Hussain Kamani – Stories of the Companions #16 Umm Salamah

Hussain Kamani
AI: Summary © The mother of Mocha Mocha who was killed by a force during the time of the Islamist movement faced struggles and struggles with her parents' tribe. She experienced extreme pain and loss in her family's tribe and eventually lost her wedding. The segment discusses the use of "naught" in Arabic language and the importance of praying for her parents and children. The segment also discusses the loss of human lives and the need for forgiveness and showering children.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:08 --> 00:00:08


00:00:12 --> 00:00:24

Hamdu lillahi Wa Kafa wa salam ala Stouffer Susannah Allah say delusory Mohammed MB while the hilus Kia was hub healer to clear a mother.

00:00:26 --> 00:00:35

Today we turn to the light to the life of almost Salem out of the Allahu Taala Anna, the dear and beloved wife of Rasulullah sallallahu Ani, he was

00:00:36 --> 00:00:39

one of the great worshipers and jurists of her time.

00:00:41 --> 00:00:43

on Santa Monica the Allahu Allah has story

00:00:45 --> 00:00:49

starts with her being the daughter of one of the great leaders of Quraysh.

00:00:51 --> 00:00:57

She is married off to a noble man by the name of Abu selama.

00:00:59 --> 00:01:07

She is referred to as one of the most beautiful women of her time and of the most noble lineage

00:01:08 --> 00:01:14

from the wives of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam she is the last one to depart this dunya

00:01:16 --> 00:01:19

she lived to hear

00:01:20 --> 00:01:23

of the martyrdom of Hussein or the allawah

00:01:24 --> 00:01:25

and she cried profusely

00:01:27 --> 00:01:30

until the point that she fell, unconfident unconscious,

00:01:31 --> 00:01:34

and it wasn't too after that she departed from this role.

00:01:35 --> 00:01:37

She lived a very beautiful long life.

00:01:38 --> 00:01:45

The first part of her life was in Mocha mocha Rama while she was married to Abu selama are the Allahu Taala and

00:01:47 --> 00:01:54

I will set him up was one of the early people to accept Islam. Abdullah bin Abdullah Asad.

00:01:56 --> 00:02:00

They say that he was from the first 10 people to accept Islam

00:02:01 --> 00:02:15

from the earliest days and soon after he accepted Islam the moment after his wife whom salam ala, the Allahu Ana otherwise whose name is Al Hynd. She also accepts Islam.

00:02:19 --> 00:02:21

Not much time had passed.

00:02:22 --> 00:02:28

There, Islam became known to the kurush and they began to treat them very harshly.

00:02:29 --> 00:02:41

Likewise, the punishment the other Sahaba had to go through simply because they were Muslim, also intensified until it became unbearable.

00:02:43 --> 00:02:49

So the law said allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam granted them permission to migrate to Abyssinia. A safe haven

00:02:50 --> 00:02:57

on the Santa Marta the Allahu anha with her husband, Abu selama. They made this Hijra to Habesha

00:02:58 --> 00:03:03

it was difficult for them. She is now in a foreign land with no home.

00:03:04 --> 00:03:47

And she comes from royalty in Makkah, mahkamah a beautiful home beautiful family everyone that sees her knows her, but the sacrifice that she made living outside of her comfort zone, taking on the challenges that she faced on the day to day now and Habesha was because she was a strong and confident Muslim. She believed in Allah and his little surana he stood out to Sudan and knew very well, that the challenge that the challenges that followed La Ilaha illa Allah, we're very natural. And I'm gonna cabal he says in one line, that every time I say La ilaha IL Allah I began to tremble.

00:03:49 --> 00:04:01

Every time I say La Ilaha illa Allah, I began to tremble. Good. Donna Masekela de la la hora because I know very well of the difficulties that lie on the path of la ilaha illa Allah.

00:04:02 --> 00:04:37

Once you say La Ilaha illa Allah, the cockroaches will come out from the woodwork and they will make their life goal to make your life miserable. I'm sad about it. Allahu anha was unfazed by this. She sought her reward and Allah subhanaw taala the news began to spread that the situation in Mocha mocha Rama was now much better. And a large number of the Quraysh have accepted Islam and Hamza the Allah one has become Muslim and Omar Abdullah Hassan has become Muslim.

00:04:38 --> 00:04:48

So she says to her husband that why are we in Abyssinia when we could be in Mecca karma with the most beautiful view of the face of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sitting on

00:04:49 --> 00:05:00

the beach returned back when they arrived, it becomes clear very quickly that everything they heard was a form of exaggeration. Yes, all

00:05:00 --> 00:05:34

One of the Allahu Akbar did accept Islam and Hamza the Allah one also accepted Islam. But the Quraysh had not softened up. They had become more intense. The fact that I'm one of the Allah who won and hums out of the Allah one accepted Islam added a force from the side of the Muslims and the Quraysh were willing to match that force. So things actually became very difficult during that window. But the two of them decided to remain in Macomb, Oklahoma and not go back to Episode Nia while the companion some of them made the second migration to Edison yet.

00:05:36 --> 00:05:40

Some years later, when matters became very difficult on the Muslims,

00:05:42 --> 00:05:48

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam granted permission to the Sahaba to migrate to Madina Munawwara

00:05:50 --> 00:06:03

on the sentiment of the Allahu anha with her husband made the intention that it was time for them to migrate, they had a they had a small child selama that let's take our family to a safe place so we can worship Allah subhanaw taala freely.

00:06:05 --> 00:06:19

There were from the first people that left macam Okayama with this Nia of migration. From their perspective, this would have been an easy journey. Just leave MCCA arrived in Medina and everything is good and you know safe.

00:06:20 --> 00:06:27

Little did she know that her life was about to get very, very, very difficult.

00:06:29 --> 00:06:33

They start the hitch, I will send them a certain amount of the Allahu Ana and their child's cinema.

00:06:35 --> 00:06:40

They had just read that reached the outskirts of mcomber Karma.

00:06:42 --> 00:06:44

Her family people, her tribesmen saw her,

00:06:46 --> 00:07:00

they quickly rushed in, they blocked off, I will set him up. And they said that if you're gonna go to Medina, we're not going to stop you. But this girl from our tribe, she will not be allowed to leave, we will not let her go.

00:07:02 --> 00:07:29

As they were pulling him send him out of the Allahu anha away from her husband. You can imagine the tears and the pain, she sees her family being torn apart. I will set them as family cuts in, they saw her his tribe now enters into the conversation. And they say to I will sedima that we're not going to stop you. But this child of yours. This child Selma will not join the mother in that tribe, it will return back to our tribe

00:07:30 --> 00:07:37

and the mother as she's being taken by her people. Her husband's tribe come and they take the baby away from her hand.

00:07:39 --> 00:07:49

And so in that moment of extreme pain, this family is being torn apart. I will sell them I had made the knee of Hijra to Madina Munawwara

00:07:51 --> 00:07:57

the wife will sell them out of the Allahu Allah is being taken in one direction and the child cinema is taken somewhere else.

00:07:59 --> 00:08:07

Some amount of the Allahu Allah in her own words, she describes that as one of the most difficult moments in her life, she cried and cried and cried.

00:08:09 --> 00:08:15

Every day, she would leave her home and head back to that place where their family was torn apart.

00:08:16 --> 00:08:22

And she would sit there in tears crying in front of Allah subhanaw taala for her family to come together.

00:08:24 --> 00:08:30

A whole year passed by and everyday she did this she would sit there and cry out loud for her child and for her husband.

00:08:32 --> 00:08:34

Someone saw her

00:08:35 --> 00:08:36

his heart softened.

00:08:38 --> 00:08:51

And he went to her family and pleaded on her behalf that released this woman What have you done to her? Is this what we've become as a people that you see a lady from your tribe going crazy and you're enabling this you're making this happen?

00:08:52 --> 00:08:57

So finally, her tribe released her go do whatever you want.

00:08:58 --> 00:09:11

That person then went to Abu Salah mass tribe, and said that what have you done separated a mother from her child? Is this what humanity is? Is this the type of people we've become? We turned the child back.

00:09:12 --> 00:09:17

So after some time, their hearts soften and they also released the child

00:09:18 --> 00:09:25

on send them out of the alarm on her knew there was one step left for this. She needed to arrive in Madina Munawwara as soon as possible and be with her husband.

00:09:26 --> 00:09:30

So she took her baby and began the journey to Madina Munawwara

00:09:31 --> 00:09:35

she had reached the outskirts of the Hudson boundary. And they're

00:09:36 --> 00:09:51

a soon to be his hobby. He wasn't Muslim at the time. He saw her and he said to her that I don't know what the deal here is where you're going but I know you and I know this baby. What's going on here she said I'm heading to Medina.

00:09:52 --> 00:10:00

He says to her that it is inappropriate. That is such a noble lady like you take this journey on alone. I will be your escort and guide

00:10:00 --> 00:10:02

Are you all the way to Madina? Munawwara myself.

00:10:05 --> 00:10:06

She describes the moments

00:10:07 --> 00:10:52

of the journey from Mecca to Medina. It was a dangerous path. Anyone can come and attack you she was alone with her child. But this man, he guarded her, protected her and honored her that he wouldn't look back at her while walking the way holding on to her animal. And when it came time to settle, he would settle her horse by tying at her animal by tying it to a tree, allowing her to rest and then he would go far away, and he would settle there where he could see her and hear her, but he was not close to her, until finally the entire family united in Madina Munawwara and she describes that day as being one of the most important days in her life, that this year of extreme pain, or her family

00:10:52 --> 00:10:56

was torn apart, had finally come to an end.

00:10:57 --> 00:11:11

Her husband Abu sedima, was a dear and beloved companion of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was he participated in the Battle of butter. He participated in the Battle of odd. While he was fighting an ohana. However, he was injured in

00:11:13 --> 00:11:22

the womb, was quite deep, and caused him a lot of pain. He was bedridden for some time, the Battle of what had happened and in third year after he hit it off.

00:11:25 --> 00:11:28

They continued to medicate him and take care of him. At one point,

00:11:30 --> 00:11:46

it seemed as if he was on the path to healing because outwardly, the heal the wound was healing, but from within it wasn't really healing properly. Until one day the skin tore up and he began to bleed and his health immediately deteriorated.

00:11:48 --> 00:11:49

I'm sorry, I'm out of the Allahu anha.

00:11:51 --> 00:11:54

She describes her interaction with her husband

00:11:59 --> 00:12:05

on Ziad ABI Maria Bartiromo, salamat Ali Abby Selma, Selma, the Allahu anhu, has said to her husband

00:12:06 --> 00:12:09

that I heard from Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sent him

00:12:11 --> 00:12:14

I heard the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying

00:12:17 --> 00:12:22

that there is not a lady whose husband dies and he is from the people of Jana.

00:12:23 --> 00:12:27

And she does not marry again. But they will be together in Jannah.

00:12:28 --> 00:12:38

So get so come so both of us can make a commitment that neither of us will marry after one another. So we can be companions together and Jenna

00:12:39 --> 00:12:41

doll wa hit

00:12:42 --> 00:12:45

the Zawada body while at Azzawajal Badak.

00:12:48 --> 00:12:58

So the husband who was ill, and in a lot of pain, he said to himself, what are the Allahu anha? Up to two to three in any?

00:13:00 --> 00:13:02

Will you listen to me? Will you obey me?

00:13:03 --> 00:13:04

At Nam, she said of course.

00:13:05 --> 00:13:07

For color in dammit to deserve

00:13:09 --> 00:13:15

that when I pass away, get married again. Don't stay alone. Find a companion and be happy.

00:13:17 --> 00:13:34

In another narration on sentiment of the Allahu anha says that I heard the Prophet of Allah saying either Hava tamale mijita or will Merida for Kulu Hydra for in America you Amina Allah motto that when you are when you are near a person that is approaching death or is Ill

00:13:35 --> 00:13:36

say good things

00:13:38 --> 00:13:42

for the melodica say Amin to your words.

00:13:46 --> 00:13:49

Then in another rewire home cinema the Allahu anha

00:13:50 --> 00:13:58

she says that my husband became very sick. So I continue to sit by his side and say good words to him and encourage him

00:14:01 --> 00:14:09

I heard my husband saying to me Allahumma Allahumma, uma salah, Mata ba de Raja and Hydra mini

00:14:11 --> 00:14:12

O Allah.

00:14:13 --> 00:14:15

Grant my wife a companion better than me.

00:14:19 --> 00:14:25

When he approached his final moments, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came to visit Abu selama

00:14:28 --> 00:14:32

the Prophet of Allah sat and gave his Diaz and he hadn't even exited the door. He was just leaving.

00:14:35 --> 00:14:39

And Abu selama or the Allah one passed away

00:14:43 --> 00:14:55

for her mother who maybe sort of long wanna he was sent him came back and he closed his eyes with his own hands. For McDonough in a row ha EDA will be the derby I will bustle

00:14:56 --> 00:14:59

prophet of Allah said that when a person passes away in their soul

00:15:00 --> 00:15:05

gives their body the eyes follow the soul as it leaves. The eyes follow the soul.

00:15:08 --> 00:15:13

For Vaggelis the moon the Companions begin to cry.

00:15:14 --> 00:15:18

The people that were there they begin to lodge is a very intense cry.

00:15:20 --> 00:15:33

So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then said lots of Rwanda and footsy come Illa behind and do not say evil and bad things. For Indian melodica you Aminullah Mata Kowloon, for the melodica say I mean to your words,

00:15:34 --> 00:16:25

for makalah and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah Houma, fairly heavy Salam, O Allah forgive Abu salamat WaterFire adore Raja who filma the Yin and elevate his station in the guided ones was Luffy RTB he filled the hobbit in while fildena wonder who you are but I mean Allahumma Safiyah company he will know with Allah Who fee and in another rewire the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to send them out of the Allahu Ana Cooley say Allah Houma. Feliway Allah Who, oh Allah forgive me and him while I've given the minimum aka baton Hashanah and follow me with him a good return meaning give me something good. Now that my husband has left this could be patient

00:16:25 --> 00:16:31

sticks could be Jana itself the dunya and the aka Oh Allah give me good after my husband has left me

00:16:34 --> 00:16:56

on some amount of the Allahu anha she kept reflecting over that statement of Abu selama before he passed away he made dua for her that may Allah replace you with better than me for call two men hydro min Abby selama. I began to wonder this is the wife of Mossad now. I began to wonder who can be better than Abu selama.

00:17:01 --> 00:17:06

Sometime past her EYDAP period the waiting period passed by

00:17:07 --> 00:17:21

Abu Bakr Siddiq, or the Allah one approached her with the intention of marriage. She was a righteous woman who husband whose husband had passed away so they wanted to take care of her Abu Bakr silica the Allah Juan took the lead with the proposal. She

00:17:23 --> 00:17:33

what she turned him away and said Now's not the time for me to get married. And then one after the other. Finally, a proposal came to her Pharmaceut alasa Bhawani

00:17:35 --> 00:17:46

and meanwhile she's making this dua Lahoma journey female see with T were fluffly Hi Ramona, Oh Allah, grant me relief of my calamity and replace me with better than it.

00:17:47 --> 00:18:02

A proposal comes from Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sent him and she says for Karla money ouabain Anna hijab there was a barrier between myself and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he spoke to me for Hatha bunny, and he made his proposal to me.

00:18:04 --> 00:18:07

So she says I said to him or messenger of Allah,

00:18:08 --> 00:18:19

this would be an honor to be in your marriage. However, in the middle of the bar, I'm in Sydney. I'm old in age. I'm no young girl.

00:18:20 --> 00:18:36

What in more a term. I have young children as well from my previous marriage. Well, Anna Shahidullah Zerah. And I'm also someone that has a lot of self pride if I see you married to another woman, which the Prophet of Allah was, this is not going to be easy for me.

00:18:38 --> 00:18:39

Well, I'm not sure either Leila

00:18:42 --> 00:18:54

sort of sort of lost that Allah Juana. He was set up set to her, um, mela era. For you He will Allah as for your self pride and your protectiveness, Allah subhanho wa Taala will give you balance in it.

00:18:56 --> 00:19:14

A Muhsin for an Acapulco Minky. As for age, I am older than you in age, so don't worry about the age. Well, I'm a Tamaki. As for your children, fod Allah He won Aracely leave them to Allah and as messenger, we will take care of your children.

00:19:16 --> 00:19:29

So almost sentiment of the Allahu anha was blessed with the amazing honor of entering into the relationship and into the marriage of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was

00:19:30 --> 00:19:38

she becomes his great scholar, this great leader, this unique figure who was intelligent, who was senior

00:19:40 --> 00:19:59

who was close to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said about her the Allahu anha she was a voice in Madina Munawwara she was a voice for the men and for the women. People from far and beyond came to sit with him settlement of the hola Juana. She was someone that Rasulullah sallallahu ala

00:20:00 --> 00:20:43

He was telling himself took advice from in the difficult moments. For example, during the Treaty of Arabia, when it became clear that the Muslims would not be granted permission to perform Allah that year and they had to return back to Madina. Munawwara the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam instructed the companions to exit the state of the Haram and prepare themselves to head back. No Sahabi moved from their place, everyone remained in their seats. And this was something that was out of the norm because when Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ever told the companions to do something, they were rushed to do it. What's happening here? Why is no one moving? Apparently, from

00:20:43 --> 00:20:54

the outside, someone can conclude maybe the companions were in disobedience to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So the Prophet of Allah entered into his tent, and it was a tentative settlement of the Alana.

00:20:58 --> 00:21:02

And he says to her that I told them to exit the state of haram and no one moved.

00:21:04 --> 00:21:26

So I'm sad I'm out of the Allah Han has wisdom and her intelligence can be seen through the following statement. Or messenger of Allah. They froze because they were hoping you would reconsider your position. It isn't out of disobedience. If you exit the state of the Haram in front of them, they will know this is the end of the matter and they will follow you because they love you that much.

00:21:28 --> 00:21:34

Lead them so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam exited that tent and in front of the companions, he cut his hair.

00:21:36 --> 00:21:51

Showing that Haram is now done, we are not going to look this is over. And the Sahaba broke out into tears. And they then follow the example of Rasulullah sallallahu. It was, this is the wisdom and hikma of salamander, the Allahu Ana

00:21:54 --> 00:21:57

of the Rahman Ibn Shaybah narrates

00:21:59 --> 00:22:06

that one day I was with him salam ala the Allahu Allah and she said she recalled the conversation she had with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

00:22:07 --> 00:22:22

Samira masala Mata call it cool to ya rasool Allah. I said O Messenger of Allah. Malouda la nuit Garfield Qurani comma youth Cairo region. Why is it that women are not mentioned in the Quran like men are mentioned?

00:22:24 --> 00:22:34

The Quran is always using the male pronouns ka year. Why is it that Mallanna Allah Knuth, Garfield Qurani comma youth Cairo region

00:22:39 --> 00:22:51

and then she says, One day, toilet one day I was at home and there was a lady who was serving me and she was combing my hair.

00:22:53 --> 00:22:59

And while she was combing my hair, I heard Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying yeah, you are a nurse.

00:23:00 --> 00:23:30

Oh people. So she got up and rushed fall off after shoddy some mud and oh two minute Bob I wrapped up my hair quickly and got close to the door. Fragile to submarine Delta really forced me to who you're cool. I put my ear close to the tree that was right between my house and the message of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to listen to what the Prophet of Allah was saying. And Allah subhanho wa Taala revealed a verse to respond to my concern

00:23:34 --> 00:24:06

similar to who you're cool in Allah Tala pool in non Muslim in our Muslim it well meaning Mina tea well carnitine I will call it that it was Saudi 18 I was Saudi thought it was SABE DE and I was slob Irati well harshly Rena well harsh, while matassa deity in our most of the thought that in this verse, Allah subhanho wa Taala for every trait, mentioned both genders very clearly set them out of the Allahu Anhu I would say that this idea of the Quran was a response to my request to Rasulullah sallallahu it was

00:24:08 --> 00:24:56

this is an example of healthy and this is a you know, tricky situation. But it's it's an example of a healthy sense of identity and wanting to be recognized. It's not unhealthy. It's not hateful, it's not full of vengeance. It's not poisonous. She understood Arabic better than anyone. And it was very clear that in the Arabic language doesn't leave when you use one gender. So in every sentence rather than saying you and you Anta aunty, for every time you were to, if you were to mention both genders the book would just become it will lose its eloquence. The Arabs didn't speak like that it would be foreign. This is not the way you compose sentences in the Arabic language you've you just use one

00:24:56 --> 00:24:59

gender while making reference to both but she still wanted

00:25:00 --> 00:25:16

got recognition on behalf of herself and all of the women, that How amazing would it be that if we were if Allah subhanaw taala were to reveal a verse where women specifically are acknowledge. So then she says that Allah subhanahu methodic revealed this I have a

00:25:18 --> 00:25:21

one time I'm gonna send him out of the Aloha says, I,

00:25:22 --> 00:25:44

that I noticed one of the most common laws of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was him saying Allahumma Mckinleyville pollute a bit I'll be Allah Denecke O Allah, the Turner's of the heart, make my heart firm on your religion. I heard it not once, not twice, but I heard him making this dua again and again and again.

00:25:46 --> 00:26:06

She says, I asked a messenger of Allah, Allah Engel kuruva Tata Kala, are you saying the hearts change? For her? I mean, look at her story. She loved her husband now she loves a prophet of Allah very committed very mature in her approach to things. Are you saying that the hearts can just flip that you're here and tomorrow you're there.

00:26:07 --> 00:26:33

On and I'm the Prophet of Allah alayhi salatu salam said Yes, ma'am. In Kulfi law him in many other memberships in Aqaba, Hubei in supplying him in a soybean, soybean Allah, for insha Allah Who Akarma who were in sha Azova that every heart lies between the fingers of Allah subhanahu wa taala if you will, as you will turn it one way and that heart is guided, and if it's turned another way, that heart will be misguided

00:26:34 --> 00:26:46

finesse and Allah Habana Allah us Eva KHUDOBIN bothered her Donna. So we ask Allah subhana wa Tada to not turn our hearts away after blessing us with guidance.

00:26:47 --> 00:26:57

Call it she said. Ya rasool Allah, Allah to Allah Mooney Dawa and Adobe had NFC, teach me a dua that I can make for myself.

00:26:59 --> 00:27:12

Allah Bella, of course, I'll teach you one holy say Allah Houma Robin be Muhammad in Philly them b word hippophae. The Calbee a genie medulla till fifth and Ema

00:27:14 --> 00:27:18

Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gives her this beautiful gift as a dua

00:27:19 --> 00:28:06

on the southern border, the Allahu Taala and when you look at her narrations, she has so many interesting Rewi out from a suit Allah salAllahu Salam, some relating to the matters of women. So for example, she says that I asked a messenger of Allah, I have beautiful long hair and I like to tie them into into braids. So what do I do and I need to take a shower to I have to open my braids every time. very inconvenient. If you said Allah Juana he was sent him said, pour water, pour water over your head three times and that shall suffice. Such a beautiful convenience offer to the women of this ummah, tracing back to this practical and very real question of salamander, the Allahu Ana.

00:28:07 --> 00:28:49

Someone wants to ask her, which action was most beloved to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she said, That which was done with consistency, even if it was small. She describes a sort of loss of Allahu alayhi wa salam and says, in the Nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Can I used to be pro Judo been through my assume Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would wake up in the morning in the state of major ritual impurity, and wouldn't be fasting. He would fast in that state. And then later on in the day, he would wash himself before the fighter salaam, obviously you need to do holster for the salah. But you don't need to be in a state of purity. To start your fast. This is

00:28:49 --> 00:28:54

something we also learn from the narration of cinema or the Allahu Ana.

00:28:57 --> 00:29:25

She teaches us that I was someone who would have a long garment on, they come to a jewelry lady, they refers to the back part of the females cloak their garment. So when I would walk, I would have this long garment that would drag behind me. Now you're walking in the streets, and the streets aren't always clean, things get a little messy, and they're litter dirty out there. For a Motorola Bill mechanical

00:29:26 --> 00:29:42

Well, mechanic, I would walk in sometimes I would pass through a small narrow path that had dirt on the ground and then I would continue walking and now there's a clean road and then I'm walking and then there's a dirty road and then I'm walking and then there's a clean road and my garment from behind is dragging all through it.

00:29:43 --> 00:29:46

What's the ruling here she asked for sort of lesson Allamani wisdom

00:29:52 --> 00:29:59

Prophet says she says I heard the Prophet of Allah saying you thought he to whom Abbado that yes the garment makes contact with

00:30:00 --> 00:30:17

impure ground but when it starts making contact with the pure ground, the pure soil wipes away the impurity you are in a good place you're good to go don't worry about it sort of lost that allow it was sort of teaches her this and she and then and then she goes on to teach it to other companions.

00:30:19 --> 00:30:20

She describes another moment.

00:30:21 --> 00:30:26

Xena bint A, B, selama and olmesartan almost telenovela when his daughter narrates this.

00:30:28 --> 00:30:33

She says one day I was with my mom and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam entered into the home

00:30:34 --> 00:30:40

and when he entered into the home, inside the house, there was a hermaphrodite. Mukunda

00:30:42 --> 00:30:52

and her brother Abdullah and omega. Omega was also in the house almost said about the Allah Juana. His brother was there and there was a hermaphrodite, serving and working and doing some things inside the house.

00:30:53 --> 00:31:19

The Mohandas this hermaphrodite he said to Abdullah, oh Abdullah, if Allah subhanahu wa taala gives you victory tomorrow over five, then keep an eye out for the daughters of Leila and four, when they walk forward, they walk with four and when they return, they return with eight. This is a very physical description of the curvature in their bodies. Right? I'm not going to expand this any further. Not for this guy. But anyway.

00:31:21 --> 00:31:41

So he's making a comment on this whole idea of total b2b Otterbein to the b2b thumbin. And so you understand this idea of walking forward with four and returning back with eight. He was making a very specific comment on the curvature and the form of the female body. Do you guys understand this?

00:31:44 --> 00:31:45

And he said a lot is sort of heard this.

00:31:47 --> 00:32:08

So it'd be sort of low on iOS and then turn to a cinema the Allahu anha and said Nightfallen the hedonic a person like this should not be not be in this house. Someone who makes comments like this about women. Yes, he is. I'm Afrodite neither male or female legally speaking in Islam, there's a whole different ruling of how to deal with the hermaphrodites. But

00:32:10 --> 00:32:29

there was a concession made for him because he wasn't fully male, that maybe he can be in the house and work and take care of some things. But if he has inclinations like this and observations like this of the opposite gender, then it is no longer appropriate for him to be inside the house of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, liat hada Alec

00:32:31 --> 00:32:58

sentiment of the Allahu Ana. There are so many narrations of hers and I'm just narrating some that I really love and they're from different chapters and different. Just hold different topics. One topic here one topic there, but it shows us the depth of her knowledge. That's what I'm trying to demonstrate through these narrations. She says the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said this hadith all the young people know mashallah, either hover, Allah Asia will have a lot of Surah Fub that will be the ASHA

00:32:59 --> 00:33:02

that if Dinner is ready in a coma has been called start with dinner.

00:33:03 --> 00:33:17

Right? In Arabic, they say Hola, Asha goblin. Aisha that the dinner is before food. The idea here is that someone's really hungry and food is being served if they go for prayer, what are they going to be thinking about while they're in prayer?

00:33:19 --> 00:33:23

Carla eat Can I can I can I that's what they're gonna be thinking about.

00:33:27 --> 00:33:53

Now on the other hand, if the guy is eating can I had home? Some nice good, tasty showery could I eating that can I at home and Salah is going on or he remembers I didn't pray Salah what you thinking now while he's eating? Salah Sala Sala Salah that's what I'm I'm honey from tonight. I said I prefer that my food be about salah. Then my salah be about my fruit. Right? There's a scene from the city via a salamander the Allahu dadada.

00:33:55 --> 00:33:58

She narrates another Hadith from the prophets of Allah Hadi of Saddam.

00:33:59 --> 00:34:18

Maybe said Allah and Islam said that you the people present your disputes to me in the Contacta Simona Elena. Well, I love our comb and yeah, hakuna al Hannah beho Jetty him in Bath. When you present your disputes to me it's possible one of you may be better with words and can convince me in his favor.

00:34:19 --> 00:34:49

Way nama Annaba I homicide Allahu alayhi wa sallam am a human being aka Lila who are not we met a smart woman who I will pass a verdict based off of the proof that is presented for medical aid to the woman happy sad shaken. If I pass verdict in your favor, while taking away from the right of your brother feign nama who are now don't find out who that is fired and not taken.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:59

Right? Salama, the Allahu ANA has this beautiful insight to how Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passes verdicts and how he manages

00:35:00 --> 00:35:15

Judicial Affairs, that just because you convince the judge with a lie and the judge passes the verdict in your favor, that doesn't save you from from Jahannam that doesn't save you from the punishment of Allah subhanaw taala. This happens with divorces in our community all the time.

00:35:16 --> 00:35:48

People swindled their way through the courts. They take children unrightfully against the laws of Islam. They take money unrightfully against the laws of Islam, they abuse one another, they lie, they cheat. I didn't do this. I didn't do that. And they know what Allah subhanahu Matana they did all of those things in nama who are not lie, a code, that money that you're taking that child that you're taking that abuse, you're denying, if you did it, whatever the case is, you will have to answer to Allah subhana wa Tada

00:35:50 --> 00:36:38

salam ala the Allahu anha. She says one night, I was sleeping with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam and he woke up and he said, La ilaha illa Malfatti halaya lemon hazhar in La Ilaha illa Allah. Martin Zilla later terminal fitna Manu pillow Sawa hibel *. Yeah, Aruba, Cassia in fifth dunya aria in Philadelphia, the prophets of Allah and while he was sort of woke up in the middle of the night and he remembered Allah subhanahu wa Tada and discuss the great possibilities that that night had to offer. There was height or there was also fitna there isn't a lot of sort of saw that it descended into the world. And then he said, Who will go and wake up my wife's because it's possible

00:36:38 --> 00:36:43

that a person will be clothed in the world but they will be uncovered in the hereafter

00:36:45 --> 00:37:23

uncovered of good deeds. You slept through the night. You didn't build your army. You didn't spend that time worshiping ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. This isn't to say that you shouldn't sleep at night sleep, get some rest you need that for the day. But spend a few moments for Allah subhanaw Without as well. If you're going to wake up for Fajr Salaah anyway, what you should wake up a little earlier. Do a little tahajjud Salah if the hundreds too hard for you set an alarm for 3am Wake up do a little thicker Lila 10 times do Salawat a few times it's too far a few times, turn and go back to sleep. But every night do a little bit of law get into the baby steps. Build a small habit any habit

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

of remembering Allah subhanho wa Tada

00:37:27 --> 00:37:33

una semana the Allahu Allah. After the Prophet said a lot is said and passed away she held on to his possessions very dearly

00:37:34 --> 00:37:47

for baraka and for memory. With moto Abdullah says the halal Allah AMI salah, Mata Rajat Elaina man shot in the face of Allah Allah He was that one day we came to visit him settlement of the Allahu anha.

00:37:48 --> 00:37:55

And she went inside the house and came back with a hair of her sort of loss of the bodies

00:37:56 --> 00:38:10

that I've held on to this hair of the prophets that Allahu Allah He was. So they had a chance to see these young men for either who are Magoo when honorable Hannah you will catch that she's they say that we saw it. It was died with Hannah and also with a dark color as well.

00:38:12 --> 00:38:19

As I mentioned at the beginning, she was the last wife of Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was set up to depart from this world.

00:38:21 --> 00:38:25

She passed away in the year 59 After Hijra.

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

Some say it was 62 after Hijra

00:38:32 --> 00:38:33

in the month of little cada

00:38:35 --> 00:38:42

there is one narration that say the blues aid was the one who led her Janaza prayer from the ashram overshadows everything.

00:38:44 --> 00:38:46

But the more correct position is that it wasn't him.

00:38:48 --> 00:39:17

She had actually requested that he be the one that lead her janazah at one point when she wasn't well, but she recovered. And after that, he passed away. When her time of passing approached. She was far beyond the death of Satan as either the Allah one so her Janaza in another position, and another opinion was led by a boy hooded over the lawn. As they lowered her body into the grave, her children, Alma

00:39:18 --> 00:39:32

selama, Abdullah bin Abdullah and Abby Omiya. The love and what have been some were the ones these are all family members, nephews and children. They are the ones that lowered her into the grave, and she is buried in bucket.

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

May Allah subhanahu portada elevate her MACOM

00:39:37 --> 00:39:59

May Allah azza wa jal allow us to benefit from the knowledge of our dear beloved mother, home settlement of the Allah Juana who went through tremendous sacrifice during her life. And at the end of it all, being separated from her child and her husband, and seeing the passing of her husband was gifted with one of the greatest honors in the dunya marriage to a sort of law

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

cinema one name

00:40:02 --> 00:40:13

and the visa Allahu Allah He was Saddam not only blessed her with his companionship but also with a tremendous amount of element on cinema the Allahu Allah Anna was a treasure box she was a vault of

00:40:14 --> 00:40:18

I can't tell you how many narrations of hers you will find in the books of Hadith.

00:40:19 --> 00:40:53

Every third, every third, every fourth page, you will find that you live on sentiment of the law on a certain amount of the law and on only settlement of the law on the the gifts that she left behind for the Ummah, her children us are more than we can ever imagine. Now Allah subhanahu, Matata reward her in full for every Hadith that we benefit from and we act upon May Allah subhanho wa Taala allow her knowledge to be a source of * in her grave. May he Resurrector with her beloved, or something along with that, I said, I'm Hamid sin I'm on Yquem Rahmatullahi WA.

00:40:56 --> 00:41:04

Today, as we close our session, just wanted to take this moment to remind everyone, you are all fully aware of the situation in Philistine and in the plaza.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:16

You are fully aware of the lives that have been lost and those that stand to be lost. And the difficulties that lay ahead,

00:41:17 --> 00:41:28

friends and family, friends and family of those friends that we know work currently in the USA. They are messaging and saying that we didn't know if we're going to lift the next day.

00:41:29 --> 00:41:48

Literally their friends were sending me screenshots of their family members that we didn't know if we're going to live tomorrow, sending voice notes of without to their family members in America and apologizing for their mistakes and kind of doing their farewell. One of them was saying that people in our family have already prepared our gun.

00:41:49 --> 00:41:51

That's the state that we're in.

00:41:52 --> 00:41:55

So this is no small matter.

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

The least that we can do

00:41:59 --> 00:42:01

is to make a heartfelt dua for them.

00:42:03 --> 00:42:16

Go reach deep into your heart and make dua for them as you would make dua for your own child. Imagine your child called you and said Mama, I just put my coffin together. I don't know if I'm going to make it to dinner.

00:42:17 --> 00:42:20

I'm in a landlocked

00:42:21 --> 00:42:30

situation where no food no electricity, no water is being allowed here. And 300,000 from the reserves have been

00:42:32 --> 00:42:40

called. And everywhere we look there are people standing with weapons of destruction and we will probably be decimated very soon.

00:42:42 --> 00:42:43

How would that mother feel?

00:42:47 --> 00:42:51

So make dua for them make a lot of law make a lot of law.

00:42:54 --> 00:42:57

For those of you that have the ability, we should be praying

00:43:06 --> 00:43:08

and making dua day and night.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:16

No moment should pass by but you're remembering them. There shouldn't be a heavy feeling in your chest. All day there should be a heavy feeling.

00:43:17 --> 00:43:21

When you wake up in the morning, the first thing you should check is their heart.

00:43:22 --> 00:44:01

Before you go to sleep, the last thing you check is their heart. How are they? Are they okay? How are they? Are they okay? Go sit with your family members and talk to them about this. Have a conversation talk about this get comfortable. We are OMA if we don't take control of our narrative, and if we don't tell our family members and talk to our parents and our children, then who will talk to them. You want them to turn to CNN. You want them to turn to Fox News. These people are such big liars. And they've become so accustomed to just spewing out whatever narrative they want for their voter base and for their

00:44:02 --> 00:44:06

agenda that there is no longer any truth in it.

00:44:08 --> 00:44:11

What do you trust? Who do you believe?

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

have these conversations with your own family?

00:44:16 --> 00:44:50

I literally went home and I turned on YouTube and watched every video up Philistine in its history with my children. I said, I want you guys to watch all these YouTube videos, we're going to watch them together, we are going to do a marathon it's going to be two hours buckle yourself in. I want you to see how this map shrinks. I want you to see the End of the World War I want you to see the world the British had to play I want to I want you to see these videos of our Philistines brothers welcoming the Jews from Europe into their land. And I want you to see while they're welcoming them welcoming them here, how in Europe, the Zionist lobby is picking up and they're planning to take

00:44:50 --> 00:44:59

advantage of the generosity of Muslims. I want you to see how they're entering into this land and how they're taking over and now within a few months, millions of them have poured in and

00:45:00 --> 00:45:14

They are now out ranking the Muslims in their, in their numbers and population that will overpowering them. Look at this. This was the land that they were in originally. And I look here Now look here Now look here, all of it's been documented.

00:45:15 --> 00:45:18

And their answers about why is this happening? How was this happening?

00:45:19 --> 00:45:20

What's going on here?

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

What's what's what's, what is this?

00:45:24 --> 00:45:32

We need to talk about these things with our family members with our children. And if you adults don't know this stuff, then that's another shame.

00:45:34 --> 00:45:44

What's the state of the OMA Jai Hill National Road? No, don't feel anything. No knowledge of what's going on? No to no emotion, no feeling.

00:45:45 --> 00:45:49

And lastly, these are moments of stefarr and Toba.

00:45:51 --> 00:45:54

These are moments of stiff far and Toba.

00:45:55 --> 00:46:18

On that a Saba Kumasi, but in Febi Maka Saba ad Camilla one Kathy, let it not be that Allah is holding the Ummah accountable because of our shortcomings. We turn to Allah and we ask him, to forgive us and to shower his Rama on the ummah of Rasulullah sallallahu ani he was in May Allah subhanho wa Taala relieve our brothers and sisters and make these matters.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:40

Easy for them bless them with Aafia me He gives strength to every mother that is embracing her child not sure if they will live the next day. May Allah subhana wa Tada shower hits on the mothers and fathers and siblings that buried their beloved ones and have been burying them for the last 50 years. May Allah subhanahu adatom

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

elevate their MACOM

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

sub Rania Al Asad for Inamori.

00:46:49 --> 00:46:54

Well said Allahu Allah, Allah Allah says I'm Hamid Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

Share Page

Related Episodes