Channel: Abdulbary Yahya
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We don't need
like you know think about it a couple of years ago right?
Remember that the days of data
so that was for like almost 20 years nobody complained
as soon as they got the SSL
you know we never complained until the TV guy goes is your internet slow
now what you said is pretty slow right? Right and then
for the DVD
the first lie
someone says you would know that the reward payment The first time
you would actually people would fight for you and you'd have to stick to boxing
before to compete for that when it comes to
our mentality is different.
you know the old days people depart what they
but with the TV and everything like that, we ended up being
and we think that
you know, people were passionate those who are in advertising and so forth. Professional professionals. I tried to buy things you don't need
to see all the time. What are they? What are they trying to get?
Yeah, right. What do you do? That's what you do you got to get people to die even though you know they don't need it because you got to make it
right especially if you go rent a car
how they want to sell you all the time, no matter where you wherever you buy now they're trying to give you stuff you don't need
Okay, so first of all, every every one of
every single one of them, we can spend the whole lecture but
again when we speak about
you know, how can we set a goal
number one, our goal
should always be the highest level
you should never ever be going to St. Paul just integrate
whichever level doesn't matter even the lowest you asked for the highest
and when we touch when you're making
you know what
you know what you're
gonna do I change.
So what are you concerned about very concerned about?
to alleviate, to have a lot of relief from the punishment at all fine. Are you making it so that
they understand sometimes you
Have you set goals set a goal?
To have you set high goals? Let's say for example, you're in school. If you're just aiming for a passing grade,
you're going to work. And by the way, this paper just
aiming for 60s, you know, lower 60s,
something will happen and you're going
to shoot an arrow, right? It's like, the target is right here. When
you pull it, the iron goes down. So aim for the highest level,
level, right, but you always ask for the highest.
And he should have bedrooms.
And it will affect how you behave with your expectations and your goals.
That's why they
asked for data as to the highest level of data at the highest
So we look at
even our children, a lot of times we don't set high expectations.
He he went to a city
and in this city, everyone believes that
if you were born on a Tuesday
you're going to get Nope. If you're gonna Thursday, yeah.
Yeah. And so they thought the service structure
Why is this true?
Is it true? If you don't believe us ask the people outside
ask the people in the village in the town. And so the chairperson asks, What do we do
or less the two beggars so far, they were born to any preset
that you started to ask to be successful
a brother let's see.
The son was born
on Saturday night at nine o'clock, nine o'clock.
Why are you so late?
people on the board of birthday, they don't go around playing
the last Tuesday guy came on to talk about
dad comes in comes home six days ago.
The father the mother says
expectations are different. So they are not
If you can say just
so that's what
I mean if you're going to ask
for what are the most beautiful things. Know.
when I walk
So he asked me
Do you know when prophet and when he
when he was making do if
they were in a in the desert surrounded by
now there is not a single strand of grass
near the mountains of Mecca in Arabia
there is no innovation on some of those toxins. And you know, he turns around is asking the last panel of Allah when his family would hide it and
once he asked it says what was it was
what are you gonna
boots there's not a single speck of brass
and even mentioned that the wedding wedding is up
in Alaska with no innovative
You can always find the best foods
you find foods that you can find me
because they're coming from Australia.
India, Southeast Asia. You go go, we don't have a typo make it
that in Arizona? I couldn't get that in Colorado.
to settle for anything less than the best Muslim.
So when I say
you know the best
when he was
as an artist,
for the most important journey and
investment are lots of a lot of hype.
you know, why weren't there any worth?
comes to that
when it comes to
that's why sometimes we have done
we have progress,
that we take posters.
If you have people who are specialists that Muslims do it.
But if you don't, it's okay to have a house.
Even if you even have to pay for to get quality because it's not deserved for that.
It's not deserved. And sometimes you look at some of these programs and you look at the price on a professional, we come across the events.
then we say what does
mean especially when you're
designing something? Well, like every rule is broken.
is something that anyone deserves
quality, quality, professional excellence. Focus on
What can we do to discipline
the profits of a
the best of these languages most consistent? If
you want to, if you want to be disciplined.
And of course for us, you know, we are at Microsoft.
So how can you keep yourself strong?
What is consistency,
even if it's just a smaller
so every one of us, we should take these, the small amount of gifts that we can do for the rest of your life and it becomes your character.
But don't pick something that's so much that you cannot do it.
Let's say for example, to say pray,
say to yourself, you know from now,
I will pray
at least once every three days.
This is minimal
when you have reached a point, but let's say for example, today, you are so busy, you didn't pray.
And then the third day come to this all four players in the chat time that chat time cards, and you say to yourself, no,
you've never been, there's never three days in your life that you will that
there will never be three days
did so that no matter how tired you are, you go visit system
with a couple of people and the same way when it comes to fasting the same way. And this is what the companions did. You know,
he said from the day I heard from, from my wife
is in the process of adapting
AI definitely must be
one of those three things. It said number one
seconds to run as after sunrise, the
second sentence was read.
And then there were three weekends of passing.
He did more than that most of the time. But there was never a bug that he did
that for some of us, we crashed after a lot. Because we're not consistent. last
three, four months, we never open it again. Why? Because you don't have that as far as your character. So you have to choose these are consistent with even a smaller note be consistent with for the rest of your life. It's a bit choose getting the deeds and then monthly deeds, some maybe by English, for example, let's say there's not a single record three bucks the pacifier except I'm going to visit this one sick person.
Did you say okay, two months have passed this month is about to add somebody who's sick.
So put that as your schedule. Just like when you want to have a successful business, you put a business plan you want to
set your client off. And that's the thing is you have to know if you have if you want to consistent for a certain amount, then you
say okay, I'm not going to be there's not a single day in my life except when I retire.
So if you're consistent with that, most of the time you end up with more than what you start you end up with. So that's one way to get one way to
to be consistent to keep yourself strong. And the other. And also, by the way hidden in your daily life, your daily life with a little bit less consistency is very important. You know, I when I went to
I was 18 years old. And I have I have two sisters. And so my two sisters.
first time I talked to neighbors,
and I said well
my friend told me his back a little bit like this before the part that I knew how to crack at it.
Anyway, I was a little bit spoiled, but my mother used to always think
that that was my brother and my sister would do the cleaning and I would try to be nice and clean and wash places.
And so I wouldn't like washing the dishes and then wash the dishes.
Why is there still soap on here
and then she'll say
that's the kind of
person that you know, that's the side of the world. So now I'm gonna wash my dishes, nobody's gonna clean my house, okay?
So you're going to end up you ended up doing
some of us, right? cars is certainly not like, you
know, but the thing is,
is that every time I leave this room,
the first thing that I'm going to do for three minutes
that I leave that door.
So this is what I ended up doing. In the bathroom, I will come back to fitness.
In three minutes of Scala, I ended up increasing it to one.
And you don't want me to either say, oh, man, one minute, so much.
But this is what I did. Just one minute, sometimes I will take longer than that, we'll do one because once you get the hardest part is getting started. Once you start makes easier, so usually, sometimes more than one minute, but I got to the point where my room was so clean.
My room was so clean, that I had to look for dust
on my books,
because I don't have any constantly. And I still haven't been
deployed. And I live I do it again. So I'm looking for the best.
So like, super clean, but then I don't feel like I put in a rock.
when I get my car off.
You know, before I used to like look at my car for the Saturday.
Because I said you know, I'm gonna find a house. So what I did was, every time the rule in my house, or my car is that anyone was in my car. In my family, I take a test to do this. If you need my car, nobody needs my car without taking the pieces.
Every time you take the piece you have to find the pieces right during the car. And so what ends up happening is some of my kids in the back they know that that's their ticket.
They don't have three pieces. So what we end up doing whole family before we enter the supermarket was the trash can. So it's like literally
everyone's going to this bachelor because a big piece of whatever we're doing wherever we are doesn't matter. The first thing we're looking for.
Okay, so we go out and you don't like it then it ends up being they start falling for the trap
that they got
started but when I called them up, like
he gotta you gotta look for he doesn't have to look, but that's what consistency.
You don't see it, but he be consistent in doing good deeds.