Adnan Rajeh – Seerah Halaqah Episode 18.

Adnan Rajeh
AI: Summary © The negotiation period is emphasized, with emphasis on the importance of evidence and adherence to one's values. The negative impact of the Prophet's message on the nation and the need for small adjustments to deens and values are emphasized. valuing people and their weight and significance is crucial to hold them accountable for their actions and make adjustments to deeds. upcoming events and being held accountable for one's actions are also emphasized.
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Quick reminder.

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Well, we restarted this Halapa not too long

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ago and

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we spent the first maybe

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couple of 2 months or so going over

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the prophet alaihi wa sallam's early life. And

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it's a part of his life that I

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find people don't really give

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due diligence and don't spend enough time studying,

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and I think it's really important. It's very

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helpful to kind of know,

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the circumstances in which he was born alayhis

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salatu wa sallam. How he grew up, who

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he who raised him growing up, what were

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the different, any changes he had to go

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through. He He was in different houses, in

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different homes, in different different caregivers alaihis salatu

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wa sallam. He there's a lot of aspects

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of his early life that explain to us

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why his life the way it was. Because

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under just understanding of the fact that he

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lost both parents, he lost his grandfather, he

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had to work. Yeah. And he was really

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young because he was living in his uncle's

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house who had many many children, did not

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have enough money to actually feed them all.

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So he had to work and learn to

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take care of himself. So a lot of

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these aspects of his life are important. So

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he spent maybe 2 months just going over

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the first 40 years of his life. And

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so his childhood is adolescence and then his

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older age and talked about his marriage and

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talked about his children

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And then of course you you start See,

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Ani, this the true part of seerah begins

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when wahi begins. When Jibri alayhi salam presents

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himself for the first time to the Prophet

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alayhi salatu wa sallam, when

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he was around 40 years old.

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And that in that blessed night when this

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whole story kind of began.

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And we've talked about maybe the first 5

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to 6 years of his prophecy, alayhis salatu

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wa sallam. That's where we are. And I

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kind of broke it down for you into

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2 main categories.

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The first 3 years were the selective years

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where his dua alaihis salawat wa sallam was

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somewhat

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secretive even though the word secretive or secrecy

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is not accurate. It's selectivity. He was choosing

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people that he wanted to perform dua to.

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He didn't do it publicly to everyone,

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but everyone knew that he was claiming prophecy

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and that he had a Quran and there

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are people who are following him. And people

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were getting persecuted in that period, it's just

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the numbers were very low and small because

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it was not public yet. After year number

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3, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala commanded him directly

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to go public. And he probably alaihis salatu

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wa sallam was thinking of keeping the selective

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period a little bit longer, but the Qur'anic

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command was very clear that you need must

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go public. So he went on and stood

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on Jabal Safar, and he spoke publicly to

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all of Quraysh. And he did a number

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of

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banquets at his home with his family and

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he spoke to his family and he went

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and it became an issue of public opinion.

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And Quraysh up to that moment was neutral,

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didn't really say anything, the leaders. But once

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he went public, they had to take a

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side or they had to choose how they're

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going to deal with it and they chose

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to deal with it in a very aggressive,

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oppressive,

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transgressive manner. I mean, they chose to try

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and silence him or try to oppress

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and torture the people who were following him

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to lessen his following. So, they chose they

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chose to be combative and they chose to

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be confrontational with him alaihis salatu wa sallam,

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taking away his right of freedom of speech

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which forced him alaihis salatu wa sallam to

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push back against that with with with those

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who were with him. The ground rules were

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that there was no violence, the Muslims were

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not allowed to bear arms during that 13

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period of Mecca, 13 year period of Mecca.

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They couldn't actually fight back. They were only

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allowed

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to persevere when they were being mistreated and

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and and move secretively,

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like outside of the eyes of Quraysh. Whatever

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they did, they did behind walls so Quraysh

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couldn't see, so they couldn't be harmed by

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them because they couldn't fight back, which is

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an important piece of the story that I

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hope my repetition of it forces you to

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contemplate a little bit because we accept as

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a given but we only think about how

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difficult that must have been. Because you can

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only put up with so much oppression and

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transgression before you want to fight back, before

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you want you want to actually, you know,

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swing a punch at those who continuously do

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that to you on a daily basis. But

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they weren't allowed

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to do that because the prophet

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made very clear and that was a Qur'anic

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and a,

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a

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divine revelation.

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And through

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these years of after year 3 when he

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went public

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These are the years that most scholars call

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the years of oppression

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or torture. These are the years where the

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Prophet

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himself physically,

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financially, socially, reputationally

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was harmed. This is where the Sahaba or

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the Allahu Anujma'im.

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Men, women, elderly, children,

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slave and free were all being mistreated by

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Quraysh and they had to go through that

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to persevere

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physically

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as they were physically being being harmed

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and then the Islam of Sayyidina Hamza and

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and Islam of Sayyidina Ambar was a,

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a beacon of light in the midst of

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of the misery that the Muslims are going

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through, which brings us to the period that

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we are in right now.

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And this is a very, a very,

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a very bad summary, actually. I I left

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out a lot of important things, but I

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just gave you a little bit of a

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a bird's outlook of kind of how the

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timeline is working. So this is year number

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6

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of his of his bi'at, alayhis salatu, alayhis

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salatu, alayhis salatu, alayhis salatu,

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alayhis

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salatu, alayhis

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throughout his life, years take it always always

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with a little bit of a grain of

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salt. Because they

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we're getting the records of these years from

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the Sahaba and people who lived with him.

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They weren't very good at they weren't they

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weren't historians and they weren't very good at

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keeping these records because they were just a

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people who did not,

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care for this aspect of life. They didn't

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really, you know, keep records of times and

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or timelines.

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So we get different

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opinions amongst the sahaba themselves of when things

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happened.

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So the way I co I correlate it

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is with the Quran. The Quran correlates a

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lot of events. The Quran helps me figure

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out what's happening, but still there's always going

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to be a little bit of a range

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when regarding any number I give you. So

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so don't don't don't be too fixated on

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on numbers if if possible. Okay.

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So what is the negotiation

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period?

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This is an interesting part of his life

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alaihis salatu wa sallam and I had started

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talking about this just before Ramadan. And I

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gave you the example of when they went

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and they started to negotiate with Abu Talib

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first time and second time until Abu Talib

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felt weak and felt threatened because they were

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being very aggressive. So he asked the Prophet

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alaihis salatu wasalam to consider giving up what

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he was doing and the Prophet

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told him, There's no there's no possibility of

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me ever doing that. If you stand by

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me then I'll be thankful for you. If

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you don't stand by me then I'll do

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this alone and there's no way for me

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to stop. And Abu Talib, of course, out

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of loyalty to his father, Abin Muftarid, who

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had asked him to continue to support Muhammad

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all throughout his life called Muhammad back

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and offered him his unconditional support,

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which mental which was a important piece of

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of of this story, obviously. And Abu Talib,

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obviously, doing that. Yeah. And he supported Islam

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in ways that he probably doesn't even understand.

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And it's, you know, it's something worthy of

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thinking about.

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Would come

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Abu Balib would come to the Prophet alaihis

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salaam and then Noah's story that I think

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concluded the last seal of halaqa with. When

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he came to the Prophet alaihis salaam and

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he and he basically pitched for to him

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all of these different offers. If you're sick,

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if you want wealth, if you want

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status, if you want sovereignty, if you want

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women. What do you want? We'll give you

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whatever you want. And the prophet said, listen

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to this ridiculous

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spiel of

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offerings that he had no interest in. And

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then his response was reciting parts of Suratul

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the beginning of Suratul Suratul Surat. And I

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told you that story and how it ended.

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Narazbah would go back to his people, shook

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by what he heard from the Quran

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and he would tell them and I think

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I ended with this and I'll pick up

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I guess from this point.

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He told them

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that

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And he's a very wise man. He didn't

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accept Islam, unfortunately.

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He did not accept Islam, and he didn't

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tell them that you should accept Islam. What

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he told them was, look

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just let the man do what he wants

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to do. If it works out for him

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the way he it seems like it may

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work out for him then whatever status or

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glory he achieves is yours.

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You're

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his family. You're.

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You're gonna be fine from the same tribe.

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His glory is your glory. So what I

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let let him do. And if he and

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if he tries it and it fails

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then people will take care of him for

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you. Like instead of killing your own, they'll

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just do it for you. So either way,

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just let him speak because it's not good

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there's no loss. It's a win win for

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you. If if he if he achieves glory,

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well that's your glory. And if he fails

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then you didn't have to, you know, kill

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your own and walk around saying that you

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took out someone who's related to you. So

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there there's no loss

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here. You're a smart man. Like, you had

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you had a point here. If you were

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able if you were a religious or if

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you if you didn't really care, just let

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him speak. There's no there's no harm in

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letting him speak.

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This in my opinion,

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he sent the, one of the earliest statements

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of freedom of speech.

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In my opinion, Uzbay bin, unknowingly,

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as a non Muslim,

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made one of the earliest arguments for why

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freedom of speech is so important without even

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knowing that he did that. As

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a kafir, as a mushrik Yani, he just

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made the argument that there's no point in

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silencing someone. Let them speak if it works

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out, it does. And if it doesn't, like

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let the idea play itself through. If it's

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a strong idea and it prevails, then there

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was no reason for you to suppress it

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to begin with. It was a strong idea,

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it deserved to prevail. And if it's a

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garbage idea, then it'll just shrivel out into

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nothing. Like it'll just it'll fail on its

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own. And, that's the premise

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of the premises of of of speed of

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speech.

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That you don't silence people. You know,

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force them none. You don't take away the

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ability to express themselves. No.

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Doing that you martyarize them. Doing that you

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make their idea more

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interesting than it actually is.

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This is something that sometimes you don't think

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about and I think it's worth fee Alim.

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Once you silence someone you make whatever it

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is they're saying more interesting

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than what than it actually

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is. We all know that.

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If you are presented with someone who speaks

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freely and there's someone who the government is

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not allowing to speak,

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whom are you going to want to listen

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to first?

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Right? Like immediately you are attracted towards, yeah,

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the guy who's not allowed to speak by

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the government. What does he have to say?

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Why he must have something important to say

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if they're not letting him speak. If someone's

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not letting him speak there must be something

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interesting there. So, Islamically there's never been a

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reason to to silence people. So if you

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study Islamic early Islamic history at least early

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Islamic history before the Uthmani Hilafar. If you

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talk about the Ummawi Abbasi you will find

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that Muslims

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very early

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on siloed into many different groups. Even

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beyond Ahlus Sunnah, they became different groups. Groups

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that were theologically arguing about things. Because there

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is no interest in forcing everyone to follow

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a specific school of jurisprudence

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or school of thought. People had the freedom

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to think and to argue. And all of

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the ways of thought that did not have

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proper arguments fizzled out historically,

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They just ceases to exist. You've heard of

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the Martazil. Right? How many of them are

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left in the world?

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There are some by the way. There are

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some. I went to there's a Mas'id in

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Dimash and there's scholars there and I learned

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from them. Like there's but the numbers are

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very very small. You're talking in and you're

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speaking in the 100 or 1000

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versus

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100 of millions of Alastairnawal Jama'a. Why? Because

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ideas,

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their merits is in the in their essence

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and what they what they're offering

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not in with how people deal with them.

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So even though they they silence the prophet

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that wasn't what actually ended up happening because

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Quraysh was so powerful and so influential that

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people just didn't want to listen to him

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at all, he didn't want to, you know,

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anger Quraysh. But generally speaking, the idea of

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silencing people never works. It never has. It

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never will.

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Silencing the truth only makes the truth more

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intriguing to those who are searching for it.

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It It will only make it more powerful

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once it comes out. Let people speak. As

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Muslims we have no fear of any group

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on the planet speaking their mind, ever.

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I have no interest in enforcing someone

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or or silencing someone who's saying something about

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Islam. I don't care at all. Let them

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speak. Let them speak.

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I have a better idea. It's not because

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it's my idea. No, it's because it's done

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that book. It came it comes from Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. It's a stronger idea because

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it came from God. It's not mine. It's

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there has nothing to do with me as

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a person at all. So Allah's ideas. Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala teachings.

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They're stronger. They're superior by nature because they

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come from God. So if you have an

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idea, go ahead. Bring it.

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Give it your best shot. Bring your a

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game. Go ahead. Make your best argument.

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May the best argument win?

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May the best idea win?

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Actually, that's the Qur'anic way of looking at

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things.

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Bring your evidence if you are truthful.

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Show us evidence. Evidence is not just a

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picture from a crime scene. Evidence is any

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any argument that has logical

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or

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revelation based or even historical merits.

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Something that offers a logical argument is evidence.

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Bring your evidence if you have a better

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better argument, we'll go with yours.

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Quran is everything goes in and beyond

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that. Say, If you're able to prove that

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Ar Rahman has a son, then I'll be

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the 1st to worship him.

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This is what the Quran says, if you

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don't go read the end of Surat Al

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Zaghraf.

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Say, If you can prove it, if you

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can prove that this this makes sense that

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there's logic to this and there's evidence to

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it. I'll be the first to join. No

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problem.

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Period. It shows you who actually was stronger

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and who was weaker. Yes, physically, Borais was

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stronger. Yes, through numbers they were stronger. They

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had more weapons. They could oppress people more,

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but they were bankrupt

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intellectually.

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They were bankrupt.

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They had nothing. They couldn't hold a candle

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to his arguments alaihis salatu wa salam. So

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he was strong and they were weak and

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this will be obvious to you as I

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tell you these stories. They're coming to him

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offering him.

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Who's stronger when they offer him? Do you

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want sovereignty? Do you want wealth? What do

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you want? We'll give what you already. Just

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stop doing

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this. Is that a person in a state

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of weakness?

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No. That's someone who is that's someone who

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has options in front of him.

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And the question is always why didn't he

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take the sovereignty piece and become king? And

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then he enforces freedom of speech and Islam

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comes back again. Because that would be crooked.

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Because that would be a crooked way of

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doing it and the ends never justify the

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mean in Islam ever.

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Ever. The ends never justify the mean. They

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never have and they never will. And anyone

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who makes an argument

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where it's it may it seems even remotely

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that they're trying to explain the ends justify

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the mean, you shut them down immediately. Do

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that with full confidence.

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With with full confidence, shut it down immediately.

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Never do the ends justify the mean in

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Islam ever. No matter how amazing the means

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are, it doesn't matter.

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Not only does the mean not only does

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the end, sorry, have to be

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glorious and has to be according to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala's teaching, but every step you

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take towards it has to be at the

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same caliber.

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Every single step you take to get there

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has to be of the same caliber hands

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down. And that's why the prophet, alayhis salves

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them. There was no hope of him accepting

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any of this stuff

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because it's it's crooked. It's corrupt. It wasn't

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gonna happen.

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So they continue. They they they continue to

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do this.

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This time, instead of coming,

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sending utaba,

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all 7 elders of Quraysh, so Abu Jahal,

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Alayhi Salaam. The people who the decision makers

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in Quraysh, they come to him. And they

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start explaining to him alayhis salatu wa sallam.

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They start reasoning with him that look what

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you're doing,

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you know, they may have a lot may

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have a lot may have some merit to

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it, but it's causing so much fitna. It's

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causing so much anger between, you know, a

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father and his son and a mother and

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her daughter and it's tearing families apart

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and it's causing us, you know, is we're

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losing face, we look bad. It's Yeah. You're

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basically stating that everything what we've been doing

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for the last couple of 100 years is

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wrong. You're stating You're basically bringing the idea

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that, yeah,

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the legacy that our fathers left us is

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all mistaken. Like, they started to make that

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argument to him. They started to reason with

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him.

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And they started to tell him, like, what

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you're doing you're gonna cause us, Yani, a

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lot of loss. Gonna cause us financial loss

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and status loss and political loss. So, what

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is it that you want from us? We

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are all 7 of us are here. We

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can vote you in right now. We can

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meet you always, you and your family have

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always been Yani struggling financially like we can

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change that for you right now. All 7

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of us and they start making and they

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start pushing this narrative again.

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So, the Prophet would say, I didn't come

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to take your money. Nor am I here

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to want to be the king or the

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leader or the one

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who has control, has status amongst you.

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All this is, is Allah Subhanahu Wa'ala's revelation.

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He sent it to me and he has

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given burden me with sending it to people

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And if you take it, then you will

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take a great share

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in this life and the Hereafter. Meaning you

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are winners now and there then. If you

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accept this from me, then you will not

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regret

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taking this from me in this life or

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the hereafter.

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And if you don't then it will be

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your demise

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in this life before the hereafter.

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If you don't, then it will it will

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be your demise

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in this life before or the hereafter. The

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hereafter will be even worse for you.

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But they didn't listen to him, so the

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lies of them.

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They went back. So round 2 didn't work

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out. Round 3 was whether they came to

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Abu Talib and offered him,

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someone in his place, alaihis salatul. I don't

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I'm not sure if I told you this

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story or not. I can't remember. So I'll

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just say it quickly and say in case

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I forgot. They came to Abu Talib, and

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they told them and they had with them

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a man, a young man called

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Amara ibn Walid,

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who would later become Muslim years later.

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He's Walid ibn Mughira, his son Khaleed ibn

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Walid's younger brother.

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Young man,

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strapping young fellow.

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Beautiful looking guy. Very small. Just just a

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perfect sculpted person. They brought him double taught

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him and said, how about you take him?

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Give us Muhammad.

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I'll make an exchange. You take This is

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our most valuable member of our part of

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the family.

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Take him. He's yours. He's your son from

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now on. Give us the guy in your

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family.

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So he laughed at Abu Talib,

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And they had this amazing they were ready.

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They were bubbling. They were telling everyone that

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today is going we're going to end this.

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We're going to end Muhammad,

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Permanently come listen. It's going to be over.

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And they were preparing everyone for this important

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moment. And and and and and surely when

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the Prophet alaihis salami would come, we sometimes

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pray for the Kaaba.

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He's probably in the evening. People were all

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gathered. He didn't know why

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It was an abnormal gathering. So he prayed

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and

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so if you ask for a not for

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a debate but for a sitting, a sit

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down, like a discussion. So Alaihis salatu wa

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sallam is that he's the one who's asking

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for discussions. He's happy. He's the one who's

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always looking for a discussion. They're the ones

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who don't want to, so he's just with

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them.

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And people are listening, and their question is

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saying

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They go through their their their, introduction or

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their spiel.

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You came to us and you changed our

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faith and you went after our idols and

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you, You and You ridiculed our our beliefs

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and the beliefs of those who came before

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us.

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Qalakay bakan Abdul Muttalib. How is Abdul Muttalib?

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So they asked him, Muhammad,

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a antakayrun

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am jadook.

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Who is better, you or your grandfather?

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So the point of this question

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is that there's no good answer.

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If he says, my grandfather is better than

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me, then well, well,

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it suited him to worship all of our

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idols. Why is it not suiting you?

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Even though that may be questionable in general

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but that's what that's at least the narrative

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that Quraysh carry. That's the narrative that was

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known publicly to people that he accepted idols.

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So he says that he's cornered himself, he

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can't get out

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and if he says, I am better. That's

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what they were hoping for. They say, Yeah.

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You kulu wakayru minjaddihi.

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He's saying that he's better than Abdul Muttalib,

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which will

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completely

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plummet or Yeah. And ruin any any hope

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of of him having status within his within

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people again. Like within within within Quraysh. Quraysh

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will from now on despise him forever because

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he is claiming to be better than Abdul

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Muttalib who is a figure that all of

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Quraysh and beyond Quraysh respect and hold in

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high regards. So, they knew they had him.

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They had him cornered, There's no good answer

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to this question. I answer kayoon amjadub, just

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ask, You better or your grandfather?

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Just answer. So he realized alihi sawatu wasalam

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this. So what did he

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do?

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Anyone know?

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Anyone know what he did?

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He didn't answer.

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He plead the 5th, didn't answer,

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and they lost their minds

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running after him just answer the question not

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a word alayhis salaam.

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Then he gets up and he walks away.

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You see when the argument is futile,

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when it's moronic,

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when it when it's not based on merit,

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it's not based on logic, it's based on

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a

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on a population based bias,

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a population bias like a problem in the

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perception of the people in front of you,

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not based on facts or based on merit,

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then there is no point of you continuing

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this discussion altogether. When Ibrahim alaihis salam stood

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in front

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of,

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of the king of Innam Rud, right?

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So he's discussing with with Inamrood,

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My Lord, He grants life and He grants

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death.

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That's the one that I'm asking people to

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worship because Namrud the King was claiming

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divinity. He was claiming that he should be

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worshipped.

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So his answer was the King is that,

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I grant life and grant death. What did

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he do? He brought 2 people in and

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he told the guard this guy let him

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live, this guy cut his head off.

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Right? Is that what Ibrahim alaihis salam meant?

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Ibrahim alaihis salam was talking about the origin

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of life and the origin of death in

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terms of creation altogether, that this comes from

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So this person here, me,

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it's a it's a silly, it's a stupid,

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it's a it's a moronic way of going

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by things. So he stopped arguing.

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He moves on to something different.

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My Lord brings this sun from the east,

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bring it from the west. What he meant

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was, before you were born, the sun was

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coming out from the east. That's the act

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of my Lord. If you're a Lord, bring

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it from somewhere else.

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I'm worried he had no come back. Instead

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of sometimes continuing down

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the rabbit hole of an argument that has

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no merit to it. It's best to hold

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your tongue. It's not always wise to respond.

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It's not always wise to run your mouth

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and and to come up with

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a smart response. It's not always wise. Sometimes

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the wisest thing to say is absolutely nothing

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at all.

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Alahehis salatu wa sallam had the wisdom

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to know when that was the case. This

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question, are you better or your father or

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your grandfather?

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This was a there was no

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this had nothing to do with anything.

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This is a question that has nothing to

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do with the with with the dua of

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Islam of tawhid. Has nothing to do with

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anything.

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And if you were to answer the question

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correctly,

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the way it should be answered,

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then people are living a certain bias that

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will not allow them to understand his answer

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alaihis salatu wasalam altogether. So the best

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course of action is just to hold his

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tongue. So he didn't answer And he walked

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out and Abu Jahad and Abu Zafian and

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people were running after him

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asking him, just answer the question, and alaihis

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salatu wasallam just walks away.

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And it burnt a hole in their brains

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that he didn't answer.

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All he had to do was say something.

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Once he says it they have him. Either

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way it's going to take away from his,

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from his popularity, take away from his integrity,

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take away from the importance significance

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of his of his message alaihis salatu wa

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sallam. So he chose not to say anything.

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Boys thought that was, I mean, very interesting.

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They would come to him alayhis salatu wa

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sallam

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and they would they would you find this

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in Surat Yunus.

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So they came to him Alaihis salaam and

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they

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said those who had no care about akhir

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or about deen or anything

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Bring a Quran a little bit different than

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this one. Can you can you make some

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changes?

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Make some changes. But or maybe return it

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and bring something different. It's nice. There's some

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stuff that are that we like here but

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there's a bunch of stuff here that we

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just doesn't work for us. Can you make

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some changes to it? Make some changes and

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you are the prophet and we will all

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enter your deen and you will continue. You'll

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get what you want. They think that he

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wants alayhis salatu waslam, that he wants to

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be, you know,

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leader or they think that they think that's

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what he wants.

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So they asked him if he can just

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make some changes.

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This was exactly what was asked of Musa

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alayhis

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salaam. They told Musa,

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We've heard

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and we're not doing it.

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And here's what we have to tell you

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about all these commandments that you brought to

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us.

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Even though we're not going to listen to

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you, you're gonna have to listen to us.

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And you need to make some changes. You

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need to

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is when you compromise.

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Right? If you ever go to a

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market in Syria,

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the word ra'ina is all you'll hear day

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and night and that's why everyone's lying.

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Why? Because everyone's lying. How much is this?

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It's 3,000 lira. You walk away, you bought

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it for a 150, and the guy still

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made a profit.

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Everyone's lying. So, Ra'ina, it's compromised. Yeah. Yeah.

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It's understood. So that's what the Yeah. That's

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what Baru Musa.

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Ra'ina, can you just lessen the amount? Change

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things a little bit, it's too much.

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If they said, Semyonawat'ana,

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we heard and we accept. We heard what

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you commanded us, we accept.

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But we have some concerns, Usma. You need

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to listen to us. Give us time to

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be able to practice this appropriately and to

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learn how to do it. That would have

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been better for them. That would have been

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better way. So they came to the Prophet

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alaihis salatu wa sallam demanding to make some

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changes

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and they thought that they had offered him

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like a really good deal. If you make

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some changes, here are the changes we need

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to make, 3 or 4 things, then we

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will accept your and they thought this was,

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you know,

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callous is going to end today.

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Then he absolutely refused Alayhi Salatu Wasallam.

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You come to Islam as you are,

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to Islam as it is, as it is.

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There's no changing anything. It's this is what

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Islam is. You you need to change yourself

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to fit it not change Islam to fit

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you.

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And that's an important piece that the Prophet

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alaihis salatu wasallam taught us through, you know,

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through the way he dealt with this.

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Over the period of the next couple of

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weeks,

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they would come to him with all these

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different,

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offerings.

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The second offer the offering after that, they

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gave and said, alright, fine.

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Fine. You

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win. Whatever.

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We'll do it this way. 1 year it's

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all about Islam,

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and 1 year it's about our Aliyah. We'll

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divide it, we'll divide the years. A year

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for you, and a year for us, and

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we'll start with your year. Like the 1st

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1st year will be the year of

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your year. Teach and preach and everything, and

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the year after, you you lay off so

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as to go back to our idols and

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stuff for a year and then we go

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back in. And we change after Hajj. Every

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year we just switch after Hajj. And they

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thought: Okay, that's

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this

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is reasonable. A year for us, a year

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for you.

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We're good, let's shake, let's move on.

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Say, oh, those who are disbelievers.

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Respect them. Show them tolerance. Don't we're not

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demeaning them. They're disbelievers. That's that's just the

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description.

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I don't worship that which you worship.

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Nor are you in the state of worshiping

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that which I which I am serving

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nor am I serving whom whom you serve

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nor are you serving whom I serve. You

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have your faith and I help mine. There's

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no there's no

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mixing these two things. We're not No, that's

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not gonna happen. We're not gonna bring the

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2 faiths and just do a nice little

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mix and come up with something that's a

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hybrid.

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A hybrid faith that works for everyone. No,

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No.

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No. You have yours. I have mine. Which

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is all I ever cared for. Continue. Do

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what you want to do but let me

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do what I want to do. The prophet

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alaihis sal said, there was never This su'a

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is very important.

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Before. It teaches 2 things. Identity and tolerance.

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Tolerance meaning

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First of all, you identify that there is

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another group, they're different than you. That they

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have a faith, you have a faith. We're

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different, we don't agree on things, but and

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we all The other piece is your identity.

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It's

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not repetition. It's emphasis.

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That look

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in order for us to be tolerant doesn't

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Being tolerant does not necessitate

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that we be the same.

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That's not tolerance anymore. Tolerance by definition is

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the fact that we are different and we're

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still gonna find ways to work around one

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another, work together

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and and and not discriminate against each other.

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If we're gonna be the same then there's

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no point of tolerance anymore. We're the same.

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The what's to tolerate? We we believe in

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the same stuff. We have the same.

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So living here in the west, we know

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this more than any other group probably in

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the world as Muslims.

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We are tolerant obviously. No Muslim sitting here

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has a problem with people believing whatever they

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want to believe, living however they want to

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live, doing whatever they want to do. Just

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do it's your life. Make your choices.

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We ask obviously for tolerance towards ourselves, which

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we're losing unfortunately as time progresses. We're slowly

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slowly losing the tolerance of others towards the

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way we live, which is very concerning.

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But more importantly is the identity piece.

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Is the identity piece that we're not taking

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care of. I don't think we have a

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tolerance problem in our in our in our

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community. I don't think. Maybe we do. Maybe

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I'm missing it. I'm not seeing it. But

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I don't see it. Like I don't see

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people who lack the ability to tolerate other

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faiths or other groups or other ethnicities or

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other races. I'm not seeing that piece.

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It may exist in certain silos or certain

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groups, but I'm not seeing it.

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What I am seeing is the loss of

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identity.

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I am for sure seeing that piece. I'm

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

seeing young Muslims men and women

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lose who

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The understanding of who they are and what

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

they stand for and what is meaningful for

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them in their lives. That piece for sure

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

I am seeing. And that piece is because

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there's lack of

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adherence to masajid.

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Because people don't bring their children to masajid

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on a on an ongoing basis. So they

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can't build an identity.

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The identity of Islam is built through Masajid.

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Say you believe what you want.

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It's built through Masajid.

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Without Masajid it won't be built.

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If you think that you can build the

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identity of your children as Muslims outside of

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Masajid

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without them being a part of Masajid, I'm

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sorry to tell you it will not work.

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You think it's working and then you'll be

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

very surprised later on. It's impossible to maintain

00:31:49 --> 00:31:50

it.

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You have at some point they have to

00:31:52 --> 00:31:54

reconnect to a masjid in their lives. They

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have to.

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Because that concept of jama'ah, of congregation is

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so central in our faith and so powerful.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:03

The companionship is just so strong and the

00:32:03 --> 00:32:05

need to be educated. The need to sit

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

on a carpet and listen to something being

00:32:08 --> 00:32:10

said and contemplate upon it and allow it

00:32:10 --> 00:32:13

to be processed and to build relationships with

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

it through that process is so important. Without

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

that it's just there's no hope.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

And our masajid are empty.

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

They're empty. Outside of jama'a they're empty. And

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

jama'as are not filled with the right, demographic.

00:32:25 --> 00:32:26

They're not filled with that right It's not

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

the right demographic. I stand on the minbar,

00:32:28 --> 00:32:29

I look down now.

00:32:30 --> 00:32:30

Nope. No offense.

00:32:31 --> 00:32:31

But nope.

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50s 60s, I have nothing to tell you.

00:32:34 --> 00:32:36

You're older than me, you've lived longer than

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37

me, you have more experience in life than

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

me, I have very little to offer you.

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

Where are the rest of them? Where are

00:32:41 --> 00:32:42

the people who need to hear this stuff?

00:32:42 --> 00:32:44

Where are the people who actually need to

00:32:44 --> 00:32:46

listen to it? Who will have the capacity

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

to actually

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make

00:32:48 --> 00:32:51

radical changes in their lives and use that.

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

Those are the people who have to be

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

here, and they're not.

00:32:54 --> 00:32:55

And they're not. And I don't see

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I've been sounding this alarm and I don't

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

see people panicking yet.

00:33:00 --> 00:33:02

Like I'm not I'm looking around. There's no

00:33:02 --> 00:33:04

one no one's panicking. Everyone's fine.

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

Like it's really weird. Why isn't why isn't

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

everyone panicking?

00:33:08 --> 00:33:11

There's an alarm here. Our kids aren't in

00:33:11 --> 00:33:11

our masajid.

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

They're not there. They're not connected to scholars.

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

They're not connected to Islamic preachers and teachers.

00:33:16 --> 00:33:19

They're not attending stuff. They're not learning Islam.

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

And I look around, I say that, and

00:33:21 --> 00:33:21

everyone's like,

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

So, what are you gonna do about it?

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

What am I gonna do about it? What

00:33:27 --> 00:33:28

do you think? I can't What do you

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

mean? This is not something that I can

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

fix. This is a this is an epidemic.

00:33:32 --> 00:33:35

This is a mislever. This is a huge

00:33:35 --> 00:33:35

problem.

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

This is a This is the worst thing

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possible.

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41

Everyone should be running around hysterically, we have

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44

a Our Masaijid The kids aren't here, the

00:33:44 --> 00:33:44

kids are outside.

00:33:45 --> 00:33:47

They're dealing drugs and they're falling into haram

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

relationships, and they're losing their identity and no

00:33:49 --> 00:33:50

one's panicking

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

This is this is reason for panic

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

This is reason for people to be scared

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

and to be very upset

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

and to go around figuring out solutions and

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

looking for ways to fix it.

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

And this should be the number one priority,

00:34:03 --> 00:34:04

and continue to be the one of the

00:34:04 --> 00:34:07

number one priority until it's fixed, and nothing

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

should be talked about until it's until it's

00:34:08 --> 00:34:10

taken care of. I'm giving it to you

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

straight.

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

You you you there's a lot of Muslim

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

problems in the Muslim community. Let's let's just

00:34:15 --> 00:34:16

get rid of all the the jargon.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

Look, it's very simple. It's very simple. The

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

solution for the community

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

is investment in their younger in the younger

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

generation.

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

They're not being invested in. We're not putting

00:34:26 --> 00:34:29

enough money, enough resources, enough time, and teaching

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

them, and mentoring them, and educating them, and

00:34:31 --> 00:34:34

making them comfortable in their masajid. We're not

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

doing remote we're not doing enough, not even

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

close, not even close.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:41

All the problems of our community are solvable

00:34:41 --> 00:34:42

within less than a decade. If we just

00:34:42 --> 00:34:45

did that piece, if you just made sure

00:34:45 --> 00:34:48

that this generation finds their self find themselves

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

in their again,

00:34:49 --> 00:34:52

which we have many of, but they're empty.

00:34:52 --> 00:34:53

We don't have

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

We're a very useful community and the majority

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

of our youth are not in our masajid,

00:34:57 --> 00:35:00

they're somewhere else. They're doing else other things.

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

Parents aren't willing to bring them and then

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

we're not able I'm not able to attract

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

them to come here, and that's a problem.

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

And this is a huge issue and this

00:35:07 --> 00:35:09

is the number one issue and there's really

00:35:09 --> 00:35:10

nothing else worth talking about as long as

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

that issue is not dealt with.

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

If that issue is not dealt with then

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

everything else is only going to going to

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

get worse. And if you temporize a solution

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

for something else, it'll just work for a

00:35:19 --> 00:35:20

couple of years and then it will fail

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

again because you don't have a next generation

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

that's coming through the pipeline. That is more

00:35:24 --> 00:35:25

That has

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

the proper identity. That has the proper understanding

00:35:28 --> 00:35:29

of their dean. You don't have them.

00:35:30 --> 00:35:33

And that's the bottom line. That's the problem.

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

I am

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

saving you a lifetime of

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

contemplation on what the issue is. That is

00:35:41 --> 00:35:42

the issue.

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

This is the issue.

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

We don't have enough investment in in the

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

in this age group. Not enough. And you

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

say, well, there's a lot of Quran programs.

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

No, there's not. Not

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55

enough. Not enough.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:56

Not enough.

00:35:57 --> 00:36:00

Incorporating maybe 10% of the Muslim youth committee.

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

That's not enough.

00:36:01 --> 00:36:04

Quran programs don't take people far enough anyways.

00:36:04 --> 00:36:05

They come they memorize a few words of

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

the Quran. That's not enough. That's just the

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

hook. That's the hook that got them into

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

the masjid. They actually have to come and

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

attend stuff. Then they start attending and after

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

getting connected. And they have to find mentors

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

and teachers and educators and people who care

00:36:15 --> 00:36:17

that if that's not happening for men, for

00:36:17 --> 00:36:19

boys and for girls, then we're not we're

00:36:19 --> 00:36:21

not going anywhere. And these spaces have to

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

be utilized

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

almost

00:36:23 --> 00:36:24

specifically

00:36:25 --> 00:36:25

and

00:36:25 --> 00:36:29

exclusively for them. Almost exclusively for them. That

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

has to be the only thing that matters

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

for a while, for a good while

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

because we're not at the point in our

00:36:35 --> 00:36:37

Islam where we don't have numbers. See the

00:36:37 --> 00:36:38

Prophet alaihis salatu wa sallam, even when he

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

didn't have numbers, he still was focused on

00:36:40 --> 00:36:43

the youth. Like even when he didn't have

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

numbers to begin with, he only had a

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

few older people, he's still focused on Ali,

00:36:46 --> 00:36:49

and Zubayr, and Palha, and Saeed, and Saeed.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

He focused on the people who were in

00:36:50 --> 00:36:51

their teens and early twenties.

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

You would think, no. For the beginning, he

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

focused on the people, in their forties and

00:36:55 --> 00:36:56

tips. You have wealth, you have No. He

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

focused on the kids then.

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

Today, we have numbers. We have people who

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02

have wealth, who have experience, who are older.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

And we have a lot of youth, and

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

they're not a part of our deen, and

00:37:06 --> 00:37:07

they're not being educated appropriately.

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

And they'll filter through or they may not

00:37:10 --> 00:37:12

at some point in their twenties or merrily

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

with a million questions and a million problems.

00:37:14 --> 00:37:16

And you're gonna want me to sit down

00:37:16 --> 00:37:16

and talk to them.

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

And my fuse is getting shorter and shorter

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

and shorter and still I'll say I ain't

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

sitting with anyone.

00:37:21 --> 00:37:22

I've been here for 10 years. You didn't

00:37:22 --> 00:37:23

bring him back when he was 15. I'm

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

not talking to him now when he's 25

00:37:25 --> 00:37:28

about every single theological mulsiva that he built

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

because he was never part of the masjid

00:37:29 --> 00:37:32

to begin with. That's not fair. That's not

00:37:32 --> 00:37:33

fair for the energy and the effort that

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

people put in these places.

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

Bring them when they're younger, we can Bring

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

them to me when they're 15 or I

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

can help them then. Bring them to you

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

in their 20s. I can't what am I

00:37:41 --> 00:37:42

gonna do then?

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

Bring them when they're kids and they can

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

learn, they're impressionable, they can they they can

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

be brought up and mentored and taught. Bring

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

them to me after they've after they've spent

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

years upon years listening to other that their

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

heads are filled with garbage, and I have

00:37:54 --> 00:37:55

to sit down and have to filter through

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

all of that. There's not enough time in

00:37:57 --> 00:37:58

the world to do this.

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

There's not enough time for all the imagine

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

the world to sit down and filter through

00:38:02 --> 00:38:04

every No, that's impossible. It's a waste of

00:38:04 --> 00:38:05

time. Bring them early so they learn. Bring

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

them so they can learn.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:10

Help us incentivize that. I'm not saying we

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

do a great job by the way. I'm

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

not even defending mister Aja. We do a

00:38:13 --> 00:38:14

horrible job.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

We do an absolutely horrible job at doing

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20

We suck at it. Big time. It's not

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

good at all. See we have no incentives

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

for them. There's no reason as a kid

00:38:24 --> 00:38:25

to want to come here.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:29

We lack proper trained teachers, educators, and mentors

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

to do it.

00:38:30 --> 00:38:32

We lack spaces that are welcoming. We lack

00:38:32 --> 00:38:34

we lack staff that properly trained, yeah, it's

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

just it's not it's not good,

00:38:36 --> 00:38:37

but it's not

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

any specific individuals problem.

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

It is the

00:38:41 --> 00:38:43

community's problem.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

Everybody has to participate in this. Everyone has

00:38:46 --> 00:38:49

to contribute something to the solution of this

00:38:49 --> 00:38:51

problem or or we all suffer Or we

00:38:51 --> 00:38:52

all suffer.

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

Masai ji today are Yani, they fill up

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

for jum'ah. I think that's one of the

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

misleading pieces that we have. Is that you

00:38:59 --> 00:39:01

open a jum'ah people come.

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

It's misleading. Makes you think that we're doing

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

fine. No, we're not. We're not. That's not

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

a good It's not a good science. Not

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

a good way to know. It's not a

00:39:08 --> 00:39:09

good way to know. The way you want

00:39:09 --> 00:39:10

to know is the percentages.

00:39:11 --> 00:39:12

It's not numbers, it's percentages.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:15

Percentages of youth. Percentages of people between the

00:39:15 --> 00:39:17

age of 15 30.

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

That's what you're looking for. What is the

00:39:20 --> 00:39:22

percentage of those people in masajid?

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

It ain't good. That's all I can tell

00:39:25 --> 00:39:26

you. It's not good. You wanna know? You

00:39:26 --> 00:39:27

don't believe me?

00:39:28 --> 00:39:29

Yeah. I don't want you to, you know,

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

end up being the old creepy guy, but

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

go stand in front of a high school

00:39:33 --> 00:39:34

and watch the number of Muslim people who

00:39:34 --> 00:39:35

walk into any high school in the whole

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

city. Any high school. Choose whatever one. Just

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

blindly choose 1. Go stand there and watch.

00:39:40 --> 00:39:40

Yeah.

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

And ask how many of them actually go

00:39:42 --> 00:39:43

to Masajid. Maybe

00:39:43 --> 00:39:45

you'll find 7 of them.

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

7 of maybe a couple of 100. A

00:39:48 --> 00:39:48

couple of 100.

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

Yeah. Our courts are filled.

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

The courts of this city are filled.

00:39:55 --> 00:39:56

Filled with Muslim youth

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

dealing drugs and falling into crime.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

Why?

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

Why? We don't We we have the setup

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

to take care of them.

00:40:04 --> 00:40:05

Just no willpower.

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

There's no organization. There's

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

no panic.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:11

I need people to start panicking.

00:40:12 --> 00:40:15

Maybe if they panic they'll move towards getting

00:40:15 --> 00:40:15

something done.

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

And enough

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

and enough attention,

00:40:19 --> 00:40:21

investment and resources will be pumped into that

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23

in that direction so we can run things

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

that are meaningful.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:27

And you can actually incorporate as all of

00:40:27 --> 00:40:28

these younger people. And we can take care

00:40:28 --> 00:40:30

of them. And we can build their identity

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

and their tolerance so they can carry this

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

this Deen for themselves and for us and

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

for the future.

00:40:36 --> 00:40:36

Anyways,

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

so they came to him with this, they

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

thought was a done deal. Year for us,

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

year year for you. Start with your year.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:44

Tell us, thank you. Do I take a

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

picture?

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

I think Sur Sam turns it down. Not

00:40:47 --> 00:40:48

a chance. We're not doing this.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

So they go.

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

So they come back,

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

and this time they have a list of

00:40:55 --> 00:40:56

demands. Like, Alright.

00:40:57 --> 00:40:59

Abu Labi Abu Umayya mikiz al Khafus came

00:40:59 --> 00:41:01

to him alaihis salatu wa sallam.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

And they had on behalf of the group,

00:41:03 --> 00:41:04

they had

00:41:05 --> 00:41:06

a number of demands. So if you look

00:41:06 --> 00:41:07

at the page of Surat Al Sala on

00:41:07 --> 00:41:09

the left side of the screen,

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

And then we won't believe in you unless

00:41:26 --> 00:41:27

you are able

00:41:27 --> 00:41:28

to

00:41:29 --> 00:41:30

strike the earth

00:41:30 --> 00:41:31

and

00:41:32 --> 00:41:35

water will come running gushing through it. A'in,

00:41:35 --> 00:41:38

right? You're going to a spring of water.

00:41:38 --> 00:41:39

Oh, or

00:41:41 --> 00:41:43

you create for yourself in the middle of

00:41:43 --> 00:41:44

the desert because

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

Mecca is a big desert. Create for yourself

00:41:47 --> 00:41:48

in the middle of the desert an orchard

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50

from palm trees, and vineyard,

00:41:51 --> 00:41:51

and vine.

00:41:55 --> 00:41:58

And you have rivers run within your vineyards,

00:41:58 --> 00:42:00

within your Show us, show us, show us

00:42:00 --> 00:42:00

green.

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03

They told him, you have the Lord, right?

00:42:03 --> 00:42:04

He can make anything?

00:42:04 --> 00:42:06

Let him let him fill this desert with

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

green.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

Look at where we're living, we're living in

00:42:09 --> 00:42:12

the middle of nowhere. There is nothing here.

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

If He's the Lord, let him change this

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

sand to green.

00:42:16 --> 00:42:17

That's what they asked him for.

00:42:19 --> 00:42:20

Oh, if you can't do that,

00:42:24 --> 00:42:27

Or may have your Lord bring the sky

00:42:27 --> 00:42:27

upon us.

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

May it come down in punishment,

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

like meteors and like all the stories of

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

this of the

00:42:34 --> 00:42:37

nations before the Prophet may he may He

00:42:37 --> 00:42:37

see a punishment come to us.

00:42:42 --> 00:42:45

All Aizbanu Israeel said to Musa, Have your

00:42:45 --> 00:42:46

Lord come to us with His Malayik, I

00:42:46 --> 00:42:47

want to see Him.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

Or have Your Lord grant you a house

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

of gold, a castle of gold,

00:42:58 --> 00:42:59

or We want you to elevate into the

00:42:59 --> 00:43:00

sky.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

And if you do elevate into the sky,

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

it's not enough. You have to elevate into

00:43:08 --> 00:43:10

the sky, We have to see a creature

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

give you

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

a scripture. Something like

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

a tablets as Musa alaihis salam had,

00:43:17 --> 00:43:18

you bring it back for us to read,

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

and the tablets have something written by the

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

hand of God, and we read it.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

That's what they're asking for. When do one

00:43:24 --> 00:43:25

of these things for us?

00:43:25 --> 00:43:26

So the answer is

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

Say, Exalted is my Lord. Have I ever

00:43:33 --> 00:43:35

been anything aside from a human

00:43:36 --> 00:43:38

messenger? I'm just a human messenger. What are

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

you asking me for? This is all This

00:43:40 --> 00:43:41

is crazy stuff. I can't do any of

00:43:41 --> 00:43:43

these things. I'm not I'm not I don't

00:43:43 --> 00:43:44

have superpowers.

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

My Lord never promised me that he would

00:43:46 --> 00:43:47

bring

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

And the question is, why didn't he get

00:43:49 --> 00:43:50

at least one of them?

00:43:52 --> 00:43:53

Right? Why didn't he get one of these

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

things? Just one of them.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

I know maybe he strikes the earth and

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

a a spring of water comes gushing through.

00:44:00 --> 00:44:03

Maybe that would have helped the credibility along.

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

He didn't alayhis saloon. Not one not one

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10

not one physical miracle. This something people don't

00:44:10 --> 00:44:11

seem to understand. I keep on saying and

00:44:11 --> 00:44:13

I keep on getting questions. What about there's

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

no what about. There were no physical miracles

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

during his life, alayhis salaam. There's something called

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

They're evidence of prophecies. Small little things that

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

happened during his life alaihis salatu wa sallam

00:44:24 --> 00:44:25

that those who were close got to see

00:44:25 --> 00:44:26

and got to benefit from. And I'll point

00:44:26 --> 00:44:27

them out to you as we go along,

00:44:27 --> 00:44:28

they're beautiful stories.

00:44:29 --> 00:44:30

But physical miracles

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

is when a Prophet

00:44:32 --> 00:44:33

will do something

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

there'll be an extraordinary phenomenon that the Prophet

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38

will bring forward, that he will use to

00:44:38 --> 00:44:38

challenge

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

the disbelievers. He will use it to challenge

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

them, Right? That's what a miracle is, that's

00:44:43 --> 00:44:45

the definition of a miracle. And the prophet

00:44:45 --> 00:44:47

alaihis salatu wasallam challenged with nothing but the

00:44:47 --> 00:44:48

Quran,

00:44:48 --> 00:44:49

ever.

00:44:49 --> 00:44:52

He challenged them with nothing but the Quran

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

and had he

00:44:54 --> 00:44:57

been given a physical miracle, it would have

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

been an admission from God that the Quran

00:44:59 --> 00:44:59

is not enough.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:01

It would have been an admission

00:45:02 --> 00:45:03

that the Quran is not enough. You need

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

some help. Here's a physical miracle. Nope. Nothing.

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

And they asked for all these things and

00:45:07 --> 00:45:08

so you can read Surah Al

00:45:09 --> 00:45:10

none of them, not one of them.

00:45:11 --> 00:45:11

Subhanarabi,

00:45:12 --> 00:45:13

his answer was as the Quran told him

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

to answer. Subaha'na Rabi, halkun tu illa basharab

00:45:16 --> 00:45:16

Rasoolah

00:45:17 --> 00:45:19

I'm just a human messenger. I am not

00:45:19 --> 00:45:21

here to bedazzle your eyes with

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

any Marvel and DC comic level, yeah, miracles.

00:45:24 --> 00:45:25

That's not what you're gonna get from me.

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27

I'm not doing any of that for you.

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

You're going to you're going to listen to

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

what's being said. And if that doesn't work

00:45:30 --> 00:45:32

for you, you'da. So they walk away.

00:45:33 --> 00:45:34

And this time they actually thought they were

00:45:34 --> 00:45:36

gonna get it because they're asking for something

00:45:36 --> 00:45:37

reasonable. Like this time they thought that this

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

was going to work because it's a reasonable

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

request. All the prophets before him were given

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

miracles, so he will give us whenever we're

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

good and then we can bring show it

00:45:45 --> 00:45:46

to our people and we feel good about

00:45:46 --> 00:45:47

themselves. So they thought this time it was

00:45:47 --> 00:45:48

going to be easy because they're asking for

00:45:48 --> 00:45:51

something that was requested before. The people of

00:45:51 --> 00:45:53

Musa requested something. The people of Sara requested

00:45:53 --> 00:45:55

something. The people of Ibrahim requested something. All

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

of the prophets before, their people requested something

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58

and they got it.

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

Not the people of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:02

They got a book.

00:46:03 --> 00:46:05

It's interesting, isn't it? That even though that's

00:46:05 --> 00:46:06

all they got, here we are today.

00:46:07 --> 00:46:07

All

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

all 2,000,000,000 of us

00:46:10 --> 00:46:11

with a book.

00:46:12 --> 00:46:14

So they try one more time.

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

They give it one more shot.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:18

This time,

00:46:19 --> 00:46:20

this was the last one and this one

00:46:20 --> 00:46:21

was going to be easy.

00:46:22 --> 00:46:23

They said: Alright, Mohammad,

00:46:25 --> 00:46:27

UBS, you win, fine.

00:46:28 --> 00:46:29

We will all say,

00:46:31 --> 00:46:33

All of us. Imagine this, Abu Jahila Bhusufyan,

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

Waleed, all of them sitting there together will

00:46:35 --> 00:46:36

all give Shahar Shahadah.

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

The prophet alaihis salazar's eyes are sparkling.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

We just have one condition for you.

00:46:42 --> 00:46:43

Just one condition.

00:46:44 --> 00:46:45

Why? What's your condition?

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

Just don't have a sit with Ammar and

00:46:47 --> 00:46:49

Bilal and Suhayb. It's just not appropriate.

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

We're the nobles of Quraysh.

00:46:52 --> 00:46:54

When we're looking at you, sit with your

00:46:54 --> 00:46:56

people, Abu Bakr is sitting beside Bilal and

00:46:56 --> 00:46:57

sitting beside Ammar.

00:46:58 --> 00:47:00

Abu Bakr the great, Abdullah ibn Abi Khuafa,

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

and he one of the great, leaders of

00:47:02 --> 00:47:04

Quraysh. She's sitting with Bilal al Rubaha, the

00:47:04 --> 00:47:05

Ethiopian,

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

freed slave. Beside

00:47:07 --> 00:47:09

another free another slave.

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

This this mix is not, it's it's not

00:47:12 --> 00:47:14

it's not respectful. It's not respectful.

00:47:15 --> 00:47:16

We have no problem. We'll enter your Deen

00:47:16 --> 00:47:18

as you want us to. Just separate us

00:47:18 --> 00:47:20

a little bit. Just sit with them and

00:47:20 --> 00:47:21

then sit with us. Just have a little

00:47:21 --> 00:47:22

bit of a separation.

00:47:24 --> 00:47:24

Reasonable.

00:47:25 --> 00:47:25

Not reasonable?

00:47:26 --> 00:47:28

No. It's not reason.

00:47:28 --> 00:47:30

No. It wasn't. And has asked this before

00:47:30 --> 00:47:31

him.

00:47:34 --> 00:47:35

I'm gonna

00:47:35 --> 00:47:37

sit with you and you have all these

00:47:37 --> 00:47:37

people

00:47:38 --> 00:47:40

that these these people who have no no

00:47:40 --> 00:47:41

value in society

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

They sit with you. No. We're not doing

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

that.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:46

And he was asked to remove them. Nuh

00:47:46 --> 00:47:49

alayhis salaam before the prophet alayhis salaam

00:47:50 --> 00:47:51

was asked to remove

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

the people who had no status

00:47:54 --> 00:47:56

and Nuh alayhi salaam in that story. That's

00:47:56 --> 00:47:57

why this Quran is so valuable

00:47:58 --> 00:47:59

to the prophet alayhi salaam because you'd read

00:47:59 --> 00:48:00

the stories and you'd learn the lessons.

00:48:01 --> 00:48:02

And Surah, who do you go Surah, who

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

do you read Surah, the story of Nuh

00:48:03 --> 00:48:04

alayhi salaam?

00:48:10 --> 00:48:12

All we see that people are following you

00:48:12 --> 00:48:13

are just

00:48:14 --> 00:48:15

the the low lives, astaghfirullah.

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

That's what they're using. The low the low

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

lives. The the people who were thieves before

00:48:19 --> 00:48:20

and slaves and,

00:48:22 --> 00:48:24

honey, well, we can't sit with these people.

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

So they came and told the prophet, just

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

separate between us and between Ammar and Bilal

00:48:29 --> 00:48:30

and Swahib.

00:48:31 --> 00:48:32

And that's it. And they're already they were

00:48:32 --> 00:48:33

sitting there at callous they they didn't they

00:48:33 --> 00:48:36

didn't imagine for a moment that they were

00:48:36 --> 00:48:37

going to be re rejected.

00:48:38 --> 00:48:38

Actually

00:48:39 --> 00:48:41

some of my teachers like in, the specialists

00:48:41 --> 00:48:42

in Sila,

00:48:43 --> 00:48:45

they are theory they theorize

00:48:45 --> 00:48:48

that the reason that after this negotiation period

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

things became so brutal

00:48:50 --> 00:48:53

was because of this request being rejected.

00:48:54 --> 00:48:55

They felt extra humiliated

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

because they had in their minds,

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

you know compromised and given up and they're

00:49:00 --> 00:49:03

coming vulnerable and they're saying, okay fine. You

00:49:03 --> 00:49:04

win. We'll be a part of your deen

00:49:04 --> 00:49:07

and everything. Just don't make us sit with

00:49:07 --> 00:49:09

the slaves and the low lives of Quraysh

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

and the people around. Just have us just

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

honor us, let us sit

00:49:16 --> 00:49:16

alone.

00:49:24 --> 00:49:27

And don't remove the people who praise their

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

Lord in the morning and the day because

00:49:28 --> 00:49:29

they are poor.

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

You are not no one is going to

00:49:31 --> 00:49:34

be held accountable for anyone. If you if

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

you if you send them away, then you're

00:49:36 --> 00:49:38

an oppressor like like the rest.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:40

If you tell them you need to I

00:49:40 --> 00:49:42

need can you guys leave?

00:49:43 --> 00:49:45

I'm sure Suhaib and Ammar would have been

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

happy to leave

00:49:46 --> 00:49:48

because this is a huge win.

00:49:48 --> 00:49:50

I'm sure they wouldn't have a problem with

00:49:50 --> 00:49:52

leaving if the prophet alaihis salam requested it,

00:49:52 --> 00:49:53

but the Quran came and said don't ask

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

them to leave. If you do that you're

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

an oppressor like, like the rest.

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

So the prophet alaihis salam said no. You

00:49:59 --> 00:50:01

sit. You accept Islam. You sit with them.

00:50:03 --> 00:50:04

Then they were flabbergasted.

00:50:05 --> 00:50:05

What?

00:50:06 --> 00:50:08

We're just asking for a little bit of,

00:50:08 --> 00:50:09

separation. No.

00:50:10 --> 00:50:10

You Muhammad.

00:50:11 --> 00:50:12

Yeah. Balqasim.

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

Jinaq and Muslim. We're here to accept Islam.

00:50:17 --> 00:50:19

Just just do a little bit of segregation.

00:50:19 --> 00:50:20

Nope.

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

When I sit, you sit like everyone else.

00:50:23 --> 00:50:25

Imagine how valued

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

Bilal and Ammar and Suhaib and everyone, all

00:50:27 --> 00:50:29

the all the people who were weak felt.

00:50:30 --> 00:50:31

You understand?

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

You could I you could I could have

00:50:33 --> 00:50:34

made I honestly said I used to think

00:50:34 --> 00:50:35

about this story and say why don't you

00:50:35 --> 00:50:36

just

00:50:36 --> 00:50:38

ask them to take a just step out

00:50:38 --> 00:50:39

for a little bit.

00:50:39 --> 00:50:40

It's no biggie.

00:50:41 --> 00:50:42

These guys have a lot of money. They

00:50:42 --> 00:50:43

could they could fix the problem. Like, they

00:50:43 --> 00:50:44

they could, you know, things will work out

00:50:44 --> 00:50:46

later. Just just step out.

00:50:47 --> 00:50:49

No. No. See even even us even some

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

of our hearts are just have a little

00:50:51 --> 00:50:52

bit of little bit of corruption.

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

Nope.

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

Either you accept it as it is or

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

I don't need you. I don't Islam does

00:50:58 --> 00:51:01

not need anybody. The prophet alaihis salam learned

00:51:01 --> 00:51:03

that early on from Allah. Islam does not

00:51:03 --> 00:51:04

need anyone.

00:51:04 --> 00:51:05

You need Islam.

00:51:06 --> 00:51:08

Period. Islam does not need you.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:11

Never did. If Islam ceases to exist, and

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

we're all held we're accountable on the day

00:51:14 --> 00:51:16

of judgment to the standard of Islam anyways.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

Islam is divine because it's the source the

00:51:18 --> 00:51:19

source of it is comes from the divine

00:51:19 --> 00:51:20

himself.

00:51:20 --> 00:51:22

It doesn't need anybody. We need it. So

00:51:22 --> 00:51:24

you come to it and you adhere to

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

its rules or you don't. There is no

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

compromising any of the values, any of the

00:51:28 --> 00:51:28

values

00:51:29 --> 00:51:30

And imagine how

00:51:30 --> 00:51:32

how the the weak amongst the Prophet

00:51:33 --> 00:51:33

felt.

00:51:34 --> 00:51:35

That's our we're

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

to value people. You salalam.

00:51:39 --> 00:51:42

Yes, salaam. To value people. To make people

00:51:42 --> 00:51:44

feel valued, valuable.

00:51:45 --> 00:51:48

Wallahi, it's such a beautiful thing. So rare.

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

So So rare you will you will you'll

00:51:50 --> 00:51:52

live life and you'll study and work and

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

be around people and you'll learn how rare

00:51:54 --> 00:51:56

it is to be in a situation in

00:51:56 --> 00:51:58

a position where you're valued.

00:51:58 --> 00:52:00

Where people actually see what it is that

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

you have to oversee. Your true value is

00:52:02 --> 00:52:03

very rare.

00:52:04 --> 00:52:05

It's a beautiful thing when it happens. And

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

I always think of this story and, you

00:52:07 --> 00:52:08

know, after I kind of

00:52:09 --> 00:52:10

played around with the scenario a bit in

00:52:10 --> 00:52:11

my mind of why he didn't just say

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

yes and get it over with.

00:52:14 --> 00:52:16

Imagine how they felt, how valued they felt.

00:52:16 --> 00:52:17

Like, yeah.

00:52:18 --> 00:52:20

He was willing. He the whole story of

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22

Sira would be different.

00:52:23 --> 00:52:24

The wallahi, the whole story that we know

00:52:24 --> 00:52:25

about the

00:52:26 --> 00:52:27

None of these had to happen. Like every

00:52:27 --> 00:52:29

time I tell you stories as we go

00:52:29 --> 00:52:31

along, of fighting and combat and people dying

00:52:31 --> 00:52:33

and saying, and he just said yes back

00:52:33 --> 00:52:34

then at this moment here. None of this

00:52:34 --> 00:52:35

was necessary.

00:52:36 --> 00:52:37

But then he would have been he would

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

have compromised

00:52:39 --> 00:52:41

a basic Islamic value of the equality of

00:52:41 --> 00:52:42

everyone

00:52:42 --> 00:52:44

under the eyes of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:47

That no one has the right to ask

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

for someone else to not be present when

00:52:48 --> 00:52:51

they are. No one gets to be treated

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

better than someone else because of some any

00:52:53 --> 00:52:56

bloodline that they have or some background or

00:52:56 --> 00:52:58

some wealth or no. Everyone has the exact

00:52:58 --> 00:53:00

same value within our deen. And if you

00:53:00 --> 00:53:02

have more value, it's because you have more

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

merit, it's because you work harder, it's because

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

you're bringing more to the table, you're carrying

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

more of the burden that's all.

00:53:07 --> 00:53:10

Aside from that there's no there's no difference

00:53:10 --> 00:53:12

between a and b and c and d

00:53:12 --> 00:53:13

and regardless who they are.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:16

I can only imagine the commitment in the

00:53:16 --> 00:53:19

hearts of Bilal and Suhayb and Ammar and

00:53:19 --> 00:53:20

all these all these people who had nothing

00:53:21 --> 00:53:23

knowing that that's how the Prophet alaihis salaam

00:53:23 --> 00:53:24

salaam that no.

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

And no one can ask and request their

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

removed for them to be removed or segregated

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

because no one can do that.

00:53:39 --> 00:53:42

What's more beautiful than that in our deen?

00:53:42 --> 00:53:43

And yet we don't practice this honestly.

00:53:45 --> 00:53:46

Yeah. We don't do a very good job

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

in practicing that piece.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:50

We don't value people properly.

00:53:51 --> 00:53:53

And we we fall into a lot of

00:53:53 --> 00:53:54

these, a lot of this.

00:53:55 --> 00:53:56

We fall into a lot of it.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:57

People

00:53:58 --> 00:54:00

are treated better and differently because they have

00:54:00 --> 00:54:01

certain backgrounds or certain,

00:54:03 --> 00:54:04

which is why Masaijid, you know, I mean,

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

many many

00:54:06 --> 00:54:07

aren't as full as they should be. Because

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

people don't feel valued when they come here.

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12

You don't feel valued when they come here

00:54:12 --> 00:54:13

so they don't come.

00:54:13 --> 00:54:15

Can you blame them? Can I blame them?

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

Or am I to be blamed for them?

00:54:18 --> 00:54:19

It's all about perspective.

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

It's all about how you see your role.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:23

Can I blame them for not coming or

00:54:23 --> 00:54:25

am I blamed because they don't come?

00:54:26 --> 00:54:28

Because when they walk through the doors they

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

don't feel like they're equally valued and they

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

have the same weight and importance and significance.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:33

So that their needs are equal to the

00:54:33 --> 00:54:35

needs of everyone else.

00:54:35 --> 00:54:37

That we're listening and watching and making sure

00:54:37 --> 00:54:39

that we figure ways out to help them

00:54:39 --> 00:54:40

as we do for others.

00:54:41 --> 00:54:43

Because are people who feel more, they belong

00:54:43 --> 00:54:44

more because they're more valued than others who

00:54:44 --> 00:54:45

aren't. And

00:54:51 --> 00:54:53

There are people who feel more they belong

00:54:53 --> 00:54:54

more because they're more valued than others who

00:54:54 --> 00:54:56

aren't. Maybe maybe we have to change the

00:54:56 --> 00:54:58

way we function in massage.

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

Maybe you have to start valuing the people

00:54:59 --> 00:55:01

that we have. The people that come through

00:55:01 --> 00:55:02

the doors. The people who volunteer with you.

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

The people who actually attend what you're doing.

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

Make sure that they're hurt. Make sure that

00:55:05 --> 00:55:07

you care. Take a minute to get to

00:55:07 --> 00:55:08

know people.

00:55:09 --> 00:55:10

Take a minute to get to know people

00:55:10 --> 00:55:11

and make me see that make them feel

00:55:11 --> 00:55:13

valued. This Masjid is not a Masjid that

00:55:13 --> 00:55:16

is Masjid aren't owned by the people who

00:55:16 --> 00:55:16

run it.

00:55:17 --> 00:55:18

Khayla and I don't own this place.

00:55:19 --> 00:55:20

You are just as much

00:55:21 --> 00:55:23

you're just as responsible as we are

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

for how it functions.

00:55:25 --> 00:55:27

You're responsible for making others feel welcome here

00:55:27 --> 00:55:30

too. You're responsible for this space functioning properly

00:55:30 --> 00:55:31

too.

00:55:31 --> 00:55:33

This is the house of Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:55:33 --> 00:55:33

Ta'ala.

00:55:33 --> 00:55:36

You're responsible for how well it works just

00:55:36 --> 00:55:38

as we are. We just took on the

00:55:38 --> 00:55:40

rule and we're just we're just being held

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

accountable for it really, that's all it is.

00:55:42 --> 00:55:43

But you're just irresponsible.

00:55:44 --> 00:55:45

We're all gonna be asked about this aspect

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

of how we function communally. We all are.

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

And the Prophet alaihis and we'll have this

00:55:50 --> 00:55:52

example to go back to from the sunnah.

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

From the Prophet alaihis salatu wa sallam's life.

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

When he was offered a way out.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

A way out

00:55:59 --> 00:56:00

of all of the misery.

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

I think about this this example often

00:56:04 --> 00:56:04

because

00:56:04 --> 00:56:07

I feel sometimes I listen to the story

00:56:07 --> 00:56:08

I feel like how

00:56:08 --> 00:56:09

how tired he must have been at that

00:56:09 --> 00:56:12

point after 6 years of everything just failing.

00:56:13 --> 00:56:15

Of just not having enough people or enough

00:56:15 --> 00:56:18

followers, enough anything and he's offered a lifeline.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:20

They're all there. They're all sitting in front

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

of them. They're all offering their deen.

00:56:23 --> 00:56:25

They're already take shahada and be a part

00:56:25 --> 00:56:26

of it. All he has to do is

00:56:26 --> 00:56:27

make a small

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

adjustment that you could you could write off

00:56:29 --> 00:56:32

as a I don't know, a logistic or

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

admin.

00:56:33 --> 00:56:34

Yeah honey.

00:56:35 --> 00:56:38

Change like something a small little No, because

00:56:38 --> 00:56:39

he saw the essence of what was happening

00:56:39 --> 00:56:41

here. You came to Islam feeling that you

00:56:41 --> 00:56:43

shouldn't be sitting with these people.

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

You are not welcome in Islam with that

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46

thought.

00:56:47 --> 00:56:49

You are not welcome in this deen with

00:56:49 --> 00:56:50

that thought in your mind. You take that

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52

thought back and you come back without it

00:56:52 --> 00:56:53

and then you can come to this deen.

00:56:53 --> 00:56:55

You're not allowed to come here feeling that

00:56:55 --> 00:56:57

someone is beneath you. You're not allowed to

00:56:57 --> 00:56:59

enter this down feeling that someone is not

00:56:59 --> 00:57:00

worthy to be in your presence. I'm sorry.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

That's not going to happen.

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05

You can give people's time. You can give

00:57:05 --> 00:57:07

people segregated time to learn things, but they

00:57:07 --> 00:57:09

were coming and asking for something specific. He

00:57:09 --> 00:57:09

heard it

00:57:10 --> 00:57:11

alaihis salatu wasalam. He saw it and he

00:57:11 --> 00:57:12

said no.

00:57:13 --> 00:57:14

And they got upset.

00:57:15 --> 00:57:17

But who's weaker? Who's stronger here?

00:57:17 --> 00:57:20

Who's coming and compromising everything they have? And

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

who is sitting there saying, just, you know,

00:57:22 --> 00:57:25

just batting a 1,000? Right? Yeah. Nope.

00:57:26 --> 00:57:26

Yeah, nope.

00:57:27 --> 00:57:29

This one, nope, nothing. Every just kicking them

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

all back, nothing. You come as I want

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

it. You don't want a lamak.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:34

I'm telling you.

00:57:34 --> 00:57:35

Just

00:57:35 --> 00:57:36

give me

00:57:36 --> 00:57:39

Show me something physical. Nope. But year on

00:57:39 --> 00:57:40

year, nope.

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

You're making us look really bad here. Can

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

we at least maybe talk about can you

00:57:46 --> 00:57:48

just make a few adjustments? No. So just

00:57:48 --> 00:57:50

don't make us sit with the poor. Nope.

00:57:50 --> 00:57:52

You come as it is. Who's weak? Who's

00:57:52 --> 00:57:54

strong? Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

Right? We just tell you like I start

00:57:57 --> 00:57:59

to confuse you like these are the years

00:57:59 --> 00:58:01

of him being weak alaihis salatu wa sallam

00:58:01 --> 00:58:02

the Muslims. Yes, you know, we are the

00:58:02 --> 00:58:04

years of the weakness of the Muslims

00:58:05 --> 00:58:07

because they were never really weak.

00:58:08 --> 00:58:09

They were never really weak.

00:58:10 --> 00:58:12

A strong idea is never really weak.

00:58:12 --> 00:58:16

A strong idea is never really weak.

00:58:16 --> 00:58:18

It can go through a phase where it

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20

doesn't have enough financial and social support but

00:58:20 --> 00:58:21

it's never weak

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

ever. If it has someone who believes in

00:58:23 --> 00:58:26

it, who carries it firmly in their hearts,

00:58:26 --> 00:58:27

it's never weak.

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

Can you do feel that? Can you can

00:58:30 --> 00:58:31

you live like that?

00:58:31 --> 00:58:33

A life so such a

00:58:34 --> 00:58:35

It's

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

a valuable thing. If you're able able to

00:58:37 --> 00:58:39

feel that that

00:58:39 --> 00:58:41

you are strong because the idea you carry,

00:58:41 --> 00:58:43

the identity you have is strong

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

and that confidence

00:58:46 --> 00:58:47

should carry you through this life

00:58:48 --> 00:58:49

even if you don't have a lot of

00:58:49 --> 00:58:52

money and you're not popular within the realms

00:58:53 --> 00:58:55

of of no. Doesn't matter. You have that

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

idea. And when you listen to these stories

00:58:57 --> 00:58:58

you start to wonder who had the upper

00:58:58 --> 00:59:01

hand here. It was always him alayhis salatu

00:59:01 --> 00:59:03

wa salaam. Even as he sat there and

00:59:03 --> 00:59:05

they and they threw garbage at him, even

00:59:05 --> 00:59:06

as they killed

00:59:07 --> 00:59:09

and they tortured Binalay ur Rubah, they were

00:59:09 --> 00:59:11

stronger because their idea was stronger because their

00:59:11 --> 00:59:11

conviction

00:59:12 --> 00:59:14

of their idea was stronger. So they were

00:59:14 --> 00:59:16

stronger even though they laid there under the

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

rocks, even that they were being mistreated as

00:59:18 --> 00:59:20

human beings, they were stronger

00:59:21 --> 00:59:22

and that's what we have today.

00:59:23 --> 00:59:24

The people of Gaza, they're stronger.

00:59:25 --> 00:59:27

Yes, they're being buried under the rubble of

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

their own homes and killed, but they're stronger

00:59:29 --> 00:59:30

because they believe

00:59:30 --> 00:59:32

in they know what they believe in, and

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

they know who they are, and they know

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

the land, and they know themselves.

00:59:36 --> 00:59:39

So they're stronger even as they're killed. As

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

everyone seems to stand against them, they're stronger

00:59:41 --> 00:59:43

and that strength will shine through, and it's

00:59:43 --> 00:59:44

shining through. And that strength

00:59:45 --> 00:59:46

is inspiring an ummah.

00:59:47 --> 00:59:48

And that strength is inspiring

00:59:48 --> 00:59:49

a human race.

00:59:50 --> 00:59:52

Because the other group, yes they have the

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

bombs, and they have the ruckus, and they

00:59:53 --> 00:59:56

have, but they're weak because they're bankrupt intellectually.

00:59:56 --> 00:59:58

They don't have an argument, and they don't

00:59:58 --> 01:00:00

have a conviction, and their idea is weak,

01:00:00 --> 01:00:01

and they know it.

01:00:01 --> 01:00:03

So your idea is weak. You just throw

01:00:03 --> 01:00:05

you just you just throw an a palm

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

and fire at it.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

And yes, for a moment, they the people

01:00:09 --> 01:00:10

have got the *, but they're not weak

01:00:12 --> 01:00:13

and we're not weaker. And if you can

01:00:13 --> 01:00:16

just realize that, if somehow the Muslims could

01:00:16 --> 01:00:16

just

01:00:17 --> 01:00:19

snap out of it and realize that you're

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stronger. You have the strong idea,

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then suddenly

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the winds of change will start to blow.

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It'll be something amazing when it happens. It'll

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happen. I hope I live long enough to

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see it, but when it happens it will

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be amazing when it finally starts to blow

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in that direction and we start to see,

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yes, Haqq starts

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has a voice now. There's there's strength behind

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it. People aren't scared anymore. People aren't hiding

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behind anything anymore.

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They're not scared about what they're gonna lose

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because they know that their idea is stronger.

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I hope we can arrive at that point.

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InshaAllah,

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we continue next week an hour before Maghrib.

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So, Maghrib is 8:30 something or 8

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