Stories of the Companions 06-02-2024

Hussain Kamani


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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah he woke up our salmonella stuffer.

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the relationship that was sort of lost and Allahu alayhi wa sallam had with his companions

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was intimate and very special.

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And then the relationship that existed with some of the more senior companions, those that were very close to him.

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In particular, the four Kalapa that followed Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, Abu Bakr, Omar Osman Ali, with one Allahu Allah macmaine

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was even more special because they were brought into the family of the prophets of Allah hottie

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on one side, you had a walker and Amara, the Allahu anha whose daughters Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married

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so you the meaning you shall have the Allah Hana and so you that will mean have sort of the Allahu anha

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as for the other two with mana the Allah Juan and earlier the Allah one, they became the son in law's of a sort of loss that Allah Allah He was

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with with mana the Allah one not marrying just one daughter of the Prophet of Allah. But after the older daughter passed away, he then went on to marry the younger daughter as well.

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Hence, earning the unique title of the new rain. The new rain, the one that possessed two lights, referring to the two daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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have started the Allahu anha was the daughter of Satan on one of them photography Allah Juan,

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and also the great wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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The scholars differ on when exactly she was born. There's a difference of opinion among the scholars.

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Most of them claim that it was some years prior to Prophet

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she was one of the first to accept Islam. She migrated

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to Abyssinia with her husband and then later on

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migrator, the second time to Madina Munawwara

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when she was in Madina, Munawwara her husband.

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Her name is Ben Kadapa Asami.

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Pass passed away.

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He participated with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the Battle of brother. However, he passed away from an injury that he sustained

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In awkward

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after he passed away see the normative ball but with the Allah one had a desire to have his daughter married again

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she was on a lot of pain she missed her husband a lot she spent a lot of time crying and grieving so I'm about the Allah Juan went to his dear friends and companions for the proposal of marriage he went to say that I will look at a Cydia cara de Allah Juan and made proposal of marriage

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I will consider the Allahu on refused.

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He went to Earth mono Viola one and said would you like to marry my daughter with mono the Allah one also refused.

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This was difficult for him one of the Allah one because these were friends of his and he was quite sure that they would be interested in establishing this relationship for them to be related to Almighty Allah one.

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They didn't say anything.

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He took his complaint to the sort of loss of the law while they were settlements that are messenger of Allah. I propose my daughter to Abu Bakr Siddiq or Viola one and he did not show much interest and then I went to off mana the Allah who want the same thing. What's happening here? It'd be sort of long while it was set up set. Yet as a word you will have SATA men who are hired on the north man

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woman who are hired woman Aviva that someone greater than mine and I will record will find the companionship of have somebody Allah Juana will be her spouse.

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Oh my God, Allah one didn't understand.

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And then Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made the proposal himself.

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On what are the Allahu Allah was so overwhelmed and excited that where he hoped for a relationship with Abu Bakr of Monterey Allah one. The proposal came from Rasulullah sallallahu ala he was sitting and later on Abu Bakr Siddiq or the Allah one said to him this was the reason why we said no because we had heard and he said Allahu Allah He was didn't

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make it intention of marriage to your daughter hops out of the hola Juana and therefore creating a new bond and a new relationship between our sort of loss that Allahu Allah He was salam, and say that are on top of the Allah Juan

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Abu Bakr Siddiq or the Allah Who on set for LM con la oshi sera who, what I will tell aka there's a watch to that as a watch to her that I had no intention of exposing the secret of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam if the prophet of Allah had left her and left his intention, then I would have taken the honor of marrying your daughter have some of the Allah Juana

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have settled the hola hola Anna was just a few years older than her younger brother say that you know a lot of the hola one six years older if no matter the hola Juan we covered him previously close companion of an abuse Allahu Allah He was the student of the prophets of Allah Juana he was salam, the one that became a teacher for the ummah. He had a special connection with the Prophet of Allah through His sister have some of the Allah Juana she would speak to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam on his behalf. If you had a question. Have some of the Allah Juana was very observant of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam she studied in Ibiza Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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very carefully like the other wives, and therefore went on to narrate so many a hadith regarding the personal life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, how in the recent Allahu Allah He was sitting with sleep, what maybe said Allahu Allah He was sitting with make dua for how the prophets that Allahu alayhi wa sallam guided the Ummah on certain very specific matters. For example,

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she says, upside of the Allahu anha the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, in Nila Allah Zhu Elia the Holo now in sha Allah, a hedonist Shahida bodhran will they be a prophet of Allah said that I am hoping Allah that any person who participated in the battle

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a battle of brother or for the via shall not enter into the fire of hell have started the Allahu Ana she was a scholar of the Quran very knowledgeable. She then said O Messenger of Allah, you say none of them will enter into the fire of hell. But Did Allah azza wa jal not say what a min come Illawarra Doha that there is not one of you but they will have to pass by that fire of hell? So the money him

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so what about this? So then have sort of the Allahu anha herself says that I heard the Prophet of Allah saying, from Mundo Nigella, the taco one a little Bali mean, a few Hadji Thea following verse so the mme 71 were Eman come Illawarra Doha Karna Allah Arabic hartron Michelia and then the next verse, Allah azza wa jal says the man who Nigeria Medina taco, we will protect and save those who are conscious of Allah subhana wa Tada that yes, people will pass by but Allah azza wa jal will protect his beloved ones.

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His servants his slaves, those that were loyal to him in the dunya. So they will not be affected by passing by in any way at all. Have some of the Allah Juana she says, regarding their suit Allah said Allahu alayhi wa sallam she studied the Prophet of Allah she had a very close eye on the Prophet of Allah, that the beasts of Allahu alayhi wa sallam when performing Salah never sat down and prayed his soul,

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the prophets of Allah Marathi was sort of motto at Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam you suddenly Jellison had Cana Cabela 30 Heba, Amin Awami,

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the Prophet of Allah never sat down or prayed for Allah. When he prayed for law, he prayed it standing just until the end of his life one or two years before then we began to see also the loss of the law it was started praying in a seated position that the WIA tell us that as maybe sort of low it was some grew older and aged, there was a knee pain that came into play. And so the prophets have a long while he was Saddam, even when standing up from such that would lean against his arms, and he would push himself up. The promise that along it was Saddam would sit in a posture relieving some pressure from his knees even while insula

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have sort of the Levana says that one day, maybe sort of long it was sort of entered upon her and thought I didn't have any inroads when you ordered a hash Shiva. The province of Allahu alayhi wa sallam came to have sort of the Allahu ANA has home and she had been to Abdullah the Allahu anha was there.

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She was doing some Rokia in that moment.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to ship out of the Allahu anha Alinea have saga, this Rukia that you're doing, teach it to help serve your loved one. Let her be a teacher of rakia. Let her be a scholar of rakia she fabric Abdullah the Allahu Allah was a very knowledgeable female companion. She was known among the companions as being someone who knew a lot. They said that she taught the other Sahaba how to read and write. She was very well versed in the Quran. There are these interactions that she thought of the Allahu Ana had, let's say there on one of them Katara the hola Juan, and here we see as well the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, Does she follow the

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Allahu anha that teach this rakia to have some of the Allah Juana

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have sort of the Alon Juana narrates

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from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that an abuse of Allahu Allah He was sent him sent via Hallo li in writing to middleby law he will Yeoman OB la hora SULI. And to hit the other midget in folk of wrath in Illa Allah such that it is not permissible for a female for a woman who believes in Allah and the Day of Judgment, that they mourn over the deceased person for more than three days unless it is a spouse. Because there we see that Allah azza wa jal tells us that the waiting period is much longer Autobot the ash food and wash it off for months and 10 days. This is an important lesson because among the Arabs, the jargony practice was that when a person died, their family

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members would keep their memory alive through the act of mourning. And depending on how great that person was, they would have a greater show. So if a leader passed away, then everyone in the tribe would cry showing how important this person was, how much that person meant to them. But this self inflicted trauma had a massive impact. It caused people in society to be broken, they would sing poetry about that person for years and years to come. And the wives to show their loyalty to their husbands would be expected by society to to camp out their husbands grapes. And as a result of this, all sorts of rituals came into play. Some were a direct, a direct cause to further shook. So when

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the sort of loss that Allahu Allah He was sent him, brings Islam, there is this period where the prophet of Allah stops all of it.

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He says, no one will visit the grave. No female or no, no male, visiting the graveyard is off the limits for everyone.

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Why didn't it be said Allahu alayhi wa sallam take the stance. The reason why the Prophet of Allah took this stance was to put an end to this custom and this practice. It was such a important part of Jiminy culture, and had such a big impact on the psychology of people and also their faith, that also the loss of a lot is sudden, cold turkey no more. And we see this in many practices that when something was so deeply embedded in society, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would suggest avoided avoided avoid it and then when the prohibition would come, it would be a strong No, like we see in common. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam not only forbade the Companions from consuming

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anything, intoxicating. On top of that the prophets of Allah has said I'm also said to

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then you cannot even use the containers that you were previously drink from.

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You can't even use the containers because those containers, those bottles, that shape will remind you. So we're doing no to all of this, we're putting an end to it. And then later on the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said, you can now use those containers that you were previously, you know, that you previously had and you stored your drinks. And as long as you do not drink anything and toxic and don't drink anything intoxicating, you can go back to using those containers. Similarly, when it comes to this issue of visiting the graveyards of sort of loss of a loved one, it was set them set. And we know that visiting the graveyards is an important part of our deen. And how

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can we pick up our hat as Ottoman Mikado? Because visiting the Greek guard is a reminder of the temporary nature of this world. It's it's an opportunity for us to honor those that have left the dunya by giving them step down. Right?

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The prophets of Allah while he was set them set, GO going to know how to commands era Tim, who I used to previously previously prohibit you from visiting the graveyards at a zoo ha. Now go and visit them. That important cause that worry that concern that we had, we've dealt with it, the culture has come to an end. And that was UAH and throughout the province of Allahu alayhi wa sallam give many warnings that were not reviving this. And unfortunately, we Muslims fall back into this trap.

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My mother Allah Muhammad said to me once that there are so many beautiful things about Muslims because she was a convert to Islam.

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She said, there's so many beautiful things about Islam as Muslims. But there's one thing that I don't understand about Muslims. Why do you copy Hindus in some of your practices?

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I was puzzled and I said, Mama, we don't there's nothing that Muslims copy or, you know, Islam, imitates Hinduism and what is it that you're that you're speaking of? She said, in our religion, when someone dies, we have all these rituals, you know, the third day, the fourth day, the seventh day, the 10th day, the 40th day, I see Muslims doing all of this again, why is that? What I saw there, I see here, and immediately I said to her, Mama, all these practices that you see Muslims doing have nothing to do with Islam. They have nothing to do with this not. In Islam. When a person passes away, we honor them by giving them the most pristine burial. We do wholesale for them, we

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give them Coven, we walk with them to the burial ground, we bury them, we make dua, we do Salah to janazah on them, right? And then after that person is buried, we then make dua for them and give something on their behalf and a person who grieves and mourns them. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us for three days that's permissible, then after that, you have to move back to life. Now, that doesn't mean three days later, you have to forgive them. That doesn't mean three days later, you can't cry for them anymore. That's a part of the human experience that we we recover from our emotions in different ways. But when there's sort of loss that Allahu alayhi wa sallam says,

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there's no grieving after three days, what we're what we are actually taught is that now you have to start making an effort to recover. Maybe the first three days you spend them at home, that's what you need to do. But the fourth day, you got to go grocery shopping.

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The fourth day, you need to go fill up your gas. The fourth day, you need to go back to the masjid and start praying so login. It's it's hard. It's not easy.

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Our dear imam in Dallas, one of our dear imams in Dallas, I won't say his name.

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He buried his daughter. He buried his daughter earlier in the day. And by mugging up Salah he was standing in the masjid leading them in joomag.

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The whole congregation was in tears. Everyone was in tears because they knew that this man just buried his own daughter, his teenage daughter who just buried her today.

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And he stood there and let them in muck it up Salah he's in tears the whole congregation is in tears that you slowly start recovering, you move on. Otherwise, if you stay in that memory and you and you bury yourself in that pain, you can't recover. have sort of the Allahu anha narrates his beautiful Hadith and maybe sort of autism. Why did the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam focus this on the women because they were the leaders in this cultural practice. It was almost culturally expected of them that you have to cry more you have to do extra the props of a lot of cinema saying do your bit but then you have to start recovering. The recovery process must be there.

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Another narration from have some of the alarm when she says the props that Allamani was sent him when he would come to bed. Either our either our electrology whether either William Natasha huggy, when he would lie down to sleep, he would place his right hand under his cheek.

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He would place his right hand under his cheek, walk all and then he would say rob the Fini either. Yo metabox robotic telethon. He will say three times OH

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Allah protect me from your punishment on the day your servants shall be resurrected. Or law protect me from your punishment on the day, your servants shall be resurrected. Oh Allah protect me from your punishment on the day, your servants shall be resurrected. Not from this relearn the other of sleeping, and how in one narration, she actually further elaborates on the same point, she says, the use of Allahu alayhi wa sallam would use his right hand for noble things. When he would eat anything that he was doing that had virtue to it, he was used his right hand for that. And if he did something that required cleaning, the purpose of the law, while he was sitting, did something that

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may or may had some filth involved, or a little dirt involved for that he would dedicate his left hand, showing us the attention that an abuse of Allahu alayhi wa sallam gave to things, everything had some detail to it, everything had a process to it. And until you don't, you know, this is a side note, when you start studying the life of Rasulullah sallallahu cinnamon and going through the Sunnah and see how everything had a 31 sequence. When using the bathroom when waking up when doing will do everything had a sequence. So the law says I'm did will do in a particular sequence, and he did it in that sequence his entire life. Hit it a Wilson a particular way, those that saw him

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perform also from his family members attest to the hustle being the same person every time. So the loss of a lot of sudden paid Salah it was in that same sequence. And throughout his life, you'll see this the way he ate the way he sat. Yes, sometimes the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what stepped out of that routine by Yan and Lil jervois. To let people know that this wasn't necessary, it wasn't mandatory. And this 30 the sequence that existed in the life of a sort of Lhasa log and Sonam is fascinating. Some years back, I used to teach a class, it was called a day in the life of the prophet.

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And the idea behind that class was to take the audience and the student through what a 24 hour day of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam look like. And there were certain parts of the day that were very structured. It was very predictable. What was sort of law said a lot is to them and doing was doing. And there were other parts of the day that were kind of more flexible. Sometimes the prophets of Allah was Saddam would be in the souk in the market. Other times he would be with family members. Sometimes he'd be sitting with the women of Madina Munawwara to solve their issue there to answer their questions. Like it was something that the Prophet said them would do, depending on what

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was needed of him in that moment.

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And one comment that I would always make while teaching that class was from the day of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one lesson that you can walk away with is a lesson of the theme,

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that everything had a sequence it had a process. And this shows us that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam, didn't do things. thoughtlessly, when he did something, even if it was something like putting a shirt on putting the lower garment on putting his footwear on, it was with intention, it was with purpose. And it's at this point that when a person does something with purpose, and with a tee with the right sequence consistently, that they then start finding meaning in what they do. And they then go on to perfect that

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whether it's hot, or hotter, or studying that you then get better and better at it. But when a person wakes up in the morning, and they don't know what their TV is, they don't know what their sequences

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that causes them that trickles down and makes a mess of their day. And then by extension makes a mess of their life. You need to find your team, you need to find what is it that your routine entails. Last night when my son Mohammed was going to sleep, I said this to him again. That better I want you to work on your morning routine. Whatever that entails, you figure it out. But I need you to work on it. I need you to know what your routine is. Does your routine start by using the washroom, then maybe changing, then maybe brushing your teeth, then maybe doing your boo boo, and heading back to your bed and fixing your bed followed by Fajr salaah, then some recitation of the

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Quran, then changing into your school clothes, having your breakfast heading off and sitting in the car waiting for your mother to arrive. That might be your sequence. And if that's your sequence, follow it every day. Make that your time that you wake up. If you're supposed to wake up at 5:30am You shouldn't wake up at six, you shouldn't wake up, wake up at 630 You should wake up at

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5:30am That's your 13. And when a person creates this discipline in life,

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you no longer even need an alarm clock. Is this true?

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Even if there's no alarm set, there's an internal clock that wakes you up. It's time for you to start moving. You gotta get up, you gotta move.

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But for this 13 You need some discipline. You need to see the value in it. You must understand how this benefits you and it has benefits on so many levels. When you fulfill the tasks that you know are necessary for a particular part of the day you begin to then

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Have confidence in yourself that I can actually execute something from beginning to end. That all the things that I did make me strong in believing in myself, my mind is now clear that I accomplished things that needed to be done nothing left behind as a mess. I didn't skip my responsibilities. The promise that Allahu alayhi wa sallam had the theme and everything. And this the second part of the statement of have sort of the Allah and one of his teaching this rewire from outside of the Allah, Juana that after the Prophet salallahu Salam was ready to go to sleep and his hand was in the right place. That's probably the last thing most of us do before we go to sleep,

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adjustment of arms. You know, people have their different ways of sleeping once you adjust your arms now you're ready to go to sleep. But she says once He adjusted his arms, he didn't just go to sleep.

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He didn't just pop his eyes closed and

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it'd be so awesome ended it all by Rob Bertini other metadata

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with a DUA, oh Allah protect me from your punishment on that day, your servants shall be resurrected.

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So you the only we need to have some of the Allah one hundreds. At one time it was sort of law said Allah Allah He was Saddam was sitting with me. The Hello Allah your Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that the Yeoman

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and his garment was you know, was properly on like he had the garment half on, orchestrated with families, sometimes your arm may be exposed a little bit. Your your path may be a little higher than you would normally have. If you were in a public gathering.

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Abu Bakr Siddiq with the Allah one he came to the house he sought permission the Prophet of Allah gave permission say that a book has to do with the Allah one he came in what a suit Allah Allah Hey at the he, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made no adjustment of his garment he didn't, you know, enter into a state of formality.

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So much oh my goodness, that didn't even Allahu Rasulillah salam ala Haiti. Satana, Amara, Barbara Viola, Juan Kane, he sought permission to be sort of La Hana he was sort of granted him the permission in sat in front of the Prophet of Allah and the Prophet of Allah made no change at all.

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Well, yeah, and that's something that's hobby and then a few other people came to but I mean other homage ah, Ali Yun yesterday you know for adding Allahu rasool Allah Allah at Sabena alila the Allah one also was in that gathering, the Prophet of Allah remain seated in the same position from Raja with might have not been passed that data, but gelato who Thumbelina No, you know, one of the Allah one came, he sought permission, the sort of loss of Allah and it was sort of mended his garden and he fixed it. And then he gave him permission,

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but had that facade and for Maha Raju, there was some conversation that pursuit ensued and then after that, they left.

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I asked for messenger of Allah that all these other people came back to La Liga, Abu Bakr and Omar Wali, when so minutes habecker One to Allah Hey Attica Welcome to Harvard fella Medaka Earth man who then delta Toba that all these people came in you made no movement you left your garment the way it was, but when Northman came, you fix your garment. Why is that? The sort of loss I'm said I am in men's style mineral melodica Should I not be modest in front of the one that even the melodica are shameful of the melodica looked down with Orth mono, the Allah one, they have a special level of modesty from him because of the way he carries himself. And this shows us a you know, a lesson that

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I was given. And so I'm gonna Zillow home that everyone has something special.

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The way you dress in front of your friends may not be the way you dress in front of your teacher. The way you dress in your bedroom may not be the way you dress in front of your parents when I was young, like all the kids that were young, we used to like wearing like, you know, basketball shorts a little more comfortable when you're at home and kind of you know, wear some shirt. And I remember every time I came into the main room where my dad was, if he saw me wearing shorts, that was the end of it.

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There was going to be a half an hour lecture he would probably swing to see if he can hit me and then he would say something like, you know, what are you doing you monkey you're gonna want to go Go get changed. And he would say you know, like you're in front of your parents go fix your clothes, and wearing clothes like that at a mealtime was unimaginable. Because there wasn't, there was a special honor for food culturally, you know, that you don't eat like this. You dress a particular way when you come to the table or when you sit on the ground to eat. When you go to the masjid. You know, every time we would walk out for Salah time. Our parents would say to us that you know fix

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your clothes go put something nice on go put some athalon Because there is a place in time for everything

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has settled the Allahu Ana also has some very fascinating interactions with her father.

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She not only narrates from a sort of loss and a lot of them and observed some practices and narrates them from the other companions but she has these interesting interactions with her father to have some of the Allahu anha noticed that while her father was Khalifa. He didn't engage in any of the luxuries of being a honeypot. There was wealth available. The room

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Roman Persian Empire had been conquered. I mean, we're talking about millions and billions worth of wealth arriving now in Madina Munawwara it was easy for Omar the hola Juan to indulge a little. She saw that her father did it. So then she one day approached her father and said, God, God Akbar, Allahu Allah, Allah has caused good to be in abundance now, while also our response, and he has expanded for us the sustenance for our culture Tom and Eliana min Tomic will RTFM in Tomica, while M is the Tobin alien, I mean, Toby is not appropriate. It's not okay now for you to eat something better. Why don't you drink something better? How about we get you in some to some nicer clothes.

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She's speaking to her father, her father is now an old person. He is a meaner look, meaning she's seen the grind of her father's life. And you can imagine the love and the compassion that this daughter has for her Baba and says, Come on, man. We have so much available Why don't you change it up a little bit?

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To say that, Oh my God, Allah one.

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He said to her, you were the wife of a sort of loss Allah on Amosun.

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telling me how did the Prophet of Allah eat? She went silent.

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You or his wife, tell me about his drink.

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She had nothing to say.

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Outside of the law on how may have remembered that one day, when we said a lot instead of visited her. The map, the Prophet of Allah would sleep on the sheet that he slept, he slept on that little blanket in order to bring more comfort to the Prophet of Allah, instead of just folding your once. One time she folded it twice.

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That morning sort of loss had a lot of sun overslept a little. And then he said, the softness of the bed caused us to be delayed in our prayer.

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This is Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam who found it uncomfortable to sleep on a platform that had been folded one time extra. So he continued, he said tell me about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was close. Tell me about his house. You were his wife told me about his furniture. And he continued addressing her and for masala you the Kealoha McAfee hero Sudha Lhasa Lhasa Mikado Hatha aapke

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he took her so deep into the memory of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that she started crying.

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She broke out into tears. Yes, that was a sort of loss and a lot of it was.

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Then he said

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I had two friends

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Amara, their loved ones that I had two friends

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in the hookah and he saw he been

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so caught on and they traded a path while they were alive.

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We're in the insulin to higher authority Hema Seleka be labeled directly Hema if I choose a path other than theirs in this world, what if I am separated from them on the path in the hereafter?

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I want to be with him in the hereafter. Abubaker no sort of loss that alone.

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And the way I'm going to do that is by sticking to their example in this dunya

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Well, aim law little sharekhan the Homer the mystery he Hema a shredded while Ali analemma and Homer Ayesha Homer

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by Allah I will continue to join them in a tough life.

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So then we can enjoy the luxurious one together as well.

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Absolutely, Allah Juana has this conversation with her father. She then goes on to say in another narration that I heard my father making dua My Baba used to make one Glock Allahumma knee Shahadat, and feasability wa jal mo de Bella Eurosonic that I heard my father saying, Oh Allah, grant me martyrdom in your path

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and make my death in the city of your beloved prophet Sallallahu Lata he wasn't.

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I mean, that's got to do a toll on you. That's got to do a number on you like in a good way that you're here your father making dua for shahada you hear your father saying that oh Allah give me death in the city of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam you learn a lesson from that

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have said or the Allahu an herb

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was very close to only meaning the eyeshadow the Amana as CO wives.

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And this had some interesting consequences

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when I share the hola hola and our plan some

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thing, whether it was against some of the other co wives or if she had anything that she was trying to accomplish, she would include hops out of the Allahu Juana.

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Alma or the Hola, Juan, when he saw this dynamic,

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he said to have some of the Allahu anha

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do that this alliance of yours is good and also tricky. It's good because you're with good people. But it's also tricky because you have to understand that if whatever it is that you're scheming or planning as a part of your you know, personal affairs in your marital life, if it doesn't work out,

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I should have the Allah who is very dear, and the most beloved of his wives, sort of sort of lots and lots of them. And not only that, but her father is so special to the Prophet of Allah, that there is no scenario that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would ever say anything to her father.

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And then he said to his daughter, Hafsa, your father isn't the same as her father.

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And your relationship with Rasulullah sallallahu is special. It's good, it's nice, but it's not the same as I shouldn't be allowed on us. So be careful that an act of yours doesn't cause hurt to the sort of loss of allies. Because if something you say or do, invokes the anger of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the outcome of that will be the anger of Allah subhanaw taala Donna and we are no place to be under the anger of Allah and his little sort of low on a wisdom. Oh my oh my God, Allah one was very careful around the props of a lot of setup. And the way he spoke the way he carried himself and he would warn his daughter Huff's out of the Alana to be careful

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there's long narration that you can find in the Hadith books part parts of it exists in Sahih Muslim and then within the other Hadith collections as well.

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It's the why of zoete from Satana if not Abbas with the Allah one this is a long narration. I'm going to try to cover as much as we can in this class while kind of breezing through other parts of it

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until now, but some of the hola Juan cada LEM Sal hurry son an SLR Amara Anil attainment as well as a Nabi Latini caught Allahu Taala into tuba in Allah He got Surat coma

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say that I have a blog now but the Allahu unsent

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I had a desire to ask Omar the Allah one regarding the two people that were addressed in Surah Hareem in that fourth verse, In the toolbar it Allah He forgot Sadat Gugu Kuma we're into Valhalla he for in Allahu Allahu Allahu wa Gibidi Lusardi Mini.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala was addressing two of the lives in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam in this fourth verse of Sudha Hareem. If no Ambassador Allah one had a desire to ask Almighty Allah what?

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HUD the HUD Yamato hijama.

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I waited and waited for the opportunity to ask him he didn't ask why. Because the common interpretation was the I was referring to have sort of the Allahu anha. And who is she? On? What are the Allahu ons daughter? He didn't know if he was crossing the line by asking if that I bet is calling them to do Toba was referring to his own daughter. And then all metal the Allahu Akbar was who he was. So he says that I had this fear and I didn't want to cross any lines. I waited for my opportunity. We went for lunch. While we were doing Hutch

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on one of the hola Juan stepped aside to use the washroom and when it came time for him to do the setup to ally ally a day I poured the water of wudu for him and while I was pouring the water will do and he was doing with who I said yeah I mean Manila attainment as well as in Nabi electonic. Or Hola Hola. Hola into tuba and Allah He forgot Alucobond

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who were those two women while in the middle of wudu we asked her what's the scene of this ayah and then in one narration, he said to oh my god Allah one that I waited one year to ask its question and I didn't because I was worried that it may upset you. So in that narration, oh my god Allah one set to him. Never fear me. You have a question asked as long as I know the answer, I will give it to you.

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So I'm gonna the Allah one.

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He said why Jevon? Like a yard? Yep. nobis

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what amazement, such amazement for you, oh son of a bus you ask a question like this. And then he said, he had so to Asia.

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That is that I was talking about when when we need to have some of the Allah when and I show the Allah Juana. Now, what is this ayah talking about? What's the

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backdrop context to this verse, There are two types of series that are present. There's one tafsir, which is more common in the more say, one, the narration can be found in the site collections body and Muslim. And then in the second Puxi of that verse, which is more weaker, and also

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potentially can be viewed somewhat problematic as well. So I'm not going to engage in the second one, I'm just going to focus on the more savvy one and the more authentic one. That why is, I shutter the Allahu anha. Notice that in the views of Allah, Allah He was sent him was spending more time with one of her co wives Zenodo, the Allah Juana.

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And the reason why he was spending more time there's because every time the Prophet of Allah came to visit, Xena but on the Allahu anha she made it a practice to offer the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one of his favorite drinks and the prophets favorite drink was

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metal baptismal acid and cold water mixed with honey like you guys might have a Kool Aid or tango, something nice and sweet mixed in there, he would drink it. And you know she would take her time and making the drink the Promise of Allah listen would wait and then he would serve it and he would also cherish the drink. I shot of the Allah one I noticed that there's something going on here, and she didn't like it. So she said to have somebody Alana, here's what we're going to do. We're going to tell the Prophet of Allah, that there is a smell emerging from him.

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And that he saw some did not like any sort of smell or foul smell because he would interact with Monica. So he would avoid consuming anything that had a foul scent to it.

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The prompts that a lot of sort of came to visit them and they said O Messenger of Allah, there's a smell coming from you as if some kind of a bitter you know stench. You saw some said no, I just had honey they said well, maybe something where honey I don't know something's off about honey. Maybe it's like from some bootleg Farmers Market honey.

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Sort of sort of last lesson and then taken took an oath that will lie here. I will never have that drink again. Yeah, you wouldn't be Ulema to hurry mama. Hello. Hola. Hola. Tabitha Remo PATA as logic Allah.

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Allah azza wa jal revealed the verse that why do you prohibit on yourself that which Allah has made Hala one thing is that a person says that I won't eat something like I don't like

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liver for example, I don't like kidney I don't like eating intestines. I don't like eating tongue. I don't like eating brain.

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You can avoid eating whatever you want to but the other is that you take an oath well law he I won't eat this or It's haram upon me. You can't make something Halal haram a person doesn't like eating meat. Don't eat it. Meat is haram okay, but he calmed down. Right? That's not true. Rather Allah There we go. It says in the Quran at the establishment a lady who will let you okay.

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You can't go around changing the rulings of Islam.

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If something is hard, it's hard if you don't like it, don't do it.

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If you like it go ahead.

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Lima to hurry mama because the visa Salam is also sharing. Sharia is based off of the Hakama the prophets of Allah Allah uses the doing of newbies awesome.

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David tell you more about the US logic.

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So it was regarding this incident that the idea of the Quran was revealed in sort of the honeymoon.

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So now we go back to that narration of if not buzzworthy Allah one

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Imams already here narrates the whole narration as I was mentioning, one time what happened is so on one or the other one actually played a role and have sort of the Allahu Anna's life as a father even after she was married.

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One time Oh my God, Allah one was at home with one of his wives and Madina Munawwara. And she was that two of them have got like into a sort of a passionate conversation. So I'm one of the hola Juan said to his wife that Why are you giving? You know, why are you so excited about a conversation that has little to do with you? The women in our time did not do this. He was referring to the makan culture that in Macomb Akarma women had a different role in the household and in society. And if the if the if the head of the household made a decision that was that didn't directly impact everyone that was final that was their decision to make. So he said to his wife, why are you engaging with me

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like this? So she said, Well, the wives of the Prophet of Allah do the same so we're just following their footsteps.

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And one of the Allah one said, What do you mean? You're saying that the wives of the Prophet of Allah they speak to the Prophet of Allah with their voices raised?

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She said, go ask your daughter.

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So what are the hola Juan came to have started the hola Juan

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he asked her what's going on here? Is this true? Perhaps out of the Allahu Han has said Yeah, it's true. When we speak to the Prophet of Allah, things could you know they can find their own flow?

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Home or the law one told her I told you not to do these things. They can have a very negative outcome. The other

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above Allah and His messenger he went to Santa Marta the Allahu anha and he said the same thing to him you know what is this that you guys I hear that you guys speak like this to the Prophet Allah audio Salaam is this true? On Sunday? What are the Allahu anha she says to him, that it's better that you don't get involved in the personal affairs I'm gonna sort of lost that aloha to Saddam and his wives. So he gets shut out on one of your loved one and just

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lost for words. The province of Allahu Allah He was Saddam was stationed in an area in a room. So he went immediately and to meet in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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he couldn't enter into the room because there was a doorkeeper somebody ERATION selflessness was below the alarm one that was stationed outside on one of the Allah one sought permission the doorkeeper said the messenger of lot not taking any visitors right now he said when again and he said many elements Omar for him back and told the profitable lights on the profits of a lot of them said okay call

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seven oh my god Allah one entered

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Oh, the whole forgot Athena like for the Hulu, a salam ala Rasulillah.

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I give salam to Rasulullah sallallahu.

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But you know who I'm with? Thank you and Allah Romley has eaten up Rafi Jambi. When we saw some Sami he sat up, and the marks of the straw man that he was laying against, had impressed into his arm and printed

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blue. On one of the last one. He just came out and asked the main question at the lumberyard or sort of La NYSAC a messenger of Allah. We've heard that there's been some dispute between you and your wives. Did you divorce them?

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Ferrara who Ilya paella for some reason had to me and he said no, I haven't been able to Allahu Akbar, Omar, the Allah one started celebrating. He was happy and relieved because his wife, his daughter wasn't divorced from Rasul Allah and Allah so He was worried about this, by the way, have sorted the Allahu anha

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due to an interaction with Musa Allahu it was set up in something that she did that cause, you know, displeasure to the Prophet of Allah.

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Let you know, there was an interaction that she had with maybe some a lot of stuff that has to do with their marriage that resulted in the Prophet of Allah actually divorcing her

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sort of loss and a lot of them actually did give him some of the Allah Juana and divorce. And then not too long later, the Prophet said a lot of them came back and smiled at her, and he revoked that divorce. And she said, what happened? He said, you read it, Saddam came to me. And he said to me, in the hassle, Lama Allah she worships Allah and she fast she is beloved to Allah. It is not appropriate take her back into your Nikka sort of sort of loss that Allah Allah He was he revoked that the lock and she entered back into the marriage of Rasulullah sallallahu and he was set up. So now you come to this story. On what are the hola Juan, he says Allahu Akbar Al Hamdulillah and then

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he says O Messenger of Allah.

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In Macomb Okayama things were different.

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Men had a stronger role in the household.

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Cleaner Marcia coration Coleman Natalie bernisa Bulama Cardinal Medina del y Jelena Coleman, Dudley Boone, Nisa home, but now we've arrived in Madina, Munawwara. And here in the household, the women play a stronger role. It's a different culture, different environment. And it's fascinating if you think about this, because in Madina Munawwara, the major trade for the Muslims, there was farming and agriculture, which is a family affair. Everyone chips in together, you work together, you earn together, you live together. So it's a different dynamic in that in that sort of a household versus in Macomb, Oklahoma, it was mostly to jobs, which required long suffering, which was mostly

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something that men did. So therefore, because they were the sole breadwinners, and these are the people that were earning for the family. And the women mostly managed to manage the domestic affairs of the house household, their influence on the relationship and on the decisions made were also different. They were in accordance to that. So he makes his observation and he says on Messenger of Allah, things in Macomb Yokohama were different things in Madina, Munawwara are are different, the province of Allahu Allah, he was seven when he heard this and saw this observation of oh my God alone when he smiled, he said, Yes, I'm not in Makkah, things were different. And this was the first

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time the Prophet said lesson smiled and days since the whole conflict started, and had been a long time since he saw it also the loss of Allah holiday was

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it's a long narration, but to kind of jump to the end of it. And oh my God, Allah Juana was getting ready to leave, but are far too ROTC Phil Beatty for Walla Hema

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Are you to V shaped and Euro duel Basara in triathlon, that I, when it was time for me to leave, I looked around the room that the Prophet of Allah was sitting in. And there was nothing in that room except for three skins. There were three leather skins there, that was it. And when he walked into the room, the Prophet sallallahu Alia was said, I'm just sat up, and there were there were these marks in his arm from the mat that he was lying down on. And for almost all the Allahu M This was an overwhelming site, because he saw the Prophet of Allah going through so much emotionally. He knew of the spiritual sacrifice with a prophet of Allah. And here he sees how it will sue the loss that

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Allahu alayhi wa sallam didn't live like a king. Because in our world, when people gain access to fame, when people get back gain access to wealth, their life changes, their house changes their car changes what they dress, where they go, who they hang out with all of that changes. You're no longer to sleeping on a mattress, you now have a pillow cushioned mattress, it's memory foam now that can go up and down. You know, there are these features attached to it. And he's looking at the Prophet sallallahu. It was Saddam, and even though he is the head of state, he is the leader of the Muslims. There are companions who have great wealth and if by one instruction, you know he could he could

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benefit from that and they would do it with honor. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the prophets of Allah, Allah wa salam never took any ones well,

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he lived like a poor person.

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So in that moment, overwhelmed any emotion, say that oh my god Allah who has set your suit Allah or the Allah and USA Allah ematic pocket the Watsa Allah 30 Sir, I thought is our room or whom Leia would want Allah

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or messenger of Allah? Why don't you pray to God that he make our fares easier and give us wealth and abundance? Do you not see how the Roman and Persians live in luxury because we went to Rome and Persia palaces, Thrones, entourage, gowns, buffets, you know, servants and lines and lines of soldiers. It was a whole different vibe in in Madina, Munawwara mud homes, in Madina Munawwara everything was simple and easy. When the Persian general came to negotiate with Satan, Ahmed Abu Dhabi, Hola, Juan, he was amazed to see the leader of the Muslims, the man whose command the Roman and Persian Empire collapsed. He was amazed to see that leader, that student of the Prophet Muhammad

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sleeping on dirt

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was amazed. The guy came from the Persian Empire. He's used to the White House, a Senate. He's used to people traveling limousines and airports, one Amida looked me in lies on dirt.

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Couldn't believe it? And he asked, why are there no guards here? Why is no one guarding him? They said, Well, how come to adult perimeter? I'm into. Right? That you because the man is just the reason why he lives in peace is because he's adjust. And people want him to stay in power. People are happy with him. He listens to people. You know, when no matter the law, one was stabbed. The first thing that he asked was it a Muslim who stabbed me? He said no, it was someone else. He said I'm humbled that I did not oppress anyone and someone came to seek revenge against me, that man who did stab me. He had his own problems and he raised his concerns of that individual in his presence

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in Madina Munawwara that person shouldn't have been in Madina Munawwara to even start with.

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So he made this observation, the purpose of the law while he was sitting was lying down first of all, Janice, and he sat up right away, and he said, a fish shakin and they have not heard Bob, or Omar, are you in some doubt?

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Well, that ecoman orgy that Lahoma told you about when Phil highlighted dunya they are people that Allah gave them the luxuries in the world. You shall find your luxuries in the hereafter. It's okay to not have all the wealth of the world. It's okay to live humbled, Live simple to focus on other things in life. I know having more wealth is a dream for us all. Who doesn't want it? Who doesn't want to have more luxuries in their life? Everyone does. That's true. But if those luxuries come while you can continue to be a positive contributor to humanity society and have a strong relationship with your Allah, then great, that's happening.

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But if those luxuries come at a cost, they come at a cost of you not being able to dedicate time to your Creator. You're not able to serve humanity, that you lose your soul in the process that now you're scheming and you're lying and you're cheating and stealing from other people.

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Then from our perspective, it's not worth it.

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And that's a religious perspective. For a person who doesn't believe they won't be able to ever understand this perspective.

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Because we wait for that reward in the hereafter. We're okay with sacrificing this real firm believer sacrifice is easy because

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cuz I know that when I give up in this world there's something waiting for me an equal or better in Charlotte even the better in the hereafter whether it's well whether it's time, you know any sacrifice that I make

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have some of the Alon Juan hum

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she passed away in the year 41 Haiti the year that Hassanal the hola Juan may truce with with why we are low on

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my walk with Him to La Yanni says that it was in the year 45 PGD

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Marwan the Wali of Madina, Munawwara the governor of Medina, let her janazah prayer.

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She was buried in the graveyard of

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one little house, a two and a Senate and Athena Tara 22, and a senator and she was either 60 years old or 63 years old. Now Allah subhanaw taala elevate her McCobb Allah's wouldn't allow us to learn from her story.

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Again, many lessons that we learn from have some of the Alana from the narrations to her personal life, to OMA the Allah Juan's lessons and his observations. This family was a Mubarak family and they left so much for us, Allah azza wa jal elevate their MACOM and make their graves into guardians of paradise and allow us to benefit from their companionship in the hereafter. Well son along with Elena and I send them home with Soleimani Kumar.