Bilal Assad – The Mercy Of Allah Through Our Parents

Bilal Assad
AI: Summary © The National TV show discusses the importance of hate and the culture of peace in the United States, emphasizing the need for parents to be strong and powerful. The speakers touch on the use of words to signal the importance of parents in one's life and how they can be used to overcome fear and anxiety. They also discuss the struggles of parents and children dealing with evil behavior and the importance of family ties and avoiding criticized behavior.
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Mohammed Abu Dhabi more

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Welcome to the national TV show

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brothers and sisters in

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my witness stand before you when I say to you that I do love you from my heart for the sake of Allah as my brothers and my sisters in Islam

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for we would love someone else for the sake of Allah and they should say to them as the prophets like Selim sensor,

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and I do love you for the sake of Allah.

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What a beautiful brotherhood. And what a beautiful value of Islam for a loss of Hannah, which I have to say to us love each other,

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and only hate each other for the sake of Allah. You don't hate each other for worldly things, or because of jealousy or envy or any such cause.

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But rather, would not sleep any night except that we have love for our brothers and sisters and never hate anyone at all.

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My brothers and sisters in Islam,

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I believe this topic, which I'm about to present before you

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is a very, very important topic.

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A very extremely important reminder,

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you will die.

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And we all have parents.

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And some of us are parents, and some of us will be parents. Some of you have sisters will one day be mothers

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and brothers already fathers.

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And then some of you do not have parents. And some of you have one member of the parent even either a father or other

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brothers and sisters.

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One of the virtues and wonderful mysteries of Islam

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is that a lot of cannabis

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has made the greatest right after the rights of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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the rights of the parents

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for him to be merciful towards us on the Day of Judgment for him to be pleased with us on a day of judgment.

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For him to make us into paradise, when we have done our good deeds

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is only when our parents are also pleased with us.

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So the listing of us brothers and sisters without

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the pleasure of our parents upon us, when our father or mother st was Allah

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May Allah be pleased with your

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and you will be pleased with you. And you have already

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given him his rights, that there is nothing between between you and heaven. There is nothing between you and paradise to enter with the first group that enters

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and you will not be delayed whatsoever.

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I bring this copy because many of our brothers and sisters do not have the values and virtues and rights of the parents.

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The great destroyed immediately after

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the parents because

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all the time when he talks about his rights. He follows that up with talking about the rights of the parents

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and worship

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And the good towards your parents

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understood me

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that she must thank me and thank your parents.

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And your board has decreed and commanded the Jewish people, be cheerful towards your parents.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala always

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in the same verse when he talks about his rights, the rights of the parents, as

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the worship of

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until the gratitude towards the parents has been met.

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And one of the greatest and most amazing hobbies

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which intrigued me

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one of the companions of the province of Alberta.

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And he said to me out of

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shame to

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witness that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah and the Messenger of Allah.

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And I prayed my prayers

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and I produced

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the wealth

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to the house of

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the province.

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whoever dies on these, these characters, he will be given the day of judgment to the prophets

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and the martyrs of Islam on the Day of Judgment,

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like these two things together,

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so long as he or she does not disobey

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document and

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so if you did all the things which Allah commanded you to do and the best of those compulsory things,

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if you get old, you will not

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until you please your parents. This is why the proper

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format to be pleased with you. It is when your parents are also pleased with

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the province of the US Senate once was climbing up to the minute we delivered the sermon Friday.

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And then

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on the first on the second step, and then

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when you finish the asking, why did you say those three Emmys

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came to me and he said to me,

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which means May the nose of the person be wrapped in dust in soil, this is

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my name is mentioned in front of him.

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So say brothers and sisters,

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which means peace be upon.

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Secondly, he said to me may be rubbed in dust.

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He reaches his parents in old age, when he lives until his parents is in the back is arched and they owe the wizard

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and he still has not been to paradise.

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Yet he dies with his parents after all this time they read

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and they were still pleased with him and he died and he still does not say anything he says

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the important one is that he said

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he reaches his parents in old age and still does walk into paradise. Meaning

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including amoxil

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are shocked and amazed to how could it be believable

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when you

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It is guaranteed for you to enter gym.

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Even after all of that, there's nothing that beats

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the other thing that people who do not have a heart at all, no not at all.

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Or recite to the,

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to the parents in their rights upon us.

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Which means Angelo has decreed that you wish

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to treat your parents in kindness and goodness,

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especially when they grow older and age, yourself at any time or at any stage, even stay the single word

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that thought that signal

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that whisper

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when you say,

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do not even say hello to them.

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However, say a nice kind word to them, threaten your life,

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and lower the window humiliation in front of them

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out of mercy towards them,

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and say, Oh my God, give mercy to my parents the same way they give the message to me when I was a child.

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In this verse,

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first of all, makes the worship of him equal almost

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to the obedience and kindness towards your parents.

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So without the obedience of kindness of your parents, the worship of a lot means nothing. Secondly, Allah tells us and expresses to us that no matter how angry we get, without parents and how agitated we may get with our parents, under any circumstances whatsoever, we should never use the word

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which is the slightest and smallest and most in conspicious language that any person could use or signal that

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that if they were to be any single word,

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or gesture, that is less than this word.

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And they prefer to say

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is disobedience to the disadvantage.

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And the losses rather than that you must use kind words. Not only that,

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yourself in front of your parents, which means do not try to feel or act

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in any way, shape or form or action.

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In fact, the companions of the Prophet SAW Selim said, the way that we used to address our parents was like a slave servant, who has committed a bad path towards his mastering king, he will stand in front of his mastering King with his head, in shame.

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parents, brothers and sisters,

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no matter what happens, you must know

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before yourself, before you,

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before your children

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and before any other thing in the world, except for Allah and His messenger.

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Even before yourself, brothers and sisters, and then

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after treating them well.

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Then also in your, in your prayers throughout your life and even after they suffocate and say Allah give mentioned to my parents the same way they administered towards me when I was a child. So Allah is reminding you that you will once upon a time the baby at a time brothers and sisters

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when you are completely dependent upon your parents, everything, even the VCs that can help with you after you hate. You are completely different.

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intent on your mother or your father to cleanse you.

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Otherwise, you would have received rashes.

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You completely dependent upon your parents when you ate.

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And when you cry, they would wake up in the middle of the night

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with the heart pounding and feel that he may, he may get sick. But there's something dramatic shall happen to you.

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And then she will come and breastfeed you.

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And for those

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who are not,

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and those

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who do not have the mothers feel when they breastfeed their children.

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They feel extended, they feel excruciating pain when the child begins to suffer from their *.

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First of all, she has to train him or her the baby to breastfeed properly, they bought away at the breast. And they settled in such a manner that the mother begins to scream and cry like a baby.

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There is a sharp, intense pain, like

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brother or sister.

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And she helped you in the stomach pain and agony for nine months. And then breastfed for a long time and raised you

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and your father, who was raising, waking up at night, and waking up in the morning, struggling and striving to work to bring forth the wealth and the money even to buy nappies for you. And to buy the food for you, and to take you to the doctors to look up to you in every way possible.

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That did not have to perish because of the mercy

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that you would find them struggling

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and placing up for themselves, even when they were in need

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is because of the overwhelming

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towards you.

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And I recall

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a story of a man who came to the province of Alaska and

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my father takes my money

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and he is oppressing me this way. So the purpose.

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So he went to

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his father

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before he came

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when the old man of the Father, this man comes to you then ask him what was he saying? in secret?

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So when the old man who is walking on a stick with white

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plastic, why are you taking an oppression your sons

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asking me upon his mother and his children, his brothers and sisters,

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tell me something else I'm not interested in. I want you to tell me what you're speaking to yourself. As you're coming here with your son in secret.

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And then the father looked at the process of Arsalan and cried.

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And he said to him,

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I was reciting a poem and myself singing. And he said,

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to me, man,

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to feed

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from the No.

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Which means

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I nurtured you when you were a child.

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And then I supported you when you became an adult.

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When any normal person would visit you in sickness, I would wake up in distress, fearing that death will come upon you.

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in agony of your sickness, he was

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with the same pain by looking at you but you have been hammering, which you are feeling as you're in front of me.

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And so put you in front of myself.

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And then, as soon as you grow up to reach that age,

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and have pride in your region.

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You rewarded me

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with harshness, agony, pain, and distress. And so you became selfish with your wealth against me and treated me nothing like except like a neighbor would treat another neighbor

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when a neighbor has passed

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What does it do for you, he says, Hello, good morning. Good bye. And that's about all you can get from a neighbor. And so you were selfish with your wealth.

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At that point,

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he looked up.

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And he took off.

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And he said to him,

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thank you, all for your father, you and your wealth.

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The gratitude about parents is far beyond their imagination.

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And you will one day be Harris and you will go through the same thing.

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There was a man who was in the market and his son was washing away, was smacking him and hitting him and dragging him on the ground. And then the people come up to

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me with

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what's wrong with you, and

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shame on you.

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Oh, man, and he said to them, leave him leave my son alone.

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While like this is exactly the same place where I used to fetch my father.

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So the processor that said Mr. metha, Dino to them, the way you treat others in the same way you are in the future going to be treated.

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If you treat your parents back today, that allow punish you one day by giving you children, which will do the same thing to you. At that moment, you have no one to blame except for yourself, brother or sister.

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Who says there are three verses in the Quran that come together with two commandments.

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One commandment cannot be accepted without. Instead, the first commandment is

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the messenger.

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The messenger.

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The second verse,

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perform your pray.

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Your prayer is not accepted. And if you do not pray.

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And the third verse

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thank me. And thank you parents. So if you do not think your parents

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one of the signs of the last hour

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is that the promise of love

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which is important to us, there will come a time

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when the US

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there will come a time when the man

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his wife, and his mother

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and behind

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generous to his friend

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and rejects the spa. And this is our state today brothers and sisters.

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You are generous to the to your father, and stingy

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to your wife is Your wish is my command.

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But to your mother,

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why don't you just go and visit your grave?

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Get over it now. You're working on your stick, let me get on with my life.

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And this is how some men today they go and they choose the daughter of some people. Of course she has rights

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as a form of reminder, and the meaning of this adage is true and correct. There was a man

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and he was dying. And he said

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this man

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prays with us,

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and it's been

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they said yes, he said

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so they called his mother. And when she came to me and asked her

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how do you feel towards your son?

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And she said, I'm not pleased with him. He asked her why? She said because he puts his work before

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he puts his wife before me.

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forgive yourself. It is because of you that

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she said

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to go and get some wood he got

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out of

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the way

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My son, and he said, If you do not forgive him that Allah will torment him in the fire in the hereafter.

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So then I forgive him and I forgive him.

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When he has died, he returned back and said, he has now gone.

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And then when the Prophet went, and they buried him on the head of his grave, and he said to the people,

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whoever puts his wife in front of his mother, they made the curse of a lobby on them.

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Nobody can reach the virtue of the mother. And

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she said, Yes.

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in obedience

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against the wife, and he said, the husband,

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she said, Who is the one with the greatest obedience against the husband,

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while the man is is the one to obey as a wife is because Justin, Justin

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has the right against gets the man before anyone else. And he said his mother, his mother,

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no to put anything before the mother, or the Father.

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And this is when a man

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who has the greatest rights to get right against me, he said,

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he said, he said,

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three times, he said, he said,

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so if a person we purchase,

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and there is a matter before

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his work or something of him, but he knows that displeases his mother, what should he do?

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If you say to me,

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I don't know, my mother, my mother will say to you,

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three times,

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never Place your mother and your wife on the same scale

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as other rights, but not before your mother and not before your father.

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And he said to

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me, understood,

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and we have reminded people to remember, there's a goodness

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agony upon agony, stress upon stress and pain upon pain when he was in her stomach.

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And then for two years in breastfeeding, and nurturing. So thank you, thank you parents.

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Imagine to make partners with me.

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There is no obedience to any single baby. If it means disobeyed, disobey Allah. So if you're, for example, sitting there.

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And I say,

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son, come, come watch this. Look at this fashion parade that's now being held on television.

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Then you have not only disobey the laws,

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but you have also disobey your parents by assisting them in that which is

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how should you address them My dear brothers and sisters, in addressing of them, it must be also lenient, and respectful, even if they want

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you to do the bad things, because

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even if

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do not have babies

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however accompanied in life, which is kind of reasonable.

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This believers, Jews, Christians, hypocrites, whatever atheists, whatever you want,

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do not

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a company then is that which is kind and reasonable. Not so what about the parents who are believers in?

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you come up to them, and they say, my mother, my father, I respect you, and you are my parents. And I am ashamed to come and tell you something like this for you have taught me and you have raised me, please not feel offended, if I tell you such a thing. Yes, you have to make an introduction, brothers and sisters, take your time, make that introduction they deserve it.

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And whatever I do in my life,

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however, my parents have also told me this,

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that if I see you doing something wrong, then I must care for you and not want to see you being punished by a loss.

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So, I remind you, my parents was that which you have reminded me, Allah subhanaw taala has made this

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and I hope that insha Allah, you can leave it, and then you kiss them and say, I apologize if I hurt your feelings,

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and say to them, so please excuse me, if I cannot sit with you. And walk away, let them say whatever they want to say brothers and sisters, I doubt if they'll return back to say anything bad.

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But if you come back, and you forget the times when you are disobedient to Allah, just for example, grow up and become religious.

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and treat your parents and come up to them and say, as the You are the king

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and say, That's enough.

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All you have to do is question

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which means, in other words, and I've heard this with my kids,

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the one lady, one woman, she called up about 50 years old, crying.

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And she said, I'm crying because I need someone to speak to.

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Me, we do everything for him.

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However, he bashes us and he hits us, is with us.

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And now he wants to throw us

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a Muslim.

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This is something extremely shameful and disobedient to Allah, you will not enter Paradise, if you are such a person, you want to think better,

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and worse than the best.

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Because even animals, they respect their mothers and the mothers nurture that, and children.

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There are three conditions to the way you must treat your parents, you must put your mother and your father is pleasure, meaning that they pleasure to be pleased, you must put it before anyone else, even before yourself. That's the first condition of obedience. Meaning, if there is a matter that pleases you, and your mother or your father, then you must do it against yourself to please your mother or father, even if it means agony and pain towards you. Because when you when you were a child

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pain and agony and sickness just in order to so that he can get a good life.

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And the mother prevented herself from entertaining yourself

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with good and well.

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Self in order to sacrifice for yourself and your father, your father,

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to teach you what you know now and to raise it to what you have now, when they were

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completely weak. And now he was just assisted a little bit when they still have a bit of a bit of strength.

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I recall a little story of one man he was trying to argue with his wife. And he said to her, they came in front of the sheath, and each one of them that were claiming that the child is this. So the husband said

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he has been shocked because I carried him before she carried.

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So she replied I said, you carry these feelings, and I carried it in pain and agony for nine months. So then the father the husband said, Well, I am the one who delivered him before she delivered

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And then she replied to him,

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he delivered him out of temptation and lust, and the limited amount of agony and pain.

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in other words, the point being

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the mother before the Father, but without forgetting the Father, and the mother,

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when you do not know when you have forgotten,

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you put them before yourselves, because your mother's foot is above your head.

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And beware of never placing

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other people before

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and also to your wife, for example, or to any other person. And I say the why, because my the sisters, this is a lesson for you to learn, because I feel for you. And I advise you as a brother, because I want you to enter gender. And Allah wants to forgive you and make you into gender.

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By doing this, and with your Eman and your proper leadership, without a person your wife said, from the beginning with that, which is the best like a loving parent, like a loving person, because she has. So you must advisor like a father, she has lived her mother, so you must nurture and look after her like a mother, and she has a brother, so you must be towards your leader like a brother, say to her from the beginning.

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My wife,

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you and I can never get into paradise without my mother and father being pleased.

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Because I can never enter Paradise without my father being pleased with me. And if you displace my mother or father, then I will be displeased with you.

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And you will not be to paradise.

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my sisters,

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look after this.

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Do not displease your your husband's parents, similarly of husbands, do not displease your mother, your wife's parents either,

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because you will lose your respect. But before that, the Father, the husband is responsible for his parents forever. And he's also responsible for you, is there not displeased his mother or father because you become displeased with you. You went into paradise

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of the children becoming the kings and masters of their own parents, he said

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there will come a time when the mother will give birth to a child and they don't have to be like a master against him

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to come

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today, the daughter or the son come from school from university acting so intellectual so educated after their parents without them they wouldn't have got this education. And they come back to the

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Good morning, my mother

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I am educated.

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But without them you have not reached this position.

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The daughter cannot touch the dishes. Because she's

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the sun is got some cars to look for to sell

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is going to save up his money because gonna get married

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for 100 bucks.

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And this is disobedience to them to a boss.

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You should serve your parents.

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You should wash their feet and massage them

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and use the system and everything of your mind and your ability. Otherwise, the same thing will happen to you when you get married.

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And you will not be blessed to new educational You're welcome. This is what you think there are many

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scholars have talked about the

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life of misery. And I've seen it with my eyes.

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that many people

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many of

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the parents because of a woman in the love and the government very far away from the parents and move away far away. They tried to change their home numbers so that parents can not get in contact with them because they're afraid that the parents might ask them for something.

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And then they try to hide their wealth.

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And they lie to their parents about how much savings they have.

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And they imagine the parents and the look after them.

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They live a life of misery and many of them end up divorced.

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And I've seen with my own eyes and allies, my witness, brothers and sisters, of brothers and sons and daughters, who made their parents throughout their lives, they are living such a beautiful life. And some of them,

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it will not allow them, I wish that I could be in their life, I wish that I could feel the state of happiness which they are feeling.

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Believe in happiness and tranquility. And this is a reward.

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The second condition towards your obedience to your parents.

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Everything whether you like it or not, someone does it is not a sin, or it is out of your ability, whether you like it or not.

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So the

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they said, Have you asked him for permission to get into jihad, Jihad?

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And he said, Yes, he said,

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he said

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to him returned back and make them laugh the same way that you make them cry.

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So the parents

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are the people who must make happy.

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They did not look after us when we were children.

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And then we reward them with this type of harshness

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and this type of calamity towards them.

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We make them and

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we slam the doors.

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slam the cups down onto the tray because we are displeased with something they said. The mother tells you, my son don't follow this way. It's bad for you.

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And you start to fade away and say, What do you say to me Stop agonizing me with this father, stop talking to me literally all the time. I know that what is the best for you.

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Another condition

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is that

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you also

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present whatever

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you feel that they desire, like you look at them, and you sense that they want something without asking them.

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This is obedience to them.

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There was a companion.

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He never used to eat until his mother had finished. And he was

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eaten together with another on the same flight. So some of them started to talk about it and say what's wrong with him.

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And when I asked him, they said that he said to them, because of my fear that I might reach out to something which my mother had her eye on. And she would not tell me because she has

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another companion.

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wants his mother.

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And then he replied to they can make it he said

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not attempting to raise his voice when he noticed that his voice had been raised above his mother's voice. He went and he bought two slaves and freedmen because of what he had done.

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Another companion, notice that he had displeased his mother or his mother because of something. So he would not leave

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his cheek on the ground. And he told us

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the scope.

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Even when you look sharp into your eyes you have dissipated

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when you raise your voice

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when you sit down with your hands

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and so on and some

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of the stories of the companions and apprentices will become experiments will feel ashamed of ourselves.

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When he will.

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He will always stand at the door of his mother's house. And then he would say to her

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and then she would say

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and then he would say my

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mother the same way you get mercy upon me when I was a child. And then she would say I may Allah have mercy upon you

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

because you had a baby

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What a beautiful line between

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the most obedient of the companions of the Prophet whom we knew towards the mothers.

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His mother straight in the eye, from the time he became a Muslim until he died, his mother could never recall the time when he would, he would look straight into the eye, but he would look down to the ground addressing humiliation

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that used to feed his mother with his hands. And she said, I cannot remember a time

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until he died, me ever eating food with my own hands, he would always feed me with his own hands.

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And he would never

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ask his mother to clarify himself or she was saying something to you. So if she said something to you,

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and he could not understand it, he would never ask it to repeat herself until she left, but then you would ask them like a brother or someone who was sitting, and then he would ask them politely, do you? Did you understand?

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

And then it explained expensive. And if you would carry out

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complete obedience,

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one of the criticisms

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lie on her bed, he would rise to the bed every night. And then you would feel the bid with these pumps. So to see whether there's anything sharp, so she will.

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But then sometimes you blame the thickness of his PA, you think because my palm is thick, I could not feel it. So he would lie down on it on his back on his bed, and then he would place his cheek and start to rub it on the mattress all the way through, to make sure that there is no sharp element.

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Before she slept on the bed,

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another compartment.

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He said, me and my brother. We spent one night without actually one night, my brother was praying. And my mother had a sickness in the hands. And this type of sickness required a certain type of treatment, which required hours of massaging and putting into some kind of medication, medicine. He said, he was praying online, and I was treating my mother's hand all night. And I say with my knowledge,

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he said, my night is far more advanced

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than the night of my brother.

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Now, and this is voluntary prayer, by the way, if you're even praying a voluntary

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system, and then your mother or father called out to you, it is incumbent upon you to stop your prayer and reply to them. If it is a voluntary, voluntary prayer,

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you must leave your stops and reply to them. Otherwise you have dissipated. And if a mother or father made

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a supplication against you.

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Then Allah subhanho wa Taala will determine the existence

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of a cool story. Back when I was back in Lebanon,

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there was a mother who I knew.

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And her son who was about 14 or 15, who never listened to everything she said to him, he'd be, you know, rebellious against it.

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And I always want to be careful with what you say about

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the women. You know, the mothers they even hear they sometimes say that was against their children without noticing themselves.

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And she said,

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I asked that one day a man will bring you to me holding you and he had been run over by a car. And three bones of the body had been broken.

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Guess what,

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about a month later, it happened.

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It happened.

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And this is why

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this did not disobey your parents for what they're accepted, or the parents that were against you.

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He also says do not supplicate against your wealth or yourself or your children or your parents

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or your children or your wife or your wives for maybe maybe a time Allah is accepting this application and he will accept it. So the way we use applications brothers and sisters.

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His mother once, as I said called out to him

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reduces the cost plus brothers and sisters of the parents is better than being farther away

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and the negative from your wealth.

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Take them financially for you to be close to them is more appreciated to them, than you'd be far away from them, and spending on them from your wealth. The closeness towards them is the most important thing to your mother and father, brothers and sisters, the way

00:50:16 --> 00:50:17

they're displeased with you.

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There were three main ones in the cable. This is a Hadith of the prophets of Allah.

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And then when they slept in his cave, a bed with a cane, and then a master rock came and covered their way. When they wake up to leave, the cave was blocked off.

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And then they saw each other they get

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asked a lot with the good things that we have done in our life. So we can say this. So the first mistake,

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there was a bit like my first cousin,

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them I used to lie, but I could not marry her.

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And she, she was righteous. One day, she asked me to help her financially to look after the orphans, as

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well until

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she tried to plead with them. But in the end, she was in need desperately in need. And then they came into the room.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:20

And then she said,

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she said to me, I

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feel and as soon as she said this, I felt agony and pain in my heart.

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And almost all senses and I lived out of fear of Allah.

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the releases from escape and in just a little bit, a small gap, but it wasn't enough for them to escape. The second person. He said,

00:51:49 --> 00:51:50

I used to work for

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We used to work for him. And then he planted seeds, olive trees and others. And then

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he left without me paying his wage. After 10 years, my plantation grew and I made a lot of profit 10 times as much. And then the man came back to me asking me for my work for for his wage. And then because I cannot give him his way, it went from his mouth and his money.

00:52:18 --> 00:52:19

And I made profit.

00:52:20 --> 00:52:21

So in other words, from his work,

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because he was meant to be in that way.

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

And the rock was open just a little bit.

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And then finally, the third baseman said

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I had two parents.

00:52:40 --> 00:52:46

And these parents, they asked me for a drug. So I went and got there when I arrived.

00:52:48 --> 00:52:52

So I stayed standing beside the bed, and my children, they were crying for the milk.

00:52:53 --> 00:53:06

And I stood all night waiting for them to wake up because I did not want to wake them up and cause them displeasure. When they went up in the morning. I gave him a drink. And then I gave my children and my family

00:53:10 --> 00:53:14

respect towards my parents. They save us and then the rugby

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

and they were saying

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the treatment my brothers and sisters towards our parents is far beyond any of our imaginations. And I

00:53:27 --> 00:53:32

cannot understand why. However, when you think about the way that they have been treating you

00:53:33 --> 00:53:43

and the way that you're treating them now, they look after you when you were totally in need of them and you and you have no physical ability. And today, you must look after them when they

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look the same way as when they looked up to you when you were young.

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Today brothers and sisters,

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especially when they reach old age, especially when their age

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and you see them sitting in front of you and they look at you

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

waiting for a piece of bread

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or a piece of food

00:54:24 --> 00:54:28

and favorite what they have done for us my brother and sisters, what might have been even more than that.

00:54:42 --> 00:54:44

Have I given back over to my mother

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the single contraction which she had when she was giving birth to

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

the individual against us.

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It's very, very enormous.

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And mighty brothers and sisters, do not feel selfish, or be selfish towards your parents in your wealth.

00:55:11 --> 00:55:19

Your father comes up to you and says to you, my son, give me $100. So you give it to him. And then you give me another 100.

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And then

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you should not say that we should say,

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you don't have enough to say to your father, my father was

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able to sell myself in order to give me this money.

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But I cannot

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my property which I am now encountered.

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

And when I did that, I will give it to you.

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That way the father will say, may Allah be pleased with you, my son, and you'll make it

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and provide and you will live a prosperous life, inshallah. Look at yourself and see, if you are miserable. It is happening to you in your life. If there are things going on your business is failing.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:19

Your children?

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Then remind yourself revise. Have you surveyed your parents lately?

00:56:30 --> 00:56:33

lately? Have you look at them sharp into their eyes?

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

Have you stepped away in anger?

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Have you signal to them with your hand out of anger lately? What have you done? Maybe that's a result of it, brothers and sisters. And this is what's most important, after the worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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I ended finally by reminding that although our parents have rights against us, and their rights, so great, which can never be forgotten.

00:57:04 --> 00:57:14

I would love to talk just briefly about some of the parents to not also at the same time, forget their rights again, and forget their children's rights against them.

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And when I say this brothers and sisters, you're not allowed to go back and use this against your parents to get back at them.

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And you

00:57:29 --> 00:57:29


00:57:38 --> 00:57:40

shepherd is responsible for their own flock.

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So the father is a shepherd, and he has his, his wife and his children.

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And the woman is a shepherd and she has children.

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And you

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a responsibility and all of you are accountable for what you're responsible about.

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The parents,

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some of them

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they can play.

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Why is my child is a baby? Why my children listening to music and following the weight of the West and going out and drinking alcohol to hang around with the wrong crowd?

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

Why they swearing? Why are they and why are they

00:58:39 --> 00:58:40

some of the pants?

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You must revise? How have you raised your children?

00:58:48 --> 00:59:05

Have you given them the right? No, no, no, it's not enough for you. Okay, you spend some of your wealth which is good to put them in a religious school for example, or to get a religious teacher to teach them but my dear brothers and sisters or parents, sadly, this is not enough.

00:59:06 --> 00:59:08

There is no greater discipline

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than the parents can have towards their children.

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The father must treat his parents children love and respect when they grow up as a friend and advise them as look man advice and take advice from them. As the man says walk away.

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Did not disobey

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is a great impression.

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And then he would say to you

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do not walk our pride

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and arrogance in in the land.

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You can never get deep into the ground or big mountains in other words, you want people human beings to be humble and solid

01:00:01 --> 01:00:03

And do not turn your face away from people.

01:00:06 --> 01:00:16

Remember that she had been created from a spin and can help from the place where urine comes from twice once from your father and the ones from your mother.

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Yes, you must explain to your children why things and why things are commanded, why things are good for them and why things are better than another cool My dear dear father.

01:00:32 --> 01:00:35

And I never cease to mention his gratitude which he has upon me.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:42

Father, other brothers and sisters, the one who raised me took everything that I know today.

01:00:45 --> 01:00:47

He used to take me out when used to make deliveries

01:00:49 --> 01:00:51

deliberately talk to me like a friend.

01:00:53 --> 01:00:56

And he would take me sometimes places we can see we see

01:00:57 --> 01:01:03

prostitutes and homosexuals, and people who are drunk, and so on. And

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this is what happens to people who go straight.

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This is what alcohol is. demisexuality is.

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This is how they do it. This is how they experience it. Son, this is what happens to someone's

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He taught me before my teachers at school told me the western teachers their way.

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And whenever any other person taught me about, for example, it took me about six to give me sexuality, told me about alcohol told me about drugs told me about it took me about an hour goes over already learned from my father.

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And remember,

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as a famous thing is correct. teaching your children at a young age is like tapping into a rock. When you tap into a rock, nothing can make it

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as the

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teach your children pray when they are at seven years old.

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And punish them for not praying

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And you teach them at a young age. And why not have a birthday for them. It's not really a birthday party for them. When they turn the age of seven and bring the strings of their friends along. Get them some prizes. And prisons have a nice memento they wish they could.

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Because you see that child

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would never remember the day when he turned seven. The reason why his father did a birthday

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party for him or her is because they were ready to be learned how to pray to be taught how to pray.

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And then when they reach the age of 10, make another body for them.

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And teach them how

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to punish your children when they do not pray. So

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they know that they have now become responsible. And they have now moved on to a second stage. gather their friends and take them to the mosque. If he has a son, that

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to you. It may not seem like a big thing, but the man standing in front of the young boy, he will look at the young boy. And you will remember that he will always remember that, that rejoice, horrible moment, the man that always piety and his honor standing in front of me shook my hand making me responsible and go to the next stage by him or her watch. So they can follow the prayer times.

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Let them let you live with your heart, mother and father. let them win your heart. Don't let them feel as though you are dictators, oppressive.

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This is what truly is. let them win your heart. Let them love you.

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So that when they cry when you hit them and they cry. I've seen this with my

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children, that when they actually

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run away.

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They cry.

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They hacked them because they want them to forgive them.

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If you can do that.

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I hate to hear brothers and sisters. And we're lucky we can spend nights and nights talking about the rights of our parents

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and the honor of them

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until the theater on a fallen and the rest into Christ. And we

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would like to end it by saying

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that some people asked me well what did my parents did? What do I did?

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a companion asked the purpose of the law that

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my parents did.

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How can I is

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it said yes your obedience is

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By asking a lot supplicating for them in goodness, visiting,

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visiting their friends and visiting their relatives and visiting their cousins.

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And being good to them the same way you would go to your parents, even if you did not like them brothers and sisters, you have to connect the family ties that are connected to your parents, whether you like it or not, and is a major thing to cut those ties.

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The purpose of the law

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was once talking to an old woman

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and she was very old.

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And the reason why he was talking to that he gave her a gift. Sorry, he gave the give me Sorry to try

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give to the tribe. They said that is the tribe that assisted my wife edition. She's sorry, that is the tribe of my mother, and honest connected family time.

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So he was not gonna respect the people, the Friends of your father and the friends of your mother. Do not forget that brothers and sisters. They have a right to be against you with that

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kind of

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a shadow and

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I thank you for listening brothers, sisters.

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