Dangers of the Tongue

Feiz Mohammad


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In the mother who want to start a new one, I stopped.

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When I want to be lame and surely unforeseen, our sejati I'm Elena. Maria de la palma de la. One minute the little fella hadiya wash had one a la la la la la sharika wash hadwen Mohammed and Abdo hora solo.

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A man

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may say a word,

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not realizing

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what he is saying.

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because of that word he said,

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he will be led into the dungeons of them nation.

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So, can allow one single word

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can lead an individual to eternal gardens of terror.

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This is where Allah subhanho wa Taala sees.

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What the Buddha who Hainan

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were who were in the law he have

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you consider it I live to think

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that with Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah is extremely heavy, great.

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This lump of flesh that we are talking about known as the tan

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is a ferocious savage beast

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that can cause major destruction and major damage

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if unleashed,

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if and team

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This is why I even live in Thailand said beautifully are they allowed Allah and

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it's a mess is small. But it's sin is great.

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And the Great's of the life, the most road said, if there is anything

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that is worthy of incarceration,

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pro long incarceration, it is no other but the time. So Panama.

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You know, we all like to exercise correct usage. So we can lose weight.

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It's a natural desire of human beings to look fit.

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So you eat the right food, you train hard, and you lose weight. But the thing that we need to lose weight

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in is between these very two lifts.

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If we word could be measured in weight on a scale, let us say we

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speak 150 kilos a day. And unfortunately, we speak more than that.

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Let us have a diet or a diet we are

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put under a diet and speak only 20 kilos a day, or 30 kilos a day.

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And then your time will be slim.

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It will be rich, it will be healthy. But when you just let it eat anything and everything by speaking your designer, he becomes fat.

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And this is the situation of humans. So kind of like your days ago before we actually start the lecture tonight.

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A brother

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was talking to me.

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And as he was speaking, he said the F word

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participaron en la

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de what you just said

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it's cool to swear.

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That's what he said to me. It's cool to swear.

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isn't really cool. Just wear

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off the team understand this.

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The fire is far from being cool.

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I said the whole fire is far from being cool. While you are saying it's cool and mature to swear

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isn't really cool. I swear to you the F word

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or the S word or the every other devilish word. It's cool

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to be cool and not cool here.

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Call rather be call in the next life and not calling this

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Marla protect us in Charlotte.

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We're gonna start in shakalaka. Tonight. And there are many, many points that we would like to discuss. So we will try and trial as much as possible to

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minimize the talk about them. As you can see, there is a list that I will be discussing tonight. And every week, I'll give you a new list until we finish our series in sha Allah, whoa, Tada.

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You can say tonight, we initiate with the first one called cursing.

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Now, cursing is almost a word that is so fresh on our lips. And our turn that we do not even know.

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especially amongst the Arabs, I'm not sure about the other races. But the Arabs Ilan, you

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they get angry here.

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If only they knew and we knew what this word means. When you curse somebody, or something, you were actually saying here Allah do not bestow your blessings, your mercy on this individual or on this team, which in reality means that let them go to Paradise. Because the only way that we enter Paradise is through

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understanding, understand this. So you're asking Allah to deprive this individual or this thing

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of his mess.

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And that's a serious situation. Now, as we see,

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there's a picture of a person drinking alcohol.

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Now, are we allowed

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to curse the sinner? Is the question.

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In Islam understand this, and I see this too many times where a person sees another brother committing a major sin, whether it's alcohol, whether it's doing the, you know, promiscuous behavior, whatever it may be. So he's quick to judge and he says, Ilana, I like her shoe, how can you do this? This is an acceptable,

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we are not allowed to curse a specified individual

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without a clean text from the Quran. And from this,

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there was a hadith or there is a hadith that mentions that the pasta lamb one day was

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punishing a woman for the sin of adultery. And we know the Dollar Tree is a very, very

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massive sin. It's great in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Yet this individual was being punished for it. So the expiation we say is there. Now when this lady was being punished,

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some of her beloved, let's get on the great stay for

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And he did not like that. Her blood, been stoned through and hit the great safe.

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And he insulted her swore at her cursed

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and what was the response by the great teachers of all, so lots of them? He said Johan it, be gentle for Allah, he she has repented, I repented. That would suffice. 70 members of Medina

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he didn't say my alma cursor, destroy her. No, don't curse her. She's repented. We as Muslims, when we see someone committing sin, we don't go and curse them.

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They want you to curse anyone.

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We ask Allah to guide them.

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Kirsten, I believe as the hottie sees is like murdering him, killing him. It's akin to destroying his life in this world. And the next, so we are not allowed to curse anyone, and that the person that curses the this is the thing that we don't realize, that many times we flew these utterances as though it is nothing not realizing that the Ottomans we are saying may fall back onto you.

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As mentioned in a beautiful narration collected by a Buddha on the authority of the dead

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He said that Mohammed sauce lamb said, when a person curses somebody, or something, that curse travels to the heavens,

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the curse that you utter, and it tries to enter the heavens, but the heavens Do not let the curse enter, it rejects us, rejects the curse for the curse comes back to the earth. And likewise, it finds the gates of the earth locked,

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does not let it enter. So the curse is stuck between the heavens and the earth. So it goes to the right, it goes to the left, there is no entry for it. So where does it go? It's got to get somewhere the curse has been added. So it goes to the one or to the thing that was cursed. If they deserve the curse, what happens? It falls onto them.

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But if they do not deserve the curse, where does it go Yama

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it gets back to the person who uttered the curse.

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Can you see the damage in this? So in fact, you may be the recipient of that which you are uttering.

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This is the destruction of words.

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Well, why we really don't think

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we have any thought what we have seen. This word, Yella Anak Yella Anak oh mama curse you. Oh damn you another word

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which is

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akin to cursing. You don't say Damn this, damn you while you're on.

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Because there means what? You are likewise condemning that person to fire.

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Them means also curse. So that's a dam this dam you and we hear this all the time. From brothers and sisters, it is a major sin. If you say that word, exactly the same scenario occurs

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it will travel to the heavens to the earth, it will look for an entry it will not find an entry. And if you that person You damned or you curse. They do not deserve it. Well you're going to suffer with discus.

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You get other situations.

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You're writing something as you can see there's a pen there.

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You're writing something and you do mistake column. You say Kirsty spent dammit.

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This is her wrong.

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This is wrong. Or for example, something happens to you in the day and you get angry. So what happens? You curse the time

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because the time that Allah created is the faith that God Allah that Allah has placed in it for you.

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So be very, very, very careful.

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Allow your turn to ever use the word curse or dam and its likes. It is an absolute major sin to utter this word. Now generally you are allowed to curse my Allah curse the disbelievers May Allah curse the oppressors May Allah curse the students may Allah curse the lions May Allah curse the evil doors no problem

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that's allowed in a gym who sort of constant specifically No, you are not allowed to curse anyone or anything.

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I have this understood in our life there are questions regarding any points you asked me after less than

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pointing as you can see is definitely hot all you can see that Paul little fella with his on his face or his head being poked by the pointer. What does it mean? To read a call to disgrace to belittle

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to degrade someone by mentioning his defects or deficiencies Hara Hurrah

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and we get this all the time. So kind of who created us that honestly who created us, Abraham who created you?

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How did you did you create yourself with red hair? Red baby red shirt

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to go with the bacon.

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Allah Subhana Allah created all of us how

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The way he wants to short, tall, intelligent, dumb.

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He created us differently. different times different looks. So how can you blame that person for the way he looks? How can you really cool? Oh, disgracing for the way he looks? Did you know by doing that, what are you doing?

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You're actually saying that I was creation Is that good?

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Because he is the one that created you.

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Very, very careful not to read a call or disgrace or degrade anyone.

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Anyone. It is the way Allah wanted them to be in their looks. There's a beautiful narration

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Mohamed Salah they were sending them wanted to marry Sophia.

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Now why Chateau de la tarde de Bucher,

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rajala and home Jamia?

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She, as a natural jealousy was not happy about this marriage.

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She did not want him to marry Sophia naturally. Which woman would like her husband to marry another woman? She was a human being. She was a woman out of her natural jealousy. She did not want to want him to marry another woman named this time, Sophia.

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So he asked her about Sophia. Yeah, sure. What do you think about Sophia? She said

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she's a great woman. Stay beautifully over, but

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I wished but wasn't there. But she made a gesture.

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In other words, she said something

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with a signal. She said she is short.

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What do you say? She shocked

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when he heard that.

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She thought that she should

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look what he said about it. She could say no, she's so she started she started throwing nonsense at her No, one basic word. She is short with a signal.

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If that word

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was I dropped and it was thrown into the ocean, the ocean. It would stay in the whole ocean.

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The whole ocean that little word.

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Can you imagine what we do today?

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We don't really say words we say box of words.

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If it can be written

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would there be any oceans left to fish or swim tactics? If only one

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so you can see that poor little guy he's almost getting clobbered by the other one

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because he's probably not of his caliber.

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Number three,

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nicknaming he can't probably see clearly, but his nickname is haraam.

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Nickname when he when it means to insult or defame another person. As our last panel what Allah says when a musical and full circle while at an advisor will

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know the same one another no insult one another boy nicknames now helps us.

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In our social gatherings wherever we go today. It's full of personal insults personal nicknaming this person that person up character assassination. Whereas as Muslims,

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we are prohibited.

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We are not allowed understanding these shapewear. Well, I what I'm trying to deliver to you guys is my benefit in yours. understand what I am saying tonight and the nice to come in sha Allah, you protect yourself from this nonsense this shape on in essence, you will be saved. You will be saying how do you say you guarantee me what is between this I guarantee you.

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So don't take this lightly understand it.

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In our gatherings today, that's all we see, as Muslims are prohibited from uttering nicknames that involve insults or defamation.

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per se so many nicknames. No

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Does this person like to be called by this?

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If he does not eat his hat on to call him by it,

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understand that you are not allowed to name anyone does islamically with a name that he or she does not like. And if you do so, you are committing a major sin

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But how many of us are deaf, dumb and blind? We listened and we didn't care

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for our problem, another narration likewise, regarding this great mother of believers, Sophia again.

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Sophia rhodiola. And her her camel became ill.

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Her camel became ill. So how much of them went to his wife, Xena, and she had two camels. How many camels too?

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It's just a no, Sophie's camel is Oh, can you please give her one of your camels?

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And she got angry. Had a jealousy, natural jealousy. She said, I'm not gonna give it to that.

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What you say, I am not gonna give it to the Jewish but she was.

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She was from the children of Israel.

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She was a Jew.

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I'm not going to give it to her. And that sort of lies the law when it was done and got very angry. It's been mentioned that he abandoned her for more than two months.

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For that one statement.

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Can you believe that? Yes. What is that?

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one basic statement. But the gravity of it is not basic. It's a fee. If only about we knew. What are we for? What does the word in the mail? What mean on that one mean brotherhood. We have a mirror of each other, not the destruction of each other. But the mirror of each other? If I see you will see, for example,

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in a state of displeasure, or something that is no good on him. Okay, you see, you got to be careful, there's something in your head. We need it to be funny. For example, I advise if zombies mirror or doing something wrong. It's better not to do this. Don't publicize or degrade or disparage or belittle or ridicule him?

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If a Muslim sees faults in his brother or sister, he removes it. Not publicize it ostracizes him or hate him, or warns against him. He removes it forever covers the force of his brother in this world alone, we'll cover the fault of him on the next allowing

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me What did I say?

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Haha, this is an interesting one. This is what? Abraham and interesting one correct.

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As I say, beware of calling others a cafe. Well, you may fall and be one of them and absolutely correct. Yeah, today we have a problem out there where people call this guy in a cafe. He said this is Cathy. Yeah, take it easy. No, no, no, no, I heard him say it. I read it or watched it as a cafe. Then you get sub sub and no, no, no, no, no, he's a facet.

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Yeah, Habibi. Just says a cafe. Nice. Donny Vanya, Cynthia vindictus yahudi, Masha Allah.

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Is there any other way you would like to say?

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Is there a need for this? Is there a need for this? Do people think that this word is like fairy floss? You know light, while law heats heavier than mountains all together, put together from the face of the earth, and still heavier.

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Does the narration that was collected by comedy bliss, medical Bahati, and Muslim the hijas on the great

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the authority of the great Pharaoh Abu Hassan Mata, radi Allahu anhu who said that the greatest men

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for solemn said, Listen carefully to this Hadees that when a person sees to his brother in Islam, that you are a caphyon

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then one of them deserves the title.

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Then what one of them deserve the title if the person who accused his brother is not actually

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happier than a fall back on the accuser.

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As the Hadith says, if the addressee is as soon as he has attained, then his disbelief will be confirmed. But if it is not true, then it gets sent back to the person who said it. The accused

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brothers and sisters, leave that to the scholars leave that to the scholars. Today we have people who memorize one verse and one Hadees. And they have become not scholars but professors in Islam. Like, you know, they want to be called Morgana.

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Not only Modena, they go around judging people, accusing people

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labeling people scrutinizing and stigmatizing people, because they believe they have become an exalted position. Because they become devout worshippers. They pray more than this person prays or fast more than this person fast or they know more than more Hadith or versus this person, and he's done a mistake. This person is colossal is not a Muslim normal is a Catholic.

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That's been judgment. I'll give you a beautiful hottie. That will eliminate the statistic This

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is a hadith that was collected by Muslim nephrogenic on authority of delays in case it is beautiful narration

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that Mohammed Salah Lozano said that someone said and if someone was a devout worshiper, very close person to Allah, devout, strong in worshipping Allah subhanho wa Taala. This data worship has said one day about a sinner he said, By Allah, Allah will never forgive so and so. What did you say? Yeah, what were Allah alone? never forgive? So in

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Allah Subhana Allah to Allah or hearing they were seen heard him, did he not? So immediately he reprimanded him and reproached him

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saying Who is he? Who takes an oath in my name? saying that I'm not gonna give so and so?

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Well, now that I have forgiven, so and so, and I have rendered your deeds fruitless.

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Why do we judge people? Yeah, judge yourself? Who are you angelic? Are you an angel? Do you live above the clouds?

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Is that where you live?

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You can see what people are doing and you're judging them

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and judge yourself and you see how much filth you live in.

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Stop judging others.

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Stop labeling people stop using this ton in a noxious evil way.

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Caffeine, caffeine, pasty barley, some big. So panela.

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is a major.

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So you can see he's person four because of his worship, or his knowledge that he attained a position that is much greater than many others. Hence, he became or he thought he had the ability to go out there and judge the servants of Allah.

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Payne's Allah subhanho wa Taala warned us saying, Who is this person who was seen in my name taken an oath, that I will not forgive this person who I think given that person and I will punish you, no matter how much worship you do.

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Brothers and sisters, be careful.

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Be aware.

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Be aware and

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be fresh, fresh with that which Allah loves. This is not the behavior of a Muslim. Stop looking at people's faults, and look at your own faults. For a lie. You will write books every night about what you've done during that day. And forget what people do. I was not going to judge you and say, why did you not judge Rosina?

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Why did you not judge your own heart?

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That's what your question about

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despising the Batticaloa you know what is why is he looking down upon others, degrading others arrogance and pride.

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You know, you look at you Who do you think you are? I own a big you know, I own a bank. What do you own a shoe store?

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People do that they have pride and in having pride they despise the supposedly lower class individuals. You won't even see him sitting down together. We're gonna stick with that guy look at

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me. I'm a suit and a tie and um, you know, I missed the money.

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He missed the poverty

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alone in a coma komenda like

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that forget dispersed have the best of you in the sight of Allah are those who are most righteous, those who are most pious in as our last panel data says.

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Yeah, you are letting me know.

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He says it beautifully.

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And get kuno sadan Minh home. There. Yes sir. comun comb, Assa and yaku returning home well and his own minister in as an akuna higher than me. Let not a group which is a men scarf or scone

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other groups are the men. Maybe the latter is better than the former likewise, know that some woman scone scarf slander baby to degrade other women, maybe the former or the latter is better than the former. Allah subhanho wa Taala knows this. Not you is a beautiful narration we have mentioned that the haughty the arrogant, the proud, even if they have weight of pride equal to a mustard seed in their hearts will not antigen.

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Know when the man or the companion has heard this, a man said get a sort of love. But one of us loves to have beautiful shoes and beautiful clothes to new. Allah is beautiful and loves beauty. He said pride or arrogance is to reject the truth when it comes to you and to look down despise others. And how many people do this to be? How many people look down at other people because they're not of this same level. Or they think they're more intelligent, more academic, more intellectual, more stronger in everything in anything. While this person is just picked up garbage cleaner, for example.

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Understand what delights

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we in the sight of Allah, I like them to have a comb. But the truth of a comb, and the rest of us are not those who are higher in the dunya. But who are high in the sight of Allah, this garbage cleaner, who gets up early in the morning, cleans your garbage, could be praying before he got up while you are counting your money before you got up. And believe me this person is much much much much greater than you in the sight of the one that created you never, ever despise others that look down upon people don't ever look down upon people. And one example of this is when today when a young man wants to get married. And he goes to the to the to the bride, potential brides house. The

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father says Oh, what do you do for a living? Guys, I've got this basic job, you know, I'm electrician, woman, plumber, whatever it may be. So he starts speaking about the situation although it could be righteous and you could be a good pious brother, Nana, my daughter Annie marries a doctor or a scientist

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or of that type,

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looking down upon people

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as an example, this is not acceptable in Islam. We look at faith we look at a man we look at tuck were to define people without look at what they do for a living. That's how we judge as men and get all the judge the hearts of men.

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Okay, not lying in joke is hard on you know, you can see the bottom line we've got the fingers crossed, they will love this. And they say thing. Yeah, it's only a it's true, but behind it. It's a lie. And I'm pretty sure you all you know, but were brought up on this nonsense. Now what we've got to understand is that a lot of kind of what to add are strictly for baseline at all times. But he specifically reproached and reprimanded the individual who lies in order to make people laugh. And if you look at the society today, in our gathering, do you see this all the time where people sit down

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And just throw out jokes, but they are lying. And they say it's any joke relax.

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Let us have a laugh, not knowing that Allah Subhana Allah Allah warned against this, as the Hadith says, will be on him who speaks and lies to make people that will be on him. The gravity of this extreme, Mr. v. Understand this and I repeat, it is absolutely hard on a major sin, to lie, to speak and lie, even when you're joking. Do you understand that you are not allowed to joke. While it's a false joke. It is how long to do this, you are allowed to joke cause Mohamed Salah, Mr. Human, he would play and we joke around with his companions with the little children. But as he said in an authentic narration, I only speak that which is true.

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So the condition of joking around, it must be in truth. You are not allowed to sit down amongst the people and say, let's have a few laughs and you start creating something or making something up all this nonsense is a tiny joke with a panel of people take appreciation. And they encourage this deceitful lines, sayings, any amusement and instant sort of entertainment. And they have even made specific days for this ugly practice. You can tell me one of them.

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A pinch and a punch on the first day of the month. Correct.

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Start for the letter.

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I propose Fool's Day, April

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April Fool's Day, where they realize and mocking and jokes and this and that all in the name of jokes and laughter and amusement. That it is how

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they should not accept the wasteland.

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So understand that you are not allowed to speak a lie in order to make people laugh. You understand that brothers and sisters You understand?

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You know, the understand the gravity of line here that you say is low to him. That's a severe sort of warning. It's like whoa, in other words held to you out of

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the damnation to you.

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So you're going to be very careful, then to say are relaxed only a joke like that? Don't say because there's many people that cannot take jokes. These lies how many people have incurred like harm and pain and traumas what lie even death. People are not the same. Like 100 may accept a joke while Ahmad will say I can't stand I'm gonna start a fight.

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This is the the this is the quality that we have. People are different. Not everyone is the same. People can accept things while others cannot fight occur. problems occurred. Destruction occurs from this time

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that says only a joke. It's a joke to you, but not

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it's a joke to you, but not to him or her

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to take this lightly.

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Okay, defaming someone's lineage is haram. And these are the acts of pre Islamic ignorance. As you can see, I'm sorry, you just don't fit in. Why? Because as you can say, this person's probably not from the same lineage.

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You know, they're from different sort of clans. And we have a beautiful narration that mentioned two matters. assigned signs of Cooper he said, a sign of disbelief on the part of who ever indulges in them. He said, speaking ill and slandering or defaming someone's image and whenever they did, now, what does it mean to, to to defame someone's image is to insult to degrade to disgrace someone because his father is black.

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You know, you got here with a son of a black woman, for example. Or if you are the son of a blacksmith, or you are the son of a garbage cleaner, or you are this thing that you're defaming them because of their lineage, their forefathers, you are the son of a of an Arab. You are the son of you know,

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Englishman, and it continues. This is an act of pre Islamic ignorance. It's from the days of Jay helia. They used to do that, as the power the Hadith says this will always remain in this nation. So what we've got to understand is that we are not allowed to look at a person's family and say Are not you are this, you are the child of this clan or individual or an exception.

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That's defamation.

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That is haraam. You got a beautiful hottie if the Abu Dhabi or the alotta

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in an angry state set to be led the great bill and you are the son of a black woman one day.

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What did you say? You are the son of a black woman, Cynthia statement, Cynthia statement who created piedad?

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Allah Allah created him who said Why is better than black?

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Who said this?

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He said this. And what makes you say this, but he's saying that you are say, Tom, why?

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Maybe the black person is much better than you.

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Because you got a lighter skin, you're better.

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That's defamation of the niche, a major sin. So I was gonna say to be that you are the son of a black woman. And Blair was very, very upset. And when it reached Rasulullah, last, and then he said to a Buddha in an angry way. He said, You are personally a man who still has traits or practices object area.

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Maybe not obviously, but the evil days before Islam.

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And Buddha was very, very saddened by this. And it took him a long time to overcome what he said he knew and realize he had committed a major sin. And he immediately sought repentance, forgiveness from be there.

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And we do this today, we actually do this amongst us. We look at people differently because of their color, or because of their race, or their lineage or their family or their forefathers. Why, again, why is the question

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brothers and sisters who created us good understand is important. pointy, Allah created us. He made us do a We are so proud of

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with bow. This man

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was sleeping, he heard his footsteps in gentlemen.

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He heard his footsteps in gentlemen, this man that he was called a black man.

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He wasn't a sort of a loan to the greatest men that existed.

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And it's sort of almost a panel wattana the first one

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the sleeve

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that stood strong and firm and did not waver but the majority of us today

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under pressure,

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like gaining this great blessing

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and he allowed us

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to he the footsteps of Bill and

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it's a jab

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How did you beat me to

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your head

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your footsteps It

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doesn't matter what color you are off to this matter who you are, what you are up to this listening to this narration

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and we have the guts to go name people label people and the great people because of their lineage.

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So be very careful.

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Again, we are not measured by our looks

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by who we are. We are measured by this is more so understand this.

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Number eight, we're counting ones the favors is haraam. What does that mean even told me?

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The beloved chapter, what does recounting once favors me.

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In other words, as he said it means you boost about the favors done to others. and nurture the narration that mentioned that Allah will not look at nor talk on the day judgment to

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A person that boasts of the favors he's done to others or giving example 100

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or something to him as a favor.

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One day they

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did that for you Don't forget that ever Don't forget it.

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He did it for a long time, it was reminding me reminding them reminding

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labor to vote for it. But if it's almost 100 100, don't forget, I did that for you remember the show? You can find it somehow.

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That's what we do today. You remind each other the faders that you did for each other in order for what? To get something back.

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That's called we counting phases. It is haraam. And Amiga seem to do that. So don't attack by going to people and reminding them of what you did for them. Do it for the sake of Allah. And then do for the sake of the

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Addressing someone as the King of Kings is huddle, the crown itself is the biggest shake on

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addressing someone as magical as the King of kings. You know, I was at a gathering one time and a person believed out of generosity and courtesy and, you know, respect he called an individual who was of high level as he believed. Yeah, King of Kings like this.

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Is this acceptable brothers?

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That's a major sin. To call someone the King of kings, the Lord of lords, the judge of judges, is not acceptable. islamically It is, in fact, wrong to call anyone with these names. Why? Because me Allah is medical and back, medical mulu the King of kings, the Lord of lords and the church of churches, and the most disgraceful men as they hadn't seen

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before Allah subhanho wa Taala is the one that names himself the King of kings.

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For there is no king except Allah as the Hadith says. So you are not allowed to name anyone the King of kings. Why do you think that is so cozy?

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What's the scene behind that? What's the reason behind it?

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Because by doing this, you are committing the sin of naming an individual by a name that belongs only to Allah.

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You are equating this individual to Allah subhanho wa Taala and that destroys the category of tawheed Agra phobia. So be very, very careful that you do not name anyone by the King of kings, the Lord of lords and the judge of churches.

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Is the policy.

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Masha Allah, Allah.

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May Allah bless you, oh fever reviling fever is prohibited. First of all, as you can see, the cross is haram to have.

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That's the big issue there first of all.

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Now, the issue is reviling, the fever revival in a sickness reviling any disease that may occur? Many of us when we fall into this predicament, we start slandering

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that which we have, why am I sick? Allah bless this sickness, mala destroying in our sick Subhana Allah, it's kadaga quarter, and a blessing to be sick, a blessing in fact to be sick, be careful what you see. Because this blessing this sickness in fact expiate your seems to be a person who involves himself into that which will destroy his good deeds and accumulate his sin. Instead, you have a beautiful exit that by being sick, you are erasing the scene and you are accumulating your reward.

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As the Hadith mentioned that pasilla Monday visited a female companion by the name of on site a bomb will save you. So he looked at I said yo sabe Are you on Skype you are shivering. She was in bed shimmery, what is the matter with you? And this is Hadith in in Muslim

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Hey jazz collection.

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Allah, I had a fever, may Allah bless it.

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So she said,

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he said the

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dent that the US

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or don't insult, the blessing, defeat fever is a blessing from Allah subhana wa. As it cleans out the sins of the sons of Adam, just as a furnace removes the dirt

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of iron.

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So, understand that when you get sick,

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this is a reason of the lesson for you. It's an expiation for you, it cleanses you out. So don't go crazy and get angry and upset and start revolving or cursing or abusing the sickness or the disease that you may have. And understand that it is a blessing from Allah subhanho wa Taala. And nothing else.

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inshallah, to Allah, that is it for tonight, we do have approximately a minimum of 50 items to deliver. So I think we're going to have to go a bit faster in our upcoming lessons. And as we go along, we learn a lot more. But the meta of this is not just to listen to it, but to really, really implement it in Charlottetown. Even if you have to write these down, just to remember, it is very important to align. Yeah, these sometime maybe it'll be boring as we go along. But the the information is very, very, very critical for you as a person in this world as a Muslim how to give because our whole aim is to guard this time. And if we are not guarding it, the devil will envelop

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it, and make it a means of your destruction. So be careful you're

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in Charlottetown and next week, we'll continue with this. And we have probably about 20 items next week.

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Between that allow you guys now if there is time for questions for the witnesses that we have wet on the rewards

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Have you been