Danger Of Severing Ties 05

Zoubir Bouchikhi

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Sh Zoubir discusses the Danger of Severing Ties Amongst Family in Islam – Breaking Silaturrahim

Feb 2016

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Y'all

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what's

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expected

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morning

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tonight

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we like to discuss

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because it happens to all of us

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go through what I'm going to say.

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Because

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the enemy of your enemy

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we know that

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they will not

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destroy us.

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This is

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as much as

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or briefly

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for

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more than

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a century

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between

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between husband and wife,

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parents and children

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relationship with

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so

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many fall into it

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if you're not currently

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falling into

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this

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it is not important

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in the first area

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what's

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up

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so pleased to have

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you

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you don't want

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to come

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What does that mean?

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Don't Don't do that

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corruption

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in whatever

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you see here

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or your brother or your sister or somebody

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simply because

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you can at

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the brothers.

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Then we'll go to the Buddha,

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Buddha,

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Buddha

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with the family

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forgiveness

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as soon as we

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wake up in the morning

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to

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send

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an email

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leave your caption

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first

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verse 21

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up

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when we were in it

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soul your body, the soul body

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we all set

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by law

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to learn English law

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we forget

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because

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because

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we are in

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Indonesia

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you want to take the championship

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oh

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you're not

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going to win the championship. This is what we're talking about

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this is the topic

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we are waiting

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the

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education of our children

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we are ready to get

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ready to go to Ghana.

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So

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the most important

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relationship

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with one another

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visit is your

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way

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so

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because what makes me feel

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I go with you

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bye

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When we decided to you

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he doesn't need to remember

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what

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that something is.

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And just keep doing and keep doing

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it because

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it depends on

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what

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area

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those who don't want to be

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there.

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I can

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remember

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my brothers and sisters

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you have no

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people

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that you have no.

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no future

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because there's only

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one way why we see so many problems in community. The youth don't want to listen to the elders don't want to listen to people who have

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Go

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Go back to the

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matches.

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Do you think they're smart?

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Social media.

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They don't know how to use the media. They don't.

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Wisdom.

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Why?

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Just because

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2016

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at the same time, I advise the elders to listen to the youth.

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The use of the elders, the elders, have to listen to them.

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So

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when it

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goes

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well

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on the Day of Judgment

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the process is all we have

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Salam

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Alaikum

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so you

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know

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what does this mean? What does it mean?

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If you have

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if you have family members

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we invite that we inherit like elderly people or sick people.

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If you

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like what you're

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up

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to

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if you're

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not

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because they need your money

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to the next

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video

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if you yourself

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visit

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and visit

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he

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is not he was

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Hello

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You're

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not you're

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not you're struggling

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This is what

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the priority is to the next door.

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These are the steps

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they allow us to

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understand.

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We are not just talking

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so

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make sure to

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visit

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the this is what we need to do.

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Relationship

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Can I just say

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okay

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bye

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join me

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later

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to me.

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relationship between

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relationship between

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business

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it's good to

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see

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you.

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You trying to avoid me?

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What's

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the shape of

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the

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body. The body is

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the goal

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y'all

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You

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might

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say no.

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This is my brother my sister

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because

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he

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used to visit

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him

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in the last

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video

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in

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the process

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what

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is feminine?

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What is feminine? That's why it exists.

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There is no man who has

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why'd

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you join your blog to visit your family?

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This was not the food

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to the family

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if they have the gift

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my brothers and sisters

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he had many children.

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One of them was

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he he's

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so great.

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He told me

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many parents come

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to us because we have

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a model.

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The best way to

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save

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who is giving the hard drive

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into the ship.

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chance to say this because of

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you both of you.

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You

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because

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the problem is is that people are missing

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relationships in

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this industry.

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So,

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why

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the board?

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Now the question

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the real story,

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the

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story what is the story

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before I go to the story

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after the death of our beloved

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I swear

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family relationship problems

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together

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he kept repeating

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No one said anything. What did he do? He went

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story

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she said

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The competitive

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relationship with these families

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then

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what

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I learned

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versus

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a group of people if there is only one

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big trouble

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because

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why

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because

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brothers and sisters

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when one of us is drinking

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you have

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never changed

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you

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this is

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now the story that I promised

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is

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a very rich man

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who

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has money What do you have?

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And he says

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I am going to

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forget

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I would like you to give me a call

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when you finish

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Bashar

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he came back

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in

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1009

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this

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is someone gives you money,

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but you never told your wife or your children

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in

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some way

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knows that this is not

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the purpose.

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This is

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okay

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in order to avoid problems with the family

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He went to the Buddha, the Buddha.

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They told him

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after they

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passed away, he passed away

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because they say they don't know and

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so what happened?

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When

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when it is midnight

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looking

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at he is not the people of Jenna you will hear

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you will hear the voice

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he will reply to you.

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He wants to be fine.

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We are your friend.

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Go to

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Indiana.

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Well

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is one

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Is

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it

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okay?

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The word

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Guess what? He called upon him? Everybody thought he was

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the absolute

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Yes, yes no. So

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what are you doing in this

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place?

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They do and

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I forgot to tell my children about it. So he was he was he was

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he has a sister, sister.

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The person

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he has a sister.

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A sister.

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I left it

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sister,

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mother,

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father,

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children

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which is waiting for us.

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relationship

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because there is no guarantee we will wake up

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Joining

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me

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now

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I have

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efficiently the females in your family the

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mother or

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the sister

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the sister

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she goes

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Why?

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Why

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you deserve to be respected as I never showed respect

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women

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always take care of women, my brothers and sisters, your daughters

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in this presentation I shared with you service

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visitation and I told you if

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you if

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you haven't

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and you're going to visit

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so Pamela This is our This is

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why

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so many

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people think we are good

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just the system

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don't care about everyone

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and everybody has to come up

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that's the attitude that shape attitude

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they can't they opened up

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but what can you

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what can we

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do

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about my brother?

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I don't know why.

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You have to silence this.

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Whenever I can

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change that.

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Don't wait to your money.

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Thank you.

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I spoke about family relationships.

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Because

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the

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community like this one.

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need to be a little bit careful that cc us

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talk about this

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Please

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stop

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you must

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know

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how

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to ask me for my daughter when he is not even from the same place

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we do

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need to be careful

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but that's another subject

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now

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if you have a problem with anybody

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leave a message stop

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after a few days isn't easy

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don't go there

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people check in

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because law

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law

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these days there was this man who was dying when he was he got his children

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what is a good

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the last time

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words

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he says

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someone does

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it

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don't

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make it worse. But that followed by

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with

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my son and he gave him What?

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He loves

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the

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laser

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because he was

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so let's

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say sorry to your sister, your brother

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and your sister.

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Oh my god.

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There are so many

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do

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you go back to bed?

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You wake up. Wake up.

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Don't be like this man.

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was good

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for

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one

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another.

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Yes.

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For those who are hiding

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I tell

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you

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so.

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So, do

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you watch Manchester United

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Chelsea, we need to have 90 minutes for that. Don't worry, we're gonna stop after this question is yes.

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I can't see.

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I can't they leave you.

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Yep.

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Very good question. This one is asking what's the best?

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fit?

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fit?

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fit?

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This is another problem

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instead of calling each other

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okay what's the best way to correct?

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It is a shame.

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understand the

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meaning they have

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will listen to them. What is it?

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Yes, yes you're right.

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To talk to you

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is your brother

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if you are married or if you have a brother

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for example, you exchange your mother.

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You

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so you have to

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treat each other better than we

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know.

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give a gift to your brother.

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Because this is his law.

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Yes, my sister. It says

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matters because

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they saw

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what did you say? What did they say? They did?

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Because they

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really got it the right way.

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The right way.

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The right way.

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Actually debating who would you be?

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Would you be the judge? Because you are.

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He says my children. I got it.

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I got it. I got this

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So that's what we

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definitely check

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if you die like this

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the story of the man went to

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dinner.

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Everybody thought he was good. What's the name

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of the web

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doesn't have really sips of water.

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You're lucky.

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Say between

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when

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you will see

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sisters and brothers and we asked them not to

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take care of this

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is no joke my brothers and sisters say that

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relationship This is one another forgive one another

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like

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to see you

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today