Quranic Reflections – Beginning of Surat Al-Mumtahinah 1

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The speakers discuss the importance of leadership and the need for individuals to show their love and mercy to those who aren't Muslims. They emphasize the need for leaders to understand their involvement in the community and seek clarity and leadership. The speakers also emphasize the importance of acceptance and belief in laws and the importance of balancing approach and balance. The "hasn't been done" event is seen as an overwhelming event and is seen as a "hasn't been done" event.

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I am running on very little

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juice in the, in the voice box. So,

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you know, we're gonna have to quiet down

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a bit or else I can't I can't

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raise my voice anymore.

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So tonight is the 27th night of Ramadan.

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And no matter where you go in the

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world, there's always some degree of significance to

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this night, and,

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I don't disagree with that.

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I do disagree with, with, ignoring the rest

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of the nights and just focusing on on

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one. I don't think that's an, an healthy

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a healthy approach to, for the last 10

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nights of Ramadan.

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However, the 27th night has always had a

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cultural and religious,

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status for for Muslims everywhere.

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It's towards the end. It's just

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just

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before.

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And the number of scholars and sahaba who

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have who revered this night and and considered

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it the,

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the the night of late Al Qadir

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are are many.

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May Allah grant us the balaka of that

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inshallah. And, tonight, we'll recite from beginning beginning

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of Surah Al Mu'takina to the end of

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Surah Al Ma'arij.

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And

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I did go over to with some degree

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to some degree of detail. The final 4

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from and

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how they're called the the comprehensive, and

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and it's basically 4 clusters of Surahs from

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we talked about yesterday.

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And then from Mujadilat at Tahrim, these these,

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you know, these sur, they talk about organizational

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aspects of,

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of life,

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the Muslim life, and it looks at different,

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different topics. And Sultan Muktahina looks at the

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relationship that we have with with non Muslims.

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Relationship we have with non Muslims.

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And this Surah, in my opinion, is extremely

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important specifically for Muslims living in the west.

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Probably for Muslims living everywhere because

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the diversity of the world that we're living

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in. The the world is no longer what

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it once was, where,

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you have the same race or group of

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people live in the same area for a

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very long time, very few foreigners. Now people

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are traveling all over and living with each

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other. So understanding

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how we view non Muslims and how we

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deal with them is very important. I did

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the not too long ago over the Sunday

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halakkah, so you can find it in English,

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explained in-depth, and and it's one of the

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my opinion, one of the most beautiful surahs

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that we have in the Quran. And is

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and the values that that it that it

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preaches and teaches are are are extremely important.

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And it points out to us exactly when,

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Yani, when you

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the love that you show and the mercy

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that you show and the compassion that you

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show to to people who are not Muslim.

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The only time that you don't or when

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you refuse to take them as your allies

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is when they oppress you or remove you

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from your land or

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take away your freedom of of religion or

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they help others do that. And aside from

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that, you continue to

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show them the love that you hope that

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they find Allah

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through, which is what the Surah basically explains.

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Surah al Saf, it talks about

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the social contract

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that we have with our with our group.

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It looks at what we owe the collective.

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As an individual, what do you owe the

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collective? What is it that you owe the

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group that you're a part of? This is

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a really important question.

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Is it and funny enough, the surah in

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the in the midst of it has a

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contract.

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There's a contract. And the surah in general

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is just explaining that contract, what it looks

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like,

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what relationship we have as individuals with the

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group or the ummah that we're a part

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of, what that entails,

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what we're required to do, what we're going

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to be asked about yomul kiyama.

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Because if that's not clear and I find

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that it it isn't

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to a certain to, you know,

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to an unfortunate degree that it isn't clear.

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A lot of individuals don't understand that they

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are accountable for the for being a part

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of the of the of the nation, of

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their community, That they'll be asked about

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their involvement

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and how they supported and what they did

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and

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and what degree of involvement they had. And

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if the answer is none, and I just

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I I did my salah and suya, mazakah

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and Hajj, and I was very that that

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doesn't work. It it just doesn't.

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The concept of a Muslim existing

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alone in the world, floating alone, only works

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if there's absolutely no other Muslims in the

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world aside from you, And you have done

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everything you possibly can to call people to

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the way of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. They've

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all rejected you. And you've spent the majority

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of your life doing that, and now you're

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being threatened in your yeah. Your life is

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being threatened. Your, your your freedom of religion

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is being threatened. In that point in that

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point, you just find a space and you

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exist on your own. No problem. If that's

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not the case, which obviously it is not

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the case, Yani, for most for Muslims, then

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the lack of involvement within your community or

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your society is just not, is uncalled for.

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And it and it and it reflects

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a misunderstanding of this faith in general, which

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is why it's with the suf. It's called

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the suf, the concept of that yeah. The

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line of being a part of the line,

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the the equality. You're you're equally valued. You're

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equally responsible. It's what this sort of explains,

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basically. You know? You're a part of this.

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You you're a part you're you're responsible for

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for carrying the message, handing it down, or

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standing in front of corruption, refusing oppression, and

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then and then performing mujahide to the best

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of your ability. That's the social contract. You

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do that until the day you meet

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And that's also suf is. And so the

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jum'ah

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it turns things around a little bit. So

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the jum'ah talks about leadership,

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and it uses the premise of jum'ah because

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we have within our faith embedded a an

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actual,

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yeah, an actual, system for leadership. Like, you

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have it within the deen.

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It's really interesting

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how how well we, we

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we messed it up. How how well how

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it will I it's just it's just it's

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mind boggling how how professionally we we ruined

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something that

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basically ensured and and guaranteed for us that

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wherever we would be and whatever situation we'd

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be in, we'd always have some degree of

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leadership.

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Because any if if if our Muslims exist

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in some corner of the world, they'll find

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each other and build a masjid and have

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a Jummah. Right? That's how you know Muslims

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exist. There's always a Jum'ah happening somewhere. The

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concept of Jum'ah is not just a reminder.

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The concept of Jum'ah is is is leadership.

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It wasn't the scholar who gave the Jum'ah

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back in the day. It was the it

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was the Khalifa. It was the Wali.

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It was it was the leader. Right?

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If if if there was a any a

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a a con a group of people and

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amongst them were a scholar and amongst them

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was a leader who had no knowledge, the

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leader on we get on the mibro.

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You would have to give the you you

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could consult with the scholar for the information

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and how to break them, but it had

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it had to be the leader who spoke

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because jum'ah was about leadership. It's about direction.

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It's about

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having

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knowing where where this ummah, where this community

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is headed, in which direction it's going, what

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the destination is, what what is what are

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the objectives?

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This is a question that I ask a

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lot and sometimes younger people come and ask

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me and I find and I'm happy that

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they do, but I have no answer. Like,

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what is what exactly is our role here

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as Muslims? I don't know. What are we

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trying to achieve here as a community? I

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have no clue. I have no idea.

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I don't think this has been talked about

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enough. I don't think we really we actually

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no. I think it's just an issue of,

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yeah, keep them inside at full. Keep people

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coming to the mess yeah. But, yeah, what's

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the goal? What are we trying to do

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with all this? Right? What so people are

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in the messiah. So what? So now you're

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here. So now what?

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Alright. We're gonna pray. Fine. We're gonna pray

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and

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all that stuff, and you'll cry and great.

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And then what?

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Do that again? Alright. We'll do it again.

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No problem. We'll do it again. And then

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what?

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What's next?

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See, no one knows. No one has idea.

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I don't know. Just keep on doing it.

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No. It has to be there has to

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be something. What's the result? What's the next

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step? What are we trying to do? Once

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we leave, when we walk out, what? We

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just go home? You just each one just

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walks in a different direction, goes over. Is

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there is there some collective effort? Are we

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trying to achieve something together, or are we

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just what are we doing? And and there's

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and there's lack of clarity on that topic.

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There's lack we don't talk about this enough.

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The most the community is not engaged in

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that type of discussion because we lack leadership.

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It's like a headless chicken.

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It runs around in circles. It's not going

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anywhere. You need to have leadership even if

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it's, you know, lousy leadership.

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Lousy leadership, better than none.

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Lousy leadership is better than nothing. Because at

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least with lousy leadership, you're going somewhere. If

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it's the wrong direction, you'll hit a wall.

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You're like, oh, this is wrong. You turn

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around. You change. When you have no leadership,

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you're not going anywhere. So you have no

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idea where the dust there's no it doesn't

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matter. It doesn't there's nothing there's no the

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the energy is not being channeled.

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It's just lost into the universe. All this

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energy, all this effort that you're putting is

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just just

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dispersing into the universe almost almost uselessly because

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there's no channeling it for it in any

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direction with this is what so that Juman

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talks about. Talks about why prophets are sent,

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what type of leadership they offer, and how

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you how leadership goes both ways. You need

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a leader. You need people who are willing

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to follow.

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If we're all zama, then it's

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that's impossible. You're like, that's impossible for us

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to have any form of leadership if everyone's

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a leader. We live in communities where everyone's

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a leader.

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Everyone everyone wants to be that which is

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fine. I don't you wanna be in front?

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Sure. Do you have the qualifications? Do you

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have the time? Because leadership is not about

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authority. It's not about controlling people and telling

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you what to do. It's about leading by

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example and and doing the work. And doing

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the work is hard, and it takes a

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lot of time, and you have to sacrifice

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a lot of your leisure and your and

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your personal time and your your family and

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your sleep. You have to sacrifice that. And

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if you're not doing that, then you're not

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really a leader.

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You're a boss.

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No one likes bosses, and we don't need

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more of them. We have enough bosses in

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the world. Bosses are useless. You need leaders.

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Well, the bosses, they're useless. They they just

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they make money for nothing. They don't do

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anything. They sit there and, you know, tell

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people they don't do anything. Leaders are different.

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Leaders are there. They're they're they're there before

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you. They're doing more work than you.

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Surikom Rafiqon talks to us about the fact

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that there's a different type of, there's a

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different aspect of our society.

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But that as Muslims, when you're organizing, there's

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a Muslim, there's non Muslim. It's very simple.

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It's not about animosity. It's understanding. They're a

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Muslim. They're gonna be following the law. They're

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gonna be held accountable to the law. There's

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non Muslim. They're not. But then you have

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this group in the middle. It's very problematic.

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You can't point them out. You can't swear

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who they are. You can't really remove them

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from the deen. They're not really gonna join

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the deen. They're very problematic because they're they

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don't they're not gonna they're in but they're

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not in like they're halfway. They don't you

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can't do anything about it. There's no there's

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no criteria. You don't have like a criteria.

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You can say if you meet this criteria,

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you're out. No. Or I can call you,

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but you can't. You thought there's something that

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is between Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and da'ab.

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You can't really point pinpoint people. It's a

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big problem if you do by the way.

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It's very arrogant, so you can't do it.

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So but but they but they exist. So

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how do we deal with them and what

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do we do? And and most importantly, how

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do you make sure we're not amongst them?

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Reminds us within this Surah as I they

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just as I told you that the connection

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of all of why what we of of

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of what we do has to be with

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to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. The the reason

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we're following all these rituals, the reason that

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we're following these laws, we're accepting

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rulings is because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala commanded

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us. We have a surah of 2 pages

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that just reminds of of that. The whole

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surah is just is very spiritual. It's all

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about

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all about acceptance, about belief.

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Surah Al Qalaq talks about firkalosra,

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the the the jurisprudence of families, of marriage,

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and of and of divorce, and how to

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how to see that, and and the rights,

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and the laws upon, upon men and upon

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women within within a marriage. It talks about

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the importance of family

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and what rules and laws exist within a

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family before you build it. Talaq talks about

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starting it and then if it's going to

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end. The law is regarding that. It's Tahrim

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is about what's in the middle, what's going

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to happen within the family and the and

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the laws that that dictate that.

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And that's what

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just

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talks about. That's their cluster. It's all organizational.

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It's all

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it's all jurisprudent

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driven. It's all law driven. It's rules.

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You have these doses of spirituality to remind

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you of why you're doing what you're doing

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because it's connected to Allah

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but that's the gist of of that juzr.

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From

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is a Juzun that talks about the concept

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of dawah,

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of you taking which is something that was

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covered in a larger cluster previously in the

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Quran is summarized in this one Juzun.

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As a Muslim was going to be an

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ambassador of Islam, there's a couple of things

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that you have to know. You need there's

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a you have necessities.

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You need a certain amount of knowledge which

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is what Surat al Wuk teaches you, you

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need a certain amount of ethics, you need

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a certain

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amount of connection or spirituality which the Surat

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Al Haqqah teaches you, you need certain amount

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of behaviors which is Surat Al Ma'arish teaches

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you. These are the 4 stuff that you

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need. You have to know you have to

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know, You have to know. You have to

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have ethics. You have to have connection to

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Allah and then those that has to turn

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into behavior. If one of these 4 is

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not there, then it's not gonna your your

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your attempt to be an ambassador of the

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deen, which you are, whether you like it

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or not.

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What's your name? Ab

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Abdullah Mohammed Sameer

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Ali, you're you're a Muslim ambassador. People are

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going, that's how they're gonna see the Islam

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through you. So you have to have a

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certain amount of these four things. And then

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and that that's where basic Surah Al Ma'araj

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ends.

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The surahs after give example

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of good and bad

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of how it worked well and how it

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didn't work well and then how to do

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it yourself, and we'll talk about that tomorrow

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because that's where the the surahs actually began.

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But that's what these first 4 surahs in

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Juzu, talk about. So let me see if

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there's any

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if anyone voted anything or not. If not,

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I'll just make my own choices. Let's see

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here.

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We only have a few minutes, so I

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won't be able to cover much. Let's see

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what we got.

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Alright. Very few.

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Almost nothing. Alright. So let's do Mumtahina

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number 9.

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He says, subhanahu wa ta'ala, I exclusive you

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I exclusively, sorry,

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deny you from building an alliance with those

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who fight you and your right to have

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a faith, remove you from your land, or

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help those do that to you.

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That's the exclusive

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denial of Allah from building alliances. He didn't

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even talk about necessarily building animosities

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or having or being in war. He's What

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he's talking about subhanahu wa ta'ala is don't

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take them as allies.

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This concept of that we hear about. This

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concept of abnormalizing relations with with an oppressing

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group.

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This is what the this is what the

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surah is talking about. Do not draw allies

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with them. You may not be able to

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fight them. You may not be able to

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go to war with them. You may not

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be able to remove the, but you do

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not take them as allies. If they've done

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one of 3 things, any of these three

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things.

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If they take away your your right to

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have a religion, to be Muslim, if they

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remove you from your land, or if they

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help others remove you from your land and

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they're not your allies,

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Do not take them as your allies.

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Those who take them as their allies

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when they're the oppressors.

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So this concept of normalizing

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relationships with with with an apartheid state that

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is,

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that is oppressing there there is that's been

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oppressing Muslims for a very long time. This

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is yeah. I need this is you all

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you have to do is recite this and

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present it. Read. If there's any other other

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interpretation, this is then why I just explained

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to you. I I I I beg. I

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would like to hear it. I would like

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to see someone I'm actually interested to see

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someone try and explain this in some way

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to get them out of that con of

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that understanding.

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It is an ayah that has almost no

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room for a second interpretation because the words

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are just very clear.

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There's way no there's no,

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the kalimat

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are all all

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the all the the terms are specific.

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There's no

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general terms leave leave room for interpretation, but

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there's different ways to understand. When you study

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your soul, there are different ways something depending

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on the type of word, can understand things

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differently. When the words are very specific, it

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doesn't really leave a lot of room for

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interpretation. It's just exactly what the literal says.

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It's it's just syllables upon each other. There's

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nothing. You are denied to take allies to

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those who remove your right of faith, remove

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you from your land, or help those who

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do. That's it. That's it. What how other

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how else do you I don't know. I

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don't understand.

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I guess my my assumption is that they

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don't read the Quran

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is that they're not reading the Quran. We

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are not a group of people that are

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bloodthirsty.

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We don't hate

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other groups. As Muslims, we we see the

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world in a we have a universal view

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of the world. We love the human race,

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and we love for them to find Hidaya.

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And we love our prophet

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all the prophets that came before. The ones

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we know and the ones that we don't

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know. We love our book and all the

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books that came before. The ones we know

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and those that we don't know. And that's

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how we go by the world. We don't

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have any atrocities towards people. We don't look

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at a race or a culture or a

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background and say that's evil when they should

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be removed and they're not allowed to do

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this or not to do that. No. As

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Muslims, actually, not only do we love people,

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we welcome them to come and live with

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us. Even if they don't accept Islam, they

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can be our. They can be people that

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we are responsible. We'll take care of them.

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We'll protect them, make sure that their rights

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are are preserved, that their their their places

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of worship are are protected.

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Have no hatred towards groups of people. It's

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just Muslims don't accept oppression.

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They just don't accept persecution.

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And if that if that's

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that's a crime, then I'm guilty.

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If that's a crime, then I'm guilty.

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If if hate if refusing oppression and persecution

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and standing for justice is a crime, then

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we're all guilty as Muslims and we refuse

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to do that, and we will never normalize

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with a group of people that are oppressing

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us and persecuting us ever.

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If no one's left, that should be the

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case. The way Muslims think about things that

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there's no no one left, we still refuse

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to do that. It's not about numbers. It's

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not about strength. It's not about Allah

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owns our lives, so we offer it our

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lives to that which he

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tells us is a worthy cause. And this

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is what he's explaining to us to be

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a worthy cause.

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Let's do surah I am number, 5 of

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notes to the Jummah.

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5 of Jummah.

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So Najuma talks about leadership. You have this

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verse right in the middle of it.

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And

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it's an ayah that is one of maybe

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2 or 3 in the Quran where Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala uses a parable

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a parable that's quite

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heavy that he doesn't really use very often

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where he

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draws a simile between a person and an

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animal. Doesn't happen very often in the Quran.

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Maybe another time

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and then maybe

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then this one. That's it. It's very rare.

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Okay. In in the entirety of the Quran,

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Allah does not usually draw these parables.

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But

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here's

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an example of those who were

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asked or commanded to carry the holy book.

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They did not carry the holy book.

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Is the example of a donkey or a

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mule carrying books.

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When he says carry the book, he's not

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saying, you know, carry the book.

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He's saying, like, actually carry the book and

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understand the book, practice the book, Take the

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principles and the values of the book and

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implement them in your life. That's what he's

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talking about. If you're not gonna do that,

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if you're just gonna hang the book from

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your, you know, from the from the thing

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in your car and have like a nice

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one opened in your house when we walk

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in, we see it, and it's on the

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wall so we get to say, masha Allah,

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and then you'll be probably paid a fortune

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to get that, but you're not actually practicing

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or implementing the teachings of the book. This

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is what leadership does. Leadership helps do that,

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helps fix that problem.

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It helps takes people. That's what it that's

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why it you know,

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Quran.

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That Allah will will correct and bring reform

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through Sultan, through leadership more than he will

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sometimes with the Quran because people they have

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the book but if they don't have leadership

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in terms of how to carry it, if

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leadership does not exist in helping people understand

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what aspect of that needs to be implemented,

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then it'll turn into

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just like a donkey carrying books. The donkey

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is not knowledgeable, and a donkey cannot practice

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what is in the in in that on

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those books even though it's carrying a lot

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of knowledge. He's not really though.

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That's the example of those who refuse to

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believe in in in in the signs of

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Allah. Allah

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does not guide the people who are oppressive.

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You have to be

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careful. We're given the Quran. You have to

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choose quickly what type of person you're going

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to be. Are you gonna carry the Quran

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actually or

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because there's another example of this.

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And this is the fear that you should

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carry in your heart as a Muslim,

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that you are given the Quran, you have

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the Quran, you know, a few verses you

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memorize maybe the whole Quran or half of

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the Quran, some of the Quran, you recite

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it, but you don't really carry it. The

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message, the legacy, the it's not it's not

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a part of who you are. It doesn't

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doesn't define you. If it doesn't define you,

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then what does?

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And it's worthy of of contemplating.

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Alright. Let's do,

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6.

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6?

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Yeah. Or 7. Sorry. 7.

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7. I I got the wrong number.

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Surah Parab is basically the the the summary

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is a summary of civil law that is

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talked in detail

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4 or 5 pages of just on and

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on, and then you find them again in

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Surat Al Nisa, and these long pages that

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that basically address civil Islamic civil law is

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is is it's, it's summarizes Suratul

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This is directed towards the man. Alright? Oh,

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man.

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You are commanded

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to

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for you to pay from your wealth.

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If you have a lot of wealth and

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you pay for a lot, and if you

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have a little wealth, then you pay a

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little. You pay from what you have.

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The one who has small risk, they work

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hard but this is the risk they have,

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they're not getting a lot of money.

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May he may he spend from his wealth.

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2 more nights. That's it.

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We'll be done.

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You won't have to listen to me for

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a while afterwards.

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For men, this is the obligation. When it

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comes to their spouses, when it comes to

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their children,

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you are responsible financially.

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This I explained this very clearly.

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You're not held accountable to pay for more

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than you have. Like, at the end, you're

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not accountable to go get you don't have

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to go to to take care of it.

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No. You use the halal that you have

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even if it's a little, but you are

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responsible.

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As a man, you're responsible to spend from

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your wealth. Your wife isn't.

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Your wife is not responsible to spend from

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her if she is spending from her wealth,

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then there better be an arrangement

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There there better be an arrangement that allows

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for that to work out so that she's

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getting something in return because you are responsible

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financially.

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This lays the premise for how our civil

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law works. If you understand this and you

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start from that from from this point, then

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you can negotiate your way around things that

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work out. And the reason that that's the

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case is, SubhanAllah, it's just it's just the

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way men and women are.

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Women

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are not they don't like spending money on

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their they'll do it, but they don't but

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it's something extra that they do. It's extra.

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Just like for you, you'll wash the dishes,

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you'll take out the garbage but for you

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it's an extra thing that you have to

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do. Like, you don't it's not it's not

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embedded in the way that you see your

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role. You'll do it. No problem, but you

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feel like it's an extra thing. In Islam,

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the the roles are are clearly

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distinguished. You have to spend your role. You

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have to go work, Have to you have

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to be breadwinner. You have to spend your

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love on your spouse and on your children.

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That's your job. And she takes care of

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the household and the children. Now if you

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wanna make some adjustments to that, that's fine,

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but it has to start from that point.

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The adjustments have to start from that point.

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If we're gonna say, okay.

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You want to work as well. Let's say

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your wife is a physician, so she's working.

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She has a job. It makes sense that

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she works. She's a physician. She's making good

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money. So what are we gonna do? All

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yours or we're gonna put all this money

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together? No. We put it together. Alright. So

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now 50% of the money that's being spent

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on this family is from you. So she's

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doing

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50% of your job now, which means you

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have to do 50% of hers or else

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there's an imbalance and that imbalance will cause

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people to be upset.

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Even if your wife tells you not, no,

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no, I'm not gonna be upset. She's lying

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to you. She's going to be upset just

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like you would. It's about justice. Look. Don't

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play around with justice when it comes to

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relationships. Serve justice and then and then after

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that, people can say whatever they want. Just

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do that. Make sure that you have the

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balance. If she's going to put her wealth

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in the household, then you have to find

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something that you're doing in return. There has

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to be There has to be a negotiation

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on this or else it's unfair. Your job

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is to put in the wealth, and she's

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taking care of the household. If now she's

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taking care of the household and putting half

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the wealth, and you're doing then what are

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you doing? Then your value in this marriage

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drops

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and and mark my words that will present

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itself in a negative way later in life.

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So I'm not saying that you can't your

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wife can't put both both in the household.

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No. It's totally fine, but you have to

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start the discussion from this point of knowing

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what your obligations are and what hers are

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and then you negotiate back and forth so

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it balances itself out. What I'm seeing are

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households that are imbalanced.

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I'm seeing imbalanced households in our community,

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on both sides.

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Women being taken advantage of and men being

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taken advantage of. For lack of understanding

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of is for the men. You must pay

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from what you have. You have a lot,

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you pay. You

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don't have a lot, you use

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whatever you have. You're not you're not held

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accountable. We don't burden men to care to

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to pay for stuff they don't have the

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ability to pay for. But whatever they have,

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it is dedicated to the household.

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After difficulty, when it comes to these issue,

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Allah will grantees.

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You start out. You're poor. Things get better

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with time. Yeah.

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Well, it's not happening that any way anymore.

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Now we only get married when we're all

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rich.

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Now if you only get married in their

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thirties and they're rich,

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That takes away the majority of what what

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what marriage is. You have to marry when

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you're poor,

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when you have nothing.

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Right? That's how you build

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a that's how you build a bond with

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the other person. That's how you make sure

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that this grows into something. When you're poor

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and you have nothing, you guys the bonding

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is different and then you have something and

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you take care of one another so the

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bonding is stronger. If you only enter marriage

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when you're you're well you're well off you're

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well well off, it's a problem. I'm not

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saying that a man comes into marriage broke.

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You're broke. You go you go make money,

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but I'm not talking about also waiting for

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until he's 40 or 35 when he's made

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a large bulk of money. No. It should

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happen before. We shouldn't be we shouldn't be

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hindering marriage because of wealth.

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It should it should the hindrance should not

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be money. Wallahi, it should not be.

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This is a dangerous

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This is slippery, sloped up, or going down

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as a community. This is dangerous. I'm sounding

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the alarm. This is a problem.

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We are we are postponing marriages way too

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long for people who are living in a

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society that has no conceptualization

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of halal and haram and faisha. They don't

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understand it at all and you're going to

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postpone it until the people's studies. What how

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is that how is that possible?

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I don't have I'm not saying I have

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the solution, but I'm saying for sure what

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we're doing right now is not healthy and

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it's not appropriate.

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Alright.

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That's the end of my rant. Let's do

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22.

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So this ayah in Surat Al, in Mulk,

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probably with the famous most famous one in

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it,

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He asks he asks a question, so he

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poses a question.

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Who is who is ahadam?

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Who has more guidance? The one who was

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walking with their face

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down to the ground, meaning they're looking at

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the floor, their face.

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When you spill something or you or you

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or you tilt something in a certain direction.

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So their face is tilted down to the

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ground. You're walking like this on the ground

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with your face down like this.

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Is that person more guided?

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Versus the person who's walking with balance.

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They're nice and balanced. They're they're looking ahead.

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They're

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on a path a a straight path of

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righteousness.

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Are they the same?

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Not all walks of life are the same.

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Not all walks of life are equal.

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Some walks of life are better than others.

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It doesn't mean the person is. It just

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means the walk of life is.

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The fact that Allah

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guided us so that we're not walking with

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our faces down to the ground doesn't mean

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that we're better than those who who aren't.

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It just means that this walk of life

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is a better is a better one.

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And if you

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comprehend that, then you become much more preservant

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of it. You preserve it more. You protect

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it more. You feel more grateful for it

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because you're not you're not looking down anymore.

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You see, the the the symbolism in this

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ayah,

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they're looking down. I mean, they're looking at

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what's in their immediate vicinity.

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They're focused on what they have and where

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they they're focused on very small things

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that are temporary

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that that change all the time. So they're

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walking, but their focus is down here is

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what I have and what's close to me,

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and you're not gonna get anywhere that way.

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In order for you to get to your

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destination, you have to lift your after your

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head has to lift you have to lift

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your head up. You have to look up

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a little bit, look around and see where

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you're going and and see the path that

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you're on. It requires the ability to zoom

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out a bit and to stop focusing on

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on details that don't matter that much, and

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and stop being distracted by little

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aspects of our existence that that are petty,

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and that are not important and that don't

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last and that people forget about forget about

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You all forget about really quickly in life.

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A couple of years from now you'll remember

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any of it, but what will stay with

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you is the path that you walked on.

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What path have you been on for the

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last couple of years?

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Do you have clarity? Are you Suiyan? Do

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you stand in a in a state of

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balance, of equilibrium? You're not tilted. You're not

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falling in either direction. You have that equilibrium.

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You know where you're going. You see the

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path in front of you. You know what's

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next for you.

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You don't know what's coming next to you,

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but you know what's next from you.

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Yeah.

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What what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is going

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to decree for you, that that's beyond your

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ability to control. Whatever whatever is gonna come

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is going to come. You can't really necessarily

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change all of that. But regardless of what

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he dishes you out for you, you still

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know who you are and where you're going?

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Or you just or you're focused down so

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the next wave will will blow you over.

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Yeah.

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Or or the next next wind, the next

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will just completely remove you from where you

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because you're look. You're focused now. You have

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no idea where you're going.

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So you you can't even see what's coming

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your way so you have no ability to

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protect yourself. You have no warning system.

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This is what Allah's an'a's offering you.

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This is the knowledge that Allah offers, the

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ability to see clearly,

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to stand with that balance.

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You're balanced in this life. You you're balancing

00:31:03--> 00:31:05

your approach to duniya and to akhirah. You

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understand what comes to you. You know how

00:31:07--> 00:31:08

to deal with it. You have this calmness

00:31:08--> 00:31:10

to you, this tranquility, this clarity. No matter

00:31:10--> 00:31:13

how difficult things come, no matter how hard

00:31:13--> 00:31:14

it is, you know how to come back

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a moment and figure out what the next

00:31:15--> 00:31:17

steps is going are going to be. So

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you don't lose who you are or you

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or you don't lose the the sight of

00:31:20--> 00:31:20

the path.

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You don't lose your balance. Those who are

00:31:23--> 00:31:23

focused downwards,

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they're gonna be falling. They're gonna be tumbling

00:31:26--> 00:31:27

around for a while.

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They'll be tumbling around for quite some time.

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It's just whatever luck they get.

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If it's ease, it's one thing. If it's

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not ease, it's something different.

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May Allah guide us

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amongst let's do ayah number 43 of

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gives us a,

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a sneak peek in Surat Al Qalam

00:32:00--> 00:32:02

regarding stuff that will happen. And

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he shows us

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how

00:32:08--> 00:32:09

things on the day of judgment are different.

00:32:09--> 00:32:11

Like, the the laws

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are are are reversed.

00:32:14--> 00:32:16

In this in this world, in this life,

00:32:16--> 00:32:18

if you stand up with your head held

00:32:18--> 00:32:21

high, that's a sign of your dignity, of

00:32:21--> 00:32:22

being dignified, of having integrity.

00:32:23--> 00:32:25

Versus if your head is

00:32:26--> 00:32:28

pressed down to the ground. That's a sign

00:32:28--> 00:32:30

of humility and of of of humiliation in

00:32:30--> 00:32:32

general. That that's how this world works. That's

00:32:32--> 00:32:34

how life works. And it's correct. I'm not

00:32:34--> 00:32:35

saying it's wrong. I'm not trying to change

00:32:35--> 00:32:37

that, but that's how this life works.

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On the day of judgment, baqaria,

00:32:40--> 00:32:41

which is

00:32:42--> 00:32:43

the is the concept of everything

00:32:44--> 00:32:46

changing in nature. Nothing is the same anymore.

00:32:46--> 00:32:48

Everything changes. All the laws that govern the

00:32:48--> 00:32:51

universe are not they're not the laws are

00:32:51--> 00:32:51

gone.

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Everything is different now. Nothing nothing matters nothing

00:32:54--> 00:32:56

that used to matter matters as much now.

00:32:56--> 00:32:57

Everything that didn't matter before and that matters

00:32:57--> 00:32:59

way more today. And the an example he

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gives us, subhanahu wa ta'ala, is

00:33:05--> 00:33:07

is a symbolic phrase in Arabic, and it

00:33:07--> 00:33:10

means that there's going to be an enormous

00:33:10--> 00:33:10

event.

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Is going to be an enormous event, an

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unveiling of an enormous event. Something that's going

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to happen on the day of judgment that's

00:33:18--> 00:33:18

going to be

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comprehendible is undescribable.

00:33:22--> 00:33:24

Some scholars say this is the seeing Allah

00:33:24--> 00:33:25

subhanahu wa ta'ala or is the

00:33:26--> 00:33:27

I don't know. It doesn't matter. Allah subhanahu

00:33:27--> 00:33:29

wa ta'ala didn't specify it. I'm happy with

00:33:29--> 00:33:31

the specification that he made by saying it's

00:33:31--> 00:33:33

going to be an extremely difficult event. It'll

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be something that is unveiled that is just

00:33:35--> 00:33:36

mind blowing.

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When it happens,

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whenever that event is, when it occurs,

00:33:43--> 00:33:46

and they'll be called to prostrate. Everyone in

00:33:46--> 00:33:48

the will be called to prostrate to Allah

00:33:51--> 00:33:53

And some people won't be able to. Their

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backs will go like a

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It'll be like a

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a piece of

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metal. It does it has no flexibility anymore.

00:34:02--> 00:34:03

And they try to make it to the

00:34:03--> 00:34:04

floor, and they can't.

00:34:05--> 00:34:06

And they try to make it to the

00:34:06--> 00:34:08

floor, and they can't. And everyone make sujood,

00:34:08--> 00:34:10

they want to make sujood, but they can't.

00:34:10--> 00:34:12

And they're trying they're they're not it's not

00:34:12--> 00:34:13

it's not budging.

00:34:14--> 00:34:15

Their backs aren't moving. They're trying to, but

00:34:15--> 00:34:16

they can't go.

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And at that moment, they start to feel

00:34:19--> 00:34:19

scared

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and they become more fearful

00:34:22--> 00:34:23

and they start to revere and they start

00:34:23--> 00:34:26

to wonder and you can see that humiliation

00:34:27--> 00:34:28

in their faces. You can see the fear

00:34:29--> 00:34:29

in their.

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You can see it in their eyes. Their

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eyes are in a state of humility.

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They're covered with humiliation

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because

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the person with integrity is the one who

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makes it down.

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The person who has integrity is the one

00:34:45--> 00:34:47

who's able to do sujood when when Allah

00:34:48--> 00:34:50

unveils the event, the mighty event of yomul

00:34:50--> 00:34:52

qiyamah. The one who can make his way

00:34:52--> 00:34:53

down is the one who has integrity, and

00:34:53--> 00:34:55

the one whose head is held high is

00:34:55--> 00:34:56

the humiliated

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one,

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the reverse of

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the reverse.

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Well, why is this happening?

00:35:06--> 00:35:08

They were called they were called to perform

00:35:08--> 00:35:09

sujood when they were well

00:35:10--> 00:35:12

when they were well. When they when they

00:35:12--> 00:35:13

could have done it and they decided not

00:35:13--> 00:35:15

to, they held their heads high. And they

00:35:15--> 00:35:18

weren't interested in in in in performing more

00:35:18--> 00:35:18

sujood

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and submitting themselves to Allah

00:35:21--> 00:35:23

and prostrating and showing their submission. They weren't

00:35:23--> 00:35:25

interested in that. They barely did the they

00:35:25--> 00:35:26

didn't do it.

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They thought that by wait. I don't know

00:35:28--> 00:35:30

what they thought. By yomulkiyama,

00:35:30--> 00:35:31

it's all reversed.

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And you try to make it done, you

00:35:33--> 00:35:35

can't. That's Allah

00:35:36--> 00:35:38

You ask Allah to grant you the ability

00:35:38--> 00:35:40

to to to do sujood that day. You

00:35:40--> 00:35:43

you're able to go down nice and quick

00:35:43--> 00:35:45

and perform sujood and you're not held back

00:35:45--> 00:35:47

and you're not imagine the feeling. Imagine your

00:35:47--> 00:35:50

horror when your mouth. Oops. See? It's not

00:35:50--> 00:35:50

moving.

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And then it opens

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up. That was a scary moment. Imagine if

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I wasn't allowed to do this.

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They're the only people with their heads held

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high,

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but they're the ones who are covered in

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with humility and humiliation. They're the ones who

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are fearful. They're the ones who feel they

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have no integrity, no dignity, no status at

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all. And the people who are making sujud

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are the ones who feel the feel dignified

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and close.

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They were called for sujud in life when

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they were doing well.

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Let's do one more.

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Suwad

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Haqa 44.

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Muhammad

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says at the end of the as he

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establishes

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our need for spiritual connection to him.

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Had

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Muhammad had he made something up?

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had he brought it in

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had he brought it in