A Guide For New Muslims
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We don't just eat anything that we used to eat. No.
We become more selective in our food.
At least to make sure that the food that we eat is Hello number one.
Before we are Muslim, we don't bother about that. The halaal logo have no value.
And if would be like to just go in and enjoy the food, but when you are Muslim now, you are guided. You can still eat, but make sure at least is Hello.
Even chocolate that we want to eat in this country is easier because they got a Halloween logo printed. Yeah. But when you go overseas, the situation is not the same anymore. You go to Japan you go to undercut sometime they don't put the logo Why? Maybe because there is no Muslim authority there.
And they don't feel the need to put
so what you can do it you can check the ingredients. When there is no halaal logo, and you still want to eat that kind of food. You just read the ingredient.
If the content is clear,
don't have any haram
subs substance then you can consume it.
But you may come across certain ingredient. They don't put the name. They put here code
numbers.
Maybe it's a secret recipe.
But in certain country like you go to Australia, even go to the pharmacy to buy all the vitamins. Sometimes they don't even have the halaal logo and they don't put for vegetarian. If they put vegetarian. You can no problem.
But when there's no vegetarian words there
we do not know what kind of thing that they use for the capsule example.
gelatin, what type of gelatin they use. We also do not know they've got halal and haram gelatin. So it is nice to check. If you have doubt, Islam always sit down my URI buka Illa mala URI book, Islam has a very unique way of guiding us where you come across erfoud that you are not sure halau or
Hara then abandon it. Stay away
is safer.
safer for us and for our faith. Because we don't want people to laugh at you see, these people say this Haram is haram and they're taking all the Haram thing.
Without we're realizing we don't make people laugh at us.
Talk about us that we are just staying away from me the poor, but in reality other thing we consumers
example.
So you must read the ingredient. If you have some doubts, like in Australia, what we will do we'll bring this product to the counter to the pharmacies and ask them is this vegetarian or halala for the Muslim to consume this supplement this vitamin example
they may not know to know what is good in that country. They got a telephone number of the company
that you can
call them and check with them.
And they are very honest people people who do business normally they should be honest, honesty is the best policy
and we believe in that people will do business with a long term plan. They always want to make sure that they do not lie or cheat their customer.
Do you have the right to us? After you are they inform you is Hello but only they don't get the Hala logo is because sometimes to get halaal logo you need to apply and at times.
So that logo actually is not very important for people
Have understanding you just read one is clear clear, one is not clear stay away and you can check
the chocolate example Cadbury chocolate, here you have Hala logo because the authority know that the public is going to consume and the Muslim also will also consume it. So, they just want to make sure they go to the factory, they will talk to them and then they allow them to check whatever thing that they use even the worker Muslim. So, one day I show that is Hello. Then they give you the logo so everybody can eat. But the one in the West in Japan example male even milk sometimes a content certain thing that is not allowed for Muslim. I do not know when I was in Japan, I just go in buy milk what how can you think milk have something haram? Then we have a Japanese Muslim. They said to
me, she said this one we can take white male
but this male have some haram content.
The same goat and break
some bread they use haram to them, it's not haram to them because they can eat to us.
like chocolate in the well something they put liquor, wine, you don't feel
drunk when you eat chocolate, but they just want that flavor. So we can take it anymore. So it's important, the difference between a Muslim wherever they go, they have their own characteristics. They have their own identity, that make them become very close to God.
Because they are very conscious in what they do. They are very careful.
They are very selective. They eat the right food. They drink the right thing. And they speak the right word.
Even as Muslim when you want to talk.
No anybody have to communicate with somebody had to talk.
But we do not just say anything we want to say. The Prophet said, Montana you mean Bella Yamanaka, Talia, Paula Kira, our Lea Yes.
Whoever said they believe in Allah and the Day of Judgment, we allow or judge us fairly. We allow we'll look into all the disks that we have done in this world, to reward us or to pass or the judgment, then the prophecy, if you want to say anything, when you want to speak make sure that what you say is good. If not silent, is better.
You see the difference? When you are a believer, when you want to say something you are guided? You don't just say anything you say? What's the point of saying something that will hurt other people? Why is the point to lie? When people know that you're lying? And people don't respect you anymore?
It's not good. This is the sin of the tongue. Our Prophet one day did say EBU people who believe in Allah Promise me that you can save that what is between your two lips?
Yeah. And what is in between your two legs? I promise you, paradise from Allah.
What is between the two lips?
The tongue
or the tongue is very powerful.
Is it a man or the organ the tongue have no bones.
boneless
body very soft, but very, very powerful, dangerous.
And what is between your two legs is your private but if you can take care of these two paths, control and you always look after this to area.
The Prophet said, I promise you from Allah that you will go to Paradise.
Which one is more easier to protect?
The one that is easier to protect is what is in
You're too late.
But the tongue is very, very difficult.
You can stop eating, fasting, man, stop drinking. But what the stop talking is very difficult.
Because it is our nature we like to talk.
Normally the men will talk more before they got married with the woman.
After marriage, the woman will talk more, and the men will listen more. There's a change, you can see the changes before marriage, the mental dotato the woman is shy, they just listen this and this and this all the time. They don't know what to say. But after married, the thing change, the men have nothing to talk anymore. They have talked a lot before married. Now it's time for the woman to talk.
Mike is good to keep on the communication.
Islam believe in a good communication. When you have a good communication that will make you more peaceful. It develop a better relationship is just like, when you have a good communication with God. You pray five times a day. You remember him in the morning, you remember him in the evening, you remember him and you eat? You remember him when you travel? When you leave home? You always have some do. You pray for God?
When you always have a good relationship with him,
you will never never feel lonely.
And he Almighty alone will not fail all of us. He promised us by saying in his book, but Karuna, can you remember me? I remember you.
And when Allah protect us, and nobody can cause harm to us. But when a law protection is not there, that mean we are open for any
bad thing to come.
So we need his protection.
Maybe we don't know how to God protect us. But you just do what he want you to do. You will feel that you are protected.
What Allah wants us to do is all the good thing when you don't have to worry you can sleep easy. You can go anywhere and have peace because you know you are not a bad person. You don't lie, don't cheat. Anybody can come and want to see you. You don't run away. Why? Because you are not the bad guy.
But if you are doing something wrong, the person who come to you, you know he's coming, I have to run away.
Why you run away because you feel guilty. He knows something's not right.
And just an example.
So the Muslim, have their own lifestyle. When you want to speak, you make sure what you speak benefit you are not better, be silent. Be a good listener, so that you will learn more thing.
When you want to eat, you make sure that the food is Hello,
nowaday in Malaysia, you have a lot of restaurant,
they put the word
free.
They are free. They have given that.
to us. We thought that is enough. But it's good to double check.
Alhamdulillah they don't serve pork, but we want to know the chicken that the US
is it being slaughtered? islamically? Do they get the supply from the Muslim butcher or not? If not, then not only is haram, any animal that we do not slaughter in the Islamic way is not halal for the Muslim.
The slaughtering in Islamic way is not difficult by saying Bismillah Allahu Akbar.
And do you know why the Muslims believe in slaughtering? And do you know why? In the time of Buddhism in the early part of Buddhism, they say no meat or vegetarian
because a lot of sickness will come from the animal
and the sickness of the animal to make sure that whether the animal is healthy for you to consume or not
You have to go to the process of slaughtering.
You remember when we have, we are not well, when we are not healthy, you go to the hospital
to confirm what is happening to our body. What do a good doctor will do?
Normally, what do we do? What do you think they would do?
Right then she says, share with me. What do you think a good doctor will do?
Yeah,
they have a blood test.
Why the one to test our blood?
Why?
Because that's the fastest way The easiest way to detect
whether you are healthy or not. Whether you're having other problem on your kidney, your
gout, your high blood pressure, your heart everything, the check to the blood.
Do any mom
have sickness?
Something you have met Cow Disease, foot disease. So many you have this chicken flu disease.
What happened when you had chicken flow flow flow, especially in China and Hong Kong.
The government had to come up with a warning that millions of chicken have to be killed.
Buried to save human life
because human life is more valuable than just chicken
safeguard our children.
Those who love chicken or children
now father of the children so left chicken
all of us love Kentucky Fried Chicken.
Millions million of birds have to be
killed to safeguard human health.
Then when there's millions of chickens slaughtered,
kill
Where are you going to get the eggs now.
And that's why we have the problem in China, they come up with
imitation eggs
is not a real
China have a lot of knowledge. Chinese are very, very innovative people.
Now they have come up with a new bridge, the first in the world what bridges that
class made of glass.
They joined the two heels and made a hanging bridge the longest in the world.
And when anybody wants to cross the bridge,
they never cross with peace.
Some didn't even walk through the cross.
Because you can see below is made of glass transparent.
Some did not want to open the eye, they still want to experience the crossing or they did not open the eye.
Some days on the seat and pee on moving pushing themselves.
China in
Chinese people are people who are very innovative.
Good in life is good to be innovative.
But you must remember when something is going to happen to the animal Hadley we buy a chicken we send it to the cleaning
animal clinic Can you check my chicken is healthy or not they will cost you double of the chicken price.
So the best way to know whether the chicken is healthy is the slaughter a normal slaughtering, if the blood of the chicken flow out normally, then there is a sign that this animal is healthy.
If the blood will just flow out in the form of a clot or sometime color of the blood change we can be
then you know this animal is not healthy.
There's a lot of tiden in Islam
but a lot people are not aware of this.
If that the minus thickness yeah sometimes, but also like human you got flu, you got cough and everything got diarrhea and then you want me to
Get us a woman, Dr. Swamy
but we do not know. We don't have the knowledge to understand them.
But the minor minor disease when you slaughter the animal it will flow out with the blood.
That's why the running blood is haram for us to consume. We cannot take blood
in the Mahara ma la Kemal main Tata dama Allah forbid, did animal and also blood, but we are eating the heart of the animal,
the liver of the animal is also contained blood.
But that is halaal
because the flowing blood is haram
and we Chinese people, sometimes we do that, when you slaughter an animal, you purposely will collect the blood of that animal. And then you will put it under the sun or you boil it and then when it cooled down you put in the refrigerator, you frozen it and then when you eat some noodle, you put some as a
as a
play wary. You put your cut into pieces like jelly, and gah gah.
Until today, you have
especially when you eat the noodle lie quite often the Sukhoi towers and the Chinese they have that they cut a small small piece is that a flavor added
kind of blood is forbidden for us to consume.
But they are assured they have some blood still in the meat.
Yeah, that blood is no problem. And sometimes when you go to order some stick you want it to be
medium.
Coke you want to have
some say
we want
to be ranked? No. So you're up to the upper like the Japanese they live on the wrong foot
is halaal one is the animal is Allah is Allah how you do it, you want to cook you want to boil you in the fright you want to grill is up to you. You can eat wrong, no problem, maybe the nutrition is better
the is up to your liking,
the running blood we can consume
even it tastes good.
I used to eat that before before I became a Muslim.
After that, we have to stay away.
This is one thing we must remember him and now when the Buddhist came to know the slaughtering of the Muslim
they know that is the healthier way to make sure that your food is healthy for you.
about drinking the Prophet said any drink the intoxicate you is Hara
The brand is not important the name is not important. The important thing is do this drain in toxic no
one had the content of intoxication now remember brother and sister the poppet never used the word alcohol
The only thing that he used is called Lucia Robyn as Kara as Kara for
every dream that have a content that intoxicate you is haram
grapes juice is grape juice Hello. Hello. When you want to make a grape juice and you stop there
then it become halala
you want to change the grape
juice to wine. One become wine is become Haram.
Back to your intention when you want to process their grip. What is your intention to make it grape juice or wine?
You cannot be it cannot be a wine until you bypass a certain period.
Then if you want to make that into vinegar indicum halali
you see the difference?
To make something from some fruits to become vinegar you have to go bypass from halau den haram and then halala
become minica is very good to consume the profits another level to consume we negate
and this is just an example
is that from something Hello
wheat, barley crepes dates all a halaal fruits
and the prophesy one is become a wine the intoxicating haram one a become
vinegar is halala
So, we have to be very careful
even the dress that we want the dress the Muslim have the own value they will check what kind of fashion there is considered a badass a very modern kind of fashion
some brother asked me can I become a fashion designer
as if you want to design the home the interior decoration is good
but if you become a designer for gammon is very very
I would say it is a very challenging job
normally the men were designed for the woman to dress and the woman will walk in front the men and the woman
and suddenly they come up with a dress we do not know who is going to where they cannot dress but it's a passion
is a passion
and we don't understand why they come up with that kind of dress where hardly anybody want to use it's not normal at all
I will say in the fashion show before sisters
we are looked at and is so costly, but you're thinking who want to wear the kind of dress
but he had this people designer who have real ideas
and they always make use of the woman
and this is something that we must be careful even the Muslim when they and they want to work they want to involve in a job they are very careful to make sure that the job that they are involved is halaal job not just any job for
example you want to sell things goods
Do you want to buy halaal haram or stolen goods which one which one do you want to buy? Hello product then you can sell as hallah
can you buy stolen goods and make it Hello
then you are encouraging people to steal and supply to you and you make it Hell
no.
You should not participate in any stealing
even a stripper is
the same thing you cannot in Islam online guide us Islam guy example you want to open a stationery
is opening a stationery shop halal or haram
halala haram
What do they
normally say hello, very good haram paper
or paper is halala.
But sometimes you have haraam book
the book Thompson like teach people how to gamble teach people how to lie telling people about your your your future is going to happen the phone sway family we cannot believe in that. But you are selling all this book.
Magazine on gossiping or in the West you are selling what new
magazine
you are selling. What all the Haram videos.
Adult movies video is that
you must know you cannot say I'm selling only books but what books are you selling? You must know
The book teach people how to get involved is that a lot
is how long you must make sure that whatever you sell them and anybody come to your shop, guarantee this thing that they are going to buy from you will benefit them will become positive will not make them crooked will not make them lie will not make them get involved in haram thing.
And is important
when a lot of people are not aware about this
they say this boy I don't know people supply I just sell a no no no you must know your product.
When people come here and they want to buy books, we have a small bookstore.
But the books that we want to recommend is all halaal information that you can follow you can believe 100% you don't have to worry, He will guide you, not just anyone that can misguide you.
This is important to know
many things that we are doing we are not aware of it.
So Islam is here to guide us that's why Islam is a deem a way of life.
guide you how to talk when you want to talk to people
can rearrange our race of our wives in front of our parents. Can we do that? Even our parent is wrong? You have no right to raise up your wise you have to be very soft spoken. wakulla Houma Colin Karima
you must talk to your parents with respect.
honor them, you can raise up your voice, but when we are not yet and mostly a voice for wise, you shall I shall
is common. But when you're Muslim, no. I have the control my anger
because I have no right to show my anger to my parents.
They have given us everything.
Everything they are given us. And in return, we raise up our boys.
How do you feel one day sisters? When we become mother, our children shot at us. Do you feel okay?
Now,
if you do not want that to happen, make sure that we don't do this to our parents.
And may Allah protect us.
The same go to when you want to get married brothers and sisters. You know what to say what not to say what to eat, what not to eat, what to drink, what not to dream, what to
do and what not to do, how to dress up yourself and what kind of dress there is not yours. Then if you want to settle down, you want to look for a partner.
Do you also check
and make sure that you have a good partner? What do you think brothers?
Are you just don't mind any woman okay.
As long woman
the sisters or any guy is okay.
As long as he is a hero, I don't mind. No, no, no. You want to check because this is your partner.
When you do business, when you want to open a company, do you just invite any partner to come in?
You want a good partner?
a partner you can trust not just a sleeping partner, a working mom.
So that both party work, share together whatever problem you encounter.
Is that what we want sisters? Because we want peace.
We want self respect. We want people to show us that they have commitment. They are responsible for how we are responsible. They also must be responsible. So when you want to select a partner
you have to choose
how to choose well i don't know i don't know what is in the heart.
Before we get closer issue that everything seems to be sweet like honey.
After that, everything comes out before you put your money in there. Oh everything No problem, no problem. I guarantee you I guarantee you that these and everything guarantee
and then you accept how much you need.
This is
A very small investment, but big return
you invest 50,000. Now,
in one month, you can easily get 150
Is that a good investment?
50,000 you invest now, one man you get 150 Is that a good investment?
If you don't invest, you're crazy.
People will give you double.
And you don't want the money, you are crazy.
They promise you this, they promise you that they bring you to the office, after you invest, the officers will disappear. Have you experienced that before?
Have you ever experienced that kind of business before?
Maybe not yet, I have experienced that before.
I even bring my student to the office, so grand with all this presentation.
So more people also invest after few months. We don't have to get any news on them. We went to the office gone.
No op is gone, the people who disappeared.
And maybe we're dealing with some angel or gene before and suddenly they're gone.
But that is reality. If you're not careful in life, brother and sister, we will have a lot of problems. And that's why Stan is here to guide us. You want to do anything. Don't forget the guidance of God.
When God said this check.
Whereas God said don't get involved. Don't get involved.
That's how you go.
When you follow the guidance, brother and sister and these guidance is from the Creator, who create all over who see everything who know what is in the heart of everybody, we do not know the heart of our friend. But Allah knows.
And when he gives you example, in this crime, Lord, Allah say, this book that I revealed, as a guidance for mankind is protected. This book is protected.
In nanomedicine, as a crop we're in Allahu Allah, Hafiz and Allah, we review this book as a reminder
to remind us, so that we will never make mistakes,
not be cheated before by people, people will not take us All right, this book is here to remind you
and allows it we will protect
the truthfulness, the authenticity of this book meaning whatever is written in this book is 100% true and is happening
about the past is history. About the present is happening about the future is going to happen. And it is happening one by one.
All is being mentioned in this book.
give you one example. If you open the Quran,
they got 114 chapters.
In the whole Quran, the longest chapter is the second chapter known as Al Baqarah.
The first chapter of the Quran is alpha, the opening
to open our mind or heart our IO so that we know what we are reading.
And then Allah talk about Allah bahara the certain bahara
surah baqarah start with Alif Lam mean, telling us?
Allah knows everything that we knows not. Only Allah knows the meaning of LA, land, mean.
Allah is here to remind us that he has all the knowledge that we don't have.
And don't all consider that you think I know everything now.
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want to show you what Allah says in
this book. There is insight here. Not even one sentence, that you should have any doubts in it. Everything is the truth, nothing but the truth and the whole
who
is a guidance
For those who believe in it
is what allows it
chapter number two, the longest surah have one I know known as the longest ayah in the Quran
Alif Lam Meem is an ayah only three letter Alif Lamin very short.
Clue Allahu Ahad
is a surah is a short surah in China also a sub surah but there is only one ayah consider the one full page one full page just one ayah
what is that if any one of us remember to the sisters?
Do you remember one idea in the whole Quran? Consider as the longest Ayah what is the ayah
and what is the ayah talking about?
The ayah is talking about
lending and borrowing money
owing people money about transaction
you have a lot of issue in this ayah God is guiding us when you get involved in lending and borrowing.
You must write it down
back to
Allah wants us to write it down clear
and straightforward. How much you take from me.
And then you sign a sign and two witnesses
so that there is no argument in the future.
If you fail to fulfill your permit, I can sue you in the car. I have had evidence
your ice number is there your name is there your address is there your signature is that we've to support the witnesses
as the bouncer
and now in the Chinese way of doing business today. Everywhere you go you'll find notice
Yeah, easy loan.
do not need guarantee
10 minutes release
100,000 you can loan for 100,000 he inform you how many percent out front
very easy.
You want to go to the bank asked for this document that document this man No.
But he got witnesses and he got bouncer
the witnesses must act like a bouncer is that guy don't pay your witnesses. My goodness go after him already. But today the witness they also calibrate.
They are so false witnesses. They are not sincere in Islam. If you are the witnesses,
if that guy do not pay, we can come up to the witness.
You must take up the responsibility. I gave it to him based on your recommendation you become my witness.
You must take the responsibility or you must go after that guy make sure that he paid me
You must take full responsibility.
Today only Allah knows you have the witness we have all these documents still you have problem.
The world is so corrupt.
Why? Because people are not following the guidance of God anymore.
They thought that this 50,000 can make them rich now.
The profits and loss upset Ladies
and castrato
What up in
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richness is not because we have a lot of money.
The real wealth is you are contented with what you have.
We understand this. Whatever you have brother and sister you are happy you owe nobody. You don't lie to anybody. You don't cheat.
CAD is your well
then you have all the big house and big and then you run away. When the payment come you keep on running away and people chase after you and people stopped you how fair is it now you don't pay now, you must leave the key here. What is this?
Big, big problem? small car less problem.
No easy to pay small car is quite cheap.
You want to repair cheap, because it's more
on the path. So it's not that expensive.
Now that is why Islam is here to teach us to guide us. The only thing that we have to learn brother and sister we have learned so long from our Saturday class, but I do not know how much we have implemented knowledge whether you follow or not.
is likely to go to the gym, the gym instructor tell you do this, do this, do this, do this. Then he leave it to you.
When you come you don't want to do you say do this pain here.
Oh, I don't want to do
but you want to have muscle.
You want to have pet you want to have muscle but you don't want to do exercise. You just go to the gym only to around and then hold this hold and then pull HIPAA enough?
Do you think there will be a result for you? No, no pain, no gain law.
We know what this concept you go to the gym, you don't want to walk up don't think that your body is going to change.
You must work out and they got a formula follow the formula you will see the result.
The same thing the knowledge that you have learned from herbs from Sharif, we hope that you will try your best to implement Even you are not yet Muslim, you can start to implement and you see the benefit for yourself.
There's not a benefit.
If you believe you have double benefit here and hereafter rewarded from Allah. If you don't believe in Allah, but you follow the good formula you get the benefit here the result here. But of course there's nothing for you in the future because you don't believe in the reward in the future. And the reward will only come from Allah and but you don't believe in Allah so there's no reward for you.
is just a person to believe there is paradise so they don't prepare yourself for paradise.
So you don't expect paradise.
You see I believe that I'm going to travel but you don't prepare yourself you done bring your passport to the airport Do you think you can travel?
I believe I'm gonna travel I have a ticket I have bought I have paid for the hotel. But I don't want to bring my passport Do you think you can take off
you see how the rule is you must follow the regulation the law, the law say when you want to travel overseas, you must have a travel document.
If you don't want to have a travel document, you can plan everything you can pay everything but you will stay back home. You can travel
this is just example the knowledge that you have learned brother and sister We hope that you try to understand it you don't understand you have the right to follow up. And then when you understand you try to implement it and the result is yours.
Yeah, the Muslim is been taught to have their own value. When you want to talk when you eat drink when you do work when to socialize with people know when to get married, you must make the right partner so that less headache less problem because you will have the right understanding you pray together. You fast together you do the right thing together. Then there is not a blessing.
Might you got married you like to look going for classes. He don't like class. He like to waste his time.
Of course then you have a conflict of interests. Then the there's no happiness.
Normally when you want to go shopping if you are married Do you like your husband to be with your sisters?
Normally if you are married, when you want to go shopping Do you want your husband to be with you in going by shopping normally or you want a no need I go by myself also can
make you want a man Do you know
Why?
Number one you pick up he has to pay
easier for you. You just move it I like that.
And then if you give you a signal key
and you just pick up,
you just pick up choose and then he will do the rest. And then he will push.
He will carry for you Is that good? There is good.
There is the kind of man we want. Not a man that when you when you want to go shopping as it is I have no time. When he left to go golf he had all the time to go and hit the ball.
But no time we view
we love to be together.
How do you feel brother and sister when you want to go for a good dinner? And you go there alone eating
the best dinner but you are there alone. Do you enjoy eating?
When you're alone? No. I don't know how you can enjoy you enjoy the food.
The food is good. At the environment is better and people got friends to talk to No. You have nobody you eat you eat you go out again you take everything by when you have a partner with you. Maybe it's a gentleman. He will help you to collect something for you.
When he is going to collect some food for himself. He may ask you what do you want me to clap for you? I want some fruit. You don't have to keep on walking walking. You will do the walking for you. Is that good?
Here's a gentleman but he's not just a man a gentleman.
But sometimes you don't have the gentleman then you know what to do. Sometimes the men also want to be served. How nice The man was then sitting sitting talking and then when the wife on the go and by I get some like some warfare, is it like what you want? Do you want coffee? You bring the coffee for him?
Does he feel good?
Do you feel good you if you are served well sisters,
of course.
This is what when you get the right partner you will get that kind of services.
You prepare food he will do the cleaning up is that good.
Or you want you have to prepare everything after he just wash his hands.
Kitchen is not my zone. My zone is the whole
and I'm here in the kitchen to taste all the food only after tasting Bye bye. I just wash my hand wash my mouth.
Oh you love a partner who you prepare for hours.
For a good dinner after dinner.
The guys let you rest because you have stayed there for two hours three hours preparing food after half an hour. He said to you Don't worry. I will do the cleaning up.
I will collect all the dishes. I will wash my hand. I watched the play I want the play I want the glass I want the spoon. I watched everything How do you feel system?
Do you like that kind of partner?
Good. Remember brother the sister said good.
is true. We have to work together as a team. Allah in the Quran say that well not me not me not bow to whom Alia
not I say
Allah in the Quran, male and female husband and wife as a believer. complement each other help each other.
Share with each other.
Normally cooking is easier or washing is easier.
Which one is easier?
If the guy said cooking is a call him to cook.
Yes. How easy is it? If you say a cooking Santa or you call him taco, then you do the washing
but the most easiest one is what
is to eat.
Between cooking and washing is eating. That one is the best.
Very easy,
very relaxing. But after they have a good meal. Do you think that it's good for you to do some exercise?
Take that as an exercise. I do that always
Anything I do is it is an exercise for me so I don't feel a burden.
I don't say this is the not the man's job.
Sometimes you have your own culture.
Your parents don't let my son do anything in the kitchen.
My son is not a cook. He is the boss. So the boss don't stay in the kitchen, the boss stay in the
hall relax, use read papers, see television. Look at the TV back kitchen is the job of my wife. My wife is like my mate. No, no, no, no.
Did Allah and the Prophet said Your wife is your maid. Now?
Allah say she is your partner.
When a partner is like a company, she also had her share.
She is a shareholder.
You cannot decide everything by yourself. You should have a consultation meeting. That is the spirit.
So when we understand what Islam one has to do brother and sister Even you are not yet a Muslim. If you follow this guideline and everybody follow you had peace.
Know you have peace you feel harmony, you feel good.
Make sure you don't lose anything. Especially brother who Allah gives you the muscle you can carry heavy thing. What do you do with your muscle.
All the heavy stuff Don't let the wife to carry.
Now if she Ixtapa for some some problem back ache now she cannot cook for you anymore.
Anything like chicken carry let her get anything heavy sister don't processor. Hold on. Be patient. Wait for your hubby to come.
Wait for your darling to come the ones who have muscle your manual and carry you
don't just pause or settle claims or Hi. You are not a spider. Spider Man or spider woman. Let that done by your husband.
Anything not about when agenda but don't force yourself to fall when you are
injured the whole house. Yeah mess out. If your husband got injured at work, no problem.
That's why when a mother was it, mother job is so simple. My day job is so simple.
You know a mother is
24 seven.
The job of a woman or man 24 seven, non stop.
She's there to cook for you. She's dead wash your thing. She's ready to keep the house clean. She's there to serve you.
She's always there. And she has no all time.
And she has no payment free of charge.
You don't pay your wife do you beat your wife brothers. Not yet no.
Value her sacrifice.
Even if she doesn't ask you to pay but in return on what can make her happy by
mile good shoe for
you don't just go and buy a good shoe for yourself.
And you send her to the battle show battle or the giant and buy the shoes and you know when you want to buy your staff. You go to Empire.
You go to Pavilion. Wow. You mentioned the name also people feel to
buy when you buy something for your wife. You send him to
Aeon Jaya jayan Tesco huge one.
That means you are not being fair to your wife give her the best she'll give back to you the best.
She is going to be a mother she will give the children the best.
inshallah, because we are the best oma. So you want the best for us the prophecy. Let me know how.
You cannot be a true believer until you love your brother, your sister. You're more than what you love for yourself.
You love to be on your own. Then
you learn to be self you also serve them
You love to be respected respect then
you love people talk good about you talk good about that.
Can we do that brother and sisters?
Can we do that brother?
Can we do that brother?
Only a few brothers say yes. The rest
reserve
when to say we don't know
Can we do that sister
hamdulillah next time when we ask the
thing that you really can do Don't be shy to say yes
you must know how to express yourself
you know what the proper say if you love somebody
don't keep quiet in your heart
until she is going to die. You know I love you so much
to lay
Patel do I'm gonna die now. Truly.
Anytime you love somebody when you are with them, say to them, Sister,
I love you.
And I
you know, when you say that, the prophets in LA Some say whoever loves somebody and she or he expressed their love for the sake of Allah, purely for the sake of Allah, no hidden agenda for the right cause.
At that point of time, Allah will love that person more.
Because other people who love someone for his sake, when you love somebody because you have the good thing in her or him That's why you make you love him or her. So you must say, I love you for the sake of Allah, because you are good men a lot immediately increase his love upon that guy.
The same thing when you love a sister, I love you for the sake of Allah for the right investment. A light immediately will love her more. And that's why the prophesy said to them express your opinion and Booker
and then we should make a prayer hubback Allah Allah zi hubub Tani the agilely there's a saying there's a prayer. I love you for the sake of Allah because you are a good person. You are very nice. You are caring you're sharing person. Now. In return you say, may Allah also love you. Like how Allah have just loved me more just now because of what you say.
So learn how to express your feeling. That's nothing wrong.
Do we live our children normally?
Do we live our sibling normally?
Tell them brother I love you. I'm very proud. You are my brother.
I'm very proud that you are my sister. Because I have a good sister. a sister who care for me. Who feel for me who's there for me. Express your feeling. You love your dad You love your mom. Tell them Daddy, I love you. Mom, I love you so much. Because you're always there for me.
You love your wife say this to your wife. You love your friends say this to your friend.
And we do that brothers is the
Can we do that right as sister? Yes, you must say that you still fail to express your opinion.
Maybe Asian or Asian? You're always shy to say thing. We are not like the vast No, they are just express their opinion. They will say no. Yes, there is how they will say
no. May Allah make it easy for all of us, inshallah.
So Brandon says that this is what I want to share with you today. understand the value, the goodness in Islam, try to do it and you'll see the result by yourself. That is very, very important.
We can share with you all the information, we can give you the book to read. But we do not know whether you have the right understanding or not until you come back to us and check with us.
We do not know whether this knowledge is going to benefit you or not. Until you act upon the knowledge then you will see the result by yourself.
We are here just to remind all of you. Not more than that.
We cannot force you
but we are here to remind you if you feel that it's difficult for you to do what you have learned.
You must come back to us and tell us where is the difficulty. We will show you the
Best way out, then you'll see that it's not difficult anymore. But if you don't follow up, we really don't know. But it is a blessing from Allah, that you are consistent in attending the class. We hope that each time you are here, you pick up some good thing, and you start to apply.
And then you'll come again, pick up something apply again. At the end of the day, you will see brother and sister there's a lot of blessing. Knowledge is power.
The more knowledge you have the right knowledge, you will see here that there is a lot of wisdom, there is going to come to you. So with that, I added my reminder. And if there's any question again, we open for q&a pod.
I have the last question. Pass it to the sister the mic, please.
I have two questions. The first one is regarding halal food. Hello. Okay, so um, there's a Buddhist temple near where I work, and they have a canteen at the back where they serve vegetarian dishes. So of course, I think in that part is halal. But I think the proceeds goes towards the temple. So in this case, is it okay for me to eat the food at this temple? And the second question is in regards to I think sustenance, salary. So if you work for an organization, where you know, for sure, there's a lot of corruption, bribery, and things like that happening, right, I mean, you try your best to work by the book, but you know, these activities happen. So, in terms of the salary that you receive
from the company, is that how that yes, so thank you. hamdulillah a very important question.
Sometime we have people who organize some kind of small canteen or food store near the house of wishes.
Maybe the Hindu, Muslim are so near to the malls, they open some shops here and they
occur as a Muslim.
When we get any profit from whatever business we do, we would like to contribute back.
Yeah, for the development of the Muslim.
The same goes to the Buddhist. If they are Buddhists, they want to do some business. And then if there's some profit, they will also help to do what is good for them. islamically we don't get involved in that. What we get involved is the foot halaal ie the foot halaal you can consume
about the money is not you who decide.
Maybe they can do other charity work. They don't tell you. Why do we support?
We don't have to go in detail. No. It's common.
Yeah, a Chinese do business. When they have problem profit. They want to help the Chinese people is that common?
It's common, and Malay, who have a lot of
money, want to help their people Is that normal? Is that normal? You cannot stop people from doing that.
That is up to their commitment.
But a better person is a person who helps everybody who is in need. There is a wise person because we are not ratios. We are not racists here. We are here to represent humanity that will be the best.
Your second question, what came in
Give me one example. What is the name of that kind of
office example? Or
PETRONAS PETRONAS exam pattern as of course number one, when you hear PETRONAS you know is about oil.
There's what we all know in general,
like tn D about
electric supply pm communication in general.
islamically Hello. Because the product is Hello.
But in the company when people want these one that sometimes they get involved in bribery, corruption, who ever get involved in that area? They involved in ha ha
Ever when not involved, that area is still hard because it is a halaal product.
The wrongdoing from certain quarters to not make the whole thing harder.
You know, I give you one example.
Working in a hotel is hotel Hara mohalla
first thing I want to ask is Hotel halaal Ohara.
Confused I don't know yet.
Hotel is a hotel haram
provide room for travelers, for people who need a place to stay while they're traveling. This is something very good
and they feel secure then they have a place they have a guard they have the room and everything is something very noble
and provide all the services everything is good.
And even the halau for that Alhamdulillah is to happen you have liquor. So those who are involved in liquor handling that part they involve in hora, not the whole hotel.
Now
I give you another example.
there so the hotel
one example I'm going to give you
hospital
is hospital good.
But not the correct people can come to you.
All the people that drunk people the people drug is going to come to you.
Are you supporting them? No you are there to help them.
Your duty is to help them when they need your help.
But if you get involved in some area that can bring you to heroin then that is heroin.
Lastly, is working in a bank halaal Ohara.
Very difficult.
The servicing the service that you get from the bank is that a very good service.
Is that a good service? The bank protect your money.
If you do any transaction to the bank, you are safe. Everything is recorded.
He keeps a lot of good services.
Do you want to do business you carry one bag of cash.
People they're not even do business view which is money came from where
if they want to bank in also they have problem where do you get so much money in cash
but you go to the bank you don't have that problem.
In our in
is that a good service?
adequate service.
Nothing wrong.
If they have the deposit box and you buy and then you pay for fees and nine you'll get the input your own ajira the diamond Blue Diamond gray Diamond Diamond you keep you Only you know
is that a good service
and is protected when you have your thing in the bank they protect you is good.
They can service is good. The only area that we get involved in may come to the loan department.
The loan department they promote this loan that loan they guarantee us is guaranteed that easy payment easy that so many easy easy easy
in return you get involved in interest. That is how
you got that sister now you understand. We don't generalize everything. We look at the main product What do they offer you?
The main product halau is services but they add some area that they get involved in that area is haram is haram halaal is hollow. We don't mix and say one that is haram everything is haram no what is hollow steel holla
You got that? Okay, okay, just to add on. So like using the hotel example. So if
The hotel sells liquor and you get profits from the sales of liquor and that goes into your salary at the end of the month so how does that Mashallah that is very interesting now he's going deeper now. She's going to be more refined to make sure
we don't ask our boss
is there some liquor money there you give it to me
the best the wise person
the wise businessmen
if there's some haram activity
is very wise for them to know how many percent
harihara
I gave it another scenario. Maybank CNB Hong Kong bank Do they have halaal counter now Islamic counter
they have
is up to you to choose now you want to go to Islamic counter or the nominal counter
why because Islamic counter to make it holla
and they make sure that this counter would not invest in haram
the other counter is mix
you go into that Islamic counter
you don't go more than that.
If you want to go more than that money has some money come from where and then the counter or if you go to that area I'm going to tell your brother and sister You cannot move anywhere.
I gave you an example
do we drive a car now?
Do you buy the car by cash
saved or you buy the car back? Or your gift from somebody to you?
Do you ask the one who give the car to you where do you get the money to buy this car?
Or I allow money I was in the Middle East I got cash to buy for you. I love you so much Alhamdulillah
now this car
Yeah, is produced by this company.
proton Malaysian company
the factory of proton where do they get the money to come up with this product
or they get a tycoon he use his own money you don't get any loan from the bank. Now if you go that deep you cannot do anything.
You see all the big big company they take loan from the bank to run their business they gotta pay interest
the train that you use also is from the get loan from somewhere they have to pay
the airport that you're on the fly also everything got caught there
the food that you buy also hello
you don't ask them from which country this fruit come from?
Oh this one from Australia. Australia. No halala
food is food
is hella you don't go further than that.
So if they are income some income is haram if they are wise
I gave one simple last example
the government want to help
the nation
come up with a mana Sam. You know Amazon, you got so many ESP one ESP two I don't know three or four so I don't know Yeah. But there's a lot of saham going on
and they promise to give you a good return more than a bank can you feel
Do you think it's wise to invest in the SAM Yes, good.
So happened now they have issue
some state that this haha some state patois say the Sam is not because they invest 10% example
of the investment in meeting example.
And maybe involved in interest. Just an example. I'm just not saying is really happening. I don't know. I just give example. Because of that, you cannot
I just want to share with you a bit a wise person. Also,
if you can invest your investment in 80% halau counter. Why do you get involved in 20%?
Why do you do that?
Just going 100%
In the cloud
is like you cook a big pot of soup. You put all the halau thing except one bone haram bone from the pig. You tell the people a boner no Milano llama bones?
I told you to set that big pot of soup. Do you think the Muslim or
why so stupid? Just a moan
the whole big part is Hologic.
People just don't want to get involved in hunting. We don't know why they get involved say they are involved now.
And we save that our incomes in Yes. There's another way
when you get the profit.
You want to know how many percent they invest in Haram. You want to know by yourself, this is your money.
Say you get a profit of every year 1000 ringgit
bonus from the investment.
Now they tell you the 10% that is involved in a gray area, take up the 10% of the profit.
Pick it up. You don't know what to do send it to us.
We know how to do
then you save God what is halal for you?
You got that 10% you take it out that you are sure they involve in haram investment, clean your income, and the rest is yours.
There are many ways to overcome issues if you have the understanding.
If not, then we cannot move.
You know, when we work we have our APS, remember?
How do the APS use our money? Do we know? We only know when we receive our API. I want to know how much is my API, that's all you need to know. But this is my halaal money, I work hard. And then you pay for me and so so I take it. But if you still have doubts,
you want to ask a pf? How do you invest our money? You have the right to ask?
Which culture Do you invest? If they are honest, they'll tell you if they're smart, they will segregate it
because you also have not yet Muslims who who put their money in a VM for them, they can do anything.
You cannot force them.
But we as Muslim, we should know. And then we should save that the Muslims right.
And you still have some percentage that you have done. Take it up, as
you got that says if you have further question about the issue can follow up with us to make things clearer so that we know how to handle this issue. And the last question from the brothers.
Back to the sisters second question last month.
Amanda? She just a quick question. For example, if we we own a shop, awaken shop and we want to rent it out. Is it permissible for us to rent it out to someone who is going to sell non halal food? Yeah.
And that is something if that is your property. If that property is yours, when you want to rent it out, you'll make sure that you don't rent it to something that is haram know that people want to open up.
People want to do something you know is click, you know they're ceramic, if they say thank you this one, I'm sorry, you know, just don't tell them in detail. Because something that we believe that they don't understand. Is it. Thank you. So it's good to make sure that we don't participate. It's like your offer a place for them to do something wrong. We don't want anything good. We encourage anything bad. I don't want to participate.
If I have
no it's just like people say when people say can you send a cartoon of liquor to my shop
is my car.
They'll pay you for that.
We don't do that kind of business.
I give it a land scenario. We are an advertisement company.
People come to us called us to do some advertisement for that. You know this
product is not a good one. But they want you to put it right out so good.
Like these like that, you know that if you know
this product is not 100% pure,
but they put that 100% pure they want you to come up with the advertisement and woman don't do.
We don't want to involve in lying to other people.
Anything that is true, we will help you anything you call me to do something against my belief. I'm sorry.
It's very important. If not, you are also involved you are the one who come up with all the advertisement for them.
Because that is so Alhamdulillah made sure that we want holiday money. We want blessing from the income. The Blessing only come when it is hard.
It will live longer stay longer with us. What is lacking among the people today, they forget about the blessing. They just want to see numbers they forget the blessing. The number is that no blessing Easy come easy go
when they are blessing allow me to stay with you. And you are contented and it's always enough when there is a blessing
and they have stopped plus also inshallah. So May Allah help us May Allah guide us brother and sister. Please try your best to make sure that your intention in learning about something is not just purely learning get knowledge without action.
No.
There was a prayer.
Somewhere scholars when they drink the Zamzam water you know the Zamzam water the most sacred water on Earth. From the time of Abraham elation
and the prophecy, drinking some some water will follow with what you intend for.
So people who have the deep understanding, each time when you want to dream, if they have certain thing they want to ask Allah do pray, Obama
increased knowledge in me.
Then the drink,
allow and make it easier. A lot of knowledge will be very easy for him to learn.
Because he asked for that.
But a scholar tell us all along increase in mean knowledge and my action upon the knowledge
and as we have extra knowledge, but he don't have a lot of armor.
So the scholar said next time if I will go to Makkah again and then during the Zonda I am going to make a full prayer not the half prayer, a prayer that I asked a lot to increase in, in knowledge and also the knowledge that I can implement, not just knowledge without implementation.
intention is very, very important.
Even the little that you learn, but your intention is to improve yourself, you will see the result by yourself. This is what we asked me Allah make it easy for us and May Allah make us a practicing people of knowledge, not just people of knowledge for the sake of knowledge, we want to improve ourselves inshallah. We will see you again inshallah. And you know, Sunday also we have classes, anybody were free, the class is open. Yeah, my class on Sunday to start Sharif is not
is a bit busy lately because the mother came. So she's, he's trying to excuse himself from us for one, to spend more time with the mother. So when I'm not around, he'll always be there.
When he need to have a break, then I always would try to be there for all of you and Sham me on the helpers. May Allah help those who help themselves will be neto 51 Subhana Allah Mohammed, Shadow Allah Allah. wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.