8 prophetic advices in one Hadith

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The importance of the Prophet's peace be upon him and being part of the "weekend behavior" is discussed, along with the need for purposeful living. The speakers emphasize the importance of speaking positively about the Prophet's teachings and not just about the things that happen, as well as the power of words and the ability to recall emotional injury. They stress the importance of speaking positively about the experience of one's life and not just about the things that happen.

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in the name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah and may his peace and blessings be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad Sal, Allahu Allahu wa salam. The best of speech is a book of Allah. And the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam, may Allah Subhana Allah make us amongst those who listen to the best of speech, the book of Allah and follow its commandments. And may Allah Subhana Allah make us amongst those who come to know the best of ways, the way of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and make us amongst his followers Allahumma Amin Allahumma Amin Allahumma Amin.

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Speaking of the guidance of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam all

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Zahra Sahabi will occur. Abuja Radi Allahu Anhu Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa salam.

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O Allah rasool Allah, Al Sunni,

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speaking of the guidance of the Prophet peace be upon him it was said that one time, beautiful companion by the name of Abuja revisited the Prophet peace be with him and said prophet of Allah. Counsel, give me an advice say something to me. That's what happens when you meet people or wise people who are mature. You want to get something from them, especially if it is Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Colin W salatu. Salam, O Allah. Allah Kavita koala for inherit Amrik

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so at that point, the Prophet peace be upon him said to a boozer or Abuja be mindful of Allah. For this is the most important of all of your affairs. alayka be Taku Allah for inner Ha, right so Amrik

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I love the idea that I see a lot of our young brothers and sisters here. May Allah subhanaw taala protect them all Europa Alameen. May Allah Subhana Allah protect them with the deen and protect the deer through them. You're a big al Amin. These are the beautiful, beautiful lessons that we want to pass on. And that is whether mom or dad are seeing you. Whether you are in the community or outside of the community, there's got to be that consistency.

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Because the relationship that we are most concerned about is our relationship with our Creator Allah subhanaw taala for God Allah who never use Allah Allah wa Salam Alikum Taku Allah, for in Hara Amrik. He said, Be mindful of Allah, for this is the most important of all of your affairs. Whether people are looking or not, doesn't matter

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whether it's public or not, it does not matter. And that is why it was beautifully find and somebody said, duck Wah, is what we do. When people are not looking.

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I make a bit of cola for in the hierarchy to America. At that point, a Buddha said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, ya rasool Allah xinli Prophet of Allah, give me more for call in Abuja sallallahu alayhi wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah earn for in the hula can autumn Pfister my what you will Earth at that perfect the profit at that point the Prophet peace upon him said to Abuja, Abuja be consistent be of those who read the Quran. It will lighten for you both in this life as well as in the hereafter.

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Idea of our relationship with Allah is good. And then our relationship with the book of Allah subhanaw taala is also good.

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There is a lot of foolishness around us Wallahi so much foolishness, and we need to be reminded

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that this is really foolishness and the best of remorse

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indoors is the book of Allah subhanaw taala for kala alayka the Quran for in the hooligan, this summer what you will Earth.

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He said, make sure that you engage in the recitation of the Quran, that will be your guidance in this life as well as in the hereafter. You get to see reality of this wall and also this your way of salvation in the hereafter as well.

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Allah Rasul Allah has hit me. And now a Buddha is listening to the Prophet peace be upon him. Just loving what the prophet sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam is saying. So he says, Prophet of Allah, give me some more Sydney.

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The current W sallallahu alayhi wa sallam allocable jihad for in the Hora Burnie year to Almighty.

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At that point, the Prophet peace be upon him said, engage in jihad. For this is the asceticism of my Oma. The idea of being ascetic and just not be very passive and not involved in this life said no, no, no, I likeable jihad. make jihad part of your life. Make your life purposeful,

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not a waste, not useless. Not just constant constantly wanting to entertain yourself which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam will speak about, but he said make your life purposeful. And that is by wanting to do the good, spread the good fight and eradicate that which is evil eye likability heard. This is the asceticism of my ummah, engage in a life that is purposeful. You know nowadays they're saying that about young people and believe me Allah, I say this out of love. The point is not to put young people down. But this is what's out there. People are becoming purposeless, people waking up wanting nothing to do but be on the video game chat on social media post doesn't do stupid

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and look stupid on Tik Tok and it just gets to be very frustrating. So the Prophet peace be upon him said no, as believers, we are people of purpose be purposeful. I like having jihad for Enora Bernie to Almighty. Now the idea is not to disengage from life, but make this world a better place. I like energy held for in the Hoorah bernia to Almighty

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Allah rasool Allah. Ziggy, at that point, a Buddha says to the Prophet, peace upon him, Prophet of Allah, give me more what else is there to hear from Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, and then the Prophet peace be upon him said

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learn to clear up the heck

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into who you meet to collab with herbal binaural solo Allah rasool Allah.

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At that point, the Prophet peace be upon him said opposer Do not laugh excessively.

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For it can potentially lead to the synthesizing your heart.

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Remember, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not say, Don't laugh. That's not what he said. He said, Do not laugh excessively. What does that mean? Some believe that their main purpose in life is to have fun. That is silly.

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It is very silly. And it goes so well. With what the Prophet peace be upon him is leading to at this point, be mindful of Allah, be purposeful, engage in jihad, make sure that there is recitation of your Quran in your life. And then what Prophet Allah said, Let the heck do not laugh excessively. A decent size is your heart. You know, sometimes you'd be on social media, you'd be watching something, you'd be watching something, and something really, really very emotional. But immediately after it comes a joke and you start laughing. We have lost the idea of what it means to be emotionally intelligent.

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We don't even get to exercise our emotions. Because the amount of silliness that comes our way, if we are not careful. How is it that you can be watching something so emotional, you are at the verge of crying, but then immediately you start laughing or you would be laughing? And then you immediately want to cry? What in the world is going on?

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So the Prophet peace be upon him said Let Teixeira back

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Do not laugh excessively fair into who you meet will help.

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It will make you decently sized, or as what we call today. Murad Alam Wella.

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This idea of apathy.

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Why do you think this is happening? I don't know and I don't care.

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That's the exactly the definition of art.

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Personally, I don't know and I don't care.

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So the Prophet peace upon him said Do not engage in a lifestyle where the whole point is to constantly have fun, heavy we have fun Wallah he has parents as people, we want to have fun we want our kids to have fun but it cannot be the objective in life is to constantly have fun LET THE HECK for in the whole unit we'll call with hobby you know they'll watch

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and said that not only it will be synthesized your heart but you also do something your physical people won't take you serious anymore.

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You be the clown you'll always be seen as a clown

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and sometimes people laugh at your silliness not necessarily laugh with you. For Carla took theory the heck for into who you need to calculate how binaural which Sakala Abuja ya rasool Allah is Sydney. At that point the Tao boozer said prophet of Allah, give me more profit of Allah give me more. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then moves on and he said Syl erotica were in Qatar oak is in Abuja. Make sure that you always connect with your family, even though they may sever you. You keep in touch with them.

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And as we've said before, man, holidays are beautiful because it's an opportunity for families to come together. That is part of our deen being with family connecting with family and our deen you get rewarded for visiting families. In our deen you get rewarded for spending on your family? Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam your call was your button Huberty lil motors are within a three year well motor have been a year while motor bears the lien every year. The Prophet peace be upon him said that Allah Almighty said that my love is incumbent is a shoot for those who love each other for my sake, who visit each other for my sake, who spent on each other for my sake. That is part of our

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deen. But not all families are perfect. Not families, all families are well connected some families or not. So the Prophet peace upon him said a good Muslim. A good practicing Muslim is not just somebody that comes to the masjid and we love having the Masjid. But man there is there is a social aspect to being a good Muslim. And that is the idea of you wish to always connect even when people want to sever you. A man comes to the prophets Allah Allah Allah wa salam ala Rasulillah in nearly according

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to him are you see

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a man comes to the Prophet peace be upon him and says prophet of Allah, I have relatives Wallahi I act good towards them, but they're rude to me. Prophet of Allah, I do my best to connect with them, but they only wish to cut me off and to seven me what do I do? Then the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam gives the best answer. And he said, lays on wall so you will McAfee in number was Hello many years illumine Katha Salah Allah rasool Allah, Allah He send your salutations upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Prophet peace upon him at that point said what you just described in a person is not considered a wall, somebody who connects simply with those who choose to connect with

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them, you know, in familial relationships, it's not a tit for tat. That's not how it works. The Prophet peace upon him said it's not a tit for tat. You scratch my back, I scratch your back. You do it I will do it. You invite me I invite you back. He said no, no, no, that's not how it works. You are not a Wasim somebody who can next because you choose to reciprocate what people do said no, a number was many years ago when he said You truly are a considered a wasn't somebody who chooses to connect, despite the fact that other people may choose to sever or cut you off.

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Sometimes, you know, you hear stories about I have not called my mom for the past two years. I have an uncle that I have not spoken to for five years. My brother and I will lie here we have not spoken for 10 years. Why man?

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Why? What for? And I can tell you this in the capacity of a counselor. Sometimes when you hear why people chose to sever relationships

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To cut each other off Wallahi with all due respect, there is just so much silliness that happens there are us here you have not spoken to your brother because of this. You decided to cut off your uncle because of that. Are you serious? You don't under Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warned us against the idea of severing your familial ties. So what do you do prophet of Allah, He tells Abuja, sell erotica will

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you make sure that you reach out, you connect even though the other wants to sever you down and cut you off? Silk Arabica and Kotak Carl aerosol Allah has hidden. That point of order is not done yet. aboda is asking the prophet, a prophet of Allah bring it my way. Tell me more prophet of Allah, what else is there? Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, will help? Well, O'Connor, Allah fsic.

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He said, Speak the truth,

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even if it would be against your own self.

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And that's quite a character that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is building in us as believers. He said, Speak the truth. Even if it be against your own self. You speak the truth. As readers of the Quran, we lovers of the truth, man, you love the truth. Even if the truth is to the benefit of your enemy, you speak the truth.

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Even the truth is ultimately going to be against you said, you speak the truth. Colin Hancock, one

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rewired, calling her colocado Maura says speak the truth, even though it may be bitter. But that's the reality of it. Speak the truth, even if it may be better, speak the truth. Jesus is not the Son of God. Speak the truth. We as Muslims, don't celebrate Christmas. Speak the truth. We as Muslims do not believe that your sins are can be ransomed by somebody else. Speak the truth. Allah does not have a son. Beat a metaphor or be reality. Speak the truth. When we say speak the truth is not a license to be rude, but to speak the truth. Remember, you cannot engage in popularity contest and spreading the truth. They just don't go together. If that was the case, then telling the truth and

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speaking the truth would have been very easy. So in our deal, man, you be nice. You be cordial, you be civil. You don't offend people, but sometimes to speak in the truth is and can be very bitter and difficult to do. So that's when we stand, speak the truth, even if even if it may be better, sometimes speaking the truth, you may lose opportunities because of it.

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Sometimes speaking the truth man, just the nature of it. Sometimes you can just make enemies. Speaking the truth can alienate you. But guess what? Speak the truth. Even if it be against your own self, you speak the truth.

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And remember what the prophets Allahu alayhi wa sallam is telling us as believers man, you got a good relationship with Allah. You read the book of Allah, you do not laugh excessively. You are connecting with your family members. Now say, you speak the truth. You speak the truth. Then he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says through Mahabharata Allah sonrisa lesson what God and then the Prophet peace upon him, tapped me on my shoulder three times. And he said, Yeah, advisor,

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la Aquila, get Edgeville he said he tapped on my shoulder three times and he made three remarks. The deer, the deer, Walla Walla

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Walla, NASA co host Neil hollow. He said,

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There is no intelligence like planning law UCLA, catered to be he said the believer is not somebody that is that does things haphazardly said the believer to be a believer plans. Lachlan De Vere Walla Walla, Cal KEF. And he said the idea of abstaining simply because you are afraid of crossing boundaries, say sometimes you abstain. And that just becomes your expression of another word of asceticism. You know, the idea of just water is you don't not wanting to engage in Haram. So what do you do? You abstain?

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Remember, there is a lot of her arm around us. So what do you do? Don't do it.

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Don't do it. Easier said than done. Yes. But ultimately, this is really the answer. Don't do it.

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Don't turn it on.

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Don't try it. Don't take a puff. Don't take a sniff. Don't watch. Don't engage. If it's too dangerous, don't go there. If it's tempting, Do not come near it. lower alcohol cuz that's how you keep yourself.

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It's not an invitation to isolation, but it is an invitation to selective interaction Habibi, some places are not meant for us to be in them.

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And you got to accept some places are not meant places where practicing Muslims ought to be so what do you do? Don't go lower Rachael calf.

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laka laka

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Walla Walla,

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Walla, nessa personal Holux Allah, Allah rasool Allah, and then the Prophet peace be upon him finally says, and if there is something that you want to brag about, if there is a genealogy that you want to claim to, because, you know, nowadays, it's all about bragging man. So all about people, how many followers do you have? How many views did you get? How many likes did you get? How many retweets did you have? How many people commented on this? We're just constantly competing? I'm sorry again? In silliness

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so what does the Prophet peace we often say? Look, if you are about to brag wallenius about something that you take pride in beat your genealogy or anything that you want to express pride about. What is it? Personal whole look?

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Good character, man.

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Good character. Just you been acknowledged as a good person. This person is a good person. This kid mashallah he's a good kid. This girl mashallah, she's a beautiful, perfect, this kid this girl is a good girl. He's a good kid. She's a good that's what we want to see. That's what we take pride in. Being good people. How do you achieve good, the these goodness? What the Prophet peace upon him just said to Abuja, be mindful of Allah. Let the Quran be your friend. Make sure that having fun is good, excessively laughter unacceptable. Keep yourself away from places that you should not be at. Accept the fact that some places we can be in, speak the truth, even if it may cost your friends speak the

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truth. Even if people choose to alienate you speak the truth even if you find it better. This is what makes us good believers. Or at least this is what we aspire to. To say that man, I want to be like Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa I want to imbibe the teachings of the Prophet of Allah. And that would be a window one way for us to get there. May Allah Subhana Allah increases in understanding and may Allah Subhana Allah protect us. All locally heard was still fear Allah Allah Allah confessed futile who in the who, who will afford writing?

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Hamdu lillahi Wa Kafa

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wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Hill Mustafa

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ala min BSIT Allahu Anhu Miata, but I mean, then finally, in one of these advisors also the Prophet peace be upon him said

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that Aquila, ILAHA

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only speak that which is good.

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See my brothers and sisters something that I've been getting from people while the Qibla Illuma bot Wallah which the mind deluded pets and animals killer

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makes them out in in a cooler head mask telephone

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for even football actual cold on Isla. He has a telephone. So people say but we've got a problem. Speak about family this and gathering that but look, every time we get together. It's the same story. They come in from out of town, grandchildren, everybody's there but then everybody is on their phone, man. Only time that we come together is to eat. And once everybody has eaten, then everybody's just back on their phone. And the funny thing is

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everybody's taking pictures of them being together and you get the impression that man these people are always together. And the reality of it is that they are only physically together, but each and every one is having their separate lives. Even though they are all under the same roof.

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One of it has to do with what we say.

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The power of words

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when you allow him and us up it not to be a cartel Amelie often Licola Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam men Ghana your middle Villa Julio mille filioque. Well, hi, Ron Alia smooth. They say that one of the most difficult, practical applications of the teachings of the Prophet peace be upon him is where the prophet peace be upon him says if you truly believe in Allah on the Day of Judgment, either speak that which is well or remain silent.

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Meaning that we as believers, appreciate the power of words. Wallahi words have power, they can either lift our spirit, they can crush our spirit, they can make our day they can ruin our day. They can inspire us, and they can absolutely deflate us. They can make us feel so good. And they can bring a so low. You know, subhanAllah amazing about the way that we humans are struggling all the time that you get up and as you're getting up, you bump your knee on the table, and you bump your knee and it hurts so bad. Sometimes it hurts so bad, we start laughing.

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And you laugh and people say why you laugh? Is that because it hurts but why are you laughing? It hurts so bad.

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Here's the thing.

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Human beings, we do not have the ability to recall physical pain.

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You can describe how hurtful it was you can you can have a surgery be in a car accident, may Allah protect us earlier but Allah mean, you can fall down break a bone, you can tell me how painful it was. But once it is over, you cannot recall physical pain, Wallah He it is impossible. You cannot recall physical pain, you can talk about it, but you cannot do equal physical pain.

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However,

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you can be telling me about something that happened. Something that was said to you in 1989. You say it and you start crying? And what happens and it hurts today as much as it hurt back in 1989. What do you mean? Because we have the ability to recall emotional injury that was inflicted upon us when people used wrong words. When people were mean your collarbone Allah Allah will only Abadi Akula, to hear acid.

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Allah Subhana Allah tells us in the Quran in surah Ibrahim and tell my servants to only speak that which is best. The Quran does not say speak that which is good. The Quran says speak that which is best. speak that which is best and who's most entitled to that best. Our families, man.

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Our families are entitled to this best. Speak well to your parents. Speak well to your spouse. Speak well to your children. Make it a plan that in our family. We only say good stuff. Beautiful stuff. We only speak that which is best. We only speak that which is good. Because that's what it means for us to be imbibing the Sunnah of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Make that a habit begin by yourself. Let's be the one that says you know what I've decided insha Allah from now on that I am just going to speak good. Law whiny and that's why I say speaking good is not a goal. It's a lifestyle. Speaking good is not only a lifestyle, but it's also a process which means that it can always always improve. May Allah Subhana Allah grant us good souls. May Allah Subhana Allah grant us sweet tongues. May Allah Subhana Allah give us the ability to always speak kind words. May Allah Subhana Allah grant us genuine, generous spiritual herbal Alameen May Allah Subhana Allah protect our families. May Allah subhanaw taala keep us together. May Allah

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subhanaw taala reunite us with our loved ones in this life as well as in the hereafter Yarbrough Allah mean if any of us are

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Our loved ones are not feeling well may Allah Subhana Allah grant us a speedy recovery. If any of us or our loved ones are going through difficulties, may Allah subhanaw taala ease our pain, if any of us or our loved ones are having familial issues, may Allah Subhana Allah mend our relationships. May Allah Subhana Allah make us initiators and facilitators for mending good relationships. If any of our loved ones have passed away, may Allah Subhana Allah bless their souls Robina Artina for dunya has an awful lot he has been working on as Avanade Allah has already been living Ramadan. Allah has already been living out Ramadan. What is Organifi he saw early on early will acquire erotica or

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on to the Quran. The Quran Allah has curriculum, which guru Hala Nam he has it commodity Kula Akbar Allahu Allah Mata snoring own loping solo