Hadith 35 (Part 1)

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Love you.

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He

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waku, Reba de la,

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Muslim, Muslim

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guru.

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While she'll

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be hustlin Amina, Sheree a

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Muslim,

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Muslim, a Muslim.

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Proceed

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is number 35.

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And since we have the board here Yeah, I guess I may provide these for you here

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in the future if you have like a portable board cabinet here in the middle, but

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maybe maybe

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rely on your

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ability.

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So, this is reported by almost no law from heavy rail and it is reported by others as well.

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As reported by

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report to better busy for the writer, it is reported also from the vectors the runway Muslim development is your perfect forecast. But Muslim It is reported from other companions as well. So Alex report to the temple bukti reports with the Orion report to the

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report the many

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reports that the police have that tells you what the last proper filter the police is worthy of

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reporting certainly

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worthy, but when you have, like us reporting your particular hobbies, that means that they have a particular interest in this party, and they really wanted to report it and they really not wanted to spread knowledge of this hobby, particularly when you have people like have a bucket out are reporting your hobbies. They don't report a lot. They don't report frequently. So there's at least a portion that we're working on on where you need to be pay attention, because we must be reporting something what is important to relate to us

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and

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they weren't in their bodies, value choose the importance of is only by Muslim or not by quality because like I said this has been reported by Bocconi a different form of interpretive quality, sometimes a certain wording because certain phrasing would be more most comprehensive. So that's why, if you want to use a particular report, you would want to use the most comprehensive, the most comprehensive happened to be reported by Muslim only, and not have this particular hobbies. And it's nice about how we teach each other about you know,

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interactions and

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you may say Dena maga, Dean is about, you know how we treat others. This is not particularly hobbies, it's a statement. And it is not an absolute statement. Usually, you know, absolute statements are very, very rare to come by. So these are relative statements meaning what meaning that you don't understand that you don't take it in the absolute for because if you think in the absolute for the DMR ideas about how we treat others than a D is not about Craig Wright, is not about transferring, being is not about heart worthiness about all of this and it is also about how we treat others But speaking of like this would basically emphasize the importance of how you're

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treating others because it's a manifestation of your true

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it's a manifestation of your true faith. It's a manifestation of the beauty of your

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So here's one

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so this one is in this case the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Do not

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don't envy one another what you can don't inflate prices on one another one at a time don't hate one another one

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and do not turn away from one another. So like I said, Just

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don't envy one another don't inflate prices on one another, do not hate one another and do not turn away from one another. When I am bound to kumada ba ba,

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ba ba

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which means what and do not undercut one another and says do not undercut one another in sales

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and Muslim

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America and be servants of Allah brothers and Muslim awkward Muslim Muslim is the brother of his fellow Muslim lie of limbo lie of

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what a zoo Zoo

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Zoo

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one out of

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one

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so how sad is envy do not envy one another that are just to inflate prices and we will come to explain explanation of this

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what I'll do hate

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while auto tearing away or turn your back to your brother

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well I am about to come out of a bye wanna

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buy a bow

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do not sell and do or do not undercut do not under cut one another in sales and we want to explain what it means.

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What

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what

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means what the service of a lot of others

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the

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brothers

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Muslim

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is the brother of his fellow Muslim.

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He does not

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does not oppress him

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and he does not

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favor him. Let him down.

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Why?

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Yeah, he does not despise him or hold him in contempt.

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It is right here

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has been marked imminent.

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From the Muslim

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mark in the Middle East.

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despise

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Muslim is Muslim brother

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not evil

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to the

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Muslim

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community all inspirasi for the whole of a bathroom inside all of the Muslims are Muslim for the Muslim or to the Muslim is several Muslim homies inviolable. So, the entire thing

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to the Muslim Muslim is inviolable

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explain what he meant.

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And he said that

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you could say like How can he do his medicine right?

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Why?

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Because what

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property

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my Muslim friends from home

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like

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voice came from an armada as far as I'm from Barcelona and outside

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of the box.

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And in fact, I just noticed now that we can see that

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we bring this here in case I needed to

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really sorry for wasting your time.

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But those of you who are for visit and if you can see that

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now, before we begin, someone may say all of this is about the Muslim and his fellow Muslim and his brother and so on and so forth.

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Which does not mean that for a non Muslim

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none of this applies.

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Why is or doesn't apply?

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Okay.

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So, there is an area that there is an area where especially a fight

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or flight kind of area, which is controversial, where the area is certainly

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by agreement consensus.

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Okay. So just in general, if it justice is applicable to the Muslim or non Muslim

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is presented, what are the ones who are non Muslim, and that's the best I agree with this area has been removed.

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When it doesn't apply in August accelerates the Muslim and growing enjoys over his fellow Muslim dynamic. And as you can see from this, there has to be some certainty for the believers that is the same fraternity further believers.

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People have extra rights over others on various grounds. People have a choice over other human beings have known people to have more rights based on certain instances. Those allegiances are sometimes tribal, sometimes racial, sometimes. National, you know, having reasons is not so much different from tribal allegiance by the way. You know, it may sound nicer, it may sound more civilized to the snapper this year combined capacity to serve your country, man. It sounds more. It only sounds

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more civilized, but it is really not much different from psychology.

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It is not much slicker, because the relationship here is a coincidental relationship. You have and it's not about principles. It's about ethics. It's about anything smart people that just happen to be born in the same country where you're born.

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For people that happen to live in the same place where you live regardless of the principles or the ethics, the you know, whether you do their boundaries or your padding.

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So, it is not much different from cyber caliza. So, when we say that the common denominator between Muslims is the common denominator the allegiance that connects over Muslims is their commitment to the faith the commitment to the country, then the commitment to the religion, how is this how does this sound apart?

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How is this not superior but this is certainly superior customer service, this termination is by choice, it is an allegiance by informed choice, it is an allegiance by informed ethical principle, not pragmatic choice, it is not in you know, an allegiance by coincidence, in non allegiance by you know, the for for one tribe or one nation for one's race, which are all manifestations of egotism to be for oneself. Right? Because your family is that of course, a circle around you, then your class and your tribe vendor urination. So, it's all about you, it is all about you, but when you have leaders that is based on wisdom that this is an important ethical principle region can develop

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themselves upon. So, there is there is no Muslim majority over his fellow Muslim.

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So, this has to be you know,

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the area in the middle is basically whether you could

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to you under what do you mean what do I mean by overclocking?

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So, I am giving the power to you, concerning the product you are wearing, we were discussing it and then we agreed that Okay, I will give it to you for this much money.

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He wants to get your money and

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for some reason, there is a delay between disagreement and finalization of the state, then I come into the picture, I come into the picture you are you have a read on the frame, I come to the picture outside.

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I'll give you a better price for this hour. We cannot do this, obviously,

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we cannot do this.

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Okay.

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Now, can you do a SWOT analysis?

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Here's what I wanted to talk about. No, no, God, no, that must have Yeah. And those that they have said, though,

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that these

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say, you know, interactions or transactions, the ethics of transactions will apply to Muslims or non Muslims, he can't even America.

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So basically, we're talking about the majority of Muslims say that he cannot even do that to

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all of them. So you cannot do injustice to another school. He cannot deceive, you cannot cheat.

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Certainly, you know,

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the state of war is a completely different story and conditions of war completely different to what happened during the war is a completely different set of rules. And what we're talking about peaceful non Muslims, we're talking about demonstrations that are that the Fed was put up in our house pieces, or we representative

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Part II, that was a piece they never got to see.

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That piece of I was

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talking about.

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So the majority of the Muslim scholars that this is applicable also to non Muslims, so everything that's happening will be applicable

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to non Muslim except that it is an extra, you know,

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half the reason why the profit or loss and upset the Muslim and the sudden in the other report

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is really upset now to become a leader and send your love for your brother, which is not fair. So that's how I said the reason why the profits of Muslim ladies except your brother or his brother, is to underscore the ultimate

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victory, because he sent you by yourself. It is to basically highlight the ugliness

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of

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low ethics but it does not mean that you

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This is only a month ago. Remember when we talk about

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copying, typically a female pointed out to him, he said that there are variations, and hobbies. And there are reports in their internal reports from Muslim

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that use the word the word a mess, not happy. But the metalness.

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Hacker, yes, he has a nasty name of his book, and the other day that he loved you and have the difference that he treats the people the way to people, not just the Muslim analysis product, the way people like to be treated the way he likes to be treated. So, yes, some of you have been mentioned, Jonathan had mentioned his brother, but some of the artists what what is the golden principle, they don't know how to read up for his brother, but he lost

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his brother here, brother, even if

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there are other hobbies, that interest would be made for the future. So not ideal when talking to some developers themselves, I can see the people that are in your life and

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the people that was about to be taken

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into your character to have three different sets of rules.

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When it comes to justice and injustice, disappointed, disappoint everybody by consensus,

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when it comes to that extra rights that you will have to extend to the Muslim courts is basically graciousness, not just justice, margin, you know, graciousness, if you have to, you have to visit a particular house, you have to just expect to have the phone, you know, we have to do these things. These are religious obligations towards the Muslim.

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The rights of instilling those rights are now automatically extended that our Muslim Brothers by agreement, yes, do you have any visibility assist? before we're talking about here, that obligation is not happy to tolerate that if you fall short, then you have committed like an error. But certainly if you extend kindness to other people who visit the sector, you know, you're going to go out into the family with a dog and so on and so forth. That is fine. But as right, these are blind for developers, when it comes out of

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the ACA, you know, to submit to or you have to get that credit card debt.

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These are called what to post.

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So those are those nuances on screen. And when you have a large area in the middle, which is basically

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like Colin

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Kaepernick that pertains to transactions.

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Where there is some controversy, where we're not talking about justice and justice or reseller society is another consensus we were talking about, you know, go into someone in the example that I gave to people I read out saying that when you first learn how to talk to somebody

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to basically

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wind up

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scalar transaction

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and that's what separated universes are going to be showing us a little bit more.

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Okay, so that was what was like an important clarification in the beginning. Now a lot of my son's love me one another look at the top of the funnel is basically when you wish that what your brother has,

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that you wish that you'd have when you have work that you have that what he has. Now, what are the various degrees of various degrees of it, one thing is going away.

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Okay, you know what, there are basically two different sets of positions, what are the positions or religious positions?

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If you wish to have or to record in terms of piety in terms of his commitment, he has been socialized. So I look at him and say, I wish I have like,

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you know, he has knowledge that he knows that you know, bragging about the show is not as good as exactly the device that he's using, that he's done to the club. So if not before so. We're excited to the day and like this is something that he should work for.

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yourself back. This is supported by quite a Muslim from around the boat. A lot of the time I've said that

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there is no concept

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of legitimacy, that is praiseworthy, envy that is praiseworthy here does not mean envy in the negative sense. But if you're wishing to have like your brother house, whatever it is, regarding to matters in that because I

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have never

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met anyone, a man with whom Allah Allah, Allah, Allah blessed with

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or whom I love lists with

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money or wealth, and these 10 zarbin day and night, he spends their time

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in the same type of alignment. He's

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he's spending all this money, like huge wealth and keep spending power is never you know how to you know, or don't have to go flat. If you go to Texas to go to the IBC it's not about the center sector is that used to build it? It was like a huge

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historical bank events in the middle of downtown

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Houston

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and when he bought it and he must've isn't this something that is enviable? Like you wish that you have the money that we have? so that he could do what he didn't like it's so beautiful that he just like one man, it's like a one man show we see how much how much you have to suffer together massive in your area and

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and different drives and different tactics and you know, you know, least if at all, you

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know,

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anyway, but this man, he actually came to, like a huge historical when Bill

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van, in the middle of downtown use in the middle of downtown Houston, very, very desirable spot, and Bart can begin to associate

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with your new incentives out do I ever have this money to do what what is it 7000 of the price, the property or whatever, but this is the number four for the engineer commendable for profit, not only recognizing those who are not to whom a lot of money for Well, since Gonzaga day advice, generally, what are the methods of looking for advice.

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So I want to look at a lady when she has a lot of blood. And he

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loves to memorize for her. And so you're trying to think of her that day. And my guess is it's about being proactive in various technologies, and not only the reputation, but it also means acting upon it, it means living by his father. The second problem is the automatic quality of the hobby. So it is

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something that

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is desirable. So what happens in religious matters in return, keep in mind that public service marriage, you will never unless you're completely perverted, right. So you have like your your, your, your house, like the problem up here, you would never wish to have that move, you know, if you take it away from your brother, right? Why?

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Because nobody

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you know, allows virtual live copy is boundless is infinite. resources in this world are finite. So we always feel discontented about resources of this world. So the money has to be with you or me.

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You know, but when it comes to the problem of law when it comes to the blessings of Allah when it comes to the court, you know, but we're gonna have a couple more slides into this. Can you because you can have it and we can use it. And therefore it is not necessarily a counter. That is negative time.

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And what I want us to have it take you for a minute, just

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Yo, what's up

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When you

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increase your rankings you're not asking a lot about us to put your stamp of someone in particular but you just asked a lot of to generally raise your rates

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and go for your

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profits

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with people is subject to this great set.

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One

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and do not hate one another and we will not talk much about not eating one another because it is

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obvious.

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One

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means what? Do not turn away from one another do not give your back doubler is the back. So, it is their earring. So, giving your back to your brother means

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do not cut off your brother give your back to router turn away turn your back all of this enhance

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would i would report it for me is

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that the profits are

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certain for work itself.

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He who cuts off his brother for a year it is like getting

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insane It is like killing him.

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Mad Hatter and this honey this authentic advocated by you know,

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the majority of scholars of the day authenticated this report has our Center for what yourself give me He who cuts off his brother for a year is like getting him

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have a preference on some extent that you can talk to your brother for half an hour for for more than

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a Muslim before that the prophet SAW

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that it is not permissible to boycott or cover for your brother for more than three days. You have to stop here and you're able to have a home whether the other seller when the meet one get each one of them gives us back this brother have the best of them is the one who starts with a greeting of setup is done your setup first.

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Maybe

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whatever you're asking. So now so this is

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does the same as that I've given your style is the same or given gift set up enough to end in a state of hatch. So that we said okay, I gave him some song.

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This has like an initial step. It is it ends the speaker for the state of shining your brother.

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But many of the scholars said that it is it is resumption what used to be between you. So if this is one of your relatives, for instance, one from your kin, that it will not be enough to just give them Salah it is the presumption of what we used to have the relationship to use the app that is the end of the state of house for boycotting Your brother is the resume what you used to have before. Certainly it is important that we all know as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said back down and moderation of feelings because sometimes we're too involved with each other. Sometimes we like each other we get a little bit too involved too much value like you know suffocate one another without

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love. So that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said

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that Pope Ben visit infrequently that you may increase in love. The prophet SAW Selim said

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love those who you love in moderation. So sometimes we're excessive also in our love. our emotions are a little bit

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too hard to hold on to it and people who have hard emotions. They also have extreme negative emotions, people who have to have excessiveness in their positive emotions. They have excessiveness in their negative emotion. So the Prophet is saying and this has been bothered

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in both emotions after about 200 men love those that you love with moderation.

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You may be here for one day.

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Love to have Matt and he knows that you ate with moderation on Saturday.

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They may be your loved ones one day.

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So what if if our relationship used to be excessive, we were excessively involved with each other then we sort of cooling down to the presumption does not mean you go back to you know that excessiveness that caused you the problem.

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In the first place because expressiveness and love can cause problems, you know, when you're you won't be able to people their personal space and so on.

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Okay, so one final thing that I want to say about this is that this is this is not applicable to boycotting others for the sake of Allah such as when the prophets Allah

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can predict your question.

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So when you are waiting on someone for the sake of Allah, it's this is not applicable to someone for the sake of Allah. Because the prophets Allah, Sunnah, boycotted, dramatic and the people, the three people that stayed behind the bouquets that go out to the prophets of Salaam For how many days 50 days fancier

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prophet em the companions, no one talks about for 50 days. So to avoid that someone for the sake of Allah is different from this.

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But, you know, the you know, you really need to be clear on your intentions, you need to be clear on the correctness of your action.

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Because, you know, I'm going to look at the end of the day and just enjoying it, enjoying the good and forgetting the bad is for the ultimate purpose of what increasing the good and limiting to the bad, or the evil. And if your tactics

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are not going to work,

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you should not do it.

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It's not only about my cousin, because we're shining, your Muslim brother, sometimes also, when we are in a community like this, Muslims are minority and the very, very few in the midst of a very large Muslim population is then you're running the risk of losing them by boycotting them. So sometimes you have like in a Muslim country or a boycott, somewhere, for instance, who sells some

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liquor for instance, and everybody walks in in the neighborhood, it is likely that this will be a deterrence for them. And then we come to the mustard and they wanted an eighth of a mustard and mustard, there was a moment not take your money because your money comes from,

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it's likely that this will be any terrorist.

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Now, if it does not, if it is not a deterrence, then you don't do it. If it will push them further away, then you don't have to do it right or wrong. Because that that play the main the main principle of our marbles on how to limit the marker and increase the amount of free stuff which is good and limited, which is bad.

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If

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your technique is proven to do the opposite, then you change your technique because that is the main purpose of

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the model.

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Which means do not undercut one another in see. Now when does it?

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What

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does that mean? auctions are hard.

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Doesn't mean auctions are hard?

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Doesn't mean options are far

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too

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big is basically if someone said I'll take it for this much then when you come in and he said I'll take it for Mark.

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No, I'm sorry. I didn't say it's wrong.

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No,

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does not mean that

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it means that when we settle

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the agreement, I accepted but in actions It is clear that the center of that

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accepted until he gets the final price. So the options are

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and the process was

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he sold something in auction.

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So, auctions are not per se.

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But when when I am, you're saying why is this horrible when when we agree, and then you come in the middle of you your offer more in this column because what happened my feelings, because I became, you know, expectant of having this property, you know, it's a piece of furniture I like I reached an agreement with the seller of any game and he took a quick for me, he offered more money for me

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my feelings, and this is all about my feelings, this is all about not hurting feelings.

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That is why because you see you said this, because it does not seem to be injustice, that is by some of the scholars that you can do this to anonymously

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because it is not a justice.

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So to come in, you know, after we have agreed that it is not finalized, I did not pay the price. But we have agreed to come in and take less, you know,

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item from me merchandise for me, it hurts my feeling but it is not injustice to me. So that is why the scholars said some of the some of the scholars said you could do it with a lot of Muslims, the majority said you still should not do it, even without Muslims, because it hurts people's feelings.

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But with the word change of words.

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No, no, no, no, that is still not finalized.

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But there is apparent acceptance from both parties. But the deal is not finalized. The deal will be finalized when you when you say okay, it's yours. I still did not get the money. But we're not talking about when the seller says it's yours. The carrier says hey, would I take it, he generally will offer an acceptance. We're not talking about this has not happened yet. We're talking about an agreement in the sense of acceptance, you know, I want to buy this item from you for $2 Okay, you know,

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right $2 is okay, you know, I bought it for 20 cents.

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But I didn't say they take it I did not offer it You did not accept that the state has not verbally finalized how the price has not been made. But there are signs of acceptance, there are signs of acceptance, and that is where interfere in the sale can take it for yourself. This isn't a problem. Now in auctions, it is understood by customers of either older people or the customers or people that it is not final until it is final condemned the person

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auctioneer declares this fight so I could still

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go to auction to do this.

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So

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we're we're done with this? What would What

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do the service?

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Meaning brothers, how would you be one?

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How do you be the lucky one.

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You must have

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to have to have to work to have no thing than the other two zero schemata.

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So that you know exchange gifts that you may

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have love for one another exchange gifts because gifts remove hatred from the hearts removed resentments or even resentment from the hearts. The prophets Allah.

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Allah

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by Allah He will not walk

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until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love one another and share a mastery of something that will make you love one another that will bring about love between you. And he said let's just start out by knocking spread the greeting of center

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among you, so they're going

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to be brothers. This is a command for us to be brothers to have brotherly feelings and act like brothers.

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It means that you have to basically pursue over the means that would make us brothers. So the command is not to become brothers because becoming brothers is beyond our capacity.

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If you spend all of the treasures of this earth, you will not be able to reconcile the Kingdom Hearts, but a lot concert and sound between their hearts. But that commander here what is obligatory is not to become brothers, because it's beyond our capacity. It is basically to pursue the means that will make us

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pursue all the means that will make us

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a Muslim or Muslim and Muslim is the brother of his fellow Muslim.

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And this is this is clear live little while

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live demo.

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Now, why

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do I wanna? So there's not a person who does not lie to him, he does not despise him. Someone is here and he pointed this just because it's enough even for a man to despise his fellow Muslim or his Muslim brother for the entirety as a homeschool his empire inviolable to his Muslim brother, his blood, his property of this honor. quantity.

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Okay, so I think we should we should just defer that for the rest of the next time because it'll take

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too long.

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But anyway, the Muslim is the brother of his fellow Muslim does not have a question we'll talk about the pressing. We've talked about not letting him down.

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And some reports and some hobbies what I was capable of is not given given him, meaning he does not give him into his enemy. And in some reports, one UI does not deceive him, while

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he does not despise them, or put them in contempt.

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piety is right here.

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It is enough evil for a man to despise his fellow Muslim. What does it mean enough evil it means that it is enough to destroy them,

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to despise his fellow Muslim, all of them are inviolable to his fellow Muslim in his work, his money. And his honor, concept of power is extremely important concept. As you know, modern civilizations are human rights in modern civilization. They skip that one. They don't really pay much attention to this particular one. People's honor, people's dignity. As long as you know your blood than your property or touch, you should be fine. No, there is a little bit more to

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or two human rights than that the sacredness of their blood for their lives have their property. There's something called the sacredness of their honor and dignity.