Islamic Etiquette for Seeking Knowledge – What every Muslim should know

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that was sent out when I was putting them on

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for us to be

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standing up for the

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lucky for coming into Friday evening, probably everybody's tired coming from work not

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made a lot. And if you have an interview, I'll give you more if you don't have no Gmail

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apologies for the delay starting because of their

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blessing to me to start the program.

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So I was asked to talk about this powerful course

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of taking knowledge. And this actually applies to everyone. Meaning you are somebody who comes once a month to qualify to apply if you are somebody who were in a university, and you took the path of being part of knowledge as your career, or you are someone who stays to learn.

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You basically do it online might train you read books, it doesn't matter. Because the only result in this, which is you wants to learn about this, especially when we talk about the effects of training. We're talking about

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artistically knowledge and knowledge that we're getting from us.

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So as most of you know, we spent beautiful time on the weekend for what is number one.

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So what is number one?

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For me,

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the first question you got to ask yourself

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and that's actually if I may add is not only when you are learning

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and I always when people ask me because I'm an obstetrician gynecologist

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so people love the medical students come to me and I want to be an OB GYN I said why do you want to be an orphan?

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And this is why we're doing this for money. We're going to do it for something, go into something else will give you much better income.

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So you always have to look at your intention. Okay, number two, but let's talk number two

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intentionally or.

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Unintentionally, I've done good

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okay, that's number three, you practice what you

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bring, it's okay. Don't worry, I'm gonna give this to you. But I just want people to wake up

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this will be the last

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one last point you will never,

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never learn

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because then you will make the right or wrong.

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never learn. Teach your children

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and you say I'm not going to

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today's children

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are not going to say I want to help my children know

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this actually.

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What else

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you need to be humble. And we're going to talk about this

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example of the humbleness of the real scholars, not me and you and the real one. Okay.

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Ladies and gentlemen, this is only

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we said this would be information that comes with it. Then the other applicants, me, the students themselves.

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So we said intention, you said you're gonna practice what you want. We're gonna have to be humble

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I think

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being kind being gentle, it's hard when you're long you're gonna change okay.

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It's good. Time you're learning is when you're changing and changing to the Battle of becoming out of them. You know how we are

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People won't agree through IR and then everybody else knows nothing.

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In my life is gonna change. Because I took this path to learn about Allah, things in my life was being like, what? How I'm gonna look at my time? Who are my friends? How do I look to my future?

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And to the people who taught me

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tremely important? How do I look at the people who wrote the book that I am studying, I'm talking about people way before, right? And

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I put numbers towards the unit

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kabru until you really have to do things, otherwise you're not gonna,

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because they're gonna give up.

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Okay, so let's start. First, before we get introduced to this, I'll give you one by one.

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You meet the one one thing before we even start this

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something which is unfortunate, especially living in this day and age and hurting in the western world even more, is something called we meet along the other, meaning you need to know to be provided,

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you know what I'm talking with? Because then what is the cause of the human being? In general? What does the

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by looking into my eyes, notice, I don't like it, it's not fair, I answer all this, that's becoming the norm. That doesn't mean when you want to students in this, we're going to come to this but you're not going to ask and you're not gonna be positive.

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You need to train yourself to be

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built up a person who knows nothing and learning before you even take this.

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For example, I'm going to give you some of the examples of

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a young man

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he said to me,

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he was a young man or young, so she used to get to London to go through the class, look at yourself or your child, or among the meanings used to

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dress properly Wear the turban and she said go for the one of the future but learn to live and manners before you might want a young man those

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miners meaning how do I sit remember for those of you with with us from speaking and you looked at me when I first started talking about this, the way you speak, the way you handle your the way you put on the court before and all these signs of the manners the more respect to get to this knowledge, Allah who has give you more, for example, have the Walkman, Mubarak the very famous almost thing and he's knowledgeable in

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manners is to

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learn to be polite knowledge of the knowledge

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and the more polite you are the more humble you are

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more spiritual more gives you more knowledge or make you understand way easier than you thought. For example,

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this young discovery which is a very famous place but Lisa

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is no good.

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After the obligations Allah made the obligation, but he acknowledged

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he says in his time the man mean man or woman will never start learning before they start to be polite

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give me an example about

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a week like with this I'm not talking about my stuff I was talking about when you go goal you'll hear me is when you've worked with the Wii once you have the the installers Miss Cunningham, light learning, and we stick on electric.

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And how do we

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debrief how do we how do we how do we move on disagree with the with the chair or the preacher? About company?

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How would you normally and of course,

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much more to commentary, but in general, in general, we think that we are

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Right and as all the future speakers, especially when you start taking risk, I will tell you, you're gonna come along

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As Of course, you will learn

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you know what, because it's full and you're gonna put in it what's gonna happen

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it's gonna over so whatever you're learning is going to come you need to come to this to this knowledge, especially the secret knowledge we're talking about.

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I know nothing

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you come to a lecture and you say I know nothing wants to come with a walk will make you see things you've never seen it before. Give you an example how many times and all of them when you read the Quran for example we all how many times

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but when you're doing this with an open heart and Allah have includes your eyes how many times do you look at one is that

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we're saying is the Quran

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your attitude towards

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the business the way you run the way you speak the way you look at this knowledge look at this as a blessing this will not give it to anyone

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gives it to you once and you didn't even know the value you're not grateful to

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know for example

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the following link to one of the items whomsoever took the manners of learning not

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loving punishment by taking away from him is a lot of doing the extra

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pay attention to the small things extremely important so if you don't think being polite with your future

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following what he or she said when I'm reading the book the way I sit in it luckily not

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gonna look at the printer has

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given to the customer so I'm not personal take this when he said linked to how

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old he will be

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and Herstal ever will take likely you're going to lose the obligations

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ask anyone who stopped hunting

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of course they will tell you

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we stopped doing this

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and then gradually is insulated

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that's why don't look at any of this in our clothing

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don't look as many life

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obligations very lightly, luckily, Bing.

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So you cannot be a student of knowledge

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and I brought the example talking about equity obligations. I cannot be nicer many times in the truth. I can't be a student of college and I stopped watching TV

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or do you will you will

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understand, so you really have to learn a lot.

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In the first thing you start when you start is what we learned if

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are from others.

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You cannot put people on your elegance

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you cannot be jealous from people except not the jealousy. The positive jealousy is

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I want to be one on one you have normalized.

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I want

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somebody with

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family I want him to work. That's all for now.

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He's with me in the classroom.

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Nice to see all the all the bad

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news. You will look at this, you memorize this you practice you ask Allah to give you this when you come to the following points

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to get to the first thing is work on your manual.

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Work and your miners are must come down and give you a shape or a feature.

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First all of these points you're looking at

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because we simply don't speak about these things. And if you want full pay essentially to leave a job

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now come to the number one.

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Intention means

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what's essential?

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This question is why? Why I'm doing what you're doing.

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Why Why do you want to watch TV? Why do you want to go to college? This question the answer is

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so I want to learn because I want to be rich your need to view it of course is why you want to learn why the answer has to be only one

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to get close

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to wet cloth

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cloth so service is an obligation

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an obligation

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remember what give me a hook need to give me he's gonna give me a ruling Give me your your I can easily kill my son you know which is not so vital. Absolutely. But

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I love

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with a lockout

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they would not order back to work with a walk alone.

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So this push only this knowledge was timeless knowledge. No reason. No reason you are seeking, but

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how about when no other place I can tell you in a wonder took me and

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nothing I couldn't get for any college. And you know what? Okay, let me just a year to study.

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What do I do

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with money?

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Is that possible?

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Yeah, all you got accepted, but obviously 2010. And he said, You know what? I have one year, what do I want? It's crazy, literally joined California University and then

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what do you do with it?

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Exactly. In other words, you always examine your knee, because the new force, you apply through some studies, because we really loved it. And then after a month, we found three

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or four times what we need to really look at your hands and you don't like it, but it's going to be so you come in here and you said you know what, the only reason I'm here because there's nothing else I can do.

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We looked at you know what, Allah has sojourners, he brought me here I wasn't thinking why don't I but he was not going to do with Kabbalah you already visit yo

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that was his talk was certain

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Now you

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have a minute let me

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Yeomans, whosoever misses

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him. So I will learn

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any kind of any kind of knowledge that we supposedly

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I want to

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I want to get

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a PhD students and

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this is obviously knowledge of

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also others.

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But for no reason. But to get a reward.

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For example, I learned what is an opening on for example, Southern California University for the chocolate and the only way

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and I really want to meet our faculty in University of California in two studies country so I'm gonna go into this because I want to because I want to be on the topic.

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Also about something of the dunya he or she will not smooth.

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They love smell the smell of them.

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And there's nothing secret than learning to follow up on

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that you really have to look at

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for example, why you're

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why you're

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so much good luck, but that's my point. You really have to keep asking yourself why I'm doing why I'm learning and that's most your children why do you want your spouse to be

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everybody else is

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becoming such a beautiful it's like a wedding. I wouldn't say

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wedding character which is beautiful.

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Why do you want to be you have so people in front when you go out people say oh my god Allah her children.

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Write or code yourself. So definitely look at your knee. What is the famous of

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He's about

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any book you open the companies of course

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no All

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right, Bernie, we are measured according to retention.

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Why can you know the same is happening? Why is the man who wanted to go from Medina to get married to a woman and I was talking to him said you almost always come with us he only coming with us because he wants to marry a woman. And what was the answer?

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If he's coming to learn

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on learning, and we're trying to be draconian, you're a student with us coming with us online

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or migrating from Allah and His messenger so we mean the most important thing in everything we do normally study for last

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couple years for many of you are connecting via

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Fi and email

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I sent goes

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right okay, so Apple used to

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we do our

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Learn this thing called a lock file and

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I have never

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okay, I'm gonna

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laundry only

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meaning don't look.

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And he says whenever I see

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younger mining you only need to be humbled. Allah, Allah, I have never Allah has elevated

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and whenever I sat

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I know he's not mixed up.

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And who's

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always never, never wait. Especially the chronic. Don't do this for any reason but to please and ask the

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Are you happy with how you want me to do this? Is this your Omar?

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told me it was people's coffee.

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People can train people to

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remember what's the sign of

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general anything you do? One person

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and the teacher that follows always

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need to sell one to

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assign to ourselves

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and no kind of

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and people who you are the worst ever known as

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would equal train and

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trade the way I cope.

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Not pleased the way

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that kids say Does your dad need to give me this? Daddy didn't do anything for me all your life it doesn't matter.

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Because I'm doing this

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race that's why won't race people too much. Because then we're used to within us we're

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asked to

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once you have them the same.

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So the first thing is

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number two which we didn't mention it

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before law.

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Law you have to be conscious

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mind. You have to look at

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five of the nicest,

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the most beautiful decorations of turquoise actually. Two of his colors. One of them I don't remember his dream.

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Luck we find you when we weren't.

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We were not where he wants to be.

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On the other way you say he was fine. Do what he wants you to do. And you will not find you will

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find this product

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on my

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on my end

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I shouldn't be

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thinking or talking on the phone I'm not talking about emojis

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I'm talking about

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finds you where he ordered he wants to

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leave another color give you one we find support entitlements before

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I knew what

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you were

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saying anything in your life

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what reasons

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and how do you notice these with a lot

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of only one reason you want this

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family to be hard to work save in your life as you see what comes

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along what you showed me and taught me not the way I like it and you only only need you want

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no students of Norway and he or she isn't an apocryphal

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and I'm talking about everything and we've heard this many times.

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Not only do so reading cook Allah is don't do so he told me Don't do something my obedience is to follow this and he tells me lower your resistance to men and woman will

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lower your mind is not keeping books. And we live in America we live in this day and age he said lower your gaze and listen.

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This is free please pull from the Lawson bone back by streaming

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bone back. There's not a fine button. I didn't mean it. Slip of the tongue or triple lock the Lawson's clearly historically before you want to learn what do you will

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have to work shuffle lock when

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you will practice.

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And you're gonna see how Allah has done it.

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He's going to teach you by sending you Teacher he's going to teach you when they can do lung

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he's going to teach you by making you practice he's going to teach you by saving up things in a point of view things that click a lot and you see this very easy and now

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why you heard

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the word suffer because our E is Mr.

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Grinning dreaming wasn't

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a shield between you the last Gandalf a long history and how do I do this?

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So I claim to be a student of knowledge or I'm memorizing the Quran or I'm learning again or whatever bringing close door locks and I am have a morning flight and then I come home and I am done unlike me when

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you talk people talk and you do what other people does you can do

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that and you all know the famous Iowa

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to store other craft

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a lot of

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just go to any questions

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not too hot.

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number two number

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three you

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won't be

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formulas thanks

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a lot for

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those who listen

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to the course

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and consequently, I noticed

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I'm not interested isn't that I don't interest Hispaniola

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and hola we didn't say yes then you only

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they listened to the best no listen to everything, I guess could be your own.

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So you've run five lectures of awkward examples, you can understand

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and then these are the

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meanings closest to the easiest one I can do according to these things.

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You will need to practice

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normally calls for action

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I'm not gonna practice knowledge will go away how many times we started how many of everything show me a good

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what's the drop rate? Of course

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that was

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in the for

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the one last

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time and then then

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and not even even more. Why do you think

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number one because we don't number one I think it's

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really cool look at the numbers because we don't

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we learned for example our cameras for the

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WhatsApp cameras and I ask

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what's your fingers?

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Give me a number how many pretty godness of them

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other than Munna and of course.

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Give me a number roll number

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the pillars of meaning if you didn't do it if you missed that

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you could not do it just

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give me one time for give the numbers give me one

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I thought

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the code

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one by one never put them

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outside or inside that point.

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But there's one before I go forward

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that's all because I'm talking about inside you said Aloha. Just one before you go for record.

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Can I pray

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and I have no excuse.

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You have to stand.

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Right want to go move three in a row for three days to do it. And then the last the Johnson appeal. And then you have the master record.

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When you have the sequences it has to be in that sequence and you have an estimate now

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we saw the ABCs I don't want to take too much which isn't even a problem however the

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point I'm trying to make is I playing games and I don't know the outcome or if I memorize those and I'm not practicing them I'm not

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unique to practice what was the last time you attended or listen to or read the book this is all

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Are you listening to us ebook ebook always been an audiobook you need to touch

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the buckle central bankers that love

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for gold and you know all these other ones they memorize the analogies they memorize

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blog now the famous one is that he did not do and if we

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move to the next one is before we memorize understood

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so I read

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it was the opposite

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in your mind

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that easily you learn

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may not leave okay at this don't mean normally.

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Meaning I don't have to answer this but I'm gonna get the armor laid and I'm gonna read on and I'm gonna I'm gonna spar I'm not gonna learn anything long and boring meaning

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not practice because you're studying. You know what I'm studying. I don't have time.

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I don't have time for this Michael.

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You need to get to the

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balance. You need to get to the bonus you will have to practice what you learn what ever you're going to see before he goes to the neck. So so far we live near the fourth and last

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number for

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many forces works against us when we are learning

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what's the first course

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because shaitan you always go with our simple because

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not me inside me. Like it's boring. It's too hard. What I'm gonna get out of it. I want to do this. I want to do that I want to sleep. So number one.

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Who is absolutely and how Trayvon will

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He has so many ways to control one way he will operate Rokita How many of you people will look into this What are you studying? So how much they will pay you?

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What job you will get?

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Fine. And I'd be able to look for when your son or daughter wants to study some studies.

00:35:19--> 00:35:19

What do you normally

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go to medical school? Medical School?

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to work one

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on one, I'm not making fun of them.

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But why is so important?

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Because we say make we make more money then

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swipe on those comments to your friends, your parents, your colleagues. Like what are you doing special you can order the stuff while you're doing this.

00:35:51--> 00:35:55

What else because don't come to you or to me or to us.

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Gonna tell you history

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was wasted. You cannot do this, especially if they're not a

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call to do your work in a common

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way or you

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know age and no age limit, not limited to memorize the Quran or to learn

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or to learn how to get

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what other wishes

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ask yourself why you're not doing

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then you will know the answer. While you're not

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you don't have time to watch TV.

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You don't have time to cook don't have to entertain five to 10 people on the weekend even invited already have guessed you have time. But why don't I have time for this?

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Because this helps me as home comes to me. You don't have time to go out? No, no, you need to feel good if artists have sent me some time off

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you need to beat

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yourself against the tape on

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one of the claims one of the ideas that you basically faculty do as you're studying memorizing

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is the idea of

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those people people who are patients, even patients they will be the reward from an accounting

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teacher was on top of

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things he said no accounts have

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a fixed amount of everything he says one time

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two things one in the Quran. One is

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you know my last

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word those

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characters is a lot of ugly words. And the second one is fasting which was part of

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a week he said Oh ALLAH

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fasting is for me and I will

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how much

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so you really have to start

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with this nifty features called to the patient Why do I need patience I need number one to find the life based on

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the LIKE THE LIFE program these days you have to pay for it these days you have to take time off to go to the teachers to be patients with the teachers you're going to come to this some teachers may not show style some teachers may be tough some teachers may be not the way you want us to you need to be patient and you've been a burden

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as this the main reason why people

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because you're not going to be able to do this too much knowing

00:39:03--> 00:39:05

the Lord the waters

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already most of you know the meaning the looks of the meaning of it when use parts of it

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and come in army how Allah was coming

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in the next one, so I take one step towards locking

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I take

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both is not moving he's not coming

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you are still finding the difficulty finding it difficult to change over to dunk on losses build up the whole lot. We don't want to come to

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what's gonna you're gonna have to get to know somebody a teacher on your

00:39:50--> 00:39:53

auto claims is going to really make you happy.

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Are you going to find really what

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it is?

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talk to a lot you want to get

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you have to be patient.

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And I say this all the time I've been in mind

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you are learning needs to be in residence. I'm like, it doesn't have to be work a few hours.

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you look at when you're on call when you

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when I look back, I was like,

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Why? Because I love and I want to do it.

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Same thing when you study the doing.

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Just say Allah, the people who learned is not

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Allah, Allah gave us

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two ears one song

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nobody was given for an I was given.

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A good price is how much you have patient and

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how much you really wanting to. And I always listen to the ladies cooking any kind of food that has a lot of how much? Two or three hours to get things ready for. Some people look at you and says I can never, you know, I'm just gonna pick up the phone and order. Why do you do?

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Because you want everything you want.

00:41:27--> 00:41:33

Keep going, keep going. And the famous today's a Friday, what's the most?

00:41:36--> 00:41:38

What's Friday? What did I say?

00:41:41--> 00:41:42

Okay, so let's talk

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about things that are

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going to be questioning our DNA, testing our money, we can be tested in our knowledge, and we're going to be tested in our, in the power. The story of Pedro Musa is about

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about knowledge, right, that he's gonna come to this

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so that he knows

00:42:07--> 00:42:07


00:42:09--> 00:42:09


00:42:11--> 00:42:17

who knows way more than first thing say he's not paid the most, you're not going to be thinking

00:42:18--> 00:42:20

because it's in the heart

00:42:21--> 00:42:26

of Leon is overall you will not be able. Right? And what is

00:42:30--> 00:42:33

your Give me insha Allah Who? No, no,

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no, no, no, I will by the Grace of Allah, Allah.

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I will

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keep reminding yourself that people who run amok

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won't have anything more than I do. More.

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So knee support.

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I was conscious rock was

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don't be shy class.

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The students have promised once once

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you do not feel anything, especially for those of you who don't know the Arabic language, because a lot of the books are in our list alone. Don't be shy.

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The other way around

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and learn how to ask

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because possibly,

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right? And if we agree, gonna come? Of course you will.

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Because there is a difference of opinion, how you're going to present

00:43:40--> 00:43:44

never covered in this class, you state your thesis.

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You're done alone.

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Most professors you're the ones

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gave them they would not get offended by watching because they're nice.

00:43:57--> 00:43:57

You will not

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once in your

00:44:02--> 00:44:09

life, you always want to use you know what? I'm probably wrong because what I have is can you please explain?

00:44:10--> 00:44:11

And when

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you know what, there's different opinions, and you're gonna start learning about different techniques but for me,

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I always listen to the woman. He asked these questions. I am an odd one. And I'm very comfortable

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talking and they

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will not hesitant to ask who asked to talk about my story. And the Quran.

00:44:43--> 00:44:45

They asked you about first question who asked

00:44:47--> 00:44:49

the answer isn't the next artist who asked

00:44:51--> 00:44:51

us to

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tell them it's the torture factor. He didn't

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We found a woman in during restoration by

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honorable minister. They asked you about gambling and about alcohol.

00:45:09--> 00:45:15

And the woman asked for Swanee. Then you asked, because if you don't understand you need

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to call you out. You need lunch? He

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asked, asked was an antique?

00:45:24--> 00:45:28

Don't ask with gang, for example, very common these days we get people. I'm

00:45:32--> 00:45:52

like, I'm not sneaky, the Internet was wrong. No, there was a lot of beautiful exclamation deadlines. There's a lot of information you need to not gain. And unless you have the knowledge, you're not gonna be able to finish. So you cannot come and argue with a scholar saying I read everything

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that's going on other things. So as a client of the number six, with the brothers, we humble.

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Being humble, the more you

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are more locked in one of the

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people. Yeah, if I tell you, they all woke me up.

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And I'm talking about some of my walking. They talk on why they close the eyes, with nothing in front of

00:46:28--> 00:46:31

a woman and close to Jacuzzis by the standards. But

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like you see them, not even to say just like, you're pleased with come

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along here, and here we all we learned.

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We memorize this gorgeous and we start becoming if they don't call us the same or that can we

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00:46:54--> 00:46:55


00:46:58--> 00:46:59

right thing even

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00:47:02--> 00:47:06

him the Knowledge, what was before us that Allah asked them

00:47:08--> 00:47:08

to ask

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and follow her

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and her foot her way of

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saying, My Lord,

00:47:18--> 00:47:22

Increase me. Meaning I'm not

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blocked me. It's not mine, because I'm very smart. Because I'm very hardworking, and

00:47:35--> 00:47:36

very humble.

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And so you know, almost in the beautiful one to learn the knowledge. What's the formula was to

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to be humble,

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enough to be rain, to be calm, and to have

00:47:56--> 00:47:59

what's the law the old humans, the more more you miss them

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and lower yourself to those who you are teaching and we are learning

00:48:08--> 00:48:12

sometimes we hit your teacher 20 to 25 years younger than you it doesn't

00:48:14--> 00:48:18

doesn't matter. It's not about age. It's about who knows

00:48:19--> 00:48:32

why the teacher can be older teachers can be younger. I have patients my patients caught like pieces when I am getting into the office they call me the solar but when I am they call me by my name.

00:48:34--> 00:48:40

And I'm very happy with the same thing I was on budget because they are my patient no I'm in the class.

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00:48:43--> 00:48:46

don't look into what does he know he just came he just graduated.

00:48:48--> 00:48:57

You learn he knows more than what you're getting your time and you learn from each one you can learn from them constant

00:48:59--> 00:49:05

learning and always be humbled to those who teach and those things you are learning what are

00:49:07--> 00:49:10

going to be so elegant, we might

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in no way your knowledge is going to combined with those. If you are ignorant, then you are

00:49:20--> 00:49:21

the interesting company

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does not come together

00:49:25--> 00:49:27

and mad

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00:49:32--> 00:49:32

to realize

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when you are talking to people who see the results

00:49:39--> 00:49:45

when you are taught something people should see the results on you is not I know and I just say

00:49:47--> 00:49:48

you learn for example.

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You learn not to look down and rely on elegance is a major

00:49:58--> 00:49:58

and keep us

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You're so when you're on your own and you're the last one everybody

00:50:06--> 00:50:09

and you are this person that that's the way

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you learn not to be elegant you learn to be humble voice the correct one

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you practice this

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people will be talking with you

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because you're not looking

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100 malpractice

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we said no more

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secrets calm we

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will be successful.

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But those who seek knowledge by being very humble and using minimum

00:50:50--> 00:50:51

the knowledgeable

00:50:54--> 00:50:57

people who are teachers and I'm not saying this because I'm fake

00:50:59--> 00:51:08

I'm saying this in general because we've seen this we're losing this the people who teach us You should never it's like your parents never put your foot

00:51:11--> 00:51:12

off to be powerful

00:51:13--> 00:51:15

us to be fastest ever

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because not very good.

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And you say it's only as fast as

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anything younger make the DUA

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and ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada making the

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they want to make

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so always be

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one do we have to

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00:51:45--> 00:51:52

six so I'm just gonna give you the rest maybe I'm not going to get into details because we need to number seven and

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you need to have your boss

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when you are learning this raise the bar for safe I'm gonna put example memorize the

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bar singers

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00:52:11--> 00:52:12

raise the bar

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you know what I'm saying? Like when you have guests coming to your home you give them one

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of course

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at least five six or 10 Why them why

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the Why would I must Concur on it. Okay one reason for shabam and I say this always

00:52:35--> 00:52:36

learning is

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going to the five

00:52:45--> 00:52:47

some of you may know this. And if you all know it's

00:52:50--> 00:52:53

a wonderful reminder. A reminder Ben

00:52:55--> 00:52:59

can you take advantage of five before Shabbat

00:53:02--> 00:53:02

being young

00:53:04--> 00:53:09

your energy goals to the mind you want as much sleep as you have the energy

00:53:10--> 00:53:14

that's much you don't need to sleep your body to bubble

00:53:17--> 00:53:20

up most of your tells before

00:53:21--> 00:53:22

you have had you can

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you start having high blood pressure

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So it's

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so common for all published all your free time before the single before it gets better. You only need a good

00:53:44--> 00:53:46

summer before school starts.

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This is all free time. That's why I always say this to myself and for everybody. I've never seen that boy was born.

00:53:56--> 00:54:06

You have so many things to do in this life and he told me I'm bored or I get depressed because I'm not going to do all this cobblers gainer

00:54:08--> 00:54:19

you have one use for Allah for your benefit before you get cool what's mean get for things change, or you will have too much responsible and the last.

00:54:20--> 00:54:25

Like today the amazing and it's going to be the goggles.

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When we were

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amazing. And you know I used to say hi how are you? I said how would you

00:54:33--> 00:54:35

and I looked down the line

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how long

00:54:41--> 00:54:42

you're alive before you don't

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need to

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be how high it is. And I'm just going to give you the rest of these one by one and then we can always look it up later. We stream the important knowledge

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so often

00:55:02--> 00:55:09

make sure those friends who if they are not better than you they are never ever take a gun

00:55:11--> 00:55:19

because then you will not continue going over control what are you doing? Oh I tried it didn't work don't waste your time don't

00:55:20--> 00:55:30

make a friend who were they and they are about you and they say oh come on in it's quite a big deal you see in the beginning Scott along making that's what

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number nine

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you need to be buying positions as they say well these days buddy a question you don't waste your time you're going through something that takes five minutes or 30 minutes you're wasting your time you have to be extremely efficient to do

00:55:50--> 00:55:53

every one how much it takes you're given that much time

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being able to do

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this by itself a whole be open to different opinions especially when we come to find out these parts on commerce and all we to say whose microphone we open especially when you are learning with printers or depends on be open be open and number 12 which we talked about in the beginning politeness

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will lie to you I cannot personally I can't

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be seems

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extreme to say

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he's the one who knows everything he used to

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not love not

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the result of

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when he said

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he's not was not because

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he thought it was

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but because we learned from him used to call him

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on the donkey or on the horse and keep things the horse

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as much

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writing the knowledge, knowing the knowledge memorizing

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what you are likely to know going to look with a gun and nothing is going to save it. So you live your new life new numbers. The last thing is called people wanting a lot.

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Never do it because you want to do that. Well number

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one is Java and vacation. You don't invite people to something you don't.

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You're likely to feel home when you have a house. You invite people to the gym when you are practicing.

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So last thing is to use your knowledge to fuse and I will say the first 50 of your speech.

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If you teach your children

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you will help us

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focus on your files

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that can last

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for a long

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