Remembrance Of Death And Visiting The Graves
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smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa sallahu wa salam ala nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi edge marine. All praise is due to Allah and may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and upon all those who follow His guidance, who follow his way until the last day, my dear respected brothers and sisters in Islam assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Today inshallah to Allah we are going to explore three chapters from amongst the chapters of Rio de Sala heen by emammal Nova we are a Hema hula who tyla the first chapter is entitled Babel, the cruel Moti walk us through ml. This chapter is the remembrance of death and restraint of wishes, remembrance of death and restraint of wishes. Now, a member of nowhere Hey, Maha Allahu taala, as always has commenced his chapter with a number of verses to do with this topic to do with this area. The first area that he has included is from sort of alien Ron, which is the third chapter of the Quran in in verse 185, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, coluna have seen
that every soul shall taste death, every soul shall taste this. And then Allah subhanahu wa taala says, we're in to a phone una comida malkia. And only on the day of gamma of resurrection, shall you be paid your wages in full. And then Allah subhanahu wa taala says firmers on the horizon in the halal region, and whoever is removed away from the fire and admitted into jennair. For quite a few hours, he has indeed succeeded. And then Allah subhanahu wa taala says, women will hire to do
more. And the life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception. It's a deceiving thing.
In this verse, Allah subhanho wa Taala begins by stating that coolness in the cut will note that every soul where everyone will taste this, every living bean will taste this just as the prophets and the messengers of the past tasted death and will still have the righteous, whether they are righteous people, evil people, wicked people, all human beings die, including prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has passed away, and he's dead and he's buried in the grave.
So, Allah subhanho wa Taala, when he addressed the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said in May you tune in who may Tune in next time as you are to die, and they will also die. Now in this verse after Allah subhanho wa Taala reminds us about the reality of death.
Allah subhanho wa Taala says, we're in to a phone or Judah comio mal pm
the translation is and you will be paid your wages in full on the day of piano on the day of his erection. So that's when a person is going to receive the the Jew their full Jew in the hereafter. So when it comes to the Mothman when it comes to a believer, a believer may be compensated for his righteousness and his goodness in this life, but he will not be fully compensated. He will not be fully reimbursed by allies though, in this life. The true and the false sense of the reimburse within the compensation is on the Day of Judgment. Yokoyama, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, we're in to a phone or Judah comb yo ma PM, that you shall be paid your wages in full. So as I said earlier,
that a believer in this life may still be rewarded in this life for his good deeds. So Allah azza wa jal can still reward a believer for his good deeds. It's not only about receiving compensation for your good deeds with being rewarded for your
Good deeds in the hereafter. But to get the full sense of the reward and the full reward, you won't get it in this life, the full reward will be in the hereafter. So you get part of it now, and all the rest of it you'll get later inshallah huhtala as a believer.
So, what is the absolute success? What is absolute success and absolute success and happiness? We find that in this verse, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, famines are the Heron in the halal region femen Zoo, and in a nutshell is the Hellfire, famine zoo. Whoever is moved away, whoever is moved away from the Hellfire would Hillel Jen, and he enters and he enters Gen.
Allah subhanho wa Taala concludes by saying for quite fers, he has succeeded. The true success is not to be admitted into the fire, but to be admitted into Jenna that is what it's all about. And that's why we are on the face of this earth. We are on the face of this earth to avoid entering the Hellfire and to be admitted into the agenda of Allah subhanho wa Taala
feminazi hanina religion. So why is that person successful, he's successful, because he has been saved from that which he hates. And he has been, and he has gained that which he has loved. So when you are saved from that which you are when you that you hate the most that you detest, and that you enter, you enter agenda that which you desire, and that which you yearn for. That is the ultimate success. Especially when we think about the seriousness of the Hellfire and the torment on the physical level and mental level of the Hellfire, you will escape all of that, and then you intergender which is perpetual, which is eternal. And then you enjoying its delight, its rivers, its
mentions in everything that Jenna has to offer. That is the true success. And that's why we need to always remind ourselves about gender and that's why the concepts of gender and jahannam are repeated so much in in the Quran, because that is what we are aiming for inshallah, who Thailand.
And that's why as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he, when he spoke about the believer, he said, this dunya for the believer is a surgeon signal mortman it is the prison of a believer, because the believer feels that he has been imprisoned from the real life, the real life agenda, the eternal life, where there will be no hunger, no thirst, no urinating, no defecating. There's she pleasure and happiness and bliss and enjoyment that is found in gender when hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen.
the more that a person occupies himself with this dunya The more he is distancing himself from the era and distancing himself from gender. So this is why we this is why men will know Rahim Allah who said, Hey, Mahalo to Allah. He said, walk us through ml, and the restraint of wishes, that we shouldn't put all of our emphasis and all of our focus on the dunya because the more focus that you have on dunya, and material gain, and its riches, and the positions that you can occupy in this dunya The more that you put effort into dystonia, the more that you are going to lose, lose sight and lose focus of the euro. So it's very important that we always have all of our attention to the F
to the Acura because that's the real life. Remembering this insha Allah who Thailand and that's why in the Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said will la him mal fakra Asha la come I don't fee for my own mother. They become poor, poverty stricken. The problem is I said I'm never feed that we will become an oma a nation, which is poverty stricken.
He said we're in a coma and tough to hide a coma. Dunya come after Tyler Montana cabella come see that the dunya opens up this world becomes very attractive to you.
That you look at this dunya and it's very attractive.
And very you know you become
you become focusing too much on the dunya that's what he fees month model manufacturer actually were in
a coma dunya can affect the heart Island and Cana publikum just as he did to those who came before us, those who came before us. They, they look at the dunya and they got preoccupied with the dunya.
And then he goes on and he says
for 10 FSU has come at an FSU, ha, and then you start competing, that you start competing for this dunya just as they competed for it competing. I need to have this much of the dunya this much wealth,
riches and another and all those things that the dunya offers, just as those that came before us competed
regarding it, federal helico can come home and it will destroy you just as it destroyed them. It will destroy your era, it will destroy the very reason why we are alive. And let's be reminded of that. And that is Allah subhanho wa Taala says one holla total Jin
I have not created the jinn or mankind except for worship. We are on the face of this earth to worship Allah azza wa jal, the Creator of the heavens a creator of the earth to submit our will to the will of Allah azza wa jal and that is what Islam is. Islam means submission and surrender and obedience towards Allah subhana wa tada and we must never lose focus of why we have been created and the purpose of life is to worship Allah azza wa jal
at dunya meluna the prophet SAW Selim said, he said this dunya This world is cursed, there is no real blessing in it. And dunya meluna manga rune Murphy her curse is whatever is in it, there is no blessing and whatever is in it in life, then he gives an exception in the crew law, except for remembrance of Allah. Anything that helps you remember Allah or makes you when, actually remember Allah, that's not curse in the crolla. One Manuela wylam and Mamata alleman, and the scholar and the students of knowledge, those people pursuing Islamic knowledge, there's Baraka, there's blessing in these things. So let's remember this inshallah huta Allah.
So, my dear brothers and sisters in Islam, sometimes it is best for a person to be in a state of poverty, to be in a state of *er,
or need than to be in a state of being wealthy. Because a person may be wealthy and his wealth might sit him astray. So always say Alhamdulillah for the state that you're in, praise Allah azza wa jal for the state that you are in for perhaps, if you are in a welfare state, in a better state, or in a state that you think is better for you, it's actually not better for you. And that's why Allah subhanahu wa tada Allah in the Quran says was into crochet and we're who are hired on Lancome it might be that you hate something but there is higher there is good in it for you. Well as unto him Boucher and and it may be that you love something, but it is bad for you. While La Jolla Alamo and
Tom latinum and Allah knows and you do not know. So let us always accept what Allah
has decreed for us inshallah. Now
the, the end part of this verse is woman hire to do Nia in lemme tell hooroo
that the life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception.
It's it's deception,
a deceiving thing, that there really isn't any this life isn't really something to.
to focus on. This is all fleeting. this dunya is fleeting, this dunya is passing on. Okay, and we're going to see some of the Hadith the prophet SAW Selim included in this chapter, to comparing saying to the believers to be like travelers to be like wayfarers or to be like strangers in this dunya in shallow
Tyler from amongst the verses that mmm now Rahim Allah Allahu taala. included. He says, When tattered enough stone, Mather taxi bajada, that no person knows what he will earn tomorrow, when they're tattered enough soon be a part of the intermode. And no person knows in what land he will die. Nobody knows where they will pass away.
Nobody knows when nobody knows
when their time is going to come. So remember, no we are him, Allah to Allah is reminding us in this chapter. That that's why we should always remember death, because we don't know when it's going to come to us. There is no,
me. Yes, the prophet SAW Selim, he said, most of my alma will live between 60 and 70. And some will surpass this age, but how many people we know of that die at very young age or are in their 20s or in their 30s or in their 40s. So that's why we need to remember remember that there's going by remembering this and knowing this, okay, by knowing this, then inshallah Allah will be better Muslims and better with our with regard to our deeds and our actions. You know, how many people have you know, so many things in life, so many mishaps and so many accidents and so many things that happen in our life is always can at any time be subjected to death. So, we have to remember this, so
that way we can meet Allah azza wa jal, and he is happy with us.
The next verse
that has been mentioned, though, the moment that we have Allahu taala, included,
is from surratt and hell, verse 61, and the previous verse that I recited was from sort of look, man, verse 34.
In Sultan, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, for either gentle home lair, you're stuck here on a sour when you're stuck at the moon. And when the term comes, neither can they delay, nor can they advance it an hour or a moment any when your time comes, when your time is up, your time is up. You cannot extend ask for an extension.
You can't ask for an extension. You know, you can't say to Moloch remote when it comes. Can you just give me one more moment that say your moment is up? There's no more moment, the moment that's already been decreed that you will die at such and such time such and such hour minute second, that's your time. That's it. And that's what Allah subhanaw taala is making very clear to us.
This next verse, Allah subhanho wa Taala says install of alimony if you own from verses nine to 11 yeah you have Lavina Amano. latterly come Anwar Lu Kumara. Allah to come and decree law are you have believed Allah is addressing the believers. And he says, Let not your properties you are unwell you will
lead to will have come to come Why Allah, Allah to come and your children, your outlet, your children, and the karela do not allow for your wealth do not allow for your children to divert you from what from the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal and the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal first and foremost here, it's your obligations, your obligations, your saw that and you'll see em and use a cat in your hedge in your things that you are obligated in doing. lateral hichem lateral hichem Mr. lucam Allah Allah ducommun decree law woman your file the liquor analyst practices, and whoever does that whoever allows for their wealth or their children to get in the way of worshipping Allah
azza wa jal. So now for example, when the vote comes, they get preoccupied with their children or they get preoccupied with their business, you know, so they don't allow for everything to revolve around their Salah, but they know their salah and their obligations and their duties revolve around everything else. This is where this is the problem. So a lot of times women here file velyka who ever allows for this to happen
Delica for Ola ecoman ha soon, they are the losers. They are for all ecohome and Hassan Hassan is loss. They are the ones who are going to be in loss. Again, they could be in loss in the in this life.
There's no Baraka, no blessing in their wealth in their time. Okay? Allah subhanaw taala can send them many afflictions and and hardships and trials because of them not fulfilling their duty towards alized origin. And it could well be the loss of the hereafter without being admitted into Hellfire for a period of time of being a believer over there, and then coming up to gender or going into a lesser level in gender.
Now, Allah subhanahu wa taala says, For oligo homall Hi, Sharon. And then we're un*able Mim Rasul Kanako, Allah subhanaw taala is reminding us to spend in charity in fact, and in fact, spend in charity were unfaithful mym rasakan acoem mill khopoli. Tia had a harder como remote before this comes to you. Because this comes to you. That's what happens you don't go to it, it will come to you.
This approach is molekule mode. And by the way, the right word to use for the Angel of Death is molecule mode. And not Hezbollah in Israel
is said to be the name given to medical mode as we find in the in some previous scripture, but Allahu Island, Allah azza wa jal refers to the angel of death as medical mode. So when referring to the Angel of Death it's best to refer to him as medical mode. The Angel of Death means tabula
rasa como remote for your cool before death comes to you and you say so spend for death comes to you and you say fire cool Rob biloela hurt any illa ajilon curry my load my rub If only you delayed me to just a short period of time Ajay Karim
Allah to just give me a little bit more respect for a little while for a sudden Dhaka. So I can give sadaqa akumina solid hand so I can be from amongst the righteous. When you are here Allah who enough sun either Aloha, Allah says, Allah subhanahu wa taala says, And Allah grants respond to none. Others not given extension to anybody. When he's appointed time meaning death comes very clearly. Allah will not give anybody respect.
And Allah is all aware of what you do. Allah subhanahu wa taala concludes by saying in Allah who hobby room be man time alone. Another verse that is mentioned here is had either either home remote collar up big rune. And then Allah smart Allah says, when death comes to one of them, and he says, My Lord, he says, My Lord rugby your own
meaning send me back, or build your own. The iE armello saw your hand female direct, so that I may do good in that which I left behind. But it will be said color no color in her Kelly Martin who are elucha No, it is not a word that he speaks. He's just saying that. And then Allah subhanho wa Taala says, women were raw, he had women, what are you home berzon Ella, yummy you buy soon. And behind them is a barossa a barrier until the day when they will be resurrected. So when you enter death, you enter into a life into a period is called l barossa. See in life, we have different periods that we go to, that we go through as humans, we have the period of the womb, we have the period of the
dunya we have the period of Alibaba, which is the life when you were in in the state of the grave were you in the grave you are dead. And then we have the afterlife. There the four stages of a person's of a person's life.
So another another verse
or continuing on
for either new few of you sore fella and sab Urbina, whom you may even well, yet the SIR alone. Allah subhanho wa Taala says, until the day when they will be resurrected. That's the buzzer. Then the trumpet is blown. Then the trumpet is blown.
When that happens, there'll be no kinship among them that day, nor will they ask of one another. Nobody will ask about anybody when the when the horn is blown a sore
For Ola aka Furman sacoolas malwares in who for Ola aka homophone whoever scales are going to be heavy, they are the successful ones.
And as Muslims we believe in the scales of the hereafter where our good deeds and bad deeds are weighed up
elemis n which is known as the Misa and the scales,
for olayinka homophone woman Hufford malware z Ufa, oh la, la Vina, hasura and fusa home fee, Johanna mahali, Dune and whoever, and those who scales of good deeds are light. They are those who lose their own selves in inhale will they abide a very serious verse. A man would never have him Allahu taala included a number of hadiths a number of preferred traditions that deal with this subject and deal with this topic. The first Hadith is the hadith of Abdullah ibn aroma of the Allahu anhu man may Allah be pleased with Abdullah and Rama, his father of the Allahu anhu man.
He says that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he took hold of his shoulders above the life of Omar. And he said to him, couldn't fit dunya Kanika Hari, be in this dunya as if you are a stranger, or
a wire bureau sabby or like a traveler. This is how we need to be in this dunya strangers, we're not here for long, okay? And when you're traveling, when you think of yourself as a traveler, you know that you're coming back home, you know that this place as a traveler, as a person that you go in to another country or the city, you know that you're coming back. So the believer just believes that this world is temporary, it's transitory, you know, when you travel by airplane and you go into transit, you just stay somewhere for a little while, then you catch another plane. Okay, that's what it is. For a believer we're just here in transit. And this dunya and what we do in it, in this
transitory life, dictates where we will be in the hereafter inshallah, who to Island
and then he said, the prophet SAW what can or cannot even Rama what the Allahu anhu Maya called Eben Rama. Rama is to say this, even Rama is to say,
and some people say that the prophet SAW Selim
Eben Rama is to say, either us either am saitta, feller tanzu affiliate amphitheatre Saba.
He said, when the evening time comes, don't expect that you're going to live to the morning
because you could die that evening. That means don't have this hope that you're going to live to the next to the next morning other words, make sure that you could go to sleep and you do you've done all your duties towards allies though agenda in case Allah as the weather decides to keep your soul
to not allow for your soul to return back to you. Because you know when you're sleeping This is known as the minor death. Minor death sleep is the minor death.
Either I'm zeta Fela tanto de Saba is a Sparta for Latin puzzlemaster. And when you get up in the morning, don't wait for the evening. Don't expect the evening to come about. Don't think that you're going to live to the evening and when you have this mindset, what's going to happen?
You're going to now make sure that your deeds are good because you know why not make it to the evening. So a Muslim is in consistent and constant checking of themselves checking that they are fulfilling their obligations towards the lives of a job.
Well, whose means a hatikvah Lima Radhika, woman hyah Tikka Lima tikka, and then Eben amaravati Allah Juan Houma, he said, and when you survive to the morning, do not expect to live until the evening and while in good health, do good deeds before you fall sick.
And while you are alive, do good deeds before death strikes you. So when you have the Health and Human delay, you have the health in your mobile in your active and you're able to do so much now as a healthy person. Do as much as you can because you don't know when you are going to be you know, some some you're going to last battle is going to trial you with some sort of illness or sickness. So too as much
as you can, while you have the health before you become immobile, or disabled, or you have some sort of illness, which, you know, does not allow you to do much, and likewise while you are alive, contribute with sincerity, to different causes to doing righteous deeds before death comes about. And that's it. Because once death comes about, the only thing that's going to benefit you are those things that you leave behind that the brothel seller told us about whether it's
knowledge that you leave behind, whether it's a ongoing charity that you leave behind, whether it's a righteous child that makes two out for you, other than that you're on your own and those actions that you accumulated, the good deeds that you accumulated, while you were alive.
The previous Hadith that I just mentioned to you is found so here buddy.
Now this next Hadith is about writing your will, writing your will. And the reason why even will know we included this hadith in this chapter is because again, he don't know when you're going to die.
And the prophet SAW Selim in this hadith of Abdullah ibn Omar Abdullah Juan Houma, that is Phantom Buhari and Muslim.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Maha Kumari in Muslim in LA who Shamoon ucv Joby to Layla Taney Illallah, WA Seiya, to who mokuba to Nanda, it is the duty of a Muslim who has something which is to be given as a request not to have it for two nights without executing a written will.
And in the narration of Sahara Muslim, it is narrated as three nights, so not one, the ration says two nights. And when the ration says three nights, in honor of your loved one whom has said, since I heard the Messenger of Allah say this, I have never spent a night without having my will with me. So therefore, if you have something to request something to, to put in your will, let's say you have money that you owe somebody, somebody owes you money, or you would like for example, to give part of your wealth not exceeding a third of it to some charity organization, then put it in a will and keep it with you. Keep it with you. Now, for those of you who are living in a western country, sometimes
it is best to to actually have your will endorsed through the authorities or through the government. So it's one that is recognized by the government. Because you might have members of the family who will not honor your will or not honor for your, for your for the things that you leave behind
those things that your family can inherit.
They may they may not be distributed in accordance with Islamic law, and handler in Islamic law, we have a whole section, a whole chapter dedicated to bequests or inheritance law. So Alhamdulillah there are lawyers in western countries, okay. whereby they will write a contract, whereby ensuring that your wealth is distributed in accordance with the law of Islam, with the law of Islam. So
that's something to consider, especially living in a non non Muslim country. So pretty much in this hadith.
The prophet SAW Selim is saying that if you have something to build, don't allow for two, two nights or three nights to go past without having it written somewhere documented. So if anything was to happen to you, it can you know, people can refer back to that will in childhood back to that document.
The next video that I want to share with you the man with him, Allahu taala. Included is about doing good deeds.
Before seven things may overtake you seven things. It's the hadith of Abu huraira, the Allahu Akbar, and we find it in cinema, Timothy, Abu huraira, the loved one who he reported the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, hasten to do good deeds before you are overtaken by one of the seven afflictions he said bad euro bill Amelie Saba. Hello, Tom the Runa Illa for Krugman sia then he mentioned the seven things he says then give a warning. Then give a warning. He said are you waiting for poverty, which will make you unmindful of devotion. So give before poverty overtakes you.
So give before you are overtaken by poverty.
Instead of No, I mean, yes, you're doing, you're doing well right now financially, but you never know when the tables can turn or the tides can turn. So that's the first one before poverty comes about, which will make you unmindful of being devotion devoted.
The next one is prosperity, which will make you corrupt, or you might become rich and your riches might corrupt you. So
be quick and hasten to do good, before you become rich and your richness and your wealth will by virtue from that which you are obligated to do.
This, the The third one is or a disease which will disable you, again, the good before you were overcome by some sort of illness, or disease. The next one, number four, or senility, which will make you mentally unstable, you might become insane. I've actually come across a situation whereby an older man became Muslim. He became Muslim, and not even a week later, he became insane. That's it. So he really only had that one week to do some righteous deeds, but the good thing for him is, you know, and hamdulillah he embraced Islam. So, senility which will make you mentally unstable, or the next one, number five or sudden deaths, sudden deaths.
And this is also one of the signs of the Day of Judgment. In a multiple fetch, that people die suddenly, heart attacks, okay, that can happen. Sudden Death, which will take you all of a sudden, number six is at the jail, who is the worst expected mercy hood that jack can come about?
Okay, and number seven, the hour the Day of Judgment. Number seven is the day of judgment, who knows when that judgment is going to take place? So, so be quick to do good deeds before one of these seven things come about?
In the next Hades. There is also found in sunon activity. It's the hadith of Abu hora de Allahu anhu, or da whereby the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, A Kuru vichara has the mullahs that Jani Allah moat. He said,
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, remember more often the destroyer of pleasures, meaning death. Always remember the destroyer of pleasures, and that his death, death will overtake us sooner or later.
again, being hateful, and talking about death,
checks man from being lost in the worldly pleasures and seductions.
The next Hadees talks about the blowing of the trumpet twice, and the importance of maximum maximizing greetings upon the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It's the hadith of obey even care about the loved one who Allah and we find this hadith. We find this hadith in sunon activity. It's a very interesting Hadith.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
Obi even covered the Allahu anhu reported that when one third of the night would pass, when a third of a mile would pass,
the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would get up and call out people remember Allah
and then he would say, the Raji for the Raji fair,
and he which is the first blowing of the trumpet, okay, has come. The Raj affair has come followed by a rod or rod effect is the second blowing.
And we find this in one of the chapters of the Quran and talking about arogya and the ride differ.
Yo, yo Makoto, for Raja that bow Harada.
So, the two blowing of the trumpets,
and then he goes on.
And he says,
this has approached with all its compromised with with all It comprises, death has approached with all that it comprises, I said, a messenger of Allah, so I sell him. I frequently invoke Allah to elevate your rank. How much of my supplications Should I devote to you? You know, sending Peace and blessings upon the Prophet Mohammed sighs lm
I, and then the prophet SAW Selim.
he, you may devote as much as you wish. When I suggested a quota, he said, Do whatever you wish, but it will be better for you, if you increase it, I suggested half and he said, Do whatever you wish, but it will be better, it will be better for you to increase it. I suggested two thirds and he said, Do whatever you wish, but it will be better for you if you increase it. I said, shall I devote all of my supplications, invoking Allah to elevate your rank, He then said, then you will be freed from your worries, and your sins will be forgiven.
So the importance of sending
and maximizing greetings upon the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
And in this Hadith, we have the
about the the to blowing of the trumpet of the sore, and the first we'll throw the earth and its mountains into tremendous into tremendous convergence, annihilating all life, and just disrupting the entire physical structure of the universe. And the second one, the second blowing, is after an indefinite period of time that only Allah azza wa jal knows, to the period between the first blow and the second blows. I love who I am, as for the timing of it, but this will pretty much mark the Resurrection Day or Yeoman PMF and bring forth the whole scenario of The Last Judgement. That's when that's when the second trumpet blowing of the second trumpet.
Now, regarding maximizing sending the, you know,
blessings upon prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, there is a verse in the Quran regarding this in the law, how MLA kata who use aluna Allah Nabhi that Allah and His angels sent
supplications in greetings upon the Prophet Mohammed Salah Salem, Allah says yeah, you have Latina man. And he
he says to the believers, yeah, you have Latina ammonoids solu Ali, he was certainly more Taslima send peace and blessings upon upon him. So this is also an instruction and then we find in
the next chapter that mmm now we are him Allahu taala included is
Bab Bab zerah to Cabo Larijani when aku as
the desirability of visiting graves for men and what they should say. The first Heidi three mentions is the heartbeat of bora bora bora, bora bora, gala one and who.
whereby he says that the message of us are seldom he said, come to know hey, two commands era tilaka boo, boo ha, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at one stage prohibited and forbade for Muslims to visit the graves. It was not allowed once upon a time during Islam, for Muslims to visit the graveyards. He said I used to prohibit you from visiting the graveyard that now you can visit them. Now you can visit them.
this there was a Navy, there was a prohibitionist there now there is a command and the LMS said whenever you have a new e that is followed by a command, that equals is too bad. That means it's desirable, so forbidden. It's completely saying dude, therefore it's desirable to visit the graves. It's desirable.
In another Hadith, in another generation,
there is fantasias Muslim, the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said, Whoever wants to visit a graveyard, let him do so because it reminds us of the hereafter in in the Metro Vancouver Acura that when you visit the graveyards, it's a good thing because it makes you remember the Acura and the Acura is is the hereafter and every Muslims here after or every person's here after his death. Because once you die, you have entered into the realm of the Acura, you have entered into the realm of the Hereafter, because that's when the questioning of the grave takes place when you are questioned by the two angels Moncure and nicaea. And you are asked, you know who is your Lord who is
your rub? What is your your What is your religion, your faith and who is your prophet? And that's the the three questions that you asked get us in the grave.
Again, visiting the graves is the sooner the Runa may have different regarding females visiting the graves between those who say it's not allowed for women to visit the graves and those who say it is allowed and the soundest opinion, the most correct opinion that is closest to the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam is that women are allowed to visit the graves as long as they adhere to the correct dress code and the etiquettes and the manners to be observed when when a woman is at the grave at the graveyards. So
like I said, there is scholarly it's a fifth he matter where there is difference of opinion amongst all that Matt regarding zero through COBOL. But in saying that, of course, women are not to follow the funeral procession to the graveyard. Okay, following the funeral procession to the graveyard is a is a something that has been disallowed according to one narration.
And Rama rajala one who, you know, when he spoke about death, he said in a cafe Bill multimo, wherever, because death in itself is an admonition. You don't need words you don't need a lecture. when when when you go to the graveyard and you know somebody's death. That in itself is a lesson that in itself reminds us, okay, of the Acura. I saw your loved one reported that whenever it was her turn to spend with the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam, he used to go to the back here and here is the graveyard of Medina. eldercare is the graveyard of Medina. And he would go there at the last part of the night. And he would say, may you be safe abode of the believing people. What you
have been promised has come to you. You are tarry till tomorrow. And certainly we shall follow you If Allah Allah wills, our law, forgive the inmates of the
market. So there is a doula when you visit the graveyard there was a specific glad to say, and we should all know this. Because at one point or another we visit, we're going to be visiting the grave the graves
in the hadith of Bora Bora, the loved one who he reported, and this hadith is found in Sahih Muslim that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he used to teach them the words of Sahaba whenever they came out to visit the graveyard to say, as salaamu Assalamu alaykum Allah Dr. Minelli meaning Assalamu alaikum Allah Dr. Minami Nene when muslimeen were in in sha Allah will become law upon us Allah Helena wala kumala fear as Allah Helena wala comilla fear. So what this hadith means, may you be safe inmates of the abodes of the believers and the Muslims meaning and muslimeen and if Allah pleases or if Allah wills we shall follow you. We pray to Allah for wellbeing for ourselves and for
you. That's to do it and you can find this in his non Muslim you can find it in fortress of the Muslim that talks about the the visiting of the graves and what to say when you visit the graveyards.
And interestingly, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught this to shakeela whiner she said
when I come to visit the graves okay what do I say in her being a female he didn't say to her you're not allowed to visit the graves that's one of the the arguments that throw them at us for women being allowed to visit the graves teaching outside a loved one How about
the next chapter that mmm no we Rahim Allahu taala included and I'm going to conclude with just a couple of highlights from this chapter is that is the chapter of the abomination of longing for this
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basically one should not wish for this. Danny it's disliked to wish to die.
And this hadith mmm no Rahim Allah to Allah included is the hadith of Abu huraira Allah one who Allah.
The prophet SAW Selim, he said
later Mana hadoken remote. He said that none of you should wish for this. None of you should wish for this. If he is righteous, perhaps he may add to his good works. And if he is a sinner, possibly he may repent. Because if you're a good person, he might do more good deeds and get a higher ranking gender or you might be a sinful person and you're wishing for this
You haven't properly repented, so that Allah extends your life and you repent sincerely. So, you should not wish for this.
If however you insist if if you are struck with a calamity that is very unbearable, very trialing a calamity, a hardship, a very hard moment in your life, then are you allowed to ask for this? Listen to this annex Hadith. It's the hadith of ns even Malik, probably a loved one who, and it's found in Bukhari and Muslim whereby the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Let none of you wish for this on account of an affliction that befalls him. If he has no alternative, then let him say, Allah humma Genie McKenna will hire to hire an Li, our law, our law good give me life, so long as life is good for me. What was funny either can achill warfare to hiren Lee, and take away my life if death
is good for me.
So basically what you're saying, You're making a die Oh Allah if death.
If death is is good for me, then make me pass away.
If this is not good for me, and in other words, you know our law what is best for me, then,
you know, give me life and don't take away my life. That's what you are allowed to say, but to say our love, give me this. I will I want you to take away my life. This is not from the etiquettes in the manners that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught us
so inshallah who Thailand's wanted to
end up with these two Hadees that mmm no we Rahim Allah to Allah included. Allah hota hai la Island wa Salatu was Salam ala with Erica Elena Bina Mohamed Salah monokuma rahmatullahi wa barakatuh