Ramadan Part 2

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Haifaa Younis

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So, again, this, remember this, why actually happened last time to make me It made me remember this in every act?

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I wouldn't say indeed one even and make these two questions. A pre request before you say anything. Are you doing these two questions? Why? And how?

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Why and how? Why you are doing it? And how you're doing it. You're cooking for your family. Right? Why you're doing? And how.

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So why the why can get you to dinner and the why cannot get you to Italy? And the hungry thing? Am I doing it for Wi Fi? Am I doing it for a one my family? Am I doing it because my job, I have to feed them? I am doing it because I don't want everyone to be whining in the house. And how, whatever, anything you put on the table, they will eat? No, I'm going to do the best way I can do.

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And of course if you're doing an act of rebellion while you're doing it the way of what taught me to do

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so the same thing, one solenoid he went away He said, Well, why are you fasting, fully believing?

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fully believing that's what he will do would fully believing that I'm doing it only for him fully believing is seeing fully believing it's written in my in my book, fully believing I'm going to stand in front of him. And he will tell me you did it. You fasted

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and then I fully believe he will reward me for that. So remember this one. And the same thing for me the other end for Salah

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as we call the night, whether you are doing it alone, whether you're doing it in a Masjid, whether you're doing it with a group at the house, it doesn't matter. The idea is you have to have an extra

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extra prayers in normal one. And this is actually what what, what is one of the criterias or like like the landmarks of Oman is what

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the usual question are you praying? Nobody said do you pray?

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It's an insult? When do they tell you you pray to the house? Or

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do you pray after a show or you sleep or you do it in the night? Because that's a gift everyone does so the same thing when common a little candy and we're gonna come to it. Imagine what he saw the same thing you believe this is the night of the quarter you believe a lot mean that you believe on what is going to give you what he promised and he will reward you same thing no matter what the momentum but you will be forgiven. You will be forgiven every bad deed, every backbiting every look every disobedience. Every song I miss every one. Whatever I made in the towards the light of a las panatela I will be completely forgiven. Now this is no good for the Forgotten part. And I'm going to

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go quickly because I'm assuming

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assuming you know

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I hope no answer two periods only two requirements for for a cm. If you don't have the students Leon is invalid you did not realize you were just hungry.

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Remember, this is extremely important.

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every act of worship Allah gave us that is a requirement to make it valid, we call it and then after it is valid, how much I'm going to be rewarded right for example, let's do this is there is this the exact code it's easy because a lot of people do most of the errors occur during a moment how many of you here that this will work? working woman you better know the columns? So you need to ask me this question. What is the tool? What is the requirement of the code? What is the pillars of soccer my outcomes occur

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and we saw

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what

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we saw them with how we that's how it is and we solve it as meeting the minimum amount required for an unhealthy meaning one year so the easy way depends when do you give us a kind of give it a moment that you can say one on one to the other? What are you doing with January so one January the other you deal with April to April doesn't know how much money you had from January for example, 2017 to January 2018 and the sub the minimum requirement, what is the minimum requirement

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84 what is the minimum requirement of money how much money I have to have, then the car becomes an obligation. This is what it's

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gonna be who's gonna know how much he for gold.

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Gold, so these examples, make it easy, straightforward.

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That's

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500

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money

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okay, the nice thing is when you say Allah made me say this so I normally ask Allah Allah but I don't know why this time I asked about

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usually when you talk about second talk about money number one is money because that's the agreed upon. And number two is usually is a cattle herd they call it Golden and Silver is the third because there's a different opinion about it. So when we say is a guy talking about money, you're giving me 84 point and this is you're telling me the goal? What is equal to that's in the books? Nobody knows how much will there so what is money? I can you bank bank? bank, you put money going? papers? How much

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are you saving?

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Your

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minimum is all so somebody has $250 someone has $500? Somebody has $1,000 somebody has 10,000 somebody has a million? What is the minimum $1,000 what you need to know is you live in America, don't give me any other country you live in America. I mean, this is to my knowledge, these most recent, the minimum we found was $1,000. So you come January 2017. Why I asked working woman because working on it's your money. This is your obligation. Don't tell my husband doesn't do it. It's not it's you. If you have a joint account, that's a different story. But you have to know how much you put in that joint money because that's your obligation. If you don't work, that's your husband

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obligation. You get my food, it's your money, whether it's an inheritance, what have you saved or whether you are working 1000 that's funny song. So that's the minimum so I go to my bank account and I say okay, I have only $750 I have no I'm sorry, no obligation for me. I'm not gonna take questions now. We'll take it at the end, please. And then the second thing is and how it has to be a year so I don't look at the car in

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January 2017. I'm not gonna look at June 2018 there's not a whole I look at January 2018. So and how when you saw when you have this then you're gonna come and say how much 2.5% who I am going to give it to what about the gold? What about the rental home I have it What about whatever form that's all details, but the essence is these two for fasting. The essence of these two?

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Is intention. And you need to refrain home stay away from three things only. Don't reinvent the wheel. What is the three things I'm not gonna give you an extra slide.

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Food drink

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and marital relation. That's a marital relationship. These are the three things others this is how I said yesterday to the youth and maybe we'll have a

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look at lasting as you're baking a cake.

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Are you really easy The more you make things easy for yourself it's easy to practice me What do I need to bake a cake I need minimum minimum and you know cake without

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most of it is a flower now the gunk coming up on the flower landscape but usually it's flour usually flour and sugar and I need an oven to bake the container to put you know minimum once I have this I have a cake to make a cake for fasting for you and me I need to have these two

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no intention no fasting you did not make a drink you when you are hungry. I have the intention. I did not have a relationship I didn't eat but I had a sip of water there was no cake

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Our goal at the end of the day is not baking a cake because the 1.6 billion Muslims

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assume 60% of them will fast so once you really immerse them will make a cake I want to have the best cake

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and this is what we really want I eat the best cake how I'm gonna beautify my cake but the chocolate or strawberry look beauty layers in between that's what makes you and me different than the others. So this is the minimum and who said so again when you say this this is for all purposes focus on art calcium, calcium, I needed to work inside Raisa so you don't eat and you don't drink and this is the anytime you say about intention. This idea is being usually quoted as water being

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seen and they will not want the ball to worship almost pantalla purity fully, only only. So I am fasting only for more now because everyone is fasting now because

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So number one, and of course,

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you know what I want to do is wait a lot is the best time.

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That's not mean it's not the best time to lose weight to some, some actually gain weight. But in general, you need to really tell yourself Yo, I am doing it only for you. Do you have to say it?

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Absolutely not right in telephony. But in you Your heart is I'm doing it for a lot. And this is the the Hadeeth of this D. I said this is the same as the three heartbeats. This D for all the habits of

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the doctor, this religion is built on billabong, and this is the first one it's knowing by saving almost any book of honey, you're going to open your CDs up number one,

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which is in

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your deeds, my deed deeds are judged by intention. There's a lot of discussion about it, meaning the way it is accepted depends on the near on the intention the way it is rewarded. The event depends on the intention in your mind. When you're when you're querying manual, and every human being has its own intention. You do whatever you want. You want to us as for law, you want to find out what it's up to you. And who knows the intention

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then

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I have that I always say this to myself and to all the ladies. I have no idea why you're here today. I cannot assume Oh, of course suddenly if it doesn't have anything so she came I don't know this and I can't judge I can't assume that I don't act on it. Right? Oh she came visited me because she wants this or how do I know? The internship only Allah knows. Yeah, and I'm super worried about the one who knows the secret and the one that is not even security. So this is number one. The other hand is which is also the pillars of this D is that 100 Greenwood

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nofal act is clear and unlawful hallmarks are

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okay, over

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time so the mean okay.

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The question here this is important now we're talking about pay attention

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you need to make near the night before

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whether you're going to do the night or for Milan, you're going to say I am fasting for the month.

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Whether you woke up for support, that's your meal or you're waking up at four o'clock to eat, that's your need, but you cannot not have manlam you will use assioma analyse armineh this is normal homsar meaning it is stronger. So you need to tell yourself the easy one is of course, if you put the the calendar you know like an Islamic Society of August to the calendar and you put it there and you go and look at it that you need but it needs to be in the night. That's the whole idea before 5g and again so we can go for support what you're having for support you put the water next to you even if you slept but you put the water next to so when I wake up I'm gonna drink that's the only time

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yes

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you can do the homework most of the dog

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said it is valid unless you break the fast in between meaning the woman got her period retardo someone gets sick and you broke the fast Yanni you broke the chain is a fast when you start trusting you need to have a lot of the scholars tells you one knee is enough for the whole month. You want to do it every night. That's why but everyone agree. If you did it one for the whole month and you'd walk fast in between for whatever the reason, when you resume the fast again, nobody

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clear, please pay attention because that's the validity of the argument. So please, so you're not going to eat, you're gonna drink and you're not gonna have a relationship, marital relationship from

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what

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109 like to explore 65

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is what we call that's one of the most powerful Tyler says

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to say I'm reflecting

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on the universal quantum universe on your own. I didn't know quantum computer logic was koala. Banana, now it's going to come but nonetheless you will know better we

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know what wash Hello, Hi,

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sweetie.

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And I couldn't

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eat and drink till you see the white line in between the dark between the night and the day and then don't eat and drink.

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Till

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till dawn, till the utmost yummy and they continue to eat, not to eat, not to drink not to have a relationship till the night comes in and then this is where the decaf comes in. This is where that decaf comes in. We're going to come to it very quickly where it is that the calf comes in, in the masjid, that's the same I would advise you do not want to argue for a massage and don't get close to them when you're in a state of Attica in the masjid. That's why a lot of the scholars tells you take off in the masjid because that's what wasn't for you. Okay, and when do you start the fastest?

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And he says in the middle and this is why I say that in the beginning let them be

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the guy who's been

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on the call for prayer to be done and he's selling this house teaching them and this is one of the reasons when you teach you teach indirectly in maybe down the road

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with calls for theodon in the night for who was eating dinner at the 98

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he didn't really tell the son of me to who's the son of a devotee

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exactly right not

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to eat and drink till the sun off every month don't call for the meaning to ignore every employee will move up to the sun or the sun the sun pronouns which are done for

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you look company's life wife, you didn't know but don't ignore me Mcdo

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mother yes is in the outlawed in the Arab tradition up to this date. It's very common for people with accordion like Armando

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that's called kuhnian right so every only Macedon the son of the mother of Macedon meaning his brother name Exactly.

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Okay, he different from

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his father.

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His mother was

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the mother of mother

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guy was ignored. That's a completely different person.

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He didn't say

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hi to you now it is really only up to the what it says

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I understand. Okay.

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But

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But then the call to stop the food and he would be a different person.

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You know what? I don't know this. You could be like, we will check it and the minute

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I know is this I could be wrong. Easy. Who doesn't pay? And then when to eat? When do I break the fast? They didn't have iPhone. Right?

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Simple. That's why I really love when we simplify things. And I really don't like when we complicate things simple. Look at his Apple 11 album. Why did

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well what about the shoes for the first symbol when the night comes from here? And the sun comes from here, and the sun will set? The person who is fasting God eat? What does that mean?

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Really Englishman? When night falls from this site, meaning

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nightfalls really

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sunset

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model and the day vanish from this side meaning mo vanish, right? And the sun sets my own center fasting Personally, I don't have a watch. My watch

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is not working or very common example happened to me last week you're in the plane. Right? I pray if I do. I have no idea where I am in the middle of the ocean. Open the window look.

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And I actually did see

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you see it. I actually have a picture of it. I wanted to put it but technically, it's a problem I wasn't able to you see. So when you're when you're traveling you're going to see the sun becomes a for example model the sun will become London and it's it's setting. That's the time of

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these

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He's our life is way easy. How many alarms you have in Dallas?

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Right? I would

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I slept for 47 for four, and then the calendar, so don't have the reason I showed this to you is because people don't know why. Because there's a lot of why these days. Why

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are you who should fast?

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Look at it. Okay, so the frontally Muslim adult, able to fast, not the traveler, right? The state of mind. Another mistake of restoration, I'm going to ask you before I give you the next one. So Muslims mean,

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I'm gonna ask everything because you're looking at me as if you like what she's saying.

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What's the most

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that's what I want you to know. The person who declared a trauma is when and there was really sought to surround his his messenger house. That's obviously for someone today was pantalla granted on him that weren't, and romane becomes an obligation number two adult.

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So the woman, the babies, the girls get their period, if you didn't get up at

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the age, and if what's the age?

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for the for the girl, it's either no people, no changes. I've seen this till age 70 and 80 something so what is the stomach need? They become

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a tough move these nine becomes an obligation Please don't do that.

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Are your children, nine year old No.

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15 is the age of adulthood. So your son if no changes, no changes that can happen. If he is 15 someone becomes obligation is not a choice not to throw a nine year trailing 10 year trailing 11 year training 12 year training 13 training 14 train is okay. And he usually you say like come on, you're 1314 you should be able to do it. But if you do it is not an obligation. And he's not disobeying the law. She's not disobeying the law. But 15% of

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all of course, if she gets her period, or boy gets the changes earlier than nine and gets her period Latina and is this is very, it is common these days, you will get nine months. Actually, the minimum age of postulation is noise. So that's number two ability to fast I gave you the glue healthy or sick we gotta come to this in with Who said so? What is the proven the evidence? Not that there is a true opinions about that, like the state of mind meaning

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mentally,

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mentally many people so depression, can he or she?

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They guess it's very good.

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Depends no don't mean please, please, I invented and ideally, I'm seeing this with a lot of passion. Don't answer yes or no, indeed. Unless it's clear.

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It depends. You tell me depression actually depends. Are they hospitalized? Are they on? aect? Are they taking medications? How often they're taking medications? How

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exactly if you say just depression? That's and what will happen to the depression if they fast?

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Any disease that gets worse with fasting they shouldn't. So there's no yes or no right away? Always it depends. If you told me is a Muslim has too fast. I will say yes. If they are these? I wouldn't say yes only because he doesn't choose menstruating then I be the sin I gave up to get old Did you get my point? So always be careful Yanni. Look, everything has as I say have seen everything has details. So right state of mind somebody under sec.

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Someone took sleeping medication, and then they slept all day. And they didn't wake up to nine. Is that possible? Absolutely. There's a lot of possibilities. So you cannot just say yes or no right away. So I just did somebody insane.

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And see if there's an obligation on them.

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For you as long as they are in that state. When the state changes they are now saying then becomes an obligation and restoration will come to it. Here we go. This is very important or so. Okay. It's narrated by say that I certainly say because it teaches you a lot of things moving on. I don't want

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it

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91 is

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one in which

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that's in general roofing means the obligation the requirement is not required on these three conditions any requirement Salah so yeah, height zeca meaning before the other requirements Did you get my food before the other required so if there is somebody who's in C and they have a million dollar in the in the bank Zack has an obligation on them on their money on the person who is taking care of their affairs. So number one a nice statement if I am sleeping a lot will not take asked me in these hours What did you do? No Obligation is only in these hours 101 a slave you have a

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child till he becomes adult which we just talked about, what an imaginary

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person who is the state of mind that you are not Micallef the quality and the law, but they are not required by law to do this unless the things change.

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For you, having to

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know comes to traveling.

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Number one, why the travel is an issue. Why not? Because of lesson. So

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Allah gave me the permission. And don't tell me about traveling these days, not like before, don't argue. He said for my Kannada suffering. Meaning it's almost like it's a permission. It's a concession, we're going to come to choices. But it's definitely a concession set by what the same I often say if I have the same verse about fasting, right? Now look at this. Read it well,

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and then it will teach is you don't say anything when someone is traveling and fasting. And someone is traveling and not trusting.

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Don't be judgmental, and you're fasting. That's too much. As always say you're not fasting, why not? It's very easy. What is it play two hours and you know,

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don't say anything. This is what he says. And there's another stream.

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And Malik gives you all the chain of integration analysis mnemonic Paula coonan is happy when

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we told with our Swati santosa. How and where is rubbish. It's a stick of time

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for me.

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But if you ever saw him and then move

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on, we traveled to the Swanee Software Center. And it looks like there was two rooms grouper fasting and we were not fasting. Neither of those look down and these are not not those look dumb or criticized. Nobody meaning?

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Well,

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this is a good question. And the answer is if it is not said my answer is

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we're not going to think so. versalles

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how's my neutral? Very good. What was he doing? He didn't say

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and I and we don't know. I know what's in that mathematical in that word for you? The next 100

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Satoshi Satoshi. Now you individually, I

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also suffer what kind of confused Liam? He understood the choice. Should I can I fast when I'm traveling and the person who asked a lot? What did he say? Look at the beauty I[???]a for some of them. If you like if you don't want topless

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is beautiful. No, no toughness, no option what you feel is one of the reasons he told him this because he was a person who because he was so young. His body is very used to fasting but in spite of that he didn't tell him of course you know you always fast what is the big deal? Your body's used to No.

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gave him the option so you are fast you're traveling in the first day

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and you are fighting the family three decided to fast and tune up the doctor fast up to

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your say no, no, no, we're not all we're not fasting usually fast don't do that. And actually one of the beautiful ways I looked at is this. If fasting during traveling is really will bring hardship on you individually. When you need not fast. You should not trust if making up the fast thing later on.

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There is no hard chip on your tablet. But after fast you get it. That's very easy. This is a contemporary scholars to like, I don't know, I don't know which one I should do you know yourself, some people making up the first thing is not a big deal for them. And some people find it very difficult to pass outside their own. People are different. They're not better, we're not better. Everyone has their own ability, you know, yourself. And not every town is the same. Going forward for 16 hours or 20 hours the same as I'm going, for example, to St. Louis, two hours,

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you will know. So you look at yourself, both are your permission, you can choose me as an outsider. My job is

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no comment.

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No comment and don't ask is not my quote unquote, on my business. Let me focus on my some of my fasting.

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Okay, menstruation because I'm healing is the reason I put this I put it in the bud. Angela,

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all the people of knowledge, knew an omen for metalphoto, Swati Santos, to this day, from every level, every corner of this earth where Muslims are the woman who has her period can not fast. Because maybe you are looking at me why she is so much stressing on this, because I'm getting these questions. Why not?

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Why not fast.

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He's had so

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much done. And in this in the same thing. I'd say die. She's actually she said could not. At the time, of course, what he saw was we, of course they have to have their period, no one will be provided. So we are ordered to make up fasting that means they didn't fast. But we were not ordered to make a Syrah. A woman came to her and asked her why.

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Look at this, even at that time, and she says I have to empty our agenda to be more than for the sake of questioning. Look at our answer. This is what we did. And this is what he ordered us.

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Within a fast we didn't pray. We made up the first thing we didn't make up the solar house. Remember what I told you at the beginning? First, it teaches you and me to submit to the will of people. It's not it like but but what

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semina will

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tell you now,

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this is another drama. I always get this you probably don't behind him this right? So he do our fasting. And my little miss h1 and eat. You get your people and the drama starts.

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But it's only 20 minutes left.

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But I'm not at

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the choices. The answer is Sunday. I know.

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He chose who allowed the blood to come out. Okay, I think this way.

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Couldn't you make it in the morning, and you have enjoyed your coffee one to dinner?

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To be made it is 25 and your car is gone? It's all valid house. That's it. So it doesn't matter what and that's why I put this it doesn't matter what time in the day. It starts as when you're out what I am real, or the woman in a state of menstruation. So Young is home.

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It is this act of disobedience.

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Should you make it up? The answer is absolutely.

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No one

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will beautiful. You can make it any time but that's the most famous quote of Sedaris. And she used to say,

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she said, Can

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I have these to be come from Ramadan? But I couldn't make it up to Sheldon. I was busy with a Swanee santosa

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Hey, do

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you want to do it immediately. You want to do it once a month. You want to do it in Japan. It's absolutely up to you. However, however, what is the better

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why sooner the better in this one, because it's an obligation.

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And it's like a beam it's like

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it's like a debt and you have to pay it. So if I can do and a lot of the women say this, it's easier immediately after all, because my body is still used to it. The longer he'll push it but that's not necessarily some people. Again remember your situation, your family situation, your home

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sprint approval, all these things, you have to all take it in consideration and then you decide you want to do it immediately. You want to do it one day a month and you want to do it on a Monday and a Thursday. Doesn't matter. You want to leave it to all the one day thing I would highly recommend don't leave it to the last minute.com

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people look at me it was like, Whoa, I have six days and only five days left. If Siobhan is 29 days, I am in big trouble. Why did you do that? Today? This is the platform was not for me, are you? So don't push it way to the end. But can you relate to Siobhan? Absolutely. You can. It's an option. Yes. How about the six?

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Six shows?

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They

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always argue. I'm going to show you a slide of of the original argument and question five so comes in which I show what I'm going to say, you know, it's okay.

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Six days of Shola because it's beautiful swan is Gleason whomsoever. That's my room, past the drama one, followed by six days of Shama of Shomron, as if she or he fasted the whole year, because it's 36 days, times 360. So the question always comes up every year?

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Should I make up my days? Or should I make a while? And now of course, because we are getting so much more

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stingy? Can I

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buy one get one free?

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This is what they tell me. I love making guitar. And you hear this every year, every year, I was like, Okay, now the questions come up. This is how you do, there's a three opinions about this. One opinions are the

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obligation is an old belief. And always obligation comes before

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extras, before the extras. So you need to start with your obligation. Very sound opinion, highly respectable scholars. So you do this, and then you followed by show life. That means seven, the average time six, that's 13 days of shot, your first comes the other group highly respectable, but they look at it a different way. Those they looked at it, that is your obligation, an obligation before the other group came to us. And he said the following, sharp Joann, they call it a belly to muscles or rock the muscles, it's a certain time, it's only 30 days. And if I cannot do it at that time, I cannot do it later.

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And I if I cannot do this with this for many reasons, and this comes first.

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And you can do to the as as you wish, based upon the action of the most knowledgeable woman in history of Islam, both

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personally, person and if you are least, inshallah you will want to watch us your naps will guide you will.

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If you really performed on the law and beautiful ones what your enough school guide.

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I'm sorry.

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Like

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if if your situation and now remember this, your husband and now your your, for example, you're having all the guests coming for? You may have to think of all the circumstances it's not going to be possible. But I'm talking about it's your choice for your choice. If you have biopharma these guys reached the top when you're so much connected, you're so worried about your day? Because you always remember I don't know if I'm going to be doing

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and I want to do but both are combining them. The answer is

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absolutely no. And think of it this way. Can you do so that

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you do the sooner and the sooner at the same time? Buy One Get One Free? Why not?

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Why not?

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Because the forum is an obligation. An extra is an extra seems to show why this will be put to rest this argument. We're taking questions later on. We will have one hour extra. My claim is data. So we'll give you one more hour for all the questions but this because I wanted to put it to us this Friday. Now too fast or not too fast. pregnant and breastfeeding. This is my job because some of you may know your nominal in Julia. I'm an obstetrician gynecologist. So the usual question, should I fast and fast? The answer is is

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is it going to be harming

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harming the baby or harming both

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And harming is any home more tired, cannot function. Losing weight, baby is getting smaller not to go on with throwing up any of this, this our individual,

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right, and it is also a lot of this closer to God as a sick person, which we're going to come to it, right? So I always tell my patients, it's up to you. Try it and see and know see what it's so move on. I have to fast and then she's flowing up and she's dizzy. Nope. And don't take it also to like, because it's normal. Give it a try and see how you have I seen pregnant really is fasting it fully? Absolutely. And have I seen frequently we can do it. Yes. So it's, it's up to them. The next common question? How should she link it up? That's a very common discourse. Should she make it up? Should she pay? Should she make up and paid? And I gave her the bottom line?

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If you are a pharmacy school, absolutely you only make it up. If you're a Maliki you pay them. If you're both the other school of thought

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you actually do both.

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Okay, but don't choose good. today. I'm going to be like,

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don't do that.

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Okay, well, I don't have money. No, no, I have so many plans. I'm going to be doing

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whatever you are usually the way you play the way you practice whatever you want, or the way you grew up with that part of the world that that part of the world will have them practice this way. You you follow this trail. Now when fasting is not and I put it in black, not alone.

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And you can read old age, sickness, any sickness. You don't have to be in the hospital in ICU, any sickness, anything that will become worse with the fasting you aren't allowed to not? Actually if it's making your sickness worse, it's hard to ask the question comes up people with diabetes always they ask but I don't feel anything. I was like what's your blood sugar? Oh I don't

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know chocolate if they are worse than you shouldn't trust you shouldn't because this being one of the principal of this region is to protect the life and to protect the life you have to protect your health. So sickness those who work very hard jobs imagine someone is in construction is here

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and next two weeks and they are out all day.

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This is tough and if they tell you I can't I get headache I throw up I cannot function and that's so powerful pregnancy we talked about it breastfeeding we talked about it and travelogue we talked about.

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Yes.

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Working hard all the time. So

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if they cannot make it up, it's the same as the person who is always sick. They pay money. So what do you have with somebody? Let's assume you have a your grandmother or your mother, right? She's 19 years old. That's what we go into it right once you if you cannot make it. So what you would do with people and if you don't, you cannot make it up. Then usually you will definitely pay the video for it. What the tournament you pay the money for. But if you are someone who know more than construction, for example, and then in December usually there's no construction because it is

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it's all cold to smell the days are very short and you will make it

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right but so this is the second day let's say number one numbers and he said what was pantalla says Guadalupe Poonam those who cannot fast that's actually the old age people. So you you you see this all the time these days where people are very weak, people are saying

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they are fine and we come to love everything that too weak and and you seem like you know the 90 year old woman he weighs 90s 90 pounds it's tough to fast even if they try and then they can tell you why can't 101 is the other and we talked about this profession if someone gets really exhausted

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so I don't know if you've had this but I definitely have seen it with somebody who you know sometimes especially if, let's say student's mother or even a man working very long hours, they wouldn't want to call the whole night shifts and then they went out and then vice four or three throwing up severe and all these things. This is stuff so that they are allowed to any the point we are trying to make on the wall is so deal right? But there's always exceptions to that be personal

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cannot pass doesn't mean a whole lot of other views to them. But that's how I must count on them and then kind of move on to something else. I'm not we're not getting bored or as someone to do something beyond their capability. And if someone is an NGO peaceable enough they are known, although they fought back

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in the summer, and they were foster

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300 versus 400 and they won.

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So yes, there is all these permission but also show a lot the best out of you the best. What do you mean by profession? Professional Guanajuato builder. Somebody was outside longer, where's all this planning? What is allowed to come in and now coming to the million dollar questions every year? Brilliant. Why? What is allowed during fasting is not going to break your fast. Swallow your saliva? Yes, tasting the food, but not too much.

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Right? And those of you which I'm sure most of you all if not all of you, professional, not professional cooking, but you cook well. You don't need to taste anymore. When you smell it. You smell it and you can tell right? Or if you really need to, for example, you have somebody who's sick in the house and you don't want to meet you want to make sure we don't put too much salt, for example, you're gonna taste not taste, taste.

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Smell the perfume is something that's very common question doesn't lead to something. Absolutely.

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Anyone know? He used to kiss his wife and he was fasting. But he is so this is one of the other things that you are allowed to do during muscle so the woman had her period or they were in a state of impurity after the marital relationship and she was very tired or she was very busy preparing support something kids were just paddling she didn't pay attention that's okay you can do it and when you can when you're fasting is valid Can I raise my mouth? Yes but not excessive. Can I brush my teeth Yes, but not excessive and fight from brush your teeth yes you can with the with the

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toothpaste, you can use a

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brush brush with one with only the

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toothpaste is allowed as long as you do your best not to swallow, which we always do. Okay, so keep keep rinsing and throwing it through till you have no taste anymore and you're absolutely fine. Now, having said that you are if you are in doubt, normally how often we brush our teeth

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in the morning after you do your settlement, and then after your break first before you go to bed and get out of this.

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Now I'm worried just in case I swallow. Being here as we say be sensible, be smart, and do it in a way to create a safe

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place. Please memorize this, this slide and your exam will help when we think these are the things will not break your fast

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will not break your fast idle. dental work as gimmickry under the tongue medications. So people have chest pain and you put under the tongue aspirin did not break their fast mouth gorgo cardiac cath, vaginal crease, vaginal exam, IV I am injections, endoscopy, oxygen biopsies, catheters, general anesthesia, and internal unintentional vomiting and intentional vomiting. All the above especially I'm talking about the medical ones. As long as there is no IV fluid. There is an IV fluid that's your fast is gone, because that's food. So if you put an IV vine you give them 5%. The closer you get to normal city, this is food. What's the fastest book? They're much faster? But all these

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because this is the communist question. Oh, I cannot do pelvic exam because I'm fasting what is

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what is a very common copilots myth, everyone, right? And even I always remember my front desk used to say all the very few people are coming for the exam because everybody does that. But in general, I don't put all of them I try to avoid it.

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Try to avoid things that is not necessarily the things you can do after a moment.

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But don't don't people don't do it because break your file.