Mothers of the Believers -10 – Hafsa Bint Umar
Channel: Yasir Qadhi
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Shaykh Yasir Qadhi moves on to delve details on the 4th Ummahat Ul Momineen – Hafsa Bint Umar Ibn Al Khattab RA.
Hafsah was born in the year of the building of the Kaaba and was born 5 years before the Prophethood. She was the eldest child of Umar ibn al-Khattab and Zainab bint Madh’uwn.Abdullah Ibn Umar is her full brother. Before the marriage to Prophet ﷺ, she was married to Khunais ibn Hudhaifa and she had no children from this union. Khunais died after the battle of Badr , though he was not a participant of the same.
Hafsa RA was married to the Prophet ﷺ after he himself proposed for her hand in marriage. She got married in the month of Shaban, 3 H at the age of 21.
What do we know about the life of Hafsa RA with the Prophet ﷺ? Numerous incidents are brought to the table and we fully comprehend the nature of the marriage that it was.
We also gather valuable insights on the reason for the revelation of Surah At Tahreem and we acquaint ourselves with the incident that transpired between Hafsa Ra and the Prophet ﷺ revolving around Maria RA. Also, next in line for discussion is the topic of the divorce of Hafsa RA and the reason for this divorce. The whole city was grieving at this news and her father, Umar Ibn Al Khattab RA took it the hardest.
What made the Prophet ﷺ reconcile and go back to Hafsa RA? It was due to Allah sending Jibril AS to the Prophet ﷺ with the clear message saying that Hafsa is the one who fasts and prays regularly and that she will be his wife in this life and the Hereafter.
One of the biggest blessings and privileges that is ascribed to Hafsa RA is the entrustment of the first Mushaf ever written with her and which remained in her care till her death. She has 60 Hadith narrated by her.
She died at the age of 60 years in 45 H during the reign of Muawiyah. The Janazah was led by Marwan Ibn Hakam.
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he is the hall he is the uncle of health sort of the Allahu taala on her. We don't have any information about her early childhood as is to be expected a girl being born in the McCarthy era. But we do know that she was born the year that the GABA was being rebuilt. Therefore, this is five years before the Prophet hood. Therefore, she is essentially roughly the same age as felt him according to one report or five years younger than Fatima. Remember we mentioned Fatima was born either five years before the prophet or the year of the Prophet hood. So she is essentially at the time of the hedgerow she will be 18 years old. So she is five years before the Prophet hood had 13
to that so at the time of the hedgerow She is 18 years old. She was also the eldest of Bob's children, or might have had many children. We went over that, too when we mentioned the story of Omar, how many children he had, we don't know exactly how many but he had a lot of children. And the eldest was half sort of the last one and a half. And he took from her his cornea. And his cornea was Abu hafs houses the masculine name, and it even to it is allowed to have the cornea of your eldest daughter, but it is also allowed to basically change the daughter's name to the sun. And so Omar is Konya was able house because of house saw, because house houses the masculine of health saw, and of
course, hafsa had many brothers and sisters, her closest brother, both in terms of age and in terms of companionship and in terms of sharing the same mother and father, a full brother was the famous Abdullah had been Omar and I gave his biography very early on when we did the biography of the Sahaba. So Abdullah had been oma is her full brother from the same mother, even even though he was obviously younger than her so she is the eldest of all of the siblings, so have settled the law. Perhaps she was married at some point in time to a Sahabi by the name of honus. Eben, who's alpha honus Eben who's alpha and this honus we don't have any reports about him, except that he was one of
the first batches of converts to Islam even before the conversion of the Allahu taala and hence, it is an opinion that I have derived and Alan knows best if one is converted with the first batch he is mentioned in a long list of converts after urban Mr. rude. So this is very early on. If one is converted that early on then the assumption is house also converted that early on, and hence the assumption is that hafsa converted before her father or motivated bla bla the Allahu taala and holidays and have said they both migrated to Habesha, they came back from Habesha and then they migrated to Medina. So she went to Medina so she attained the two hedgerows, she is a Maha Jota to
Habesha and a Mahavira to Medina, and her niece participated in the Battle of budder. And so her niece is of the highest level of Sahaba. He is a buddy and he is a Mahajan, and he has a Mahajan of Habesha. He basically checks all of the boxes that you have to be in the elite of the Sahaba. But there is no story
All about him because he passes away right after the Battle of butter. And we don't have, he doesn't die from butter. It seems like he dies in natural causes or just as it was back then the timespan or the frame was usually smaller, and people died of natural causes or diseases, he simply just appears to have died right after birth, but not because of other Why do I say this because everybody who was injured at whether there's a specialist for them, everybody who died as a shahida, whether there was a specialist of them when he was named does not come on that list. Therefore, from this, we infer that he died a natural death, but he died after the bottle of butter. And the two of them did not
have any children. And so half so remains childless for her entire life. And health sub becomes a widow at the prime of her age, she is 20 or 21 years old. And hafsa is now a widow, and she does not have a husband.
House was the timing of the widow like when she became a widow. It is roughly a few months after earthman as well became a widower, and that is because he passed away, as you know, you know, after the Battle of butter. And so it seems that there are two debts were in a very similar timeframe, whether a few days or a few weeks or a few months, we don't know. But it appears that basically in the same timeframe, little IE passes away, and holidays as well passes away. And so O'Meara De La Hoya and logically concludes the obvious conclusion. Is that okay? earthman is now single. And so he is the ideal candidate for my daughter, and so are a model of the Oh, sorry, model, the LA one goes
to Earth man. And he says to Earth man that, as you know, my daughter is, you know, sharp, but she's a young lady, and she has become a widow. And if you're interested in marrying her, then I would be more than honored to do that. So earth model of the law when I said let me think about this. And he came back in a few days. And he said, that I have decided to not marry at this time as a gentle No, I have decided to not marry at this time. Omar said, Rothmans, rejection hurts me. He knows he's a single man. He knows he's wanting to get married. And the way that he's phrasing it, basically, he's saying, I don't want to get married at this time. Of course, he wants to get married, but he's just
a polite way of saying no. And so Omar felt like what is wrong with my family or my daughter? Why doesn't he want to my daughter hafsa. Then he decided to go to Albuquerque. And he went to Albuquerque and said that Obamacare, as you know, hafsa is a young lady, she has become a widow. And she, I'm looking for a husband for her. So if you're interested in I would be honored if you will be her husband, if you marry her. And Abu Bakar simply turned silent and did not say anything. And from what I understood from this, it's a no and his shyness. obaku couldn't say anything. And Omar said, I will buckers rejection was more painful to me than Earth man's aboubaker his rejection was more
painful to me than Earth man's. And this irritated him so much that eventually he not complained. But you know, as friends, you talk to your friends, and he's one to the profitsystem as a friend, to kind of just get it off, you know how it goes like, you know, you you you're frustrated, you want to just express your feelings. And so in a few days, he goes to the process of the law where I sent him and he explained and he says yada, yada, do you know what happened? I want to Earth man, he said no, I want to occur. He too, you know, said no. And you know, I find this very difficult. And so at this point, he understood now why what is going on because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
What if I were to make a better offer, I will give my own daughter to Earth man, it is better for him. And I will take house for myself and it will be better for her. Okay, so more of the law one, of course, agreed immediately. And then later on when he met Abu Bakar, acidic, Abu Bakar then explained to him that perhaps you felt hurt when I said no. And he said, Yes. And so he said that I had heard the prophecy, I said, I mentioned hafsa.
And I did not want to expose the secret of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasallam. And so I kind of didn't know what to say, basically, I was stuck. I couldn't say, you know, no, I couldn't say yes, I didn't want to say anything. He didn't know how to respond. So that's why, you know, I was acted the way that I did. And this is the story of how hafsa was married to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that is basically he himself is proposing to the hand of house or directly to Bob. And of course, the story is very beneficial. A lot of morals can be derived from them, and especially in that culture and timeframe when women did not go and do you know, a hunt for a husband themselves or
there was you know,
likelihood to get married by interacting with others that was a very reserved society, especially in those societies, the fathers have to take charge, and the fathers have to see who is suitable for my daughter. And this is the eagerness of the wealthy to find the righteous husband and to take an active role in finding the righteous husband. And this is especially in societies where that active role is not taken by the young men and women also look at their own model. The law I'm thinking of the most righteous people are with man and abubaker because he wants a person of taqwa and a person of a man. No one will treat a person with the dignity and respect that comes from taqwa that comes
from the fear of Allah subhanho wa Taala. Also notice here as well, that the prophet SAW Selim, even he is the Prophet, he is a pseudo law. So I said, I'm still he is asking abubaker an earth man, what do you think of how so for me, and this really shows us the importance of much shorter of Shura? Whenever you undertake a big decision, you ask somebody, and he is Rasulullah saw some still, he's asking abubaker and he's asking Earth man, and he knows because abubaker on earth man are the closest to Earth Omar, and he knows they know the ins and outs of the family of aroma. So he gets the Matura or the the advice of aboubaker and earth mount of the lowland before proceeding to
propose to aroma. And if he is going to take advice before undertaking a task, how about me and you what we should be doing? As the saying goes, the Islamic saying that the one who does is the harder and the one who does is the Shara will never go wrong. Okay. The one who does istikhara we all know is the harder and the one who does is the shadow. And it's the shadow means to ask somebody to get the advice of people. So whenever you want to do something, you ask that people have knowledge that people have experienced the people who know whatever field that you're going to go into, get their advice, bounce ideas off of them, and then also pray is the harder as well. So this incident the the
marriage, it took place in shabaan, of the third year of the hijra in Shaban of the third year of the Hydra.
And this shows us the mistake of those who say that the marriage took place after or should. It's very common in many books of Sierra. And it is perhaps possibly even I myself in my 100 plus episodes, I might have slipped accidentally because I looked up and today I discovered that actually there are many books of Sierra that make this mistake and many correct this mistake, and that is that quite a lot of books say that hafsa was married after the Battle of oil and her husband was a sheet Shaheed of oil. No, this is a mistake. Her husband died after butter. And auto takes place show one of three years and she was married Siobhan of three. Not sure what and Siobhan is before.
So she was married Siobhan and all her takes place show one. So she is not married. After all her there's a very common mistake. And I feel I might have subconsciously said it. But in my excuse in defense, many books of Sierra that are just replicating, they say the same thing without making the tape without really looking into deeply she married was married in Siobhan and not sure what and her husband did not participate in. So houses marriage is from the third year of the hedgerow at the age of 21, roughly, and she remains obviously, his wife's till till obviously, he passes away. So from the age of 21, up until the age of 2728. That is when the process was alive, and then he passes
away. And of course, after this, she is his wife in this world and the next. So what do we know about her life with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we know a few anecdotes and stories, and I'll go over the most of them today. And her love for the Prophet system is well known. And there are many incidents that demonstrate this, the famous story of the honey, the process of being fed honey, and his other wives getting jealous. This story has been narrated with two people in it and both of them are in Bahati. So a big controversy in the classical is called those of Heidi, who did it happen to in the one version, which is the more authentic one, it is Zeynep who feeds him the
honey and the other version also in Bahati, it is hafsa who feeds the honey. Okay, so we have both of these reports. Obviously one of the narrators made a mistake and in deep introspection and we'll get to that story when we talk about Xena, it is insha Allah pretty clear that it was Xena. However, some authors when they mentioned have said they mentioned the story of the honey, it's not their fault because this rewires also found and this shows us that the Hadith collections are not like the Quran. The Hadith collections even if they're behati and Muslim, they might have hidden defects, very small defects. There is nothing major wrong in Bahati and Muslim but what you do have sometimes
these slips, and the authors knew it so Buhari has both of these and he knows most of them.
has these both he knows. And he's showing you look, I'm just telling you, both of these are there. And in further inspection, we find that in fact, the incorrect one, we can look at through the it's not what it is. And inshallah it's pretty clear that it is in fact Xena that fed the honey and then he was delayed. And then what happened happened it wasn't as well in our last class when we talked about I showed the lohana. I mentioned, I should have saw what happened when they were on the journey. And both of them got the lots to go on the journey and helps in her own way because she was older than Arusha, and she was more mature than Arusha. She kinda sorta in a tactical maneuver,
let's say, she situation herself to be with the Prophet salallahu it he was setting them. And she was very irritated because she walked into that, and she agreed to what she couldn't blame anybody but herself. And I mentioned that story last time. And this shows us that she wanted to be with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Also, there are a number of ideas. We're going to go over some of them today, where she is questioning the process of about fifth about theology. So she is an inquisitive lady. She's asking him specific things. And we benefit from that in our books of 1500 books of theology as well. For example, when they were performing hedge, she was the one who asked
the Prophet so set up the yellow pseudo law, why did you tell all of the Sahaba to take the eardrum off? And you didn't take it off? Why are you still in Iran and the rest of the Sahaba are not in Iran. And he then he said that that's because I sent the animals with the heavy and I have the with me and I cannot become any more healthy. I cannot remove my harem until the animals are sacrificed basically, from this we learn that there's a type of hedge which is called Karen and in the Quran hedge, you are not allowed to get out of your home until the animals are sacrificed whereas in tomato, you get out and as Hubbard did to mature so we learned from this that issue of hedge that
that the firm has to be remained in until the new soccer daddy is done. Also in sunitinib, the manager. The processor was said to have saw that I hope that no one from budder or from holiday BIA will ever enter the fire of help. And he said this to her and she replied but doesn't allow say in the Koran one in men come in to do her every one of you will pass through
and the Profit System then said and didn't you read the next verse somos una de La Nina taco one other volume if he had you Thea We will then save the people of taqwa and leave the volume in there. Now of course, the verse also doesn't refer to jahannam per se, what it doesn't mean to enter jahannam while it can also mean to go over or to see and of course, this verses about the set off as we're going to be going over the Surat analyzer which then mentions that all of you are going to pass over the slot, and then the token will be saved from the slot. Another incident narrated in the books of Hadith regarding hafsa. And remember last time, I said that the wives of the process were
divided into two camps. Contrary to popular perception, hafsa and Arusha were on the same camp. Okay, so they got along relatively better than the other wives not this doesn't mean that minor disputes didn't happen between them, where they already mentioned the story of the traveling. But overall, there were two camps. And I shouldn't have said on one camp, and Zayn Evan oma selama were the leaders of the other camp. So I shouldn't have saw like their fathers were friends, the two daughters were friends as well, like Abu Bakar and Omar were best friends. So to the daughters were also best friends, even though sometimes even amongst best friends, trivial things happen. Same
thing over here, especially in the case of CO wives. So in this case, there was nothing
negative that happened when they were together. And they were both fasting outside the days of Ramadan. And they had not eaten food for many days. And this day, they were fasting. And it so happened that somebody gifted them some luscious food, some luxurious food. And the both of them did not have enough patience, except to eat the food right then and there. And Subhanallah this really shows how hungry they must have been that four days they are struggling to eat and then that day they happen to be fasting. Now some delicious food is gifted, and the both of them just ate the food. Now this is not Ramadan, obviously it's, you know, outside of Ramadan. And the both of them
after eating, then they felt guilty. What do we do now? So they're wondering what is to be done, what is to be done? And in the meantime, the Profit System returns and it shows narrating the Hadith. And she said house stood up and rushed to confess what we had done. And she was the daughter of her father. This is a phrase of Ayesha, what kind of similar to ob her. She was the daughter of her father. What does this mean? Who can tell me?
She had the courage and the bluntness. Like, it shows
A bit scared of it what not? And half says the one she just confesses and says, Yeah, no sutala we were hungry, we hadn't eaten food came, and we broke our fast now what do we do, right? And so the Prophet system told them to make it up without any other penalty than this. And that is, in fact, we learned from this the fifth, that when you are fasting, enough, fail fast, when you are not, something is not the fault of the party, there's no sin to break that fast. But still, you should just make it up any other day. So there's no sin to break a fast outside of a normal bone. That is just enough. In fact, this is enough and fast, right? And nothing fast is much more lacks than
thought fast. And so the process of said, there, you know, there's no scenario but make it up and other day and this is the also the default that when we're doing any good deed, even if we have to not do it, then we make it up on another day. But the key phrase here, issue is praising hafsa by saying, and she was the daughter of her father. So we learned some of the characteristics of how soft sometimes which also got her into trouble as we were going to see in some of these incidents, and her 04 the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam it indeed did get her into some trouble, perhaps more than some of the other wives and some of the other mothers and of them is the incident where
she became angry at Sofia Binti.
And she then said to her, yeah, vanetta yahoodi. Okay, so she then said to her or daughter of a yahoodi. And so Sophia urbanity a hoody. And so Sophia then began to cry, and she complained to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he called me or daughter of a yahoodi. And, you know, the process of consoled her, and said, How can I help you claim to be better than you? For Your father was a prophet and your uncle was a prophet? And your husband is a prophet? How can she claimed to be better than you? Your father, meaning most of your uncle, meaning how long? You know your husband, all of us are prophets. So how can she be better than you, then when he met half son next, he said
to her, it tequila, half saw fear, a lot of this was not appropriate what you had done. And so this is some of the you know, the zero that happened in hafsa. So one of the definitely one of the more difficult and problematic stories. And again, I gave my disclaimer at the beginning of this era of the world not to see the beginning of art, the cedars of the mothers of the believers. And I'll give it again, now, that, you know, these are the stories that typically you do not hear, for valid reasons, no problem and not narrating them. But in a class like mine, I think it is always best to be blunt and fair and to give all of the details. And I'd rather you hear it from me than any other
source so that you can contextualize and I keep on saying this over and over again, that sometimes we form an image of the past of the Sahaba, of even the Prophet system that that images in our mind is not in reality, then when we discover reality, we find the drawing contradiction. And the problem is in our image, the problem isn't what we constructed. And that's why it's best to be very academic and Frank in this regard. And one of the problematic stories is the story of hafsa. And Maria bint ultimately, Maria, sorry, not Maria been to Sharon deliberately, and Maria, as we know, and we're going to come to Maria.
When we come to her at the end of the series, we're going to talk about the milkier mean of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Maria, of course, was one of the Milka mean of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and an incident happened because of which Allah xojo revealed sudut A to headin yeah una Vu Lima to how to remove ma hella la Holika tablet le model water as logic. So this incident, so first and foremost soda to hit him is very clear that something major happened in the household of the prophets of Allah Allah who was settled and two of the wives of the Prophet system did something they should not have done into tuba Isla la he forgot the socket Hulu Kuma if
the both of you repent to a lotta tuba. So the two wives there's two wives that have done something they should not have done. And in this surah as well we learned that the Prophet system had confided in one wife and told her not to say anything to any other wife. And this wife broke that oath and did confide in the other wife. We also learn Yeah, you want to be you limit to her remote? Hello Hola. Hola. Oh, Prophet. Why do you make How long? What Allah has made Hillel in order to please your wife? So we learned that the Prophet system had made something haram that Allah had made Hillel and so Allah azza wa jal revealed in the Quran, why are you making haram what I have made highlight
for you. So these are clear facts. What happened?
There are two narratives that one of which is sounds better to our minds, but it doesn't fit the suta as well as this. And that is the story of the honey, the honey story that the process of ate some honey and then I shouldn't have said they conspired to say the bad smell coming and whatnot. That is a opinion and it is found in some of the classical books. I'm not saying it's wrong, it is there. Nonetheless, it doesn't appear to be matching the verses fully. There are so the fact that Allah Zoysia is saying Why are you making out on what Allah has made highlight in order to please your wives, he did not give up the honey to please his wife, he gave the honey because bad smell is
coming from him or he thought and other things that just just don't match up. The strictness of the verse of the heading and the fact that the processing don't tell anybody to one of his wives, what's the honey, it doesn't fit at all. The honey story does not fit the verses at all. To be brutally honest, it is because some medieval people and the scholars whatnot, they wanted to make it look more sanitized. So they take version B and it doesn't fit version a which is Madea ultimately fits 110% and it fits the verses. But to the sanitized ear, it is a little bit harsher. So this is the difference that we have here. And a quarter Toby clearly says that this story matches perfectly with
diverse hypno Josie as well of poverty is the one narrating it in detail and all of this. So it is very clear in my humble opinion. And any academic I think will say the same if you really study it with an unbiased mind frame, it's very clear that sort of the heading was revealed because of hafsa and Madea not because of the honey story, which is Yeah, not not even a few tries to say maybe both of them happened to the same timeframe. It's a bit of a stretch I need the verse came down for one issue. I've been Kathy says maybe they both happen in the same month or something. Okay, well, maybe they did. But the reason really is the issue of Mario. So what exactly happened in this incident of
muddy and hafsa. So the story goes as follows. And it is mentioned in a number of books of poverty mentioned that a lot of detail had been cited has references to it. avanti has it many books of Hadith, many early books of Tafseer. Because the Quran is about this, where you will find it in books of Tafseer as well. And piecing it all together, a very clear narrative emerges. And that is that one of the days that was belonging to have saw that the process of voting should have been withheld. So have saw excused herself and asked permission to leave the house. So the profitsystem is there she is excusing herself and saying that I would like to go visit my parents or whatever. So
she has her reason to go. And so she is going to be gone for the whole day. And therefore the house is not there. And so the profitsystem calls media and one half so returns, media is in the house, and she understands what has happened. And she becomes extremely agitated and angry, which is completely understandable. She becomes very irritated and frustrated. And she expresses her frustration in very harsh words to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yasuda law in my house on my day in my bed Yato pseudo law you would not do this to any of your wives. It's only because I have such a low status. So she's very now she's she's visibly irritated, understandably irritated,
and she is very angry. And the Profit System now is calming her down. And in the course of calming her down, he says that, Okay, I will not be with Mario ever again. Okay, so to please to placate hafsa he says to myself saw that okay, I'm not going to go to Marty ever again. Okay to make you happy halus I'm not going to go to my dear. So hafsa says How can you not go to her when she is highlighted for you? How can you not go to her? So he gives a custom by Allah.
So now he uses Allah's Name. And that's why the Quran is going to come down. He gives a custom By Allah, that she is held on for me. Now that the person has been given hafsa is placated. hausa is happy. Okay, now she has gotten something in return. And that is that no Madea in the picture. Okay, and the Prophet system and this again, this. So this whole story from beginning to end. It really shows the human nature of our mothers and our Prophet even sallallahu sallam. And this is something that we don't typically like to think about. And we have our version of the past when in reality, he was the best of human beings but he was a human. And he was, say you do one or the other but he was
still one or the other. And he was flesh and blood.
He ate and he drank and he married. And he divorced as we will see. So all of this, we it's not things we like to think about. But these stories, they lay it out in the details that, you know, perhaps beginning students don't want to study and that's fine. But at this advanced level, it's something that we need to do. So hafsa is placated, she's calms down, and the Profit System then
commands her that do not tell anyone, especially Asia, don't tell her what happened. And don't tell her I gave up my idea as well. Because the issue comes, there's a dual thing here. Okay, there's a dual thing here. And Firstly,
the fact that mahdia already is causing so much issues intention with the other wives, it's well known, okay. And how she herself said when we get to Marty will mention this that I should have self said. So I quoted you two, three weeks ago that I just said, I was never as jealous as when your wife has a deja? Well, she has the exact same phrase for Maria as well. Okay. And that's how she has every right to be, I was never as jealous of any wife as our as any lady as Maddie, because Maddie is not a wife of any lady as Maria. And that was because she was a young, beautiful lady with long hair. And so she she describes my idea as being somebody that, you know, the prophet system was
enamored with, and she was feeling that this is, you know, a competition for me. So she did and the Prophet system knew that if our issue found out he didn't have to deal with that as well. There's no need. Okay, I already dealt with one now why deal with the other as well. And then the other issue comes that he gave up my idea for health saw. And this is going to be a tension between health and our issue now. Not attention. But a competition. Like is going to be a thing now that Oh, for Madea sorry for how you gave her up. And when I was irritated, you didn't. So that's another issue. And this is human nature. Again, this is, you know, raw humanity being exposed in front of us, right? We
all understand at some level, what is going on here. And the sensitive nature of relations, and the difficulties, frankly, of having polygamous relations and you know, polygynous situations and, you know, the brothers like to I'm not pointing any fingers anywhere. But the brothers like to crack jokes about polygamy all the time. The fact of the matter is that even the Prophet system, it was a headache and a nuisance and an irritation, these types of things. What am I saying this, whenever you're in a polygamous situation, whoever has gone through it are prophecies and went through it, and he has to deal with it. And anybody who goes through it, so all jokes aside, it is a huge burden
and a huge responsibility. And it brings its baggage that those who No, no. And our profit system now has to deal with this between the wives as well. And so he tells to have saw that don't go tell Isha what has happened for all of these reasons. And Ayesha, sorry. I'm hitting now have sub promises. I'm not going to. Okay, what happens
hafsa cannot keep it in.
Because this is a point of pride. Look at what I did, even though they're on the same team. Right. But still, it's a matter of, I got him to do that. The both of them did not want him to be with Madea right. But he gave her up for one and not the other, even to Ayesha was also very annoyed, because eventually we'll talk about this eventually became such a big issue. He had to move Maria to hourly outside of the household, he had to move her to a special house in an hour. They were you know, it was like 45 minutes away from me, he didn't have her anywhere close, because the otherwise would get so jealous of Mario, and especially when she became pregnant. Imagine then, right? It was
an issue of tension for all of them. And so he moved her all the way that this is before the pregnancy, obviously. So he promised have saw that he's going to give up Maria and told her don't tell Arusha. Okay, what happens? She goes, and she disobeyed the explicit command.
And she said she wouldn't do it. And she did it. And she then tells Arusha, what happened. And that is when Allah revealed sort of that the Hatim to the Prophet salallahu idea he was setting them were in a southern Naboo Illa Valley as YG had DITA when the Prophet cism confided with one of his wives about something which wife did he confide hafsa right. With a subtle Nebula about his YG editor for them to be he will have heard a whole lot while he autograph about the hula and bow. So she basically mentioned it, and she mentioned some things I didn't mention other things. She's picking and choosing what to mention to make the story look better for you.
her fellow my hubby he when he told her Why did you inform Why did you tell all that man and she said Who told you that? I said, where'd you get this information? Did I should tell you that I told her all n n E n r Li Mo Javier Allah Lima Have you told me that you told her Isha? Okay, so this verse Then came down. And the Quran basically commanded the prophets of Salaam to make the fara for his oath, right that this oath should not have been given. Yeah, you and maybe you Lima to remove Matt halala, who like No, you did not have the right to bring a last name and make out on what I have made highlight for you. The metadata is wider to please your wives You shouldn't have done
that. I know more, what is beneficial and useful for you and what I have made highlighted for you. And you should have not used my name in this regard. And into to obey the law, the both of you if you repent to Allah, then the both is now
is being directed to them. Now in this story, what the prophet system has done. And this is again, we have to be very, very frank here. Not only is he Rasulullah system, so he has a certain concession and laxity that none of us have. But when push comes to shove, did he commit a sin? Or the builder? Of course not? Of course not. Maria is Hillel for him. And hafsa is not there. She has excused herself. Now, her house her bedroom. No doubt, it's awkward. And that's why she is irritated and she has every right to be irritated. But she should have kept your irritation in check. And she did not do that. And she took it more. And the officers who played to play cater use the name of
Allah subhanho wa Taala. And so are we the Bella he did not do anything that was Haram.
He did not do anything that was sinful. But what he did hurt the feelings of hafsa. And that is understandable and have sudden reacted in that manner. And then he reacted the way that he did. And then a large xojo reveal V or on and this of course is the when you look at the story. It fits with the heading perfectly. And it also fits the next incident that we're going to discuss. And that is the divorce of half son. The fact that half saw was divorced. You all know it now because I've mentioned this like a gazillion times. But the average Muslim is clueless about this. And I think this is a big mistake. The average Muslim still believes or the process of never divorced any of his
wives. And that is blatantly false, blatantly false. he divorced, multiple as we will talk about, but the only one that he divorced that he was with was hafsa. The others that he divorced, it happened before the consummation for reasons we're going to come to, or we have a whole lecture about that. But the only wife that he divorced that he was with was half size. He did not divorce any other wife that he was with now the divorce of half. So it's mentioned in the books of Hadith and the books of Syrah. I mean it's well no, no scholar denies it. But there is this myth in the minds of the Muslims that the process of never divorced and this myth is dangerous and harmful for
one simple reason. It then stigmatizes divorce even more than it needs to be. And you know, in our community, divorce is stigmatized, and our community divorces are looked down upon and this is wrong. Divorce is something that sometimes has to happen and if it happens, the people should not be stigmatized. The fact that the profits are some divorced is enough of an indication that it is a necessary exit when there's no other alternative. There should be no stigma attached to divorce. So here's the other other point. hafsa was divorced, unanimous consensus she was divorced. What is the reason for her divorce? The books of Sierra are silent.
Some books have
mentioned this is the story of the reason for divorce. And that makes complete sense. Why was hafsa divorced? We have to be clear and say really Allah knows. But the most obvious reason is this very incident and her direct disobedience to the commander of the prophets I said them and the fact that Allah revealed or on about her and warning her that if you continue this way, then know that find the LA Mola, ojibwa Sawyer and momineen Allah is his ally and jabril is his ally and the righteous believers are his allies. And if you and if Allah once he can substitute wives that are better than you Muslim it may not incarnate into a better direction diabetic everybody say no, say hi to the
bottom of the whole list is there. So it is as if the Prophet sallallahu Sallam understood from the revelation
Have these verses that helps I had been criticized by a law, this is interpretation. And so she is no longer worthy to be my wife. So he divorced half.
he divorced half sup, based on this entire episode and debacle that had happened. And this makes the most sense, even though the books of Hadith and Sira do not explicitly mentioned any reason, it just, it just says he divorced, half saw, and then he took her back. It doesn't mention why. But if you look at the whole sealer, there's nothing else that happened that was so big of an issue other than this, and it makes complete sense, because we're going to come to in a while, how and why did he take her back? It makes complete sense, if you look at it through this story. And of course,
there is an opinion By the way, there is an opinion
that he divorced her twice. But I dismissed that, in my humble opinion. It's it to me, there's no evidence he divorced her once. They base this on a phrase of Omar rhodiola. One that Oh, hafsa. He has already divorced you once if he divorces you again that I'll be ruined. Okay, so this statement, they say that Omar said this before, so that it was revealed. But in reality, there's no evidence to suggest this. And he might have said this after sort of the honeymoon was revealed, which would make sense. So she was only divorced once, not twice. Also, Omar was always conscious of health status. And he was always trying to make sure that half sled did not get into more trouble, which kind of
indicates she had Omar's nature of the law, one indicates that Omar knew this. And Omar knew that only my daughter might you know, get into this or there's multiple phrases that we have in the books of Hadith.
The most famous one that I have mentioned multiple times, that once Omar was getting angry at his wife, and he raised his voice against her. And lo and behold, she raised her voice back and responded, the audacity of women. That was a joke, by the way, so.
So she responded back. And Omar, lost it. And he said, You dare respond back to me. He was not used to a woman responding back to him. She said, you're gonna get angry at me. Your own daughter responds back
to the Prophet system there what you're going to do now?
Or Omar could not believe this. He forgot the argument with his wife. And he rushed to hofsas house immediately.
And he said, Is it true that you respond back to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and you raise your voice at him? And his wife gave a lot of detail. So then she said, and you sometimes don't speak to him for the whole day? She said, Yes, all of us do.
So then Omar became so angry at hafsa. And he said, in a long Hadith is there the phrase that this is there is that don't be deluded by the fact that your companion gets away with this. She is more Beloved, and more beautiful than you in his eyes. Don't be diluted by Leia Horan. Nikki, don't be confused or considered. She's doing it. So don't think you can do it. No, do not ask him anything more. If you need anything come to me, don't trouble him don't. So she he is now concerned that my daughter is going to get into trouble by whatever, you know, things that might be happening and whatnot. So this demonstrates that hafsa is indeed the daughter of her father and our motto, the law
who understands this. So back to our story here. And that is that
the prophet SAW said I'm divorced help. So now it's mentioned in the books of Hadith and Sierra that her uncle's came with mine even more grown. Even more grown, they came these these are hot a while right? Her mother's brothers, right? So these are mountains, they came to visit, finding out what happened. Why did the divorce take place? And there's a very, very important phrase which really proves again that the divorce took place because of what I just said. And that is she said, The Prophet sallallahu I said them it's a double negative. So pay attention didn't divorce me? Because he doesn't want me anymore. It's a double negative. Okay. He didn't divorce me because there's no
feelings. That's not why he divorced me. In other words, what she's insinuating is the feelings are still there. But something happened that he feels I need to be divorced for an incident has occurred. Okay. And so it's very clear therefore that the incident is what we have just said that the Quran came down and the process of interpreted this to be basically asking for divorce and the news of the divorce
spread throughout Medina unece narrates that the city grieved when they heard of the divorce. And he said that you know, when you hear somebody, anybody goes through a divorce, you feel sadness. Imagine it is your mother it is the Profit System imagine. So the city was in grief that they were shocked. And they were sad at the divorce of the Prophet of the Prophet system and have saw. And of course, the person who took it the hardest was on whatever hottub rhodiola. One, it is said that he said it in house for a few days. In one report, he put sand on his head, and just, you know, put himself with sand. And he said, you have another hot tub. Allah will not care about you after this,
like I'm gone now after this, right? So he took it really personally as well, that house I am ruined. Now, my daughter has been, you know, divorced. And everybody knew the reason and this is so powerful. And my humble opinions, my HDL completely I could be wrong. Perhaps the reason why the suburb is not mentioned for the divorce is people don't want to mention too many deeds, they want to gloss over it. Back then everybody knew.
By the time three, four generations come, we don't know. And it's really perfection of their job, that they don't mention these details. So everybody knew that would require says the process of divorced, half saw, and then he took her back. That's all that he says. No. Sahabi said why and what and no, it's a very painful time. And you know, as I've said many times, you know, when couples fight when parents fight, you know, children don't remember the details, neither should they. And if they do, they don't tell them to the next generation, you don't mention certain things, you just leave it in, call us forgotten. So this is one of those things that the the, you know, these
internal issues, they weren't passed down to the next generation. And so we have to try to reconstruct whatever we can while we maintain our adapt. And so it appears as I said that this was clearly the reason. So half so was in her ID for how long we have no idea could be one week, it could be two and a half months, we have no idea what over dozens of books, not a single book gives how long she was in that depth. But all that it says before they're finished. So whether it's one month or two months, or two months, in three weeks, because basically that's what they're going to finish, right? Three months is when they're at the finishes, right? In this timeframe. The
profitsystem came back to hafsa. And said, or hafsa gibreel came to me
and commanded me to take you back
and told me that you are so warm to a warmer tone. You are someone who fasts regularly and prays for a long period of time, and inform me that you shall be my wife in this world and in the next world.
the fact that God came back and told the profitsystem to take half saw to me indicates that the divorce happened because of something Jubilee brought, which is suited to heading. Now Jubilee did not command the talaq, obviously, but the Prophet system inferred from it that I think I should divorce.
And that's why hafsa said he didn't divorce me because we don't have any feelings anymore.
So it appears therefore, that the Profit System, obviously still loved how so he's still wanted house, but he felt that the or on is indirectly telling him and that's why God has to come and say no, Allah is not telling you to divorce hafsa In fact, Allah is telling you to now take her back. She is a good lady, and she will be your companion in this world and in the next. And this also shows us as well that the virtues of praying, forgives a lot of things, some how to have some made a mistake. There's no question about that. But what forgave her mistake in the household dwama to a woman. She is somebody who fasts and who prays regularly, so never ever trivialize the Salah never
ever trivialize good deeds, continual Sadat continual good deeds. She disobeyed a direct command from her husband who happens to be the Prophet says, No, that's not a trivial matter. And it caused more tension in the household. That's not a trivial matter. But she was forgiven, because in the household woman to a woman, and this is one more incentive, we didn't need any more incentives, one more incentive to make sure that we pray and never make our setup although and also our good deeds as well. And
this also shows us as we said, that half succumbing sorry Jubilee coming back to me is very clear, therefore, that the reason for divorce is Jubilee becoming the first place which is sort of heading. So this is the story of house
idea and after this the process some took her back and of course then they remained married. Abood also reports to Sonia Buddha reports that once the prophets list and entered upon, have saw, and he found with her as she found Binti, Abdullah, who was from her tribe and a distant relative, and as she fell, by the way, she is a Sahaba.
Again, I wish we knew more about her, but she's a very interesting story. She was a teacher amongst the Sahaba yet, and she would teach the Sahaba yet how to read and write.
You've all heard of the story that Omar appointed a lady to monitor the socks. Right? Right. That story is, in all likelihood, not true. But the name that is mentioned is Shiva. Is that lady here? Okay. The story is not really a it's a report in a very later book, and there's no it's not and what not, doesn't make any sense. But anyway, you've all heard it, because we obviously have to have equal rights in everything. So we mentioned the stove Shiva, but Shiva was the one who would be the teacher, for the ladies, what would she teach them reading and writing, she would teach them how to read and write. And the Prophet system commanded Shiva to teach English and others how to read or
write and have saw had also learned how to read and write from chifa. So she was a wild Lima, and she would teach the ladies how to read and write, and she would also heal and perform Rukia. And she would cure so she was basically any, you know, a lady who was very active amongst the ladies of the community. And once the processing came and found chifa with hafsa. And so this happened after the incident of tedium and whatnot. And so he joked, with half saw a very, it's a joke that
when you have to explain the joke it sees as being a joke. So this is one of those that you have to explain it in so much detail that it's not funny at all. But it is funny if you understood the context. It's a very
it's only a joke that a couple can do to each other, where you put the other one down, but in reality, you're teasing. That's the type of joke that's happening, right? So he comes in and he sees Shiva. Shiva is the more I limit the teacher, she teaches writing, and she teaches Rokia. Okay, now, and again to explain this joke. It destroys all the humor in it, but hopefully go back home and think about it at night and then maybe in a shell, you get a smile, okay. He sees this teacher and he sees hafsa and the teacher has taught him how to read and write. The teacher is also known to teach Rokia. Okay, so I set up the joke Part A, Part B. Now, there's one other thing I need to do
before I said the joke for you and that is, there was something that was called the rokeya of the ant, the rokeya of the ant lupia. First of all, what is the omo Rukia is Rokia is to recite the Quran and something to cure. Right. And there are people that are are artists. They are they are people who are known to heal and they they're the Rokia is more effective than nuclear other people. This is in our time to even to this day. There are people who are Rocky's shifa was a rock, Leah. She was known for this, okay. Now there's something called utopia of the and rokeya to Nirmala. What is the role of the aunt, the Rookie of the aunt is not a rookie at all. It is a advice that would be
given to the bride before she got married. So before the lady got married, the woman would teach her the facts of life you get the point and other things of this nature. And they would teach her something
that because they whispered it,
they called it the rock of the end. Okay, so this isn't Rukia like Rokia but they called it Rokia. And of that Rokia is that and it rhymes beautifully in Arabic, but of course in English is completely destroyed is a powerful rap type of thing. You know, it's like the rhythm that they have over there. So the bride should get ready the bride should put on henna the brush up on the bride should do everything with eagerness you get the point over there, except she should never disobey her man.
Okay, so this is one of the phrases of utopia of the at rocchetta number. Now with this detail setup, now you see where this is heading. Now you understand the joke, okay? And again, this is one of those detailed things if you don't understand each and every item, you know, even the average out of one he recently didn't go over his head, what is this thing and wouldn't understand it. So the process mc chifa. And he smiles and he says, Oh Shiva, like you taught her how to read and write. Why don't you teach her that will pay over the number as well. In the context of what happened? What is he saying? She's not a bride. She doesn't need the Rokia to anomala. But what happened? She
disobeyed. Right? So he is basically
teasing hafsa that, you know, if you if she had only followed your advice or the advice of the rookie to nambla, then she wouldn't be in the situation we are in here. So it's a very detailed joke to be set up. But anyway, I hope that I set it up for you to follow. But the point is that how slow or how are you should teach my wife to obey her husband. And we wouldn't have had all of these issues. So how subtle the law one has she
a number of other dimensional mentioned here, but there's nothing major that happened after this. And after the death of the prophet SAW sent him she stayed in her house, and during the Wars of the fitna.
I should try to convince her to come with her. And she was close to coming because I shown her were very good friends. But it was her brother Abdullah had been Omar, who intervened. And her brother strongly suggested slash commanded that she stay at home. And so she did not participate in the wars. And she thanked a lot for that. And one of the biggest blessings that health saw was given after the death of the prophet SAW a settlement for it, she shall forever go down in history was that she was entrusted with the first most have ever written. This is one of the biggest blessings of hafsa that when a worker of the law one compiled the first most have ever, as you know, he was
the one who compiled it. So he was the one who had it in his house. When he died, Omar took it to his house. And when Omar was stabbed and about to die, so he didn't know who would be the next Khalifa. So he entrusted that must have to have saw. And so it went to the house of the prophets of the law while he was setting them. And for whatever reason earthman and others did not ask for it to be moved to their house. And they kept it in the Amana of house. So much so that one Ruth man wanted to make extra copies. And he brought the scribes to write the Quran all over again from the copy of Abu Bakar. He requested a loan from hafsa. And he told her I will give it back to you. So in the
time of Earth man, the most half was brought to the masjid. And it was any, you know, six or seven copies were made. And then it was sent back to the house of health saw, and it was in the house of house saw until the death of house. And this is the biggest one of the biggest blessings that she had, after the death of the Prophet sallallahu. I sent him that she was the one who was entrusted with the care and protection of the first on ever written. And perhaps one of the reasons could be as well but she was learned and educated she could read and write, unlike many of the other women of the time and Allah knows best why her 90 Omar never sorry earthman never asked to back permanently.
And it remained in the house of hafsa until after her death when mode one the was the governor and then he basically for his own reasons, he decided to get rid of that copy. And that's another story altogether. But this happened after the death of half saw the law who died on her house that died in the year 45. After the hero during the reign of Mao. We're at the age of 60.
And marijuana vanille haccombe, who is the governor of Medina, he's eventually going to become the halifa. He is the one who led the janaza abohar era was the one who was at the front of the janaza walking into Battier and Abdullah bin Omar, her brother was the one who entered the grave along with his siblings and children the family of Omar and they were the ones who buried hafsa in Brooklyn where she is to this day and have settled the low line has she narrated around 60, a hadith from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam three of them are more technically six of them are only in Sahih Muslim, and the rest of them are found in the various books. And so as I will typically do when the
number of ahaadeeth are small, without a shot, I couldn't do anything. I have five volumes. What is the point like what am I even starting as one of the most right so I didn't even do one? Because how do you even choose? But what helps at least we can do some so this is volume 44 of the Muslim Imam why 44
because the women are at the end, all of the women appear at the end, right? So after the men are done, then the last few volumes is the women. And so volume 44 is where have settled the law one comes there are 45 actual volumes of Hadith. And like five volumes of indices, indexes, right so it's 50 volumes, and total five of which are indexes 45 of actual Hadees. So the second to last is where hafsa rhodiola Juana occurs, and we don't have time to go over all 64 but I'm going to choose maybe 10 or so just to get an idea. No this is my mom was Muslim. I always do mama has Muslim because it has the arrangement according
To the Sahabi. So it's easier for us to do all of the Sahaba that's why it's called a Muslim. They said this multiple times Muslim means is arranged according to the isnaad of the Sahaba Buhari is arranged according to topic, these are not topical these are all the hadith of hausa in one chapter so
most helps us Hadith are narrated from Abdullah bin Omar as well. But there are others of the tab your own who studied from behind a curtain. So this hadith from even Omar that hafsa narrated to me that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would always pray two rakaat after the event had been called a ledger, and he would make these sort of cards quick to short record. So these are the two Sooners ledger hafsa would see them and narrated that every single day he would pray to the gods after the event and make it very short to before and before going to the messages who would pray at his house and then go to the masjid
just FYI for those of you that pray fudger that's you also see me when I come in some of you asked why don't I pray to hear that I'm following this sooner. So I come in and I lead the Salah, because the process would pray in his house and then he would come I pray the tusen is some of you wondering I don't pray in front of here because this is for the one who's leading for the one who's not then obviously you have to wait for the for the soldier over here. So how subtle the last one I narrated that I asked the Prophet sallallahu I knew who was sending them that Yasuda law Why did the rest of the people make a hell yeah. And you go out of your home and you did not make a lot after your
ombre. So he said I was the one who puts the colada on my head it means I'm the one who wrapped the basically I consecrated my animals. And I put the oil of on my hair before the crown which is what they would do when they were going into prom. So I will not exit it head on until the hedge is over meaning until all of the rights are over. I already mentioned this issue as well. Even Omar nary to that one day I saw even a Sajjad even Assad was somebody we mentioned him when he talked about the job, there was a fear that he might beat the job. I saw urbanists a yard and one of the alleyways of Medina. And I began to basically speak to him harshly, and I blocked his way until finally some
animal shelter or something fighting broke out between the two of us. And I broke his staff. And he got angry at me then I was told half so what happened have said to me, what is your problem with him? Why are you making him angry? Don't you know what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that the jar will only come out after somebody makes him angry
that the jar will come out when somebody angers and irritates him, meaning Why are you messing with this person? If he's the judge, you might expedite it. Why are you always gonna, you know interested in this person, let him be so have sort of the law one who teaches us that something's going to happen to the judge, and that the judge based on some altercation based on some anger that's going to happen that's when the judge will become the jam that's when he will appear from the the judge
house narrated that I never saw the Prophet sallallahu wasallam pray sitting down during the hudhud except for the year or two before he passed away. And during that time, he would pray sitting down and he would recite the sutra in a very slow manner, until it was the longest that I had ever seen. So we learned from this that generally speaking the Prophet system prayed to had good standing up.
But in the end of his life, when he became old and standing becomes difficult, then he would pray 200 sitting down and when he prayed sitting down he made up for it by making it longer than when he would when he was standing up. Okay. So this is a very interesting, personal anecdote from hofsas eyes which he has seen who else is going to tell us this the year before he died. This happened hafsa narrated that I heard the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say
that an army is going to aim for this house the Kaaba in a reservoir until when they reach beta. Beta is the valley outside of Makkah, you still when you're coming from one area, I want to say it's the Northwest when you're coming from you will see the word beta over there. So the earth will be opened up and they will be swallowed from their middle and the first of them will come back to see what has happened and they too will be swallowed and no one will be saved except a small amount, who will then tell the others of what had happened. The whole army will basically
disappear. And this is the famous incident. That will happen after the malady reaches Makkah, and armies will be sent to fight against the melody. And the melody will not have an army to protect himself against those armies. And so a lot xojo will intervene and protect the melody by swallowing up the earth. Sorry, but causing the earth to swallow up the armies that are attacking the mighty. And when that happens, this is going to be the sign that this person is the Matty.
Okay. Now in 1979, some ultra fanatic crazed lunatic and honestly he is a lunatic. I know some of the brothers get exaggerating to say this, but I know his stories. And I know his friends and I know his students and I have heard enough from him. He was a deranged man, a psychotic person. He attempted to execute this hadith.
And he held the caribou hostage. I went over the story in detail. What was his goal? this hadith?
He thought that he was the MADI.
He thought he was the MADI. And he thought that when the armies are going to come, he only had 150 200 men. How did he think he would fight against the armies of the royal family? How did he think so? He thought Allah will help me and the earth will swallow them up.
You do not play a Hollywood script out of the ahaadeeth when it happens, it happens. You are not a director. You are not the one who will expedite Alice butter. This is lunacy This is craziness you don't do this. But the man thought her losses their hair loss I'll be the Maddy and Allah will protect me. And what happened happened and you know, the cowboy is held hostage as you know for two weeks and I went over the story in detail and it is also online. But this is the idea that he stood up and I believe is going to happen. But when it happens the person it will happen to will not even know what's him. The man he will not even know his the malady. Until this happens is a righteous man
is a good man. And the authorities are gonna hate him despise him, they're gonna think as a troublemaker, he's gonna flee for his own protection, and he's gonna flee to the guy but thinking that the cabinet is gonna put you know, I mean, it's just the cabinet like that had the head on right, he's gonna go for there. And the evil rulers are going to send people to kill them and that he's not going to be called them at the at this time, whatever his name is going to be Mohammed they're, they're going to call him and this will happen, and they won't recognize until it actually happens.
helps a narrated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it is not allowed for any lady who believes in Allah and the Last Day that she observes it for the dead for more than three days, except for her husband, for the husband, then she remains for four months and 10 days. This is a famous Heidi, that for the expressing sorrow and grief, it should not be done for more than three days. And what this means and I've explained this in my other lectures as well, what this means is that, you know, when a loved one dies, any loved one, for a period of time you interrupt your life, understandably, you know, you're just you don't go to work, you feel sorrow, you know, you just
can't live normally you're just grieve. And Allah has in his mercy allowed for three days. Let your life be interrupted if need be, is not wired up to go foot three, but for three days, okay? But on the third day, you have to force yourself collect yourself. When the three days are up, you can't continue living in this sorrow, you have to get back you have the living go on living, when our when we die, we die with the living have to go on living, you can't just live in sorrow that the person has died. So after the third day, you know, get your act together as the saying goes, the one instance where not only are you allowed but out of respect you actually show a type of sorrow and
the meaning here is that you will not be celebratory, you're not going to wear fancy clothes, you're not going to do anything that is, you know, anything that is not befitting is the wife for four months and 10 days. She observes that period, as we all know, of Islamic
hafsa narrated that.
When the Prophet salallahu idea he was selling went to sleep at night, he would lie on his right side, and he would put his palm on his
cheek. And he would then say, rub the penny either chiamata battery back three times. And he would always use his right hand for eating and for drinking and for purifying and for wearing his clothes and forgiving and for taking and he would use his left for everything other than this and he would fast three days of everything.
month. So it's a beautiful hadith of hafsa. She's remembering some things of the prophets I send them is the antidote that you get from the wives from our mothers that nobody else is going to say.
hafsa narrated that.
One day the Prophet system was in my house, and his soap had gone in between his thighs. So he's wearing like the bottom garment, and the soap had gone in between so the shin and perhaps more than the shin, like maybe the upper knee, the lower knee is exposed, we don't know exactly. And there's the famous story aboubaker came in, and he was as he was an aroma came in, he was as he was, it came in he was as he was, other Sahaba came in, he was as he was, one earthman came in, he took his job and spread it out, over his feet. And then he spoke to earthman then all of them left, I said, O Messenger of Allah aboubaker came and Roma came in it came and all the other Sahaba came and you
were in your state, when I saw with man come, you opened up your throat for him, you spread your throat for him. So he said as the he movement is the human harmonica, the famous Hadith. So this is how saw is the one who is reporting that famous Hadith. How so narrated that applauded even a hijab came with a one of the chieftains of niche with a film made out of silk, and kisara had gifted him that so. So it was a very, very fine garment, the Persian ruler, had gifted kisara had gifted one of the the chieftain leaders with this very fine garment. So Omar said or messenger of Allah, what if I buy it for you? Can I gift you this, I want to buy it for you, but it was made out of silk. So he
the profitsystem said, the only people who wear this are those who have no share of the hereafter. So hafsa is narrating what her father did and saying one more one to two gift to the Prophet salallahu it who was sending him the final Hadith that will do and it is also the final Hadith in the Muslim ummah. Muhammad I didn't read all of them I skipped over more than half the final head that we're going to do that
half saw was asked about the Prophet sallallahu wasallam his recitation, she said, You are not able to do that. She was said no, but tell us anyway. So she said he would recite in a very slow manner.
They are attend terrace Salat fee ha he would recite in a slow manner. They said
demonstrated for us. So she recited. So a woman's voice is not our she recited to the men, obviously behind the curtain Alhamdulillah here or below the mean, then she stopped or Rahmani Raheem, then she stopped molecule Medina and she stopped meaning. And he obviously should have added in to our, but she's trying to show that he would recite in a slow delta t voice, not the fast zooming that you guys do. That's why she said you wouldn't be able to do it, he would recite
Torah see that in a very slow, gentle manner. And she demonstrated this by stopping after every verse. So these are some of the hadith of have settled the Allahu anhu. And with this, we come to the conclusion of houses biography in our series. Any quick questions about Hassan? Yes, Mr. Miller, this incident which happened in
Not at all. That's a very advanced question. I don't want to go into the details. To answer your question know, that version of events is not found in our traditions at all. It is found in
a trend other than suddenly trend
will lie that's a question that I'm not qualified to answer. Is it a mainstream narrative? You have to realize early Islam it's as if there are two versions of history, one in the Sunni books one in the non Sunni books and these two versions sometimes they match up but a lot of times they don't match up so that's what he's asking about that particular thing and you just have to take a you know, we are coming from one tradition whether that is mainstream I do not know it is definitely there is definitely found whether it's mainstream I'm not sure okay. is gorgeous.
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or the follow the law hula come to hate letter a monocle. Allah
has made it obligatory on you, that you break your person.
So Allah commanded him to break the custom see when we make a person
you are. So this is another common myth, especially for some reason I think it's in our DC culture more than out of culture, correct me or our brother and but most out of us know that a custom you can make 200 of it right? It's known in the culture, right? For some reason in our culture, the this culture, it's as if the custom is like binding and you can never get out of it. And I don't know why that is the case because filter doesn't teach that even 100 people it does not teach there as far as I know, because the Oran is explicit cafardo to a monochromator head off to our professor Some said Whoever makes a head F with a law and then he sees another thing better than his Hanif
let him make a photo and then do what is better. So the cafaro has to be given right feeding 10 people clothing 10 people freeing a slave it has to be done. And that is the cafaro that you do but you are allowed to break the cafaro if there is something better we we already given example that I should not be alone when I made a photo about her nephew and she then made it up and others of this nature like if anybody makes a photo or promises that if any makes them a cup of coffee I thought I am breaking our ties of kinship get rid of the co founder don't mean meaning me and not get rid of the awesome sorry get rid of the person. So Assam should not be done in disobedience to Allah
subhana wa Tada. And that for sure you need to break the lesson. If Assam is done in something mobile, mobile and you see that you know what I made a mistake, I shouldn't have made that custom then you're allowed to break it. In this case the custom was made. In our case there will be mobile, okay. But in this case, one can say Allah subhana wa tada is giving the prophets or some something. So it takes on a different status. Okay, in our case it is mobile. But in the case of the Prophet system, any Allah is saying, This is my Yani color for you my gift for you. You have no right to then give it up. So this is Allah telling the process of directly Okay. Yes, sister in the back is
it been abass says headers and body.
But even abus said that I waited for an entire year
to ask cromar your question, the exact your question. And that is, which are the two that are mentioned as sort of the heading into tuba it a lot. Even Abbas said, I waited for a whole year to see what I could ask or what have no hottub which were those two. And that opportunity presented itself when we were going for Hajj. And I then took his water to do we'll do he want to do we'll do he came back and I started pouring water for him to do will do and there was no one other than the two of us. So I said oh ameerul momineen who were the two ladies that Allah says in the Quran into tuba it Allahu Allah Akuma so Omar says, oh, son Don't you know
it was half saw his own daughter and Asia hafsa and Asia. The head it is in body. Okay, so Omar, the last one was asked your exact question with your exact wording who were the two ladies? your curiosity is the curiosity of a been a boss. Mashallah, okay. Yes, I hope it's a question I can answer.
Why was I asked to repent.
It appears that there was some conspiring that they were trying to do to get Mario out of the picture.
And so this was
a success from the both of their teams, even if hafsa took the credit, but they were attempting multiple times to get my idea out. And Allah azza wa jal chastised them that this is not what you should be doing. And by the way, the ending of the heading is also very relevant here. What is the ending of
vulnerable lahoma felon? It's the example of the righteous wives and the unrighteous wives
or the righteous women and the unrighteous woman. The end there. So this is like a very stark, you know, story for the for the for the whole incident as well.
Gannett at the end
For Han at home,
this is a key point here right? That they betrayed the trust of their husbands. Find a mutiny. Allahu shader. Well, he did. Hold on man. Oh my god, okay, this is the wife of
no hand the wife of loot. So Allah is giving the example. What was the piano that they did they disobeyed their husbands. The piano is not out of nothing like that. That never happens with the wives of any prophet. The piano is they disobeyed the trust of their husband when it comes to the Salah. Not when it comes to the conjugal relationship. So Allah as you're saying dorabella homothetic and then de la mata delidding, Armin. Variety around is Rob divinity and the cabeza agenda shall
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