The Islamic Personality – Episode 10

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim

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al hamdu lillahi wa Meadowhall when a stain or when a star Pharaoh when our older we lay him in his shoulder already and phocoena women say Dr. Dr. Medina

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Why shadow Mohammed in Abdo moral Sulu sallallahu alayhi wa sallam why they to Sleeman? kathira

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la fifth meeting

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tahu lol hikma.

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Today's howdy honey as it relates to the

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class that we're dealing with the characteristics of the Muslim man and the Muslim woman. We've dealt with a number of them today we come to the hadith of Abdullah, even Allah. May Allah be pleased with both of them tremendous Hadith.

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And dealing with an issue that is in reality, a disgrace. And it's a sickness. And unfortunately, in some of our cultures is part of the culture. So people have to be worried. They have to be on point when you marry into certain cultures. This thing is in the culture of the people, they cultivate their children on this stuff.

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of delighting them not may Allah be pleased with both of them said that he heard the Prophet say Salaam wa when he was setting them. It is not permissible to have has said to be jealous or envious, to be a hater.

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It's not permissible to be a hater.

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It's not permissible to have envy and jealousy.

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Except in two situations. The first one is a man that Eliza gel has given him money.

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And he uses that money in the right way, spins it in the hop and not in the bottom. So he takes care of his immediate family his extended family takes care of his friends his as hob takes care of his neighbors, takes care of his relatives takes care of those people who have a heart upon him from the Muslims. He spends that money in the heart. As for the one who spends the money in Bothell, then you can't have hasit for him.

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can have has it because he spent his money in those things that are from the dunya and the glitter of the dunya. So that's first person who can be jealous of an envious of the second person is the man who realizes what Jenna has given him money. Or he has given that man and hikma he mentioned and hikma and then hikma here means knowledge. Allah gave him knowledge. And he judges based upon that knowledge. And he teaches the people that knowledge. These are the two times where you can be jealous. And reality, honey, a few issues about this. And the vast majority of us that I see here, we're not Arabs. But this word of hasit in this word is the word of jealousy. And envy is a word

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that we've heard many times. And this should be in our mind. And inside of our understanding of this religion

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has said, envy is the sickness and the disgrace that people have where if Eliza gel, bless someone with something, he's not happy, she's not happy. He's not happy with the tozier of Allah that seem of a law that could be it of a lot. But the law of Eliza the heck mavala

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that person is not pleased with the fact that Allah has given his distribution of whatever it is to this person he doesn't like

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It is the Koba of Allah, Allah judge that Allah made that the case he's not happy with that.

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He's not happy with a lizer just wisdom, a lot gives, and he doesn't give, according to wisdom, not according to the desires of the people.

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So the one who was envious, when he sees that Allah has blessed someone with something, he wants that thing to disappear to be destroyed by hook or crook. He doesn't necessarily have to get it. If he gets it, he'll be happy. But that's not his main golden objective. Her main goal and her main objective is so that the other person doesn't have it.

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That's an acid. And as I said, it's a disease. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending them back in a comb. The human milk publico Alberto de Waal has said

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in La, la, la, la, la aku, Alhaji Nicoletti de Lucia. When I can add Chanukah to Letty Tyler Dean. He said the disease of the people who came before you, Andrew keytab, that disease has come and it is with you people.

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He said that diseases that you hate one another, you have an Xbox, but you hate each other. You hate each other with a passion because of your different groups, your different Gemma eyes, there's a hatred that exists between the Muslims. That is real sad.

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I mean, real hatred. People hate you, if you're from animal ID. People hate you, if you're a person who you want to be on the sooner even with inside of anila teeth and people The sooner there is just serious sickness of hatred that people have Muslims. He said hatred of one another, as well as envy of one another. He said Verily The both of them, they are the reason. He said not the reason that cuts your hair shaves your hair. He said the reason that she's your dean.

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So the one who hates Muslims, and he hates him because of his design his however, then that is a problem in his dealing with his Dean, and the one who has envy of someone, then she is being envious at the expense of her Dean. So it's permissible to have her sit in two situations. And in reality, we call it hasit. Because the profit code that has it's on the law, why do you send them but there's another word and that is the word HIPAA, HIPAA, it means the permissible hassad so has it is haram, except in two situations that this hadith mentioned. But it is permissible in these two situations. And it is called the hooked up.

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And that is when a person sees that allies bless someone with a NEMA. He doesn't wish that that NEMA will be taken away and disappeared from that person. He or she says Oh, if I had money, the way they had money, I was spinning the way the way they're spending. If I had knowledge, the way he had knowledge or she had knowledge, I will give down with that knowledge and that Hickman so forth and so on. This is called ripta. So the Prophet mentioned sell a lot he was selling them that reptile hazard is only permissible in these two situations. But he gave these two situations as examples. There are other things you have at the end, as long as it's good. That brothers in the first row all

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the time you say Man, I wish Allah gave me that early wilhelma high determination to be in the front row like him. So it can be in other issues. The man who like gave him a nice voice in the recitation of the Quran. The person says, I wish I can read the Koran like that, because if I could read the Quran like that, I would pray pm lane, and I will read and I would do this and I would teach it and so forth and so on. These are the only situations that is permissible for someone to have has said against other people. But tremendous scholar Val Islam from the tabea in Mohammed bin serien Rahmatullahi Allah He said, and never had envy and jealousy for anyone concerned in something in the

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dunya. Maya has said to a hidden fee Amira dunya has never had any jealousy envy has it for anyone in the dunya if it was something about the dunya you said because

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If he's a person who is going to be from the agenda, why would I be jealous of him? And he's going to the agenda? And if he's a person who's going to the Hellfire, why would I be jealous of him and he's going to the hellfire.

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This is a serious disease that many people have.

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We have it in the dean, we have it in a dunia. There are people who if his mejlis as you can see the measures how many people in the modulus, he has envy and jealousy because there are more people attending this class, then his class is given the hook, but people were idiots and they say Why him? And why not meet?

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people on the internet, they get over 100 200 300 hits 300 hits. Some of these do art in English, for example. The other person like me, he gets 2000 3000 He says, oh, why you get 300,000 only get 2000 and sometimes 500?

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No, you can't be envious of people like that. It's not permissible. It's from the major citizen and Islam from the major sense. Allies region mentioned about himself and many I love the Quran. danika fabu la he, you see he manga chef, that is the father of Allah. Allah gives it to whoever he wants to give it to. You don't have children. He gave him 10 children. You gave that went over there. seven sons gave that one over there. 12 children gave that one over there gave him gave him gave him the person who doesn't get that. He says why, why? And he has envy of a person who he shares his blood. His brother, his sister, his cousin, sisters have envy towards the assist as it relates to

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their nieces and nephews. It is in our culture, some of the culture of the people in this city. I've seen it with my own eyes experience is part of how people are being raised up and cultivated. The Muslim is not like that. Paul Allahumma manically milk to tell him will come in Tisha, what 10s removed commandment, the SHA,

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Allah save a lot, you are the one who gives the kingdom. You give it to whoever you want to give it to. And you take it away from whoever you want to take it away from, what to zoom into shot over to the loo mentorship before they can hire in Nicaragua clinching a deal. You make Aziz honorable, strong, powerful, maybe important. You make whoever you want to make that way. And you subjugate and you make low, whoever you want to make low, and your hands and both of his hands are right hands, and both with his hands, we establish them and we believe them. And your hands is all the good and you are capable of doing all things to lead you left in a hurry with two Legion nahata flame with

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242, Hagerman and Nate were top regional mega terminal height with thorough documentation will be very sad. You cause the night to turn into the day, and you cause the day to turn into the night. And you give your risk to whoever you want to give it to. So some of these people like the richest man in the world, three, four or five richest people in the world 10 of them the word how much is not in their vocabulary. These people own islands, islands, they own islands all over the world. They want to go vacation, they go out there to the Fiji Islands and they have an island for themselves in their family's private jets, and they live in large island didn't give it give us

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that. But there is hikma and the fact that Allah gave them what he gave them and didn't give you what you didn't receive. So the Muslim is individuals going to have sobor. I told you last week and the class about the characteristic that the Muslim has to look for excuses for his brother and his sister. We have to look for excuses. The brother every time he calls his wife. She never answers the phone. And it's important when he's trying to get in touch with her. It is important, but he can rest assure 100% of the time. Whenever he calls. She doesn't answer the phone and he becomes enraged and upset because it's always happening. He has to look for excuses for his wife. She has children.

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She may be sick, she may be sleep. She may be reading the Koran. So instead of expending all of that negative energy, just give the person an excuse.

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We mentioned last week that the one who has envy the highest said he won't give excuses. The one who is envious and jealous the hater is going to look for your mistakes is going to create mistakes he'll lie on you. Take your words and give them the worst possible meanings I want to remind you for people to start with. Ah, you guys got to be careful of them. We all have to be careful how I said the one who was jealous, envious. Number two, the Hackett The one who is spiteful spiteful. Number three, the hypocrite, the monastic, the monastic. And number four, the his be the one who was with his group is German is German. The one who looks at things through the prism of his group, his

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method, his shift his mistake.

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Want to add two more H's and that is the hater. And the haters part of the Hassett and also the Hi Daddy. You have to be wary of the daddy as well. The Hi Daddy. Those are the cousins of the problem those h those H's Be careful and enhance it is from them and has it and has is a major muscular one in a major sin in the deen of Allah azza wa jal for many, many reasons, for many reasons. Number one, has it is a problem because as the marvelous lamb said, It is because of envy that Eliza gel was first disobeyed

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by his creation, and the first one to do that. Was he believes himself. When Allahu taala asked him, Why did you not passed straight to the one who I created with my own hands, my own two hands, a bleed said You created me from fire. And you created him from dirt. Eliza gel created Adam with his own two hands. So that makes them above a breeze and the melodica Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah Adam Smith,

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he taught Adam the names of everything in in teach that to me, please. Allah subhanho wa Taala told them and I bow down to eat bad down to add them for such a do it like a breeze.

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All of them bow down except a breeze who's in their company, allies with gel cause add them to live in the agenda. He believes wasn't living in the agenda. Because of these things, he believes became upset. He became jealous and envious,

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became jealous and envious, that he believes that he believes also from the bad people that a lot created, or from the bad situations that people show this problem of envy and it was at the beginning is with Adam sons. Adam son, one of the sons, his envy pushed him to kill his own brother killed his own brother, because of envy. You you listen to that. You listen to that. There are people who are prone and they will kill their own relative when it's in person because of an hazard big mosquito.

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Also, which shows us the seriousness of hazard meanings situations is benina surah el benissa el benissa el benissa Eli, the sons of the aku Yusuf and his brothers Binyamin and the rest of them Salawat de la he was sent him when he Jemaine the brothers of use of him Binyamin, they made all of that drama, they made all of those problems because of jealousy because the fact that the Father iacob Salawat to lie he was sin amlani love those two more than the rest of them because of their good qualities and characteristics. So in the Quran, and in the authentic sooner, we find that the Prophet sallallahu it was sending brought us a religion that expose the annual keytab Hospital

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yahood especially the Yahoo allow that's the question rhetorical question. Um, yeah, so Dune and NASA Allah Tahoma la homophobe he will they have envy of the people in jealousy of the people? Because of what Allah has given to people over others. They used to be upset. The Yahoo used to be upset about many things concerning the Prophet son love while he was sending them.

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What the levena Allahu taala mentioned in the Quran about the year who does well what the Casio Roman agnel keytab low euro dunican embody Imani Coco fara asadmin Indian fusi

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Many of the people from Anil keytab they wish that they can cause you people to turn back on your heels after you have accepted a man. They wish they can turn you into kafar. And this because of that has said that they have within themselves. So when the companions used to pray, Ridwan lying on him and Jemaine and they used to say I mean a proof that saying, I mean out loud is from the Sunnah. And as I told you, we respect that he had a marvelous plan. And we respect the different opinions that people have about this and about that. That's your opinion, that he's this or he's that or he's not this. He's not that. I respect that. But in our religion, we have to bring the proofs. We have

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to bring the proofs, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, la has said that come Eliyahu

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attache in hassleholm technikum Akuma cada sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the yahood will never jealous about anything greater than the fact that you people say I mean when you read that greatest source of the Quran, Surah Fatiha which is a dryer. And it is to heat the Ruby to heat and Ulu here to heat that smell we'll see fat in it is the order to be balanced in it is the order to follow the way of the companions a dinner set up and stuff. And then our treasures treasures.

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After they hear you say, I mean, they get upset, they have had said they used to hear that in the masjid. And they knew that this salaat and this religion was the hub from alliance with God. So there are people who have have said, so it's not acceptable. It's not befitting for a Muslim, if he has this characteristic to leave it without trying to deal with it. It is a terrible characteristic a sickness a disgrace. Because Allah is giving you Yeah, you will harass it. Allah has given you what he didn't give other people and he has given to other people what he hasn't given to you. And the final analysis, it always goes back to what a lot chose. It goes back to a lot chose, I like

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chose to make this one bearing. And he chose to give this one sons and chose that one daughters and chose to give that one sons and daughters. This one he goes to live a long time that one died in the cradle.

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It's not okay for the believer to have has it. There is a problem in the person's IP than his reality as it relates to who Allah subhanho wa Taala is. So we have a number of a hadith that prohibit us from being envious and jealous, like the statement of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam latter has to do with Ababa do Goku Viva La he Juana Don't be envious of one another. And don't hate one another. But be servants of Allah and be brothers. Be servants have a line be brothers. Because if you are brothers, it's not permissible to have this envy, to what a netlist that Allah gave your brother to go away. None of you truly believes in two he loves for his brother

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when he loves himself. And a lot of described the believers in the Quran many ayat in the Quran. When he says supanova Allah will Lavina j uhm embody him yopu rabbanut federal lenah when acquiring and levena Saba Puna Billy man, when I touch alfi colombina realmente Lavina la Vina cyberport Hillingdon la Vina and they said,

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Oh Allah, forgive us and forgive our brothers who had preceded us in a man that was the daughter of them hygiene.

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Allah forgive us and forgive our brothers who preceded us. Those people were from Mecca. They accepted Islam before it's forgive us and forgive them and don't cause any animosity to be in our hearts as it relates to those who disbelieve. A prophet will come out, Sal, Allahu Allah, he was sending them and people will come to complain. The wife will come to complain about the husband, the man will come to complain about his business partner, someone will come to complain about what he saw what he experienced. The property would tell them some of the law what he was selling them. Nobody, no one should tell me something negative about someone else. I want to come out to you and I

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want to have a heart that is Saleem Saleem.

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Now our community unfortunately in our families, amongst ourselves, our friends

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We talk ill of people, we talk ill about people, and the one who is innocent. He's brand spanking new. In the city, he's new. He doesn't know what's going on. He was not exposed to your family issues. But he you come lo and behold, and you start unfolding to him these things that he was free of, and now you contaminate his heart, her heart, against the husband, against the wife. And this is one of the reasons why when our wives, they have to be taught, they have to be made understand nobody here his wife is 100% happy with him. No one, the wife has to be careful as to be careful about disclosing the SRR and the secrets and the tube of a husband. You make people feel a certain

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way against their Muslim brother, they don't even know the other side of the story. So the Prophet used to tell people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, don't anyone tell me anything negative about someone else, because the heart of the Muslim is supposed to be pure and clean. But if he has has it in his heart, that's a disease and it's a destructive disease. And it is a disease that the Prophet said it was sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam the Chanukah allies region has commanded us. And again, the vast majority of the people in this mystery right now, where I Jim, we're not Arabic speaking people. We don't memorize the Koran. Many of us are very fortunate if we memorize Jews, but

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from what we all memorize are the last three songs of the Quran. And one of those are the two serous the more aware the tan those two certs and which Allahu taala commanded us. Women Sheree has said in either or hazard. I seek refuge at least the other

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I seek allies assistance, I seek His protection. I seek His help against the envious one while he is envious and will lie here you're gonna see everybody here you have hate us. Everybody here without any exception. You know the prophets on the level it was send them as we say in English, he didn't have an evil bone in his body Salalah while he was sending them the thing that he had in his heart, just as a result on the strength that he was the son of Adam Salawat the law he was sent amlani when jabril came to him when he was young, and he opened up his heart, his chest and he took his heart out. He took off and out of his heart, a black string. And jabril said to him had Hallelu shaytaan

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FECA. This is the portion of what shaytaan has in you just a black piece of string. It was taken out and his heart was washed, clean and purify with Zen Zen and put back in preparation for a life in which he was pure. No one had anything evil to say about them negative. He didn't have an evil bone in his body. And yet he had hate us. They are who they used to hate on them. Why didn't why why is it last snippy with you? We were expecting them to be from us? Why is that? Why your people the majority of the people in the agenda. Why? Why is that? Why is this book more Heyman and this book is NASA and it's abrogating what went before all of the other books and everything that moves

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abroad. Why why why is that they used to get upset. Not only that, I'm Ola Babu, j. y Allah make you and be a nurse all over us. Why did he choose someone from time for someone from Mecca other than you why needs to be upset. They had envy against them. sallallahu alayhi wa it was sending him his followers his religion, what Allah blessed him with. So envy honey, everybody should know as you're going to see in sha Allah. Everybody here you have people who are envious of you. So as it relates to the issue of envy, the prophet mentioned some of the love water he went on an annual sanlam Yakumo has said for Intel has said, Yeah, cool has an ad. Kamata kullanarak

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ad, beware of being envious, For verily envy, jealousy eats up your good deeds the same way the fire eats up the wood.

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So if you can just imagine putting the wood in the fire and the way it destroys the wood, the fire is going to destroy the wood and has it does the same thing. So we have to be careful. You have to be aware. We have to be on top of this issue within ourselves. And there is envy between people of knowledge.

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Envy between

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People have knowledge, whether the shield scholars have envy between themselves from a long time ago, up until today, up until today, this is not me putting the hammer down. But this is what we know as a result of the envy that transpired between them. We have certain principles that help us to navigate with some of the misunderstandings that we have today. One of the greatest scholars in Islam was a man by the name of Mohammed the blue Yeah, a vo Haley. And they saw Bori he was the chef of Imam Muslim. He was the man and NASA board. He was bigger than Mr. Muslim. He was the man, the leading scholar in a NASA board where Mr. Muslim was from.

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When Mr. mee Buhari came to NASA board, when an Imam Al Bukhari arrived in the mesa border, there was jealousy from that man towards Eman al Bukhari and he said Rahmatullah alayhi wa De La Hoya. He said, none of you should sit with Al Bukhari because he's an innovator.

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He won't everyone no one should sit with Al Bukhari. He comes from Bukhara. Another place was Becca, Stan, he's coming from another place. He's looking Chinese. He's different from us. No one should sit with him because he's an innovator.

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And emammal Buhari was an innovator. But that's what happened. And it happened with many, many scholars, the great historian, Mohammed bin in his heart, he had drama with an Imam Malik alima Malik had drama with Muhammad Yunus. Ha.

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Eman, even Abby VIP. He had drama with Mr. Malik, Mr. Malik had drama with him to the point that he man, even Abby VIP said, Ma'am, I met an Imam Malik. They should make him make Toba for what he said. And he gave a talk about a hadith and he went against the Hadith. Or he explained it explained the Hadith. He didn't go against it.

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He explained it, and it wasn't the right position.

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And the other scholars said they should make him make Toba. And if he doesn't make Toba, they should strike his head off as a non Muslim, because there was personal problems, jealousy. So the scholars came up with a principle listen to this principle. And this is why I'm mentioning this not to talk bad about those scholars. But so that you know, you'll know that the will hasn't been reinvented. When we see this drama existed between the people, students of knowledge, this stuff happened before. So you have to know what to do.

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Those scholars said like they're happy and other than him. Whenever we find scholars talking about each other, and it's clear that desire is in there. envious. Jealousy, the envy we have envy, jealousy, hatred, animosity, then we don't take either one of their word against the other one, because just want to say he's Teddy, that when I say he's weakened Howdy, dominant se is a cat that, that when I say he stills, the Hadith, and if you just follow one scholar just because you like him, you're going to oppress other people. They said what we do, when we find these words from the scholars like this, and we find that it was envious.

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It was envy inside of the equation. We fold it up like this, and we put it away. And we say me ally of writing upon all of them, and that goes to show as the self used to say, as long as a person is living, he is not exempt from fitna.

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As long as you are alive and you are breathing, you can fall into fitness. You can be on the sun net today. And evasion tomorrow. You can be a Muslim today tonight. You wake up tomorrow as a non Muslim. You are a person who has a clean life today. Tomorrow you can start smoking and using drugs. May Allah protect all of us from that. You have your mind today. Your scruples, your Scholastic Aptitude about yourself today. You can read the Hadith in Arabic in your agent, you're not an Arab, you can read the Hadith. Tomorrow can turn around that you can't talk

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as long as you are alive. And this is why we never say honey, we never say I don't care. Well, no he um with the chef whoever the chef says wherever the shed goes, I'm going to shed go to the Hellfire I'm going with him. No gonna say chef you can go to hell ain't going nine going with you.

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Because anybody never

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Say someone came to you and told you so and so did this and did that. Never say, well, lo, he he didn't do that. May Allah curse me if he didn't never say that? Because he's a human being he's alive. When the five Quraysh came to the Prophet sallallahu it was selling them and they informed him, or he informed them of his three Esra one Mirage, and he went to the seven heavens, after going to break them up this when they came to Abu Bakar. They said, Did you hear what your friend said? He said, No. They told him what happened. Your friend said he went from Mecca, all the way to pick them up this up to the seven heavens came back and one night, Abu Bakar said, he didn't tell me that. He

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told you that. They say he said that. He said, Well, he did. I didn't hear it. But if he said it if he said it a lot. Yeah, believe it. Because I believe something bigger than that. Why did I mention that about Abu Bakar Don't be one of those people who say well law he is impossible for that to happen what he said

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he's straight today. Next thing he's over there marching with the lb GTs. And you can imagine that because he's a mixed martial artist. He has a lot of testosterone he's a man he is that dude that man. Somebody can say Yo, yo, I saw this dude walking down the street that pink on his hair was like that he was with the LBGT you say whoa walkie that's a lie will walk me a lot curse me if that's true. Hey,

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anything can happen to anybody, man lies which will keep our feet planted on this religion and protect us from all of those fitten what is apparent from it and what is hidden? So the showerhead mineral canal aquatic Villa is

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envy is something that many people suffer from and we all should try to be like, ma'am, Mohammed bin serien. I never had envy of anybody. Can you say that? I was never envious of anybody concerning something of the dunya. He didn't say something of the deen or the Hara. Because it's permissible as this hadith is showing us to have envy of something concerning the dean, something concerning the A Hara, you can have envy in those types of issues. The Prophet said that the prophets have envy ripta he said something Allahu alayhi wa. And he was sending them in the meaning of the Hadith is that those people who love each other for Allah sake, solely for Allah sake, my love for you was not

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because of your color, because of your money. Because we're relatives is for the deen for Allah sake. And if it wasn't for this Deen, we probably wouldn't even be dealing with each other. But it's this Deen that causes us to love each other Prophet said Salah love while he was setting them, those people who love each other for Allah sake, will be on members may not have light yomo piano and they will be on the right side of a rock man. And both of Allah's hands are right hands, the profits will have of them. The profits will have high said of them.

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Meaning the profits are not going to be envious of people, because they're the best of mankind is the people will be envious of the money of the prophets and the messengers of the mostofa where this profit is generated for adults, they all want to be there. They're gonna be the leaders there. They have special qualities there. So the people are jealous of the prophets in the messengers. But in this issue, the prophets and the messengers are jealous of those people hipped up those people who love each other for a lost cause. Why? Because of the reward that they're going to get. And already the prophets and messengers are going to get that reward because they love their people for a lost

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cause. And they taught their people how to love how to love. So this issue about ellipta and hazard is an important issue and to be against it is serious.

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And I mentioned the poor, airflow hermannsburg

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rockethub, Amanda Sahar, as it relates to your knifes, the one who purifies it, he is successful, he's going to be successful, he's going to be muffler, he'll be successful.

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And the one who doesn't purify and he leaves it dirty going its own way. whatever it wants. It goes after it says whatever, whatever it wants to say, looks at hears, grabs, touches, walk, whatever it wants, say whatever, whatever. Whoever does that he's going to be brought down. So from the doula the Prophet used to make all the time some of love while he was selling them. I love him it knifes taqwa and the hieromonk zecca Oh my Lord, give my nuts. It's tough What? You're the best those who give the test key.

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So we need heavy

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doses heavy dosage is a whitening of a test key test kit. And of course, when we make jihad against our knifes, to get rid of this envy, what are some of the things that we can do and they are meaning, to protect yourself from falling into envy, and to protect yourself from the harm and the evil of the envious. One of the things as I told you is, those last three songs of the Quran, seek refuge in a lie from the envious one while he is a practitioner in his practice in his envy, after the prayer five times every day, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to read those three stories three times before he used to go to bed Salalah while he was telling us to read those sores

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three times. So they asserted that the Muslims should not go through his day without reading it.

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He shouldn't go through his day without reading it.

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So you read that. Also, there's a really important Hadith and all Hadith so important. He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam Is there any new Allah in Hawaii, he can bill kinsman. For in the near meten Massoud, listen to this idea.

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If you want to be successful in the things that you're trying to accomplish, you want to get married. You want to open up a business, you want to buy a car, you want to apply for your driver's license, you want to go to john Medina, whatever you're trying to do, everybody here has something that he's trying to do. He says something I love what he was telling them the most beloved name to allies, Abdullah Abdul Rahman, those are the best two names you can name your son. He said the most truthful names and hide if and man, if you name your son, and Harris, and you name your son, ma'am, that's the truth, and Harith is the one who's planting. So everybody here is planting something good

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or bad. Like this brother over here, his name is Khalifa, ino Khalifa nothing.

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He's not a halifa. At all. His name is a Jamal, the most beautiful, the most handsome, he may be that to his mother, but to the other people, that's not the reality. whatever his name is, his name may not be his reality. But if you name them and hide if everybody is hiding, because you're planting good, or you're planting evil, a man not a man. Not that one. Man the software. So don't call yourself a man. Because when Arabs hear their wishes son's name Hi, ma'am. We're gonna say La hawla wala quwata illa Billah. And this is one of the problems that we have as people who don't know Arabic. And we got to tighten up on that. We named our daughter Sophia, Sophia, Sophia, like Sophia

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Loren, her name is Sophia. Rizwan, and so forth and so on. Her mom is the one who wants to do something, everybody here wants to do something you're sitting, wanting to get benefit. After this dose, you're going to get up wanting to make your way home or whatever you're going to do. It's always the reality, always the reality. Those two issues, those two issues are the truth. As it relates to this particular issue, though, concerning and hasit conservative has it been nibio sallallahu alayhi, WA alayhi wa sallam, he informed us of the importance of making this kit to knifes and killing this stuff that we have where we're envious of people. And we're jealous of

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people. Another issue the property mentioned, and that Heidi says I told you some love while he was sending them.

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If you want to be successful in what you're trying to do,

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then conceal it and be quiet about it.

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Because every NEMA that ally is giving you there's someone who's envious of you, there's someone who's jealous of you.

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You have a new boat, someone is going to be jealous of your boat. And some people will look at me saying you have a new boat and say new boat. What is that? Just an example for people listening? And the internet? No. We have people right here boats, you know those canals here in Birmingham. Those canals that go from here, they go along. We have people who have those kind of boats. We have people who have that kind of whatever the case is, yo yo yo yo yo chef, everybody. People envious. You have a child, people envious. So be quiet about your ideas. Be quiet about your aspirations. Only share them with people who you know, they love you. People you know, they love you

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And then even in that case, because if you've had experience with your mother, and your auntie, your sister and your brother, you've had experience with them that they have people have this disease of envy, then you should be very careful. You should be very careful. Another issue, and this is really important, honey, crucial

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if you want to protect yourself from the evil eye, and from the people who have envy, the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us something that happened with two of his companions. One companion was walking and he saw another companion bathing, and he his torso was exposed, his upper portion was exposed his upper extremity and he had a nice compression, nice complexion, he was strong and that companion looked at him and said, Wow, I've never seen I've never seen a completion is nice is that strength like that, man, that guy is strong. When he said that, the man started drowning in the water, just like that. Just like that started drowning. They jumped in they saved

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them. They told the Prophet would happen so love while he was the man who said that he said

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he said Halla Baraka Lee, why didn't you say Baraka for him? Why didn't you say Baraka? Why didn't you say that? And then he told the people sell a lot what he was selling his Ira hadoken

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min nuptse family, woman, he might gebouw federal yedder Ola who bill Baraka for in the line haka, if any of you sees within yourself, if any of you sees your own money, that which pleases you something about yourself, you get in the mirror, and you comb your beard and you you said go, yup, yup, it is, whoops, there it is. That's what he said about his own beard, whatever. He has new clothes for the ad. And he looks in the mirror. And he's like, Whoa, look at that problem. I said, if any of you sees within yourself, or your money, your property, your car, your couch, whatever you own, or you see something in your brother, that pleases you, then let him make draw for it and him

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with Baraka because the evil is true.

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He said, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, nothing will cause the camel to wind up in the cooking pot quicker than the evil eye. So a man has a camel, the camel is going by and somebody say why there is a nice camel, camel falls, breaks his leg, put his leg in a hole breaks his leg. Now they have to put him down, they're gonna eat him.

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That happened to your car. And it happened to your child. They said, it is not wise to put pictures of your kid on the internet. It's not wise. It's not wise, putting pictures, videos of your child on the internet. If you can help that, then don't do it. Because you're not in control of who's watching that. And you know, the real sad thing. Some of you, some of us you've been married before you've been married before. If Allah blesses you with a new child, that ex wife, if they see your child's picture, the new picture, they'll put the evil eye on that kid hatred, envy.

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Envy, now be balanced as it relates to the evil eye because we go overboard, be balanced. That doesn't mean that you're going to keep your kids in in the house all the time. That doesn't mean that you're going to be you know, extreme with your fear of evil eye, no their eye and their idea that you can read over the kid and so forth aside for his divine protection. And ultimately, you know, if Allah decrees something, then it's going to happen, but our community goes bit overboard with this issue about the evil eyes. So I want to mention that again. We should make dua for Baraka. So you should say to someone, I love Huma

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Barak, and he barakallahu li Baraka ly Lee, that's what you should say Allahumma barik you see anything, new car, new phone, new shoes, new whatever, new watch new, whatever. Allahumma biotic.

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Some people say, when you see something that pleases you, you should say Mashallah, how many of you heard that that if you see something that pleases you stay Mashallah, there's a hadith that says that but it's weak. That Hadith is weak that says you should say Mashallah, the one that's authentic is to make dua for Baraka

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Hey hey wake up. Remember this sooner?

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You should say Allahumma barik Baraka lo fi. May Allah give you Baraka May Allah give him blessings that's what you say. So say Mashallah, some other nama said is permissible because it's from the good words and plus in sodoku Kath with those two men who had entered into the agenda, and we didn't say Mashallah, he was bragging about all of the things that he had and then a lot cause it to be destroyed. And he mentioned in that is who panna who would Dinah will cook, Willow la Willow La Quinta Adela genetica, Ma sha, Allah, La quwata illa Billah and terani Kala Minka, wetter than Malin were weleda if you only had said when you went into your thing, if you would only Anna said, Masha

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Allah, La quwata illa Billah if you had only said that, when you went into your, into your agenda into your garden that I had you have I'm less than you and money and children. So because of that, if those scholars say look what he said Mashallah, you should have said Ma sha Allah, La quwata illa Billah it is as Allah wished, as Allah wanted, and there was no power and there is no mic, except with Allah subhanahu wa Tada. last issue that we want to mention when it concerning this thing about envy. Those of you who are husbands, and even those of you who are uncles and Auntie's mothers, be careful with your kids. And what happened with benissa. eel, the children have Yaqoob those

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brothers, they were envious of their brothers. And they tried to do a lot of drama. That story has a lot of Hickman in it showing us that the closest of relatives, they can move based upon the inspiration that comes from envy. Adamson killed his brother. In this case, they almost killed their brother Yosef thorn in the well

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threw him in the well.

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All of that drama they were giving you. So in that is a sign in a lesson for people who are teachers, you a teacher, and the madrasa here, and the regular school, don't go overboard with your students. Now they are always going to be students who rise to the top. The cream always rises to the top. All of the profits students on the left while he was selling more of the Align home, they were not on the same level. But no, were you going to hear him being unfair amongst them nowhere. So the companion and Amanda bin Bashir, may Allah be pleased with him. And his father, his father's wife

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said go to the Prophet sallallahu it was sent him and told him Tell him to be a witness to something, I want you to give my son give my son a garden, to show the rest of your sons and my co wives. Show them how you love me and you love my children. He said, Okay.

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He said, she said, Go and let the Prophet be a witness to it. He went jasola I got some property, I'm going to give it as a gift to my son. He said some of the law while he was selling, do you have other sons of a children? He said, Yes. He said, Are you giving all of them property like this as well? He said, No. He said, then go get someone else to be a witness to it because I won't be a witness over oppression. It's wrong. And then he told the people at lubaina all it can be fair in just between your children.

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Be fair, and just

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the eldest son is not like the youngest son,

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the senior son, the singer, daughter, they're not like those who came after them. Your first daughter, your first son, they're not like any of the other children. The twins are not like any of the other children. The child who is the newest one on the scene, the baby, the baby, he she's not like the other children. They're not all the same in terms of sometimes how you look at them. They're not all the same. There's nothing wrong with that. That is an issue of the heart. A person can't control it. But you can go out of your way to make the youngest feel that he's loved more than everybody else can't be like that. The eldest is loved more than ever. It can't be like that. Can't

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be like that. So if that were to happen, you could be the reason and you're responsible for planting the seeds of an acid in the hearts of your kids.

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We had that. We have kids, siblings that are connected to us who will say, my parents didn't like me the way they like this one or that one. And it was clear, I heard that recently. I heard that from someone in my community recently, where they told me the father's dying, dying on his deathbed. I don't know his situation is may allow that ROM upon him, told me I heard with my own ears, my parents, they, you know, I was an afterthought. They, they they really, they really made me feel like they didn't care about me at all. They cared about the other ones. Does that person have envy? I don't know. I don't know about that. But that is a fast track to create in that situation between

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our sons and our daughters. Same thing, same thing with the wives. Same thing with the lives. The wife in Arabic is called the Dora, the CO wife, Dora, from the word to hurt. She's the Dora and it means to hurt. She's a hurt for the other wife. So there's jealousy. There's jealousy.

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But that jealousy is called Hera Hera to be jealous. Now it has it has it is something else. You have to be jealous about your family, you have to be one of us. His wife wants to buy a car, she goes to the dealer with her husband, the dealer says, okay,

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you want to drive it? Yeah, we want to drive this car before you buy this car. It's okay, you could drive. But the guy who's the dealer has to get in the front seat, and the wife is in the front seat.

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And the brother says, Hey, what's that all about?

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And the dealer says, If I don't get in the front seat, is no insurance. I gotta be in the front seat. And that guy is saying, Man, we ain't getting this car, you won't get in this backseat. And if something happened, we gonna switch up a bit and do the switcheroo up in here. So the brothers pushing the envelope because he has to do that. But another person may say, I understand no problem. It's necessity. Say that here are for your wife, your daughter, your dean, your money your house, for your people, for your nation. Nothing wrong with that hero. As for her said, No, it's not permissible for our Muslim sisters to have this envy between themselves and this hatred between

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themselves. And if they do let them know as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. It is the highlight. I don't say the Hanukkah that cuts the hair is the Hanukkah that cuts the deen. Okay, what if you guys have any questions concerning today's dose about and hassad inshallah jellico put your questions forward from the

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bad daddy one is a synonym to those people are from the whole lot. There was a guy back when I was in Medina, his name was Mahmoud al had died. He was from Egypt. And he was with the heart cause selfie brothers back then they were very tough when all of the other selfies were balanced. When the selfies were given total beer from the three mountains and the amendment and Banyan chef and basil shaker bill Fay mean, and Chef Macbeth. It was love between the people were we different with each other. But that difference didn't go into the heart and make people hate each other. This man my mood and her dad. He had a group of youngsters who broke off and they were on their own. And they

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said mmm and no, we and me show Kenny and emammal, bay hockey, Alabama Co Op. All of these are Mr. l hated me and hate me. They said these people were innovators because they made mistakes here and there in our Kedah, so they didn't judge based upon principles and justice. They judge based upon his job being impatient like some of our brothers we keep telling you don't be like that, it may be that this particular day he is not on the sooner or that one may not be on the Sunday may be but let us speak with knowledge. let it speak with principles Let's stay discipline. Don't allow your hatred towards people. A Masjid an organization a person or group don't allow that to make you become

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unfair as Allah mentioned in the Quran. He mentioned that in the Quran. Be fair be just add up properly. taqwa B phase close taqwa. So the Hadees the Hadees that came from him. But the hula that I'm always talking about. I see them as being a daddy's

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Now why, because they make to be of people who don't deserve it the same way that that guy did. And one of the things and characteristics of that guy Schaeffler B is always mentioned in this. The man back then is if you make a mistake back then with that guy, my mother and her dad, golfer, Allahu Allah, Allah who, if you make a mistake, they will never let you leave that mistake. They will keep back then they will keep criticizing you for that mistake.

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That's one of the glaring characteristics back then. And that's why I call these people these black hat daddies. So stay away from the his beat that had Daddy, the hypocrite, stay away from the high set, and the hack, the hack it any more questions and one for the athlete for them.

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Anybody have any water?

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Now people are not born with sins inside of them. Everything is learned. People are born upon the fitrah. And that filter is the natural disposition to do the right thing. But they are pre disposed to make a mistakes, they are open, but you can say this seed of jealousy is in us already. This seed of arrogance is in us already. Those are learning traits that people have. Yes. For the

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in order to protect yourself from jealousy, and good deeds, are you allowed to lie

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and hide your good deeds? So you're going to lie? Because if someone were to know that you did this, you did that they'll be jealous of what you did.

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There's a hadith that tells us clearly lying is permissible only in three situations. It's permissible for a man to lie to his wife. And a narration says for her to lie to him as well. But you don't use syrup the rights of one another. Yes, food was really good. Yes, you look really beautiful. You look as beautiful today as the day that I married you and eight babies that you have have not changed you one bit. So he says things like that. The other thing is in war, you can lie. Because war is deception. You're not going to tell your enemy, everything that you're doing. And the third thing is to make peace between people show kindness.

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Is this from the Hanged Man?

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Where's this from? From?

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outside, outside?

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Thanks, man.

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And you can like to bring peace. As for a person lying in order to hide as these, some of the scholars, they allow leeway.

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They allow leeway, just like this hadith about envy. I did say envy is only in two things. But we are allowed to

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envy people for other than these two things as long as it's good. So some leeway was allowed. You the Hadid said someone's giving money and he has knowledge. But I told you someone is strong and he fights for slam and whatever the case may be.

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So we found the set of

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lion in situations like this for an example. One of them will harbor a fugitive the Hanif is looking for someone and he's in his house. And he's not gonna say he's a mouse, because he's gonna get killed. And he doesn't want to get him killed. So he'll say he's not he's not there. But it's better to do something. What is known as topia.

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But this was from our religion, there's a right way of doing topia where you say one thing but you mean another thing. And you're not lying? You say one thing, but you mean another thing. So this person has spent quite a bit of money. And he gave the orphans of Syria 5000 pounds. His family and people from his family, his friends, who he knows they had this envy. They say a you know gave that did you get that?

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And you say, yeah, yeah, Abdullah gave it, you know, something like that. Abdullah gave that. And they may think is another Abdullah that you to know, but you're really talking about yourself. So it's better to use topia, as opposed to just lie in, it's better than use topia, if you can allow for them.

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The sisters threw down a question. But you didn't throw it hard enough. So it went back on you and is stuck on the ledge. So send the question down again.

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And we say like, what I already ate, knowing that the UFC

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was good.

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Yeah, like this, like this. If someone is fast, he doesn't want other people to know that he's fast. And they said, Come in and fast is that when I already ate, but he may not eat breakfast, I eat a long time ago, my sohar. But in this case, as well, no problem. I mean, if you do that is better. I mean, if you do that, you have to determine what's the best thing. But there's a hadith that the Prophet mentioned someone loved while he was sent him if someone is fasting, and people invite him to eat, let him break as fast or let him make dua for them. Let him pray. The idea says, Let him pray. So some people take that idea. And they're praying while other people are fasting, breaking

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the while the people eating, and he's praying now that people are looking at him praying, and they know he's fast. He's praying. So that comes off like Ria because not understanding

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the meaning of let them pray means let them make draw for them. But the Hadith allow, okay, he's not exposing himself is to people who are saying people are saying, Come and eat. Because of that. He said, I'm fasting, like the Hadeeth. If one of you is fasting, and someone is fighting you, then let him say, Hey, I'm fasting. I'm fasting. Backup on off me I'm fasting. I'm fasting. He's only letting it become revealed because there's a religious reason respect that I'm fasting you won't break my fast like that. Any more questions for the athlete? Is the last question and we are here in Sharla.

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Say it again.

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Evil Eye

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a good grade.

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I mean, we have the either the Quran will be near mithi Rebecca for Hadith concerning the NEMA that a lava stole the pie, you talk about it. So in a case like this, if someone is giving you that type of negativity, it's permissible for you to say Look, that's the face of a law upon me. It goes back to Allah. I did my job. I did my part, but ultimately it was up to Allah. He gave me the strength and the ability to wake up today to take the exam. I wrote the right answers and although I was doing that is from the tofik of a lot, so don't blame me. So you just educate them in that type of way. No one knows best. Last question from upstairs. I have a personal question. I don't wish to

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vocalize, vocalize can ask you outside

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the shower with a cash can get this cash.

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No problem. Okay honey, Baraka Luffy Kumasi unlike me allies, which Allah bless all of you brothers and protect all of you with the nemos daddy bestowed upon you all your families, your children, your health, your wealth, all of those issues. Let us remember this issue from last week. look for excuses for people and also this issue of envy. Don't be envious of people don't be envious. was said mid Kumara to La Habra cattle