Misquoting Muhammad on Women – The most common misconceptions
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So my dear brothers and sisters, inshallah, I'm going to notice you about, you know, some important questions, which are very often in a raised about the women in Islam. So many of these questions keep coming again, again, though, actually, I'm not a specialist of about women, but somehow it happened that I spend a lot of time my life doing research on on the history of women's scholarship. So, because of that, actually, people were associated with the Women's Studies, and then I have to answer you know, any question which comes about what the women so I have to do more research about that.
So things you know, which keep bothering people, Muslim Muslims, and also which are raised again, again, by non Muslims, you know, what they learn about Islam, you know, what Islam said about the women, it actually makes people think that women are not a proper creation, they are not efficient in their mind and thinking too far that for some time, they will read that it is Allah Islam teacher, that women are created, not the same way as the men or rather the creator from the rebuff of them in some time, they will learn that women have deficiency in the mind. So, they are not equal to the men, two women are equal to one man, two women are half of them in some type people or
something like that. Sometimes people also learn and also they learn that Oh no, we must witness is not as strong as the men's, you know, two women and one man, they also learn that in the right of the property, inheritances,
women get their share half of the men. So you know, things like that, you know, keep also, you know, there are many other teachings as well that women are not allowed to teach, you know, when there are men audience or their women cannot attend the prayer in the mosque, you know, so many things going on about the women. So, you know, people keep hearing these things. Certainly, anybody who learns these things that the mind will be very clear that whoever teaches this, you know, they can't be right. If Islam teaches something like that, is alarm can not be a right religion. If Islam teaches people about all those things, it simply means Islam never can be revelation from God, God, God
cannot do this. God cannot make this distinction between men and women. So this have to come to a lot of people. So inshallah these questions I'm going to deal, but the first thing I would like to emphasize it very color to your mind, whenever you read these questions, what actually happening is people teach you something, but they don't teach you something else. If you know the whole thing, you know, the problem will not be as much as people think, to what Islam teaches people about the inheritance, you know, you were leader, that we may get half of the shear of the men, but you will never learn that a women sometime get a same share. I mean, sometimes women even get more than the
shear of the men, you don't learn this thing you are leader that women get half of the share of them in other things that you don't learn also is that men when they get a double of the share of the women, what actually happens? Do they have same response to the as the women of the restaurant response to actually something different? You don't allow this to your littler, one is more tiny part of story, you learn that we must witness is not same as the men, two women are required to become equal for one man, you don't learn really that this either one Li one type of witness, there are witnesses where we must witness are preferred over a mess of witness. There are witnesses were
women. So witness is equal to the mess witness you never learn this thing you only learn that women actually are in their witness half of the witness of the men. So many of these people keep learning but not rightly Salaam should any system of it should be taken in this totality you still learn properly what exactly Islam teaches, you know, it should be it should make sense it should you know should have some consistency in his in his teaching. So these details inshallah will come
And you integrate Far, far more details in ocular Lee in order. And similarly, in about a women's learning, teaching many of those two that people have been saying is saying, We don't really have proper idea of where they're coming from. So first thing i no I want to decide whenever you learn about it about Islam, it did not really feel to learn part of it, learn things completely and fully as they are explained in the Quran asuna this first thing. Second thing, whenever people teach about Islam, be careful in what Islam actually is in Islam is guidance revealed to the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam in the Quran. And in his teachings that we call it a hadith recorded by you know,
his companions and other people, basically Islam in the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.
When you see people referred to marriage in Islam, most of your teachings are coming from the books are filled books of Islamic law, many people have no idea what is the nature of the books of the field is people think of books are the facts simply means that you organize and arrange all the teachings of Quran and Sunnah in a systematic way, in a in a proper in collection, this what many people think they are not aware really, that fit is not only the collection of the teachings of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or the Quran fit into much more than that. So that no one has to understand before I start anything tg what actually fit is it take a take any manual of the fill in
100 FEMA to help maleki mother Shafi mother, try to understand when this tissue in the fifth what exactly the tissue,
the tissue in the fifth books of the fifth, something which are divine, something which is coming from the Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So that is pure, that what is that Islamism, then the books of the filter will also consist a lot of information from the society, because they live in a society, in somebody's lives in Kufa, in basara, in Makkah, in Medina, in the mosque in Egypt, in a Judas when they lived, they had to solve the problem of their society, what society has. So when they bring the examples, and they want to solve, actually, most of the examples and their solution basically belong to a particular society. We know that the professor Allison has
taught something like that a doctrine has revealed something like that. The one major part of the fifth also is the customs and in conditions of the people in that time in that specific time, and a specific part of the world. The second part of the filter that understood properly, then the third part of the fifth is that effect basically, is also in the upper part of the fifth either, it will be helpful for the jurist and for the judges in the court, because case will come disputes will happen to society. When people fight, they have dispute, they come to the court, how they how a judge going to judge the work to help him in the court, you don't bring every case, basically, in
the code, the code in the judge will be only helpful if there are things very clear, for example,
if you come to a judge, and he said, so so and so he laughed at me. He insulted me in Oh, he was smiling at me. You know, the judge will not go to listen to you, because he's decent are serious, because they're not even doesn't know proof or that nothing. But if you got to come to judge and assess somebody had hit me, and that is mark on my body. This is a very important thing. He will take notice of that. And he will then he will read it and study the case properly. That what happens when for rapidly Muslim jurists, they're right in the books of the fifth that in if there is no if a woman comes to the court, and she has been hit by her husband, and there's no mark on the body, then
we don't deal with that case. It does not mean that they allow people to build their voice. What simply means this court cannot act on cases like that. You know, if you had no market, it's not only for women, if men have been hit by the women, and the no mark on the body, and then no evidence really far any anything. Just you come and just somebody hit it. If they don't see any evidence or don't see any market, they will not take the case. It is not for the women it in for men or women, both people will teach you one half of the story. They think if the women come to the court, they have been beaten and then no mark, then the court will not be the case. It is exactly true. If the
men come to the court and they have no mark the doctor the judge will not take the case and I've come to two details from the fifth properly. People will teach you the Hanafi madhhab and in many many more the hub if the husband in obese his wife and does any herb in a breaks his leg and hand and this undoubted less than killing her, then there's no retaliation. If the husband does this, this is wrong teaching hanafy mother
Have does not teach like that what the teaching with something different and the people are misusing the holy formation Hanafi madhhab is not about husband wife has 100 female in this world. There are many, many jurist what the saying is that between men and women, there's no case last except in life. What it means is that if a man kills a woman of our own medical sermon, then there will be bizarre bizarre smells, then retaliation of the life mean if a man comes, and people come and say the woman has killed the relative, then the judge will take the case. And then the woman who can be killed in the case of that what meaning if a woman comes up, people come and say man has killed a
woman, not husband, wife, any money Newman, whenever killing happens, then deliberate purpose as a relation between men and women.
If a man a Brexit handoff woman, or woman breaks, handoff a man, then there is they will say, the height of the person who has this done this crime will not be broken, rather than penalty will be by money. When people take life, they live farther life between men and men, between men between women are women, and also between men and women, nothing to do the husband or wife. It's basically general for everybody. If a man takes a life, his life and be taken, if a woman takes her life, her life in particular, if a man takes the life of a man, his life will be called be taken, it is not allowed. If a woman takes a life of woman, her life can be taken. Similarly, if a man takes life a woman in
his life will be taken. Similarly, if a woman takes a life of man is it is equal between both of them then nothing like that, that if husband does something, then you know, then that is a disaster. If a woman does nothing, then nobody teacher like that, less than the life. They don't take ifI not in not IFA right, not teach 14, then they go for money, money penalty, that's a deal, then you have to pay money or some other penalty. But it will not be that if mant Brexit tooth of a woman,
then the woman who will not break his tooth rather, then she will get compensation in some other ways. certainly true. Also for for a woman if she broke a tooth of a man, you know, he cannot break his or her tooth, it will it be compensation by money, or by something else a semi true between men and women as well. If a man does if a woman does, that what they do this teaching is nothing to do with the husband or wife. But people have been teaching wrongly that if a man beats his wife that notices, do you think really if a woman does that, then witnesses know it is safe for men when both and nothing to do with husband wife?
You know, we have no problem really, if people study Islam properly, and their question there is it. But what exactly we have problem that people is study Islam, but they don't understand it and the door take information as they are, then they want to create a problem that is the problem. But if you really understand why you said, Come to the sources, and then you raise a problem, we will accept if the problem would have said that.
But if you don't understand a door to study properly, until your beauty salon, this is never never fear to death actually going on a large scale by many, many men and also by many feminists. So those details in Sharla, you know this during the day will come? I led to you that when you study, the books of the day contain the consist of three types of information. The first one is, though the information which are divine, they're coming from the Koran, and soon or maybe you can say they're coming from the revelation from God from the heaven. Today, our second ties of Mr. missioner dole information, which are coming from the customs and culture and tradition and hybrids of the people.
They're not wrong, they could be right, whatever. But every time society and hybrids, other people keep changing. So when you read those information, it is not necessarily you know, consider them as divine, they could be subject to change. When the society changes, when their customers or the people change it, they can change it. Though the jurist they're putting examples of their own society, and they want to solve the problem. They're not making laws for every society, or for all the time to this is the one important part of Islamic books of Islamic law. The third part of Islamic law actually is a door the informations which are not for the society, which are only met
for the court. People read them and they think actually this is what how Islamic Society used to be. No those parts are meant when the case comes to the court, then the real deal for Apple. If the said to you that in my read it is it necessary that when people make a witness witness should be someone other than their relatives.
Not your brothers, not your sisters, not your father, somebody from far away.
You're thinking really why why something like that? The reason is because they think it could happen that one day dispute hypers between husband wife, and the case goes to the court when the case comes to the court court is not going to accept the witness relative to simple matter. Your marriage with how does your marriage actually violated if witness your father or mother, your nurses your brother or sister, your marriage valid, but though the witnesses are not brought presented to the court, because accusation will be there your elective maybe the witness wrongly for you so when the information you read in the in the books of the fact that you think really this is house like
marriage? No, these conditions are only to help it in a juris in the court to the judge the judge fairly good information or not in Iraq for every single person. So these are three types of information, which are contained in the books of Islamic Islamic law. The first one is divine, coming from the Quran, Sunnah. Second one is people's customs traditions, a culture hybrids, there are so contained in the books which could be changed, which are subject to change from time to time and from region to region. third type of information are only those information which are going to help a judge in the court. It does not mean what does not help in the court. People can do it not
mean directly if people people are allowed to better waste if they don't leave any Mark. Mark, Mark examplar only mentioned the books of the fit to help a man in the court a judge then he can judge it does not mean this law allows people to keep beating hating the women. So this attract understand the three types of information in the books of the film.
Now the problem really easy, that in the books of the Islamic faith, certainly you will find and teachings are many miniskirts, you will find really many of those informations there, which are very negative and disturbing about the women. Certainly you find in the books of Islamic law, in the books are slang. In the teachings of many Muslim Halima in teachings of top people, you will find many after the information which are disturbing, which are offensive against women, you will find we don't hide them. But where are they coming from? that we need to learn really aware those informations come from? When people teach many of those negative things about the women, you know
where they're coming from? This you need to learn if you don't learn all the time keep thinking is largely responsible.
where they're coming from. I'll explain to you that first thing is you want to do before coming to any teaching about the women. I want to teach you really weird both informations come who are responsible, the Quran, his book of Allah, what karate said that Islam or are never teaches, if any after the information never never can you find any of the information which you are inserting or disturbing in the Quran. The Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam implemented the Quran in Medina in makaha did not have enough time. in Medina, he produced a society where men and women both respect each other, where men are allowed to come to the most. And women are also allowed to come to the
mosque, where men learn the Quran and teach where women are. So learn the Quran. And they also teach where men go to the market and have their shops women also come to the market. And they have their own shops, where men Buddha farms, women to the farms, where men do business and trade, women also the same men go for jihad, women also go for jihad. He lived he made a society like that proper society, whatever he learned from the Koran he implemented in his society in Medina.
What happens when after his death,
his campaign yes to conquer new regions, Iraq, Syria, in Egypt, many new parts of the world hybrid conquer, the conquest was very, very rapid and very, very fast. You cannot imagine how fast it was.
When they make this conquest. It was easy for them to take the Quran, Quran could come down there, but what not easy for them to take Medina society there. They could not take the society there to the professor less Lum lift an ideal society where men and women they have got certain rights and duties in the light of the Quran. He taught them and implemented them. But when his companions they conquered new region. They took the Quran there. They also took Hadith reports, but they could not take Society of Medina to these new places. To what happens is the people who converted to Islam, they're pious people, they learn the Quran, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but they
don't have a reference to those teachings. Reference what Medina society. If you look at it, you have to respect women.
You need to know what respect means. If you are in Medina, you know that
Musa women are allowed to come to the mosque, they can learn, they can teach, they can do shopping, they can, you know, they can command the good they can afford, but they will also still, they can also still sell. If you don't have material reference, and you're grown up in Kufa and bussola, you have grown up in Syria, you don't have this reference, then when you said respect the women, you will take respect from your own background for any culture, whatever culture or for Christianity, from Judaism, from Hindu ism, from, you know, from Prager, whatever religion, whatever respect you used to be in your society, that what you associate with a women, no human, many of those cultural
teachings evolved to women, they became part of the mind after learned people, they did not take the information from modern society, rather the reference of what their own society they have seen their own mothers, how they're treated, they have seen the sisters advice in there, how do I order houses, how the teacher many of those disappear, they became part of the mind of the people. The one influence came from the culture that people from the society in which the well it did not come in for the society of Medina, with a profit of muscle Alice alum raised and looked after an unsupervised to one at least source of raw information or outage is coming from people's culture.
Second thing is coming from other religions, in many, many things, because when Jews became Muslim workers just became Muslim, whatever they used to know about the women in their own teachings, in their own scriptures, they basically accepted and brought them to Islam, they start narrating them, telling them or Moses accepted them, because they loved that people, too many teachings and, you know, Old Testament or New Testament about the women, they became part of, in Muslim mind, they started understanding that they did not make effort really to verify the information in the light of the Quran, or the society, Medina, this also influenced their mind very much third influence to come
to the first influence of cultural religious, coming from Judaism and Christianity. And the third actual influence comes to the mind of the people is from Greek philosophy, Greek philosophy became very powerful. It was actually only one intellectual tradition in the world where you know, so dominated, cuz, you know, people of China and India, they had their own philosophy, but that could not be translated into Arabic language, either fast, either Greek, in addition to Greek philosophy, became basically very dominant in the major cities of Kufa, basara, Baghdad, or the city, which actually produce all these colors. What a Greek philosophy does, really, it has many, many good
thing I know, it's not time for me to teach the class v. and to actually spend a lot of time to study that in butter Asana teach that as well, lyric logic and philosophy. But what I want to tell you, Greek philosophy generally is a very, very negative about the women very negative, or not only Aristotle, Aristotle, and the people who came after him. Until very recently, you know, all the western philosophers, they have been very negative as women, you just read this one this information, or is total is a man really, he's amazing man. No way, you know, he really does research properly, he says, but when it's come about the women, he does not make any effort to
verify any truth. He has his own mother, he has sisters, he has women around him, you know, to not have women are alien to him, he does not know them, he has got to wise to wise, is still he said the reason women are inefficient? Because one of the reasons is because they have got less teeth than then domain
telling me really is where is it?
No, it's question itself time to come just write down when you have question, write down to adventitial. I'm going to answer the question. But you can see this reference is there, or is total, used to believe and actually he wrote that two gay men are less efficient than the men. One of the reason is because the women have less teeth than the men.
People wonder really how he some man somebody like him tells us that he has got two wives. His mother grabbed their women around her. He does research in the society, submit a thinker, a philosopher, but this he cannot verify.
This thing that we met are inefficient in mind that this became deep in Greek philosophy, very, very deep. When they became Muslim or the transfer to Islam. Muslim philosophers had the same view that we men are inefficient. That why in my book I know I wrote about a history of most women scholars, and nearly I collected in biographies of 10,000 women in my book that no single woman coming from the Philip Philip family of philosophers,
philosophers had never told the women they never actually think thought the women are qualified to learn anything. They used to think women are only basically for cooking and for something like that for the Fed to looking after children. They base not only that at the event,
used to teach that we, a when the child is born, women don't play any role. Aristotle himself taught our Greek philosophy, our the time had been teaching that when a child is born, we meant don't play any role. Women are simply a vessel, just a container, in which every role is by the main cause for an A man, the women are only container to bear the child. They're just vessel, nothing. If you read what the professor Lawson says it, so definitely, he makes men or women equally equal this matter. And he says that why you can see sometimes child is more similar to his mother and sometimes to his father, because he wants to tell you that both have you know Pyatt and influence over the birth of a
child. But Aristotle has been teaching that it is women are only vessels, they don't play any role. Anyway, to this one other thing of which influence teachings and minds of great thinkers in Islam. So many rock teachings in Islam, the sorcerer three, one is the Society of the scholars where they have been raised in a bonafide anywhere people raised their own society, this influenced them. Second thing in other religions, when people in became converted from tourists just out they taught the teachers to influence how Judaism and Christianity also came into teaching some Muslim scholars, and especially the books of the field. They're full of information coming from Israel yet from Jews
and Christians. The third major source of the problems is women, either Greek philosophy, and I'll give you some examples to make very clear that how these information from Greek philosophy decane, even to those scholars, who you cannot imagine
a normal desire to hang out Allah. He is one of the greatest cause of Islam.
He is jurist is a Shafi for a lot of Greek philosophy. Greek logic, is a Sufi pious person, in a dignified person, noble man in so many good quality.
read his books,
and other other books, you will see very clearly that how much integrative he is about the women discipline you never find any books of the not in the Quran, and not in any books of Hadith. I'll give you the example that how he teaches about the woman.
One thing he said in his book, a dubreuil must book feed NASA Hello, Luke. The number 131 the books in Hebrew must book feed NASA Hello, moo. He said, lie at the bar a hidden there are hidden so
don't take any wisdom. With the openness of the women. Don't consult them simple matter if women say something, don't consult advice. Don't consult the women lie to them but are hidden there for a month.
away. Tamara Matura him na casa de la Hama who do Harmon a neighbor who takes advice from the women and listen to them and accept their advice. What will happen is in the place where you want to have to spend a one to one pound, you have to really spend to the room, you will loser that if we listen to the women, you will be loser. If our anything you have to spend one pound, once you listen to women, you will take two pounds, that how they make last for you to
do Herman he also said in the same book and in the same page, Isla Chava ruhuna were highly for their device people say consult the women but oppose them to whatever they do against that opponent of that if you want to get wisdom to listen to the women, but do opposite of what they say.
Where the father or the mother
if you hit the button Missa Watanabe
can ever person wise person when he proposed to marry a woman he should be very very careful about the women.
While it is all digital Britta la cama de la fille de La Hoya Mara the roof.
And as soon as your daughter becomes adult, didn't make her to get married as soon as possible. Otherwise, she will, she will cheat you. She will do something good for you. She will bring some food for the family and she will be caught off in less of your soul. And she will make your heart Your daughter is garden make her to leave the house medicine other defense lepen and then he said, Well, happy party khulumani and our regular Mula Bandha. Valhalla one forbus libidinous
The whole matter is that any problem happened to them in any difficulty any tiredness any suffering any any testing it all because the women tell him he really did. And now you read this unmuting that what Islam is, but source is not Islam because the profit muscle often used to consult the women on you to listen to them open source in that Islam the professor has so much to fund the women. If you look after two daughters three daughters you go to Paradise so many father daughters to my virtue, the source and never never can be surrounded by you thicker you leave whatever Casali writes and whatever many Muslims cuz that must be dead take influence for a minute that is like in our time,
many Muslim scholars with the writer not necessarily directly Islam, they take information from so many sources to similarly throughout Islamic history. Many experts many big people who weren't a writer, not necessarily that take information from the Quran, the sooner the sources are somewhere else, you need to be careful, you need try to understand this properly.
This is one thing you can see this I gave an example because it is a big noon to just you can eat people can do this. today. Immediately, you can find many things like that, in Muslim teachings. If you read Indian literature, you can find most pious people in teaching then don't teach women writing. If they learned writing, they will write letters to their levels. That only think of them I don't see them writing at all. You know, this actually is not fun to karasuma because the professor listener asked a wise dude who did not know writing love writing.
I shall do writing to find half study not know writing, the professor asked a woman to teach after writing.
Professor Latham nickering, the women to love writing, they should write. And his wife actually developed the skill of writing. And many people used to let them throw the love from them through correspondence. The so many examples for that in many companies, women, they love writing, and people used to write letters to them, and they learn from them as examples we'll come to the discipline that we mentioned are not allowed to not write it. It is not coming from the Quran. sunit not from Islam. It is from people's own culture, people's own mind at Hindus and maybe to Indian culture, but it has nothing to do with Islam. So one thing keep in mind very clearly many many
things that you will learn about the women
know from other people, you know, it not necessarily cut off from Islam to this one thing you can see second thing either, which actually, I myself have been believed for a long time. But no, no, I don't believe in madrasahs when we are learning. So our teachers used to say the reason we make women to hide and to cover to cover their face, because we respect them. You know, if you have got gold and diamond and precious stones, you don't, you know, throw them out. You keep them protected and in nice preserved on this untied to shelter very nice, very convincing that women are so precious in Islam, that the reason we keep them you know, hidden and under, in secret, but later
adultery. This is again actually Iran teaching. This simply means you treat the women like property, meaning that women don't have might Deckard think they can't decide they don't have will. You treat them like property, you have to protect them. They can't protect themselves. You have to look look after themselves. They can't look after them. This is not teaching from the Quran sooner. You can see in the Quran. When Musa al Islam comes to Medina, to women, they are there he hits them. And then after that, when they go home, their father asked one of them go and call that man she comes
if he thinks she's a property and she should look properly why he allowed his, you know his daughter to go to call a strange person. Why did not listen to women? Why is it only one of them? were under this thing. When Musa Musa al Islam as a child were thrown in the sea and his mother. Then his mother said to his Moses, sister, God fight alone in the industries of Egypt. She coming and looking and talking to the men while talking What are you doing? And then the men she talking with the men. What Quran teaches you women are is a human being is prophet and they kinda have to defend themselves. They can't decide either men. Quran does not teach. But you can see really many, many
Muslim until now really have cereal until now, in a garden like people reading, too I can see it until now in writing from my teachers, and from my colleagues from India and also from Egypt and from Saudi Arabia keep coming and keep insisting The reason we have all those rules about the women is because they're so precious to meaning it the treat the women as property to this is not from the Quran and not from the sooner it is visually from treating the women as property
Never Never teaching the Quran and never teaching the student or the professor listen.
Another thing, which some people find more attractive, but it's coming philosophers was up to people will teach it, no men and women, you know they are equal, but the company meet each other.
They complement the complimenting, you know what it means. It again actually problem because what they want to teach you, when the SEC the compliment women become happy, it means actually, you know, men are not complete, we will come You know, complete them and women if they're a couple of men, a couple of them, but what men mean by that is meaning either that or the intellectual was meant to, but cooking and cleaning the house, women help them to women accompaniment for them directly what the meaning is the donor thing really that women are a minute complimented on equally well company mentoring each other is a nod from the Quran and not from The sooner, the sooner the sooner both are
independent, proper human being, don't complement each other. A man can do what a woman can do, and a woman can do what a man can do. This is the teaching of the Quran, this is this thing, they complement each other. This is not Islamic. So let me summarize this and then move what Islam to say. To fasting thing you consider really that many teachings about Islam, about women in Islam, the source, either peoples or culture or other reasons or the sources Greek philosophy for our philosophy system.
Then I mentioned to you that one of the thing that keeps going on in Muslim society are says that women are precious, they should be protected to the treating women as property. Another problem actually is where some people teach women and men they complement each other. This is also a wrong teaching. So be aware of that none of them are coming from the Quran or Suna none of them are from this religion. In this religion in a women are not a property in this religion. Women are not complimenting them in it this religion never taught something like that. This religion never taught you that women are inefficient in thinking and mind. Take out no purify your mind from all these
teachings. Now I come to you what exactly this religion means that the Quran and the Sunnah they teach you about the women letter this properly.
First thing the Quran teaches you that way men are created by their Lord, as the men are created by the Lord. You know what creation means? creation and mister planning their creation by plan means the creator planned were meant to be in this world, they are planning of the Lord he wanted them to be there in a proper plan. It is not something later developed he planned them in and he planned the women he wanted both be there for a purpose to come but creator of the women is same God same Lord who is the creator of the men in this matter Parana method no difference between men and women and actually some more things and shall come later for either
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The first day or our teachers you are women are created, the men are created
that know that nothing you know against that in any teaches men and women both are created by the Lord. The first thing second thing are are also makes very clear that a man or women both are human being both are proper human being Parana, sir Verhoeven lady Hannah, Camila a buchon Vijay Allah who NASA bhanwar Sahara suit of sorta for plan there was number 54 Allah subhanaw taala created the human being, you know from the,
from the water from the drop, and then he made genealogy, progression and also meditation between them. The married edition only happens between men and women to meaning it both men and women who are going to get married both are human being the coming. The singularity was a while after the Holocaust in Santa Monica.
Allah Allah thin thin human being both of our both of them. Our lawyers don't listen enough for that now I'm in public. What am Yakutia for us Allah? Allah The Asana coalition holla toe robot fell apart in Solomon clean from Medina, Anna Salah who mean sola to me, my maheen men and women, both our creation of Allah, and both our human being.
Now the third thing is both our soleus the founder, Mr. The purpose or the creation of the women and the men is to worship their Lord. In this one, they don't differ from each other. Women have same responsibility to worship the Lord. I the men have got responses and I will come relate to the pantry. Just I want to summarize the main thing whether they are sin to men or women both are same in worshiping the Lord for unmiss mentioned Walmart. When I was in, in Delhi, I would have no exception for the women or for all of them. Parana said their Quran with more detail about a bother every thing about about Islam he man whatever are the fundamentals of foreign foreign minister, the
men and women separately to make very clear that people don't have any misunderstanding. The Quran in the Muslim Amina well, Muslim Mati what Nina Why don't we not do what Bonnie Tina worked on it? It was saw the Pina was saw the party was slow Marina was sly burrata. watashi Alina Akasha wildermuth. So there
was a minnow slightly mud. What a half Alina, for who don't want half a lot was the courier luck, a theorem was dark era. Under submission, every single thing which actually met in Alibaba, men and women both are mentioned separately.
Muslim men, Muslim women, believing men between women carnita quality men who fear the Lord and start in the prayer in humility. And though the women who are so the same saw that the two men and two women are slobbering patient men and patient women are harsh Akasha to men fear fearing Allah and women defending Allah while mazzotti while matassa taught men who do charity and women who spend money in the charity and then have a slot a meal sigh Mad Men who fast and the women who fast what a half Alina full. We don't want to have a lot men who protect their private part mill they don't lose inna and women who do the same with the career like Athena was that great men who remember the Lord
and women who remember the load and therefore the load the home mother, for all of them. For men or women they both are less prepared. forgiveness and a big reward. That no difference in Islam in a man in Alibaba between men and women in the Quran. Therefore are said again Walmart Canada meaning one minute in either canola or a su ameron Anya una llamada. Kira to me.
It never never allowed for any bidding man, and for any bidding woman parameter movement and Amina bought a revealing one enabling woman is not allowed. That was Allah His Messenger decides just something didn't have any other choice. This matter, men or women, both are equal to Alibaba. They must obey their messenger. Oh man Yasser Allah wa rasuluh por la Vina del Quran, Sal, where punishment comes as Zani was Sania to those men who do center adultery. And those women who do a tree punishment is the same for say punishment for the people who say punishment for the women who do adultery, and a poor father literally for both of them it the same. There peraza was sorry to was
sorry, though the men who steal money and those women who steal the money, the punishment is the same for both of them. When it comes to commodify, Allah obedience of Allah worship and alborada men and women, both are the same thing. So basically men or women, they are saying in creation, they have been planned by the Lord and created they are the same in being human beings, the human soul, and they are so are the same in the body.
Certainly, there's difference, a difference between when men or women, you can see the creation. In there are some differences everybody can see. And there are some differences also, because of that, in responsibility that we don't deny. But what it comes really is there being human being a success of God in that respect, Khurana Suna don't make a distinction between men and women. But certainly the difference between men and women
is something why the difference is created what actually the purpose is to define us first thing difference it never has been ignored, but created or who made them different to we can see he never ignore that. He said when Maria Mali Salaam, her mother made another she said Oh Allah if I held a child, I will make him devoted to tempt to survive in the temple.
She got a female child, she was expecting a three male child who can look at them pushing you can be, you know, three shot or something like that. But when she heard child delivered the child, she was a female, too She said, oh my lord, in Nevada, I delivered a child female in what I can do, then Allah said, Don't worry laser that God
made is never like female, to see promise clear, male or female, gender safe croscill male is not like the female, you expecting male. But what I want from this child is she's got to do something which may or may not do, I have made a purpose other male is not like the female, the difference is a dear God knows he is made. To me there is an error like a female, male and female, both are different in the book of Allah subhanaw taala why Aristotle made men a female wide net, make this male just wondering why that Professor really is. And with that, what we need to understand really, the purpose basically is that Allah subhanaw taala out of his wisdom, he wanted a continuity of
human generation on the face of the earth, in a particular system.
You know, the way he wants to continue military so they fall apart if you want to God was a man goes to continue in the world, what are the ways they grow on the tree, you know, pick them and then the suit there, you plant them again, mangoes keep growing. If you wanted you could make like that, that human being will grow in the world, like the trees to the tree, you go there and pick your children. And you know, that's your child, he could do like that, because he done for the mangoes he could do for your children. But he did not do this
reason basically is very clear. He was the people that your new generation to be raised in house.
Because he was two things really first thing is continuity of generation. Second thing, while while raising them like a proper human being, then human being when they grow, they need supervision. There needs really a guardian, some men, they really need by renting for up to 25 years.
Yeah, some people because they need to parenting up to 25 years, they still need parent. That's how it is not easy. They need a parent, with children and read parent, they need a family they need father and a mother.
To be a father and mother, you need to have
this a better relationship very, very important. And desparation the wisdom of God really is that it comes through the marriage, the marry the revelation, then after the child is born, which carries the burden of both of them by religion.
So basically, the difference had been made for the purpose of the family, the family is the main thing, or the difference dairy, when it comes to when it does the same thing. When it comes for salary if Allah did the same thing, when it comes for the family, the differences have been made for the purpose of this purpose for parenting. Basically, difference between men and women is for parenting purpose. There's nothing old, nothing.
The main difference between men and women. Why do people learn and this one is the problem between husband wife, everybody keeps complaining, there are probably three or four to understand rarely husband or wife they are just means into something else. So they go to become father and mother. People don't realize really what a mother who demeans Islam, people who are lucky cry that what a wife means but they don't understand really. So she's going to become mother, underwater mother means I'm going to come to teach all dusty properly. So the other difference in this family that why when many women they come out from each other, with this relation, they need to cover the
difference. And they come out as a human being simple matter.
To when will come out from the house, they cover that part of their body, which makes them different from the women. If that is your wife, they don't need because the difference in metaphor that purple, but when they leave, they need to cover that part which makes them different from the women. When women come from the house, they need to cover those parts of their body, which are different from them in to when they come out. They come out and just add human being not as women they should be treated as human beings, I stress of Allah. The differences are our limit for the house, outside the house. The men and women they are just a human being nothing else that are the rules of the
karate when people listen to the Bob Dylan Bob did not read your blog only recently. Now you come out from your differential as a human being door to project your differences in the public. You come as a human being not at the women in public you come either either human be not as a man in outside the house. He should be different to that why Islam, Mexico
The difference between private space and between public space private space will be different from the public space. problem is with men and women who don't understand this thing where women come in public space is still the treat them as women, and they still want her a woman has come into the bar she covered our covering now that she's not allowed to the most in the classroom, the back barrier, if she had her job, why did why did why did you get Ababa when you met now she can come in public. Now she doesn't need any job, she comes into the job is to force her job is to treat other women once she has put on jilbab she covered her differences. Now she should be treated as a human being
not other women, men or women outside the house was the cover the differences now they are merely just a human being details of distance inshallah, that was the need to color come very clear soon inshallah because many misunderstandings there, but I just wanted to teach you the differences between men and women, they are within the family and there must be kept restricted to the family should not come out from that. Now, the problem really easy, when the differences are there,
some time people teach them and they go on the street and exaggeration and because of that matter, women have been suffering, because women are weakened society people are condemned to impose upon them in more more rules more regulations, and keep them either weaker as possible or make their area of you know worker as limited as possible. This keeps happening to certainly no doubt really the suffering that women have got in the world, it is something anybody who knows, they will cry, they will people have got human heart, they will filter I learned how the women are treated in India by familia, I tell you the truth really, if a man like me, are kept in same condition, for one month, I
will come across the way the women are treated in Indian household is men are treated same way for one month, you will see what will happen in a problem. Basically, no doubt very differences are there. But the difference is the greater extremism has come an athlete to all our fabric, women have been suffering market in posing more and more problem, you know, against a woman athlete in the West in this country for a long, long time. After women get married, she becomes ownership of her husband, actually even he could sell her in auction. And it can happen in this country even after they're married they pick up property of the husband has been his right to sell her did not get a
good thing did not like the nice but it still here got right to sell her extremism because so much you cannot imagine a man Muslim Muslim family, the beating in persecution, so many pro hyping insulting to the woman in working there to clean the house to do this, all it did was never in the past, there have been put upon the women, this is their certain event, this is the condition reaction will happen. So in our time feminism came, feminism came and we basically are not a guest everything was seamless to you, when they complain about we miss a condition in the society in the world, we support them, this is true, and these tests really should be dealt properly. And people
should help the women in this matter, our people should make effort really, that we must should not be treated wrongly they should be treated fairly. If that is something like that, we have no problem with them. The problem really is the event deny the real difference between men and women, which actually happens the perfect family men being made up mother well, being father a winning mother or something like that, you know I'm going to do their thing the difference between men and women is not coming from the nature of creation, it is basically more just factor of the society society method society impose the differences that difference between the men or women or the differences of
the road or between men or women, they are coming from the society it artificial it that made up they are not coming for any nature. This is something really were some mistakes in relation to initial I'm going to examine that. So these are this is actually just a concept paraphrase of my T shirt today. I just wanted to this is to come clear then we shall each detail will come and also do this which people find problematic. Those Quranic verses which people find it not very clear inshallah each one of them one after the other. I will make my effort to explain them eyes as much as possible. So you know, those questions leave them when they come to follow up with inefficiency
of the women in their mind some hadith of our two witnesses, our inheritance law, each one of them go to teach you separately
In full details to keep the unconverted. But you can have any question now about what I taught you up now about those two, if you ask question, the fun because then if I start question asking me what I want to teach next, then all we missed to just ask whatever you need no cry request everybody to use the mics, please for the live stream, there should be a mic on the system side.
And Simon, I just wanted to ask a question about what you were saying about
women when they're outside being treated as a human being not as a woman. Because you said that quite a lot of the differences between men and women are coming from society artificially. But women aren't allowed to dress as men, for example, that's coming from Islam that's not coming from society. But what is this, like, in the way women should dress and the clothes that women should wear? I think one of the things is they shouldn't dress like a man, you know, you should wear a job, a job, you shouldn't be wearing men's clothes. So that's not an artificial societal difference. That's a difference from Islam, looking for industry. But really, I've not seen ever women come
outside, that no more women, I'm sorry, postech. These people know who's better who's a woman everybody can recognize. I've tried to say that different cities should be colored, meaning they should be treated as a human being. Islam was to treat men and women outside the house, if they covered their differences properly, they should be treated. I had human being not as men as women, that type of thing. But it still does not mean that we cannot connect with a man or a woman. So more covering the women in Charlottesville Look, I'm going to teach you what is covering up the women, when the people come out from the house, what they need to cover, and how they're treated in public,
that inshallah will come. But it does not mean that in a minute, men and women will look safe, they will not look same, they'll still look differently, but this should not be treated differently because now you know, look at them, I am a human being that she should be treated as a human being all the time in private and public whatever she's wearing, by her brother by her father by anybody, you can see
what is not new what
you know, what I met real easy, that women and men both are human being anyway. And these are some differences. I want to say that these are different said, besides their humanity should be restricted to the house, how in the house.
In the house, it's not that they are going to treat like slaves, not human being no human humanity plus, with these differences, for some reason, something I described to you, but for the first one does not need to treat them in the insulting fairly fear this will come they're outside the house, no difference, just human being inside the house human being plus different sir. But treat them fairly, those fairness will inshallah come, you know, the way I arrived at ease. And now I'm going to teach you in detail how the clear from the same soul what their humility actually exactly means really. And then I'm going to teach you in a you know, about the covering about the traveling, you
know, many of those questions, keep coming, inshallah in detail. But I don't know, really, if I understood the question correctly is
difficult to explain to me if I missed any part of the question. Are you saying that they should be treated at home?
as well, then the whole thing about men or women being equal, like men and women are not equal in their rights and things they can do in the way they can dress? And, you know, and that's just the fact like, I think, you know, in fact, a lot of things that there are differences between the rights of men and women. So instead of saying the equal, why can't we just accept that?
you know, that,
that I want to spell really when you said men or women are not equal, that I want to watch the mystery of God, they are equal or not equal, there have saved pressed say, fasting, same circuit, same rules for the height, same as many with the same, but they also I want to stay visually where they are seen and where they differ, they are set to that, that that what am I talking to their cell in humanity, and their same is being selected for law, then that difference difference inside the family. So I want to tell you that the rules Islam has met differ for the women or enough they are restricted to the family, outside the family, men and women, the rules for them is the same because
they are just human because on the basis of that, that no difference between men and women, who as soon as they leave their face out meant the end iterator something else at the family, they will be treated equally never, but in the family difference will be there, but fairly innocent. One thing to keep in mind or I said this thing is just introduction, details of distance will consume really what different cities like inheritance, like for example, in the rights and duties in the house, what differs it will consume shala to their nothing really I want
To hide, but on my way to Islam edited, and actually I have no problem to answer any question, so don't worry, but I don't want anybody to ask me this, which I'm going to teach anyway. So these are things will come much more detail. It just is summarized, but I'm going to teach you where they are and where they are different from it will come in detail inshallah.
question is actually quite simple just want to know, the reference that you gave for Mama ghazali. PAGE 131 was the name of the book or the
book, a table URL must book. Just one more thing, you elaborate a bit on the aspect of hitting women on vice versa. But I feel in the present society, I think we probably come past that, although it does happen a lot than domestic violence. But in my field of work, and in my experience, life experience have experienced
a lot of emotional psychological torture, I don't know if you can shed light on that later. Or you're roughing it, you know, this was this introduction. And then I'm going to have one session about these things like follow up of the violence in the family, hitting the women all of those concept of karma men or goddess or the woman or other days it is inshallah one session, full detail about those things in the family and hitting the women beating the women or torturing them psychologically or mentally or physically alters inshallah come.
Santa Monica, chef, Chef, you mentioned about how the, the three varying things influenced jurisprudence and felt
by now for us, obviously, we're even further detached from the cultural norms of Medina. So how other than our current society and the norms? Can we interpret things and like concepts like respect? How can we get the pure meaning?
This actually very poor question really the thing really easy, it did not that information, how Medina society was in the foreign minister last is not ugly, but in practice, we don't have any Medina that truly, so that was something that practice very difficult to understand it, it was something that practice you can see it then you could follow. But it was something that was something that in practice, very difficult to imagine and understand the standard, that duty of this task and then really to take out though the the formation and the take out a tribe make effort really how Medina was in the turn the past, especially if you want to do research about the woman,
women in Medina, in the time the parcel Allah Islam, you can defer, which are the bits and bits in the books of the Hadith, in the books of the history in the use of the sera take the information, and we put that together right order, you can get really an idea of Medina society and women in their society in the time the parcel of Islam, but it needs effort. Most people don't do this effort. But people you need to do some somebody had to do this effort to something 100 I've done it, too. I'll share it with you later on. But certainly this is a very important period that people need no more really Exactly. In a broad way about any fact that what women could do just think really in
a time at apostle Allison, what exactly women need to do Medina did they used to work in a city did they go to shops? They did did they do farming? They did did they do any business at trade? Whatever question in the mind, just keep making heading and keep looking at the sources you'll find information collected information it will give you a different idea from what you learn in the hopes or how the women were in the society if we need to learn really and that what most missing two we need to know what exactly women were in the time of the parcels in Medina what exactly the dude really did further in the wedding party. Women have attractive growth. Did we will do this in the
past. Yeah, the inconsiderately Professor saw the women coming on from the wedding party and they are in those clothes. And they know the kind of women serve the food to their guests. See, Medina? Can women sit and eat with the men best look in Medina, in the title person in his family over you said find examples. If you put all that together, you will see the picture of the women in Islam so different. Many people will not believe as subjective but it just is what I will mention to my teachers. Many of them are shocked they don't believe but they know the reference to the cards that I'm inventing. But they just simply said that there might never went to seminars that I thought
really I don't want to crap Islam, my thinking here, it go by it is possible. Find out the women in the society of Medina how they eat
Live just right on the ditches, and we want women in our time to say nothing, nothing more than that. We don't want any right women more than that. If people do that, it will be more than enough. But most people don't know how women have been in the society. Medina
Chef, I had a question because a lot of you Muslim asked me about women who cannot lead and quote the heavy so for a salon he said to slim, saying that any people who had chosen a woman as leader,
what basically are are meant for failure.
And what came to my mind was in the Quran, we also have the example of the Queen Subbu, who led the whole people to Islam, and compare that to frown who lead all these people to Rihanna. So
I basically I didn't know how to answer those question and wanted your opinion on
she's asking about the Hadees about the people are destroyed if they appoint a woman as the leader.
You know, that
this is our go to, you know, this Coco, this was a just introduction. I am going to teach you about women's leadership, political leadership, society, leadership imaam in the mosque, you know, where they can become qualified if they want to become qualified or not, you know, this single commercial don't worry about that every single thing that people keep raising, or this or this, because it did Hades and Quran, the dear to my heart. I really want to teach them properly. I don't want people to misunderstanding I don't want women to run away from Islam. If you think Islam is a treat not treated properly, I just want you to know that it I don't want to change it now. But I want people
to understand it. Most people don't make effort to understand ICT they are they're looking at in lower dosages for their own backgrounds. I want you to leave your background and level things up we'll look at the matters from the background of somebody living in Medina in that other parcel also, how they used to read to inshallah this, this will come this will come shallow
last question before the
that once men and women are outside of their home, if they're appropriately dressed, then they should be treated equally but those are not mentioned.
Specifically advise women that it's better that they stay within their homes, what's the context of that? But also the women stay at home It is better when
read is it in the Quran? The Quran if you have to reading all the time, in every day in the morning firstly we do the read the Quran, teaching the Quran but we never read in the Quran that we will stay in the house it is better for the word in the Quran. If this is the case, then how Why does the professor stay at home, but they are the one who go outside all the time everywhere in the world. They were discovered in the corner from
they might be referring to the verse about the profits or sums wise to stay at home. Yeah, no, that will come that have not missed at home. The narrative is better people don't understand what it means really. And also this Hadees that we will pray at home is better than the mosque in our our commit nothing to do like that nobody has mentioned that this actually is very very big or some people say fabricated Hadees that we must prayer at home is better than the mosque it never can work in Islam. Because if this is the case, then why should the Prophet that was something which is less important why they gotta pray in the mosque is the prayer at home is better, who wants to lose more
in this world nobody will do more effort to get less reward. Do you know that if I sell my my my property here, it has more price and then I move somewhere else it has less value? Why am I make our effort? If I pray at my home in my home, I get more reward and the most I get less reward Do you think I'm stupid to go to the most
profit was to encourage you to go to work if you get more rewarding them on the house simply
to have more reward nobody will make more effort to get less reward nobody does in this world to this team shall I say no it many of these questions that if you just buy my book is more a book really about the prayer you will get more most of this order already our bodies which means there's more booklet you know what we must say something a prayer or in the house Montezuma's prayer in the most just read that is more it's more book, you'll get more of these are much done. I don't need to read anything. The way it was described to me and I told me I can't remember the verse
Are we? No, no, there was at least Watch out for FIFA. There was this paragraph. But I'll come to that it does not mean what people think. Because the way he was described to me is not the way that you have just explained it wasn't limited
to the context of going to the Moscow play or not it was a much wider economy. Why wouldn't the verse of the Quran that was Sufi saying by did not mean what people think it will come later inshallah, when I'm coming to about hijab of the women, what they need hijab, it will come there with to watch how the women leave the house, how it will come there to karma.
Verse from sutra, what was the process, I will come shall not worry. I'm going to spend it