Sh Zoubir discusses the Danger of Severing Ties Amongst Family in Islam – Breaking Silaturrahim
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Y'all
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what's
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expected
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morning
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tonight
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we like to discuss
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because it happens to all of us
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go through what I'm going to say.
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Because
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the enemy of your enemy
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we know that
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they will not
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destroy us.
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This is
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as much as
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or briefly
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for
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more than
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a century
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between
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between husband and wife,
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parents and children
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relationship with
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so
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many fall into it
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if you're not currently
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falling into
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this
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it is not important
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in the first area
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what's
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up
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so pleased to have
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you
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you don't want
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to come
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What does that mean?
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Don't Don't do that
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corruption
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in whatever
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you see here
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or your brother or your sister or somebody
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simply because
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you can at
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the brothers.
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Then we'll go to the Buddha,
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Buddha,
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Buddha
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with the family
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forgiveness
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as soon as we
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wake up in the morning
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to
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send
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an email
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leave your caption
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first
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verse 21
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up
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when we were in it
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soul your body, the soul body
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we all set
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by law
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to learn English law
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we forget
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because
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because
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we are in
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Indonesia
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you want to take the championship
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oh
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you're not
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going to win the championship. This is what we're talking about
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this is the topic
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we are waiting
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the
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education of our children
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we are ready to get
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ready to go to Ghana.
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So
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the most important
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relationship
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with one another
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visit is your
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way
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so
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because what makes me feel
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I go with you
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bye
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When we decided to you
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he doesn't need to remember
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what
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that something is.
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And just keep doing and keep doing
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it because
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it depends on
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what
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area
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those who don't want to be
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there.
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I can
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remember
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my brothers and sisters
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you have no
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people
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that you have no.
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no future
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because there's only
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one way why we see so many problems in community. The youth don't want to listen to the elders don't
want to listen to people who have
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Go
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Go back to the
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matches.
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Do you think they're smart?
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Social media.
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They don't know how to use the media. They don't.
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Wisdom.
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Why?
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Just because
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2016
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at the same time, I advise the elders to listen to the youth.
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The use of the elders, the elders, have to listen to them.
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So
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when it
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goes
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well
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on the Day of Judgment
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the process is all we have
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Salam
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Alaikum
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so you
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know
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what does this mean? What does it mean?
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If you have
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if you have family members
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we invite that we inherit like elderly people or sick people.
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If you
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like what you're
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up
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to
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if you're
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not
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because they need your money
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to the next
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video
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if you yourself
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visit
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and visit
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he
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is not he was
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Hello
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You're
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not you're
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not you're struggling
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This is what
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the priority is to the next door.
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These are the steps
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they allow us to
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understand.
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We are not just talking
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so
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make sure to
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visit
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the this is what we need to do.
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Relationship
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Can I just say
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okay
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bye
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join me
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later
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to me.
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relationship between
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relationship between
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business
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it's good to
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see
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you.
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You trying to avoid me?
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What's
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the shape of
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the
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body. The body is
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the goal
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y'all
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You
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might
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say no.
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This is my brother my sister
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because
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he
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used to visit
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him
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in the last
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video
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in
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the process
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what
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is feminine?
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What is feminine? That's why it exists.
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There is no man who has
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why'd
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you join your blog to visit your family?
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This was not the food
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to the family
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if they have the gift
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my brothers and sisters
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he had many children.
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One of them was
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he he's
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so great.
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He told me
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many parents come
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to us because we have
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a model.
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The best way to
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save
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who is giving the hard drive
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into the ship.
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chance to say this because of
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you both of you.
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You
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because
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the problem is is that people are missing
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relationships in
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this industry.
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So,
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why
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the board?
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Now the question
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the real story,
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the
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story what is the story
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before I go to the story
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after the death of our beloved
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I swear
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family relationship problems
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together
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he kept repeating
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No one said anything. What did he do? He went
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story
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she said
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The competitive
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relationship with these families
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then
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what
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I learned
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versus
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a group of people if there is only one
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big trouble
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because
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why
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because
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brothers and sisters
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when one of us is drinking
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you have
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never changed
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you
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this is
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now the story that I promised
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is
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a very rich man
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who
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has money What do you have?
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And he says
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I am going to
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forget
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I would like you to give me a call
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when you finish
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Bashar
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he came back
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in
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1009
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this
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is someone gives you money,
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but you never told your wife or your children
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in
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some way
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knows that this is not
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the purpose.
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This is
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okay
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in order to avoid problems with the family
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He went to the Buddha, the Buddha.
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They told him
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after they
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passed away, he passed away
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because they say they don't know and
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so what happened?
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When
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when it is midnight
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looking
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at he is not the people of Jenna you will hear
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you will hear the voice
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he will reply to you.
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He wants to be fine.
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We are your friend.
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Go to
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Indiana.
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Well
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is one
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Is
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it
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okay?
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The word
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Guess what? He called upon him? Everybody thought he was
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the absolute
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Yes, yes no. So
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what are you doing in this
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place?
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They do and
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I forgot to tell my children about it. So he was he was he was
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he has a sister, sister.
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The person
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he has a sister.
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A sister.
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I left it
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sister,
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mother,
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father,
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children
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which is waiting for us.
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relationship
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because there is no guarantee we will wake up
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Joining
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me
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now
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I have
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efficiently the females in your family the
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mother or
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the sister
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the sister
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she goes
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Why?
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Why
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you deserve to be respected as I never showed respect
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women
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always take care of women, my brothers and sisters, your daughters
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in this presentation I shared with you service
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visitation and I told you if
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you if
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you haven't
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and you're going to visit
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so Pamela This is our This is
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why
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so many
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people think we are good
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just the system
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don't care about everyone
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and everybody has to come up
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that's the attitude that shape attitude
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they can't they opened up
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but what can you
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what can we
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do
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about my brother?
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I don't know why.
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You have to silence this.
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Whenever I can
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change that.
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Don't wait to your money.
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Thank you.
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I spoke about family relationships.
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Because
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the
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community like this one.
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need to be a little bit careful that cc us
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talk about this
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Please
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stop
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you must
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know
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how
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to ask me for my daughter when he is not even from the same place
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we do
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need to be careful
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but that's another subject
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now
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if you have a problem with anybody
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leave a message stop
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after a few days isn't easy
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don't go there
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people check in
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because law
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law
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these days there was this man who was dying when he was he got his children
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what is a good
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the last time
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words
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he says
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someone does
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it
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don't
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make it worse. But that followed by
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with
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my son and he gave him What?
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He loves
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the
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laser
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because he was
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so let's
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say sorry to your sister, your brother
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and your sister.
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Oh my god.
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There are so many
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do
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you go back to bed?
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You wake up. Wake up.
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Don't be like this man.
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was good
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for
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one
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another.
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Yes.
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For those who are hiding
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I tell
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you
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so.
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So, do
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you watch Manchester United
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Chelsea, we need to have 90 minutes for that. Don't worry, we're gonna stop after this question is
yes.
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I can't see.
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I can't they leave you.
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Yep.
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Very good question. This one is asking what's the best?
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fit?
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fit?
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fit?
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This is another problem
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instead of calling each other
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okay what's the best way to correct?
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It is a shame.
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understand the
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meaning they have
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will listen to them. What is it?
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Yes, yes you're right.
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To talk to you
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is your brother
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if you are married or if you have a brother
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for example, you exchange your mother.
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You
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so you have to
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treat each other better than we
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know.
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give a gift to your brother.
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Because this is his law.
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Yes, my sister. It says
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matters because
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they saw
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what did you say? What did they say? They did?
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Because they
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really got it the right way.
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The right way.
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The right way.
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Actually debating who would you be?
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Would you be the judge? Because you are.
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He says my children. I got it.
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I got it. I got this
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So that's what we
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definitely check
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if you die like this
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the story of the man went to
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dinner.
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Everybody thought he was good. What's the name
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of the web
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doesn't have really sips of water.
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You're lucky.
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Say between
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when
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you will see
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sisters and brothers and we asked them not to
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take care of this
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is no joke my brothers and sisters say that
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relationship This is one another forgive one another
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like
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to see you
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today