Hamza Tzortzis – Gaza and Evil A Cognitive and Spiritual Reframing

Hamza Tzortzis
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the issue of evil and suffering in the world, emphasizing the importance of loving mercy and affirmations in achieving Prophet's promises. They stress the need to practice gratitude and affirmations to strengthen one's spiritual and mental health, and to focus on cognitively and practicing to strengthen one's spiritual and mental health. They also stress the importance of facing trials and working on one's heart to strengthen one's spiritual capacity and mindfulness. The speakers emphasize the need to take the Quran and Sunless Act seriously and engage in spiritual practice to strengthen one's spiritual and mental health.
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My dear brothers and sisters is great to

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be back

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in good old high Wickham.

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Seeing some familiar faces,

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some new faces,

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some grayer beards.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make that gray be

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shining lights on the day of judgement say,

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I mean,

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I'm getting gray as well and now I'm

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very happy I've seen my beloved chef,

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Sheikh Yasar Al Hanafi, he's been chasing me

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on text, I haven't been ignoring him

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I've just been in a kind of quasi

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busy state, I have to ask his forgiveness

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publicly, Sheikh you have to forgive me before

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I continue.

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May Allah bless you because Sheikh knows,

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Allah says forgive and overlook. Do you know

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what Allah to forgive your sins?

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So, us forgiving other people is kind of

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connected to Allah forgiving us

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and that's why some

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they say if someone asks for your forgiveness

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and you don't forgive them because of Kibba,

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then you could go to *.

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You may go to * rather. I'm not

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sending them to * of course, that's not

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my domain

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Alhamdulillah.

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So my dear brothers and sisters,

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you know, when I get tired my defenses

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are down, I'm a bit tired.

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Self inflicted, of course, but I've been filming

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for most of the day Alhamdulillah.

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We did a Dhul Hijjah series

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on 10 reasons

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why Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is deserving of

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our worship

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and it's gonna be a series that we're

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releasing

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during the first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah

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Insha Allah, it's a very important topic we

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hardly talk about this topic it's the foundation

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of our Deen.

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And,

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today we're gonna be talking about Gaza and

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the problem of evil. Now, we could talk

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about this in a philosophical sense, but I

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kinda had enough of philosophy to be honest.

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I spent about 10 years studying the thing

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and it's a thorough waste of time.

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Honestly, to be honest,

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you know, I've got 3 post grads in

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philosophy. I'm just finishing my PhD as well.

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Many people would be like, oh, look at

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me, I'm intelligent. But I think the more

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philosophy I study the more I realize philosophers

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are stupid.

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Because if they were smart they would submit

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to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Simple.

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Because if you think about what we've done

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in a kind of post secular culture, we

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have basically

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removed the heart from the

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remove the heart from the intellectual discourse and

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we think that people are like AI machines

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that they're just input and output. You learn

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this knowledge and then you're gonna have certain

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outputs,

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but the human being is not like that.

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Human beings, especially from a cognitive psychological perspective

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are not just abstract

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intellectual

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entities.

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They're not robots that you type in some

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kind of intellectual algorithm or code and you

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expect certain results.

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Even in today's cognitive science, we realize

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there are psycho emotive driving forces

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that compel us to adhere to a certain

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doctrine or to a certain intellectual discourse

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and this is so in line with the

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deen of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, right? Because

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala talks about

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the intellectual spiritual locust which is what? The

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Kalb the heart and the heart does

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it wavers

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and the heart

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has diseases like kibr and Arjub,

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arrogance and self amazement and the riya, ostentation,

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showing off. And Hasad, blameworthy jealousy.

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And

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the has fitten, has tribulations.

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Destructive doubts,

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and

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blame where the desires.

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And interestingly, the the intellect according to the

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majority of the Ulema

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is a function of the

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So, the Aqal is not some abstract thing

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that you just type in some, you know,

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code or intellectual algorithm

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but rather it's a function of the Qalb.

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And if the Qalb

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is wavering, it's diseased and it has fit

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in, then no matter how much you give

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the intellect,

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if the caliph is diseased it's not gonna

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be functioning properly, right?

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So

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I did want to entertain this from a

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philosophical perspective but really if you boil it

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down,

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it's really a Kalbi issue. It's an issue

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of

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something that transcends the abstract intellect.

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Because

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when it comes to evil

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and us thinking evil is a problem,

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then fundamentally that is because we have an

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understanding reality properly.

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Not only reality as it is, but the

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reality of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, his names

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and attributes and his nature,

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but before I get into that,

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let's talk a little bit about what's happening

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in Gaza, which is quite terrifying to be

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honest

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and it's horrifying

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and

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I'm kind of in a state of

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absolute shock still

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that in the 21st century,

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after so many calamities,

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so many different types of genocide,

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the Rwandan genocide, the Bosnian genocide,

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the

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genocide of the Jews in Nazi Germany, that

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we still haven't learned our lesson.

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Human

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entity, as a human collective.

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And now we are live streaming genocide.

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Like, I don't know how how anyone can

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see the pictures anymore. I actually turn away,

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to be honest.

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Honest. I turn away because it's bad for

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the fitla, it's bad for

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someone who has

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potential anger issues or they get emotional, right?

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Because it could drive you absolutely insane. Like,

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I saw a picture of 2 kids being

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crushed and one of his eyeballs was popping

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out. I mean, how can even how can

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you even tolerate such things like this?

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From a human perspective,

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from an Islamic perspective, it's absolutely shocking.

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And we have to be very very careful

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that these things desensitize us. And

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if it starts to desensitize you, then look

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away.

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Then look away.

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So,

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according to EuroMed Human Rights Monitor,

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as of around 23rd

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February and now we're what?

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The 11th May? Is it 11th May? Yes.

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Yes. Saturday 11th May.

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So the numbers are probably greater. We have

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around 40 0000 dead. 40,000 innocent human beings

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dead.

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That includes

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15,000

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children. Around 15,000

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children.

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There are

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2,000,000

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people that have been displaced.

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2,000,000 people.

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A 100,000

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homes completely destroyed. A 170

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press headquarters

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damaged.

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400 damaged schools,

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320

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health care professionals killed

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and around 3,120

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detainees

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or those who have forcibly disappeared

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and there's

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much more that we can talk about but

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this is a numbers game

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because sometimes numbers are just very abstract. They

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don't really hit the heart

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and when it comes to Gaza and the

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problem of evil, people sometimes raise the question

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why is Allah aligned all of this suffering

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to exist?

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And I think Gaza or the people of

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Gaza have taught us a lesson.

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Because look how the people of Gaza

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have reacted.

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Look how they have reacted to their calamity.

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Did they turn away from Allah

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Or did they turn to Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala?

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We've seen this live.

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In actual fact, the Iman

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is something that is

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unrecognizable.

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Let's be honest, many of us complain about

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oh, I lost my job or I don't

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have a big house

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or

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I have anger issues or this problem at

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home and that really affects our Iman. Of

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course, everyone has their own context for sure

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but the people of

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Gaza, they have reacted to genocide.

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They have reacted to losing their family members.

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They have reacted to seeing their children burned

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alive, they have reacted to seeing

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pieces of their children in bags.

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In actual fact, they have reacted to collecting

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pieces of their children and putting them in

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bags

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in a way

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that is

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almost you can argue close to how the

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Anbiya would react.

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It just increase the Imaan.

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It's increased the iman.

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And they say, Allah is sufficient for us.

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So how dare we?

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How dare we

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even

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fathom,

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even contemplate, even insinuate,

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even

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whisper to ourselves that, Ah! There's so much

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evil in the world. Where is Allah?

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When the people are actually suffering,

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are not reacting that way. Shame on us!

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In actual fact, this has been one of

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the most powerful

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most powerful examples against anyone who rejects Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. When they say, Ah, there's

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so much evil in the world. Where is

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God?

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You're not even facing that evil. The ones

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who are facing that tremendous evil and torture

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and oppression and genocide, it just increases the

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Iman,

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Which shows

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what? It shows that there is something

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that they have within them

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that allows them

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to understand

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evil

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in a way that allows them and facilitates

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them to transcend evil and suffering.

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And really just think about it From a

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psycho cognitive emotional perspective,

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the Quran

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in many verses is designed

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to cognitively and spiritually reframe you.

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And I would argue the reason we have

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this problem with so much evil in the

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world because we're not connected to the book

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of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Full stop. There's

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no other way. Anyone who really reads the

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book of Allah will not have a problem

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with evil.

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It is a fact with all due respect.

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What I mean by read is doing kadab

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but really understanding the book of Allah. I'm

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not saying just reciting the phonemes, the sounds.

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Don't get me wrong, there's a place for

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that. That's a glorification of Allah. It's a

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praise of Allah. I get it. There's reward.

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But what is the what is the objective

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of the of the Quran?

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To guide you.

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And one of the issues we need guidance

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for is

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how to react to suffering and evil.

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And the Quran

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cognitively

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and spiritually reframes us to understand evil so

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we could transcend evil.

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Because

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in summary, what does the Quran do?

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The Quran is basically saying to us,

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Stand in the possibility

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that the meaning

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you are giving this evil and suffering no

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matter how intense

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this evil and suffering is,

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is not the only meaning.

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Stand in the possibility

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that the meaning you should be giving this

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evil and suffering is the meaning that Allah

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and his Messenger want you to give it.

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And once you do that, you're able to

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transcend your suffering in some way.

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You're able to transcend your suffering in some

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way.

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Look brothers and sisters, who was the most

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merciful

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human being to have walked this planet?

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The prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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In actual fact, I don't even like the

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word Mercy anymore, it's a bad translation. I'm

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not a linguist, I don't want to sound

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arrogant here, but I think it's a bad

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translation.

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Because when you think about Urahma,

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it's not just mercy because it comes from

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the root for the womb.

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The mother is not just merciful to the

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child,

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the mother has a loving mercy.

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She has this overflowing affection

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before

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she even meets and greets the child, before

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she's even named the child. And we know

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the hadith of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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Allah has more affection for you than a

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mother has for her young ones.

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And in the English language, I know there's

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a difference in Arabic, but in the English

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language because it's kind of semantically impoverished, right?

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Because there is no mirror between English and

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Arabic.

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It's good to use the word loving mercy

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has that kind of intensity.

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Yeah? And that's why when we say Ar

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Rahman, the most merciful, it doesn't do it

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for me.

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Because linguistically

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and theologically,

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it's best to describe it as loving mercy.

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Because that is truer

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to the reality of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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as Al Ghazali,

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the 11th century theologian and proof of Islam.

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When he spoke about Allah's names and attributes,

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when he spoke about Allah being

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the most loving. He's got a perfect form

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of love.

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It's

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a maximal form of love. He also talks

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about

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Allah's other name Al Rahman and he says

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there is a similarity between the 2.

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Al Ghazali and he was actually

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Not condemned but there were some detractions from

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his fellow theologians on this issue. But he

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stood his ground in the Ihya in the

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36 volume. He smashed it. Isn't that right,

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Sheikh?

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So,

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Al Ghazali,

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he

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argues that the difference between Allah being Al

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Rahman

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and Allah being Al Wudud is the issue

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of

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subservience and power essentially. We don't have to

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get into it but the point is I

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think it's better to say the lovingly merciful,

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especially from a root word and theological perspective.

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So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam it was

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is and was the most loving human being

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to have walked this planet. He had this

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loving mercy

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for all of the worlds. Is this clear?

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Is this clear?

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Okay,

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so how much love

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and mercy did the Prophet

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have for the believers?

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Can you love a fellow believer more than

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the Prophet

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Engage with me here. No. No. Good.

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Now, imagine the love

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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had

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for his own children?

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Can you love

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your child as much as the Prophet

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loved his child?

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So imagine the love that he had for

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Ibrahim.

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Because with great love,

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comes great pain.

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If anyone has truly loved, they'll know that.

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Because a lot of our love today is

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very narcissistic. We love people the way we

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wanna be loved, but that's just narcissism.

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True love is to be intentional and directional

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and to love someone the way they feel

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loved.

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Which means that you have to be humble.

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Because you can't truly love someone if you're

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not humble towards them. Because you have to

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be humble to lower your ego to say

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forget how I feel loved, how can I

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make them feel loved? It could be totally

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different to the way you feel loved.

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And that's painful.

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That's painful.

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If you haven't been in pain and you

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think you love, you don't really love, you

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just probably a narcissist or it's just delusional

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or it's just an infatuation.

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So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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loved Ibrahim his son

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more than we could love our own children.

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Yes or no?

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So imagine the pain that he had when

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Ibrahim passed away.

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Imagine the pain.

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I want you to imagine the pain

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when his son Ibrahim passed away.

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May Allah protect all our children but if

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our children pass away will be in anguish.

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Your soul is gone, parts of your soul

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have just dissipate for life.

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Take that pain and times it by

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almost an infinite amount.

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That's the pain of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam.

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And some Ulema say,

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that as a result of Ibrahim passing away,

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his family, his uncles were calling him what?

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What was the kind of

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slander or the name calling?

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He is cut

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off. You have no lineage

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because the lineage of course, according to the

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Arabs is through the sun

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and it's a sense of pride and honor

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and fulfillment

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and self identity.

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You are cut off. See imagine he's honing

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his son, dead son. Imagine the love that

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he had for his son, and the pain

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now that he's experiencing,

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and he's hearing from his family members and

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close people, you are cut off.

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I want you to imagine the pain because

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with great love comes great pain.

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And no one can love like the Prophet

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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No one can be as merciful

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than he was.

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No one could love a child

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more than the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam loved

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his own child.

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No one. So the pain is immense.

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Beyond anything you can imagine.

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And how does Allah address the Prophet Sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam?

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Does Allah say

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I'm sorry?

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Does Allah say,

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time will heal everything?

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Does Allah say,

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everything's gonna be okay?

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Does Allah say,

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that he understands the Prophet's pain,

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What does Allah reveal according to some Ulema?

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What does Allah reveal?

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Surah Al

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Kalthar.

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Surah Al Kalthar is a cognitive

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and spiritual reframing of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam.

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Indeed,

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verily, We

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have given you the abundance,

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the river in paradise.

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But also the Ulema say,

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many things, plentiful.

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And the Wow in

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the grammatically means

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continuing

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abundance.

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It's like when Allah says

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Continuing calling to the truth, it's not just

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calling to the truth once, it's in perpetuity,

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a continuation.

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So Allah is saying, Verily, We have given

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you the abundance.

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Therefore, pray to your Rab and sacrifice.

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The one who hates you, He is the

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one who's truly cut off.

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Now, we're not gonna go into the linguistics

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of the emphasis of the Surah,

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the emphatic

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nature and certainty

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of Allah

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giving the prophet

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the abundance.

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The point here is

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this changed and reframed

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the Prophet

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cognitively

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and spiritually

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to be in what state? In a state

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of?

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Gratitude.

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And when you're in a state of gratitude,

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it's almost impossible

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to be in any other state.

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This is one example of the Quran

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cognitively

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and spiritually

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reframing the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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and by extension

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reframing us.

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Think about it my dear brothers

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and my dear sisters.

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If we were to understand gratitude from a

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Qur'anic lens, forget this post secular, postmodern, new

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age lens.

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Oh, be grateful, do affirmations,

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Shut your

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mouth. With all due respect, I don't even

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know why we go to this type of

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guidance anyway. It's total nonsense.

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It's nonsense on stilts.

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A lot of it has a capitalist materialistic

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framing anyway.

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You know to achieve these ephemeral goals. Let's

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go to reality.

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The Quran ic understanding of gratitude. Yes, we

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must be grateful for our health, our wealth,

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our family, our wife,

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our wives, our children, our car

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and so on and so forth. But Allah

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talks about other aspects

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of gratitude that are more fundamental in nature,

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which helps you reframe your whole entire reality,

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which would help you reframe your understanding of

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evil and suffering.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

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He is the creator.

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Allah

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He created us,

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he creates

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every single conscious moment of our existence.

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Yes or no?

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Brother, if I said to you you had

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10 minutes left to live,

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but in order to get to get another

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10 days you have to give me all

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of your wealth, what you're gonna do? Give

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you all of my wealth. Bro, you're not

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gonna give me all of your wealth. Be

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honest. You're gonna take your friend's wealth, and

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your mom's wealth, and your dad's wealth, and

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you're gonna do as

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It's life, bro. It's a priceless gift.

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Who's had someone who's passed away recently?

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I'm not gonna go too much into deal.

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I don't wanna get you upset my dear

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brother,

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but if you could, hypothetically,

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take all the wealth that you had in

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gold coins

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and feed it into the mouth of the

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deceased that you loved. In order for them

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to come back for 1 minute, would you

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do it?

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Brother,

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if I give you 1,000,000 forget £1,000,000 £10,000,000

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unconditionally

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£10,000,000

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I give you £10,000,000

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bro. How you gonna feel?

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Oh, you're gonna feel more than happy, my

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friend.

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I want you to go into your internal

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theosaurus and just,

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you know,

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start to explore some more emphatic language, my

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friend.

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Exhilarated. Exhilarated. You're gonna be elated, my friend.

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You may even jump up and give me

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a big hug.

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Okay.

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Let me slightly change it for you. If

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I give you £10,000,000

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and I said to you,

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here's the

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£10,000,000, but in the morning you have to

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give me your eyesight. Will will you give

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me your eyesight?

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No.

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So why aren't we exhilarate every morning because

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we have eyesight?

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Wow. Why aren't we exhilarate because we have

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life to experience

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eyesight?

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These are fundamental basic gifts.

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Forget the experience of life, the very fact

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that we have every conscious moment that we

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don't earn or deserve

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and it's given to us freely.

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How should that make us feel?

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Great. Grateful. Grateful to whom?

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The one Al Khaliq, the one who gave

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it to us.

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What about in chapter 14 verse 34? When

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Allah says

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you cannot count and numerate individually the blessings

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of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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This is not about a car

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and about how many hairs you have on

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your head or how many children you have.

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Yes, it's a bala but the thing more

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fundamental.

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Allah is saying you cannot enumerate

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the single blessing that you have.

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Take the heartbeat for example.

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If I said to you, brother,

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you have a 1,000 heartbeats left to live,

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but to get another 20,000 heartbeats you have

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to give me all of your wealth, what

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are you gonna do?

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100%. 100% give all of your wealth.

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Such is the priceless nature of every single

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heartbeat.

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So isn't it true that we can't enumerate

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the blessings of Allah? Because here's a challenge.

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I want you to individually count every single

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heartbeat you've had in a lifetime.

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Bismillah.

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It's impossible.

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For the 1st few years you can't even

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count. When you're sleeping you can't count.

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Let's slightly change it.

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I want you to say Alhamdulillah

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every time you've had a heartbeat. Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah

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Alhamdulillah.

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It is impossible you have a backlog

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when you're sleeping, when you're doing other necessary

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things in your life. You have a backlog

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for at least the 1st 2 or 3

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years because you couldn't count so it's true

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you cannot enumerate a single blessing of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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So anything above

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a heartbeat is what?

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It's a bonus.

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It's a bonus.

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This doesn't mean suffering doesn't exist,

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it doesn't mean evil doesn't exist but I

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am telling you

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it reframes evil and suffering

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because you're in a state of true

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gratitude,

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a state of the gratitude of those who

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have taqwa,

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who remember Allah, who understand reality.

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And will give you a hierarchy of suffering

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because if you're in a state of this

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type of gratitude

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that you truly don't deserve anything,

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I can't even repay back

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my heartbeat to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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and even if some in some hypothetical

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alternate universe I can thank Allah for every

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single heartbeat, I will still have to thank

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Allah for the ability

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to thank Allah.

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So we're an eternal state of gratitude

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an infinite gratitude that we must have towards

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Allah

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And if you have that state

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then when suffering happens you're already in a

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state of gratitude and you're already in a

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state of anything

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extra I don't deserve.

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So when it's taken away from you whether

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it's health or life, you're still in a

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state of gratitude

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and you become like the people of Gaza.

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It's all spiritual forget this fear philosophical nonsense.

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It's all about your heart and about how

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you relate to

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Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. So if we're in

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that state,

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everything changes.

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It's the cognitive and spiritual reframing.

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As I said, don't get me wrong, suffering

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is gonna happen, we're gonna feel pain.

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There's gonna be evil and suffering in the

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world, this is the promise from Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala.

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But with great pain and suffering, suffering comes

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great reward.

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As Allah says in Sur Al Baqarah,

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do you think that you're gonna go to

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paradise without being tested?

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Do you think you're going to go to

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Jannah without being tested?

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The people before you were so shaken

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that even the prophet and his followers,

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they cried.

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When is the help of Allah? Where is

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the help of Allah?

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And what does Allah say?

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Indeed,

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Allah's

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Nasser, his victory, his help is

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Kareeb,

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close.

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Let's do some Tabbar here.

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Imagine the kind of pain and suffering

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that has to exist for the Prophet and

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his followers

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to actually

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exclaim when is the help of Allah.

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Imagine the type of suffering.

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It's peak suffering. It's peak pain.

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And what does Allah say?

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His hope is near.

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So when there is

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the height of suffering and pain,

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this is when Allah's

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victory and hope is close.

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So when you reframe Gaza from this perspective,

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it is one of the peak forms of

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suffering and pain.

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This for me is a veil

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that if we understand it properly and we

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remove that veil, we see behind it is

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the victory of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is

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very close.

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And this is how Allah wants you to

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frame these things.

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Also,

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in order to cognitively and spiritually reframe these

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things you have to really believe in the

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Quran and Sunnah, not in an abstract way,

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not in a way that we suffer from

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some kind

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of spiritual diabetes and you come to these

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talks and you have some kind of spiritual

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insulin and for 5 minutes you feel better

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but in a true way that you really

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work hard to internalize

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the values and the principles and the concepts

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on the Quran and the Sunnah. That you

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do the hard work my dear brothers and

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sisters.

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We live in difficult times now.

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It's not just enough just to recite the

00:28:46 --> 00:28:48

Quran and not understand what it says. You

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need to start focusing doing Pradakbud,

00:28:51 --> 00:28:53

understanding what does Allah want for me in

00:28:53 --> 00:28:54

my context?

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What is most pleasing to Allah in my

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context?

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If you don't ask this question then you're

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already part of the problem. You're part of

00:29:01 --> 00:29:03

the problem. We're part of the problem. If

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we haven't asked what is most pleasing to

00:29:05 --> 00:29:07

Allah in my particular context?

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Then we have lost our way.

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We need to ask that question to take

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the Quran and the Sunnah seriously.

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Like the people of Gaza,

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The whole family passed

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away. The uncle, the brother was having a

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box of sweets giving it to people because

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he was so happy

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because he believes in the promise of Allah.

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Allah does not break his promise

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that these people are going to Jannah and

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they're gonna take him

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to Jannah too.

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Look at the iman.

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Look at the belief because if you die

00:29:42 --> 00:29:45

defending a religion, you die defending your family,

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you die defending

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your neighbors, and so on and so forth,

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you die as a martyr. What does that

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mean? That means you are going to Jannah.

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What is Jannah? The hadith, the authentic hadith

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. He explains

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to us, the one who suffered the most

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in the dunya.

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You can't even imagine what that means.

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

The one who suffered the most in the

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dunya.

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If he's destined for Jannah, he'll be split

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in Jannah for a split moment, and he'll

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be asked, did you ever suffer? And you'll

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say, well, lie. I have never suffered.

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That's Jannah

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And they believe in this. It's not just

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words to make them feel better. It's not

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just opening a self help book and, you

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know,

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fulfilling some kind of quasi spiritual existential

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desire.

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It's real stuff. It's Haq for them. It

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is absolute truth.

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These words from the Quran and the Sunnah

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are more true than them seeing

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that the world is round or them understanding

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that there is an external world.

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Because they've taken the Quran and Sunnah seriously.

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And to be honest brothers and sisters, you

00:31:01 --> 00:31:03

can't take the Quran and Sunnah Sunnah seriously

00:31:03 --> 00:31:04

just by reading a book.

00:31:05 --> 00:31:08

Yes. I'm gonna intellectualize this. Proof of Quran,

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proof of Prophet, Khalas. No. It doesn't work

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

that way. Trust me. I've been doing philosophy

00:31:12 --> 00:31:13

for nearly a decade. It does not work

00:31:13 --> 00:31:14

that way.

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Do you know what works?

00:31:18 --> 00:31:20

And this is advice to myself as well,

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

is actually doing the hard work

00:31:25 --> 00:31:28

and worshiping Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Waking up

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in the middle of the night,

00:31:30 --> 00:31:31

supplicating

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to Allah, understanding

00:31:33 --> 00:31:35

your utmost dependency on Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.

00:31:36 --> 00:31:37

Doing the Dhikr in the morning and the

00:31:37 --> 00:31:39

evening, doing doing the duas,

00:31:41 --> 00:31:42

connecting with Allah,

00:31:43 --> 00:31:45

over the Quran. As Allah says, don't you

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do over the Quran, there are locks on

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

your hearts. You can mirror the meaning, the

00:31:49 --> 00:31:51

more you do, the more your heart becomes

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

unlocked to receive His guidance and His mercy.

00:31:54 --> 00:31:55

This is the hard work.

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Standing up in salah, making dua in sajda,

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Connecting with Allah.

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

Dealing with the spiritual diseases of your heart.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:08

Doing this hard work because that is what's

00:32:08 --> 00:32:09

gonna count.

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

Because the human being as I said earlier,

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

is not some kind of abstract AI machine

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

that you type in some code and you

00:32:16 --> 00:32:17

get certain results.

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

You need to work on your heart to

00:32:21 --> 00:32:22

strengthen it

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because once the spiritual heart is strong

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

with service to Allah,

00:32:28 --> 00:32:29

with worship,

00:32:30 --> 00:32:32

with the supergatory deeds to the degree as

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per the hadith Qudsi that Allah starts to

00:32:34 --> 00:32:35

love you,

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then Allah will not let you down.

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

And I don't believe Allah has let down

00:32:43 --> 00:32:44

the people of Gaza at all.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

Allah has shown

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what it means to be a true believer,

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through the experience of Gaza.

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Because these people,

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many of them are promised Jannah,

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and I'm telling you, Wallahi, I believe this.

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Wallahi,

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Wallahi, I believe this.

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On the day of judgment,

00:33:04 --> 00:33:06

when they see the reward and mercy and

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

love of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:33:09 --> 00:33:11

they will probably ask for it a 1000

00:33:11 --> 00:33:11

times.

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Such is the reward and the mercy of

00:33:15 --> 00:33:16

Allah.

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But this is cognitive and spiritual reframing.

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That yes, you have to understand the Quran

00:33:23 --> 00:33:26

and the Sunnah on how they frame Jannah,

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

they frame the understanding of evil and suffering.

00:33:29 --> 00:33:30

Life is a test.

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

You get reward for the suffering that you

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

face. But in order for that to really

00:33:35 --> 00:33:37

make sense, you have to internalize the deen

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

through practice,

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

through worship.

00:33:43 --> 00:33:45

In order to create transformations, by the way,

00:33:45 --> 00:33:48

you cannot transform someone intellectually.

00:33:48 --> 00:33:49

It's actually very difficult.

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

Imagine someone has anxiety,

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

I get anxious sometimes, right?

00:33:56 --> 00:33:58

You cannot deal with an anxiety by saying

00:33:58 --> 00:33:59

calm down bro.

00:34:00 --> 00:34:01

Calm down.

00:34:01 --> 00:34:04

It's not gonna happen. Let me intellectualize this

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

for you. Look at the historical pattern.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:09

Relax. Make a positive inference. It's all nonsense.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:10

Not gonna work.

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

You deal with it through

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

changing their framing, their language.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

You do it by changing their emotions

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

and you do it by changing the behavior.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

If you could change any one of those

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

two things you get some kind of transformation.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

It's actually not even an intellectual exercise.

00:34:30 --> 00:34:34

It's very hard to transform someone intellectually. Meaning,

00:34:34 --> 00:34:37

that through intellectual discourse you get some kind

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

of change in the way of being. It's

00:34:39 --> 00:34:39

very difficult.

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

What you should try and facilitate

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

is changing how they frame things their language,

00:34:45 --> 00:34:47

their emotions, and their actions.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

And that's what the Quran aims to do.

00:34:52 --> 00:34:53

It has a framing and a set of

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

language that you need to adopt to help

00:34:55 --> 00:34:55

you

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

understand reality and will help change your way

00:34:58 --> 00:34:58

of being.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

It's giving you the right type of emotions

00:35:05 --> 00:35:06

and it's recommending

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

and commanding you to act in a particular

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

way. If you could change any of those

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

three things your language, your emotions and your

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

behavior you'll get

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

transformation.

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

This is why

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

the Quran is so important to reflect upon.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

This is why

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

engaging acts of worship is so important to

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

perform

00:35:25 --> 00:35:28

because they strengthen your spiritual heart and they

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

change your way of being. So when calamity

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

strikes

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

no matter what type of calamity it is

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

you are able to respond like the people

00:35:35 --> 00:35:36

of Gaza.

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

If we learn anything from the people of

00:35:41 --> 00:35:41

Gaza,

00:35:42 --> 00:35:45

is that suffering and evil is not an

00:35:45 --> 00:35:46

excuse anymore.

00:35:47 --> 00:35:49

If there's anything we learned from the people

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

of Gaza,

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

that

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

we need to be like them in order

00:35:54 --> 00:35:57

to deal with the vicissitudes of life,

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

the trials and tribulations of life

00:36:01 --> 00:36:04

and that is based on connecting ourselves with

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

the Aqidah of Islam,

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

internalizing the Aqidah of Islam

00:36:08 --> 00:36:10

and actually doing the hard work.

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

When it was Ramadan, the people of Gaza

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

were praying at night,

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

They were coming together,

00:36:16 --> 00:36:17

fasting,

00:36:18 --> 00:36:21

breaking their fast in their broken damaged homes.

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

Many of them had lost family members, children,

00:36:25 --> 00:36:28

they saw the children die before them,

00:36:28 --> 00:36:29

picking up their body parts

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

and they were fasting and thanking Allah Subhanahu

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

Wa Ta'ala.

00:36:33 --> 00:36:36

Because they had the correct cognitive reframing, spiritual

00:36:36 --> 00:36:37

reframing,

00:36:37 --> 00:36:39

and they engaged in that necessary

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

spiritual practice to strengthen

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

the Kalb that does Taqalub, to make it

00:36:45 --> 00:36:45

firm.

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

Because no one's going to be safe from

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

the day of judgment unless they come to

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

Allah

00:36:50 --> 00:36:50

with

00:36:51 --> 00:36:53

Albin Salim, with a sound heart.

00:36:58 --> 00:36:58

Now,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

don't be too sad about this.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:02

Rejoice

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

because Allah has given us an opportunity

00:37:06 --> 00:37:08

to be like the people of Gaza.

00:37:08 --> 00:37:11

Because they have become our role models

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

in how to

00:37:13 --> 00:37:14

resist

00:37:14 --> 00:37:17

and how to transcend their suffering and evil,

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

to the point that the non Muslims are

00:37:19 --> 00:37:19

shocked.

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

The non muslims

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

do not have a frame of reference.

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

They do not have a filter. They do

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26

not have a worldview.

00:37:27 --> 00:37:29

They do not have an ideological lens that

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

could make them even understand

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

how the people of Gaza have responded to

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

this evil. That is why people have become

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

Muslim just by their reaction. I want to

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

be like them. I know life is full

00:37:39 --> 00:37:41

of suffering. I know life is full of

00:37:41 --> 00:37:42

trials and tribulations.

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

I want to react like the way they

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

react because I know my mum is going

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

to pass away. I know my dad is

00:37:48 --> 00:37:49

going to pass away. Maybe I may have

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

to bring my own children. I may become

00:37:51 --> 00:37:54

disabled. I may lose my job. I may

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

suffer. I may have anxiety. I may have

00:37:56 --> 00:37:59

all of these issues. We may face calamity,

00:37:59 --> 00:38:01

earthquakes, wars, depression, torture,

00:38:02 --> 00:38:03

and I want to be like them

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

because they've transcended their suffering because they've given

00:38:07 --> 00:38:09

the correct meaning to their suffering.

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

The meaning that Allah and his messenger

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

want them to give.

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

The non muslims don't really there is no

00:38:21 --> 00:38:22

world view that makes sense of this.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

This is why Islam is such a gift

00:38:26 --> 00:38:27

my dear brothers and sisters.

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

Let's be honest,

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

you did not need to study Tafasir,

00:38:33 --> 00:38:36

the exegetical works to understand the Quran

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

with regards to evil and suffering because the

00:38:40 --> 00:38:42

people of Gaza were the practical

00:38:42 --> 00:38:45

exegesis and explanation of many of the verses

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

of the Quran. All of a sudden the

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

Quran made sense to us.

00:38:48 --> 00:38:51

All of a sudden the Quran made sense

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

to us when we saw the way the

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

people of Gaza were responding.

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

So my dear brothers and sisters,

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

we could have addressed this from a philosophical

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

perspective, dealing with the logical form of the

00:39:05 --> 00:39:08

problem of evil or the evidential form, but

00:39:08 --> 00:39:09

to be honest, I really think this is

00:39:09 --> 00:39:11

complete nonsense, it's been refuted time and time

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

again.

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

We need to focus on cognitively

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

and spiritually reframing ourselves through the Quran and

00:39:18 --> 00:39:19

the Sunnah,

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

and becoming people of deep practice, so we

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

have strong spiritual hearts, so we could attach

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

the correct meaning to evil suffering so we

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

could transcend our suffering in some way.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

And this is our test.

00:39:34 --> 00:39:35

This is our test.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

And things may get worse

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

in this country and around the world, and

00:39:41 --> 00:39:42

we need to be prepared.

00:39:43 --> 00:39:45

I'm not a pessimist, I'm an optimist.

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

But I'm an optimistic realist.

00:39:52 --> 00:39:53

So yes, we can have even and suffering,

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

it may get worse,

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

but we will be a better.

00:39:59 --> 00:40:01

And we'll get better by understanding the Quran

00:40:01 --> 00:40:01

of Sunnah properly

00:40:02 --> 00:40:04

and strengthening our spiritual hearts.

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

And we have the people of Gaza as

00:40:06 --> 00:40:07

role models.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

Is this clear brothers and sisters?

00:40:11 --> 00:40:13

I don't want you going home, and then

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

just eating your Biryani,

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

and thinking, oh, that was a great talk

00:40:16 --> 00:40:18

and not understanding anything. I want this to

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

be a seed that has been planted in

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

your heart and mind so you could start

00:40:22 --> 00:40:25

to take the Quran and Sunnah even more

00:40:25 --> 00:40:25

seriously

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

and to start to internalize

00:40:28 --> 00:40:31

the Quran and Sunnah from the perspective that

00:40:31 --> 00:40:33

you use the Quran and Sunnah

00:40:33 --> 00:40:36

as a frame of semantic reference, that you

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

use it as the meaning

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

that you're giving your suffering

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

and you're giving your trials.

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

And you engage in spiritual practice according to

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

the Quran and the Sun to strengthen your

00:40:47 --> 00:40:48

spiritual heart.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

To have those type of transformations.

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

And this is in line with modern cognitive

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

science when people are suffering from some kind

00:40:57 --> 00:41:00

of cognitive or psycho emotive issue,

00:41:01 --> 00:41:02

Cognitive scientists say

00:41:02 --> 00:41:03

stand in the possibility

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

that the meaning you're giving the suffering is

00:41:06 --> 00:41:07

not the only meaning.

00:41:07 --> 00:41:10

And we go a step further, we say

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11

stand in the possibility

00:41:11 --> 00:41:14

that the meaning you're giving the suffering and

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

and this tribulation

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

is not the only meaning, give it the

00:41:18 --> 00:41:21

true meaning, which is the meaning Allah and

00:41:21 --> 00:41:22

his messenger want you to give it.

00:41:26 --> 00:41:27

Is this clear my dear brothers and sisters?

00:41:30 --> 00:41:30

So,

00:41:31 --> 00:41:33

it's very important for us to

00:41:34 --> 00:41:35

remind ourselves

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

about this,

00:41:38 --> 00:41:40

to take the Quran and the sunnah much

00:41:40 --> 00:41:40

more seriously

00:41:41 --> 00:41:43

and to engage in that practice and everyone

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is on their own journey.

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Everyone has different levels, everyone has started somewhere.

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If you're not praying 5 times a day

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and then pray 5 times a day. If

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you're just praying the Faraiyah, the obligatory

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prayers, then start doing the sunnah.

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If you're not waking up in the last

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3rd of the night, then just wake up

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10 minutes before Fajr and Mig Dua.

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And then after start waking up half an

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hour before Fajr and maybe stand in prayer,

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everyone has their own context,

00:42:13 --> 00:42:14

Allah knows you better than you know yourselves,

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we're not here to judge anyone,

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but take this opportunity to take the next

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step, take this opportunity to do the

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over the Quran, to ponder over the Quran

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and you have your own anxieties

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

and your own personal sufferings

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and your own personal

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tribulations

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and maybe you're stuck

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because you have given it the wrong meaning.

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Explore the Quran and the Sunnah,

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be inspired by the people of Gaza and

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start to reflect and think

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how am

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I going to use the Quran and the

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

Sunnah to cognitively and spiritually reframe my whole

00:42:48 --> 00:42:50

way of being so I could transcend

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

my evil and suffering, so I could give

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

it the right meaning, so I could take

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the next step in my journey towards Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:42:59 --> 00:43:00

Is this clear? Yes.

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So my dear brothers and sisters, we'll end

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on this, we'll have some extensive Q and

00:43:05 --> 00:43:08

A. We have around 25 minutes before the

00:43:08 --> 00:43:08

Isha prayer.

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So Insha'Allah, we'll engage with some question and

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

answers. I'll interact with you from the floor.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:17

Any sisters can send us telepathic notes.

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

That's a joke.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

I don't know how their sisters gonna ask

00:43:24 --> 00:43:26

ask questions. I'm sure they're gonna pass us

00:43:26 --> 00:43:26

some,

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29

paper planes with some writing on there, whatever

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

the case may be. So the brothers would

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

inform us of their questions or you could

00:43:33 --> 00:43:35

text your husbands or your sons and so

00:43:35 --> 00:43:36

on and so forth.

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Bismillah, who has the first question?

00:43:40 --> 00:43:43

Or comment even or correction for sure.

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Yes, brother. And

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I'm not a chef but.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:56

You said you were,

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let's say you got all the blessings in

00:44:00 --> 00:44:00

the world.

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You got everything you can imagine.

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

And you think that Allah

00:44:07 --> 00:44:08

given me everything,

00:44:08 --> 00:44:10

but I'm not doing enough.

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

Let's say you've been to Hajj, you've done

00:44:14 --> 00:44:14

umra,

00:44:15 --> 00:44:16

you've looked after your parents,

00:44:17 --> 00:44:20

you pray 5 times a day, You've done

00:44:20 --> 00:44:21

every single thing,

00:44:21 --> 00:44:23

but then you think, you know what? I've

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

got everything in the world, but I'm still

00:44:25 --> 00:44:26

not doing enough

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30

to please Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. How do

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

you tackle this? How do you go about

00:44:32 --> 00:44:32

it?

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

If it's not giving you anxiety and it's

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

not stopping you from continuing

00:44:39 --> 00:44:40

your journey

00:44:40 --> 00:44:42

of getting closer to Allah,

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

it's kind of a good thing

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

in my view. Now, I'm saying to this

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

from a personal perspective

00:44:48 --> 00:44:49

I don't want you to think I don't

00:44:49 --> 00:44:50

want you to think this answer is a

00:44:50 --> 00:44:53

scholarly answer or it's an answer of spiritual

00:44:53 --> 00:44:55

insight because there's some answers that I'm qualified

00:44:55 --> 00:44:58

to give, there's some answers I'm unqualified to

00:44:58 --> 00:45:01

give. I'm unqualified to give this answer so

00:45:01 --> 00:45:02

I'm just gonna give you my kind of

00:45:02 --> 00:45:03

personal perspective.

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05

I would argue it's a good sign

00:45:06 --> 00:45:09

because when you speak to the scholars of

00:45:09 --> 00:45:10

Tuskrut Unafs,

00:45:10 --> 00:45:12

people of purification of the heart, when the

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

scholars talk about Ikhlas,

00:45:15 --> 00:45:17

they kind of say that you're you're going

00:45:17 --> 00:45:19

to be happy and content if you're practicing

00:45:19 --> 00:45:21

Muslim, but you're always going to be worried

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

concerning the state of your heart.

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

Always going to be worried.

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27

I believe Sofiane Al Faury had some kind

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

of psychosomatic

00:45:29 --> 00:45:31

response as a result being so concerned

00:45:31 --> 00:45:32

with his intention.

00:45:33 --> 00:45:35

Because the sign of a Muqless,

00:45:36 --> 00:45:37

a sign of someone

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

who has Ikhlas

00:45:40 --> 00:45:41

is the fact that they believe they don't

00:45:41 --> 00:45:42

have Ikhlas.

00:45:44 --> 00:45:45

And a sign of a grateful

00:45:45 --> 00:45:46

believer

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

is the one who believes that he's not

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

grateful enough to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam had all his

00:45:54 --> 00:45:55

sins forgiven.

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

He was guaranteed paradise,

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58

but he stood

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

at night to pray to Allah subhanahu wa

00:46:01 --> 00:46:03

ta'ala where his feet were swollen. And how

00:46:03 --> 00:46:05

did he respond to his wife?

00:46:05 --> 00:46:07

He said, shouldn't I be a grateful servant?

00:46:09 --> 00:46:11

But in essence there is nothing that we

00:46:11 --> 00:46:13

can do that could totally

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

pay back Allah or be grateful to Allah

00:46:16 --> 00:46:17

Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

We know the famous hadith that if you

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

compare all of your deeds with your eyesight,

00:46:21 --> 00:46:22

it won't be enough.

00:46:24 --> 00:46:25

It's a good sign.

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

Glad tidings.

00:46:27 --> 00:46:30

But be careful because Shaitan uses that against

00:46:30 --> 00:46:31

you as well

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

and he gets you in a state of

00:46:32 --> 00:46:33

anxiety

00:46:34 --> 00:46:34

and negativity.

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37

Allah doesn't love me or I'm not really

00:46:37 --> 00:46:37

worthy.

00:46:38 --> 00:46:38

This is

00:46:39 --> 00:46:40

bordering despair.

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

Allah tells us not to be in these

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

negative

00:46:44 --> 00:46:45

spiritual psychological

00:46:45 --> 00:46:46

states.

00:46:47 --> 00:46:47

Be grateful,

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

do your best.

00:46:49 --> 00:46:51

Yes, you will never be able to be

00:46:51 --> 00:46:53

truly grateful to Allah as we already discussed

00:46:53 --> 00:46:54

in this talk.

00:46:54 --> 00:46:56

And yes, feel that you should be doing

00:46:56 --> 00:46:59

more but don't allow it to overcome you

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

to the degree that you go backwards. That's

00:47:02 --> 00:47:02

Shaitaan.

00:47:03 --> 00:47:04

The general principle is

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

any psychological cognitive state that makes you turn

00:47:07 --> 00:47:08

away from Allah

00:47:09 --> 00:47:11

Allah does not want you to be in

00:47:11 --> 00:47:12

that state Wallahi.

00:47:13 --> 00:47:14

I'll give you an example some of these

00:47:14 --> 00:47:16

youth or even their elders

00:47:16 --> 00:47:19

You may have drank yesterday and became drunk.

00:47:20 --> 00:47:20

You slipped.

00:47:21 --> 00:47:22

You made an error.

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24

And you say, you know, there's a talk

00:47:24 --> 00:47:25

today. I want to pray

00:47:26 --> 00:47:27

my

00:47:27 --> 00:47:28

salah in the masjid

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

and

00:47:30 --> 00:47:32

I want to listen to the talk.

00:47:32 --> 00:47:34

I feel guilty. I want to repent to

00:47:34 --> 00:47:34

Allah,

00:47:35 --> 00:47:37

but because I did such a sin

00:47:37 --> 00:47:38

I'm not gonna go to the mosque, I'm

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

not worthy, it's too late for me.

00:47:42 --> 00:47:42

Wallahi

00:47:46 --> 00:47:47

That is from Shaitan.

00:47:48 --> 00:47:50

Allah always wants you back.

00:47:51 --> 00:47:53

This is not a caravan of despair.

00:47:54 --> 00:47:54

Whoever

00:47:55 --> 00:47:58

closes the door to Allah's rahma is by

00:47:58 --> 00:47:59

definition a shaitan.

00:48:01 --> 00:48:04

Do not listen to that negative self talk.

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

Allah has given me all of these things,

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

I'm trying to be grateful

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

but I can't be as grateful as I

00:48:09 --> 00:48:10

should be.

00:48:10 --> 00:48:12

What is the point? That is shaitan. Never

00:48:12 --> 00:48:14

listen to that. Even if it's your own

00:48:14 --> 00:48:17

voice because shaitan would use your own voice

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

against you to actually move away from Allah

00:48:19 --> 00:48:21

Subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:48:21 --> 00:48:22

Never allow that to happen.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:25

Never. You have to promise yourself

00:48:26 --> 00:48:27

I'm never gonna be in a situation

00:48:28 --> 00:48:30

where my cognition

00:48:30 --> 00:48:31

and my psychology

00:48:31 --> 00:48:34

is gonna become a barrier to coming closer

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

to Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:48:36 --> 00:48:36

Ta'ala.

00:48:37 --> 00:48:38

Is this clear?

00:48:38 --> 00:48:39

Then Allah knows best.

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