Ibrahim Nuhu – #07 Tafsir Juz Amma

Ibrahim Nuhu
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Allahu Allahu Allah Allah He was laughing He was telling me my bad.

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A shrewd to answer the data center if you haven't been in Mobarak Kitab Allah has Allah subhanaw taala anybody can hear now if you monitor lemma one young fella lads alert where Farah limited cathedral where Vida Raja to hear Lee so today inshallah we continue from where we stopped last time. And if I'm not wrong, we stopped at the scene of Allah subhanho wa Taala thermostability surah Allah told us about his plesant sorry, told us about what happened between Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and

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I'm delighted Norway, Abdullah he drove me back to the way the province last summer refused to respond to him because he was having hope in those confirm to accept Islam and Allah's muhurta to us, who is supposed to receive our care and concern and our attention more. And if I'm not wrong last time, I talked about the importance of focusing in the Muslim community, fixing what is inside first before we go and invite others to the religion. So Allah Azza wa Jalla says Coccinelle insulinoma, AK Pharaoh,

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mean a che in Halacha, who may not have that in halacha HuFa Cadabra fumar Sabinus. So Allah subhanaw taala says, putting it inside of my Aqua human being human beings

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are curse.

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Mark for who Allah subhanaw taala says, Did you find anyone who is committing code for more than human beings?

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Or in another interpretation of the scholars Mark Farah who means what makes him a Katherine with all the blessings of Allah subhanaw taala still he is committed uncover how come after receiving all of these blessings and the neon from ALLAH and he is committing cover. What exactly is making a cafe? Allah subhanaw taala says mean ha in Calaca who may not but in color, Jehovah Daraa Allah azza wa jal talk about the origin of His creation, that he came from not far, you know, mixture of both. They're not far and that is coming from from the wife Calaca who forgot Darrow last Maha Rotella created him and he also prescribed for him what he is going to be doing in this life. Is life is

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decided and decreed by Allah subhanho wa taala. Nothing is new. is raised his Agile is started with a shocky OCI and also his arm and what is he going to be doing in this light before he meets Allah subhanho wa Taala everything is rich. Which is actually a good news for Muslims to understand that risk, is decreed by Allah subhanho wa Taala in the way your Agile is looking for you your risk also is looking for you

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as well. I wish all of the moons understand this. But unfortunately not all of us realize this fact that you Agile

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is looking for you. I'm sorry your risk is looking for in the way you Agile is is looking for you.

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So it's it's also part of the decree of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and therefore you shouldn't worry just focus on that which is halal. And don't worry about risk Allah subhanaw taala says learners are looking at risk and they'll took

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column in Asia in halacha hoomin Luke 14 halacha HuFa Daraa, from Seville etc. And then Allah subhanaw taala created the human beings from a Salinas sir subtle. This is similar to the same of Allah subhanaw taala who had you know, allegedly and in surah Al Insana, Allah subhanaw taala says in a hurry now Sabina Masha can and Emma Fuhrer, Allah subhanaw taala created us and He granted as Aquila to be able to differentiate between right or wrong. It says Allahu Akbar Raja caminho Tony Amati come later Ala Moana Shia Allah subhanaw taala Bucha out from the from the womb of your mother's let alimony share

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jalila comas sama well Ansara will Effetre last one which Allah He grant you the hearing and also this the eyesight, the scene, and also the Africa and the heart. These are the most important elements, that knowledge can be sourced, you know, through through them. Allah subhana which ALLAH blessed us by giving us those senses so that we can get the best of the knowledge and use it properly. Allah says We grant you aka uncle helps you to differentiate between right and wrong, and the truth and the facts

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Sweet. So Allah says in Medina who sebelah in Mushrikeen, Makka. Farah here he said, from my Sabina Surah, Allah subhanaw taala, open and make it easy for you to see the truth and make it easy for you to, to follow the truth if a person wants it. And this is not only restricted to the guidance, the guidance in the sense of doing that, which allows me to once, which is part of the Revelation, and it also extended to the Akal that Allah gives you to understand what benefits you in the marsh.

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Yeah, because when you go, you don't eat everything, you don't drink everything. And this is NEMA from Alaska hotel that need to be appreciate. If Allah subhanaw taala wish, He will make us like my journey. You don't recognize what is good or bad, it just go and take something that will be the cause of your death. But Allah subhanaw taala is not doing this to us a grant your uncle, which she used to realize which one is beneficial, which one is is wrong, you get it check all kinds of precautions before you start testing something to make sure it is it is useful. And I guess this is part of our nature, up to date human beings wherever they introduce something they go for the for

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the test first done, they don't risk the life of people just like that they go for the test. So sometimes they tested in the animals because we have more value than and then their animals right it tested in the animals first to see the reaction before they start testing it in the human being. And even the human being the look for volunteer only one, you don't take more than one. In case if we lose, we lose in only one rather than going and doing it in general. And then at the end of the day, we lost so many so many people.

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So this is this is blessing of Allah subhanaw taala to have this ability to differentiate between right or wrong and to take all kinds of precautions in doing that which might lead you to to where equal to danger.

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Karla Sebelius Sarah from Jehovah Kabara Allah subhanaw taala in some hotline, this surah his summarize the life of human beings until the time a person beats him, you know, from the time before we are born, until the time we come out of the womb of the mothers that Allah smarter said we do not let you you know, do things by yourself and do the experiment whether you're right or wrong, or we support you with alcohol. And not only alcohol, Allah subhanaw taala support you with what with the prophets and the messengers and the books also that will be kept with you to guide you even if the messengers are absent. When they go back to Allah subhanaw taala you have something to refer to

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whenever you need a guidance, right? That's a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala because if he is to let us choose what we want to choose, the uncle might lead us to go to go astray and this is what is going on nowadays. That's why it is necessary to attach ourselves to the to the divinely

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guided to the divinely guided message given to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam by Allah subhanho wa Taala so this is Nirmal from Allah subhanaw taala to all of us that need to be appreciated.

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So we live in the middle of this guidance. Allah subhanaw taala says A time will come. If you remember he said last time when new fortune Halochem Fodera Allah subhanaw taala Khedira allegedly lived in he he went back to Allah subhanaw taala already prescribed the time you spent on Earth and the time you are going to die and you will not exceed this time. The last one or two law says

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tougher to Roussillon our home oh I'm live for the 200 day that Jawaharlal

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Yeto for Combi lady where the majority on behalf for my bath for convenient eco agilon Musa from my Rahimullah to consumer in a bill Camille country Tamil. Hola Hillfolk folk everybody had tiny badger had a couple Mojito Foothill Rusu now home life. Allah subhanaw taala says you live

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in this

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system that allows one to provide for you until the time your time is over. Your time is up. Allah subhanaw taala says toe foot Hooroo sunnah homelife Our Messengers is referring to the angels are going to take the life and the soul of this person and there will never be negligent life it all means the time Allah subhanaw taala granted you to spend on earth you will never exceed you Allah if Allah smart Allah says a person will die, you know exactly, you know 5pm For instance, you will not die after that. He has today exactly right.

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When the clock reached that place, the NGO will remove the soul will not give a person a single second.

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Yeah, so we have to reflect on on this that since there will there will be no way for us to be given respite. That just means you have to be ready for that because when that NGO comes, he knows

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not going to accept to do his job, what is his job to remove the soul and take it back to Allah subhanho wa Taala call it

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a cobra, Allah subhanaw taala will cause you to die, human beings will be dead one day

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if Allah subhanaw taala wish, he will just let you die and be treated like the animals, you know the animals when they die, they leave them when they smell, then somebody will be disturbed by the smell, we take them and put them in the garbage place. Right put them in the garbage please or take them away from the people. You know, they have to throw the they have to go through this process for us. Usually this is what happened. Imagine the human beings being treated in this way.

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You know, there's a big peak of this respect that Allah subhanaw taala says, well occurred Karim ebene Adam Hamana homefield birdie will bury. What is that gonna homotopy back to football. Now Humala cathedral me man Kalapana

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we honored we respect money, Adam. That's why even some scholars said if you look at the jinns of Bani Adam, the genes we're talking about just human being collectively, they said they are better than the angels because you have amongst them rasool Allah, Ibrahim Ali salaam, those great great great humans, a competition between is between the angels and and the human beings. So you have some scholars who told you that based on this higher human beings are given preference over the angels as well.

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The correct answer is Allahu Allah. Right, Acharya answer is Allahu Allahu Allah, but the competition is not between human beings and the genes or between the human beings and the animals, human beings generally, you know, generally they are, they are better than, than the genes. That's in general, if you go to the specific frequency, if you go to the specific answer, the preference and the selection, who is the best human means for the gene? Learn? Yeah, it treats each and every one of them individually, separately, you have gins who are very dedicated and righteous and you have human beings who are very dedicated righteous, you have genes who are shouting and devils you

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know, that's part of their nature and you have human beings worshipping and devils you know as taken I mean, somebody who's taking that nature from the patriarchy good idea so Karim Napanee Adam one of the current that allows for her to like give but he Adam is that when they die they are supposed to be to be buried

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so Allah when he said he took it we'll see a place where the scholars of Fatah saying that if somebody died and you happen to see his nails been long Yeah, and then you catch them because in Islam it is part of the fitrah we we trim, we cut up the leaves. So handle I cut my so the

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incident one not give this example.

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So they you cut the nails because they are quite long, you know?

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And is it okay for us to do it? By the way? No, it's not the Sunnah of the Prophet, Allah. So mine is to is to catch them and to trim them at least once in a week. And if a person let them looks like the first one, then he's imitating the kofod you can only tell him he is singing if he reaches that, that level. It doesn't look also nicer person to do it, although we do from time to time. So when we catch the nails of,

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of a person who died, folk AHA said when you are burying him,

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you put those nails in the nose.

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Yeah, so that he will go back to Allah subhanaw taala and the way he died, although some scholars said no, there is no point of putting them because if he's alive was it through the movies, when he dies, also, you can just throw them away. And I just want you to understand to what extent the scholars have went, you know, it said you have to put whatever you took from him you have to put that's why it is haram to go for the autopsy. or less if the government needed. And they do it with the permission of the family. Yeah, the government need it. It has to be from the government side. You as an individual cannot go for it. It has to be from the authority that's been that is a big

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Musleh in knowing the cause of the death of this person, then they go for it. And they have to also ask the family members if the family agree, then they go for that. And the doctors must make sure that they pack every single flesh which they cut from that person and put it back to the

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they have to get everything they shouldn't miss anything there is nothing to be thrown away. They have to pack every single thing we took from him and go and put it in the in the coffin and put that person in the in the crate and according to this I also

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Are many of the scholars if not the scholars, all of the scholars in the past and most of the scholars in the contemporary time they reject the the we're CEO of a person who says if I die take my body and give it to the hospital for educational purpose you know the medical, the student of medicine, they go for this tertiary they call it right they go they learn through the body of the human beings you cannot do that with the Muslim is strictly prohibited when he asked us call us why it will tell you to mathematical facts can borrow. That's why it's why the proponent has to put him in the grid and bury him. So, we cannot go for His mercy if he says take me and put me in this place

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we are not supposed to execute this was here this is one of those here that cannot be executed we just apologize to him and do that which is right on his behalf right hola Sinatra says from a car for me most in Jennifer our f1 the f1 is one of the mean this was here is one of the issues that allows Motorola is is talking about

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so please do take this because nowadays you know Muslims are becoming lighter lighter lighter as one of the scholars said human beings becames like sheep and goats.

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Okay, those of you who did dakika when you slaughter the sheep, what do you do with the meat you can then distribute it to friends and neighbors you know and give people right yeah, he says nowadays human beings also attorney into this because when he dies he told somebody please take my eye that is somebody who needed give it to him my kidneys should go to this person this this this and that he says what is this you know?

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Yeah, and then they'll bring the bizarre you know, they go to the doctor or psychologist will come on put the knife and cut this part and send it to this person you know, because they can utilize it. In in the future. This is strictly prohibited. Yeah, we cannot execute this Hosea, even if he said, We ask Allah to forgive him because this is the simple act. First of all, the body is not mine is not yours is Allah is Allah. Allah has property. And as such, since the body is Allah's property, we need to take permission from him. You know, we need to take from permission from the owner for us to do what somebody is asking us to do, which we don't have any evidence to support it. Yes, so from

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Mamata HuFa Kabara having graves you know, taking a person in a two degree is a sense of respect that Allah subhanaw taala honor human being with Carla from May Dasha and Shara and then when Allah subhanaw taala wants the time he wants he will bring a person back to to life. This is when the angel is gonna feel will blow into the trumpet right? Sang Sang cackle

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Yeah, he also did another thing.

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You brought a blow into the trumpet and then life will come back again. As a last word Taylor says from maloca coffee okra VEDA, home Pearman, young rune. So we will blow in the trumpet once again. And then people will come back to to life. So Allah you can see how Allah spent is summarizing the life of human beings in a very brief way, and this Zulia and then people will come back to Alaska Rotella for what accountability call from me Dasha and Shara Calella, Maya Cohiba Amara, the last Muhammad Allah says, according to an interpretation, he says a person will live in this time until the time the angel of death will come and take your soul. But unfortunately, he did not finish that

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which Allah subhanaw taala commanded him to do.

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So you will reach you will reach the death. But you haven't completed that which Allah smart will ask you to.

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That's why most good Muslim and a smart Muslim is a person who doesn't have time to to waste. Yeah. Because you will be going back to Allah subhanaw taala before you finish what you are told.

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So when do you have time to waste and it doesn't mean that you shouldn't rest? No, you should relax but do things which are beneficial for you either benefiting your dunya or benefiting you?

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And what's wrong with making your dunya as an act of worship? Is it possible for us to do that? Yes. So the smart person is somebody who turns his duniya activities, you know, into an act of worship. Yeah, he enjoys his life but he has good intention to please Allah subhanho wa taala. In the end he will be rewarded by Allah subhanaw taala for everything he does in this life, even if it is the dunya engineer matter.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says from either Asha and Shara Calella, Maya Colima Amara

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fairly young vooral Insano iLab IB analysis

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Rabanal Maha Sabha, Allah subhanaw taala after talking about those blessings, which which are so great, they are more than enough to convince a person, you know to come back to Allah subhanaw taala and worship Him alone. Allah subhanaw taala says a young woman in Santa Ynez army. Why can't you look at your food? The food that I lost my hotel has given you how much you pay for this food to be produced for you.

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Don't look at the journey, the money you are buying a wine walleye this is nothing imagined there is no rice, there is no wheat, there is no any of these things that we are eating, they don't exist. How much do you think you can pay for it to be produced?

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If everything and who can do that nobody.

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Nobody have one person who can produce rice. I mean, create rice, not grown rice, but create rice. That was no rice before the noun he made it from nothing, it does exist who can do this.

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So if you just look at the food that Allah has given you, it's more than enough to convince you that Allah subhanaw taala is the only one you should be worshiping with the associated partner with

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can you get the food and you eat it? If Allah refused to take it out of you, how much should you pay to get it out?

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Everything you will never understand this until the time you know, I mean until the time you meet somebody who's been deprived from using the toilet and the bathroom. Or like they can tell you how much they suffer some of them for ages, they have to open some parts of their body for them to be able to release waste in their body. Because not everything is beneficial to you. Allah provided a system that when you take the food, the system will throw away the bad one and we'll keep the good one. You need some place you know, you know it's

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a way you know a path that this bad one will go out and smell like imagine the bad one is going out of you from the place where it came through the mouth. It doesn't look good. You know that you know, a person with vomiting a person is pooping May Allah subhanaw taala. Grant to Karim a person is pain but with with the same place where he's eating.

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You know why it means that Allah smarter did not do that. He makes a big distance between the place where the food goes in and the place where the the food is, is going out the bad one which is turning into medicine. It's a great lesson from Allah subhanaw taala that's why it's called a set this translate the reason why Rasul Allah He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam whenever whenever he goes to the bathroom, if he comes out of it, he says what? No Quranic Yeah, some of them said, why go for Allah, we then go to the Imam and commit sin. That expedition given by the scholars, they said, most likely will love Ireland. It is because of two things are one of the two things number one because

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when he goes to the bathroom, he doesn't remember Allah subhanaw taala in terms of the vikhroli sand, it doesn't do that they kill the lesson. That's like waste of time. So he's saying gufram Okay, Allah forgive me, because I couldn't do anything in the bathroom. Number two, which might be more applicable here is the fact that they said as soon as Allah Azza is looking at the minima that Allah has given him been able to go and remove the one that is not supposed to be inside him, you know, he looked at this NEMA which is so huge. And then he compare this with his attitude towards Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Imagine human being us, you know,

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not like Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam Yes, in a go and do that. And then you come out, look at your estrogen your behavior and look at the nearby that Allah Sportsnet is giving you the food, it gave you the food and the good and the halal and the nice one, the healthy one. And the noun has given you ability to go and remove the one that is not good for you.

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So if you compare it with your attitude, committing sin day or night, you know, being negligent in your culture, in the prayer, being negligent in so many things that Allah smart will ask you to do, then you will understand why do you say go frolic?

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And whenever I talk about this matter, I remember the statement of that scholar who told the king and the king told him chef, please advise me. So that's called a look at the

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the front of the king. He was sitting on his throne. And then there was a cup of water on the table. So he saw that glass of water. So he told him so if you don't have half of this water, how much should you pay to get to get it? Half of this cup? You're looking for it and you need to drink in order to survive. How much should you pay to get it? He said I will pay half of my Kindle

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and then the chef told him okay, it's a what if when you take it, Allah has power that does not leave

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Let it go out of you.

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How much should you pay? In the past we are told that some of the government's in the past, inshallah they don't exist nowadays, when they want to punish a person, they stop him from drinking water

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for a couple of days until the time he he perceives death. And then they will give him a lot of water, they know he's going to drink, drink, drink, drink, drink thing, and then they block his organ from passing the urine. And when they didn't come, see cannot urinate, you know. So after a few days, they you really will turn into a poison and kill the person. So Allah this is what is with us. So that, you know, we don't like to hear these stories. But when it comes to us, in the way it came, we benefit from them to remember how much Allah is blessing you by letting you pass in this urine from from you. Which if it is to stay in you, it might turn into poison that might lead you to

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Get insha Allah so that mantle the king. It said if you drink the water,

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but then you couldn't take it out by yourself. How much would you pay to get it out? He said, I will pay the other half of my kingdom

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Subhanallah the whole kingdom finish in a cup of water. So the man told him that he wanted orlimar you know, the mantra of him is it's in the miracle lifestyle we call Rama Hari Yun and use a healthy he said sir, a kingdom that is not even equal to a cup of water is a definitely is a kingdom that somebody shouldn't fight for it.

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Nowadays, we kill each other, you know, somebody says we will eliminate anyone who stands on our way to reach that currency, you know, that office. And as well like many places they do. In many places when election comes you should anticipate people

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because people who lost consciousness and lost the sense of accountability when they meet Allah subhanaw taala looking for the leadership. Because if you know what is there, it will never agree to become a leader may Allah subhanaw taala grant our leaders success and help them to do that which is right so that the ummah will succeed in this life and, and the hereafter. So Allah subhanaw taala says for young guru in some autonomy,

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he should look at the food and appreciate what Allah subhanaw taala is giving me one of the easiest, you know things to be done, when you are appreciating what Allah subhanaw taala gave you of food is to say Bismillah when, when it do not forget that, say Bismillah when you eat, and also when you drink, say Bismillah and when you eat, sit down and eat is part of appreciating the name of from Allah subhanaw taala. Although nowadays we see it as simple matters. Subhan Allah The question is, if you cannot do the simple matters, when do you expect yourself to be able to do the big matters? That's why we're not able to do the big matters because even this one we belittled. Yeah, don't

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worry about what people are saying, sit down. Nowadays, we take an attitude, which is not supposed to be our behavior. You know, we're so arrogant in many, many, many instances, which is Wallahi wrong for us to live like that. When I go to the restaurant, you know, I eat food.

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My friend might be annoyed if he sees me the way I eat.

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What is this? We still have food if you want more? I tell him Yes. I have to finish this one first. What do I mean by that? I tried to finish every single drop of rice that I pick from that place. Do you know that with no exaggeration that that grain of rice that you're leaving on the plate or you throw it away? There are some people out there who cannot find this this one to eat oximeter Allah there are some people who cannot find this one. You know the water drink simple. What are you drinking? There are some people who cannot find this one. They have to travel long distance, or otherwise they have to stay and drink water which is used by dogs and donkeys.

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That's the only thing they have. And you have all the blessings. And that's why when we go to the canteen, we have to remember this. This is near me the money you have is not useless. It's something that has value.

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Yeah, you spend it in the right way and you're going to be questioned about every single cent you spend in the country. You know the, you know the age and the time of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam in the house of Abu hyphema

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after they finished eating and the prophets Allah son was very hungry. He made a boo boo cow so he was hungry he made Omarosa was hungry. Promise Allah so much more than Lesko. Let's go and visit somebody. Maybe he will understand our case. You know, the visit. The visit Abu Haifa Haifa was not around. The wife told him, told them that he went out yesterday. Bula Elma, he went to look for fresh water for us to drink. So

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She wasn't she wasn't happy that he missed it. And then suddenly last month I brought him back.

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I mean, the man came back.

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So when when he came back, he's also less alive. So he was extremely happy. He said, rasool Allah in my house, you know, and who was a company of a worker? No, he was extremely happy. Immediately he picked up knife. He went inside the house. As soon as Allah someone told him, please wait, wait, wait.

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Please be moderate. He knows where he's going to. Yeah, because they're hungry. So he's going to provide them food. They will not tell him please don't slaughter anything, right? Yeah, they need the food. So he told them please, small one also is enough for us. So he went into the house, he thought a sheep immediately and he brought them a tomato, nice and fresh water. And then

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they started after they finish and they enjoy their meal. The prompts Allah someone told them. This one, you're going to be questioned about this on video abridgement?

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That's Rasul Allah always attach the dunya with the with the so that people will not forget Allah smart Allah, He told them this food that you're eating, you will be questioned about about that, on the Day of Judgment, the way you eat. What you say when you're eating, how you eat, you know what you left in that phase, you will be questioned by Allah subhanaw taala you have to explain to Allah subhanaw taala Why did you neglect that food and throw it away? That's what we call it. So when you go to the canteen you have no excuse my dear brothers and sisters. We see a lot of waste when we go to the canteen. No, do not take more than what you need.

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Take what you believe you can finish it from A to Z. If you take rice, take the last grain of

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what next put your hand on this form that

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you're going to get soup and drink it.

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Yeah is the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah is similar to remove that lick the hand you know after you finish eating, you have to live a single fader. One of the wisdom behind that because the baraka in food, sometimes Allah subhanaw taala keeps it in the last part of the food. The one you neglect is the one that Allah put Velcade, so you can throw it away. Luckily, there is a dog or there is some somebody's take it otherwise it will change in color, and they have to throw it away in in the garbage place. So please do understand how to appreciate the name of Allah subhanaw taala. As I said, take what you can finish. Yeah, take what you can fish. Well, those of you who are married,

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teach your family who are cooking at home. And this is true, because the wife usually sometimes she wants to please the husband and she's afraid of making something deficient. And at the end of the day, the food is literal and the husband is going to get angry and act like a monster. Yeah, so the husband should talk about this and tell them please cook. In the way we will look for more I'm really serious on this tell your family always Does she cook in the way we will look for more

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together do you not? I mean, yeah, not in the way you eat until the time you don't feel like eating, even like to see it that's actually unhealthy. So train them to cook something moderately in a way you've finished it and everyone will be looking for more Is there anymore? No, we don't have. Yeah, that's why next time also when they do it, you will find it interesting, yet so I have this system. So when the food comes to you say Bismillah before you eat, and when you are eating, eat that which is in front of you. And also finish everything, don't leave anything and teach also the children because usually children when they eat, they left in front of them, the balance of the food, bring

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and explain to them why it is necessary for us to eat the whole thing and talk to them in this way that this is the broker and the broker might be in the last one you are leaving, you will see the kids jump into to fight each other in terms of who will eat the last balance of of the food either need to fight them and you don't need to impose your your opinion on them. Just tell them that so let's Allah someone said the burqa might be in the last in the last one. They respect rasool Allah sama and as such they will do it after you finish eating. It is part of appreciating that which Allah subhanaw taala does is to say what Alhamdulillah you get it to say Alhamdulillah Allah swatter

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loves to see a person saying Bismillah when he eats and saying Alhamdulillah when he when he finished so please do understand the simple concept we call it but they are they're very valuable. Okay. Is it good to say this thing is simple and small no is not. There is nothing called small thing when it comes to the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. Imam Malik somebody asked him

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about something and he called the things small sunnah.

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Small knowledge or something that is more so Mr. Malik said no, there is nothing small when it comes to the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah. So when Ursula Zuma said sit, please let Allah subhanaw taala see a very dedicated and obedient Muslim sit down on it. And you know, they said scientifically also is not good for your health when you drink or eat while standing. Although this is our attitude and Subhanallah we see it amongst the students of knowledge and if I'm to exaggerate, we see it amongst those people who are inviting others to the lectures and and the Islamic programs but you see the organizers also mashallah drinking eating well standing they are supposed to be acting as an example

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but unfortunately they don't do May Allah subhanaw taala fix all of us so sitting down while eating and also using the right hand also this is one of the things I forgot using the right many of us when we eat we eat with the left sometimes and we drink with the with the left sometimes right you can combine both right you can combine both and tell the the those people who are making what do you call that thing that will burger? Yeah, tell them when they make it please make it small. Because sometimes they see that the finger I will be asking the person who is eating? Yeah, he which mouth you have I see your mouth very small, but the burger is like you need the mouth to reach.

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For sure he has to hold with both hands. That one is okay. The problem is to hold with with the left hand this one is is wrong Islamically. And the same goes to drinking water. If you have a cup of tea, can I borrow anything? Yeah, if you have a cup, you just have to hold it like this. It doesn't matter. Johan is dead dirty or not dirty. You know? I always say I don't understand. Why do we value value the cup

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and we don't value our hand. I put my hand and I eat and make it messy. That is okay. But when it comes to my cup, no, no, no, I don't want to touch the cup. You know which one's more valuable. You're handled the cup. And also if you're eating in the restaurant, whether you touch it or even touch it the moment they bring the cup to you they are going to wash it before they present it to others. Why contagious use the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and get the reward. You know, the moment you use it, even if you didn't touch it, as long as it is with you. They're they're going to wash it first before they present it to to somebody else is that this seems to be

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simple, but they have a lot of value since the promise the last time I said we do. We shouldn't change the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah so because of our own behavior. It should always be conscious when you're holding things you know, when you're receiving things when a given things when you're drinking, you know or eating you should always be conscious and use your your right hand, not the left hand. And also we have here right that's why the Sunnah of the Prophet sallahu Lisanna when you eat how do you eat like my friend? Yes, isn't like so I saw somebody

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you know, eating rice like this, like this?

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Yeah, so that one, just hold catching you as much as he can. So Subhanallah this one, I don't know how to advise him because I was going to say, if you want to drink water and you don't want to touch the cup, usually if you eat according to the Sunnah, you're using three fingers, right? Yeah, isn't three fingers if you eat with the three fingers, a little rice will be very difficult. Okay, useful or ever use, but this part is empty. Right? So when you take the cup, put it here

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the good idea and then drink. But my friend has all of the hand is is already occupied by

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that one maybe we tell him to put if he doesn't put his your son in sight, right? To make sure that he maximize the benefit anyway.

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So what do we do some of them and this one is a new invention I new technology that I remember I saw recently from some people, they put it on the left and they make connection with the right.

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Yeah, I saw somebody drinking like that. A couple couple of people. They connect they put it on the left and they connect. Yeah.

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So if you want to do the connection, it should be on the right. And then you can support with the left.

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But the Senate should be with with the right. As I said this seems to be very simple but following the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam for him. Cairo Kulu you Allah, every good is in following the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. So Allah says for young vooral insanity that army and suburban Allah Azza Allah's wants to talk to us about the way that the rain is coming. He says sub llama saba.

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How is the last one to bring in the rain, as he pointed

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exactly when she cried

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For the mercy if that happened

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if that happened, what will happen to our farms? If the water is the farm will be destroyed, houses will be destroyed, that allows one to send it but

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why? So that we can survive because when the water comes alas Martin says and NASA we're gonna sub from my Chaka Khan or the chakra

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water will come hit the Earth go inside smoothly, and then that fragile thing which is so soft, so Hanalei. Trust me, some of them if you blow so much, you break it.

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But imagine this thing which is so fragile, has the ability given to it by Allah subhanaw taala to open the earth and comes out.

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So Allah subhanaw taala say from a chakra or the chakra, partner here,

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and we grow all types of food and have this added seat. The brains

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why never what designer?

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craves, right, this is known kind of Amberton fer habba who I never were kabbah conda the scholar said, then most of the interpretations that I have, all of it

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will have will come is the

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the foods you give you animals so Allah subhanaw taala that's why and then he says metallicum wali Anamika which is the food for you and and your animals.

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Were in heaven. We're cabal was a tune in one o'clock what is a tool? The olives, right? Was a tool and one o'clock what is nothing? The timer right?

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The date, we're had a whole bar and Allah Samantha says, because of that rain Allah subhanho wa Taala a grow for your headache, the gardens, which has trees that are thick, I mean, so many trees in the place. Very beautiful to see what had what had an eco Holbert or FatCat and guava and we also grow for your fat cat what it's like yeah, fruit, right? What ABA, but it's ABA is also alafair is the thing that animals are eating. That's the closest interpretation for it. And believe it or bad says a frog can still fall into our food. And ABA is referring to the food of our animals. They ask Abubakar about

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what did he say? He says which which summer can cover me and which Earth can be able to accommodate me if I give fatwa in the book of Allah subhanaw taala having the knowledge nowadays for twice free of charge you everyone is willing to be the one who will be given the photo el Billa ColorFabb Catton metallicum wali and Allah, Allah subhanaw taala says you should take it as a blessing from Allah subhanaw taala for you and and you and you're unhappy and now means your animals right so Allah smarter give us all of these as a blessing for us and our and our animals.

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After all of this, Allah subhanaw taala says for either Sahaba

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when the Sahaba what is the HA? And never how to offend you.

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Okay, the blowing the second blowing in the trumpet. Okay, the first one, everyone will die. So the second one is this.

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In some cases, the last one, I call it bomb right? In the previous word. So here he says

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is the font size, right? Because it's it's a shout.

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When it comes life, we'll come back to

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it, it came live went off and Allah will bring it and then everyone will.

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Allah subhanaw taala says Yo man, or woman

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and this one really, really really need us to pay attention to

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the last one said is crave the enough and the day of judgment with a Saha and Palmer to cobra. And he says on that day, your federal Moomin Fe

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a person will be running away from his brother.

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The most important person in the family is

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who is the most important presently in terms of support and Senate and help.

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that's why it shouldn't mess up your life with your siblings should be patient. Ally sometimes you will reach a critical situation whereby you will be neglected by everyone in the family. But your brother will not your sister will not.

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And I'm not saying they're more connected to you than your parent. But I'm talking about in terms of somebody who can sacrifice everything parent did you know let's let let us take them out and make the competition between husband wife

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and children and siblings

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who will take the lead siblings?

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That's why don't you ever compromise your relationship with your siblings because of anyone. If I, in most instances, kids are looking for the parent, you know to kill, they will look into that death, especially when they are rich. Usually siblings are not like that they stand with you in the state of difficulty and prosperity, hardship and prosperity they always

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get it. That's why we have this joke in Arabic language. They said, if you are sick

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should I complete? Yeah, they said if you are sick, and this the pain is very strong, what do you say? Usually the sound that you're producing is what?

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Did you ever see somebody says even

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that says okay, they wanted to tell you that that's how important is your brother, even in the hardship you remember him first before anybody else. And I don't think anyone is thinking of.

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Anyway, so. So this is the most important Senate you have in your life. So Allah so I'll tell you can see, he started with him, what caused you to stay away from your brother on the I mean, that's that should be something really, really, really great and strong.

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It says a federal monarchy, a person will be running away from his, his brother,

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if he will not communicate with me, he will run away from his mother.

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Imagine something that will make you not wanting to meet your mother. You don't want to meet your your father

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or Sahiba to have any, you will be running away from his wife, she will run away from him and he will run away from her woman he and his children also

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everyone will be running away from from each other.

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So if this is the case, that means today we should apply this right? When they ask you and they advise you and they approach you in terms of the mousey you should run away from them. Because on the Day of Judgment, none of them will be willing to benefit. Rasul Allah He said, Allah Allah alayhi wa sallam said, the person will meet his wife. And then he will talk he will tell her, do you recognize me? She will say yes, you're my dear husband to this and that she will praise Him. And then the man will tell her please, I'm in a situation I just need one rewards, please help, please help him after she prays him he will tell her please help me. She will say I'm very sorry.

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As you heard me saying that you are the best person I met, but am also in the same situation. I cannot benefit you. I'm very sorry. And then surely, that was why for us, the husband also like that. And there we go. Nobody will be willing to help you on the Day of Judgment, actually, they will be running away from

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your father doesn't want you to raise a case against him on the day of judgment, because he might he might be doing something which is against the law of Allah Sparta when he's given Tobia of you. His negligence was the thing that puts you into this problem. For sure, he knows that when you eat the last party, you're going to open that case, okay. That's why this caller said you should be very careful. And you Allah, this is right. Because your daughter, your son, might be the reason why you will.

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I mean, a person will go to help or less who's going to agenda will be delayed. Because all of those one the children who are happy, you know, when when you give them what they want, although it is against Allah subhanaw taala. Tomorrow, they will become your rivals. They will fight in front of Allah smarter looking for the right. They don't care about the connection between you and them. Last mortis is where to cut that to him. Unless

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those connections in the lineage and the links, they're going to disappear. And

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everyone's going to be looking for his right. So therefore, don't worry, when giving the Tobia to somebody who's under your custody, you shouldn't care about what people are going to say. Make sure you're doing the right thing. Good idea. And don't you ever say that No. They much they grow now I want them to have the freedom No, there are there are matters and situations whereby this freedom doesn't exist. You need to think for them. If you let them think for for themselves, they will go astray. And Allah subhanaw taala will ask you about that. What was your responsibility? You know, what was your role in what did you do to protect them from doing what Allah subhanaw taala hate. So

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be very careful when you migrate with your with your family. You put them in an environment which is contaminated with Allah He is a great musalia And you're responsible for anything that happened to children.

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You know, anything that happened to children while they're still in that phase, you are responsible in your house, even if you don't go to any country, when you bring something that is an Islamic and your kids and your family, they get familiar with it and they go against Allah, you are responsible, you cannot leave them with their consciousness you have to supervise whatever you brought. That's why to bring something that is haram to the family, this is absolutely haram Islamically you can you must make sure that whatever you introduce to the family is halal.

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Whether they like it or they like it, you know, sometimes they propose haram things explained to them I am against harshness, you know, to the kids, although we do in our home all the time.

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We do in our home all the time. But unfortunately, this is wrong.

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It used to be like that until the time we learned that from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu. Some of this is wrong. There was a time we started to see change in the in the family, let your kids believe. And this is my advice to all of you those who are married or who are not. Make sure that when you have children, make them believe that you are the best friend for them. And they have nobody in this life more than you. Trust me, my neighbor says this, If you reach this position, you can sleep without thinking about it. You can say oximetry last somebody was lying, who told you that your child did something wrong, because you gave them strong resistance in the way the fish of Allah

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first and foremost, and they will never agree to do something even in your absent which you, you detest. This is what that told me of Muhammad salallahu Alaihe Salam produce, when you love your kids, you know, they call it attributable

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to good idea, there is always a better way to say

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what you believe to be the correct word.

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I come to the child. I wish I can shout, you know, my son or my daughter? And then I shout,

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go, you know, oh boy, I shouted at him. Go and get me cup of water.

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If I'm not the father, they will tell me, you could have just say, Can I have a cup of water?

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Imagine this friendly, you know, at home, sometimes I don't do this. I don't even ask for water. I would just announce who is looking for reward that everyone what is it? Then how come I did not see a cup of water in front of me until now.

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That is a very simple, you know, they take it as funny and they love it. But this is how it is. That's why my what I learned from this is that when I get angry, everyone will get relaxed in the house and are receiving including the lowest one who can talk will come and tell me that is anything wrong. I said no. Do we do something wrong? No.

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Why did they come and before they weren't doing that when you're taking that target, which is so harsh, nobody cares, you're angry, you're sad, because they already know that they're in trouble and they're going to get beaten to get there. But now what changes? Because they don't want to mess up that good relationship which they enjoy between you and them. Like this is not from us. This is the manager of Rasulullah sallallahu interlayer that's what Celeste Allah says to do never raise up his hand to hit a child.

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Never, never. How did he succeed? And why can't we do the same thing to attain the same success as well as Allah Allah is Allah God, as I told you, practically, this is what I found to be the best solution to the what he call obstacles we're living in the kind of environment we live in nowadays. Yeah, make your kids be the best friend of yours. And that will help them insha Allah to take your statement very seriously. Even in your absence, they will do what you want without violating any of the laws and try your best to link them with Allah subhanaw taala in the way they fear him more than the way they fear your your punishment. So as I said Be very careful. There is a heavy Masoli on the

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Day of Judgment. You might be I mean your daughter, your wife, your husband, your parents, one of these one will be the reason why your Janna will be will be delayed. So what is the solution? Do that which is right in your relationship with with them, live with them, but that kind of relationship should be correct. When they ask you to go against Allah for last summer well at

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your parent tells you do something which is wrong, apologize to them but in a nice way. But just tell them I cut whatever they're going to do do not do because this is the right of Allah subhanaw taala both you and them are supposed to adhere to the laws of Alaska hotel without violating any anyone. So Allah subhanaw taala says liquid Lemare minimum yo made in shed New York only everyone on the Day of Judgment has some

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Think that will make him busy. Everyone is busy with his own affairs.

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Is that clear? So please do have the reflection of this in this life. This life is a small wedeco example of the Day of Judgment you have syrup and it says even syrup also exists in this life with all the obstacles you have in this era. This is represented by what the obstacles you're having in this life and the Shiva that you have. If you manage to pass the even Allah has ordered on the Day of Judgment also you pass the test Insha Allah, Allah Licola marry me mean homeodomain inshallah yovani would you want to make the most fair vote he could almost have Sherif salah, sweltering Jelani El Camino, some of the faces there will be mascara mascara means bright shining, but he could

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and there are a lot laughing most of them shut up. Because you can if you see somebody laughing

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What is that? Laughing usually comes out of happiness or sadness. Happiness. Nobody laughs when he said

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But do they smile when they sad? Yes, even your kids when you smile they know that they smile is there's no good editor.

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They are upset.

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He says a DeRuyter meuble was the body certain financial the non acid AF Tassimo. You see the teeth you know and the kingdoms of the lion expose to you is you happy this is fun, right? Yeah.

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That's why last mountain essays for Tibet Summit. Bahia coming Kalia.

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Because a troublesome could be based on Sun Amin anger. That's why Kavita Malik when he came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam. He says what? For cannabis? edibles, Sama, terrible smell McGriddle it I saw him smiling the smile of a person who is really angry.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says some faces on the Day of Judgment. They will be smiling or laughing. Laughing That's when they are made happy by Allah subhanho wa Taala May Allah make all of us among those, those words? It says what hematomas tashera What would you you know yo Madan Alejandra. And you'll see the sign the sign of sadness on other faces, you know,

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you know they have all kinds of worry is at all darkness does the Katara that Allah smarter sister

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no matter how much white and bright the person Allah swatter will turn his face into this state of darkness on the day of judgment and as a sign of what the sign of evil waiting for that person on a meet alas.

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There are some people who turn into this right on of the MaHA definian Medina he said that he visited one of the Shia is during his death. He said he knew him before that. Allah says you can't believe the way the freeze turned into before he passed away. And he kept on mentioning the name of Ebola. Ebola. You know they hate Ebola so much Ebola after Abu Bakr and Omar and man I think the next one maybe is Ebola and again I

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hate him so much. However, his problem is he narrated the Hadith that Abu Talib is going to help did not accept this lab.

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They said he was lying. So he kept on mentioning the name of Ebola until death.

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Only Allah knows what he's facing and he's gonna come and see his face the way it hurts.

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Carla Waikato Muslim Shira or junio, made in Alejandra Bharata Uttara, hula ecohome will Caprara to attach. These are the kuffaar and the wrongdoers those who went against the law of loss which

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Allah smart Allah grant is terrific and good sense of reflection to reflect upon this day in this light before we meet last Walton on the Day of Judgment. Okay, I guess this is the best place to stop. Alaska hotel I wish next week we'll come to Serato attack with the last one to grant us good. Coffee comes from Ali Abdullah.

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Yes, there is

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the girl she received more mercy, more soft.

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more lenient, you know, you should be lenient with both of them. But if you are to make preference you should be with the goal more than the boy because naturally they are not the same. Talk to your son, talk to your daughter in the same thing. You're blaming them, blame them separately. Don't blame them altogether, otherwise that she will act like but bring those up precipitously. Trust me in most instances before you finish blaming her she might cry. And this guy is gangsta just waiting for you to finish

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Good idea, they will not have the same feeling so emotionally, they're, they're different. So if you are to be lenient, you should be lenient with them. The god that's why I said you don't make jokes with the girls in the way you were dealing with the boys. Cuz she might not understand and she might think you either see this and this is very natural and very okay. That's where you have to understand what kind of joke you make with this one kind of document. But this was where you will not break a feeling. Sometimes your boy comes and he feels and you talk to him in front of everyone in the house, and he smiles and he takes it very, okay, you know, you do that with your daughter,

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she might shed tears and it really goes to the heart. You need to go and sit with her and tell her please I apologize. I wasn't serious in what I said. So that's why the first place you should understand the nature of each and every one of them. You should show them mercy all of them but the there's the girl side should receive. That's where the prophets Allah Allah Silva said If Allah bless you with two daughters, and you educate them and you are soft and gentle with them, they will become your protection against health. They will protect you from from the from the * yeah. And when the prophets Allah sama was on a journey, and they were tired. So he said, Do we have somebody

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who knows how to do an A sheet? Hey, that they call it is that allowed you to do that? Do we have somebody who can do this machine? It seems like we have one who has that handle? And

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so they say the Arcelor this was very good initiative as well as the last time I said okay, come forward and say they need to get some relief here. They said he has a very nice and melodious voice. So he started making the sheet and the way people mashallah they enjoy that and she's not just the people even the camels also started enjoy the camo going like this

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and you have sisters on the camel. You know that small room they put on the cover and then the assessor will go and sit down inside

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so they were there in the demo and then the cannula going in the wrong direction because then she is so I mean good for them. So they they sent somebody to the province a lot Salama, to tell him jasola We are in a situation here.

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So let's Allah Azza wa set away the SOCO care Kochiya yeah and Yasha Rifkin the recovery, it says on the show, please, sir, show mercy to recovery. So he described the sisters with Corey, what is cruel, the glass thick glass which you hit it, it might break completely. So these are all indicators that yes, if you are to make preference who should receive more mercy than the other one, the side of the sister should receive more mercy than and if you look at the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala. From A to Z. The one who received more mercy is the sister not the VA. That's why if we're talking about Islam, if somebody is going to protest who who should protest the man not not

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the sisters? Yeah, whenever you see something good.

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Islam will put the sisters in that place everything difficult, so will be avoided from it. Jihad is no logical point that even going to the masajid Allah azza wa jal says is up to them to go if they want. But the brothers he's not after that they have to go and supporting the family financially, who is supposed to do brothers, a sister can stay and say I don't want to work. And it's up to her to work on a tour. But somebody has to go and do you wish to say I don't want to work and then see how the food will come right? It doesn't work. So everything in Islam that is beautiful, you see mostly sisters are being placed in that and whenever difficulty and hardship comes, the brothers

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have to go for that. So, I will come back again to say that if you are to make preference, the daughter should receive more mercy than than the boy heavy things in the house. It should be done by the boy not that not the girls should lead them maintain that behavior. And that attitude, that shyness, you know, you know, it is not part of the Sharia objective to create a very tough, you know, sister who will go and wrestle with others know, send your child to do all of these heavy duties but not your daughter

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or sister, as Marita

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my daughter is doing medicine. We're in the university. They use their bodies with the permission of the families of the deceased and also the person himself or herself before they died. And they said that they learned a lot and benefited a lot from using the bodies like learning how to stitch and doing different

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different operations and it is not a hedge

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drives, but most of the medicine schools do this. After that they clean up the bodies properly and vary them with respect. How did Islamic medicine scholars after this, suspecting them, and then they respected?

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How was it done in the past?

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I've never wanted this to be in the previous nation, I'm talking about the companions in the towel the the time everyone is being respected. And the scholars said Muslim, we can't do this with

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a Muslim we cannot do this with with him. If a person is forced, there is no any other alternative whereby somebody joined the universities is the only available things that he finds himself and cannot avoid it and he does it. This is something else. But initially, we can we use this? No, we can't. Some scholars said you can use it for with the body of somebody who doesn't have a value in the eyes of Allah, that's a non Muslim. But other scholars said even the non Muslims, they're human beings and Allah smarter says we cause human being to die and we bury, they're supposed also to be buried immediately. To good idea. So that's why they suggest and propose the use of other animals

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that might have the same

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all almost any, something almost similar to what human beings has. And for sure, if we widen their search, I believe they can get some some alternative that are hella as long as we need it allows one to provide out there something that is okay, we just need to expand the research, Inshallah, we will come

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through that which is okay. But as I said, if somebody found himself in the middle of a study, and that's the only available things that he goes great and shall I hope, I hope, Inshallah, he will not get into any trouble. But if he has option, he has to go for that option. Just like in our schools,

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in our schools, the kids are asked to draw living things.

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Whenever there is an option, in every place, a Muslim should choose the other option, not eliminating, when he drew a living thing, he will be included in those who are curious about loss man, what

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is wrong to train them, we have to look for something else. And I guess, in in the,

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in wedeco, in this life, you have many, many other alternatives, you know, rather than going to the curse from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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In the beginning of their childhood list, the mother and the father, basically, for the first few years, the mother should spend the most time and the father should stay away until he becomes obese, correct? No, it is absolutely incorrect. Yeah, both are supposed to be the child, the early age needs the mother more than the Father. So the father should be standing next to the mother, supporting her emotionally with whatever she needs. There are other things that he can do support with it, there are things which he can do. breastfeeding the child, unfortunately, child, you know, the child feel more comfortable staying with her than, than he does, why when the when the child

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comes out, they take him and put him on the chest of who his father, he might run away, you know.

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Somebody told me can I use the hair clip, after the sun comes and shave his head, say I will be lie, you know, that's how we'll never forget him.

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But they take him and put him on the chest of his mother. And usually he keeps quiet.

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Why? Because it reminds him about the environment that he just came from. So that's why his connection with his mother is very strong. She is supposed to maintain this good relationship between her and the child. And the father should stand next to her doing that which he can do, providing the necessities providing the emotional support, spiritual support, whatever he can do, it is provided for her. So that's how they cooperate. So he's deeply deeply involved in his tarbiyah. But everyone is doing according to the requirement at that time, he needs the mother more so she does more than him. But he's not just standing there, you know, doing nothing and saying to her,

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this is your job Shala in the future will take over. Now, even in the future, he will never be able to take over. So they cooperate together. In the future, then the job is being divided into into two, his and hers. She does whatever is within her capacity. And then he does whatever is within his capacity, especially monitoring the child out of the house. But in the house was given an interview both of Yeah, both of them. So that is the one who is doing my job is the is the mother actually because she's with him at the first

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first part of his life. The husband also is there but not in the way she is deeply deeply involved in the tarbiyah and

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also in the future, when he grew, when he grew up in the fall is going to be with him also deeply involved in the tarbiyah. And she's also going to remain in the way she is educating the child, you know, guiding the child, when the child goes out, then the Father will be the one who's supervising him since, in most instances, she might be at home not known what he does outside. So both of them have to cooperate, you know, the father is doing his job, financial support, emotional support, and the wife is doing the physical support to the to the child

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obligation basis.

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So, he said that unless he would resurrect a person and assemble his body, even if the bones and

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the rest of the body has been disintegrated and has become dust, so can this be used as an excuse that if they use the body for

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I know, they shouldn't,

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they shouldn't, because all of those things are Saudi Arabia is happening because Allah made it in that way. We are not supposed to interfere, we're just supposed to execute the command of Allah subhanaw taala. So initially, we then do that, as I said, if somebody goes to study because we need somebody to be an expert in medicine, especially now we need a medical doctor, you know, people will tell me when we do have always claimed that we have a little and we want doctors who are well equipped with the science and also at the same time also the Sharia perspective, so that doctors will not come and contradict the Sharia just because they are doctors because there are some doctors

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who think that they are given exceptions right they do whatever they want because they are doctors and the Sharia philosophy is not like that. We want a doctor who fee Allah subhanaw taala who does the maraca philos Mata and his medicine so that means we want somebody who has Islamic background and also medical background yet so if we don't have a university that provide alternatives concerning this, your child went to the place and his study through this inshallah he will not be wrong be eaten lay as the region. He goes on study until the time Allah Sparta will grant his ability to establish our university then we put it in the way we believe to be the correct one

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because I always believe If Allah doesn't want you to do something, he provides alternative you know, you just have to widen your search insha Allah you will get the correct thing to be to be done inshallah so that's how I address this question and since I've written a lot smarter guarantee good and and your family

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there is a

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How do we understand the following two hottie

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during the first quarter Salah salem said give Sharona with attend karate and robot and

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another he says

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you got to be here in the team.

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Yeah, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he says this is general for everyone.

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Yet we take it as general for everyone.

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The one who died and will be resurrected, you know in the way he died

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the Shaheed now everyone knew about El Moro, Allah, Muhammad Ali, everyone will be resurrected according to the way he died, except in the case of this hadith or rotten, her fatten horrorland he said, the first person that will be given cloth is Ibrahim Malasana. So, if this hadith exists, we give it preference over any other narration that you see the prophets Allah some might be mentioned and that person will be resurrected. I cannot remember the grade of that hadith, but whatever is authentic, we give the preference to the one that says everyone will come make it uncircumcised and the first person to be given the dress, the prophets Allah so Mercedes, Ibrahim Malays

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and then the prophets Allah some will come afterwards. And And for sure, this is something that allows for what Allah is favoring Ibrahim with.

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If we say that there are some people who will be resurrected with a cloth and that was what is the big deal for saying that Ibrahim will be the first person to be to be close to good idea. So that means we can combine between this to say that if Allah give a dress and a close to that person who who died in that

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if Allah subhanaw taala give a close mind switch off. The first thing that Allah is monitor will get will give him is his mind that the kind of clothes that Allah Sparta will let him wear is the clothes that he died with it.

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Do you get the point I'm trying to reach the first person to be dressed as Ibrahim Ali Sara. This person that is mentioned in the Hadith will be resurrected in the cloth where he dies. When Allah Azza wa Taala let him dress he will come in that cloth that

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He dies with not any other cloth. But it doesn't mean that he will be the first person to wear the cloth. He will come out of his grave, make it without having any, any clothes on him. But then when Allah subhanaw taala permits him to wear something to give him the cloth he will be given the last close he died when while we're in the to get idea so we still we combined between the two ahaadeeth Ibrahim will be the first person and then also lice Allah Salam and then the rest of the humankind So a person will come back to Allah subhanaw taala wearing the same clothes where he died

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which you died he died with as the professor lotsa said everyone will be resurrected but Allah subhanaw taala I never met Annie, according to the way he dies, the actions you're doing, you will come back to Allah subhanaw taala doing the same thing. That's why That's why when that person got killed by his camel, when he was making a Hajj the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said do not put perfume on him. Don't cover his face and coffee no Vito me put both Kevin on him. I'm sorry that around that he's he's he was well, he said keep him with those health because he will be resurrected but alas Martella on the Day of Judgment will appear saying the baker Lahoma bake the bacon shake.

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That same way you die you die praying you will come back to the last battle pray you die faster you will come back faster you know reciting Quran you come back like this if somebody died drinking wine committing Zina they will come back in the same way they will they will die

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in the masjid when we enter some the some nurses they have the time and telephone. So that's let's say there's one minute left we don't have time to hit a masjid or medicine before the

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so in that case, what should we do? Should we just stand wait for the farmer or should we still pray? We pray when you get into the masjid the best is to pray even though we will miss it.

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But he said the prayer is not it doesn't begin there tried with

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time this is one minute until they have

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finished. Just touch.

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Just that pray

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and you start praying you just Allahu Akbar. And then the man says Allah Akbar, Allahu Akbar.

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This year salaam Ali.

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And during the prayer, you got the reward of the beginning until the time you stop.

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They get

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you is better than just hanging around standing waiting for them. Start the prayer. If they're having start making their karma, he just stopped the prayer and joined us off.

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Does some scholar said you don't need to give the sizzling just cut a fan and join the Club. And some of them said since the prophets Allah Azza wa said prayer should begin with technically haram and should end with

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sin then it's better for you to say the salam

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Allah Allah this is the clauses opinion when you are cutting off the prayer Jessie assalamualaikum Alaikum salaam

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salaam by the time I see justice Allah Allah

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as it

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thank you very much.

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