Friday Night Etiquettes Class – December 10, 2021
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The speakers discuss the benefits of staying in a stable environment and avoiding dangerous conversations, including the dangerously loud group. They also emphasize the importance of praying for the upcoming Lord's name and not touching one's feet while standing in front of closed doors. The speakers provide guidance on dressing up as a Muslim, avoiding touching people, and receiving money through a coupon. They also remind attendees to say their name and avoid touching their face.AI Generated Transcript ©
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
very first time I said that it was like everyone was going just bring all the candies and chocolate so we can go home. Right? Who wants to go home early
Raise your head. Don't open your mouth. Raise your hand if you want to go over.
You're free to go.
But only candy and chocolates for the people.
No one wants to go No.
Alright, so what I'm going to do is I'm going to ask for especially the boys to calm down a little bit because last week you guys are a little wild.
And what we're gonna do is we're gonna do a little bit of a revision like we always do, and then we're going to start with the next chapter. Alright, so who remembers what the last thing was that we learned last week?
Now last thing, not something the last thing that we learned
what was the last thing that we learned?
You know the last thing is
you don't know the exact last thing who knows the last thing that we do you know
that it's bad to sleep on your stomach I
think we learned something else after that
I actually have to check
was the last thing
I think it was something else
yeah, I was right. I was
the last thing that we learned
very good, then, that you saved before you go to sleep and when you wake up. Okay. That was the very last thing that we learned last week. We spoke about a few things afterwards. So who can work? Who can tell us what did we learn last week? What did you learn last week? Anything? Anything that you learned? Okay, I'm gonna start by choosing people who are not talking people who are talking will get chosen
news strategy Yes.
What did you learn?
Composers I can hear you
what did you learn not
sleeping? You remember it? What is it?
Alright, you got it.
She said that you're out before going to sleep. That was one
five from each side right?
With the peace pass? Yeah. You don't know ask your wife.
Just a little
enter the masjid with your right foot.
We're starting the etiquettes of the masjid today.
I mentioned it last week
there's difference of opinion amongst the brothers and the sisters. All the brothers saying we did study one sister says we did the rest of the sisters say you're all liars
give me this for your effort. I don't want to throw it so whoever sitting there is be very careful. Yes.
All right. That's one on one. Yes.
Very good. Do not sleep on your stomach.
Yes
sir.
Before you go to sleep, very good. All right. Third Person yes
he's taking the class to the next level. He's learning dry that we didn't even mention. Um, the really good. That's three. Oh, now. Shall we have competition amongst the adults never. Wait, we'll come back.
Everyone's pointing to you. Why must be something really good that you learned last week?
Very good. Very good. She said.
Guys are paying attention to you guys. Okay, any chocolate?
Anyone who's talking isn't gonna get any chocolate or candy. Right? So you know what she said? She said what we learned last week was that along
if you're sleeping in a certain area, a lot doesn't protect you unless you take precautionary measures first to protect yourself. Right the roof of the home or a place that is stable. We need to make sure that the place is stable and secure. Very good. That's three Yes.
If you want to talk three if you want to talk you know the gym. Okay, so
good. Yes.
Very good. I'm biller Oh, sorry. So the brother said it's a souped up the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to sleep on your right side. And if you can to also try to face the direction of the fibula. Very good. I'm very lucky. All right over here.
You know, the last two answers were by the not the boys. But the brothers. The adults. I don't want the sisters to sit in the back and have conversations like one over there. One over there. And one over there. Over there. Right. We need for participation too. So any of the older sisters? I don't like to use the word older sisters, right? Any of the adults want to share something that
was there too many conversations going on? We don't remember. All right, you
have to speak louder because you're wearing a mask.
On your right side, okay. Someone already said that. Anyone else? Any of the adults in the back?
Yeah, the only great adults. But you're too far away. I can't hear what you're saying. So you're gonna have to come closer and tell me and I'll give you this. Okay, I'm waiting for you to come closer.
Oops. All right. Yes.
This leafing through everyone saying the CD drive, do you know what that is? What?
Very good.
All right. There we go. Another another adult sisters. The brothers are out doing you
Okay, waking up very good.
Good.
This has this is dangerous. You're wearing glasses.
He's not. He's in front of you. Give him your glasses. Then. I'll
just
have to wake up the two guys in the wallet.
On the luck, here here. He can keep it up. There we go.
All right. One more person from this side.
This side
okay.
Remember, remember if you don't remember
you remember you're supposed to say that alright, okay hold on one more from this side and call us
the adults are out doing the sisters. Brothers I don't know what happened. I think your wives are upset with you. They're letting you win for once not care no they're not but now the competition starts just need to trigger
sorry
before you go to sleep very good. All right. Okay, let's move on and trauma we're gonna start with oh, now all of a sudden sisters want chocolate tuba. So today we start with the etiquettes of going to the masjid visiting the Masjid. How many of you have been to the masjid before?
You're in the masjid right now. Very good. I'm good enough. How many of you made one before you came to the masjid?
Who forgot to make one we're coming to
all right good. I'm gonna washrooms are open so you can make money All right. So from the things that we learned when coming to the masjid first, we look at the benefits. What is the benefit of coming to the masjid guys? What's the benefit of coming to the masjid?
And then at the end, you guys are gonna come and go
right?
I didn't teach you yet. So how do you know the answer is?
Exactly. It's a question that I have to answer.
So from the benefits of going to the masjid, all right, is that Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah says, Yeah, Benny Adam, who Xena to come during the Kali Masjid. Who can tell me what this means? Yeah, Benny Adam, who? Xena TOCOM during the Kali Masjid. You know what it means?
You go home
Oh, sorry, buddy. See?
You know what? It's just
come on. Alright, who else?
I don't know man must help us Allah.
Yeah, God
so what does it mean? I didn't say translate it. What does it mean? Yeah. Adam who knows?
What does it mean?
Be
good attempt Tamila. He's like this is living in Serbia. So he's trying these are good. Very good. Any any sisters want to try and explain? Yes.
Very good. The sister says doesn't it mean where your best pose to the masjid? I'm going to love.
What else? What do you understand from this? Yeah, Benny Adam Hullo. Xena, America. Colima Street. Yes. Yes.
We're cleaning socks a lot. I need to do something to struggle.
A lot.
Especially when your brains shoulder to shoulder without six feet in front of you when you go make sense. You guys forgot, right? It's been two years now you make such that you're like, Whoa, the brothers feet are right in front of my head. This is why the brothers rushed to get in the front row. Because if you're in the front row, you don't know anyone's feet. Here in the second row or right to the back. They'll help you. Right. All right. That's good. Very good. I actually know a masjid that doesn't let people come in. If they're not wearing socks.
Yeah, and there are disposable socks. There's like a basket or a bin on the wall at the door right before entering the masjid that has disposable socks and you put them on and go into the masjid because they want everyone's feet to be clean and for their feet not to smell and during the carpets look at how how as a Muslim are supposed to be paid Alright what else what else do you know from this is
enter supposed to wear perfume Allah
this is
it's rude.
It's a lot so there's actually pieces of truth in it. So on
I'm going to give this away to someone today and
the person has to deserve it.
person has to be
okay, come come come. He said he said he smells bad so we need to make him smell good. Very good.
Yes.
What else? What else can we learn? Yeah
Very good. We're the best.
We're the best clothing. Right? We're the best clothing come to the masjid looking good. What else? I want some of the adults to think about this. Yep, any dumb who knows either telco Marinda Kumi Masjid. You guys are telling me Yeah, Benny Adam.
Bring your Zina with you to the masjid
I gave it away. I just gave it away. What do you know from this is yes
yeah
very good. I'm not gonna say that out loud yet. Yes.
Take your clothing to the masjid.
Again, your wardrobe
so beautify yourself clean yourself your mouth and everything before going to the masjid. So you're saying
very good. I'm doing that but I want more.
Smells good. So yeah.
Bring your best self to the masjid. Okay, good.
Let's see what kind of content is
good. He said Allah subhana wa Tada also says in the Quran and Manuel Bruna Xena will highlighted dunya your wealth and your children are from the things that Allah unified this world with. So he's saying take it with you to the masjid bring your wallet for donations.
And bring your children no just joking.
All right, what else? What do you know from this iron? Yes
very good. What else? What about you? She's like, why aren't you picking me?
wear clean clothes or clothes clean?
Yeah, you checked it. There's no dirt, no soil.
Brand new.
Very good use miswak. All right. Here I'll tell you some things that we can learn from this if Allah Subhana Allah is telling us as believers not only to come to the masjid prepared and ready, in nice clothing with a clean mouth looking good presentable with perfume, combed hair, college beard, nice job Nice. So you know come to the masjid prepared and ready. You're pure but also taking
what what is coming to you from the Masjid?
What is Allah giving us from the masjid
when we come to pray, Allah unifies us by purifying our sins.
We become clean because from one prayer to another prayer, our sins are forgiven. So when we go to the masjid, we are actually shining and glowing. Today's football is about the norm and know the name of Allah right? So we come to the masjid in order to receive guidance from Allah Subhana Allah so that we glow and we become better people have good luck, okay. Also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says put your hands and put your hands down. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said whoever performs voodoo and performs a perfect lewd likes makes proper whoo hoo. You know, washing your mouth properly. Of course your hands first and cleaning out your nose and washing your face and
not just you know, sometimes you see people making widow and they just go like this. They roll their sleeves up this Hi. How do you make
when you can't get the water to your elbow?
Don't you have to get the water to elbow? Uh huh. Have any of the sisters ever experienced and I know this is a very big issue in our time. Now. They were sometimes an eye buyer and the way that they're made is it's so tight. You can't get your sleeve up above
so the profits are lower and he was selling them says whoever leaves their home after having performed the proper womb, right? And then walks to the masjid as in goes for Salah. They make your way to the prayer
and they pray or they make their way to
compulsory prayer right Fauja also mother or Aisha Fossella, hammer and nuts and praise it with people or praise it in Jamaica or praise it in the masjid the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, from a low level
Allah forgave that person of their sins.
So what do we have to do? Before leaving home we perform
proper proper
proper with
the other foot What about the other arm this year and that year we're not our must on our head dropper
and then leaves and goes to the masjid for one of the compulsory prayer.
No, yes, you can. You can use the other Wu Tang moment if you don't have water. But then you go to the masjid you prayed with the people. Are you praying in Java? Are you just simply praying in a bit because you might come for the compulsory prayer and find that the prayer is over. But your intention was to come for the compulsory prayer.
So when you come and you find that the prayer is done, or the prayers ongoing or some people are praying so you join them, you'll get the reward of that prayer, but almost cabinet data also forgives us of our sins.
The donation boxes are okay.
All right. So now from the first etiquettes sometimes it sounds
hands down, hands down, sit down, hands down good from the love from the first etiquette that we're going to learn in sha Allah to Allah is
that it is forbidden to come to the masjid when your mouth
onions, garlic.
So it's forbidden in Islam. It's not permissible to come to the masjid when your mouth smells like garlic. Or onions.
Did you know that?
Who ate food with onions right before they came to the masjid? Be honest.
You don't have to tell.
On the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us
whoever eats garlic
it's like a party back there. All the children that are not paying attention you may be exempt from getting candies
I'm just joking.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says
Whoever eats garlic or
onion
should avoid coming to our masajid why?
Why?
Why should you avoid coming to the masjid?
Why should you avoid coming to the masjid only one person will get this answer right
I'm not going to give a chocolate to anyone unless they get it right. Why
you got it? Why should you not come to the masjid?
Why
yes
because
because your mouth smells bad. Yeah but that's not the ultimate reason why
who knows?
Because the house No yeah
I can hear you
let me know when you can do what I can hear you okay
you're right, people will get offended but there's an even more important reason why. And this brother said it but I know some people didn't hear it. Yes.
Very good. I'm gonna love because the angels don't like it. The angels get offended when our breath smells bad. Especially from garlic and onion. And so the prophets all along it was actually forbade us from coming to the masjid when our mouth smells bad. Now here's a question. What if I intentionally eat garlic and onion like I go in and get a shawarma and I tell the guys at the restaurant? What extra garlic sauce.
Why? Because your intention is
I know that my parents want me to go to my Korean class in the masjid and if I eat garlic and I have an excuse to not go
Are you allowed to do that? No, you're not allowed to do that. Right? You have to
Be genuine. So if you ate garlic or onions right or even meat and then you want to go to the masjid or you hear the event or you went some brothers or sisters and they say we're going to the masjid right or go to the masjid
should you come with them?
Should you come with them?
He says no. So you shouldn't come to the masjid
Don't be like I
don't know.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if you eat garlic and onion, then do not come close to our massages. Should you go to the masjid?
Sometimes there are exceptions.
Okay, I'm gonna add to that. So now brother husana says based on the Hadith, we should not go to the masjid. Now I'm going to ask you a question. What if your parents say, I know you had the garlic stir war bond. And I know you put extra garlic in there and you eat it and now every time like you're running around your house
like everyone's like, Oh, you smell bad, right? And now your parents are like come on, we got to go to the masjid this Friday night. And so they tell you to go upstairs and brush your teeth.
Is that the exception
so you can brush your teeth
brushing your teeth, does not allow you to still come to the masjid.
Using toothpaste or even a miswak does not remove this smell of garlic and onion. Why? Because it goes into our stomach. And when you're standing during Halloween, next to that uncle who's next to you right and you're standing there you're focusing so much and chickening
out and you're like oh this amazing recitation and all of a sudden
and then two seconds later
and then after a while you're like Brother Why did you come to the masjid? You need garlic? I could smell it and he says I brush my teeth
does that make anything better
if someone eats garlic and onion
because some garlic sauce like Paramount's garlic sauce is like real food like real garlic you know paste rubbed in there mashallah to eat it like this is real stuff. But then some places you go to and they're garlic sauce is like mayonnaise was like a drop of garlic essence or something
doesn't even taste like garlic. And so if it's like real garlic or strong garlic or strong onions like you go to someone's place and they give you it and you're like putting like loads of mashallah loads of fried onions on top that you probably should stay away from the mustard now in question for some of the older uncles are older as in like older adults.
No, not retiring age
20 and 20 years old enough
so here's a question.
I asked you about toothpaste.
But you really want to come to the mic anyways.
You really really want to come to a masjid should you still come to the masjid?
The answer is no. It's better for you and more rewarding for you to stay home and pray or to pray somewhere else than it is for you to come and pray in the masjid next to other people. Because you are not only disturbing the angels, but you're disturbing the people around you. And so systemically that's not permissible. Now, here's an added issue. There are sometimes people who smoke cigarettes, right? And then when they come into the masjid, you're like, Oh, what's that smell? Right
or sometimes people they just finished playing in the gym. And as soon as the that is called, they come from the gym into the masjid and they smell that they smell a sweat.
Right? And you don't want to stand next to them.
They also should learn from this hadith, that anytime you are in a condition that disturbs people next to you, you should stay away from them or stay away from the Masjid. Not for extended periods of time, just for the time that it takes for you to get over that center that smell. Okay, so that's with regards to that shot along with I don't know.
I want to I want to take something else but it's already 830 But we'll learn something else and shall Okay one more thing sha Allah Tada.
So, when you come to the masjid, how many of you
came to the masjid? Attention, pay attention?
Here's a question. I need all of you to answer without speaking.
Just raise your hand
if you came to the masjid
before the SF prayer started, raise your hand.
Were you here before there shall prayer started? Okay,
good.
So here, here's something important for all of you who came early, but all of you who came late. The prophets all along or any of us, some of them says Now we're learning about the importance of coming to the masjid earning a profit some of us sallam said, if people knew the blessings, of calling the event and standing in the front row,
the blessings of hearing the event while at the masjid, and standing in the front row. They would even draw lots you know, when we do a raffle, you know, we do a raffle. And we keep them draw blocks or do a raffle to secure the privileges that they get from that as in the reward is so big that they would even say please, please let me stand in the front and pick my name out of a hat and allow me to sit in the front. He continues and says so long.
And were they to realize the reward of performing sweater. Irby how many of us are late at brain vogue these days. Many of us right because of school because of work. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, if they were to realize the reward of performing Salah early, they would race for it. How many of you have raised to the prayer? It's against the sunnah to do that. Don't do it. The Prophet sallallahu ala son is showing us how much we would rush to the masjid. And then he says that is the last thing that will take inshallah. He says if they knew the rewards
of Asia and Fajr prayers,
they would come to attend those prayers, even if they had to grow to the Muslims.
How many of us have crawled to the masjid? None of us right? He says the reward for being in the front row for listening to the dead for brains on time. For me here for a shot and fudge on is so important that we wouldn't rush to the muster, we would crawl to the masjid. We would draw lots from active either not from a hat or we would draw lots we would do a raffle.
And so my brothers and my sisters,
it is so important for us to appreciate the masjid. And we're going to continue to learn about that and show alongside okay, but we need to do two things first.
First of all
So who did not get a raffle ticket for this week's raffle? You know, one per family. So whose family did not get a raffle ticket? Any family? Your family can get it send one person to my office right now. Just send one person to my office right now.
So I need to do the raffle now.
All the coupons are in here. Okay. So anyone who did not get one, just go to my office right now and come back. You have two minutes. Okay. Go to my office. Get a coupon. No, not all of you. Just one person from your family.
You got a ticket to your Boston
office you got another one
okay, the second thing we're going to do is
while we make for them to get their tickets
I want to give this away
I want to give this away
but it has to be someone who's deserving of it. And anyone who's jumping around that's not from the etiquettes of being in the bus.
So I have to look around and see who's deserving of it now of course this is a perfume that's worn on so I don't think any of the sisters wanted they wanted for their husband or brothers or father. Yeah, okay.
So here we go. This is what we're going to do
I want everyone to stand up
Okay, so what I'm going to do is
I want everyone to stand up good
No, stay where you are going off don't move especially around my camera away from the camera.
Alright. So now
whatever
was born
in January, March
may
July
September
November
sit down
so let me start with January or
January
January
okay
whatever was born
on the 13th
anyone born on the 13th Sit down
anyone
if your birthday was also on the 13th then you
know you have it
I found the blue one
there we go
I don't know what to give you
13 Sit down sit down
27 Sit down
sit down
12345 Sit down
21 Sit down
1011 1213 Sit down
20 to 31 Sit down
Anyone who is not born on the seventh sit down
so how many people are born on the seventh
Why are you guys standing if you're not born on the seventh
born on the seventh
raise your hand if you're born on the Senate
anyone is born on the seventh
born on the seventh
okay
so how many people
one two and three
so now
there's three numbers
you can choose from
one
actually no that's that's not fair. I choose that number so I will choose a number between one and 10 and I will tell it to
you guys
so she's my witness before I walk
number between one and 10
number
seven
she was another one because you didn't get it no one else did
he said find
another number
Four
all right so
we're gonna do a raffle
I need everyone to sit down because I'm not gonna give $50 away to people that are running around jumping
Alright,
so
I need you to sit down
dollars isn't giving away easily. You have to earn it. So I want you to earn it first of all by
showing me how you can be
well you're being
saved Say Subhan Allah will be handy
Subhan Allah
Are you proud of
Being a Muslim
I'm good enough
just that is enough for all your parents to know that you're happy and proud to be good enough that's enough good
and strong yes
so here we go ladies. We're gonna be doing the draw right now all the
numbers numbers gonna equal
the phone number is
351-443-5111
Anybody here
Did you win
for 351411
What's your name
where you and your family
very good
All right, so that brings us to the last one I'm going to ask all of the girls to line up over there
all of the girls boys
in the front of the masjid in a long time
one
on the front of the line over there
and I need you guys gotta go stand in line
what are you
wanting for free 1478
jewelry.
The adults there are refreshments in the gym area please feel free to proceed to the gym.
We should not be bringing any food into the masjid area for all those that are planning on eating make sure that you say Bismillah before you come along with
no
anything that is going to be disturbing
strong smelling and you should try to avoid it
I want to tell you something
that's not the number line up over here turn around you'll be in line so that you can get a candy candies are over there. You got to line up over there
they're being given over there
I don't know what she wants. I tried to give her something I don't know
which one
this one is blue
known
for five years
are you
very good
guys, no no