talking on their behalf.

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Getting down behalf.

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What they expect to get is a man. Somebody might say, What do you mean, of course, expecting to get a man, you know, but I, I meant my word, as opposed to get a man, you know. That's why some of our callers said that if you see a woman who is focusing so much on the design and the shape and all of these things in the person, most likely she's going to end up regretting in her life.

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Yeah, so we have this feature that has to be this. You know, this is designed to

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live the brothers with the mentalities but a woman, she's looking for somebody who can act as a protection, and also ADIF Hola. In the hadith of almost Sarah, that we will call it from time to time, she said, When I married the second husband after the divorce with the first so she couldn't forget the first husband. She prays him after he divorced her in the wrong way, in a very wrong way, actually, because he just saw a woman who's so beautiful. And that woman has even children, you know,

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but he doesn't care. Because the woman and the children, you know, when they when they, when they all combined together, you know, in that environment, that scenario was so beautiful. He couldn't control his

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decision. He just went back and divorce his wife, what kind of thinking is this. But anyway, that was their life. So he divorced her and him and she married another person. And he has no problem with that, because she did not mention the problem with her head that might exist because

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it's not easy to have a smooth life, you know, between the spouses, you know, 100% You know, there might be some mistakes, but she did not mention and it has been the life is good, and it's okay. But he divorced her in that wrong way.

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But she couldn't forget why she couldn't forget. She prays him she prays his daughter, she praises

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his son, she prays his maid in the house, in some marriage, and even his dog was praised you.

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Usually when the divorce happens, the woman or the man,

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either they keep quiet, or they don't mention anything good about the other other part. But this one has been present, you know?

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So she said almost, she said the cat to God who Roger. She said I marry another person after Busara

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very young, and very rich person.

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Very, very rich. And she she said he's so rich, much more richer than the first one.

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And he didn't restrict her in terms of using his wealth, he tell her qualia or Mazarin what mediatic he says that almost, you know, eat from my wealth and also support your family. You know, she can take the wealth and also give it to the family members, you know, subhanAllah so kind of Subhanallah she said low amnesia matter to call Loma Alta and he Marbella, as Sahara, and yet Ibiza, he said If I'm to combine everything I got from the second husband, it will not be equivalent in terms of value to the small, less, you know, utensils or cap that I got from Abu Zahra SubhanAllah. So as Carla said, what did she lose from this husband? Although he gave us everything, what did she lose from

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She lost that which a woman is looking for, which is a default, a default means naturally, a woman wants to be protected and to feel that she's with somebody. So he says I'm talking on your behalf. She feels that she's with somebody

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that's naturally in Allah smarter. When He created Adam. He says we created him a wife so that he will be comforted. He's looking for the comfort. And that's what a brother and a maid is looking for. What can give him comfort? You know, that's why if a person is granted a good wife, or like that person will enjoy life. You know,

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he did this comfort, who likes Allah Simone, he went to the cave of Hira and he got

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what he called

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that fear and he came back to the house, you know, it did not go to his friends. He didn't go to anyone. He came back home. Because he knows in house there is somebody who is really smart in that place. You know, he's living with the smart people who can grant him what he's looking for. As a man. And did she gave him that comfort? Yes, she gave him

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she definitely gave him the comfort the props that are super cool down because of her Hala.

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So that's the difference.

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It says between the need of the man and the need of the,

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of the woman, the man is looking for comfort. And the woman is looking for what is called a diff protection and to have the feeling you know, emotionally that she is attached to, to somebody, when life is so tough and so harsh, even if you give everything, no sign of love in it, you know, woman will live enjoy life. And that's the reason why a sister should be very careful. Look for that which the profit and loss I'm asked you to look for, who is a righteous person and somebody who has good manners. Look for this one. Allah's water knows how to make you happy, you know, naturally, law system will accept what you're talking about that

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husband is married more than one wife, but Allah has certainly he made it halal for them. Provided justice is supposed to be I mean, it's going to be maintained by that person. So can a person fight it? Can a woman fight it? You know, she cannot fight. It is impermissible for her to fight. But is it Why do you want her to accept it? No, it's not logical for her to accept it. What I mean by fighting, doing that what some government did, saying that this is absolutely incorrect, and they're talking to who to Rabbil Alameen because Allah's MATA is the one that says is correct.

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But as far as wanting, you know, an acceptance is concerned, it is up to assist you to accept it or to reject it does the right you know, she does have a right to this agreed to stay with somebody. As a matter of right she doesn't have a right to disagree. And as such from the beginning, she should think wisely. Home is she going to stay with

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to get idea but what I'm saying is I'm just addressing the matter of those people from the brothers and the sisters who are accusing Islam because of this bass Cooper if somebody meant it, this can take him out of Islam call for a mocha gentleman, Minda. If a person criticize a lot smarter and say to Allah What is he is unfair. In the way some people might say that Allah smart is unfair, is unfair, indirectly they are saying this and who is the one who prescribed these laws, is Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So a sister can say, I don't have interest in it, and can tell the husband, I don't want it to good idea. This is up to her and she will not be getting sin for that.

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She will not be getting sin for that. But when she hates what Allah subhanho wa Taala prescribe, then this is when she is going to be in trouble with loss,

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but will have no interest in it. This is up to a person to squat and she is tested by somebody who has a second person to stay with, she should observe the patient and seek the support from Allah Subhan Allah because Allah knows how to make her happy. But as I said, that first statement of my base is supposed to be in the mind of every person, male and female, when you're looking for a husband, focus on these two things, because Allah He these are the things that will make you happy in life, righteousness, and good manners, righteousness and good minus, we need both of them to be in existence because a person might be righteous between him and Allah subhanaw taala. But between

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him and his family, he is very bad. He Dini, among others is very bad. So we need both to be in existence, this person is righteous, and at the same time, also he has good manners. That's what a brother should be looking for. And that's what a wife should be looking for. To get idea, both of them I really advise those people who did not matter yet. Open your eyes, you still have chance not to make that mistakes, which many people I'm telling you a lie. Many people made that mistake and they cried afterwards. They look behind there, they run behind money, they run behind fame they run you can have sometimes a daughter of somebody who memorized the Quran she is very strong in terms of

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knowledge and the Father is looking for nothing except money. That's what I call selling our daughters. As I told you wasn't a joke I saw somebody who is looking at his daughter and saying that money is coming from here Salah What is this? Our daughters become toys you know is actually excellent for you to give somebody your daughter with one drink it you know

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wondering if

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that's the best and to be done actually. All of these optimist pessimism we should keep that aside. Nowadays we increase them out it's like we're having the business deal with that person you know you're selling your daughter's

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I won Can I have with this? No. Can you make a deduction can you make this yet what is this? Yeah, well Allah he I don't see it as a virtue at all. You know, I don't know why people like it and why Assist is even acceptance, you know?

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but they do have a justification for that. They said maybe there will be a divorce in the future, then she doesn't have everything Subhanallah Why do you begin your life with pessimism? Why can't you marry somebody who you think is a lot smarter that can stay with you forever and ever until death? Why from day one you are thinking of it divorces to happen, you know, in some places, there is a condition also that if you divorce, you have to do this, you have to do that. All of these things. If you look at the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, that's no mention about this. Look at the marriage in terms of the websites. It was so simple.

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So when I say he looked for a righteous person for your daughter, he looked for somebody who has good manners for a daughter, and don't care about that as long as she accepts him, Wallah, he didn't worry about that. So it will say you were one of the righteous predecessors said, Don't you ever give your daughter except to somebody who fears Allah?

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What does he mean by that? He said because he is the one. When he loves her, he honored her he respects her. And when he doesn't like her, he will not hurt. That's what he should be looking for you for a daughter. But if you have busy with him, he will not tolerate that mistake that is going to happen. And he is always going to look at her like a property. That's the reason why I said if you give your daughter with one ring it is okay so that that man will understand that your daughter is not a product for sale. You're just taking this ring it from him is hindering him from him to honoring it 1000 ringgit in a visa within the reasonable amount that a person can appreciate. Let

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him understand that your daughter is not a product for for sale. She is something that has value if not because Islam says marriage shouldn't take place without Mahara. You will let her go and stay with him free if she accept

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our last Montilla grant is good and Tofik so I really love that first part of the answer of mine when I said what a woman need is that comfort and most and that was but many systems don't understand this.

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It tried to equate themselves with the brothers and the brothers also try to equate themselves with the sisters. That's why the problem exists in the marriage update happened. We alas Martina grant is good and tofi.

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Is for patients

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and absolute patients as long as he doesn't go against Allah subhanho wa Taala she shouldn't be patient. This is my advice. And this advice of Abu Bakr Radi Allahu Anhu to his daughter, you know, when she complained, you know the difficulty she faced from her husband

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as available awam he told her Be patient, please be patient, because I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying in Xamarin, right, Julian Saudi is very is a very righteous person. So he told her to be patient. So this is my advice. I know life sometimes will go so tough, sometimes some of the husband cannot be tolerated at all. But what Allah He is always good for the wife to be patient. Every single step in her patients is counted for her. And if this husband is a criminal, a day will come he will understand that yes, he is in a wrong way. And he's going to apologize, a life is going to come back to it all properly been laser checked, I really suggest to be patient and not

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to fight back as long as the husband is not beating is not cursing if he curses. You know, that's really, really, really bad. In this case, the best thing is she should reply. And she shouldn't apply even if the husband is cursing she should.

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But what she can do is to raise the case to his parent first. Don't tell your parent tell his parents first. If his parents are not able to settle and to solve this problem, then engage your parent. Because our parent cares so much about us and they think about us first from us. They don't think about us wherever they that much. So again, his parents know what is going on. Let them call him and scold him and blame him and warn him from what he's doing. But if they are also like him, they're also criminal like him because cursing a wife, it is strongly Islamically whatever she does is wrong. Islamically

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is wrong. Islamically if Allah did not send you to curse somebody, you cannot curse and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said like to come back and watch. They have some people look at their wife and talk about their fiscal parents. You know, it's not allowed to be that that's the reason why I said sisters should be very careful when they are choosing somebody to stay with them. I have heard these type of stupidities, you know from from people. A person will look at his wife and tell to her that she

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She's not appealing to him, you know, she's not she's not all of these things. Why didn't he say it when he's looking for a hand?

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Why didn't he say it? You know, but sometimes you don't blame him, you blame her because she's the one who did a shallow research about him, you know, or sometimes just seeing the physical, you know, a domain, he has all that the way he looks, you know, just accept that. Looking at the future, what could possibly happen to

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have these stupidities are taking place here. The worst one I have is a marriage that I was involved in making, you know, from somebody who we think he

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is okay. Because we never know anything about him.

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Subhan Allah, I, as somebody who who teaches I just know him like that come into the class. I don't know his life.

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So I asked him, Are you sure you have done everything? That's okay. Yeah, it's okay. And so Hala that marriage did not last a week.

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They don't last a week. And if he just if he just told her go, you know, I divorce you if he told her this, that's fine. But Subhanallah she heard from him all types of stupidities, you know, bad words, you are this, you are that you are not even. And subhanAllah. She was so kind according to her narration of the story, because I was involved in that marriage. So after one week, I had a message coming to me asking me about the rulings concerning the divorce.

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Pass like what is this? You know, maybe they will ask you on behalf of others, but then I see that they're asking about themselves, you know.

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So this is a very great

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lesson, you know, for everyone to understand the reason why the prophets, Allah Azza wa said, pay attention and get somebody who is righteous, you know, you have all of these failures from both male and female. And I, I blame nobody except somebody who hates him, you know,

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just because of what he sees. Is what amazed you know, he doesn't want any discussion about staying away from from that in that person.

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So take that advice of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, and don't worry, even Allah, he has the agenda, you will never regret in sha Allah when it comes to research to know whether this person is this and that, you know, he get it from others, not from them. Nowadays, we prefer to get it from them directly. How can you expect a person to tell you that he's having he has bad manners and bad attitudes? How would he expect to present to be honest in this matter? So you get who he is from from from others who are living with him? Allah grant is good topic. Yes, I

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that a lot of the line has really was at night secrecy.

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The real

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this is one of the

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one of the things they mentioned in that in the history that aren't even a retiree buried her without informing Abu Bakr and Omar Abdullah.

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Because she had a problem with them until death.

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And now they're going to be terrible. So at first he has some reservation, but then later on, he got he went and apologized by himself, without any pressure from a mobile crow apologize, he called them apologize, you know, and they told him if you apologize is okay and fine, but people already know your stance, please do it in public so that people can see. And then he came to the masjid and told people that we used to think that we have right in this affair, but now it appears that no, we don't have you know, he's always to think, you know, we do have a right but now we understand that we didn't have right all right, so he says I'm here to give my oath of allegiance to Abu Bakr Bella

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Bella. So that's what is mentioned that they bury how Allah Allah without informing Abu Bakr, and that doesn't harm her doesn't harm him at all. Because he was absolutely right in what he did.

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Being the daughter of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam is very thing which I don't even know how to explain how big is this issue, you know?

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How big is his blessing is so so so great way to swim last summer when there was a competition between all of them, you know, purpose Allah Azza excluded Fatima from the debate. He said Fatima Baba to mini Fatima is part of me. Alas, who can compete with her with in this year. And she's one of those four sisters who are the best that Allah smarter ever created in the history.

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And also her mother is one of these best four sisters and a half

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Father was the best of the best number one in the creation of Allah subhanaw taala who are lives amongst the human beings in Jenks so you can see from every dimension Fatima or the Allaha and how she's acquiring this position of being the best

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but that doesn't necessarily that does not necessarily mean that everything she said is correct

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otherwise he will get into trouble living with how he has issues so from time to time, you know, it was time to promise a Lhasa into the house and he found out he's not allowed.

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He found that there was an issue between him and his wife is her husband and wife these things can happen from time to time.

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So not everything she believes in is correct as well when she believes that she has to inherit her father Rasul Allah, that was wrong because Rasul Allah is Allah Azza wa said we the prophets of Allah subhanaw taala whatever we left is supposed to give in to charity

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it's how many questions left

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to Christians okay that's quickly deal with them shall

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use today

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this is family member

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yes in sha Allah as long as this debt is halal, you can use this company to create inshallah

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in a pasture raised

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me that

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said what

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I think she's referring to on the previous discussion that

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he was asking about zakat money received from someone else like his family

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and then they use it to pay the person's death or the death from from their own money

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if they take the family depends on who they are.

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It depends on who they are. If they're very close to him, like his children, they are supposed to pay from his inheritance. If it is not capable by then they should pay it with with their own personal money as the opinion of the vast majority of the scholars you cannot pay the car to your parents because those ones if they need you have to feed them you have to support them in their life.

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But there are some scholars who says it's okay for you to pay the car for anyone who deserves it even if he is your relative but the best is to be on the safe side inshallah but as for taking the call from others and giving it to a family member that that's that's okay be the surgeon

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heard one of my friends say that for men

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in the Quran, it also mentions that everything

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mentioned about gender is measured says what

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is behind what's in it

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as isn't mentioned

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they don't mean it actually. They don't need it.

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Because a woman are always wanted. And thus, you gotta look for them.

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That's a fever. So they will look for you. Even here in this life is not ignore that a woman is looking for a man the man has to go on back has to go low price to go on. It has to go in the battle and respect and do all of the things to make sure he is accepted. That's why they say that the woman is not Luba.

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So if that's the case in paradise also they're part of the beauty of the agenda.

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That's why the focus in most instances is on the brothers it doesn't mean the sister didn't have anything. Now they have similar to the brother she also has a Paradise which last one I tell will keep it if she goes to the same place with the husbands would ask me a lot smarter we'll give them an increase.

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And if the wives in paradise are going to look like those ones, the whole line for sure we are expecting the sisters in this life to be much more greater when they get inside the paradise.

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Because the prophets Allah so man he's talking he's talking about