Danger Of Severing Ties 05

Zoubir Bouchikhi

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Sh Zoubir discusses the Danger of Severing Ties Amongst Family in Islam – Breaking Silaturrahim

Feb 2016

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AI: Summary © The speaker discusses various topics related to relationships and family, including English law, social media, and family members. They emphasize the importance of listening and sharing stories to avoid complications and offer guidance on how to ask for their daughter. The transcript is difficult to summarize as it appears to be a jumbled mix of disconnected sentences and phrases.
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Y'all

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what's

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expected

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morning

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tonight

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we like to discuss

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because it happens to all of us

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go through what I'm going to say.

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Because

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the enemy of your enemy

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we know that

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they will not

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destroy us.

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This is

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as much as

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or briefly

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for

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more than

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a century

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between

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between husband and wife,

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parents and children

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relationship with

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so

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many fall into it

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if you're not currently

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falling into

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this

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it is not important

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in the first area

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what's

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up

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so pleased to have

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you

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you don't want

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to come

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What does that mean?

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Don't Don't do that

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corruption

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in whatever

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you see here

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or your brother or your sister or somebody

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simply because

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you can at

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the brothers.

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Then we'll go to the Buddha,

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Buddha,

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Buddha

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with the family

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forgiveness

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as soon as we

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wake up in the morning

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to

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send

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an email

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leave your caption

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first

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verse 21

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up

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when we were in it

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soul your body, the soul body

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we all set

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by law

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to learn English law

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we forget

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because

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because

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we are in

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Indonesia

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you want to take the championship

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oh

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you're not

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going to win the championship. This is what we're talking about

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this is the topic

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we are waiting

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the

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education of our children

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we are ready to get

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ready to go to Ghana.

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So

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the most important

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relationship

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with one another

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visit is your

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way

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so

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because what makes me feel

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I go with you

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bye

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When we decided to you

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he doesn't need to remember

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what

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that something is.

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And just keep doing and keep doing

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it because

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it depends on

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what

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area

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those who don't want to be

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there.

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I can

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remember

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my brothers and sisters

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you have no

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people

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that you have no.

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no future

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because there's only

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one way why we see so many problems in community. The youth don't want to listen to the elders don't want to listen to people who have

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Go

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Go back to the

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matches.

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Do you think they're smart?

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Social media.

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They don't know how to use the media. They don't.

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Wisdom.

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Why?

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Just because

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2016

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at the same time, I advise the elders to listen to the youth.

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The use of the elders, the elders, have to listen to them.

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So

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when it

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goes

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well

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on the Day of Judgment

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the process is all we have

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Salam

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Alaikum

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so you

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know

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what does this mean? What does it mean?

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If you have

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if you have family members

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we invite that we inherit like elderly people or sick people.

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If you

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like what you're

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up

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to

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if you're

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not

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because they need your money

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to the next

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video

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if you yourself

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visit

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and visit

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he

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is not he was

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Hello

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You're

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not you're

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not you're struggling

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This is what

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the priority is to the next door.

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These are the steps

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they allow us to

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understand.

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We are not just talking

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so

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make sure to

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visit

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the this is what we need to do.

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Relationship

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Can I just say

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okay

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bye

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join me

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later

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to me.

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relationship between

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relationship between

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business

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it's good to

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see

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you.

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You trying to avoid me?

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What's

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the shape of

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the

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body. The body is

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the goal

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y'all

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You

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might

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say no.

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This is my brother my sister

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because

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he

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used to visit

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him

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in the last

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video

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in

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the process

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what

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is feminine?

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What is feminine? That's why it exists.

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There is no man who has

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why'd

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you join your blog to visit your family?

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This was not the food

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to the family

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if they have the gift

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my brothers and sisters

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he had many children.

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One of them was

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he he's

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so great.

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He told me

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many parents come

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to us because we have

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a model.

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The best way to

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save

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who is giving the hard drive

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into the ship.

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chance to say this because of

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you both of you.

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You

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because

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the problem is is that people are missing

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relationships in

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this industry.

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So,

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why

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the board?

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Now the question

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the real story,

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the

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story what is the story

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before I go to the story

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after the death of our beloved

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I swear

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family relationship problems

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together

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he kept repeating

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No one said anything. What did he do? He went

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story

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she said

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The competitive

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relationship with these families

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then

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what

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I learned

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versus

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a group of people if there is only one

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big trouble

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because

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why

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because

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brothers and sisters

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when one of us is drinking

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you have

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never changed

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you

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this is

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now the story that I promised

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is

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a very rich man

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who

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has money What do you have?

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And he says

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I am going to

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forget

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I would like you to give me a call

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when you finish

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Bashar

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he came back

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in

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1009

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this

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is someone gives you money,

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but you never told your wife or your children

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in

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some way

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knows that this is not

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the purpose.

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This is

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okay

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in order to avoid problems with the family

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He went to the Buddha, the Buddha.

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They told him

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after they

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passed away, he passed away

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because they say they don't know and

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so what happened?

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When

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when it is midnight

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looking

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at he is not the people of Jenna you will hear

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you will hear the voice

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he will reply to you.

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He wants to be fine.

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We are your friend.

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Go to

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Indiana.

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Well

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is one

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Is

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it

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okay?

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The word

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Guess what? He called upon him? Everybody thought he was

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the absolute

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Yes, yes no. So

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what are you doing in this

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place?

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They do and

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I forgot to tell my children about it. So he was he was he was

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he has a sister, sister.

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The person

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he has a sister.

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A sister.

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I left it

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sister,

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mother,

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father,

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children

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which is waiting for us.

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relationship

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because there is no guarantee we will wake up

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Joining

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me

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now

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I have

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efficiently the females in your family the

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mother or

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the sister

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the sister

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she goes

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Why?

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Why

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you deserve to be respected as I never showed respect

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women

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always take care of women, my brothers and sisters, your daughters

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in this presentation I shared with you service

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visitation and I told you if

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you if

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you haven't

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and you're going to visit

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so Pamela This is our This is

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why

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so many

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people think we are good

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just the system

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don't care about everyone

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and everybody has to come up

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that's the attitude that shape attitude

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they can't they opened up

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but what can you

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what can we

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do

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about my brother?

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I don't know why.

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You have to silence this.

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Whenever I can

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change that.

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Don't wait to your money.

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Thank you.

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I spoke about family relationships.

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Because

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the

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community like this one.

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need to be a little bit careful that cc us

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talk about this

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Please

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stop

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you must

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know

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how

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to ask me for my daughter when he is not even from the same place

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we do

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need to be careful

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but that's another subject

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now

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if you have a problem with anybody

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leave a message stop

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after a few days isn't easy

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don't go there

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people check in

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because law

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law

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these days there was this man who was dying when he was he got his children

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what is a good

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the last time

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words

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he says

00:57:33--> 00:57:34

someone does

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it

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don't

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make it worse. But that followed by

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with

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my son and he gave him What?

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He loves

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the

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laser

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because he was

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so let's

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say sorry to your sister, your brother

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and your sister.

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Oh my god.

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There are so many

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do

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you go back to bed?

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You wake up. Wake up.

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Don't be like this man.

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was good

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for

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one

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another.

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Yes.

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For those who are hiding

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I tell

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you

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so.

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So, do

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you watch Manchester United

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Chelsea, we need to have 90 minutes for that. Don't worry, we're gonna stop after this question is yes.

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I can't see.

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I can't they leave you.

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Yep.

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Very good question. This one is asking what's the best?

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fit?

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fit?

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fit?

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This is another problem

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instead of calling each other

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okay what's the best way to correct?

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It is a shame.

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understand the

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meaning they have

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will listen to them. What is it?

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Yes, yes you're right.

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To talk to you

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is your brother

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if you are married or if you have a brother

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for example, you exchange your mother.

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You

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so you have to

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treat each other better than we

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know.

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give a gift to your brother.

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Because this is his law.

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Yes, my sister. It says

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matters because

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they saw

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what did you say? What did they say? They did?

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Because they

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really got it the right way.

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The right way.

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The right way.

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Actually debating who would you be?

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Would you be the judge? Because you are.

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He says my children. I got it.

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I got it. I got this

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So that's what we

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definitely check

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if you die like this

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the story of the man went to

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dinner.

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Everybody thought he was good. What's the name

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of the web

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doesn't have really sips of water.

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You're lucky.

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Say between

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when

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you will see

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sisters and brothers and we asked them not to

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take care of this

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is no joke my brothers and sisters say that

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relationship This is one another forgive one another

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like

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to see you

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today