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Death Series 06 Innovations Of The Grave
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verily, all praises God Almighty Lord, we praise Him we seek his aid will be sages forgiveness.
After Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam passed away
his beloved companions or the law to Allah.
And the companions of the companion attend their own rhodiola hotel and home. And likewise,
in rhodiola, hotel and home, they paid sharp attention
in preserving the Sunnah of our beloved Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
they made sure that no one touched, no one mocked, no one changed. No one played, no one
had anything to do with the way of our beloved prophets of the Lord, he was setting them in order to restore it in any fashion manner, or in any way. However,
they repeat, after the first three generations, deviation misguidance corruption and destruction, they repeat innovation, fabrication,
and as we all know, today,
it has become beyond controllability. Innovation is so vast that it's hard to find a place or a person who is saved from this evil affliction or tribulation.
You say people,
they follow this or they follow that they say, in our country, we do it this way.
But an ask how Mohammed does this, we do it this way. or others say that we believe that this way is better than that way.
Others say or they take a blind bride, where they follow the ancestors or their tribal heritage or the nationality race or culture.
You got others that say whatever the majority do, would, whatever the majority do, we will do not recognizing,
not knowing that the evidences or the truth is only recognized and known through the evidences in the Sharia, and not for the acts of a large number of people. As the Almighty God says, we're in total Apsara manfield up Luke and Sabine de la
luna in lavonne way in home in Busan. If you obey the majority on Earth, they will mislead you misguide you, that when deviate you from the true path, they follow nothing but conjecture. And they do nothing but lying. You got other people that say, the Jews the Christians are advanced. So they're just like our ways from their ways. And this was predicted by our beloved Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam when he said that you will follow the nations before you inch by inch step by step even if they were to enter the hole.
Have a sand lizard, you too would enter it. Is it the human male prophet of Allah you're talking about? He said whom other than the Jews and the Christians, you are other people that say whatever I desire I'll implement or eight Amana da da Illa hahaha ha, Have you not seen He who has taken his desire as his Lord, this is our situation
the majority of Muslims today are of this caliber.
And as long as we remain like this with people are hardly bothered concerned
with taking off on learning and taking the truth only
from the pure knowledge of the Quran and Sunnah.
Online confusion and more and more disunity discord will continue to hammer the body of this Muslim nation.
This is the reason why we are divided today. The reason why we are the way we are because people are not referring back to the two effluence the two sources of the Quran and Sunnah. And our greatest example is
the graveyard of the Muslims, which leads us in the topic for tonight, the innovations that occur in the Islamic graveyard.
And as you can see, inshallah, we're gonna start showing you some
This is the
Islamic graveyard, the section in Rookwood
cemetery, where it is known to all year to be the Islamic burial section, you can say how beautifully designed it is.
Before we enter it, you cannot tell if this is a gradient of a Muslim of the Muslims or the graveyard of non Muslims. Hell no before the Arabic writing there, you would never have known.
But how should the Muslims graveyard be?
Let's have the first place.
We all know that Islam has taught us everything we need to know
even how we bury our dead. Now Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave us the clean picture.
The understanding of how we should make our graves
the grave or Muslim should be leveled with the ground
should be leveled as you can see with the ground or you are allowed to raise it a hand but not higher than a hand.
And this is in accordance to the narration collected by Muslim judge on the authority of Allah de la Vitaly rhodiola Allah Han who, who was instructed by Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to level every grave with the ground to level off the ground.
This is an Islamic way of the grave. As you see it there that is acceptable. You see, the gray is close to the level of the ground, or in some areas, there is a little bit of a hump which is acceptable.
And as you can see, there is a mark and there is his plan.
permitted mark, for example of a stone
or a piece of wood, or anything of that sort that might be placed in order to recognize it as a grave. And this is based on the Hadith collected by a new measure on a property owner best or unless that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam place a rock on the grave of man illuma zone in order for him to recognize that this is a grief. And this is acceptable. Now if you get to Albuquerque and Medina, you see the majority of graves similar to this but it's Earth nopparat it's earth. And over there, they'll have a rock on each grave, a rough a bit rough and just raise sort of hand about a hand height, nothing else. So we can say that this is the way that the grave should be in accordance
to Islam. No other no other
Next slide, please.
These are also examples or images, how a grave is allowed to be there is a rock there is actually three or four, three grades there. There's one rock there, another rock over there.
And this is the way it should be exactly as you are witnessing right now. Next one, please. Now, there has to be a brighter picture.
This is not an Islam as white washing, or in English as white washing and white washing is decorating the grave with the beauty of this world
where the dead has no need of whatsoever. And as you can see explicitly that
this involves unnecessary expenses for no reason.
Now, we all know that the grave is gonna disintegrate, it's gonna go
as time goes on. So what happens is you are spending all this money
for AI, you can say free Villa tea is futile reason, believing that while you're doing this, you are hoping the dead person or us so we respect that you love the person, if you really love the person, brothers and sisters Is that how you show that you love the person Why put in a prayer mat there are artificial flowers or real flowers or palm trees and the likes. And there is a narration in Muslim on authority of God that Mohammed Salah love, he was seldom said I should beat you to whitewash a grave. In other words to decorate the grave another narration and behati and Muslim on authority of our Isha rhodiola Tada and that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said I was not ordered. Listen
to this carefully, I was not ordered to cover stone and clay to cover stone and clay. In other words, we have not been ordered to do this.
You know the expense on this, all these various items on hand and around the tombstone on the grave. Next place.
You can see the crescent
you see the sky marble chips, artificial flowers, they even hire people that work in the landscaping department in order to come in clean, wash, purify, keep the title shiny. And this is done on a weekly basis have asked about this. When I was out there
are some people that will actually work and how often do you come here and claim these every single week? So how much do you pay or we get someone to do a for us we give them $100 for that day.
Now brothers and sisters, that $100 is not better to put in charity for this decision
on a dead person.
Now which is better to throw it at lunch that whereby is going to get blown away destroyed whatever or to give it in charity on his behalf. Which is more beneficial. Is it not like the resemblance of the Jews and the Christians
the better cola is like it's been taken care of everyday. Everyday nice tea tree, rose bushes, cherry bushes, you can probably take some fruit from it in the future.
Man you can see how nice he trimmed it is the vases the dugout.
here I put an extra sort of
decoration where it's known to be those little sort of marble chips with the sand and that is extremely expensive, very, very, very expensive, expensive. And that is in essence the decoration of the grave. The whitewashing that we are talking about next place.
Now here there is writing. And there is a narration by
say by Holly that Hama Salalah alayhi wasallam forbade the writing
A grave for bait. In other words, if it's a portion of the Quran is haram.
If it's a letter, it's how long it was a name. It's how long even a name is how long in Islam
anything any kind of writing on a grave is not permitted the Hadith says I have forbidding you to arrive on the grave. He did not say except the name of the deceased
so it's a generic term, everything, absolutely everything.
And I was shocked that we should have taken those photos and with their brother selfie that I saw when I was there, I love note on a lot of grades for my love notes.
Other great other other areas there was anniversary, sort of like you know, Happy anniversary, or Happy birthday. Well lie on the grapes. We're going to issue you a great boyfriend.
Now spondylitis Islam
is this Islam.
And you will get the shocking the shocking thing but people don't understand and when you tell them this is a big deal. It's a big deal.
It's a major deal.
This is all things that are innovative, warns against we are warned against these things that are clean, no decoration, white washing, no writing,
no lamps or candles or lighting in any way.
The Hadith is clean, living off the ground and leave it leave it do not come and say well my son a problem is today's generation with a lot of money we want to sort of spend on this person to show him how love you really love this person, you will not go and build expensive ceramic construction like this, because the narration clarifies and testifies to the fact that Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wasallam said to us, I have forbidding you to cover the graves with a hard object which is plaster, brick tile or anything else is actually forbidden in Islam as an aberration mentions.
So you can see the situation here now how much money this will cost? You can you can make a figure
at least at least a a, a tombstone like this, and that construction will cost at least $5,000.
That's minimum depended on a ceramic tile.
Now so panela could he have not benefited with that money? Is it not better to give that $5,000 in charity for this deceased or throw it on the ground? So I don't throw in it? What's the benefit? Next place?
There's another one the radical left of the Quranic defense of policy advocacy and effect how on top.
Now realistically, brothers and sisters is Al Fatiha gonna benefit the dead person.
Realistically, let us logically look at it. We know it's hot in accordance to the Sharia. But now logically, is this gonna benefit the dead person or to see when you're thinking here on the Most Gracious, Most merciful to guide you to the straight path guide whom the dead, the dead is dead.
The Federal high is built on guidance guiding you as a Muslim to the path of righteousness you're seeking from Allah to Allah, that we worship known by you and please guide us to the path of righteousness while the path on those whom you have favored these people in
of them any other Quran Had this been good would not Mohammed Salah law or they will seldom do it to the companions that he buried in Albuquerque
or in omokoroa in Mecca. You get to the graveyard in a bucket and Medina those who've done ombre or harsh. I'm pretty sure you saw this. There is nothing it's bare land, bare land, metal expense, what so all just to stern, where the debt is raised to 400 the height of a hand approximately and that is it. This is the way he was buried himself. If the creation was buried like this, so seldom do we.
that's a candle now that testifies or signifies to the person that done it, that it's light. So they're sick of putting the candles there every night. So they made it into the actual tombstone. They made it easier
And they believe there's an actual evil belief out there that they built. They'd say that having an account one day lightens the burden for the person in the grave. Where did they get this from? Allah Allah. But there's a belief out there that is flying near. The Hadith says, Allah curse those who placed the lights, lamps, candles, or any other kind of lighting on the grave. And this is the essence of the work of the Jews and Christians. And you can see here Likewise, the beautiful tombstone
the name Sheena, put the name anyway, next place
you got the photos now photos is how long it's Whoa. And I the photos, you got the swords there. You got the swords testifying team. It wasn't me, JT, you don't know.
You got the soldiers there. You got the beautiful tiles, the beautiful vases, the artificial flowers, and so forth. Next place.
Isn't that beautiful?
marble chips, you got the works in this one, it's actually made a little cocktail.
This is a great, this is a grave where they fought
the first mass of whitewater.
So violates grace, I think it is it is a consumption of a shrub Allahu Allah. But
he must have been a gardener who love gardening. So they wanted to make the best of it. Next place.
There's a big palm tree there. Now, this is absolutely hot on all the sudden. And this is actually warned against the companions rajala data and they knew this that this may come up because when Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam Pike Place, the plants in the grave isn't a full reason that Allah Allah gave him the intimation that these two
occupants of the grave have been punished. So he commanded him to do this. But this is revelation that was sent to him, he did not tell us to do it. He did not allow for us know that the companions do for any other competitor, or any other person that donating their time, nor that will handle me in this situation, which was revealed and he was commanded to do. Now this person's product grave is probably about, say 30 years old,
for that tree to be a source of quality.
And a lot of our next place
is once again a lot of work and effort has been placed in these graves, brothers and sisters. Now seriously, instead of placing it in the grave, Isn't it better to place it in the deceased, the money they spent the word that is taken care of? Isn't it better to put that money that effort in your deceased relative?
Here, you got birds,
you got a verse. And you got the crescent and the star again, just very highly sort of exposed. Now if we look at the reality of the crescent in this town, there's no significance in this land. There is no significance in his plan for the crescent and the star as the Christians have the cross. The Muslims tried to resemble them to Canada. That's the essence of it resemblance that wants to make something like a symbol like the Christians that they made that present in the side, where did it come from? If you look at the history in Islam, it is a pagan belief.
So it's actually hard to consider this anything to do with Islam.
It's not Islam, there will never be Islamic. It's actually hard on to consider this part of Islamic significance. It should be destroyed. arbitrated every single minute now.
Hey, look, angels.
Now so Pamela, is that how the angels look?
Is this how the angels look? Where did it come from brothers and sisters is enough from the non Muslims. Is this not from the non Muslims?
You know, this kind of a nation look like the images of angels as they're they are the way they are here. That's how they look. And this is the belief of no other than the People of the Scripture. And those who are abomination like him. Place
is a beautiful holiday.
The expense on that is extremely high. Something like that. would not be
Less than $7,000 and approximately $10,000 to place a tombstone like that if you get close to where you see the thickness of it, and the word placed into it.
the flag, you see the flag you got the president in the sun excellent. And you have the rest of the innovative things he has you noticed the whole lot in one nice place.
Again, the flag, it's stuff like a country lucky support in a country or some kind of race or nationality.
you can say is apparently as a place in each one of these next place.
Now, we gotta know that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warns against all this. And in many countries, you say the worship of idols began with the oration, the worship, or the importance of people placing in degrees, for example. And there was a narration that says or signifies to respect the Hadith objective noctel there, the Mohammed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, destroy, or do not allow not one structure to replace over the grave. Another narration mentions that Mohammed Salah Muslim instructed olive oil and Muslim as well to destroy every single structure over the grave. In other words, if this was an Islamic land, say in the Arabian Peninsula, all of this will be
destroyed, all of it, not one structure will be allowed to remain over the grief, not one structure. Even if the grave was built with basic concrete, as we see the other ones this basic concrete and you see many of them that likewise would have to be destroyed. The reason being is, as mentioned, integration created by Buhari on a photo of the best and I know I said that hammers a little longer than he will sell them. In the last moments of his life, he will place a harness on a cloth on his face. And when he got hot, and short of breath to take it off and say my own occurs to Jews and Christians, for they have taken their graves as places of worship. They're taking the graves as
places of worship. You got to Pakistan. You got to subcontinental in general, you got to the Middle East, or a lot of African countries, what you see there is places where they are called the graves of the elderly and the graves of the elderly. You actually get people standing at the door of that graveyard, the cemetery and they are directing Muslims to so called Alia and telling them that this is wonderful and wonderful and wonderful and and fast. What do they do? They go straight to them. They belted in they burn incense, and then they slaughter for them. But ask the inmates of the grave for the fulfillment of their desires, their wishes and needs. They seek assistance from them. They
even asked them for children.
This is what my in reality what is occurring today.
They're idolizing the dead with action that should be rendered exclusively to the almighty Lord, isn't Amata Allah, Allah rasik and Malik alcoholic? Is he not the owner, the provider the master.
He does not the earth run in his control.
Not atoms in the breeze on the earth except for his command, not at least balls but for his command. He alone obeys. He alone commands and fast we as Muslims must believe in that and thus not compromising anyway, especially in issues like this, whereby this could lead to corruption, where you could lead people to what caused them to be people of idolatry by worshipping the graves. So you see them in those countries, the people who are standing on the front of the grave, they get paid top dollar for it top dollar, and they lay due to so called bodies and tasks. They commit all the acts of shirk, that can be committed.
It looks like a shrine or a mosque or whatever, in a lot of modeles next place
maybe they're scared the child might get out and try to run so they don't want to restrict him.
This is the Islamic so called graveyard. wasteland is innocent from. And it's not the graveyard of Islam as it should be, as you all witnessed, these are all acts which are highly reprehensible, where there is neither sanction or origin in Islam, and the committers of all these things are now other than perpetrators of the evil but they're the only bidder, which is all evil, and first will lie they'll have no merit in Islam, they will have no merit in Islam. Now, let us look at
the issue of are you allowed to visit the graveyards? Are you allowed islamically to visit the graveyards in the initial stages of Islam? Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam prevented all of us from visiting the graveyards, males and females.
Why fearing as we said earlier on, fearing x of the days of ignorance, or feeling people that may indulge infidelity or polytheism. But however, when Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sold on Muslims.
He observed their strong faith in their firm belief and their conviction to stick to the truth under any circumstance, he allowed them to visit the greys as mentioned in Muslim on authority of woreda that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam said, Come to new heights, and Yakubu Fazal ruha for in Manhattan, Common Era I forbade you to visit the greys but now you may visit it for indeed and makes you mindful of the here after that when you go to the grave.
What do you say? Or are you allowed to go to a non Muslim grave?
If you had a relative as a non Muslim, maybe there's a revert out there. Her mother or father could be no Muslim, her uncle, her and her son or daughter they had may have a non Muslim relatives are they allowed to visit their relatives to deceased relatives and eration collected by Muslim the hijab on Masada Herrera, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so permission from his Lord to visit the grave of his mother. Was he given the permission? Yes, he was granted permission to visit his mother and then he saw permission to what
to say forgiveness for her permission was declined rejected. So yes, if you have a relative with a non Muslim, you are allowed to go and visit that relative. However you are not allowed to do for the non Muslims what so what do you say when you go to the grave? And their ration collected by Muslim like was on the authority of woreda they were taught this to so whenever you go to the grave of a Muslim graveyard, you say As salam or Aleikum, Allah Dr. Meena Muslim ina one meaning
we're in insha Allah who become the de hecho a Salama hola hola como la via Peace be upon you are inhabitants of Muslims and believers in sha Allah will follow you soon. We ask Allah to grant us and your well being. Likewise in Muslim we see Ayesha mentioning that every time was her night, towards the end of the night. Hamas also Lama traveled to the bucket and the bucket is where in Medina, the Gregor of whom the majority have been the companions. Thus he would go and say a salaam aleikum, della call me meaning what to do and I'm oh god, oh god, we're in insha Allah who become the de hecho en us Allah Hola, hola, como la.
And then eration us or LA or LA not Finley de Bercy Allah, Allah, Allah, God, our Peace be upon you, all inhabitants of believers. What you have been given will soon pass tomorrow at a fixed term. Soon inshallah we'll follow you. May Allah grant forgiveness to those who are buried in alibaug area.
That is the main stream that you should say when you go there or you need to say anything else. Yes, you are allowed to say anything, anything else. You can say for example, Allah have mercy on them. Allah give them Allah wide in their grave of light. Allah placed him in the highest of Paradise, anything that is a invocation for them that will aid them in the grave, or either in the resurrection and in the hereafter. This is what you should be saying to the people of the grave. You did not go to the graves and seek any aid or assistance or no Do you see them as a medium for you, between you and Allah to Allah?
When do you go to the grave? Is there any specific date you are allowed to go to the graveyard when it
You please, whenever you please, there is no periodic intervals that you must go but specific times the so called annual commemoration, which we all know at the IID
that people go on us to chabanne, the 15th of chabanne, or people go on Thursdays or Mondays, or that makes specific days to go. This is all innovation. There is no base for some or in Islam. You can go any time to the graveyard in order to seek blessings for the dead, and mercy and forgiveness and so forth. When you go to the graveyard,
do not stand on the grave. Do not step on it in any way. Do not walk over it did not run over it, do not jump over it. Do not lean on it, do not sit on it. As the Hadith mentions Mike was Muslim on the photo radar. There it is better for one person to see on a glowing coal that burns through his clothes and gets to his skin than to sit on a grave.
And still people do not take heed of these are authentic narrations you seem reclining against the tombstones sitting on them, walking on them and so forth. You are not allowed to pray towards the graveyard, as the narration mentioned Muslims again that
Allah Allah has beaten you to pray towards a grave. This is the situation of the grave and that is what you are allowed. As for the condolence since we all know that after the death, there'll be people mourning the relatives and so forth the deceased what do you do? What is condolence? What does it mean? It means that to show patience, or to enjoin patience, to comfort, the distressed to lighten his grief and burden, is it legal? Yes, it is. It is highly highly recommendable that you go to the seized family of the deceased and show your condolences you said
earlier humble and this inshallah Allah is a highly advised as a narration mentioned and by hockey unable to measure that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to us, whoever consoles is distressed brother, Allah to Allah will dress him in an apparel or tire of honor, on a day of resurrection. But today we see many people they go, could they go and seek or do condolences once twice? 34567 No.
You go once and relax, do not burden the person or the family of the deceased. They need rest here. Did not burden him. He gave him your condolences or her
and then you walk away. It's not right for you to sit down and gossip and then come back in the afternoon. Come back in the morning, then the afternoon then the morning then the afternoon. This is not the way of the sun.
What do you say anything can be offered as long as it's light makes things light for the distressed
and makes it sort of solace for the bereaved he feels comfortable. But the best words is that which is mentioned in a trans mitted Hadith by Buhari on the authority of Osama Museo de Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to his daughter, when she sent him a message that his son is dying. He returned the messenger saying sending his regards saying in de la Hey, Ma Ma wakulla shaking the whole big masama fotospeed Well,
Allah belongs where he has taken to Allah belongs what he has taken and to Allah belongs what he has given and everything with him as a fixed term. So let her be patient. Let her be patient and anticipate Allah report. He said had Allah is the daughter of the porcelain. Her son just died. Look at the response. He gave his daughter, be patient. Wherever my has taken is he is wherever he gives his his and everything has a fixed time. So just be patient and anticipate all those reward.
It is not Islamic
to wear black.
Whether it's the relatives, or the mourners, other than the relatives or anyone. It is not Islamic to wear black, it is not Islamic, to arrange gatherings of morning on the third day or the seventh or the 20th or the 40th or the 100th or on the anniversary of the dead. This is all evil corruption. There is no such thing.
There is no such thing
In light of Islam, it is not Islamic, to sit down in gatherings whether on the day of the death or after it on the day of the mornings, and we slept around together, whether it's through the cheer scene or any other sort of any part of the Quran, it is not Islamic brothers and sisters, to do all these evil things, you are committing innovation.
There is no merit whatsoever in this man for any of these actions. It is non Islamic to me so I salute your sin by going to the grave and reciting your sin or at home or besides the dead the person who died next to his head this is all evil.
And the Hadith they use we saw it sorta just seem to your dead This is not only weak, it's cold in Arabic masala Hadith halleck is a perished perished narration there's no base for it, no base and yet people
neglect or reject this teaching and they do that which is a lot Allah has forbade, which is committed innovations.
It is not Islamic to go and do tolkein for the dead person. After the Duffin the person has been buried, you get people in the shade unfortunately over the grave, and they start saying to the dead person, two energies will come to you. The question is the first question Who is your Lord make sure you say a lot of people
who is your prophet and make sure you say Mohammed Nabi for Salah. What do you do? Make sure you say Deen Islam Subhana Allah
if this person was not the way he was supposed to be as a correct genuine Muslim, is he gonna answer this question? You might as well go to the grave of the capitalist later today.
If you think he's gonna benefit from this you might as well grab the Casio
it's a bit too long Medina Amira will call the Fed it's been hired to do nothing. allocates allocates them not unlike those who believed with the correct answer the correct saying in the light of this world and in the next which is the grave when the merit of the question
apiece, these are all an Islamic
brothers and sisters.
There is sufficient alternatives to all these Islamic innovations. You want the way of the sooner the way you'll be slammed. If you consider yourself a Muslim, then take it from the sun. Take from Islam, you want to help the dead look at what helps the dead when Mohammed Salam taught us to teach our children and to teach ourselves and apply in order to aid the dead, but the mercy of Allah to Allah.
We have many ways of hoping that did in accordance to show you all the way mo has taught us our prayers to the person who's dead on behalf of the dead. robina fildena waggener alladhina Saba Guna be the man to the fashion verse number nine, Allah forgive us and those who have preceded us in faith for our brothers do to have for them in your frustration. In the latter part of the night get up and do to to God for them, not give the prayer for them. But due to the court in the middle of the night, the latter part of the night and in your frustration seek forgiveness safe mercy for the people of the dead, your Muslim brothers and sisters. Then we just display the head all the time.
Think of your brothers and sisters in the latter part of the night while everyone is sleeping. You're going to need us to one day get up the last third of the night before fasion even five minutes
doo doo and pray to the court and frustration say euro
euro euro pasta cup Rubino euro, dosa ALLAH forgive them, have mercy on them bestow your favors on them.
Are you not gonna need this as well like if you do this alone, say likewise likewise, likewise to YouTube.
And if you care for your brother, and your sister
if you do not care space sleeping small ring, like a dead brick
kailani by yourself.
And this is how we are today the majority of Muslims aren't careless, careless, your mother might die and they're still sleepy. 24 seven.
They might say Hello Honey, if they've got the power to say that
this is wrong. This is extremely wrong.
It's not accepted with a Muslim
character or ethics.
So it can happen due to have for those who you love the political system, especially if you have a, a mother or a or a relative that has passed away, get up and do to have for this person will lie they need you to add, they need you to add you can do something for them that can't do anything. This days have seized them be greedy brothers and sisters Think of your brothers and sisters who have been buried Warhammer Salamis to get up every night just about as they hadn't mentioned the last third every time and go to the buffet and say forgiveness.
They want is the direct family. But he would not want his companions, his beloved companions that were Muslims. He cared for them because he knew the situation of what is happening. The reality of the interspace he could not sleep. He cared for his brothers and sisters, every night's a panel, the last third of the night will go to the graveyard and seek forgiveness. Do you ever do this? How many of us has ever woken up not to get the prayer
have went to the graveyard?
Even if you are not allowed to enter that. But have you thought of them? Is it tonight or lie on I think these brothers on kind of get up in Sharla and do to have them
reflect and contemplate the brothers and sisters. Likewise fasting
for the deceased. If you have a relative that has
been fast owing to Allah tala whether it's Ramadan on earth or another,
which he did not fulfill before he died. You are advised as a Muslim to fulfill that day for him or for her. As the Hadith in Bukhari mentions on the fourth day of our Asia that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said whoever died are going fast his guardian should fast on his behalf. Another Hadith mentions in Buhari is that a man came to Mohammed Salah Salem and said to him yet I saw the law. I have a mother who passed away. She owes one full month of fasting. Can I fast on her behalf. He says, of course you can pass on her behalf. The debt paid to Allah to Anna has more right than any other debt.
So yes, brothers and sisters, if you know anyone who have your relatives have not fulfilled their fast, whether it's Ramadan, whether it's another, whether it's an oath, please fulfill it for them and lighten the burden of them. Likewise, paying financial debts. For example, you might have someone that passed away, and he owes money to someone.
Anyone can pay the debts with a relative or no relative of the deceased. And we've got a beautiful narration that one day a delegation of companions came to Mohammed salon with the dead brother. They asked him how Salaam to pray for this person the funeral prayer. He asked does he led me to anyone? They said yes, yes to dinner. He walked away
to do pray for him.
Then I woke up tired when the companion said, Yeah, I'll take responsibility for this today. No
narrative is I'll take responsibility for the student on his team, you pay to the creditor, and he will be absolved from this deadline. Because yesterday,
he stood and prayed for him.
So brothers and sisters, if someone has loaned you money,
or you have loaned money to anyone, and you know who's passed away, forgive that. Forgive the sister if you are able, if you do not need that money, even if you do, help your brother, help your sister. If you know someone that has died while he's in debt, likewise, aid that person if you are capable of aiding him with your financial ability
a continuous charity will likewise benefit the dead Muslim. And we know that children are monsters charity, as the Hadith says three things will benefit the dead after they die. One, an ongoing charity to
the child that says pray or praise for his father or mother and three knowledge that will continue to be benefited from
now the children are the most important sort of child
It is that a person can leave behind him, as the Hadith mentions that the best earnings American consumed is that which his hands have earned, and his children are found his earnings and his Shogun are from his earnings. So, the brothers and sisters who have parents that have died, you as Muslims are obliged, very, very highly to prostrate and seek forgiveness for your parents and everything that you do that you give in charity, every prayer that you make every second every charity, every fast, every pilgrimage, everything that you do, he the parent will be rewarded for that for medical or physical do more acts of worship. For this your parents will benefit from it.
And there are many other things in sha Allah tala but time has beaten us and I see brothers that begin began to procrastinate and full time so we'll leave it at that inshallah Allah and will allow questions to be asked if there is any questions we have for Davina handler here on Villa alameen.
zocalo Hira, can you have that intention? In other words, can you say what I'm going to do is fully absolutely for my parents for the rest of my life. Regardless whether you do this or not, you are in Charlotte, Arizona for your parents.
You do not have to intend any action that you do as a son you ever buckle. Any action that you do as a son your parents will get full rewards for it without you decreasing in reward in any way. However, no doubt if you fully sort of make it for your parents solidly then there's extra reward in the end child Matan, he put it on their behalf and only on the behalf as you as well get reward for inshallah, but if you do, oh, the ultimate thing Absolutely. inshallah Tada. Yes, Elena is your intention. So if you forget in Charlotte is excused because you have made the intention that from now on, whatever I do is for my parents sake, you are allowed to throw three hand full of earth for
the filling of the grave, it is silly not to throw three handfuls.
Now you do not say anything you don't say as people said men have fallen out of fear and worry token woman handle horizontally. This is baseless. This is baseless, you find in the box that is mentioned there is no authentication for this whatsoever. The only problem in the US you withdraw and let someone else have a chance. Very good question, who carries the responsibility, the burden of these innovated matters? For example, as we saw that extreme white washing earlier on, now, does the person get affected by this? Or does the relatives or those that commit this get affected? In other words, do they carry the sin, if he if he the dead person, advise this advise this he will carry it
and they will he and they if he did not
advise this that will carry it. However, in your will brothers and sisters in your will, which every single Muslim should have no matter how old you are. If you are at the age of discernment or accountability you should all have a will have in that world. I do not want anyone to place anything. Any decorated items over my grave I want it to be exactly as the sun advises. That's what we are asked to do in our will to place this
The question is infj from their fruit tree alone, and why not?
Allow them why not unless you are sure you are certain that that tree is nourished or was nourished from the flesh and the burns of the disease? I cannot answer that question because I do not know the exact way of cultivation.
Allah the Quran next to the living still living on his deathbed is advisable is advisable. The reason being is that he can still he said he may be admonished. Ah, it's a reminder for him to die on Islam. So yes, as he is dying, if he can reflect, he can understand comprehend what you are saying in his advice. There's no issue there. But once you're dead, you're dead.
And there is no reciting of the Quran on a dead body.
Very good question that is known to be a lead, which is known in English as the niche or the niche. There's two ways of pronouncing it.
Now there is a look like a little chamber they have either inside the grave on the bottom. And that's when the data is placed in that little chamber in that niche, he or she is covered with some kind of barrier like plaster rock, whatever it may be or timber, anything that prevents the earth from touching it, the body
or maybe on the bottom of the grave. And then you place it over the grave in a way on an angle where it's not touching the dead person, that by their birth acceptable, you should not let the earth touch the body.
That's the way we're taught.
It is for you to recognize that area as a grief.
A whole as a whole. If you want to go to your sort of relative then you can stand over the relative's grave and say Allah, Allah for lack of whatever and so forth. You can't do that. But when you enter you say a sedan or alayka Dr. Mina Mina will muslimeen we're in danger of law becoming a sort of law Allah Allah Allah Matthew, what do you say to the non Muslims grave?
The really the dimension and
what do you say? Is it anything you say?
The Hadith mentions that you give them the glad tidings the solid idea of Hellfire by shooto khumba now Yeah, and now
we give you the glad tidings
we give you the glad tidings of hell fire or people of whole fire a lot.
you are allowed to cry but you are not allowed to weigh or why Oh, you are not to scream to your clothes, rip your cheeks, pull your hair out, scream and so forth. Crying softly is not a problem.
No, if you cry loudly you can be punishing them. As the Hadith mentions one of the reasons why this call is just allowed the latest to visit the graves is the uncontrollability
man if a lady cannot control herself at the grave she is not allowed whatsoever to go anywhere near the grave. If she's a lady and ladies are allowed to visit the graves as long as they do not act in a way of ignorance nangyari sample
you are allowed to visit the grave at night there was no problem whatsoever you heard me next.
The panel is accepted with some common perfume and the initial
purposes smell nice that you prepared on yourself. What do you watch the dead person for is the cleaning. You can tell what's the purpose? He's got to get on the ground and get eaten. But you still clean me Why should God be perfect? And he's ready for the question. like can you imagine that?
The last time you had to get washed and you get washed in a beautiful way. Three times we don't even watch three times so our souls now three times of soup and perfume and whatever they do a brilliant job.
There is a narration yes there's a confirmation for the listener that the deceased will be punished due to the crying or wailing of the relatives or the people.
Now if he has if he is innocent from all this and he advise against it in Charlotte Allah Allah is adjust to adjust and inshallah we say he will not get harmed but Allah knows best is the narration to confirm that with potential brother Horton.
You are allowed to wash your your wife and likewise she is allowed to wash you.
You are allowed to wash your father. You are not allowed to wash your mother.
You are allowed to wash your wife. You are not allowed to wash your sister. You are not allowed to wash your mother You are not allowed to wash your daughter.
Now you are allowed to wash one
side besides your wife You cannot wash will if she died as a non Muslim. We cannot pray for her whatsoever. We know that halifa Herrera and Muslim when he saw permission to visit the grave of his mother. He was given permission. But when he sought permission to what to seek forgiveness for her. It was declined. It was rejected because Mohammed's mother died as a pagan. Likewise his father as a pagan. They both died on the belief holder the lair of idolatry Is that okay? If you
Visiting the grave and you see a statue on your way. Are you allowed to break it?
Well we are now in a position to start destroying and breaking demolishing.
If you have if we were in a place where we have the ability to take it back to an Islamic leader, yes you will be and you'll be advised and commanded but we are in no position to do that. So I think you better leave it as it is Alan as best
is it haram to wear a ring example wedding ring or just for the pleasure of wearing it? Is it how long it is haram to wear a wedding ring? Yes it is. is not from Amanda Muslims. Muslim ethics is from the non Muslim ways and tasks we don't resemble the people of infidelity.
in Medina, one of the companions has a big gold house and they go gate around it isn't that hot on which house he talking about?
I do not know exactly where you are referring to. There is not one companion if you're referring to the prophets grave Salaam. It's got nothing to do with a shrine or a mosque or whatever, just closed area and you cannot leave the profits grave uncovered. The worst of Shrek will be committed. They're the worst of shirk. Or even today they are committing shirk, they're trying to anyway, that's why you have security guards everywhere around the Prophet grave. One time when I was doing my scholarship in 1996.
I was next to the prophets grave or just sort of observing because you get people from all over the world. Now there was a brother from the subcontinental. He was doing circles going from Webster lamb, from Tbilisi, Brazil, and turning, turning, he was caught by the security guard. He asked him What are you doing? Because please, please one more one more shot. Amato if I have done any six or one more left, he was actually circumambulating the grave. Man this is what you
witness witnessing there. And what happens if you do not restrict those people of ignorance.
But there is no companion there that have a house built on top of them. Nor the porcelain there's no house built on top the sun is a security or safe guarding against every evil that may be committed if it wasn't. Every night before I sleep I feel as though I am going to die in my sleep. I feel as though I'm not going to wake up. What does this mean?
Well, it doesn't mean anything. It's just a whisper. However, prepare yourself before it does happen. Because that may happen. You may sleep and you may never wake up. And there's a verse in this in the Quran, that Allah Allah takes the souls while will sleep while sleeping. Those heat some he may return and some he may never ever written. So if Allah tala has written you in the start of the Ye, as among those who will die, and that ye, you may never ever wake up again. mentioned that failing so
that one day you're going to sleep and not wake up alone. And this is going to happen brothers and sisters one by one day is going to come that you're going to close your eyes and never ever open them again. Except when you get resurrected or back in the grave.
Absolutely is like a lion you are allowed to put a mark such as a stern or a word or anything of that type in order for the grave to be recognized as a grave tonight.
They their first bird seat where
they believe by throwing that actually saw that there are people that are so bags of bird seeds and other sort of
feeding material to the birds. And they believe that this is actually a blessing by feeding the birds in the Prophet's mosque or around the Prophet's mosque because the Heron day, and by feeding them they have that belief that you are doing extremely good for the birds. You are feeding them so you get blessed for hate for taking care of the creatures, the birds and the no significance whatsoever. There's no significance whatsoever.
Good question as a person if a person becomes senile or become stable or is an eight or you can say he's got no sanity normal, he is not accounted he is not accounted he will be accounted to the time he is still aware, alert or vigilant. So Allah tala will not judge a person when you know he is incapable of doing what he's supposed to do. I am an ecobee niqab remains the placement of the hijab on the face. Is it okay if I wear a nose ring? Yes It is okay if you wear a nose ring, but you do not expose that nose ring only to your husband. Although
See who you are not allowed to marry? How do you know which grade belongs to her? If you if you can't write on it, you are not supposed to know you should know when the time of the burial when you bury the dead, you should know who his grave it is, then if you do not, it's the way it is your unfortunate situation. It is the way that we were told by Mohammed Salah lover that he was settled and let us not get into philosophy here.
is in the prophets grave decorated?
Or at least surrounded? Absolutely not. You are far from the truth there.
He's graves exactly as the companions grievious soil before rock on that nothing else the soil is That's all it is. And that is the best creature that walked this earth. The best creature Salalah
is around to have a graveyard at the place of worship example. In the mosque grounds. Now you are not allowed to build a grave in a mosque. And if a grave is built in a mosque, you are not allowed to praying that mosque and that mod that grave must be demolished.
And the gray porcelain is not in the mosque. It is not in the mosque. If you go there you will see it's like it's an insertion there that leads to outside and that is not part of the mosque. So do not be fooled and believe that the mosque or the grade is built in the mosque it is not absolutely I need to go there you can get to the bucket itself is 1000s of grace.
And why is it better there's no need for the proof the proof isn't the same as apostle them and his actions and he's what we can see. Now
the reason behind why the name is not allowed and so forth. We can say one reason behind that is because if we knew that his person for example, loved the most food what's gonna happen, people are gonna take it as a shrine as a place of worship as a mosque, they're gonna worship His grave. Now wonder why people are worshipping the graves because they they so called Oh yeah, too many people they know the names, the names is there, a shrine is bought and so forth. You are not allowed to pray in the graveyard whatsoever. You are allowed to pray the funeral pray after the burial, after the burial not before the burial. If the person has been buried, and you have not prayed over this
dead person, the buried divert the burial was completed, the death is completed you are allowed to stand towards the grave and pray the funeral prayer as performed by Mohammed Salaam to the lady who was known as soldier who used to take care of the mosque and he did not pray on her. When he was asked about when he asked about her. He was told that she died they prayed on her and they buried her he went to the grave and bowed on her. You are not allowed to travel to any grave anywhere in the world. anywhere in the world. You are allowed to travel to the Prophet's mosque sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, it is haram to travel to the grave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
However, there are the thing or the allowance he is to three mosques in Islam, which the Hadith mentioned tighten the belt only to three who knows the three. The Prophet's mosque is one,
the sacred house in Mecca and beta Locksley in Palestine. Let us all tighten our belts and go to Palestina.
Now if you're there, sorry, if you're there, you might as well give him Sam. Absolutely abnormal would go in front of them and say salam alayka Rasool Allah get Oba salam alayka abdelkarim sir mo salam alayka, Rama, yeah, Bharti. They used to make idols.
When in the past, of course, they made a lot. That's how either worshipping began, due to the images, they brought over them statues, constructions and so forth. They made them into shrines. And if you go to the Syria, you find a mosque called a huge mosque, one of the biggest in the world masters dilemma we were in it they claim to have property here, his head or his body, I'm not sure. And I went there to visit this mosque. And I found out that they claim they believe that his grave isn't there. It's still surrounded by a cage and you get people just worshipping it, seeking blessings. They wipe in their hands on the still frame and the sake inform you and asked me to
fulfill their desires and their needs and everything is the worst corruption, absolute infidelity in its essence. That grave should not be there. It's in the mosque, and anyone that goes there, you are not allowed to pray in that mosque.
You are not allowed to find that mosque if it is true what they claimed
Now you should not make your backyard a cemetery. And I don't think he's going to ever ever be allowed. So
wait, you considering making it back to your backyard at home? You're gonna bury in your little kitten.
You're gonna get you can probably the cat in the in a dog.
That's a guard dog or hunting dog or farm dog, not a pet dog.
Can you rebury someone in there? Yes, if you have not.
If there is a reason behind your construction in a particular area, and the burns had been decomposed, it's gone. It's nothing there. And you you are in dire need of that place you are allowed to do something. And scholars have said is disliked in this situation. However, it is allowed in the most correct opinion, just as it is it out to build to bury someone ever it if you need that position. That's after the bones have become decomposed. But it's not advisable whatsoever.
You cannot tell or define the exact measure due to you not knowing how long it will take. But naturally you will know why digging it up. No.
That's if you are in need of that place, say against necessity. Yes, it is absolutely you are allowed to move if there's a need for that area. Or if it's a betterment for the person in the grave. Or if you want to re bury someone in that grave and has no other room for it. But the grave you are allowed as long as the body he decomposes, does nothing left.
Yes, you can. Yes. And it's happened to have offered. And many other situations where companions have moved the dead from one place to another in the battle or heard that actually, when they dug the body out, they found the body in the same way in full tap the day it was buried. This is months after that the actual wounds was still bleeding.
The third day gathering for morning is absolutely wrong. There's no basis whatsoever. Oh, it's an innovation the third day, the seventh day, the 20th day, the 40th day 100th day, the anniversary of the day of death. This is all an Islamic. Whoa, we mentioned earlier in one of our lessons that the non Muslims or the Muslim sorry, if the animal was constipating that will take it to the non Muslims graveyard. And we know that the animals all creation other than human and Gene can hear the punishment of the grave. So they will take it to a graveyard of paganism and so forth. And it will no longer be constipating after that. It will drop its droppings and tasks run like a beast.
Absolutely not. It's just deep enough that Earth does not uncover it deep enough that it's going to be safe. That is the reason.
Now you are not allowed to have members of the same family same grade you can have next to the grave and not in the same grave. Absolute wrong. There was no basis of what we saw any Koran. Look, listen carefully. Why is it helpful?
Why do you recite it every time in your prayer? What is the reason behind it for guidance, you know not for not for a day for the living. If you reflect upon the verses in the Fatiha, which I would like every single brother to go and reflect upon understand that and see the benefit in it for the living the dead is dead, you cannot benefit. There's no you're saying say give him the got this great guidance of those who have bestowed upon favor that did you are allowed to have multiple graves in an occurrence of the Battle of offered where there were so many dead, that we all know many died at least 70 companions, they buried them in one grave one ditch. now in this situation you
are allowed. You are allowed you forward the most righteous who you believe like for example fun memorizes the Quran has memorized more than the other he comes first, then the next then the next accordance that we did today Islam you are alone. We have asked the question Are you allowed to pray for the dead more than once? Now scholars asked about this that were different in this matter Some say you are not allowed and some say if you have already proud of the dead it is no problem if you pray again and the correct opinion Charla which Allah is respected as well is that you are allowed there's no harm done whatsoever. Both inshallah opinions and burfi stated. Are you allowed to pray
the funeral of absence, for example, the prayer that is prayed over the dead are you allowed to pray if you are not present in his place in the country where he died in likewise scholars differently
issue we know and he wrote a lot and who was prayed by Mohammed Al Salam in Medina, even though he died were
in Ethiopia and Habesha ever senior. And he, he at the same time, pray for him in Medina after his death, we say Alan, that you are allowed, you are allowed
to pray due to this narration. However, there is another opinion that say you are not allowed but the Hadith is there for us to confirm the authenticity of this issue.
We can put the lawnton Allah
next lesson is resurrection. Our next lesson is resurrection. So, if you have any more questions of the grave asked tonight will be the last time yes every single person will get the question of the grave every single person Muslim and non Muslim the exact gravity of that question a lot of data, but every single person you are not allowed to donate organs to anonymous to a non Muslim, but to Muslim Yes, not to a non Muslim to a Muslim in the most correct opinion you are allowed minute
blood you are to both Muslim and non Muslim. Yes, you can very good question and that has happened in the past. If you are on a ship, you are far from the shore where you cannot make a burial there then you must place it in the ocean but place something on him that is heavy so you can go to the bottom of the ocean and be eaten there. Otherwise we'll float and there is a pressing the body you play something on the body that is heavy and fast you will sink to the bottom of the ocean and that you are advised to do it ASAP. Otherwise the body will contain
It's called a stench absolutely not
you are not allowed to go and sign your license for example, even though they weren't accepted these days.
And say that I would like to donate my body parts to
any any person after iodine is unacceptable.
You are allowed to Muslim
to any organization well scores have differed here your latitude to non Muslim and the correct opinion amongst them is that inshallah you are allowed to travel you are allowed
especially to those that may be close to Islam, but you may not know that, however, allow them that is their opinion and with respect to inshallah.
Now you should not curse them because they're hard to say
but should have been now. So give them the glad tidings of hope for you. You can say in general and a lot of caffeine. that a lot of shaking a curse to pagans or the curse of disbelievers in general. But you'd have to go stand up the grass on the cursor, a cursor on the cursor. The Hadith says give them the glad tidings of Hellfire inshallah we'll stick to that I am allowed to take the body from one country to another. We say it is allowed if there's no harm to the body whatsoever. If there's no harm to the body whatsoever, and if it is done promptly, promptly, yes. If it's delayed, it's actually if you actually oppressed in the body. And if you can, if you die for example he and you
are if you are sort of given the security, the confirmation that indefinitely will be taken to Medina and buried or straightaway you are better off
like if I was confirmed that I can die today here right and be taken to Medina and buried there. I would not allow them to bury me here or prefer regarding Mohammed Medina. But that's got to be done immediately. It is delayed. You are present in the body.
Absolutely nothing can be touched. Me no one narration or not narration when I was in Saudi Arabia, one of the brothers died in a car accident he was doing his Islamic course there. And all the shapes. They want him to remain there. This brother was from from Kosovo. His parents called for him to be taken back to Kosovo. They've done everything to the best of the capability to get him buried there. They said we'll pay for your tickets the whole family to come and witness the burial here. They did not want that they wanted his body over there. So they had no option but to send the body there.
That was a big mistake because they had you said if you're able to die in Medina then die in Medina that was get buried in Medina exactly where they get buried.
It becomes a burial or graveyard cemetery. Look at Oxford for example. look at whether
they buried exactly what I died
in area now it's become us
yes the place that they 14 will live in at the shelter no effort I went hungry