Channel: Haifaa Younis
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Hello, we'll carry on slyly. How Can everyone hear me and hear me? Well? Yes, thank you. Okay, so hello hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen so Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah. While early he was so happy he woman was Muslim Nam Iam foreigner, one foreigner vema and lantana in Nicosia Mian would you would do a lot of money Oh, we can rely on fatwa Camila Sha one FC latesh ba in loose ma Robin Allah, Luba Nevada in her de tener or Hebron amulet on charisma in the cutting federal herb from be Shockley solder us Lee Emery Guatemala of the 10 min lesson in your portfolio does Kamala Harris It's a pleasure to be with you all. I love our Surat foundation. It was about two
years ago maybe less when I visited you all and it was beautiful Mashallah I love the foundation. I love the sister I love the sisterhood I saw and the word for last pantalla May Allah spawn tada and I say this to everyone myself. Number one, make everything we do is for our last pantalla purely for him only. And we look for the reward from Allah only from anyone else. As Allah said in the Quran, Landry dohmen condesa and what ashapura We are not looking for any reward or gratefulness from you. Basically, we are doing it for a loss pantalla and this is include everybody from the sisters here who are joining us because you are doing a good deed. You are basically doing an act of worship. You
just have to have the right knee that you're here to learn for a law to improve for Allah to be a better person for Allah. So May Allah Subhana Allah accept from all of us may Allah subhanaw taala lift this test and this disease this plague from all his creation and from the whole earth and we can go back to our normal life where I can see you in person, you can see me in person, we can hug you and you do all this and and inshallah, inshallah Allah.
Allah subhanho wa Taala will respond to our da europian. So I opted to talk about something it's always good to remind ourselves of the time we are in.
The beautiful Deen of Islam works this way. At least this is how I look at it. Allah Subhana Allah knows us. He created us. And he knows that in everything in our life, things goes up and down. Everything. One day I wake up in the morning, I feel very well. The other day in the morning I wake up, I don't feel very well. And one day I'm talking about mood, nothing changed. So Pamela, one day I have energy The other day I don't have energy. And same thing with faith with a man.
And something in the meaning of Swati Sato Salaam taught us a man who is he dwell. And this is actually one of the principles of the or the things we believe in is that he man face, increase and decrease. So we start like here we start like like here.
But then one day we are up. And then one day we go down but we go to the basic and the basic is the basic belief that we believe in Allah, we believe in Allah. We believe in the messengers, the angels, the books, and the hereafter, and the destiny or all other. Whether it is good or it is not good. This is the base where we start then we get into up a lower
up is the day that any one of you feel herself that it's a very long day but I can fast and I don't feel very tired and I have the energy and shaitan comes and say no but you have this you have that and you say no, I can do it. That means your Eman is up. The other day you're the same person. Nothing changed. She don't have the energy. You have the resolve. The man is lower. So it goes up and down. Why did I start with this? Allah subhanho wa Taala repeatedly throughout the year Subhan Allah sent us opportunities to boost increase add to our email to our faith
And if you look at the history, or the lunar months or year that we Muslims usually follow, you will see it repeatedly. It's a pattern because Allah knows, and not only sent us opportunity to do a good deed, but in that opportunity, he gave us an option or he out of his generosity, he made these good days or good deeds in that good in that special months, or special time, multiplied more.
So power. So for example, everybody will know this, for sure. You Ramadan. And we it's not that long, it's maybe less than two months. And Ramadan is a booster I call it the booster of faith. And it's the camp is a training camp. And what happens in Ramadan, I see myself I was able to fast for 30 days, I did everything I need to do, whether at work or with my family, but I also was able to do tarawih, I was able also to do online, it's a boost. And we all say this general term where the Ramadan has the Baraka from Milan, or Milan has its blessing. So we leave from Ramadan and our man gets up. That's usually because we trained for 30 days, then what happens and I'm sure everybody
will feel this with me. Then sure Walt comes in and starts as now we all talk about the curve and flatten the curve with a COVID. The current goes less, goes less depends some some goes steep, some goes gradual, some goes up a little bit down, up a little bit down. And then Allah pantalla sends another opportunity.
And what we are now assured home
the sacred month, months, and we are now getting actually we are in in that window. And it's not one month, it's three months, one after the other three months, one after the other. So in the lunar Islamic calendar, we have Ramadan, which you all know the name, followed by Sha one, the month that it's recommended to fast the six days plus the Ramadan. So as if we have fasted the whole year, then followed by now, the trader,
the trader, although that's the month it's actually the 11th month of the lunar on a ceramic one is like November for the Gregorian calendar. That's a sacred month now we are in a sacred month
followed by which everybody knows
the month of the hedge the last month of the year, another sacred month, followed by Muharram another sacred month, the first month of the Islamic calendar, three months together
not one not two, it's three then we get a break which we should never but I mean not sacred month then comes Roger then comes with a job a sacred month in between one month later Shabbat then you get to Ramadan, Ramadan is not a sacred month, but it's a month of boost.
So here you go. Each one of us and I'm sure you all inside you feeling the difference between Ramadan and now
as a as a relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala. So I need to say let me take this opportunity. Now who said there is sacred moments? How do we know about it? It's actually in the Quran. If you go to sorta Toba that repentance, and it's again I'm sorry, I don't have the numbers of the verses but it's in sorted tober the repentance and sorted Toba is I think it's chapter number nine. And Allah subhanaw taala said the following now, Satan will be now translated for you. In the tissue Julio en de la Heath Natasha hora.
wordly, or indeed, the number of the months, number of the months in general, with Allah, meaning when Allah decided to have months, he decided for them to be 1212 months he oma Hanukkah sumati all of this has been decreed from the day, Allah created the heavens and the earth 12 months
minha arbeiten home
out of this 12 four are the sacred month.
So what should we do? Any why Allah saying this coming? same verse, fella toggler movie hindi
do not wrong yourself in them.
Don't be unjust there's many ways of translating this, but don't be unjust to yourself in these months.
So inside the Sharia in the light Nash Allah Shahada and Viki tabula yo mahalo, Casa Malati will on the day Allah created the heavens the heavens and the earth he decreed there is a 12 months out of them for delicate Dino. This is the truth the straight religion, Philately movie hidden and forsaken, do not wrong do yourself.
Don't miss the opportunity. Because if you miss the opportunity, you're doing injustice to yourself.
And then Allah says we're janky dude, well the quality and
quality will capitolina
practically movie hindi and present la hottie will Masha kina katha and kill or add fight the disbelievers totally but we are focusing on the for sport. So here I am. Here I am and I'm going to take you through this month. And then I will spend a good amount of time about next month. Because next month is the window. Whether you're going to hedge or you're not going to hedge and this year Subhan Allah, Allah decreed in his wisdom that there will be no one going to hedge except very few. Nobody you live in Saudi you live outside, very few.
sacred month laterally move in, don't wrong, do yourself don't do injustice, what is injustice? What is injustice? When you look at me and says, or when you have someone look at you and said, This is not fair. This is unfair, we hear this a lot these days. That means that means I didn't put something. And that's something could be anything in the right place. That's injustice. Literally, that's injustice, a child who's taken away from his mother, for no reason that's injustice, because the normal place of a child is with his mother. That's injustice, right? enable trans pass to on the grass of the other neighbor without their permission. That's unfair. That's injustice. Because
normally that amount of grass belongs to that human being, unless they give permission. So you take it in general injustice, right?
injustice for myself, in a secret the month in which we
the sacred months, or the months where the good deeds in them have a special value. I'm spirit, I'm making it very simple for you, because I want you to feel it.
So for example, I give one pound since I am talking to you in England, or I will give $1 It's a charity. Absolutely. Allah will accept from me and Allahu Allah multiply, and Allah will reward me as long as I did it with the intention of charity. It's a halal, lawful, and I'm giving it to a halal source. However, if I did the same thing, same thing, the same $1 one pound, but I did it in the sacred month. It's multiplied.
That's one part of the injustice. So I hope all of you are now getting to it.
injustice is when there is an opportunity and I don't take it.
So there's a sale May Allah forgive us. There's a sale. Right in England. I lived there for a year. And I remember and still actually it's still
June and December, or June and January. You can correct me. But I remember very well it's June, where there is the real sale. It's not like in when you live in America, there's always sale. But when you live in the UK, there is real sale things yesterday was 50 pounds. Today they are 25 What do you tell everybody? That's an opportunity that we go and get it? Why do I want to pay more? That's unfair? Are you out of your mind?
While last pantalla says if you give this spend outside the sacred month, I'll give you 10 rewards Alhamdulillah but if you do it in the secret month, and I will multiply it and I don't do it. I am unfair to myself.
That's one part of don't do injustice to yourself. The other part
disobeying Allah in the month in the sacred months, the punishment is also multiplied. So the two things, the good deeds are multiplied, and the bad deeds are multiplied. So don't do injustice to yourself. Don't do injustice to yourself, think the first step to practice this is that you need to know number one, which month you are of the year. Number two, you need to know the value of the time you are. And number three, you need to take advantage of it.
And the choice is mine and yours. I always say this to myself before anyone I say this Dean is the Dean of choice and my choice to obey Allah or not to obey Allah. And it's my choice to do a good deed or not a good deed on or don't and my choice to do multiply my good deeds or not. Having said that,
we are in this
sacred month, there is even more opportunity coming in about two three weeks. And these are a lot of you probably have heard about it i'm sure Bismillah and this is the
I wish you were with me I would have asked you but that's okay. The first 10 days of the hedger
the first 10 days of the hedger, so this month is the month not after Ramadan, but the month after the month after Ramadan. Next month is the month of Hajj. When people go to Hajj, the month is called Ranger.
It's also a sacred month. So the same principle apply, but move. And this is what I am going to even stress on more
the first 10 days of it. Which means starts from day one. Day nine is our offer. And they tend is allayed that we all celebrate these 10 days are so valuable, that I see a lot of Muslims don't give it do right. They are as valuable as the last 10 nights of Ramadan and 100 lakh euro blasphemy. We all look at the last 10 nights of Ramadan. As the last 10 nights of Ramadan, people are ticked off, people take time off. But not many people know that the first 10 days of deal figure which is coming in three weeks, which is coming in three weeks is actually as valuable, as valuable as as valuable as the last 10 days. I'll tell you why. That's what I will share with you. Number one, Allah
subhanho wa Taala made an oath in the Quran with these 10 days of the hedger. He did not make an oath with the last 10 nights of Ramadan. He did not make an oath with the last 10 nights of Ramadan.
He made he made it he made
if I can ask all the sisters to please unmute. Can you please unmute because it's it disturbs us we all can hear it. I'm sure you are doing it unintentionally but please be pay attention. Okay, so sister Surya, can you please unmute yourself?
Okay, well, maybe the host Actually, I cannot because I'm not the host. The host can unmute her.
Yeah, just gonna lock it. And also this is a recorded session. So you may also want to make sure your camera is off. So here you go. Alhamdulillah. Her blinding Allah made an oath in the Quran by these 10 days, coming in about two three weeks from now.
Anytime Allah make an oath, in the Quran, this something that's thing that Allah makes an oath by, is absolutely valuable. And Allah made an oath by the Quran. Allah made an oath by the sun. Allah made an oath by the night, Allah made an oath by the day, he made an oath in everything, a lot of things that's a very nice thing for you to learn. inshallah, we will do it in another time, but for today is he made an oath with this, where does it show what will federal, federal the dawn when federal while adding ash by the Federal the dawn time and the 10 nights and the 10 days or the 10 nights, these are
the first 10 days and this is almost
All the scholars of tafsir agreed on this most of them. They said it is the first 10 days of the VEDA. And Allah made an oath wisdom. And so for you to feel what's an oath mean? You want your child or you want the person
you have a conversation with to pay attention about something
to pay and
okay, that's okay because Zakouma here, because there's the host muted everybody including me. Can you hear me now?
Can you hear me? Yeah, so please sisters, everybody, mute yourself, except me because this is interruptions and I please forgive me. I have to leave before five minutes before 12 my time because I have to go to the hospital. I have a patient there. Okay, so please, mute everyone. So we don't have this interruption in between hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen. So Allah made an oath, with a federal, without federal by the dawn. So when you are with someone in a conversation, and you want to bring their attention, or they don't believe you, although they don't think you're serious, you you say an oath and we are Muslims, we should do an oath with only one thing and that's Allah by
Allah. So we the only thing we can make an oath is by Allah. So he, Allah subhanho wa Taala made an oath by the 10 days by the 10 days of the hijab by the 10 days of the hijab.
When fed your will alien ash by the 10 days or chef a will what so many of the scholars said it is the 10 days of the hedger.
Other scholar says it's not only the 10 days of the hijab, it is specifically in the days of the hijab is the days of the Hajj is the days of the Hajj. Okay. And also this is why you need to learn this. Allah Swati salatu salam, ala Swati Sato Sena said
they are the best days of the whole world and of the whole time. Please pay attention to this. Your Honor. Can you please mute yourself Jackie Allah.
Allah Subhana, Allah Swati sought to sit down. He said, the best days, the best days of the whole time, not century, the whole time of the world of volume a young with dunya the best days of the whole world is actually the days the first 10 days of the ledger. And Allah Rasul Allah salatu salam said the following Hadith very popular Have you related to this? And he said the following this is an Imam and Buhari, he said malama Lu. And another narration while Amarillo Sala
Fie, a yummy of volume in had he lashed, he said, no good deed is done better than a good deed you'll do it in these 10 days.
No time you do the good deeds better than you do a good deed in these 10 days. And they said jasola not even going for Jihad anytime, going out for Jihad fighting for the sake of Allah in any time. Think with me, so you have the whole year he said these 10 days the good deed in them better than any other good deed you do outside these 10 days. So naturally the Sahaba responded he said not even the going out for fighting for our last time. He said no. Still a good deed in these 10 days better except if that person outside these 10 days went out for Jihad for the fighting for the sake of Allah spawn Tada. And he did not come back. Meaning he thought he died as a martyr. So these are
absolutely absolutely precious. Look at it as a precious days. precious time. I highly recommend that you do the following those of you who work and and they can take time off. take time off in these days. Those don't waste your time in these days in anything, but in the act of worship of Allah and I'll come to what should we do.
But in general, look at them exactly the way you look at the last 10 days of Ramadan.
Another Hadith narrated by in
Baba Ronnie by Abdullah, Omar the son of Satan, Allah, may Allah be pleased with them both. He said, Allah Swati salatu salam said, Ma'am, in a young a Aloma in the law, there is no days more sacred and more honored in the sight of Allah, more than the 10 days of the hedger these days, no days more sacred, or honored in the sight of in the sight of Allah subhanaw taala than the 10 days of the Ranger, and no days the good deeds is much beloved to Allah subhanaw taala more than these 10 days, and then that's what we're going to do. And he said for active ruffian do a lot of daily to heal is La ilaha illa Allah to Kabir Allahu Akbar, what a Hameed Alhamdulillah. So this is another Hadith
where he said no days of the whole world, more beloved to Allah and more sacred to Allah. And the good deeds is very much beloved to Allah in than these 10 days. So do a lot of good deeds in them. And specifically here in this Hadith, he said, specifically, the remembrance of Allah.
Allahu Akbar, to Hamid Alhamdulillah de la la, la, la La, you do it all the time and the Sahaba when these 10 days, especially as a metaphor for IRA, when these 10 days come in, you know what they used to do?
So Panama, they used to go to the market for only one reason. They do loud law in Ohio law, a law or they do cloud, so the people hate them. And then when the people hear them, they say it all. So you need I want you to imagine this, imagine this, that you are going to a mall. And then suddenly you hear a law Hola, como, la, la, la sharika. You need to do this in your home.
Whether you get it as a recording, whether you do it, whether your husband will do it, whether you're the man in your house will do it or you do it. That can be your tech career entirely. autonomy, Allahu Akbar, Allah, Allah. Allah, Al hamdu, lillahi Rabbil aalameen. If you cannot do it in your home, as a whole, do it in your room, in your private place that you have a control over in your private place in your own home. Or if there is nobody in the house and you are there, do it. You can put it actually recording. Wouldn't you say to that? The whole idea is we revive we're resetting resuscitate the Sunnah of Rasulullah Salatu was Salam.
Why these 10 days? Can you why specifically these 10 days, because the scholars teaches you that there is no other day days in the whole Islamic calendar, including Ramadan, that the major Pillars of Islam can be done in one time.
Meaning it has Hajj isn't these days.
Fasting is in these days, because if you are not in our offer, you're actually highly recommended to fast the day of our offer. Salah is in these days, charities in these days, but specifically only in them is actually hedging an alpha specifically in them is hedging, and are often and it has one of the best days in them. One is alpha and one is the day of aid. And there is a hadith of Rasul Allah salatu salam and says, You're more alpha, you're more about the day of our offer is the day of the major hedge they offer is the day our last home Tyler looks at everyone in our offer.
And then asked the angels why they came to me and they look unclean, full of dust. Sure, earthen Obara. They said the angels of course Allah knows the angels. They say y'all, y'all Rasul Allah, they came asking for your forgiveness. And he said, If I don't know what to
tell them, I forgive them to major day the day of our offer. And if we are not there, when we are fasting the day of our offer, that's fast enough, the day of offer will expire all the sins of the previous year, as long as there are no major sins.
So, the day of our offer these 10 days you can have not only one good deed, but there is multiplied good deed, multiple good deed, every good deed is multiplied and there is a specific good deeds done only in these 10 days hedge out of the day of a Jomo. Now, they
See, it is one of the best days of the year also,
that they have now had the first day of aid they have the heart is the day of urbani when we slaughter the animal when we slaughter the animal, and and I'm going to give you some examples side of new Duvalier is one of the tab and the followers he used to say, when the 10 days of the hedger comes, I, you are used to do
a lot of good deeds that I normally don't do outside.
I absolutely do a lot of good deeds, meaning
let's come practical, these 10 days now remember, everything I'm going to say is not an obligation, meaning
you do your best to do it, don't let it lose as long as you can.
Let's start with number one is fasting.
Fasting, one of the most beloved good deed to Allah pantalla if not the most beloved deed is actually fasting in general because our last panda Yeah, a loss pantalla said in a hadith woodsy in a hadith that is said by roswaal a saw to Salaam but the wording is from Allah subhanho wa Taala as so mu and Zb. Fasting is for me meaning for Allah, and I will reward for it.
So when Allah says this is for me, and many scholars will tell you, this is not one time, Stan, because he said I will reward. So when you have the generous, rewarding, how much he will give
how much he will give.
So fasting, I will do. We're going to take it as we can. I will make a new year, I want to fast the whole 10 days.
Now this is a voluntary fast if my husband allowed
because this is not an obligation.
Your husband has to allow it. And hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen if your husband allowed it, that's even highly unlikely because then you'll have the whole house casting. If he didn't, if he didn't,
then don't do it without his permission. Because then you're not obeying Allah and Allah will reward you because you're near is really too fast if he said Yes, you will. Same thing apply for the woman who made the Nia the intention, but then she got her period. Her menstruation, she made her intention. A lot will reward her a lot will reward
Don't feel sad and now I learned and everyone is fasting my friends are fasting and I am not allowed to reward you because your Nia was and menstruation is not under your control. Anything that happens not under your control you mean the Nia to do with Allah what are the reward you as if you have done it, if your husband will not allow you the whole your mother offer that's the one that you really will try your best because that's specifically the first thing in it in that day. Specifically there's a hadith about it. So you can ask for that and you're gonna Yanni ask your or encourage your
household to do it.
If I cannot do the 10 I do the harder and harder for I think if Allah and if I am right it's probably going to be on a Thursday Can I do only Monday and Thursday at least in these 10 days.
So simply do what Corey was Suarez Auto Salon us used to take say try to do that your best and focus but also make it easy to you don't make it too hard. Don't make major problems because of this for do your best. If you have no issue, you're single you have no issue. I'm talking to the youth if they're going to hear me and your family all are fasting absolutely you do with your husband have no issues and you will do it if you like absolutely you will do the whole 10 days. So
fasting, they have farofa monday and thursday if you can do the whole 10 days Alhamdulillah good deeds and
are fine. That's number one. Number two is
Salah on time, I'll do all the no often. I don't say I'm a lady, I will do so to Baja. I'll do extras as much as you can. Good deeds, charity, a lot of solder. One one pound, 50 cents, it doesn't matter how much but you do it daily, daily. Specifically in these days, a lot of Vicar of Allah. As I said before, a lot of Vicar of Allah subhanho wa Taala Allahu Akbar Subhan Allah Al Hamdulillah the morning and the evening.
A lot of reading of the Quran that's thicker, a lot of thicker. Make sure your tongue is full of Vicar because it is the 10 days of the hedger Of course hygiene Allah May Allah subhanaw taala invite us again forgive our sins and does not make this
not able to go to Hajj as a result of our sins, your ob me and other good deeds and I'm going to go through this very quickly his relationship with people around you,
your kinship, reach out your kids, reach out to them your parents, doesn't matter how not friendly they are or not good they are Muslims or non Muslims do it. It's good deed. It's very pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala. To your neighbor, to your friends, be nice to people help people offer to help don't want don't wait till someone calls you offer. They said no, you will get the reward. They said yes, you will get to rewards. Forgive and pardon people. Forgive and pardon people. Don't waste your time in this 10 days of the hedger is not the time to watch all the Netflix shows is not that the time even to see Islamic series is not the time.
The 10 days of the future is a young one is a good is a days of deeds of good deeds, a days of good deeds. So you are good deeds. Stay away from disobedience. Stay away from this obedience from Allah subhanho wa Taala stay away from this obedience for Allah subhanho wa Taala do not look at how long
see things that's Haram. Listen to her
dress in a haram way. Be in the Haram company. Don't do that. How am company in person? Or how am company on the internet? Don't it's the 10 days of the hedger 10 days of the hedger. Remember the best days you can do good deeds. Look at it this way. I will stop here because I wanted to see if there is any questions about five minutes if there are any questions from the sisters, if there is any comments, we can do that. You can write it on the don't unmute, just write it on the chat. I will be the easiest way we are by the time you get your questions very soon inshallah we are going to be released from Santa Monica, Florida we will be releasing a planner for the 10 days of the year
from January Institute. And these are free usually our planners, it will help you every day to do a good deed and then we will combine it with a short clip video where we'll send it. So if you want to be Follow us on the social media, whether you have a Facebook, whether you have Instagram, whether you have Snapchat, just follow us on that or you can join us on on groups on WhatsApp, you can communicate with our media sister runner, and she will tell you how then you will get these these are free. It's a daily reminder for all of us, including myself inshallah. So any question
Any question? Okay, can I make intention of my missed fast during Ramadan with these 10 fats? It will be. So the question is can I make Can I make these fasting
in these 10 days make up? Yes, you can. Because these 10 days The first thing is you're doing the good deed. But your intention is to make it up so it will be regarded as the 10 days of making up and you are doing it in the best time. Same thing as if you do your makeup on a Monday on a Thursday. Yes, you can. Absolutely.
Is it similar to fast online days? Are they commanded only it's actually rasanya Sato Sampson's good deeds he did not specify fasting or not, but fasting is the most beloved, one of the most beloved actions to Allah subhanaw taala but your motto for his heart offer is absolutely a Sunnah for the person who is not an Hajj the rest of the days is a good deed and one of the most beloved good deeds inshallah you can do it.
Any other question?
hamdu lillahi, Rabbil aalameen hamdulillah. We had, okay, I was about to say, and here you go. You have this whatsapp group if you want to join. That's from sister Jasmine, our outreach coordinator in London, and you can join her or you can put the agenda Institute website I don't know if Rhonda is still with us, or she got disconnected or maybe Jasmine can do that. Facebook, our website, visit that so you can also download because the planner usually will be also on the website so you can download it from from there. And then also you can join us we're going to do also in two weeks from now, one another talk about the
virtues of the 10 days of the hedger in much more detail. It will be live streamed live on YouTube and on Facebook inshallah does come along haloti Ward you all may Allah Subhana Allah bless your time, may Allah Subhana Allah accept from all of us may Allah Subhana Allah make us all myself number one, all those who speak and they apply to hire
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