Channel: Haifaa Younis
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That's not right. Yes?
Did you? Did you read
the news rojo?
No. So, again, it is not necessarily in your worry, delay your data,
you can use that
blood draw does not love the transfusion items? Because it's a food
it does not
what is known as
chemotherapy. chemotherapy. Very good question, what do you usually give with chemotherapy?
fluid, they always put it fluid because they are worried about the IV line.
Because you don't want the IV line. So usually it is not an injection IV chemotherapy, when it comes to the fluid, the fluid breaks your fast not that IV, the IV medication is a fluid. So you have to know and I will say this purely chemotherapy, your body will not be able to fast. So that's another and you have to, again, really conditions it's but again, anything that is worsening my state my status I should avoid. You want to break
nose drop, very good question. If you can put a nose drop like that.
And you put don't put your head back because why they say the nose drop regular fast, because it's she is the same, you know the anatomy, it she is the same at one point, the interest of the mouth, and the interests of the nose becomes one. So if I'm putting the dog in my nose, and travel is going to end up in my stomach, so it breaks the past. But if I can do it like that, and keep it like that. And then when I put my hand up nothing in return, then you're fasting is is well, since it is a good possibility I want to go through baritone voice unless you have to. And some people really get bad allergies. And that's what they need to do. So see, do your best not to swallow it. But if you
swallow it, it is it definitely brought a break your fast. Please don't take a break but no child
break or continuous talking. Two minutes. Two minutes of questions. No, I will do one hour at the end you want to do a question now. What it's up to you can we please do like have 30 more minutes and then we have breakfast and football at the same time. There is no limit.
So let's continue on. I want you from now to remember the cake example
on what I shared with you was a cake.
Meaning if I put the nine reason drop, maybe the cake will be burned. Right? So far we learn this and hamdulillah and I avoided all this and now I have a cake out. So all the billions of Muslims bake the cake. My goal now is to garnish the cake. I don't want to give a lot
so I want my kids to be the best. And this is what you need to learn how to improve beautify not improve beautify my classes. What do I do things that is not very hard. I just don't think of it to put this beautiful chocolate frosting and then I'm going to put like roses. So I think of this and we're gonna go to this one by one.
Break your fast hopefully.
I'm not talking about you're gonna have to eat all the nine yards, but the dates and a simple flower that's it and haste quickly. The moment is
when the muffler is there you go and do it and you're not doing it because you're hungry
and you're not doing it because while it's in front of you everybody's doing we're doing it because it is
because that's an act of worship. Now what would we want? And this is what that was what he thought was so laser Oh my God.
You will nice people are in a good shape and a good status as long as they quickly hopefully break the fast Pokemon. So don't say I'm still cooking. Oh, wait a minute, let me finish. No, no, no, you go and do it quickly. Most of us does. But I want you to do not because you're hungry. I want you to do it because it is sooner. Meaning I will get the reward of beautify my cake. So that's number one. The other way you look at this hanging
somewhere he was fasting back to you
Right couldn't believe he suffered for Solomon. So we were
in a trip and he was fasting we don't know if it's Ramadan or Hassan Hika amsa totus might call you Rajan. He told a man in vaginally hold down and bring me some water
The man looked at him and says can we wait till the evening to get all the darker tourist massages? And he said go and get me the water. The mannequin said can we wait a little bit to get a little bit darker then he says Get down and mix my container with water and bring it in. When you see the knight falling from the side. The first person shouldn't break as fast.
So break it quarterly it's a signal so that's the first layer of the beauty of the frosting very simple doesn't need anything you tell me what I'm joining how much work
I got stuck in traffic. What did they do water in your car? Open the
cider box and then get it out and just take one sip house but do it because it is so that's number one.
This is extremely important. This is gonna put roses on your on your
and it's amazing what's panel China pureed, I have to buckle the versal sorted lock on the three verses about Oman.
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people who think these are people of faith. So Young passing became obligation on you the same way as the people before you.
That's the first time a young man few days how much identical Mashallah for those who will see a man fast. Oh my god, I really don't wanna suffer if you're sick, or you're traveling by the tuna yummy.
shall move on. He was in the field, with the Ministry of Finance in the month of Ramadan, the month that the Quran was revealed as a way of guidance, and to clarify things to people being away from us at the coffee shop. And same thing we see the month fast. Oh my god, I really don't wanna say you were sick when you're traveling. And then
you read what we call useful when I need to be comatose. Allah wants easily, he doesn't want hold shift for you.
we're done. Finish the 30 days, glorify Allah subhanaw taala. And you will be grateful. And of the stories right? This idea comes in
this iconset What's the I often
to sound robotic? Now the details of the past? Why this came in the middle? The most famous if you will? No. I don't think anybody in this room don't know this. I when my son asked you about me, I am me. I am close near you. data. You know, john, I respond to the call of the one who calls or calls upon me or calling me. Why do
you want to do this? Do you all know this? Yes or no? Yes, you will notice Have you ever thought Why?
Why in the middle of a book or 283? I want this in the middle?
No, absolutely. No. To remind you, that part of the value of Milan is
don't forgive a drought
and the drought while you're fasting. And then as you're breaking your fast we're gonna come to it in a second. So make sure one of the I say this to myself before anyone. One of the most beautiful, one of the most beautiful act of worship for the most part it totals one of the easiest acts of worship with a lot of photos that require nothing. Right and the least practiced by us is and we pull up on a lot when we need
but when we are in a state of prosperity, we don't look at us.
And after I look at me or you when I need something for a child is sick. I need this job. So I am in a in a real difficult situation. I want to walk to the to make it easy. I was my job.
Where is my tears coming from
No one gives me what I want. What happens? After Salah What do we do?
Everything is more important. So don't do that. And especially in the month of Ramadan, this actually this beautifies it beautifies it. And there's no limits.
You are from the monitor unit in a state of Diwan you shouldn't be. And there is two kinds of drugs, most of you know, but that doesn't hurt to remind, there is a blog that this course teaches you how to evaluate. There's a DA to ask, give me I want, I need anything. Nothing is impossible for little or big. That's $1 but there's another blog without any guidance. Is there supplication when you glorify or more, when you say so power? That's a that's an act of supplication. What do you say is suffering? That's an act of supplication. When you say yeah, that's an act of supplication, when you say how long it would take you out of supplication, when you say you Mashallah for what they love
you. So, because we are human beings by nature, we get bored, easy way to change, move,
move from this to this, always, always into our to beautify this, an empty array robiola, one memorizes having this as a three component.
So now that will not work with our two, three, you will need their supplication is granted, it's natural, it is not rejected, meaning it is given. Number one sign
the person in the state of fasting, as long as he's fasting, till he eat or break as fast when email will add and adjust.
And the third one, without warning, there is application of the man or woman as a human being, who is going under injustice, someone did injustice to him, or to her What are your thoughts?
Allah lifted up higher, higher, higher up in a figure of speech above the clouds.
And the doors of the heavens are opened where your room is, if you did it on someone
else's, this is to the person who is in justices is being done to him or her by not me by my majesty by mine or not, I will give you victory, even if it is literal. So always have faith, and we will we be afraid of committing injustice against someone. And be very careful when you make a blowout against someone. Because if you're in a state of injustice, this drive is granted. And that's not my word is the wonderful
part of this is when you are fasting so don't be miser
Don't be mindset. Me. You can always just say I work and I have children. And I am running I get home at five and I need to start designing and making so or and get all this absolutely true. you're cooking. Keep asking a lot to give.
People love ask Allah to keep you know how to cook.
If you are found in England
and some people people ask Allah to keep you this, this doesn't need a lot of books. This is usually
your cooking it smells good,
casual, low, you're safe, we don't even feel it. knots at home.
You know, the more you do this, you train yourself the more Allah will give you more and and that's the principle is the the more act of worshipping you do the act of worship, Allah will give you a thought that he will obedience recordings. So don't be myself on the flinch on the foot. Put a sticker put a sticker on the anomaly of Hollywood holding view and
you know go on the internet. Now we're just saying this morning how this made it a lot easier on the internet. Look for the drought of food for him to cut it.
Put it on the fridge put it next to your stove. So you don't give yourself an excuse I know remember a lot of debris you get it. Please forgive me or go to the bathroom. Get the dog getting off the bathroom. All these simple ones but you're getting into your car is supposed
to have a car that's
if you don't know all the sophisticated ones but keep this specially in Ramadan busy. Because that's because that's remembrance of Allah, China.
Also a risotto sir now
Time also this sign in the foot three door to
the person who's passing the time he or she breaks how fast what M is fast there is an act of there is a double that is not that is granted so be opportunistic
don't give me a house Give me the house
and make me see you young Look at me in general that's a doorway this way doing it for yourself make my grave as wide as possible jelly rolled on a piece of God
say before the punishment of the graveyard you know what I'm saying? that it may injure you as because I don't know I will say this to myself before anyone I don't know I can guarantee what I am going to be good and we all got to know that there's somebody who's gonna make a drive for Can you guarantee
they will remember you every day
when they're fasting they probably gonna draw for themselves so don't be wiser do it for your children do it for your husband do it for your family do it for the woman but number one do it for yourself
and take care of it Don't rush don't tell us how severe the data can you make it give it to do like five minutes give it to him right that's why again number one is like even if you are going out to a party is breaking past with remind each one remind each other make it like a custom bring the data in a beautiful Let's sit down where does the company make the image and then to the direction of the company and an eat and remember this and if this is the octane sub I know my job is granted I know because he told you as you see what wonderful wonders
are as well as thought was what do you say when you break your first so he knew what after 16 hours finally the moment comes that's
okay and how
thirst has been squished or gone alternative okay and the vessels the blood vessels is being wet when
and why the reward is granted Israel and that's that's what I was used to always it's been done so remember this do you know it all?
There's no yes or no I don't know what's happening Yes, yes yes and if you don't know please learn it again a small piece of paper with your children over translation with a translation for it's
even better if you want to do a project for Milan project for Milan simple easy and you will get a lot of rewards you know make a small these cards, small cards make his job and give it to people and the ones as they are breaking how much of your words you will get let alone for your children and let's not neglect your children don't let them go online and look for this heavy wooden train station let them design keep them busy to do something for
coming to the hardware
that's another big piece of chocolate you're going to put on your cake I don't know how many of you can do what is it
you're fasting have to be different than everybody else control the angle of sale moving at the same height is actually review earlier. So yeah, fasting sheet. If somebody one of you is fasting diet. Well I don't say words, don't say things that is displeasing to Allah and of course it will have a relationship and if someone is transgressing against tomorrow, say I am past one of the things you meant to work on yourself or those of you who have temper Can I see hands that people have tempered
Yeah, you went when you get upset the children are under the couch.
Okay, so let's take it one by one. If you are someone who under the couch, the children are right, you can
and and i mean this this is one of the beauty of Overwatch training camp. Number one is a training camp, but we don't look at it this way. It's a training camp. Do you like being so upset? How much you will regret afterwards? We all do. You don't see it. And chill with me was like why did I do this? Right? So you want to be calmer and it doesn't mean you don't get upset.
Actually, anger is part of us a lot. But it's not the anger itself. It's the action. The action to anger is what is being advised to control but not the feeling. And of course, if I see someone disobeying the law, I'm not happy. But how I respond is what what a lot wonderful me and what that was hilarious. So if you are somebody that gets under the couch, when you get upset, you're gonna say to yourself, this is not going to happen, and
they will not hear my voice. It's going to be a yoke.
And they will learn as I look at them, they're under the couch.
Maybe you're under control, but you're still not happy. Did you get the point? improve. If you are usually usually you get very upset, but you are the kind of person who is introverted recall, meaning you don't show anything, but it is inside you, then you need to work on yourself inside, that you will prove to yourself that you know what it is over your boss, especially with the children, this is what I told him, you can solve it when the children disobeying how many times we disobeyed in a day.
And he still gives me any and feed me, your you and me and given me all these opportunities. So look at yourself, if you are someone who doesn't lose your temper, and I've seen people
be grateful, because that's an element as a human, not everyone else. So part of the cake that you beautiful, you're going to tell yourself, I have 30 days live goes over on the lawn, children, our children square school, work is work. Traffic is traffic. We get upset of traffic.
Right? And we think everybody is wrong. And we have like one knows how much we were spending and how many stops out we didn't even stop.
You're laughing because it's true. Right? So look at yourself. Again, Ramadan is like an opportunity to stand in front of the mirror, but not look external, look internal.
Because it will tell me Can I give you do it. And I say this to everyone, myself included. If I can stay away from food and drink for 1618 hours, I can do everything else. How many of you will have a non Muslim colleagues
who they look at your answers. And this is I always remember this is like 20 years ago. One of my colleagues of mine says Dr. Yunus so what is fasting, I say I don't eat. from sunrise from dawn to dusk. He looked at me as if I'm speaking French.
He says no water.
And I said,
we said at the soup.
I can see the changes. Nothing. I said nothing.
back two years, I'd be dead by now.
And I locked in supplies. And I've been doing it since I was seven. And I'm still alive.
The point I'm trying to make the way he's seeing it, this is how I'ma teach you and me, this is real for him. Because he cannot imagine. But for you and me.
I've always thought it was a big deal. Point. If I can do that, and a lot of people think this is impossible, but I think it is possible. It's not I think it's happening than everything else is possible. Especially when I am doing it for
what's called the minimum viable when a female knows a wonderful boom I see. Alia and Alina sabula.
Ronnie compete, compete compete run to the forgiveness of your Lord. We just met in our Boersma to compete to Janina to Gordon, the width of it is the heavens and the earth or entertainment. It is being prepared for those who have to remember
now all of this climbing and giving up on a facade is both a normal they spend when they have and what they don't have and spend we couldn't have come to spend in many ways. When it comes either way. Those who control the temper will have phenol in US hot and those who pardon people a lot
and allows those who have utmost goodness, generosity. So part of me part of my talk is I'm changing. Again remember what I said earlier, they went up from Oregon. If I am the same as the 30th I am a loser.
I got nothing out of this robot other than the 101st no one will not ask
We will not punish me because I didn't fast I did not get any inch closer to Allah I was able to control my tongue I was able to control my anger I was able to be much more generous and everything would commit to this than I am for sure I have improved and I definitely beautified my cake and it is up to you and don't let yourself say if I'm not but you don't know my children you know what I live in I everyone Allah knows more than you and me but you can do the same thing of the example as a true example story actually was asked to me and I was like what is the big deal right but for that person so huge deal this
so and so
we take it very lightly either we eat because if I don't eat I'm gonna faint all I cannot eat at four o'clock in the morning or I cannot wake up at four o'clock
it's not my choice it's a sooner This is not what I wanted to look at
look at it as soon as and he suddenly his thought was this a house and orderly have support for it never supported Monica so who brings bargain blessings to your home?
You can eat okay nobody told you eat very healthy person eat supper for a nice
cup of tea and eat something breakfast whatever but do not not have a soul at all and not because I'm hungry no because of this because it is a cylinder of any delay it's because someone says you know what if you've ever I'm gonna eat and go to bed
it's funny again I'm not talking about how your your your your your fasting is valid, but it is not the beauty the rate that they get on solid results is how we are the one who used to say
I used to have some food with my family with a
or you eat and my goal was to run to the masjid to make it for the first to come so how he was eating
last minute last minute what what this course teaches you because of the different timing and everything 15 up to 15 minutes before settlement before
you eat you're fine but even if you are eating and the advantage one says about finishing on your
finish your what you are eating okay so delay it also outdoors a lot not because what I've learned to change your habits my habit to an act of obedience.
So do they
have make sure you have support? And do they your support? Assume that that's my CEO. As soon as we all forget, see work
And they'll show you all of you I'm sure you all know this
if it wasn't hard for my room, I would have made it they do see what before every
prayer and amazingly a lot if you haven't tried it I definitely have tried it if you don't brush your teeth and you will do your homework and amazing effect on your teeth. I've tried it because I heard it and I want to see sometimes I didn't have the toothbrush amazing what's feeding you when you will get for your to your teeth. And again you're not doing it because it's healthy.
No, I'm doing it because it is
and I will get more than what so what so far how I'm going to beautify my my fasting what I'm going to put on my cake. This will. Let's see how much you learn.
Now do you have a lot of supplication? What do I suggest? A lot
sobald beautiful in everything. Anger, anger temper nice journalists.
Top what is the goal without talking about the soon?
Exactly. So did you read your first coffee maker due at the time of your breaking your fast and have support and delayed the circle? And
how do we
That's the last time we're going to break after this one. generosity normal.
when I talk about generosity, what comes to your mind.
So meaning money.
Of course Allah him and everybody else do it part time, which I'm not saying anything about this. I want you to be more deeper and I want you to look at how many
opportunities and what you know to be generous, and I absolutely don't see it and throw it away. And I feel so bad when I hear my friend paid and adore and in my budget cannot allow me what to pay for your
generosity? Absolutely. There's no question. And this is a very famous How do you want to slam you to eat for a second as you breathe in number one every night, except the last year before he died, it was twice. And kind of this is how it was described, kind of enjoyed him or even worse, he was more more generous than the running Windows to bring a lot of failures. However, I want you to look at generosity in another way. Give me an example of generosity outside money.
smiling in the face of someone? Absolutely.
So reaching, reaching to your kinships even if they never call you.
I wouldn't say this is generosity. But I want generosity mean it's something excellent. You don't have to do
So remove remove any harm. It's not generosity. These are solid,
For example, you're cooking then you sell everyday food in your neighborhood. That's fine. I'm looking for more than that.
That's not journalists, journalists, journalists.
Are you ready? do you have? How many of you because I have never been here in number one in your Mosque, the woman here in a crowded
crowded or there is plenty of space.
Yeah, and if you come at a time, you may or may not find a place.
This is the scenario. And I see this all the time in St. Louis. Definitely in the home. So if you are you are in domestic, right? Let's see reality in the States. Your family. On the weekend. All kids come on in. We're gonna pray the past in the West, you can stay I brought my son Jada, I want my sulak but my misbehave my salon I want to enjoy my
husband is there. Kids are there. So I come in.
And I'm sitting in that place. Beautiful center. I hear well, nobody distracted. Before I shall walk past you
know what I'm saying? What happens? You come back. Good luck. Bye bye.
World War Three will happen in
generosity is what you give more. Or more than average, more than most people do. Or you do something most people will not. And especially giving your right as generosity.
It's with people is with me. That's why I told it's not about money. Because what people don't have money.
But how many will do this the example I gave how many somebody looks at you, and this is your spa. But when he misbehaves,
take it and you mean not take it anyway.
Same thing with same thing with our by your generosity you will give you will give not because of horse, especially if you don't know
doing it because he was
and I'm following his footsteps, because of love.
And what love is those who are generalists, because the law says those who spend when they have and when they don't have, they don't have Meanwhile, I come to the mercy there's no place. I'm not going to be praying in the masjid that she took my place. Not a single word.
And, of course, the people who is next to you, it's hard, please What happened? And then you are jealous. But it's like it's okay. No, it's not okay.
You're not down, I
help each other to be jealous. Nothing is yours. So I tell myself, nothing is mine. I own nothing. It's awful. It's
just to give you as keep it for you for a while and then he will take it back. So generosity.
You know more exactly in food I'm sure you come into the line of a false the first one I'm thinking everything
no put the least make at least five place to be the people behind you before you do it for yourself that's generosity. The last piece of cable the last piece of something the speed by people behind you leave it you want to rely on
materials the series all small things I know how much we would be attention to it to be journalists
disliked action Do we have to stop? Can you give me five more minutes? Linda? Can I have one minute
that's fine. Okay, but this like option meaning you beautified your cake and then something happens and then oops, the pin closes out
are there Lisa of chocolate is out so these excessive garden as we said
tasting the food for nollie then we just need to let me play and again kissing when there is you cannot control yourself once you negate your fasting
what absolutely abolish the fasting
don't look Look at me
eating and drinking.
Eating and drinking intentionally because if you eat and drink and this theater you forgot a lot when
you're fasting is is valid. So number one, sexual intercourse vomiting intentionally pay attention to intentional but as we said menstruation if you meet intention to make the break the osteo fast is invalid
so I can tell told you said you know what? I have a huge class and I have an exam I don't think I'm going to do that I probably will I'm gonna go and break my fast. And then you said no, no, no, I'm gonna go and do it
Because Nia, remember what we said about intention. So be really careful about that. Right? It's gonna come but you're gonna push it right away. No, no, Allah will make it easy. And if somebody rejected stones,
then the fasting is unacceptable by so we've talked about eating and drinking deliberately. Absolutely. The first thing is going for get forgetful. Your mistake if you forget about that, our mistakenly token then your fasting is absolutely right. And that's
that's the heatwave. And so we're back on oceanica
if one of you eat and drink a state of forgetfulness, keep your passing. And that's what I wrote in the mouth.
A lot of you
don't ask a lot of Indian.
A lot of people you
ask a lot of videos,
but not with that.
Okay, so don't forget to do a little bit of not only
we are gonna be here as we get to SEO because we feel the treasure that is coming to us because feel that the honorable guests coming to us make us feel the virtues that we can get. make us feel the honor that Allah gave us and make us make us proud. Make us and help us to practice what we are learning what we already know what we don't know and hating just having a panic alarm or behind because that stuff will go to so allow us to say no, it was hard because
we're not when are we at 130 we're gonna beat drama