Name of Allah – Alhaleem – The Forbearing

Ammar Alshukry


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The speakers discuss the importance of learning about Islam's names and its use for personal reasons. They also discuss the weight of actions in Islam and how they affect others' lives. The speakers emphasize the need for patient and ability to act, as well as the importance of learning from the "habless hour" and "habless" names of Islam. They also emphasize the importance of showing proper engagement with one's actions and words to avoid confusion and achieve success in achieving success.

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Okay, so

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I'm not blaming him, but I was I was poking at him, because I was telling him that this was like the longest track that I stayed in all year hamdulillah

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because the llama shafa the last kind of data is going to decrease. Now this, this is a, this night in sha Allah will be speaking on one of the names of Allah Subhana Allah God, and I'm actually doing a tour 100 loss loss of our sweet Allah.

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I'm doing a tour on the different names of Allah, we've been bouncing around

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different massage to get used to. And I'm very happy to be here at Mr. Billings, and I, and the name that we'll be discussing tonight is the name that Heidi and so Uppsala, in December weekend, December 15, I'll be teaching a weekend seminar within MLlib Institute on the names of Allah, unfortunately, you are the good news rather, is that we're going to spend the entire weekend that will we'll cover Inshallah, a good 45 minutes of Allah. And the bad news is, is that we don't get to cover all of the names that one weekend. And so the names that I've been going around and teaching throughout Houston over these past couple of weeks, and until it's all over the seminar are names

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that I'm actually not going to be covering during the seminar. That's the idea. So one of the things that we're not going to be covering, is it hiding. And that's why I'm doing it here. Now.

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The names are luck, what are some of the fruits of learning about the names of Allah, undoubtedly, one of the great use of learning about the names of a lot is that it invokes love. It invokes love, the more that you learn about Allah Subhana Allah, the more you love them, you know, there are some people who they have such good quality, such good characteristics that the more you get to know them, the more that you love them. And there are some people, the more that you get to know them, the more that you dislike them, or the more that they fall in your eyes, because you realize that their their inner workings were not as clean as they're outside infiltrated. However, with ALLAH

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SubhanA data, the more that you know him, the more that you love him why? Because the lack of that smell refers to a walk one of the most beautiful names, the most beautiful attributes will suffer the most lofty attributes. So the more you learn about Allah Subhana Allah, the more that you know him, the more that you learn about a lot more than you love him. So this name enhancing

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what does an ally mean, the Promise of Allah it will send them was approached by what the advocates or what the ideal case, this was a delegation of people that had accepted Islam in the sixth year of the hijab, in the six years. So this was before they began all this. This is a group that accepted Islam, and came to me also the loss of a lighthouse. And so they traveled as a delegation to Medina. Now these people after they've been traveling for days and days, and they finally get to Medina, everybody jumps off of their camels, they've been waiting to meet the prophets of Allah is Allah, and to see this messenger that they had believed it, they all jumped off their capitals, and in the

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clothes that they were aware, they ran to go find the provenance of awareness, and began to kiss his hands and kiss his feet. Except for one man, their leader

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who was wounded and sh mondialisation. He stay behind everybody drop off with their cameras and rap, what did he do? He stayed behind. And he tied all the candles down. And he changed his clothes. And he put on two garments. It's not because he was in less of a rush to do because the ladders up. And it's not because he was longing less to meet or small loss of lives. But he changed his clothes. And then when he had prepared himself, and took care of everything, he then went to go meet the progress the whole lives, and so on the promise of a lot extended meets him. And he notices that he's got clothes on and he's prepared in a way that everybody else in their haste meet the proximal line so

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that they did not take those pains, the promise, the whole idea is that and he says in the fika, the Hustla team, you should pull a lawsuit. He says you have two qualities that Allah and His Messenger love, or you have two qualities that allow us

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that hey, when he says forbearance and deliberation, forbearance and deliberation, hey, and so then he said, O Messenger of Allah, are these two qualities qualities that I myself, adored myself with that I've worked on myself, or these two qualities that ALLAH SubhanA

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Allah bestowed upon me he said, a loss of habitat as though these aren't, these are natural for you, Allah gave us. And so he said and Hamdulillah that Allah Subhana Allah bestowed upon the qualities that him and his messenger alone. And so the idea here is that his deliberation and his forbearance forbearance, what does that mean for parents means restraints for parents means holding yourself back and not acting on your first impulse for parents to be self control. And so even though in that moment, everybody else, including him, included, including him, they all wanted to receive a promise little lady said that in that first second, everybody rushes forward and they act upon that impulse,

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but when they're on the line, who holds back and he takes a little bit more extra time and exercises a little bit more self control until he prepares himself for the meeting was the promise that will die days sooner. So the meaning of it no good mentioned mentions in dishonor our the Arabic lexicon, the language of the Arabs, he says, and how do you feel sympathy

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and Honey When describing the washroom hammered out of the forbearing it is a So who the one who is patient also it means and then the last word is Jana Rosa weather is the visible body, the one who is not

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the one who is not agitated, the one who is not agitated by the the anger that he has for his slaves, meaning that when people commit sins against the last 200 Allah and Allah does not respond with wrath, a lot has not become agitated by our disobedience philosophy.

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Allah responds to our sins, with him with forbearance with restraints, and there are many verses to indicate that so let's look at the places in which and how it was mentioned in the whole as you're studying these verses, we'll get more of an understanding of what it means now and how do you miss mentioned in the Quran 11 times.

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And this is something that we study in the class we study how do you know that something is the name of Allah and I'll give you a very, very basic way to know if something is an evil law. And that is if it comes in proper name form in the Quran, if it comes in property and forming the Quran and you're good to go. That is definitely an evil Allah. So if I'd had him is mentioned like that, and I don't even know that that is the name of Allah, Allah to choose us

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with our Walkman or Rahim,

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I don't know Haman, all of these names that are mentioned a name for they come in informed and they are of the names of Allah Subhana Allah and this is uncontroversial, so unhealthy appears to be 11 times in normal life.

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And that's a good amount. There are many names that are actually mentioned much less than that. So for example, a Latif only appears seven times with

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a shock it only appears twice normal on a ship who appears four times and Laura and I had a huge lesson the whole if somebody appears once in the whole lot, where does the some of the parents

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left was very good, but that's the only place that appears in the block. So you have a lot of names, I have a good only appears in that form. Everyone wants to know that. Well, let's move on to graphs you may need for it anyway. Right? So let's have a look. And so the idea here is that 11 is a very good amount actually. So Allah Subhana Allah he says

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in Surah Al Baqarah verse 225, live to love we love we feel a magnet and when I do I feel could be my customers Palooka Hola. Hola. Hola.

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Hola does not impose blame upon you for what is an unintentional in your own words, but he imposes blame on you for what your hearts have earned, and a lot is forgiving and forbearance. Allah Subhana Allah says that he doesn't hold you accountable for what you unintentionally state with regards to your oaths. But Allah subhanho wa Taala does hold you accountable for your

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intentions that what you intended to do that which was deliberate what you had intended, what you had your heart set on.

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What was conscious, what was a multi that was in your heart, Allah Subhana Allah visible you accountable for that? And Allah Subhana Allah He then here's the names of a whole and Hadith, ALLAH is forgiving for much of what you do. And Allah Subhana Allah is having this organic, he's full of restraints. He doesn't punish you immediately even though when he made that statement, you were intending evil through a loss to Allah will forgive you for it and Allah Subhana Allah is hiding. Also another verse, Allah subhana Goddard says this was an Apollo verse 263 Polar rueful mana filler to fail me Salah continue to bow

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Allah says time speech and forgiveness are better than a charity followed by injury.

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And Allah is free of need and forbearance. Allah says, a good statement that you make, and the forgiveness of others is better than a charity that you give that is followed by injury. What does that mean? A lot of people, when they have to do that they don't give in charity, unconditional.

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The summer that they give is not unconditional. They give charity and then that you they use that charity to have over people's heads. Or they use that charity to then get their weight in certain circumstances. Just a couple of days ago, one of my brother was telling me about a person who donated money to the masjid.

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And this is a random mystery. But he said, there mister, he said, I'd rather go to check for $25,000.

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And then he, that brother who had donated that money one day and came to the masjid, and he parked in an illegal spot, and it was blocking everybody's entrance and exit and it was illegal, illegal parking spot. So then one of the people in the restaurant they went up to the brother, they said, Please, can you move your car and things like that, and instead of the brother responding was so much attitude. And he was saying, you know, I parked beside him all the time. And this is the first time I'm being told to. And so he said that brother, he told me that I went up to him. And I called him into my office.

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And I said you parked in an illegal spot.

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And you're upset now? Because Because you told you to move your car that's parked illegally. And then I told him I said is this because you you donated $25,000

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Is this what makes you think that you can just walk over at all of you will see here, all right back here. $25,000 right now.

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Keep your money and spare us from your injury.

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Just because you don't need it doesn't give you the right to harm us. And that's what it wants to hold on to as as quote a man who will not filter

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out good words. And forgiveness is better than a sort of other trip on to them and

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don't give a person charity and then back them over. That was it. Remember when I gave this rule when I gave you that if you're going to give solo, then give that soda off for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala not sure that you can have a stick over anybody's head. And so a large pile of data that says what he ends it by saying Malala you Heidi, and one of the things that we do a lot when we study the names of Allah is we pay attention to the the wordings matters a lot and with these names, you know many times we just we don't pay attention to the names that are mentioned at the end of the verses this was random for us. But if you sit and reflect on these names, you uncover so much depth

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of meaning beautiful Allah subhanho God's little leveled at you Honey Honey Allah is learning is what Allah substitution

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Allah is self sufficient he's not immediately a donation if that's the reason why you're gonna donate and keep your money.

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Allah is money he's not immutable. You have a watch some kinda guy that he says

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in to see no no Welcome

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back to the be comesa daddy country Mukesh Ada, Allah says if the first of you and the last of you mankind antigen all of you have the most righteous heart of anybody that were in increasing minds in any in anything. And if no, no, if we were all the worst of Creatress medical scenarios and in Keshava, we're not going to increase the loss of Anadarko anything. So the first thing Allah says Is he has money. But the second thing is he says his Honey. Honey means what the school was forbearance and restraint and why because when that human being is walking around, bashing people over the head, and because of that charity that they gave, walking around with that arrogance, walking around with

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that, right? Allah Subhana Allah continues to give them respect. Allah is patient with them, Allah does not punish them immediately.

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And in fact, Allah Subhana Allah says, whenever you ask him to blow NASA, this will be mantle if I didn't have been done, but Allah says, if Allah were to take people into account, by their oppression, meaning of Allah Subhana Allah, Allah will immediately reward everyone for what they did. And their oppression He would not leave on this earth a single creature and he will be wiped out. What was the kind of data says what happened a Filipina again

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realize that you own Assad, what is that the word is one were to punish people according to what they deserve. We will not leave on the face of this earth a single living creature. This is an Assault Squad. Verse 45. By he says he gives them respite for an appointee.

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Anytime a watch panda Isla is patience and wave of the heavens and earth are not in a beautiful verse in the Quran and saw a flock in verse 41 A couple of verses before that he says in Allah use Allah to Allah holds the heavens in the earth and pezula that they may sees the heavens and the earth they want to see this was part of Alice's where it means that I'm still gonna be

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in the who can have even off hula, Allah says Allah holds the heavens and the earth less the seas and agencies, I think they should see no one could hold them in place after Indeed he is preparing and forgiving. Allah subhanho goddesses the heavens and the earth themselves they want to seize, they want to stop. They want to, you know, I saw someone once they they tweeted out something and I said, Can you please stop this planet? I want to get off. Like that's the idea right to have another I didn't want to end this game. You're like we're done. Why because of this is that the sea of the children of Adam.

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A washed out of ISIS and for many of you says, well, oh, come on, man, what are the and he said that Allah is taking a son, they'll project to shape an endeavor you have profit, something so monstrous, to God has some element of a puddle of water shuffled onto others.

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Allah says is that standard that mankind is making that Allah has taken a son, a lot man has taken the sun is the heavens themselves want to collapse and the earth wants to split and the mountains wants a problem. Why? Because of this statement, because of the statement, and so the heavens and the earth themselves when they want, when they witness the sins of the children of Adam, they want to come to us talk and Allah subhanho vida says, and they will stop if anyone other than Allah Subhana Allah role they've done. And then Allah mentioned two attributes of himself he is before and he is hiding. Why does Allah still allow for the heavens to stay in the earth to carry the Children

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of Adam, because Allah is Forgiving, He forgives all of these sets.

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And Allah is having his forbearance. He's patient, he has restrained the sin date at night, if you were to imagine just how many sins are being done on this earth right now.

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of oppression and killing and murder and decency, and goodness, and

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colorful and * and all of these things that are ascending to a lawsuit that every single minute and you see the illogical kind of response with restraints, a lot responds with forgiveness, and we will not have the ability to do so and hence the products a little worrisome. And he says, Man, I had asked, but I didn't. So now I'm gonna lie. He says there is no one who is more patient with heart and he hears that Allah. There's no one who's more patients than Allah. Yet. They're never whether they attribute to Allah a son, and he continues to give them out and he continues to give them wealth.

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We don't have a quarter an inch. We don't have indications at all. I mean, nothing compared to a loss. We're kind of out, of course, but just in our own day to day dealings. I remember seeing a newspaper article I've actually I was told of this newspaper article, but it was it was running the New York Times.

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And this was a man who had taken his wife to court.

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And the reason why I taken his wife to court, she had a she had a kidney failure.

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And so she needed a kidney transplant and his kidney matched with hers. And so he donated to hurt

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his kidney.

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And so she became better, and life went on. But eventually

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she cheated off.

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So he took her to court.

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Now that's not newsworthy, right? I mean, a lot of cheating on her husband or husband cheating. That's not newsworthy. So how does that make the news? It made the news because he took her to court. He wanted his kidney back.

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He wanted us to be about

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how dare you. I gave you much my own kidney so that you can live

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and you're gonna do this to me.

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He didn't have patience with that.

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But Allah Subhana Allah that is adult is a witness over us as we commit sins day in and day out with the money that he has given us with the eyes that he has given us. A while to it, it is the years that we have given us the help that he has given us. And he continues to forgive and he continues to give us house and he continues to give his work and give us well. There is no one who's more patient with Honda in years than ALLAH SubhanA data. So there are two

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qualities that make up this concept of being forbear there's two pillars to this attribute of halal. The first is knowledge, you can be heavy and unless you know, unless you have a reason to have restraints, and so Allah Subhana Allah big and heavy, he is not unhappy because he's ignorant of what we do. He is unhappy because he's fully aware of what we do when we go and we lock the doors. And we think that nobody sees us a wasp kind of Agra continues to see us and He knows everything that we do, he knows every motive that we have. He knows the reason why we said that particular word have used that particular phrase and use that particular line in our text message a lot. That

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particular a warranty, Allah knows why we did all of these things. He's not unaware. In fact, he's fully aware.

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And the second attribute of a heading or the second pillar of this concept is ability. Power. A person is not happy if they don't have the ability to enact what they want. Meaning that if you are hurt by someone, and you will have the ability to respond to them anyway, because they're your boss or they're your older brother or sister or they're bigger than you are, they have more power than you and why do them that's not a hidden is not that you don't have the ability to enact revenge or have the ability to respond in a way that you would want. Hate is when you do you absolutely do. And you still restrain yourself. Because you believe that restraining yourself is better. That is where

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it comes from. So ALLAH SubhanA added, the two concepts that come to us are the two. The two ideas that are behind this name of him is him being around him and him being unpleasant. Allah Subhana Allah is Knowledgeable, he knows everything that we do, he's aware of everything. And at the same time, Allah Subhana Allah has the ability to punish us and yet he doesn't do so.

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So what are some of the fruits of the snake?

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Of the fruits of his name is love.

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That a person should feel love for Allah Subhana Allah look at everything that I've done in my life and look at how much Allah Subhana Allah has given me respite. Look at how much Allah Subhana Allah that Allah has protected me even as I committed my own sins, look at how a washed pass out to look after me. He didn't expose me look at how Allah gave me the ability to read content to return to Him and He guided me, a watch panel gotta continue to provide for me and Allah continue to put me in a position for me to be successful. All of this is from Allah being unhappy. And then I continue to experience this from human act. In fact, one of the wisdoms of a person committing sins, one of the

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wisdoms of a person committing sins is that they then are able to experience all of these beautiful attributes of Allah subhana data, they have no claim, he said this with regards to the name of the deal, the one who conceals your false, you can experience a lobbying as to conceal or false if you never have fought in the first place. And so when a person commits since one of the wisdoms of this is that a person then gets to experience and access these beautiful concepts of lost count of data of them being a city, and upland definitely being a hottie, the one who has restrained and he doesn't punish the slaves immediately for their sins. And hence,

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the prophets of Allah who said that he says,

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or before that, that this concept of of restraint is something that a person accesses through the names of Allah Subhana Allah. The second is that it protects a person from having hope and despair. For a person never feels despair from the mercy of Allah. They never feel that they are beyond the last panel that is forgiveness, and they never lose hope of Allah rectifying their affairs because Allah did not delay and delay and delay your punishment because he wants equal three.

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A lot continues to give you that you may return to Him,

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that you may have the opportunity to come back to them and repenting. Allah subhanho data says and a beautiful verse and I forgot to mention this verse but I want to share this. Allah subhana diaeresis and took a lot of them has a new life with a way of

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Allah says if you give a lot of beautiful loan, he will multiply for you.

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And forgiving. And Allah is Allah is sure cool one having a lot is appreciative. And having these two attributes are mentioned. Now.

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This verse, you've heard it a million times in fundraisers, right? Don't worry, it's nice out of fundraising. But I still want to talk about this verse. Every time you heard it in fundraisers.

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If you give a lot of good news

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on some sort of charity that you get for whatever reason, Allah says, He will multiply for you and for you. And Allah is efficiencies, and Allah is having, forbear

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what are all if we break down this verse, there's a couple of things happening. Allah says, if you give me charity, or if you give me a good thing, what will happen? Allah will multiply it for you, and forgive you. So the equation is this, give Allah charity, Allah will multiply for you, and for you these two things. And then Allah comments on this by saying a Water Efficiency Act. forbear

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this verse, when I read this obscene of this verse, I was on a plane and my head fell onto my lap.

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Which is kind of weird because I had the table up, I put my head on my lap because I was just like, this is incredible. I was hoping that the people next to me they're like, this guy's super strange. He was unbelievable. Why? Because Allah Subhana Allah says, If you love me something, not only will I multiply for you,

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but I will forgive you. And I appreciated you know that $10 That you donate

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a large part of that assists I will multiply that for you. So you will get the reward of it many, many, many, many times over might be the order of 1000 or seven, the $1,000 problem some sentiment says it's multiply by 10 and multiply by 700 and multiply it by point and that's will love Ramzan these animals by the way. Number two is better for you. And then Allah says Allah is shampoos your shampoo means shampoo means as Viagra when you talk about Allah being a shareholder and a shampoo is one of the things that I go over in the seminar and it's one of my favorite names. A straightforward means is yes, you have the means, Allah will always give you back more than what you gave me.

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Because he has shifted.

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So not only x Allah is longer that he is Jehovah also, but he also says that he is a Hadith having forbearing Why is it because he has to be having to deal with in a community that does not show him shuffle.

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Allah is shuffle and mankind is shuffle. So when mankind is recall, Allah is hunting

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they are being told to donate money or we are being told to donate money and

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you can I believe this $10 are just $20 this $50 And this is our dollars and I should I donate all of that. And I was kind of God has promised you if you promise someone something and you knew for sure that you can deliver it and then they still didn't believe you. What didn't you get upset?

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What did you guys like? Why don't you trust me?

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Like why what I'm telling you, right? You're telling you're you're telling your, your younger brother

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or you're telling them your son, and you're telling them do XYZ I guarantee you you will get such and such back to it. And they're like no, I really am hesitant though, that when that hesitation frustrated, you wanted to make you upset. And yeah, it was kind of guiding and promises and he says do this, I will multiply for you. And I will forgive you and I will appreciate it from you. I will increase you and then a lot of Coronavirus was and he should have worn it because he has to be happy. Otherwise Allah will destroy this creation a long time ago. But he is heading he's heading without hesitation. He's hiding with our lack of commitment to his promise. He's hiding them all

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others. So it was kind of added sugar and honey also. And national also increases in our love for a lot of Canada, all of our shortcomings and our mistakes and our lack of trust in Him and our hesitation with regards to his promises. And he continues and continues and continues to give us respite and continues to give us time. Also of the fruits of this name is that a person adores themselves with this attribute of hidden fee.

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There's a concept which it isn't a hadith but it's a beautiful concept and that is to have local 140 100 100 To adorn yourself with the characteristics of a lie. I deploy yourself in practice and so what does that mean? It means that Allah Subhana Allah is Knowledgeable he loves the module. Allah is generous, he loves the generous, Allah is strong, he loves the strong. Allah is forbearing he loves the forbearance. That's the idea that these attributes of Allah anytime you look at it actually do a lot you ask yourself and you say What year do I have this attributes? Because depending on your share of that attributes, that will be how much you enjoy that attribute from

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Alaska, Canada, the province to a lot if somebody says

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alright, Hello, Neil Hamilton Rama or how we met you. Oh,

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If you haven't noticed, Allah says the processes, those who have mercy will experience mercy from Allah.

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And then he says, Have mercy on those on earth. Allah is the One who is in the habit who have mercy on you.

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And so the question then after myself, how for bearing in mind,

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how much restrict why show

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when I go home and I are walking volcano out,

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I can erupt at any second

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I might blow up on my family members, my children, I completely unleash

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on my brothers and my sisters. You know, the RSA is an idea, asset an idea of improving and

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are you aligned against me? What's your Austrians in war?

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Whatever, it's upon the week or your family members or alliances, but when you go outside, you're very timid and nice and gentle with everybody else. How do you how do you react to people your subordinates when you manage people at work that people are younger than you your students in the school? How do you how do you deal with them? Do you deal with them with with forbearance, you guys are looking at this person so passionately that I'm about to turn around and see what has happened

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is moving expect

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a lot more CTV

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the promise of a lot of years and then he says

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for American tools will last a little while.

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And this man

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was from the juicer Latina

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and the promises of medicine and all your money.

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And so this man came social last the lady said that in the presence of a letter.

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And he told them and he said,

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Oh, you family of having a buddy, you guys always delayed your payments. You guys are always slow to repay very, very mean words he said that? So Oh, my male counterpart who responded very strongly against that and how Gary's Yeah, culture will last a little while yes.

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So the progress of Allah raising them said, Oh,

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it would have been better for you tell him instead of cursing him out would have been better for you to tell me

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to be quicker and better and repaying my debts, and would have been better for you to tell him be more gentle in your requests, that would have been better, but instead of blowing up on him, tell me to be better in paying off my debts, and I paid them off faster. And he would have been better for you to tell him to be more gentle in the way that he asked for his payments or for his loans to be repaid. And so this man that said, I have ever witnessed and there's nothing worthy of worship, Allah ignored his message.

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Why? said because I saw a new every aspect of provenance, except for one. And that is when you are ignorant towards him. The only increases him in his forbearance that when you treat the progress of a lesson, I'm wrong when he disrespects it, it only increases him, not an ammeter. But it only increases him in his forbearance is in this restraint. And so that's the way the progress doesn't respond. And he responded like this many, many times, the famous incident of the voiceless. I mean, this man came through for the loss of the wider center after the province wide incident had fought the battle and the timeframe distribution of the spoils of war had come in. Is that anything? Yeah,

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hundreds. So being just over 104, why had the asymmetric not only that we have original law.

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He said, this distribution that you are doing right now, is not a distribution by which the sake of Allah Subhana Allah is intended. This distribution is not one that you want the sake of Allah for. He's basically saying that he's being unjust. So the Prophet SAW Allah is saying that he lowered his head until that the signs of anger can be seen on his face, but then what did he do? He said, may Allah Subhana Allah Allah have mercy on my brother Musa.

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Not at all the article in hada cassava, he has been harmed. He had been harmed and much more than that, and he was patient cleanses the province lesson and is showing incredible patience and restraint all of the time. This is him His manifestation, the human manifestation of this attribute of a highly image shattering he says

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he says you have a really severe he didn't really okay for UCLA who end up wound up and when Shiva is used as evil Haman got hold inside of the network. He says, you wrote this in reverse of poetry, he says, the full speak to me with all vulgarity. So I hate to respond like why

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In turn, they increase in their will guarantee. So I increased in my forbearance, like fragrance, that becomes more like incense that becomes more fragrant, but under the more than you burn the incense, it just gives off a better smell. And that's what I shot later on in the Livestream. Now he acts of God, he was speaking to me

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and my area of the law and the law of God is a master politician.

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He says, oh, but we are

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overwhelmed. Glacia does your forbearance if you want to if you want to learn that technique to deal with people, my Alyansang overwhelmed with your forbearance. Why is this because during the times of Jamia, there will be a person who would just unleash insults on you.

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That's what he would unleash on me. And what would I unleash on them forbearance?

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They're insulting me and insulting me and insulting me. So they're, they're they're putting themselves in position to be my enemy? Or what am I putting myself in position to be their friend, he says I am Nish forbearance on them. And so when I would come to Mecca, I would find them to be I would find them to be a friend. If I seek assistance from them, they will be willing to assist me. And if I incite them, or if I riled up for something, I find them in my corner. Right. So this is this is the benefit that he got from, from turning an enemy into a friend, not burning your bridges, so to speak, exercising in exercising restraints, so that a person can continue to find and turn

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their their enemies into friends. That's the idea of

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the prophets of Allah who sent them to make a drop. Because one of the things also that we want to do with regards to the names of Allah is

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to ask Allah by these names. Many times, people they think, especially as we become adults, and we, you know, we think of studying Islam, as you know, these names are almost an intellectual subject, because it's not worth my time to have Sunday school. So let's locate stuff. You know, you've learned a song, when you were getting off your butt the names of Allah is much deeper than that, in fact, studying the use of Allah, what if I can tell you that it is the reason why I walk created the headings on there, you know, the last verses who have a lot, a lot of kind of goddesses, Allah who led the Halacha service on our team, not only with love when

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Allah says Allah is going to create the seven habits and creative Earths that are like it. Yes, and this is a movie now.

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The caveman descends between marriages in the earth. So the question is why, why did the luck beat the heavens and the earth and micro luck cause revelation to come down from between the heavens and the earth. And what's the point of all this, Allah says, determinable and Allah, Allah initiated by the law, but I have an equally shape,

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that you may come to know that Allah is Able to do all things. And that Allah has encompassed everything with this knowledge, you come to know that Allah has the attributes of knowledge, and the attributes of ability. The point here is that you come to know the attributes or lust. And so when I learned the attributes of Allah, I'm not learning something that's life or superficial. In fact, I am learning the most spiritual topic a person can study, I am learning the greatest talking about a person who study because the importance of any topic is directly related to the subject of study. And so if I'm learning about washing hands on the island, then who studied anything that's more

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noble than me, and loose setting anything that's greater than what I'm studying? That's the idea. And so

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when a person studies the names of a loved one of the things that is intended, is to ask the why these names. And many times we go from life and we kind of forget this concept. And so it's important that we remind each other always, when was the last time that when I raise my hands to make dua to Allah that I call upon Allah by His name of produce?

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What was the last time I said, Yeah, what was the last time that I said, Yeah.

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What was the last time I called about Allah by His Name of Allah?

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And that's the point Allah says, Would you let us know in Krishna? So the rule will be, Allah says, this golden hour, he says to Allah, one of the most beautiful names, so called hunted by these names, like that's the point. He has these most beautiful names, make sure that you call upon them, but you're not gonna call upon them unless you know what they need. And that's the reason why we have to invest time and learning what these things mean, and accessing the last panel data bible so I wanted to prove that this this hadith

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is true.

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What do you do if and this hadith is a Hadith recite this is a draft to be recited in difficult the province of election he was going through difficulty and every single one of us goes through difficulty all the time. Or when the province of Allah Islam was going through difficulty what would he say this is recorded by blacks that the full muscle Allah has said that when he would experience difficulty he was saying that you know, hey bla bla bla it would have been all great, there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah there's nothing worthy of worship Allah and Avi the great and headin the forbear. So the first thing that should pop in our mind is I wonder why I walk here these

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two names together allow him and a headache. What? What added meaning comes from the very source newsletter we'll talk about that. Let me

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assure you there's nothing worthy of worship except Allah the Lord of the Rings from La La La wa homosexuality, oh, good, okay.

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There's nothing worthy of worship except Allah, the Lord of the heavens and the learning of learning the earth and the Lord of the

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praiseworthy throne. Word of the page where the from, so why does Allah hair and honey like Africans haces bloody reason why does a lot hair, or what is the cost isn't apparent, and even then I'll meet together.

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Because these two attributes when they are paired together in human beings, they normally create efficiency.

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The more a person has Ababa greatness, usually the less hidden they have.

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Because they become deluded by their brand. They become deluded by their power. And so the person sits and the President sits with a king sits or the judge sits and they don't want anyone to speak out of turn and anybody who speaks out of turn they punish them.

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Because they're there because of their goodness. Right? So that power corrupts them or they become drunken by that power. However, Allah Subhana Allah his album up does not decrease his head.

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Allah Allah His greatness does not decrease his forbearance, it does not decrease his restraints, rather, is optimized at a perfect level. And this restraint is at a perfect level also. So that is meet with regards to a wasp kind of out of time. And so

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we conclude this all up either by asking ourselves, Am I someone who's preparing?

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Our ask the closest people, the people who are under me, the people who are under my authority, the people who are weaker than me? Am I someone who's forbearing? Or messin with the phones or straight because I don't show restraint? And how can I expect the law to show restraint to me? How can I expect to experience in from a loss? That's number two, number one. Number two, the second question is, is my forbearance from strength or is my forbearance from weakness because like we said, forbearance from strength, that is the forbearance that's pray for praiseworthy or forbearance from weakness, then that could that could be cowardliness actually, is not necessarily strength.

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And it's not a plausible praiseworthy attribute. If a person doesn't do anything and doesn't try to rectify a situation because they're in a state of weakness, then that could actually be cowardice. Forbearance is coming from a position of strength. And hence, the reverse. Those are some of the attributes that Lisa and Jackie will be seated, we all begin well, I can say you only get the job. They send the rubble community is not the indirect one amongst them.

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But the leader must feign ignorance, the leader must paint the ignorance what does that mean, not to learn to overlook a lot of schools.

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If you want to be a person of forbearance, you can hold people accountable for every mistake. You know what your parents and your children are going to make a lot of mistakes, you have to be able to look overlook a lot of different things. If you want to be a leader, if you want to be a leader of a community, you have to overlook a lot of people's digs at you a lot of people's insults a lot of people's ignorance, comments, mistakes, all of these, you have to overlook these things. You have to feign ignorance. You don't have to be ignorant being ignorant is a shortcoming. But ignorance, that's a quality of leadership and allow us to kind of add on specimen. So we end here asking what

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kind of data to make us of those who have it. And we asked the last pattern makers of those patients that we asked the last kind of data from it. So those are gathered with the leader of the people can promise a lot you send them in the office on the margins and the righteous and the truthful. It has been

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stolen by this.

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So that by the way, I want to

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I want to thank you again for all of your patients here. I do want to